Are Virgo Men "Emotionally Detached?"

[@tm9874]

Virgo men are notorious for wasting ample amounts of women time getting her feelings open then ghosting only to come back and do the same cycle 😂😂😂😂 y’all need to get it together

[@andrecameron3130]

It's not that it's how we are feeling at the time sometimes we feel too emotional.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

it's like that?! lol

[@tm9874]

Jonathan R Whitfield STRAIGHT LIKE THAT 😂

[@lupression4457]

I'm a virgo and you are not wrong tbh

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

Whew child! This is the TRUTH

[@krissyt5337]

The Virgo guy that I like seems really detached, and I’ve never felt so awkward around or unsure of a guy while liking them so much at the same time. Every time I come close to ending it for my own sanity your videos persuade me to keep being patient. This is hard as I’m an Aries but I’ll keep at it, and hope for the best. Thanks

[@isgc1384]

couldn't agree more!

[@beccf.s.8012]

Oh girl. I’m a Aries and I know how hard this must’ve been for you. How did it go?

[@chakrachakra7595]

Aries woman married to a Virgo guy 😁...it wasnt easy in the beginning. Virgos have trust issues...they move like a rollercoaster until you can settle their minds down...once you get a hold of there minds you're set...but it's not easy. They pay attention to everything...u might think they are ignoring you sometimes...but trust me they see and hear it all...they like to test their women in crazy ass ways 😊

[@beccf.s.8012]

Universal Starr I’m so happy it worked out for you and I hope you are happy. My heart skips a beat when he texts or inbox but, I don’t associate with inconsistent people and he is. I have a life to live, plans and goals to achieve, friends to enjoy life with and my independence that I adore. I can’t let his push and pull make me feel less, anxious or desperate. Deep inside I would love for him to be serious about us and show consistent communication so I give him a chance to see each other again, but, he messages one day and acts uninterested the other and I don’t have time for that. Watching these videos helps me with the process of feeling better about myself and understand is not about me actually. It has been helping me move on believe it or not. Slowly, but surely. I deserve someone who goes hard as I go.

[@chakrachakra7595]

@@beccf.s.8012 Virgos have issues when it comes to their emotions...they feel deep but can't seem to express themselves when it comes to the mushy...they are warriors and never wanna seem weak. It takes a certain one to take hold of them. Virgos love hard so they analyze every single thing..you have to be extremely patient with them.

[@kittykat135]

Virgo men should just relax and let love be natural...Not make love a job, all that thinking is too much!!

[@yasha12isreal]

@@oneonly8561 I swear. It's literally unhealthy at times. It can really cause stress 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@quathetruth8314]

This is where he walkways fails. He lives in his head and created stories if the story doesn’t go how he envisioned in his crazy ass head he will get discouraged and get depressed. Virgo men are prone to being narcissistic due to their lusty illusions and willingness to control outcomes

[@kittykat135]

@@quathetruth8314 Your so right thats why the virgo I had was crazy from the start 6 years ago, I found out he had money and juiced him for as much as i could get, for me going thru all of his bullshit cost him big time and then I dumped him politely, he was boring and crazy. I'm better off without the creep!!!!!!!!!!!

[@quathetruth8314]

kittykat#1 very boring. Leaving them is freeing they are so controlling

[@kittykat135]

@@quathetruth8314 Mine was very boring , was acting very exciting 1st 2 years and last 4 were BORING as hell, we havent had sex in 2 years but he wanted me to always pleasure him down there...Very selfish individual was sometimes financially generous but thats not enough to continue the relationship I ended it and I'm glad! I'm too good to waste time with him, besides I never saw him with friends or family just his 3 kids who would come around for money, he 's just too weird I can't What a waste of my time, glad at least I got money out of the deal so not a total waste

[@RxRec]

This is so helpful because my Virgo is an anomaly 🤦🏾‍♀️... Jesus Christ.... the amount of patience it takes.

[@ravenhinson3181]

So true!! I know several Virgo men and patience is gonna be your best thing when dealing with them.. Have your own agenda and don’t schedule your life around them.. Just be your best you without trying to be.. This is a sign that will love you and your flaws.. They’re in it for the long haul... If you manage to keep they’re interest then you in there.. I just love y’all❤️❤️ Cool people

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

**COMMENT OF THE DAY!** This is my whole video summed up in a paragraph!

[@msdnicety1]

Raven Hinson you are so right patience is virtue dealing with a virgo man. Thank God i have my own agenda and things i like to do. i hang out with friends and travel. I work alot but he always manages to pop up on me no matter where im at or what im doing.

[@RegalRoyale]

@@Amanda-ep8ug I'm experiencing the same thing and I am a virgo as well. The longest was 4 days without communication. I cannot fathom going days without talking to someone I really like or care about. It's torture for me. He just says he is going thru a rough time. Ugh. Like you said, when we are together it is amazing and he talks about the future then goes ghost. U are not alone : )

[@RegalRoyale]

@@Amanda-ep8ug Thanks Amanda! Good advice. Self love is definitely an area I can improve upon cause I always find myself in a "guessing" position and I know I am worth so much more. Thank you for sharing.

[@Jessknowsbestt]

That cold , serious , aloof , detached facade y’all put on is really just an act 😂 Every Pisces knows this the moment we see or meet y’all , our intuition knows ....

[@TJL2010]

DreamyFish Pisces rising I see though virgos like a mirror. And I’m a Scorpio sun

[@starbear333]

if that isn’t the fucking truth!

[@starbear333]

GOLDEN LADY exactly !!

[@megamanlegends18]

DreamyFish you wish you knew how Virgos are.. I hate Pisces people

[@alysons1142]

And I thought i was the only one having problems with my virgo ex in the emotional department.. are they the same when comes In that section

[@jeny8619]

Virgo man I knew was a big waste of time , self centered and never show emotion, awful year of nothing

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

YUP. That pretty much sums it up!

[@beckslouise4741]

Yeah same shit another year they don't change no emotion never open up just want you when they do then ghost

[@beccf.s.8012]

Becks Louise they do use people. One of my besties is a Virgo and she is so “practical” as they mention so much that she pretty much uses people to her advantage for EVERYTHING. I don’t hang with her anymore. I love and respect her but, I keep myself away. I keep all the virgos in my life far. I love them but I don’t hang out with them. I find them cruel ocd and mistreating

[@AnubisFenrir]

@@beccf.s.8012 if you ain't useful you're useless we do are best to be useful so we have no time for people who just sit around and suck up energy that's just being a leech remember life is a video game you're friend discovered a cheat code that's all 😂

[@SR77736]

They will charm you in the beginning but once you show emotion or attachment will get sloppy, ghost, cancel and make excuses. You then get fed up and dump them then they start overthinking and resurface like. Nothing. Wtf.

[@Netchick41]

I totally agree with you. I am with my Virgo man and he is the most loving and giving man I have ever known. I love him very deeply. It took a long time to get here and convince him that I am for real but now that his heart has opened to me it is absolutely amazing. No one would ever measure up to him and this is forever. I am so happy.

[@Farahgraphy]

How you make him realise that he can trust you? And you are perfect for him?

[@KillaniTruth]

I feel like my virgo boyfriend dont love me 😢 Im an aries i want be romantic more than practical . I want him to be crazy about me . My heart is so big i want to give so much love to him .. I want to do so many things for him but it just seems i dont get the same passion back .. It really breaks me inside patience is so hard for me to have .. Im really trying hard to control my hurt and anger.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I'm sorry to hear that, hopefully things turn out for the better, I know Virgos can be complicated, email me if you need a deeper understanding

[@elmamabanga5664]

Hi, I have never done this before, but crossed this blog, I am an aries with a virgo. And omg it is so frustrating. But idk how long you have been together, but I am sure he loves you.

[@beverlyvillafana4777]

Trust me he loves u,u need to be patient u don't want to lose a gd thing

[@Jessknowsbestt]

hx hx she is fire , Aries is a fire sign .

[@iosgaming2824]

I’m sure he loves you but I think what he has going on is that he does love you but he has a hard time expressing his love to you physically . I love my dad a lot but I don’t show that to him unless I’m saying I love him.

[@BornToBeFamed]

We dont love someone off emotion. We love logically. simple and yet misunderstood... like i always say the best way to tell if a virgo loves you likes you, watch the actions. We will show you vs being all emotional.

[@tymeishalovell843]

I just had this conversation with my Virgo fiancé and I’m a Sag woman. So you can imagine the dynamic to our “disagreement”..lol! He said the same exact thing on what you said. He told me he is very emotional attach to me more than I know, but he doesn’t show it on the outside. Also, he said I’m his everything. As a Sag I give him the side eye and straight fire of bluntness of “Ok”..lmao. But it’s all about how you communicate and understand each other

[@xeniastephenson8076]

How do you get your relationship to work im a sag n im in love with a virgo he is so cold n i really don't know what to do

[@lizh1970]

Nobody tells you they are emotionally attached , you should know yourself

[@sag686]

I'm dating one. I call him my robot.

[@geno84]

Lol people call me the same thing. Or they call me "the machine" August 29th

[@Tea-rq2ho]

This made me LOL bc I’ve told mine we’re NOT robots it’s actually normal to feel and be expressive of feelings! but damn any emotional talk and he starts to glitch fr fr

[@sag686]

@@Tea-rq2ho 🤣🤣glitch is the perfect word.

[@Tea-rq2ho]

@@sag686 glitch, malfunction,....aka lose control 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😂😩

[@sag686]

@@Tea-rq2ho lmao.. Virgos are so damn stubborn..

[@bahamianprincess1829]

I've been married to a Virgo for 17 years and I can say that you have most of the things spot on but I really do think you all are emotionally detached, my husband is a talker but he don't talk much about himself, personal stuff like deep things. I feel sometime I have to ask about his love for me just to check on him. I know he loves me to life but he just needs to show more. He shows me by doing things but I am a Taurus and I love to be loved and held and sweet nothing's whispered in my ear. It's Just not in your nature.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Some Virgos do, some don't, sometimes you have to teach em how to love you. We can get set in our ways easily. Get him to talk more just have a good cool sit down with him, listen and let him express

[@SR77736]

@@JonathanRWhitfield tried that with mine. He got defensive,sarcastic and said I was forcing it. I wasn't.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

imo, he could feel like you are overbearing, it could be the way you interact with him about his life, goals, etc... we are sensitive about that stuff. Or it could be that he's not there yet where you are. We need time but and the same rate a real heart to heart is needed, we understand that, may not like it, but we get it.

[@gorgeousmone6151]

bahamianprincess I agree . I’m a Taurus my ex is a Virgo as well. I use to wonder why we never had deep conversations or why we never use to cuddle. He was really nice and generous but wasn’t very affectionate .

[@SR77736]

Virgos are not that affectionate like we bulls are though. They cam he but not often. They'll criticize you and fix something as a love language. Not the romantic type at ALL.

[@serenabellecourt1606]

Virgo's love the attention and reassurance, especially from those important to them; but they play it too cool sometimes... Makes it hard to know when I'm being too close or too distant, until they throw it in my face later on about how I'M the confusing one, which makes it very confusing at times. Lol. Virgo's are scary when you're on their bad side!!

[@lakeishawilson7893]

No Sir... they(we)are very emotional involved with who we share our space with, we get to the Kore of things. This is how we know our partners better than themselves. We do however detach logic from emotions because we understand the difference. That's one way we spot liars!

[@SunShyne-of3xj]

I only attract Virgo men, I'm a scorpio. I'm learning a lot, but some of this I've experienced first hand. Dating them often times is very frustrating.

[@SunShyne-of3xj]

It hurts mine too, most virgo men are alpha and you all find it difficult to express emotions, I can say that by listening to the videos that the last virgo man I dated loved me; but he NEVER verbalized it, but things he would do as I look back in retrospect let's me know that he did. Unfortunately I'm not good at reading minds or picking up on context clues 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@SunShyne-of3xj]

@@oneonly8561 that ship has sailed unfortunately; you know I'm a scorpio, so you know I'm not reaching out. I do recall asking him what he liked most about me and he said my heart 😔.

[@SunShyne-of3xj]

@@oneonly8561 no, no power struggle, he's an alpha male which I loved, I felt that I had demonstrated more than enough for him let his guard down....guess he didn't feel that way 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@KlepacMovies]

Rocio P Serrano Lol I’m a Virgo guy. Its interesting to hear this.

[@KlepacMovies]

Rocio P Serrano I think it’s a good thing you’re older than him. Just be patient though. Stay genuine...he will SHOW you how he feels

[@dianajorgeloyalones6083]

I’m Aries♈️Dating A Virgo♍️When they want something they go get it when they get it they don’t want It Loose it they love to be in Relationship mines wants me to meet his mother I feel Special about that Virgo man always attracted to me idk Why But first time dating One & is Going good so far👫👑❤️🖤🔐

[@joannhughes4992]

I was dating Virgo Man, We was talking for hrs. Everyday. Then he MIA on me🤦🏻‍♀️ Sooo crazy fr. He went talking about are future together ect. Then he like when need stop talking😒😔 Don't get emotional rollercoaster feelings fr.

[@manders252004]

Yes, me too girl!

[@jckasugatan6810]

Can relate. 😅

[@gigixlibra]

I loved this video. I feel like it helped me with the Virgo guy I’m talking to. He told me how he was going through some things and how he’s had a lot on his mind so I’m stepping back and giving him his space of course.. he said this weekend everything should be better, so I’m hoping to hear from him this weekend. I expressed some of my feelings to him and of course he had trouble expressing himself but he kept reassuring me that he likes me and for me not to think anything negative. I feel he’s definitely worth being patient for.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Stick with em, he's trying to sort everything out in his mind, everything like his feelings, goals, etc... he needs that to be right so he can step to you right. He needs that foundation (him) to be as solid as possible

[@gigixlibra]

Jonathan R Whitfield Thank you for your reply.

[@LORAINEisINSANE]

Going through the same thing. Did he come back around? 🤔

[@MIMIDSH]

Sometimes I feel like he doesn't like me or want anything to do with me. But yet, I think about the last time we were together and it was perfectly wonderful, and I know he felt that. Yet the next text is cold and curt. Then he's busy and cuts me short. I ask if he'd like to get together and he seems indifferent. Yet once again, when we're finally together, we agree it's the best time we've ever had with anyone and he's attentive and passionate. He leaves and it's.... rinse and repeat. I keep bouncing back happy like there's nothing amiss and sometimes he makes me cry (in private) because it's such a 180 degree change.

[@Amy08Jane]

Feel this so hard and I'm a year in. In the first few months he was always communicating, telling me he couldn't wait to see me next etc etc and now it feels like he's too busy to bother to check in. I'm a cancer and incredibly patient and have been gentle in asking for what i need but still yet to feel his love when we are apart. When together i feel the most loved I've ever felt.

[@aml8760]

Your voice in this video is so gentle. Thank you.

[@tawana251]

Virgo men are so sweet. I am a virgo woman as well. I love being a virgo.

[@snatched.4513]

I’m a Gemini I married a Virgo my first love was a Virgo guys who usually approach me are Virgos and now the new guy is a Virgo like it’s weird because I’ve always attracted them funny because I was conceived under the Virgo sign lol 😂 They show emotions once they are comfortable and if they do show you deem yourself lucky lol

[@kaequiambao4533]

I'm still trying to learn my Virgo boyfriend when he is in his own little world thinking..its kinda hard sometimes so I'm the one that makes adjustments.. Being a cusp scorpio/sagittarius that ain't easy but because of the love I have for him I'm being supportive. Thank you for making this video,It did help me to understand a little better..

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Yes, just let him have that space and you'll be fine. The more you learn him, the more he'll let you in that space and open up. Virgos need space to think and just be. We have to sort out all of the confused feelings and thoughts that we have.

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

i really like your videos. Wish they around when i was dealing with my Virgo haha. Lord what an experience.

[@bresi4405]

I been Friends with the Virgo Male I love for 23 years we are both 44. But have only within the last couple years stopped and started to really learn....everything Prior was Cool but everything now is damn intriguing You validate everything I been telling myself Its taking more now than ever - but its moving towards a solid place. I dig that he is this deep - I also dig he holds a bar high and wants me there...either way I walk forward very patient and with a wealth of knowledge...im a Taurus ;)

[@signedblaiir7037]

I’m a Taurus and Virgo men show a lot of emotions toward me. They are always very romantic and love to spoil me. I feel like they tend to show more emotion than me at times.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Because Virgo men love Taurus women! Such a great match! :)

[@beverlydrummond7995]

Why my virgo say he want a lifelong friend and he always around me ..I can't seems to brake away from him he always there..but he closed off showing too much then bam all his feelings comes out.then he watches me I don't know what he want from me

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

He likes being around you. Virgos in general loves companionship, esp from the opposite sex. Sounds like he can't get enough of you. We are up and down with how we show our emotions, he prob wants to be in a relationship with you if you are not already.

[@MenaMiko9]

@@JonathanRWhitfield I have so many questions for you

[@divadeb1907]

Where is the emotion, some women will get turn off by this, not showing emotion!!! Im a Cappy and cant seem to know whats going on with my Virgo friend, kudos to you for being a good lover !!!

[@grissarellano1233]

Are Virgo men attracted to Taurus women? The last 5 guys I’ve dated were all Virgo and they all made the first move

[@jason555jason555]

Gris Sarellano Personally I like Taurus because you ladies are so motherly

[@justarian1538]

Yesss I am a Virgo but I love y'all taurus but y'all can be difficult at times 😊

[@grissarellano1233]

GlokuSavy I’m definitely not 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@SR77736]

@@justarian1538 so can yall! Complicated as all hell. Yall are not easy to deal with.

[@godisamazing6448]

I’m a leo virgo cusp with mercury in virgo. I relate a lot to virgo, I also attract a lot of Earth signs and I’m attracted to them as well. Would you agree that leo virgo cusp have a lot in common with virgo? Also I’m dealing with a virgo and I feel like we are a lot alike. He tells me I’m perfect, but for whatever reason he can’t make up his mind. He asks me, like why me?? I try to nurture him because I understand but the leo in my won’t deal with competition so I walked away 😕 I know he cares though but 🤷🏾‍♀️ I have to protect my heart.

[@Altdisneystudio]

Virgo men are human and so grounded..from they way they think...my Virgo bae was pouring out his feelings to me and got a bit teary..I’m cancer cusp Leo..my cancer side feels so comfortable because he is levelheaded..but my Leo side is still dealing with being submissive 😂😂😂..

[@timothywilliams5892]

Like you said our happiness truly comes from within. I’m like that also, I’m always told I’m detached but I’m practical, cautious, wanna feel warm.

[@xeniastephenson8076]

Im a sag and i mostly attract virgos. I really like them but they frustrate me. They dont listen n never express themselves and i love love and its so hard for them to love. I am a very secure sag i do wonder sometimes because im always thinking of how to improve myself and do better but i can never seem to work with virgos but they are attracted to me alot crazy. I need help sigh

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

We are one of the most complicated signs when it comes to love, we are logical lovers.

[@Crystal.the.Cancer]

Shout out to the C.H. Mason Theology Seminary Shirt! ♥️ My mom remembers meeting him when she was a little girl. #COGICgirl

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Ayyee, what you know about??! 🙏🏽

[@Crystal.the.Cancer]

@@JonathanRWhitfield I was just about to ask you the same thing. Lol. You can’t just join in, you got to be born in it!

[@Lavenderlight1]

My Virgo ex was toxic he enjoyed watching my feelings being hurt controlling I feel he’s has some pass issues I am free from that madness and trying to deal with the ups and downs and cold to hot Way too much for me to do And yes he truly did love me cause he brought me around his friends and one of his family. But he was toxic Virgo’s are not for me I put in enough deposits and no effects in his end

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Check out my vid "The Bad Side of The Virgo Male"

[@beckslouise4741]

Same here my virgo male friend always play head games doesn't want to commit but doesn't want me to have another man. Says he keen to pull me in then want sex then pulls away ghost. Was hurt frm. X wife so doesn't want to be hurt again. always asking me questions about my past say he come visit then doesn't come. Just seems like a whole game it feels like time just lost tryn to figure him out he never opens up unless he's drunk

[@chasesidora]

yes! very toxic, don’t care about hurting you but want to be treated like a king. lame AF. they don’t never want to bend for you but will try to cave your back in from all the bending they want you to do.

[@flawlessescape8194]

I’m a Taurus woman and Virgo men seem to really really love Taurus woman. My close friend is a Virgo and he’s been liking me since the day we’ve met but I was the one that pushed away due to fear. Virgos and Taurus are so similar and everything you say about Virgo men damn near fits me lol! My thing is it took me almost two years to tell him I liked him. Throughout those two years he dated other girls but still made me feel as if he wanted me. It’s weird, he didn’t cheat on them or anything but there were definitely feelings between us. I feel like he talks to them out of boredom sometimes cause he moves fast with them, but still finds his way back trying to get closer and closer to me once he’s done with them. It’s crazy but I’m just ass stand offish as he is but my feelings are growing like crazy. I do think I love him and want him near. I heard that if a Taurus and Virgo gets together it would take a looongg time because they are both slow and sensitive when it comes to love

[@jasminet4442]

yeaaa y’all are emotionally detached ppl point blank. coming from a pisces and we’re all feelings and emotions idk about all pisces but i know me. don’t ask me “what’s wrong tell me what’s going on” then i tell u and get no response in return. like what was the purpose 🤷🏾‍♀️ that really hurt my feelings bc it takes alot for me to wanna open up and when i finally did bc a virgo keeps saying open up like why ignore me that hurts. now i’m shutting down again bc i tried to open up and now i can’t. virgos play with ppl emotions and that’s not ok.

[@Kirra713]

My Virgo is really sweet and expresses his feelings to me with no problem. We only know each other for a month but we have the same personality.

[@taniablassingame2919]

Kirra Lanette how old is he if you don’t mind me asking??

[@Lovely_latreveate]

I'm a leo woman and engaged to a virgo man and your videos are the truth 🤦‍♀️😄

[@sambass21]

Gosh you are so beautiful I would cherish the hell out of you. From Libra/Scorp Sun Moon in Cancer

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thank you! It's real :)

[@shellyshopes]

YES HE IS A DREAM OF EYE CANDY 4 SURE, ALSO HIS VOICE AND HOW HE SPEAKS IN HIS VIDEOS

[@sososanchez3512]

Scorpio here,I agree.

[@weedorkamara794]

Married to a Virgo man, y’all is emotionally detached... and I’m a Pisces which is the perfect match in opposition but it seems like we’re just sooooo different perfect match from Hell with my emotional ass🗣🤣🤣

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

lol, y'all be putting us through the ringer with those emotions

[@regeneratedsun6105]

I am emotional but I just have the ability to turn my emotions off and on. But When I turn it off I tend to think better.

[@Martian05]

I'm a Virgo male and I just don't like my time being wasted and if I can't learn from it I'm really not interested

[@micheal775]

I'm a virgo September 5 and everything you saying its true bro

[@marienash8351]

I'm an Virgo woman whose tried to date Virgo men and we just don't work out at all we're both to controlling and dominate its like looking in the mirror when I encounter myself with an Virgo man pretty much I'm dating an reflection of myself

[@kimwilliams4033]

im a virgo with a virgo man. we've been together 14yrs, married 10 yrs in October. we clicked straight the way because of our similarities. we were so similar but our differences complemented each other. we've not had an easy relationship even tho we're soul mates, the amount we love each other made us put up our walls. it took us 10yrs to get it right. virgos are made for each other.

[@AnubisFenrir]

@@kimwilliams4033 yeah when virgo gets together you have to look at each other charts not just sun sign

[@krystaljohnson7994]

As a Virgo rising/moon woman with a very Virgo astrology signature overall, this resonates with me. I do these things with everyone and everything. Discernment is a must.

[@fatimamathews]

I am totally smitten by my virgo. He asked me to be exclusive after introducing me to his friends and I was ecstatic! He also expressed that he felt intimidated by where we are in life as he is used to being a provider. I feel so safe and secure around my virgo that materialism isn't an issue for me. Quality time and appreciation are my Love languages. However, his communication is EXTREMELY inconsistent. Each time we make plans he either cancels or goes ghosts. He sometimes wont respond to texts, etc. I began the convo of my standards & understanding he has things going on but it shouldn't be used as a pass to disregard me and said I was thinking of going out with an "old friend" who was in town and asked how he felt. He listened, said it was my decision to go out and asked if we could continue the conversation later that night. I didnt receive a call. I texted the next morning and no response. HELP ME WIN MY VIRGO BACK PLEEASE!!! Ive never felt like I can be my "authentic" self around anyone else.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

In my opinion I think what ever is going on with him are issues he's dealing with personally that's causing him to block love to a certain degree. Men, esp Virgo men tend to close up when issues arise... If he's unhappy with whatever is going on then there's nothing you can do but give him space and understand. Love, sex, and gifts won't affect him if he's dealing with something else. Mainly we are driven by life/personal goals and when the two clash, love takes a backseat even tho it's just as important to us. Why? because we feel that even tho we may love or like someone, we won't be happy with ourselves unless things are in order... The best thing you can do, is to talk to him, ask him what's going on and give him the time and space to say and vent whatever. The frustrating part is that it's going to take a min. He'll be hurt if you leave but he won't be mad because he knows it's a lot for you. Talk, listen, and ask him questions, do it face to face but let the energy be chill. Virgos need a lil boost sometimes to get things flowing.

[@fatimamathews]

Jonathan R Whitfield thank you soooo much for your response! I feel this relationship is a true test to my patience lol! It’s cool because I have a ton of things I have going on (all good no drama lol) to keep me occupied. I guess my question is how do I give him space & still keep his interest? How do you get a man/a Virgo man who is closed up to meet in person? Lol! That should be your next video!--how to keep a Virgo male interested or what keeps a Virgo interested? Lol

[@kj5205]

@@fatimamathews I feel you. Virgos are intriguing and women can become smitten by them. I personally wouldn't have mentioned I was gonna go out with a friend because that could have made him feel insecure along with the provider situation. If he's been inconsistent with communication, he probably needs space to think things through. If you send a text saying you care about him and is thinking about him and leave it at that, give him time. He's either gonna reach out or not, but try not to overthink it or let your emotions affect your actions. Virgos are magnetic, I understand. 😍

[@fatimamathews]

Happy Thoughts Thank you for the advice and sharing my attraction to the mysterious Virgo lol. I left him a voicemail this morning. I actually came to the same conclusion after I left it in terms of leaving it be. Im honest to a flaw at times so didn’t want to go out without letting him know what & why. I would’ve wanted to know if it were reversed. Honestly, I feel the 1 thing he can provide=time, he’s not willing to give so I’m good at this point.

[@kj5205]

@@fatimamathews Right, with virgo men, most times women have to adapt to their ways not because we aren't being our authentic selves but because they are who they are and that's what makes them so yummy. lol. But like Jonathan mention, virgo men are practical and if things aren't right for them (career, money, goals, etc) then the women in their life won't be his #1 focus and not because he doesn't care, but because something just isn't right, he doesnt feel grounded. I'm talking to a virgo guy and when he's focus and doesn't get back to me, I know he's focus. I am cheering for you 100%, I know how it feels to engage with a virgo. Give it time, if he likes you, he'll come around. Also some things are left unsaid, you might have to work on that. What's your sign?

[@GeminiPeach81]

I'm a Gemini with Scorpio in my chart. I always attract Virgos. With me being a air sign predominantly, how can I capture the Virgo man I'm dating for good?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I made a few vids about that but the main thing would be patience,

[@cassiesmithjones1641]

I'm learning my Virgo Man it seems that I'm totally having to readjust me to fit him, his mind set his moods his space .......etc and I'm willing to do this because I really love him and determined to be with him . But sometimes I do feel he is emotionally detached so once again listening to you has opened my eye yet again to him. Jonathan I'm dealing with him not calling me, texting me , I have expressed to you before that he's having some health now some financial problems . I have helped him out with his financial situation then he calls and says we still good nothing has changed about us he just needs time to figure things out then nothing for days on end until I reach out again with financial help . We was supposed to be moving in together but that as well has been put on hold Jonathan help me !!!!!

[@drekewright1817]

I love being a ♍ man it's awesome

[@estellelopez6682]

I'm a Virgo female dating a Virgo male. I would like to get your take on this, especially since I tend to over analyze situations. To put things into perspective: we've been dating for over a month now and are dating exclusivity. I think showing genuine interest to the other person (i.e. asking questions about their hobbies, life, passions, etc.) should be mutual. This was happening during the first couple of dates. I ask questions about his interests, showing him I'm engaged and paying attention to details. The things that irk me a little is his lack of engagement, not further asking me things like my love for music or my experiences in life. At times it seems he's not paying attention to what I say, as he forgets some details from a conversation of even the day before. He says I'm easy to talk to and likes the way I think, but it can feel like I'm more of someone who he vents to rather than demonstrating he is interested in growing our emotional bond. What's your take on this? How should I approach him about my concerns?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

imo with that you should just ask him straight up how he feels about you. You being a virgo yourself know that we are for the most part straight to the point, but he'll most likely tell exactly how he feels if you ask him and express your concerns

[@serimanulusoy6261]

I like you band and you 😊❤!

[@timothywilliams5892]

We’re not detached We analyze, they say we’re mysterious lol

[@alysons1142]

Question .. my virgo broke up with me monday so .. do I wait till he contacts me to apologize

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

no, hit him up

[@Sochocolatechip]

Do Virgo men go for the good girls? Or do they go for girls they really don’t want to go for

[@oceanzennfamxo833]

virgo is emotional, how do you know if they are emotionaly attached

[@jayjaysmasretes5778]

Yes They are....Hes to into himself. They are worth it in the END.

[@SR77736]

Depends. Mine weren't.

[@paparudaruda656]

Can I get an exemple for that expression “we are perfectionists” ...because I think this applies to everybody in some form. It’s like you state that “just a Virgo” can do this and that...

[@AnubisFenrir]

Anyone can chase perfection most give up before its obtain this is were virgo parts ways we don't quit until it's obtain even if it can't be🤔

[@teanna4569]

Virgo are very sensitive you gotta watch what you say to them they APPEAR cold and detached but they hyper sensitive they are tricky… pay attention to there energy and their eyes it never lies

[@Kreeplifeinc]

Yes

[@lizh1970]

To bad an emotionally detached sensitive, who wants to deal with that x

[@JoAnnMonsalve-bb1ye]

A Virgo said to me the first time he meet me that he wants a relationship. After three years of situationship with him - He said that he doesn’t believe in love and relationship and after that he never contact me… waste of time and love invest

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

wow! the guy was confused!

[@JoAnnMonsalve-bb1ye]

I think he only wants a hook up situation

[@JavaChipFeet]

Thank you!

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

You should do a video on when a virgo comes back ... seeing how misunderstood they can be... it's gotta mean something. It's happening to me now lol

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Oh really? lol, I'll address it in my live on Sunday, I do a live each Sunday around 9:30pm EST, tune in and let me know it's you.

[@Praiselovestosing]

why are you feeling yourself Mr. Virgo? saying you virgo men are selective and whatever, but what zodiac sign females do you think virgo men like? Just asking not like I care in particular, I just find it interesting, the discussion I mean. I think you virgo men like ladylike ladies, do they?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

We do, Southern Belles, Classy, Lady Like. Signs that we like? I don't know, we vibe very, very well with Scorpios and Capricorns and we attract Pisces a lot for some reason.

[@mariemarlene7658]

Jonathan R Whitfield Opposites attract! #TeamPisces

[@beverlyvillafana4777]

I will take u serious and I'm an Aries..real...serious love is hard to come by so if I get it..I want the full package I know the worth of it.

[@blackwitch999]

please a question,why a Virgo male is so silence sometimes !? thx

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Because we are slow to speak and we are evaluating a/the situation. We are very observant but don't like to waste our energy and expertise by just speaking to speak. Behind that silence however is a explosion of thoughts and analytics. Even when we do speak it is only the tip of the iceburg because we are naturally reserved.

[@NothingtoWear_]

My bday is Sep18 as well 🤗😄

[@AnubisFenrir]

Twins 😎

[@nur6998]

I'm a Virgo girl but you guys i mean men are very emotionally detached i know 3 virgo men and they are very hard to deal with i guess Aug differ from the Sep

[@sonyawesley3758]

I just want to clear up my thoughts regarding this Virgo I have been dating for 2 years. You mentioned a virgo has deep feelings if he includes me in his life. He treats me very well. I have access to his house, he has given me his bank card to use, included in family functions and lots of other little things but he has never uttered he "L" word. Sometimes I feel like he may never get to that point with me and that I am wasting my time? Your opinion as another Virgo male would be greatly appreciated.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

You are NOT wasting your time, those things he's doing is telling you he loves you are extremely close to it. Most virgo males don't express their feelings with words so much, it's more so by deeds and actions. I hardly tell anyone I love them but they know I do but how I treat them in comparison to others. He'll say it one day but trust me, if he's allowing all that from you, he cares for you deeply.

[@sonyawesley3758]

Great. I needed to hear that from another Virgo. I will hang in there. I know he is worth the wait. Thank you for your time.

[@mariemarlene7658]

Sonya Wesley He is worth it!!! It took my Virgo 2 years to say it (He was in the Military) called me @ 4:30an to say "I Love You".🤗🌻🌻

[@MrMszann]

I love Virgo's .

[@AsiaMare]

You sound like my bf. We’re both Virgo’s... I analyze all day.

[@cinnamin77abbachild15]

And its Proverbs 4:23,,,, I dont like virgos their too weak for me and indirect,, I'm older now do they cant pull the BS. With me .. 34yrs old now.But he was so good to me in the BEGGINING,,, sweet man,,, but when we finally got together I became emotional over him I was 26 at the time it was a year before we got together physically tho,,, I should have never slept with him WE would have been better,,,until my feeling got envoled,, I secretly think he was enlove with me but kept his feelings in check because he was 14yrs older than me. But I need to know where someone stands with me ,,,I dont have the patience too deal with another virgo man ,, I will.move away quick now,,, no time to waste... wish ya the best.

[@msdnicety1]

Thank you so much for this info. I was so confused about my virgo he definitely is a private person he doesnt talk much until recently i guess he was just figuring or filling me out. Im an outgoing person that many flock to i ran across my virgo friend and we have been inseparable. It amazes me how he gets me and how he knows what i need no matter what mood im in he always knows how to put a smile on my face. I love him, but not sure how to tell him since i dont like to get all emotional or in my feelings. Do you have any advice on how i can tell him i love him. I do show him him all the time i know he is probably thinking why hasnt she said i love you. I want to tell him but im afraid i might scare him into a analytical thought freenzy with no response. As i said before he knows how i feel because i show it i just havent said it

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Well, I know he knows based off of what you said, plus Virgos are very perceptive, we know what actions men but we also wonder if they are true. Nevertheless, if you want to tell him you love him you should do it in an eased environment, home chillin, out walking, or a cool date. Just don't make it seem forced or as if you want him to say the same thing (even tho you do) but just let em know how you feel and that it is important for him to know.

[@mariemarlene7658]

msdnicety1 Whatever you do DO NOT tell him you Love him, let him say it first it will work out better that way...be subtle Virgo men understand that.

[@msdnicety1]

Marie Marlene thank you so much he said it to me and my heart just stopped and skipped a beat. He also just opened up to me about so much I was in my head about. So glad I was able to open up my feelings knowing he felt the same way

[@mariemarlene7658]

msdnicety1 Yay!!! I am so happy for you, your very welcome! Virgo Men are a lot of work but definitely unique and sweet. Feel free to share anytime because dealing with them you need a support system, Lol!!!

[@lupression4457]

Great video though. Accurate

[@Love.Angeela]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@evabeasley3816]

You are so handsome

[@tm9874]

They absolutely ARE. 😂

[@wrendor9465]

Yes and no i think and believe.

[@pamwu2933]

Wats your moon sign?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Scorpio

[@pamwu2933]

May b tat is why u r so full of depth 😆

[@dannig1719]

@@JonathanRWhitfield you remind me of the person I look for advice as he’s got the same two placements 😂

[@lupression4457]

You look like John Wall

[@mattryan4215]

Alex Stubenrauch he’s a Virgo too

[@kdogg8037]

We are bs detectors 😆

[@AnubisFenrir]

@Salt n Peppa I believe you're telling that you're self to feel strong but here you are on a virgo reading not moving on😂😂😂 see bull shit detected like the brother say we can spot b.s from miles away good day

[@barbss.7578]

...sounds selfish (and crazy).