Are there enough qualified black men for black women?

[@antgotguap6951]

Why does every black woman need a ceo tho? There are millions of financially stable bm out here 🤦🏾

[@chosenone9102]

No damn employee WHO TF WORKING THE BUISNESS THE CEO "The shit they say sometimes "

[@honeybee9393]

Where are they 🤔

[@ed209d2]

Why do so many BW need other races of women's hair???

[@thisblackmansperspective4453]

@@honeybee9393 every where stop the cap

[@honeybee9393]

@@thisblackmansperspective4453 are you one? 🤔

[@toricollins6516]

Notice she mentioned a "CEO", not even a man that's a lawyer or an engineer. Funny thing is, there are good amounts of BM that earn higher than $90k, but are blue collar & don't have a college education. We keep using finances to justify dating out, when in reality regardless of education status, 3/4 of BW have children...so rather than build with the $60k-$90k blue collar guy that's childless, you become a babymama to a loser...THEN expect a nom-BM to date you? Huh? Even if you're childless with a degree, 80% of BW are fat/obese, so encouraging BW to date out should include them being physically fit enough to attract a non-Black HENRY. The men you want need to also want you, that's the reality. You can't enter a relationship with a man that doesn't find you attractive or datable.

[@raybandz1109]

Sister Ali said it the best, “the black Woman have made everything about money in our relationship” so as a young black man who has no kids why would i want to date a black woman. Now and days it’s no teamwork, you want me to come with EVERYTHING! And you come with lil to nothing smh… you want my results, but you don’t want to be apart of my process”

[@TeWandaJoven]

@@raybandz1109 You must be blind no woman on this earth EXCEPT black women in America date for love, possibilities and promise. Every other culture and race are trained to expect provision from men. We are absolutely taught hypergamy. If you believe you can go to any woman empty-handed (other than black American women) you are in for a rude awakening.

[@raybandz1109]

@@TeWandaJoven bitch I’m married

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

@@raybandz1109 truth

[@jaeakathaprofit7497]

@@raybandz1109 fax the woman don't want to be with you when you building she only want to be with you when you already built it she just want to reap the benefits of it then a lot of women wonder why they don't get respect from men because we already know y'all mentality so we treat women accordingly

[@stacytrowell6890]

I'm a black woman married 25yrs with a HVBM and he ain't no damn CEO!!! These chick's will ALWAYS be single based on their crazy expectations!!!🤣😎

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

Facts! And congratulations sis. Keep black love alive.

[@rochieking9084]

💯💯💯

[@rockfresh5359]

And BM can't get basic 💩💩 like a childless black woman that makes bw m😢ad asf asking for that

[@blackandplain]

Thank you!!!!

[@Angelicmeasures]

Thank you💯

[@Samara077]

The issue is that we’re so focused on high earners ; we’re not looking for character anymore that’s the issue !!

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

Facts!

[@aarongray1981]

Preach

[@MelanatednNature]

Bingo

[@preciousdionna265]

No we’ve been brow beaten into choosing better now nobody likes the new choices

[@DHigable]

And let the church say...

[@m.anthonybrown3309]

How many black female CEO'S r out there 🤔 few and far between, but I digress. She thinks its all about money and status, couldn't be more wrong and out of touch.

[@itsgreat7150]

She's just lying....this is the reason why black women are last on the dating list because they can't keep their mouth shut and they're constantly lying about their position in life.

[@foundationalblackamerican1682]

BW don’t respect BM bruh. Save yourself king. Before it’s too late.

[@JPaul318]

PREEEACH

[@thelightworker01]

Delusional really

[@peacebeuntoyou345]

It’s the men that provides not the woman. A woman shouldn’t have to be a CEO to get a man . That’s the Man’s job.

[@yoshikay8787]

A simpler life is a happier life. We weren’t created to match careers. We created separate as a necessity to each other.

[@lawrencebolt3540]

It's wild the way black women in America think. One of the most successful communities in the UK is the Indian community. They dominate in many high earning positions. They didn't get there with this mindset of HENRY men. They got there by building communities in households. In the UK you may find 3 separate families under one roof(6 earners), splitting the rent. Non of them earn more than 29k in that household. They all individually save 300£ per month and put that money into a pot as a deposit to buy a house. Once the house is bought under one of their names, 5 of them co-sign. With that new house they have the option of either one of the families moving in, or they bring family members from India to live there. Each new family member works a low paying job and splits the rent. They rinse and repeat the cycle. It's not even difficult, it's just common sense.

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

That’s exactly how it was when my family came to the states. Pay off one house together and buy another collectively. Everyone in the family has a mission. We have a lot in the medical field. We have someone on Wall Street. There are some working for MTA. When I go to NYC, I can get a free MTA card. We have a few in the airports. I was in the Army so I have military access and bank accounts. We’re all linked to each other’s accounts but only to give money. If my dad needs money, we can all send him some to help him out and it goes through immediately. If my brother needs money, we can do the same and so forth. It’s the same with my cousins. I linked my husband’s family in since my husband was also in the Army but under my husband’s account. I even have friends linked in. I could go on and on and on. I gave my brother part of his down payment for his house, he didn’t use all of it so he sent what he didn’t need back to me. Building as a family unit is better because everyone can eventually get their own in the long run. My son wants a house. I do his finances so he’s not ready but whenever he is, I’m going to be doing the decorations.

[@lawrencebolt3540]

@@arleneaugustahair8393 thank you for this post! Very informative and important for many in the black community to see. All this high value six figure man nonsense is so silly. Everything's far easier when groups work together and the happiness levels knowing you're a collective working to support each other, is a great feeling, much better than being a solitary richman.

[@skinnytimmy1]

Ask these women what they need a man making so much for? What you gonna spend the money on? "My Lifestyle 💅 ".

[@Boxxcutter]

A CEO probably doesn't want a serious relationship with someone looking for a CEO as the only criteria.

[@niknik1002]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@fatcheeseburger100]

Exactly…

[@beastamongbeasts9337]

why is that so normal for them to say that. How many CEOs does the average person meet in a lifetime.

[@kevinc3342]

@@beastamongbeasts9337 I've only met a few real-life CEOS and that was just in passing. These women are NOT getting to CEOs. What in blue blazes are they thinking?!

[@truettadevil]

CEOs want to be a power couple.

[@mclohan]

You can tell why it’s tough for her after listening to her first few statements. She clearly said she doesn’t want a man, she wants a way of life. A “high earner or CEO”… A wise man would steer clear of this kind of woman.

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

Yep!

[@matthewprince9705]

She wants a sugar daddy...

[@love8886]

Don't worry those "other" women will take all those good hardworking smart black men and keep them from dealing with bw who think like her🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@RonnieMyers777]

Yes sirrrrrr

[@TheOne-sw8hn]

Cause white men love black women....yall don't have a choice really lol

[@maineiac8106]

Why haven’t they then?

[@love8886]

@@maineiac8106 it's always harder when genuine love is involved. Bm genuinely love bw. We just don't get it in return. Check the numbers. How are bm married to bw at 86% but 75% of bw aren't married?? News flash. It ain't the men.

[@maineiac8106]

@@love8886 Your using that stat in the wrong way. Less than 40% of black men are married same as black women however when black men do marry they are 80% more likely marry black women same as black women. Black men are most likely to divorce both Inside and outside of their race and leave other races as single mothers. Black women are most likely to divorce inside of their race and less likely outside. You cannot flip stats to fit your narrative.

[@VAtoJersey4Now]

There is a lot of ground between finding a CEO and being single. I think I am average looking and I am 57 years old and I have found a nice black man. I have also been married. My friend is financially stable, with a place and car and he loves to travel the world. He is not a CEO. He is a hard working, honorable man.

[@mrmarcus8772]

That’s beautiful but now there going to call you a pick me

[@bodyworkandptbykraig7609]

Exactly. As if WW and ALL women wouldn't struggle to find a HVM much less a successful high earning CEO. It's laughable

[@xLeo-ee4gc]

Wait a minute your happy that impossible, that woman speaking is not stop the presses.

[@mariemorland9433]

Okurrrrrrr🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you go girl same here. They are fool of themselves.

[@jamessmith-zk4co]

That's awesome! I wish you the best.

[@kbreeze2429]

Married 20 years and we have built a wonderful life together! You know, like the good ol days

[@my1rule]

Facts, for us it's been 22 years of marriage as a black man I met my black wife when I was in community college. I'm currently the CFO for an extremely large municipality. My wife is now in Management for one of the major auto manufactures. We have 5 kids (no outside kids) and have built a beautiful life together.

[@byronmartin1840]

Lady how many CEO's of any race on men do you think their are? When has the majority of men of any race at any time period been high earners? That doesn't mean there isn't room for improvement but society has never worked that way. Even if you get the CEO what do you offer where he chooses you and ONLY you? To many women these days think they deserve something because they've learned how to do makeup, can get sex from men just by looking at their phone and because they threw someone else's hair on their head.

[@xLeo-ee4gc]

Every business is a pyramid, meaning there can only be one,at the top .I would say 8-10 are married. You could probably be the weekend workout.oh those are some slim picking babe.

[@LowManWins80]

The reality is, that there are not enough wives in the black community for the black men who say they want to be married

[@diadreamsinaction6182]

Drop MIC

[@bigwill9421]

💯🎯📌

[@urbancommute5239]

Yep, and what little there is are already taken. Smh

[@dalepugh8945]

Drop the Mic on the 🎯 💯

[@essenceofauset7272]

There isn’t enough of anything in the black community bc in order to have a surplus you have to actually contribute. Black men don’t value their children community or themselves. Every decade there is a new excuse as to why the black community/family is still in shambles.

[@abasi333]

Remember the times where humans could check themselves and say I need to stfu and improve myself

[@byronjohnsontales82]

Thank you

[@B-io3kj]

Tell that to every blk women in the world

[@ct4470]

Get out there is code for be a 304

[@deamorebeaute2412]

Black men get out there and date women from other racial categories more than black women. According to your logic, that would make divesting black men 304s.

[@benjohnson8231]

@@deamorebeaute2412 men can't be 304s they are 304 makers

[@ektasharma3520]

@@benjohnson8231 by objectivity, 304 is a 304 because of body count.

[@ct4470]

@@deamorebeaute2412 lollll... For one thats a lie. Also if it we're true calling a male a 304 for dating is not that much of an insult you just want to make believe it is.

[@tosha6045]

@@benjohnson8231 that's not better that they make 304 's doesn't that mean he still apart of the problem?wow!

[@Button215]

Oh boy... Thankfully she doesn't speak for all black women. Relationships are transactional. "Show me your tax return first! I need to see your portfolio." Yeah, you're in a state - a state of confusion

[@gentlemensleague5054]

There’s plenty of Black men who make decent money. Black women just think they’re beneath them.

[@josiahbutler2254]

no its not cus a lot of us are incarcerated, and then you gotta count the ones that live with their parents too, they dont have manu options bro

[@DaxL_net]

It's all about getting money that someone else worked for then after few year they take half of assets and enslave that man for next 2 decades. Why not marry your friend you can work with and make money.

[@jasminepearls1047]

Men are providers but no women arent marrying to purposely divorce men screw up many of their marriages cheating. Yes some women are just golddiggers but you can want love and money.

[@fuckmondays2300]

Yup

[@sparklesp9304]

How is that what's best for her? Especially when, in our community, these men notoriously leave her high and dry for the women they really want when they make it. She could be with the man who really wants to he with her from the jump which is evidenced by him choosing to be with her when he has other options.

[@MS-ym1nt]

They don't even ask what your profession is. They determine your job by your car. They are actually turning down black male CEOs because they don't drive a Bentley to the first date. The problem isn't that we aren't good enough, it's that they don't know what's good anymore.

[@ramses-vici]

I’m a black male trial attorney who makes an absurd amount of money, and is worth even more. I show up for first and second dates in a beat-up pickup I inherited from my father. It’s a fantastic gold-digger screening device. 🛻😂

[@dkim9022]

​@@ramses-vicithanks for the game brotha

[@PryncessHotep77711]

No other "race" can tolerate our fire. In my opinion. If you can tone it down for Mr. Other, you can tone it down for the Black Man.

[@rastahill748]

You got a brain. Lord idk whats wrong with BW..

[@dsmoove3482]

We can’t even tolerate it that’s y most black men date outside race

[@darrellgainer6966]

She said CEO’s as if there are a lot of them in first place. Their are bunch of wealthy black men or stable men who are not CEO’s🤦🏾‍♂️. A bunch of blue collar workers make money but bw don’t want them. So the idea of dating out of necessity is cap. This shit is sad when our own women don’t think we can provide for them and I still love them to death shit sad.

[@thezu9250]

She literally said ET CETERA. Do yall not know what that means?

[@darrellgainer6966]

@@thezu9250 who’s y’all. And your point still doesn’t change the fact that she thinks dating out of her race is a necessity and not just her preference. And et cetera would meaning similar things pertaining to a ceo like position. Meaning jobs with a high status and influence to a certain degree . I’m just calling it out it is what it is, she likes white men just say that ain’t nothing wrong wit it.

[@thezu9250]

@@darrellgainer6966 Not sure why youre arguing with literal data though. Black men are underrepresented in good paying jobs. So it is harder to find someone like that compared to a white or Asian woman trying to do the same thing. Even if every single Black man was awesome, there is a gender imbalance.

[@darrellgainer6966]

@@thezu9250 sure, but this could be said about Latinos too. But I don’t hear their woman saying that they date out due to necessity. I guess I’m wrong tho, it’s just sucks to hear that our woman date out of necessity.

[@thezu9250]

@@darrellgainer6966 Uh because there are most hispanic men per hispanic women? So the exact opposite situation. Then you factor in Black male incarceration, men who are married, etc. That cuts the dating pool down even more when there already is a gender imbalance.

[@Screech032]

At this point it's obvious a lot of BW don't want a "man" they want a "lifestyle". If your dating options are based on a man's income, you probably don't have good spending habits and as a BW are probably heavily in debt. Both are liabilities for any man earning a decent salary much less a 1% earner. Adopt a minimalistic mindset while increasing your financial literacy or times will only become harder for you as you age.

[@niknik1002]

I totally agree with you...if I was a man I damn sure don't want a woman who only sees value in my income..smh

[@truettadevil]

Yeah, they want a lifestyle outside of the hood. And, Black men can't give them that.

[@Screech032]

@@truettadevil They can't even give themselves that. Listen to yourself... oxymoron.

[@truettadevil]

@@Screech032 They can't give themselves that because we live in a racist and sexist society, where Black people are paid less than whites and women are paid less than men, so Black women are paid the least out of every demographic. Black men couldn't even keep the hood from being gentrified.

[@Raina1of1]

I mean i understand that but at the same time other groups of men aint talking about going no damn 50/50 either. A woman wants a provider. From my past experience i have always been the bread winner in every relationship i had, would help the man out, help him with bills, he asked for money i would give it to him and he still broke up with me. Black women are tired of settling. And to think about it black men always call black women so masculine but if a woman is the bread winner shes gonna be more masculine because shes not able to be feminine. Black women just need to find man that's gonna provide whether he is black white Mexican Asian

[@am6921]

I'm white and would love to have an African American queen. Love has no color

[@jatorianwinfree5350]

Good luck buddy better be masculine they gone run over you

[@DafuckyallLookingAt]

Go for it bro

[@itsmetee89]

I'm here for it! I'd date you lol!!

[@Vennturaavision]

Take ‘em all! Please!

[@chucky3285]

​@@Something-From-Nothingness1i second that no sense of pride whatsoever

[@m.trobinson4720]

I don’t trust anyone that look like they about to go on stage

[@margaretwince2748]

Woman can actually cover their bodies and be classy and sexy. (Guess I am old school).

[@J03LM1]

I don't know why I laughed so hard at this lol

[@blackiest]

Low self-esteem will have women wanting things they don't need. Money doesn't make people happy, but some how many women don't have the intelligence to figure it out.

[@everythingispolitics6526]

Word.

[@lavidaloca2344]

Ummm, but you need money to eat, to live, to survive. I never understand why BP always try to avoid having a realistic conversation about money.

[@blackiest]

@@lavidaloca2344 True. That's why you don't need a man making $120,000 just to eat. Or a mansion just to live in. Just get a working man and be happy. That's the point if you didn't understand.

[@indicajane4721]

Not having to worry about finances does make a woman happy because then she is protected and provided for. How can a man protect a woman if she’s still having to struggle with him? That’s not safe for her or her kids

[@indicajane4721]

@@lavidaloca2344 because most don’t spend with their kids futures in mind.

[@23andme77]

I agree with her. For a long time I didn't want to date out but then...I started to explore my options and it's pretty great over hear. I never been loved like this in my life.

[@ronaldtyson-jx6qm]

Stay over there

[@desdior1207]

@@ronaldtyson-jx6qmIt’s definitely a game changer over here😌 none of that toxic mess

[@laptoptrappers]

Stay over there plz

[@1kingbishop]

As long as blk w are taking care them selfes it dont matter how much a man makes. Most women who base a man on his wallet are narrow minded,amd unworthy of a man

[@xLeo-ee4gc]

And soon to be parted

[@ineedhoez]

But you want traditional women who are submissive. A traditional woman stays at home and takes care of the house and the children. She can't do that if she's got to work because you don't have any money

[@1kingbishop]

@@ineedhoez your implying we live together. We wouldnt live together. When a man lives with a woman and he makes $$$$$$ all her duties as an adult is taken away. This is one reason why i never want to live with a woman. I can be a farmer living off the land,i dont have to make 1m a yr for a woman to be a house wife

[@harrymuhammad9835]

And will tolerate a man getting money ILLEGALLY.

[@1kingbishop]

@@harrymuhammad9835 women will accept anything kind of man if they benefit from him even if he have 4 other women hes seeing. This one man one woman foolishness isnt real,its a form of pop control.

[@Respectedthoroughly]

“Not enough qualified black men” -a black woman who raised black men

[@kraiden3]

Probably because you need to MARRY a man to help raise a black son who women will want to marry🤷🏾‍♂️

[@duke302]

not true!

[@ms.evegene]

Right because black men don't raise their kids. They run and have excuses to why they can't

[@mr.bo1287]

Stop opening your legs

[@chillguydave925]

@@kraiden3lol

[@Jason-nosaJ]

Black woman can explore but you not going to colonize. The issues that Black Women and Black Men have with each other usually makes us less appetizing to other races. Especially in other cultures that still somewhat respect their men. And don't confuse getting laid with other races with interest, there was plenty of that happening on the plantation.

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

💯🎯💯🎯

[@Steve-cb8nw]

If they think a rich Chad going to put up with them got another thing coming 😂

[@DirtyJamesUK]

They don't realise how low the % is of white men that marry black women, let alone CEOs 😆 They don't understand because they're emotional rather than logical and they're extremely deluded lol.

[@skinnytimmy1]

Them white dudes be whooping they ass too

[@sparklesp9304]

Not really...there are definitely "Chad's" that want hardworking, educated women to raise their children, and black women are known to be the original ride or die's in America. Look at the guy who created Starwars...he married a woman who knew how to manage his money. He obviously wasn't a Chad, but he definitely valued intelligence, hardwork and class in a woman, and that's what he got.

[@Steve-cb8nw]

@@sparklesp9304 He didn't marry a Shaniqua we Shaniquas.

[@vyizzyme]

U got the them part right. Rich chad can have multiple broke no nos

[@blackurustrikes2328]

Please just go throw yourselves at those other men. Brothas will be fine. But for Christ Sake STOP blaming BM for doing what YOU want to do.

[@itsgreat7150]

Don't worry about what these black women are saying this is the reason why they're last on the dating list.

[@payraapayraa8540]

Yes like leave brothas alone do you date out we wish them the best we will be fine they’ll be another blk male president

[@apexrager88]

It's crazy how the last time I checked Black women were always chosen last but now all of a sudden, they are at the top of the food chain???

[@HEBREWBLESSINGS-wo6uj]

​@@itsgreat7150zero on the dating list

[@CalmAndCollected11]

“Black women right now are in a state where s#%t is f#%?ed up” Yea, cause y’all the ones that f#%?ed it up! Smh

[@mistol2130]

We didn’t throw black men in jails 😂

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​@@mistol2130No but you made regular know they bore you and you will never be interested.

[@djosserperrah9563]

Men always remember, choose the woman who chooses you. Don't chase after her if she don't respect you. You don't have to prove shit to anyone but yourself. There are plenty women of all races including our own who want you so don't fall for this or feel threatened or angry...we good out here.

[@in.edieudonnesworld3167]

No woman is going to choose you no matter what. Grow up and accepts life as it is. What do you want you? And who is the right fit for it. You can't want b with flouvor of a

[@mrredd8439]

LMAO...the least married, the most likely to be single parents and clearly the most delusional, want to give relationship advice.

[@mistol2130]

That’s why we date out ya leave your kids too much

[@mariogullette4795]

AS A BLACK MAN, IN AMERICA, I FEEL THAT BLACK WOMEN SHOULD DATE OUT INTERACIALLY TO ANY RACE OF MAN THEY DESIRE!😊

[@rastahill748]

Yeah im sick of em 😂 they annoying asf at this point lordd

[@PrettyIntelligent]

Sure you do 😂

[@malikgordon5230]

STOP SIMPING CLOWN 🤡

[@daynelcollins5208]

Men don’t worry about the community

[@Randi-n4s]

What community? Black people don’t have a community. Everyone else does….black people don’t….

[@DailyPositiveAffirmatives]

@@Randi-n4s Facts. The lies need to end. Internalized anti-blackness perpetuated generation after generation by both the men and women is the unacknowledged, ancient elephant in the room.

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

@@Randi-n4s I agree

[@troya.8094]

Community? Where 20% of the men make 80% the children. Groups of single women and kids isn’t a community.

[@itsgreat7150]

Black women have 72% out of wedlock birth rate. Highest in the nation by far. And the black women have the highest obesity rate in the country. (Male or female)

[@natalieac8409]

I think women period need to let go of the CEO theory. It's unrealistic and not needed. Most men don't even have managent positions so I think that kind of description is a little juvenile as a kind of man to date. Any guy making over 20 dollars an hour on a full time job is a more realist choice. A career man is better, technical and so on, it shows character and dedication. Women looking actively for CEO types watch too much soap opera 📺. 🙄 Besides most of those guys are looking for models actresses and gym instructors. So if these ladies' aren't that most probably won't be taken seriously. Most of those kinds of men are narcissistic anyway, too controlling.

[@BlackAmerican-et5zj]

Why do they try to hide being pseudo-prostitutes behind “standards?”🙄

[@UFO-WHEELBABY]

Now days all black women are selling themselves to the highest bidder.

[@UFO-WHEELBABY]

Now days all black women are selling themselves to the highest bidder.

[@AtlantisIsMyHome]

Because BW are tired of struggle love and it serves no purpose in the end

[@UFO-WHEELBABY]

@@AtlantisIsMyHome we will see if having no man is a good choice when martial law breaks out

[@AtlantisIsMyHome]

@@UFO-WHEELBABYYeah yeah yeah!!! Actually having no man is extremely peaceful rather being with a bum that’s weighing you down…

[@philly88ish]

It's not even about a man making money. It's about finding a man that genuinely loves you, cares about you, and listens to you. More of a connection. Some of these men are really playing games. You can have all the money in the world and still be an azz.

[@darrellwilliams1714]

Men are the way they are because alot of women these days have nothing to offer but their bodies. All they see men for is an atm. So all they have to offer is their bodies. They think that's enough.

[@4079907]

Then look at YOURSELF in the mirror. You ain’t perfect. Be the best version of yourself and continuously put forth the effort in doing EVERYTHING in your power to INCREASE THE CHANCES , of landing a good man.

[@dariusp422]

So you’d date a guy just to have em for an atm🤨

[@l.daniels]

Why would she want somebody that’s broke.

[@TheCruzan26]

This is what they do.

[@lm2082]

So we should want to date a guy who is broke so we can struggle, fu#k, and fight on repeat until he find someone else to do that with?

[@dariusp422]

@@lm2082 umm no.. I’m saying don’t let a man’s pocket be the only thing you like about a man let it be his priorities goals and his way he carried himself.

[@dariusp422]

@@l.daniels never said that..

[@ronaldmeyers1745]

Notice how she stresses his employment status vs everything else.

[@jesushateswood]

But that's important. For God's sake think of it on a real and practical level. A man and woman, both employed, decide to marry. Two incomes. After, say two/three years they decide to have a child. The woman is benched for at least 4 to 6 weeks after the child is born. And that's if there were no health complications. While the woman is nursing the child, the husband's income is hella important.

[@Gingy2002]

​@@jesushateswoodThank you, like it should be common sense

[@yoshikay8787]

So a “high earner” can smooth out an A$$ hole character, or loyalty, or selfishness and a bunch of other things. 🫤

[@raymundturner1140]

Took the words right out of my mouth.

[@tri3pleagent]

​@@jesushateswoodit's about lifestyle...has nothing to do with practicality. Practical people plan, save and live below their means.

[@redfaman]

I’m a “ high earner “and I’m definitely taking the time necessary for healing from my relationship with black women.

[@Asfghjahsgf]

What type of black women was she ? Also what did she look like

[@HEBREWBLESSINGS-wo6uj]

Let me see, half dog and half sewage plant.

[@elysiyah3364]

Doing the internal work is always necessary

[@merovingian688]

The average salary in America is $50,000/yr before taxes. She’ll put the average guy in the poor house. Meanwhile you have guys on KZbin talking about they don’t like independent women. What she’s talking about is marrying millionaires not any CEO.

[@TheBlackSheepReport]

She said "CEO's" like there are thousands of non-Black, unmarried CEO's looking to date down. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wallstreetbella24]

So adteing black woman is dateing down

[@TheBlackSheepReport]

@@wallstreetbella24 Yes. Dating down. Socio-economic suicide. It goes by a number of names.

[@robertwest4157]

​@@wallstreetbella24 yeah it is theres tons of races in the world none of them look at black people male or female very favorably. why? Because they got tv's and computers too and they see the bogus shit black people get up to and dont want to bring that into their family. not to mention people want kids and grandkids who look like them.

[@msliberated3899]

@@TheBlackSheepReport Lol there are many billionaires married to blk women Lol! I guess their suicidal

[@Therealwordx]

@@wallstreetbella24 yes it is especially her.

[@ML-1804]

Dodge this sista @ all costs! She’ll only bring stress & aggravation 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Prettynikki2picky]

Why? She said no lies and she was very respectful. You’re bitter and most likely broke 😂

[@jpcoleman3408]

She is leading a grp of blk females into a life of single motherhood, and a very lonely retirement age!

[@dlimaz1984]

Facts!! 💯 💯

[@dlimaz1984]

@@Prettynikki2picky & you're more than likely the broke black woman who sells her worth short in return for money. lol 😆🤣

[@destinymcgowan5328]

@@jpcoleman3408 How 🤔 Black men are the one's making single mothers and broken households. You guys glorify Nick Cannon for foolishness

[@lolalove1555]

Not every man needs to be a ceo or a doctor,surgeon etc. There a lot of good men out there that are not high earners, but are hard workers and family men.

[@wisdomandlove1661]

that is not what she and her friends want. they want a man earning at least $10,000 a day after tax

[@n.mitchell3313]

She sound crazy, TO ME. The necessity for me is not dating a white.man. As a black woman, I will never lose faith in my black kings. "What the white man did", does not dictate in my life whether I am single or not. However what the white man did stands as a reminder for me that they can never relate to me or my story. What the white man did is all the more reason to love and uplift my black kings. There are some really GOOD black men out here. I believe that. With so much bs going on in the world, like the rainbow agenda, reality tv, etc., these conversations are very important, especially for the black culture. I can still take care of myself and allow a RIGHTEOUS minded, like minded man with wholesome intentions lead his family/household. But we both have to do the work and pour into each other 100% on both ends.

[@merovingian688]

You have to be a CEO or a CFO to afford wigs, lashes, nails, makeup, implants, body augments, etc. We haven’t got to the mansion, cars, clothes etc.

[@laquishabenit7560]

Just like you have to be a basketball player to afford a white woman with that needs plastic surgery on her face, melanin on her skin and extensions in her hair as well

[@merovingian688]

@@laquishabenit7560 That’s why we stop getting married. Women are already married to the fashion industry. There’s a crazy woman on social media demanding $500 upfront before going out to dinner. Application fee.

[@poindextersheelturn436]

Most black men are married to black women but most black women have wigs, Next. @@laquishabenit7560

[@yaramercedes2931]

It’s all about the manifestation of who you want as a partner through life. What you think about, you bring about. If you think no good black men exist, then the ones that do won’t be any where you could possibly bump into them. Start telling yourself and believing that you constantly encounter great black men who have great stable qualities that can add to your life in love, friendships, business, spirituality, etc.

[@sarahjoe2457]

She didn't say no good bm exist. There just isnt a overwhelming amount. Bw out number bm. Plus the high incarceration rate, high unemployment, uneducated, the high mortality rate, and them dating out at a high rate ect. The reality is if a bw wants to get married she has to open her options.

[@tri3pleagent]

​@@sarahjoe2457...or close her legs.

[@ramses-vici]

@@sarahjoe2457 The harsh reality, though, is that most non-black men are unwilling to marry BW. And even fewer high-quality, high-earning non-black men are willing to marry BW. The few who do are statistical anomalies.

[@sarahjoe2457]

@ramses-vici The data shows that non-bm are more willing to marry bw than non-bw are willing to marry bm. Most people marry within their race, why would that be a harsh reality? That's common sense. Non-bm don't carry the same self-hatred and low self-esteem as bm.

[@Jt-kl1yy]

Manifest lmao

[@marquishunter7395]

51 percent of men are single and childless, what the hell is she complaining about. And what makes her think a high earner is going to be monogamous to her 🤔

[@nyfunderburk]

And what makes u think he won't. That high earner has options shit is bs. Doesn't mean he will exercise those options. Ur goal to be with a person in general is be with one with good morals. in my adult life, ive only dated men who made 100k+ and it wasn't intentional, that's just what I seem to attract/be attracted to. I've never doubted the Fidelity of my partner. Ever . But I'm also dating men with good morals

[@melk6049]

​@@nyfunderburk bc he is a good man that honors his promises...what does having money have to donw honor and respect...and poor men cheat too...sooooo there's that

[@RomeoRoadmap]

Plus you average earning men aren’t always loyal and you should be loyal and consistent faster than the wealthy man

[@MandemChris777]

Privilege is invisible to those that have it 🫡🤷🏾‍♂️

[@victoriaogunsanya9074]

@@RomeoRoadmap exactly 😂

[@Gerrika824]

If you don’t work on you…doesn’t matter what race or gender you go to, you’ll always find the same person in a different wrapper.

[@mrmarcus8772]

It’s funny cuz some people think the grass is greener on the other side 😆🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

[@mrmarcus8772]

@K C you think all black people are broke who live in hoods ?

[@cole7276]

@@mrmarcus8772 someone tell this guy 51% of black men are in the middle class

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

@@cole7276 it depends on the side of the middle class. My husband and I are considered middle class but it baffles people when we tell them where we live. My attitude is it’s just a house and I have seen bigger. I’m not living in anyone’s ghetto. I made that very clear to my husband before he retired from the Army.

[@selenar9805]

most black men do

[@selenar9805]

@@cole7276 middle class is the new lower class. Those stats aren’t true.

[@TheAddison-ee9cr]

These women never seen a CEO to even want one . They are delusional

[@debervin9121]

Exactly, probably couldn't even talk to one.

[@earlmuhammad2261]

White zaddy can have these bad winches they know help to the race

[@ladyofspa]

It's speaking like that that makes women of all ages races size disqualify our men. .the energy......

[@niknik1002]

Yea not nice...most sisters in these comments don't agree with her but comments like yours hurt those of us that love our brothers

[@payraapayraa8540]

Yep and give us the Becky’s so we can start a NEW BLACK COMMUNITY

[@rastahill748]

@@payraapayraa8540Idk about that but they sure can have em. Worthless ass miserable women.

[@a.wilkerson2nd334]

Other races are not checking for bw at high rates. Look up the numbers

[@jamesdicker2962]

Everyone but BW seem to grasp that.

[@Saggie1111]

Actually I'm a BW and a lot of men from other races were checking for me so I don't know where that comes from. We will see in about 5-10 years...you will see a lot of BW with men of other races. I actually see the dynamic a lot more now. BW are waking up and dating out 👏🏽👏🏽. It's about time, don't you think? BM should be happy that BW are dating out to find this happiness instead of trying to put doubt and fear into these women. BM need to cut the ish! The reason I said WERE is because I am married. So not in the market but men from other races do like BW. That's a delusion that BM have.

[@jonathancoleman6482]

@@Saggie1111 the majority your just one it doesn’t matter if you do that’s your life speaking of the majority of bw non bm just want too sleep with y’all having sex in getting married are two different things

[@Saggie1111]

@@jonathancoleman6482 keep being delusional. 🤪🤡 I'm not going to argue back and forth lmao...I know the truth. We shall see. That may be what they want BM to think. They do always trick yall anyway.

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

​@@jonathancoleman6482 checking BW for marriage or checking BW for casual hook-up/s3x? That's the question.

[@ebony_monami]

Straight like That! Expand your options... The math ain't math'n.

[@RMNC704]

It take options to be able to expand them

[@derekjwalls]

Most of Yal don't even qualify for a ceo

[@daletilley4083]

Whatever happened to Dating and getting married for love.

[@chrisharris2367]

love "dont "pay any bills!

[@TonightsConversation]

Nowhere in history was that ever a thing

[@DailyPositiveAffirmatives]

@@TonightsConversation Exactly! A dangerous Disney-esque myth perpetuated to the detriment of mankind.

[@Ed19601]

That still happens, but as they say if you fall in love it is best to fall in love with a rich guy

[@theflyguy5976]

@@TonightsConversation Why are so many black women chasing "High Earners" ? These men are only a small percentage of the population. If you truly understand finances and budget you would know you don't need a high earning man to live a high quality lifestyle. The issue is black women do not want to budget and expect men just to pan out money whenever they want something. BW don't understand the value to build with a man. If hes not rich or earning 6 figures hes broke and that mindset is what is keeping so many BW single. Hispanic women understand this, white women understand this, Asian women understand this. They get with their men early. BUILD, and reap the rewards. It's not hard to find a decent earning man - 65 - 80k and learn how to budget and invest. Bw just don't want to do it

[@s.collins1966]

I'm a C level employee myself and I'm a black man. I haven't heard why any of you black women want us or what you can offer us. What can you do for me and how can you help me improve and grow my business? Go be with your equals. Daquan and ray ray are out there waiting for you.

[@123pb]

Come on now if a black man is a CEO of his company he is going to be looking for the finest most submissive woman out there that rules out 95% of all black women. Plus women like her they don't want to compete for this man she wants this man to roll up on her and take her out on a date and dinner and then propose to her that ain't happening plus she's too masculine

[@Awodez]

The fundamentals of Kevin Samuels 😁👏🏽

[@oldschool8983]

Okay black women, instead of looking for something material from a man you better be careful who you share a bed with. That's the bottom line.

[@itsgreat7150]

Black women have the highest obesity rate in the country and that includes the male or female. And they're last of the dating list.

[@alha7040]

Yeah and if we check the stats black men are the worst to black women😂😂 so yeah back to finding ceo's😂

[@astoldby-mia]

I wouldn’t and have no desire to date outside of my race. I want a black man. There’s a certain level of reassurance, comfort, love, caring, and respect I can only get from a black man.

[@LettingGo757]

I do too but the options are so slim.. I'm so frustrated with them!

[@mjo6586]

Ok baby mama

[@MsLotusBlooms]

Good luck.

[@carthellgranison5644]

Forget these comments Queen, and thank you for loving Black-men. Options are slim for them because their standards are like the marriage store 6 floors and they aren't satisfied till they get to the last floor that says how many millions of them been there and no men on this floor. Cancel Reply

[@Raina1of1]

Sis if you keep thinking like this you are limiting yourself. You think other black men is saying the same thing? No they bash us 24/7 and literally tell us how much they prefer other women. Please burn the cape.

[@Sam.Sneed70]

Like Kevin Samuels said that's about 1percent of black men making that kind of money

[@darrellwilliams1714]

1 percent of all men is making that money.

[@MJ-yx2fk]

These old 304s will have to be sister wives

[@hartfantom]

cough cough***** how about we just……..date good people?

[@harrymuhammad9835]

People tend to judge what's good by what's good to them personally...If you love self you look for self.

[@MJ-yx2fk]

These holes are good people. They identify men based on their wallet and bank accounts. Gold digging 304s

[@nahniIslam]

Picking ain’t slim when your dating out I’m happy and love it

[@Mel-kp7zh]

Why do you have to have a ceo though ?

[@nasaihyana]

Same for black men...if we want a woman who's chase...who doesn't have a baby daddy.... who's not overweight...who doesn't have fake eyelashes and stinky orange weave we have to pursue other options. Y'all go y'all way ... we'll go ours #SYSBM . interestingly who raised all these failed BM y'all complain about?? 🤔

[@theblackcommander2186]

Black women online talk like they are all bringing in 500k per year. It's hilarious.

[@scuttdamutt]

Y’all don’t date out because y’all know you have to behave differently with them.

[@youstew99]

They also don’t date out because most white men find the bulk of black women unattractive, and often times they’re obese. Throw in the fact that many are ghetto trash and single mothers and there’s only a handful that qualify.

[@brandonmckinney8743]

What’s that mean?

[@tazthemania]

On god they always behave differently with a white man cause they know white men like their women feminine but they won’t act feminine with their own black men. What a self hate

[@destinymcgowan5328]

Huh? I'm about to date out because this community gets on my damn nerves and it's toxic as hell here

[@dulaneygibson2014]

12% of blk women are married to non-black men and it is quickly rising as blk women become more open to it.

[@traycharles]

Women always take advise from they single when they got a KING @ home

[@TrangPakbaby]

Blk wm outnumber blk men, from a numbers perspective it makes sense to date out. There are too many men out there to be devoted to just one race. That’s dumb

[@Godwill161]

To be honest , I am so tired the battle of black men and women conversations. It’s sad. Other races rarely have these conversations. I stop engaging.

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

💯🎯💯🎯

[@rastahill748]

Me too Im just ready to be separated at this point. I cant do this shit with these things nomore

[@debervin9121]

It's so boring, we have exhausted this topic to death.

[@RIC-wo5gh]

The nerve of them to have these expectations when they ain’t got nothing but some damn kids and government assistance

[@dasingaman1]

Why would she use “CEO” as an example though? Should men have the same standards? Idk…I usually can understand where most women are coming from. But, this one seems…different! I mean…it’s so layered. Let’s just think about the term “Black CEO”. There are not many CEOs walking among the general population, so black CEOs are at an even astronomically lower level. In her eyes, black men don’t stand a chance frfr!

[@simulatedengineering3279]

When hypergamy becomes an obsession. The "state of things" get tough. I love how its delivered like a victim's "state of emergency". As if they're well deserving of it but tragically not getting it, It is by This level of self entitlement are they known and recognized. And franky I dont think I'd even piss on those flames, And I can't say that I wouldn't fan them either.

[@watchulla]

People have needs and they need to do what is necessary to fill them. Period. This is not about being a victim but doing what you need to do. Not what everyone wants you to do. FREEDOM!.

[@simulatedengineering3279]

@@watchulla wants and needs are not the same. And when wants don't have the morality of a proper decorum, the lines are blurred of what can be transgressions against others and frankly nobody should ever tolerate such selfishness, you can make excuses and bend the truth but understand nobody is required to accept it Period.

[@THEORIGINALKINGCHARMING79]

Date out, please then there will be no more scrutiny of black men no matter their status

[@bradgauldin8643]

This crazy cause I literally just saw this video and then walked to break room and heard 3 woman talking bout the exact samething.

[@messiahmantra8812]

Nooooo famo 😮😮😮😮😂😂😮 Like they really believe in that shit

[@archiejones340]

All the good hard working black men out there get your passports and don't look back. And after she said all that we still make more money than them even without a degree they keep throwing in our face.

[@Missy_10663]

You comparing your status to a woman is sick. Yea get your ass on a plane and hurry up

[@marsmith1907]

Reality is and will humble women like this.

[@jamessinger1464]

All they want is money. We just want you to not gain 50lbs of fat because you’re stressed

[@Willmorrs]

Are they qualified to pick men and not be able to maintain the standards of taking care of him.. why not help a man you can build with

[@ineedhoez]

Why should women be raising grown ass men? If you are a man all you have to do is literally build a business, go to college go to trade school. Why can't you figure out how to put your life together on your own?

[@Sight2Behold]

​@@ineedhoez Dude stfu, this point has nothing to do with "raising a grown ass man"?🙄

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@ineedhoez because you should already be built, a woman shouldnt be building you up

[@s-wave7840]

Black women do NOT have the options in large quantities like other women. A recent study found that, black women actually have the LEAST amount of options, of all other women.

[@payraapayraa8540]

It’s true THE LEAST

[@arrenzoocasio8037]

women just don't get it. nobody, of any race wants disrespectful women. I'm a high earner, a ceo, blah blah blah, and I will tell you the truth.... you can't find a man because of you not because pickings are slim

[@CGBobzin]

Black men need to be held accountable as well. They are the largest demographic of being broke, uneducated, criminals, bad fathers, promiscuous and drug users. Everyone in the black community needs to practice self accountability (both men and women) and fix the issues that plague our culture.

[@laquishabenit7560]

Put up with what black women down disrespects white men that have white means not asking for a black woman to be in the trenches with him😂

[@malrofo]

Shes insane. Black men are getting hip to the bw bs we've been raised with and are choosing to leave it. Shes out of her mind if she thinks other men would willingly tolerate that ish

[@payraapayraa8540]

Yep BW ARE WISENING UP AND I LOVE THAT FOR US LETS DIVEST FROM THE MESS

[@uphaarsharma3161]

I am an Asian, and I personally noticed and observed that many black men left their women of their own race (black women) for white women / white girls. I feel bad and sorry for the black women / black girls. But, many & many black men do not understand the importance and are not honest for the women / girls of their own race... Many and many black men want to date & marry white women / white girls only... I seen a lot of cases. But, that is really sad for the black women / black girls.

[@humpparri2053]

I heard Asian woman/white man make the highest rate of interracial marriages...does that mean something wrong with Asian man for Asian woman?

[@sheenawalker7141]

What you need to do is heal your inner childhood wounds love yourself elevate yourself, break that generational curse, and wait on the creator of all too create build mold your spouse

[@zechariah3327]

Well stats show. High earring men marry and procreate with their race as a majority. And stats also show men view black women as the least desirable for motherhood and marriage. No opinion just stats

[@payraapayraa8540]

They are jezebels not meant for marriage they are baby makers

[@annmariemichael1928]

WOWW Why am I single? Arrogance Entitled Expectations Disloyalty Baggage Baggage Baggage Thank God my husband is a phenomenal woodworker, he makes a living good enough for me to be a fulltime RV'er. Traveling the country, working where, and when he wants. Been married 22 glamorous years.

[@slashlightning6771]

Those rich black men and ceos aren’t even looking for black women 💀🤦🏾‍♂️

[@PATULOCA]

Thankfully, both statistics and your comment support the findings of why societies are supporting black women to date and marry outside of their communities. And why becoming accessible to men outside of their community would make for a much more viable opportunity and solution for them. Since there is a smaller and typically disadvantaged selection of males to choose from compared to other ethnic groups of non-black males, they do have a much broader spectrum of males to choose from, not just based on their physical appearance but more so on what they're capable of unlimitedly providing educationally and financially, as well as being equipped with emotional intelligence, communication skills, problem-solving, security, stability, and leadership within the marriage and their households. In fact, black women, as statistics also prove, have a higher marriage success rate as the number of black women dating and marrying out continues to rise at a rapid rate. Thankfully, both statistics and your comment support the claim that societies supporting black women to date and marry outside of their community are the best option for them. Since there is a smaller and typically disadvantaged selection of males to choose from compared to other ethnic groups of non-black men, which do have a much broader spectrum of males to choose from, not just based on their physical appearance but more so on what they're capable of unlimitedly providing financially stability, security, and leadership within their marriage, households, not to mention none black men, who do prefer black women, as the statistics also prove, have a higher marriage success rate, as the numbers between black women dating out continue to rise at a rapid rate.

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

@PATULOCA Y'all are the only group who talk the CEO nonsense while not even being CEO material or even wife material youselves. If you check basic stats, you would see that such CEOs (of any race really) are not as common as y'all let out. Wanna sound so elitist but can't even get DECENT earning men to marry you 🤣🤣

[@theezenriarinze9203]

The fact that this needs to be given time is prove that y'all know no one is really checking for BW like that. And instead of addressing that issue it's this smoke screen acting like the option even exists when it doesn't.

[@jselect7502]

I'm a black man, married to a black women for 20 years and 4 kids. It all started when Welfare and the government was enforced, that didn't allow black men and black women to build, so now you have generations who are struggling.

[@illoneson.5218]

y'all have always been open and available to other men but for some reason they're not marrying you neither.

[@niknik1002]

I ride for my brothers no matter what

[@SeptemberBluez]

Yall love throwing finances in these situations/conversations it's not always about money... this is why they always label us because they think the 1st thing we want is your money smh... I for one don't need it I have my own and need some love and affection

[@tazthemania]

On god .this is the type of black women that give black people bad look smh

[@4079907]

no wonder women on here are complaining about finding a good man when these women literally date ANYONE as long as they got money. WTF do you honestly expect. That’s like me going to a USED CAR dealership and selecting a car solely based on its color. You disregard the miles, don’t check the engine, don’t look at the oil, don’t even start it up, and complete ignore the check engine light…… and as soon as you pay for it, and drive it home it leaves you STRANDED on the side of the road, and now you ass out.

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@4079907 because they want to make sure the man that they marry can provide for a family, they not wrong for asking for that

[@spiritualbaepodcast]

But why is the CEO six figure earner the standard? There’s plenty of good men making less than that & could be compatible with…

[@nickjones3860]

Majority of these women are caught up in social media life

[@JustN0tMe]

If you're looking for a high earner or a CEO...it means that, that man isn't for you, sorry but it's the truth 😅 People usually date around their class/status, area and race...it's not intentional but it is what usually happens. The reason is simple, these people share a space, work, class, morals, etc...They see each other more often and have shared experiences If you're not a high earner/educated person, you aren't from the high class and don't share the same experiences/morality, just good luck trying to find that man ... Honestly, your only option is going for someone that has the potential to be a CEO/high earner and hope he succeeds

[@dustrepellent8986]

A CEO ain’t nothin but a boss. And high earning is relative. He can be the CEO of a gas station, or a chicken joint, he still a boss. And that’s what some women want and deserve. No different than an average earning men thinking they’re too good for plus size women, not realizing she’s actually as average as him.

[@marianalexandru2882]

I'm a White Man but I LOVE ❤ Black Women as much as the Women from My Own Race.

[@CharisBrinkley]

Thank you ❤

[@Leo6933]

Lmao

[@desdior1207]

I love y’all too💕

[@JimmySleeze3k]

I feel bad for bw. This is why most are unmarried or single parents.

[@terranceforrestjr1159]

"Necessity???" It's called a preference, you just want access to the money and not the man

[@victoriaogunsanya9074]

Black women, keep your options open. Plenty of men are checking for us.

[@catmouse2882]

That part....I can't stand these Mammies and Pickmeishas acting like Black men are the ONLY men on God's Green Earth. As a Black woman, I always knew I'd marry a non-Black man. And I did. Black men are bottom tier men in every category of life. You have to be a complete dummy to prefer them.

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

What men are checking for you, and what for?

[@nkadimashiane]

Delusion at best

[@Jt-kl1yy]

Not really maybe African, Brazilian black but not black Americans

[@desdior1207]

@@Jt-kl1yylmao yea ok. I bet to differ😭