Are You a FAKE INTROVERT?

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Psych2Go

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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone miss our introvert videos?
@sleepy2259
@sleepy2259 2 жыл бұрын
Me :)
@christywatson5159
@christywatson5159 2 жыл бұрын
Me I miss them
@ChuuMoon777
@ChuuMoon777 2 жыл бұрын
Yessssss I love them!
@ririozilas
@ririozilas 2 жыл бұрын
A LOT 😭😭😭😭😭
@owlsfeather
@owlsfeather 2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@rishibhakhandurie4206
@rishibhakhandurie4206 2 жыл бұрын
That's the weird thing about me, I like being around people but I don't like talking to them, I just like listening. But when we have deep conversations, I am very interested and talk a lot. In front of other introverts, I am an extrovert.
@TheSansationalSans
@TheSansationalSans 2 жыл бұрын
You are probably an ambivert then. They tend to switch between extrovert and introvert depending on who they are around, or the setting.
@xStarz05
@xStarz05 2 жыл бұрын
I connect pretty strongly to that, I'm more of a listener than a talker unless the other person is quiet
@PinkPixelProductions
@PinkPixelProductions 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m and ambivert and this is definitely me
@swapnamahato8619
@swapnamahato8619 2 жыл бұрын
Damn u just described me perfectly which i never could.. that's y now i say I'm a ambivert instead of introvert
@Mushroomfrogbi
@Mushroomfrogbi 2 жыл бұрын
You're probably closer to a social introvert than anything else. (Don't batter me. It's a thing if you follow philosophies of MBTI, even despite the backlash on it. It is useful in these cases) Ambiverts are actually pretty hard to come by and seeing as how you described yourself in different scenarios, you do sound like a valid introvert. I just think some people forget introverts don't necessarily hate conversation or people in general. They just get tired more easily from those situations. Especially when you're forced to talk when someone else's social battery is lower than yours at that moment
@gianna526
@gianna526 2 жыл бұрын
It really frustrates me when people think being introverted means shy, or meek, or completely lacking in any type of social skills. Same when they think extrovert means loud and talkative and looking for attention. Introvert simply means that you recharge by being alone, or doing something calming, and you're generally more thoughtful. Extrovert means you gain energy from being in a busy, fun setting with people, and are usually more energetic and confident. Extroverts can be quiet though, and they can enjoy reading, and introverts can enjoy going to parties, or talking with lots of friends, or being in a loud place. If you seriously hate communicating with all people all the time, it's not just being an introvert. It sounds like you've got an issue.
@riiiotuniverse
@riiiotuniverse 2 жыл бұрын
exactly. i swear almost everyone on the internet calls themselves an introvert. most of them are “introverts, quiet kids who hate people and have no friends”. i just don’t see how that many people are like that. so i’m thinking maybe they just really don’t get the meaning of introverts and extroverts.
@thewitch2810
@thewitch2810 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have social skills I just get tired really fast
@flowerfaerie8931
@flowerfaerie8931 2 жыл бұрын
Fucking THANK YOU. I get along with people just fine. I might not have a lot of friends but I enjoy being with the ones I do have. However, social interactions are draining as hell and I need time to recharge after a day out. That doesn’t mean I don’t like people.
@hsanchezisidora
@hsanchezisidora 2 жыл бұрын
True, I now enjoy socializing, talking to people. Now I understand what a healthy introvert means. Cause it does tires me, but I can get along with a stranger when theres someone I know with me quite fine.
@misskitty285
@misskitty285 2 жыл бұрын
As they say, one can be alone (or lonely) in a room filled with people. I actually like those places, like pubs, theatres or cinemas where there are other people but I don't necessarily have to talk to them - unless I go with someone. But sometimes you can have nice conversations there as well, and know that it's unlikely any more will come of them, especially if you're in a place with lots of tourists.
@gvnlessktchn
@gvnlessktchn 2 жыл бұрын
💖 TIMESTAMPS 💖 ☀️ - 0:24 you prefer being with friends, but you don’t dislike strangers ☁️ - 1:04 you’re spontaneous. 🌙 - 1:34 time a timeout. ☔️ - 2:15 you feel uninspired if you stay home on the weekends. 🌈 - 2:52 you’re equally good at communicating and listening. 💫 - 3:26 you can match the mood of the crowd.
@SillySamWho
@SillySamWho 2 жыл бұрын
@Juji-Gatame Same Lmaoo
@SillySamWho
@SillySamWho 2 жыл бұрын
“You Can Match The Mood Of The Crowd” Now Now, That’s Only Because I Don’t Want To Be Caught /Hj(?)
@trunkstimeyt
@trunkstimeyt 2 жыл бұрын
I like strangers 👍 Good
@trunkstimeyt
@trunkstimeyt 2 жыл бұрын
I can't stand friends after knowing them too well?
@callmeflower6901
@callmeflower6901 2 жыл бұрын
Nop.Still an introvert,i rather hang out with my friends sometimes.Just sometimes.
@sydneypetersen8128
@sydneypetersen8128 2 жыл бұрын
Dang, that one hit home about being an extroverted kid. I was the best at being friends with everyone and tended to be everyone’s best friend when I was young. Because of something that happened since then I have changed so much. I wish I could get my old self back.
@te9591
@te9591 2 жыл бұрын
What happened?
@ke1844
@ke1844 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Helloo298
@Helloo298 2 жыл бұрын
You and everyone else in the world still can. You're getting there with the first step of being aware
@memeleelove
@memeleelove 2 жыл бұрын
same 🥺
@EpicMozamba
@EpicMozamba 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, me
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. 2 жыл бұрын
I think being more isolated these last few years has definitely contributed to me being more of an introvert because I used to be an extrovert. I think I’ll push myself to getting back out into the world and socializing 💛
@psychoweasley5971
@psychoweasley5971 2 жыл бұрын
This was a really nice confirmation that I’m an ambivert- like I wasn’t completely sure that I wasn’t just an introvert, but there’s something comforting about knowing for sure that I’m halfway, a bit of both.
@anuragsosa
@anuragsosa 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I like being alone sometimes. I don't go out much and love to stay in my room by myself all day. But i wouldn't hate going out with my friends somewhere. I don't prefer small talks but I'm ok with talking to strangers with less difficulty. Like i relate to introverts and extroverts.
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV 2 жыл бұрын
This video shouldn't confirm that, watch their others for that.
@psychoweasley5971
@psychoweasley5971 2 жыл бұрын
lol i’ve been watching their vids for years- and yes i have watched loads of their ambivert-related videos, which helped. I was just saying this one helped me to see myself in both introverted behaviors as well as extroverted, but neither extreme
@Unnatijain444
@Unnatijain444 2 жыл бұрын
I hope more people come across videos like these because we need to realize that introversion and extraversion are not black and white but there lies a massive grey area where most of the people identify themselves as a little mix of both. It's very easy to judge and label someone an introvert/extrovert when you first meet them, but remember it can leave an impact on them, questioning their own identity about where do they belong.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@cobracommander8133
@cobracommander8133 2 жыл бұрын
(1) I don’t like being with friends or strangers. I prefer being alone. (2) I like being alone, regardless of it’s at home or not. Traveling alone is WAY better cause I can really get lost in my thoughts and the experience. (3) I didn’t have extroverted tendencies when I was younger. (4) I do lots of things alone during my time off, usually at home. But it’s not just laying around, I make plans and do things I enjoy doing, so I’m not sure where I fall on this one. (5) I prefer listening but I can do both if I have too. (6) Definitely need to analyze the room.
@largbarr1440
@largbarr1440 2 жыл бұрын
you sound so serious
@cobracommander8133
@cobracommander8133 2 жыл бұрын
@@largbarr1440 ok
@melaniemartin4319
@melaniemartin4319 2 жыл бұрын
God!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Very good analysis
@WestbrickFansGotNoBrains
@WestbrickFansGotNoBrains Жыл бұрын
frustrates me that lots of extrovert are pretending to be an introvert. they say "oh im the kind to stay at home when i have nothing to do" i ask them this question "can you see yourself staying at home for 3 months without ever going out" replied "hell no, anything more than 1 week is crazy, but im a introvert" 8/10 i talked to proceed to club and drink every weekend....
@EddyWoon
@EddyWoon 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this great content. Having viewed this video, I am more of an introvert than an ambivert; strangely enough I have little to no fear/discomfort with regards to public speaking. I guess that when I am in a public speaking role, I don't speculate on how the audience may judge me but I do observe their mood, keep my content succinct and add some humour to lighten the general mood.
@escherichanja8522
@escherichanja8522 2 жыл бұрын
Introvert is a type of character, not only what someone does or not. But a superficial world always look at the physical things and can´t or don´t want to look deeper.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
True!
@drinasun6984
@drinasun6984 2 жыл бұрын
I was an extrovert as a kid, but became an introvert when I started school.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Why is that?
@drinasun6984
@drinasun6984 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Because I was naïve, thinking that my classmates were friendly. But I was too fearful to tell them that they were asking too much of me, giving me more requests than I could handle.
@juliuscaesart
@juliuscaesart 2 жыл бұрын
Loving these vids lately. Deep down, most I would argue are ambiverts. It’s been said in the comments already but it is in fact annoying that just because you’re not social 24/7 or want to be around people constantly you’re not outgoing. Sometimes I choose to eat my lunch alone at my work. There also can be extremes with being too isolated or extroverted too.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
@roseunic6799
@roseunic6799 2 жыл бұрын
I been starting to question this myself, really helpful video! ❤
@TakaraStarChan
@TakaraStarChan 2 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert, but I hang out with close friends just about every weekend. However, we are all introverts and tend to just laze around. We don't typically go out much or anything like that. We don't even have to have lots of conversation. We watch movies, stuff our faces, and enjoy each other's company. We have some sporadic intelligent conversation and discussions about our lives in there. But we find a lot of stress relief being around each other. We are all pretty chill and don't place heavy expectations on one another to constantly have chit chat or be super social. I still take plenty of alone time during the week and love it. But, I love having friends that are introverted along with me. We all understand that downtime helps us thrive emotionally, and so we are able to do it together. It's a pretty awesome dynamic, actually.
@jaydenjbryant8665
@jaydenjbryant8665 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had close friends lol
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Glad this works for you :)
@KOmyself
@KOmyself 2 жыл бұрын
number 1: you’re outside having fun
@georgelopes4589
@georgelopes4589 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be incredibly extroverted until high school ended. After that, I became more and more introverted to a point where even the slightest bit of social interaction with a stranger tires me out.
@foxyloon
@foxyloon 2 жыл бұрын
It seems like I'm extroverted, but became ambiverted over time due to life circumstance. I can converse with strangers fairly easily like an extrovert, and I can read a crowd very easily at social gatherings. I'm a somewhat effective communicator, but I can listen and be mindful of what someone says in a conversation as well. On the other hand, I tend to slow down and be analytical when I can, after years of spontaneity causing me more headaches and stress in the long run. I'm not good a "winging it" or "going with the flow", although I had a tendency to when I was younger. Often made a fool out of myself or forgot something important when I did, more often than not. I also relate quite a lot with the third point. I was friendly and sociable by nature from a very young age, but traumatic events throughout my life caused me to become reserved and shy instead. Before I started school, I could walk up to random strangers and start conversations with them at the drop of a hat. I was everybody's friend and surprisingly good at having deep conversations, especially for being as young as I was. I was also a very attentive listener that could easily comprehend the words and advice from others, especially when talking with other adults. That all changed when I started kindergarten. I became a pariah almost immediately. The girls avoided me because I was a boy, but the other boys always ridiculed me for being highly sensitive, being into "baby things" or "girly things" and so on. I got along better with the teachers than I did most of the other kids. That was my story throughout my entire time in school. The teachers all liked me, could tell I was very sharp and intelligent despite struggling with my lessons. Were even quite aware of my good heart and willingness to help where I could in class. I just didn't get along with most of my peers in school at all, probably because they saw me as a teacher's pet by that point. It wasn't until middle school/high school that I started making friends, but I had gone through so many life events that scarred me that I only ever opened up to my teachers or a handful of friends I could trust. Even then I was often guarded around them as well, since I was so different to everybody around me. My only best friend at the time was my dog, but she tragically died in the 7th grade, followed by my grandmother almost exactly a year later. That, on top of my conditioning throughout school, left me deeply scarred and isolated for many years. By high school, I was one of those quiet kids that kept to themselves for most of the day, but would become a pariah over sudden random outbursts that I tried so hard to hold back. Some of those outbursts became gossip around the school, and that was an impressive feat for being in a high school with almost 2000 students. My extroverted side still came out occasionally, enough for the nerds and other weird kids to gravitate to me. Soon the nerd clique of the school formed around me, despite me feeling like I personally didn't belong. I was so emotionally disconnected by that point that I didn't care. I just appreciated the company. Of course all the negative experiences and the mental conditioning I went through during my formative years, on top of several more life events since graduating high school and entering the work force, held me back from being able to form meaningful relationships with people. I was always so guarded, so fearful of others, that I'd fake or dismiss my emotions just to feel accepted. It was only a few years ago that I opened my heart to someone who truly understood me, and I suddenly felt more alive than I'd ever had since I was a kid. That path of self discovery and healing has been the path I've since been on, thankfully. In the past few years I've learned to accept and embrace the power of true love and friendship, and have come out better in the long run for it. I'm starting to find my old self again, too.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this!
@goldola1935
@goldola1935 2 ай бұрын
I like being with friends, especially because they make me happy.
@AtkataffTheAlpha
@AtkataffTheAlpha 2 жыл бұрын
Funny, my mom and I talked about how I'm not really an introvert like over a week ago and I match pretty well every sign in the video besides filling my weekend since I love my recharging weekends
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Cool!
@blackheart8432
@blackheart8432 2 жыл бұрын
I've been aware of this from a long time ago, thanks for this video. My friends always say that I am weird because sometimes I am often quiet but suddenly become someone who likes to tell more than them about something. They also love to talk to me because I love to hear when they talk and answer their every question. Even many often tell me their secrets. I make friends with people of all ages, no matter Young or Old I am happy Spend time at home by reading, drawing, writing and others. But when there are activities that require me to meet people, I'm very happy and excited too...😅😄😃😁
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
@faithfullness5544
@faithfullness5544 2 жыл бұрын
It's funny because when I have no friends I think I'm an introvert, but when I have a friend or two I think I'm an extrovert. I have always had trouble making/keeping friends. When I was younger I'd find myself walking around the playground alone watching all of the other kids play. When I think back on those times I 100% think I'm an introvert. However, when I did have friends I was a very loud and outgoing person who wasn't scared to talk to strangers. Now I am in High school. I had a falling out with my best friend (and only friend) in 2020. Because of my lack of friends I gained depression and a smidge of social anxiety. This caused me to put social interactions, and people in general, in a very negative light and swore that I was definitely an introvert. I just recently got a new job, and a close friend, and I find myself returning to my extroverted self again. I look forward to hanging out with my friend and constantly look for ways to hang out with them, which never happened when I was in my depression. (I had a friend during my friend "hiatus" but they never really satisfied that social need, and gave me major social fatigue for some reason) Now I feel happier and am more willing to express myself through actions and verbally. It feels almost refreshing but still kinda weird and different than what I am used to haha.
@collegebro85
@collegebro85 2 жыл бұрын
I’m definitely an ambivert with a strong lean toward being introverted, no doubt about that. Who doesn’t enjoy staying home with nothing to do and no one to bother you!?
@hakuseigaming
@hakuseigaming 2 жыл бұрын
Narcissist
@blue.robotix
@blue.robotix 2 жыл бұрын
I just don't talk with people unless they talk to me and if I don't know them I try to cut it short
@mikebougiamas3418
@mikebougiamas3418 2 жыл бұрын
I’m introverted, but I do like going out on the weekends. I think I just need that change of scenery.
@kadaverklown
@kadaverklown 2 жыл бұрын
I hate when people think introvert means “UwU shy gworl and absolutely no fucking social skills” I like being around my friends and I’m really talkative if I’m around people with similar interests to mine but if I’m around too many people for too long I’m down for the count and have to recharge for a while So basically going to school drains me
@forgotten_amy
@forgotten_amy 2 жыл бұрын
Omg i just love this videos. They often make me happy and give me good vibes. Just because she is always a so positive person! She really knows how to help people with stress how to give them new hope. 🥰
@jessicamedinger5957
@jessicamedinger5957 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied and isolated as a kid, so that likely caused me to be introverted with some ambivert tendencies (I honestly have no idea if I was ever extroverted to begin with). Socializing isn't a strong skill for me, and unless I'm with close friends it can be really draining (I still get drained around friends, but it doesn't happen as quickly). I have a preference for being alone and just having my days off work to myself. The closest I can get to talking and hanging out with strangers is when I co-op with people in games, and even then I prefer to let others take the lead and just go along for the ride. Working as a cashier helps as well since I can socialize a bit with customers if they're in a talkative mood, and I like to think I get along well with the older regular customers.
@ririozilas
@ririozilas 2 жыл бұрын
i LOVE introvert videos seriously
@Emmie013
@Emmie013 2 жыл бұрын
1. True. I prefer being with friends. I don't dislike strangers, it's just not very easy for me to converse with them right away if I don't have common ground with them. 2. When it comes to my friends, always. You wanna go on a road trip tomorrow? Sure! Wanna go out and drink coffee in the next hour? Count me in! 3. I was an extroverted kid before starting school and bullying begun. 4. Yes, 100%. I feel like I'm wasting time if I stay home alone all weekend. 5. I'm more of a listener. Even though with my friends I know how to communicate well. But with others I'm more of a listener. 6. Maybe. Depends on my current mood. So I'm still not 100% sure what I am. An extroverted introvert? A shy and anxious extrovert? Ambivert who tends to get close to either side depending on the situation? 😅
@hazeletherluna_1296
@hazeletherluna_1296 2 жыл бұрын
I was really confused since lockdown happened being all day at home...,but now I can finally come to a conclusion that I am actually an extrovert
@jilyyyyy.
@jilyyyyy. 2 жыл бұрын
nooooo 🙁 im kinda scared.. what if im extrovert too?..
@actualdragonfly7657
@actualdragonfly7657 2 жыл бұрын
@@jilyyyyy. there is nothing wrong with that, plus is nice to find out more abt yourself
@somelazyguy249
@somelazyguy249 2 жыл бұрын
@@jilyyyyy. u make it sound like the world is extrovertphobic
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
@IcecreamCat23
@IcecreamCat23 2 жыл бұрын
I love social interaction, in fact I crave it all the time-but I get drained by it after a while. It also depends on the day and situation and who I’m with
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Ambivert!
@crazycanine2449
@crazycanine2449 2 жыл бұрын
I love the little faces so cute I love spending time alone and am 100% an introvert but when plans get cancelled I kinda get annoyed cause I like being organised and am not at all go with the flow. Annoyingly my parents are and also annoyingly they always make us go on holidays and I hate that I jus wanna stay home in my own space. Like if u can relate
@anis4373
@anis4373 2 жыл бұрын
My introvert friends keep saying that I’m an extrovert because I show some of the signs but I also get drained from hanging out with people too much :’)
@User-pm7zf
@User-pm7zf 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that i wasn’t INFJ any more but then i realized that i’m still an introvert.
@starm0th
@starm0th 2 жыл бұрын
I am genuinely an introvert lol. I dislike going out. I love having no plans. I only occasionally like hanging out with certain friends. Prefer to lay in bed all day and play my stupid nintendo games. I sometimes make excuses to not go out... whenever I do, I always come back with a migraine or just SUPER exhausted. (I get chronic migraines. I am going to see a doctor in a couple days)
@pedrodelgadillo6865
@pedrodelgadillo6865 2 жыл бұрын
I love listening to people and love talking to people at the same time. I'm more comfortable with my friends obviously and can have more personal and deep conversations but if a stranger and I were to have a deep conversation, I'm all for it. Maybe I just like to have close connections with people and talk deeply with them but idk if other people want deep conversations.
@bells9275
@bells9275 2 жыл бұрын
Introverts watching this just to confirm that we are still introverts🙃
@nyanchix
@nyanchix 2 жыл бұрын
Wow that's great video🥺💕
@craigmerkey8518
@craigmerkey8518 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this examination! As an other learning disabled person, I think my processing and comprehension greatly impacted my early development, as well as a rigid environment steered me in the direction of more introversion, internally I am more of a hybrid.
@betteralphaadvice1567
@betteralphaadvice1567 2 жыл бұрын
You see things. You keep quiet about them and you understand
@corlizzy
@corlizzy 2 жыл бұрын
I always learn new things by watching your videos 🤞you are amazing!
@mortis7851
@mortis7851 2 жыл бұрын
One thing I've learnt from this video: I'M DEFINITELY AN EXTROVERT.
@avidhossanmansur9830
@avidhossanmansur9830 2 жыл бұрын
I would like to break the stigma that introverted people are somehow weaker or meeker than their extroverted peers. Introverts are more caring, conscientious, smart and skilled than the all-talk no action type at least in my experience. Some of the greatest people in history were hard-core introverts. Bill gates is a prime example of a super successful introvert. If you still subscribe to the notion that introverts are shy or meek just look at Captin America, Bruce Banner, or the deadliest introvert Jhon Wick! The characters were purposefully written to show the true potential of an introvert. I admit introverts have a harder time connecting and communicating but that's a skill we all must learn.
@vecoolgaming
@vecoolgaming 2 жыл бұрын
Learn social skills
@wendymuir7818
@wendymuir7818 2 жыл бұрын
I take issue with this video describing introverts as preferring "to stay home in bed all day." That's not introversion. That sounds like depression to me.
@avidhossanmansur9830
@avidhossanmansur9830 2 жыл бұрын
@@wendymuir7818 Yeah I'm quite introverted myself. But I love to do active things like walking with my dog, cooking and gardening. I'd rather work and then go to bed than stay in bed all day that's just being miserable.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Support you!
@avidhossanmansur9830
@avidhossanmansur9830 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Thanks!
@Ominous89
@Ominous89 2 жыл бұрын
I've been introvert for a long long time. I have utterly despised people up to the point of not wanting to have them around anymore. But the things I do, such as drawing, seem to attract people towards me. A lot of acqaintances explained it's not the drawings I make, but I radiate peace whenever I'm busy. Then people start talking and I just join the conversation. Whenever I'm not busy, I really like to listen to the conversation and join it whenever they come up with an interesting subject. I hate it when things get political and the news gets discussed over and over again. I always tell them it's a huge waste of time and effort. It ruins the conversation a lot. And then it is alone time again.
@thoryan3057
@thoryan3057 2 жыл бұрын
95% of me is introverted and 5% is extroverted. However, the 5% of me that is extroverted is denser than that of a typical extrovert. Because of how densely extroverted that 5% of me is, it smooths me out to me being a balanced ambivert. I'm inquisitive, inward thinking, and need a lot of time to rest on my own. But I am adventurous, ambitious, and willing to put myself in the spotlight at times.
@Fernnid0_likes_MBTI
@Fernnid0_likes_MBTI Жыл бұрын
I’m more of a controlled omnivert, I’ll adapt to suit situations, except for public speaking, talking with people I haven’t met before and don’t know whether I’ll like them straight away, starting conversations, and doing things or asking questions bc I irrationally think I’ll get judged wrongly. Those are all things I can’t control
@PJ_335
@PJ_335 2 жыл бұрын
when I am without people, I feel alone and when I am with people, I feel more alone!
@Cherikorx
@Cherikorx 2 жыл бұрын
22 seconds ago 😭 i had to see it cuz im like 53% introvert 47% extrovert
@lairdflitzy8187
@lairdflitzy8187 2 жыл бұрын
These days I am more ambivert and it's thanks to therapy. I think my childhood trauma (which started in my very first on the world) made me a introvert for long time. With help of therapy I overgrown most of my trauma issues, that made me introverted and became more open. Now I notice that I still have my introverted quality's and my introvert moments, but also much more enjoy meet new people and going on advatures.
@this.account.has.no.purpose
@this.account.has.no.purpose 2 жыл бұрын
yeah…. I am DEFINITELY an introvert…. I don’t even like being with my friends sometimes…
@tinabillingham
@tinabillingham 2 жыл бұрын
Same😊
@sonnatine
@sonnatine 2 жыл бұрын
number 3 really hit home for me... as a kid i was very outgoing and was often talking to strangers and making friends everywhere but once i got into elementary and started getting bullied i starting pulling back and keeping to myself. funnily enough a few years ago when i started going to therapy, my therapist told me on one of our first sessions that I needed to go and make 10 friends at work and I had two weeks to do so. Obviously I was panicking but I ended up coming back with 7 names and their career plans... this was when she revealed to me I was an extrovert but the stuff that happened to me growing up made me shy away from people. Since then I've been working of portraying myself as confident as I was aa a child, which was truly the most "me" I've ever been.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching our vids!
@lone_Outcast
@lone_Outcast 2 жыл бұрын
For me I'm honestly an introvert,I've tested it many times over and over and now ik where I stand which is an introvert
@andyc9902
@andyc9902 2 жыл бұрын
I am not Introvert. I am selectively Social.
@SuneaterYT
@SuneaterYT 2 жыл бұрын
For my entire childhood, I thought extroverted people were a TV thing and whenever kids would hang out with others it was because they felt forced to. I kinda just recently learnt that's not the case, lol.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@GiangoPT
@GiangoPT 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sure of just one thing, the more videos you make the more confuse I am about myself 🤣🤣🤣
@RinLikesFish
@RinLikesFish 2 жыл бұрын
This video confirmed that yes, I am 100% an introvert and there is no way I’m an extrovert. 😂
@yes-eq4ze
@yes-eq4ze 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 100% an introvert
@anne16.
@anne16. 2 жыл бұрын
I think I'm in the middle of being introvert and extrovert. I can do all of them and I can't do all of them too, it depends on the situation and type of people. For example , when I meet strangers who has the same view as me then I would really get along with them really well, but if I meet someone who is way out of my league then silence is to be expected from me.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Cool!!
@sambamnoham9946
@sambamnoham9946 2 жыл бұрын
Great video 👍🏼🤸🏽‍♀️
@Spring_Chime
@Spring_Chime 2 жыл бұрын
I can get so confident that I am an introvert to the point where I start to wonder if I'm actually an extrovert Even though I know that I am truly an introvert
@katzenichtgefunden1379
@katzenichtgefunden1379 2 жыл бұрын
vielen Dank für dieses Video ❤
@gamerpanda9666
@gamerpanda9666 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot talk to strangers or people I barely know or even family members but to pretty close friends like my one friend I've known for 13 years by now which is enough socializing for me :)
@djlongshanks1719
@djlongshanks1719 2 жыл бұрын
just saw this 19s after it’s uploaded glad to be early thanks for the vid
@victoriawilliams7882
@victoriawilliams7882 2 жыл бұрын
I’m either a really ‘mild’ introvert or an ambivert and now I’m more confused
@zosiabosia8769
@zosiabosia8769 Жыл бұрын
2:15 I only just realized that might be a (maybe small) part of the reason that introverts love rain since yk plans sometimes have to get cancelled because of the weather and even if there aren't any plans, likely any won't be made
@sairaatwal
@sairaatwal 2 жыл бұрын
These cartoons are so cute! I remember being a joker in school then that changed and I went introverted in high school and throughout my 20's. I'm becoming more extroverted through life lessons. The problem is I attract damaged people which I'm working on. I' truly an extrovert at heart but it got lost along the way through damaged people draining my humour and fun. Its complex! I'm an ambivert now 😄
@thomaslevy2119
@thomaslevy2119 2 жыл бұрын
I learned that I was and still am an introverted introvert.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
How do you feel about this? No right or wrong answers :)
@thomaslevy2119
@thomaslevy2119 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go It seems being an introvert was both forced upon me by society and a genetic part of who I am that can't be changed because I am on the autism spectrum and all that implies.
@deputyrook6232
@deputyrook6232 2 жыл бұрын
1) I would rather not even be with my friends 2) not really, no. i second guess most the things i do 3) yes. don't really want to elaborate further 4) nope, love staying home one the weekends 5) kind of? i know how to listen but communicating generally is a bit (lot) more complicated 6) i like to not be in the crowd, thank you
@valky6549
@valky6549 2 жыл бұрын
i needed this after a mate made me question if i was actually an introvert or just forcing it (???) truth is i understand why he would doubt it, i'm good at talking to him, and this is just because we never do small talk, he thinks me knowing about other people's lifes is connected to being an extrovert but i don't see it that way because it took me so much time to get there, it was actually pretty hard for me to approach some of these people and get to know them, now the thing is i just made a lot of questions but didn't exactly talk about myself unless i felt related to it or actually connected with them, so... he really made me go through a big mental breakdown and made me doubt myself, and somehow it striked a nerve because tbh i like being an introvert and knowing i fit somewhere with people who understand the feeling of it. i don't know if anyone had to go through this but to others please understand that being an introvert is not necessarily not to speak to anyone or not being loud sometimes (mostly when you're with the right people) or not having energy at all. yes, sometimes we do need space to recharge, or we want to be calm (no, we're not angry or sad if we're quiet guys!) but that is part of it all, just try to understand and stop questioning everything little thing we do. i really needed to vent it somewhere, i'm sorry.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
We hear you. This is a safe space
@irregulargamer1352
@irregulargamer1352 2 жыл бұрын
Lot of people really need to watch this
@elh3398
@elh3398 2 жыл бұрын
This video sums up my bipolar mood fluctuations, I’m one or the other dependent on whether I’m on an upper or downer
@Szylepiel
@Szylepiel 2 жыл бұрын
Okay, I am still introverted.
@Phane02
@Phane02 2 жыл бұрын
Super Loners need their own category. Those of us who don't like hanging around or interacting with any people, at all. The only time you leave the house is work, food, and shopping; otherwise you're home 95% of the time. To everyone else you are boring, while you are never bored. You have an entire imaginary family, spouse and children all in your head, but don't want to deal with actual people interfering with your inner-minded social life.
@gianna526
@gianna526 2 жыл бұрын
Idk if that's a normal personality trait. Humans usually need some type of real human interaction, and while I'm not gonna diagnose you or anything, but that sounds like some kinda issue that you may want to figure out. You do have to accept reality and leave the world you've created in your head at some point, you're not existing in the same existence everyone else is, and that's where you really are and need to be grounded in most of the time. Sure everyone has imaginary things, and it's totally fine to daydream and whatnot every now and again, but if you live in a different world that's not really normal or healthy.
@k-popkim8311
@k-popkim8311 2 жыл бұрын
I am introvert I like to go out on trips but alone I don't like to talk with someone so much
@iamgoddessoflove
@iamgoddessoflove 2 жыл бұрын
There should be no excuses for staying in a relationship with someone that puts you through more stress and pain over love and joy. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@Brittishh
@Brittishh 2 жыл бұрын
This vid is really the opposite of me cuz I’m an introvert
@jonathanforsyth8422
@jonathanforsyth8422 2 жыл бұрын
Me too.🙂
@Choppy_Z
@Choppy_Z 2 жыл бұрын
I'm introverted, and lately I've been trying to force myself to act out of character and socialize with strangers, hang out with people more often etc. It does help making some situations less awkward (unless the other guy is also introverted, which may not change anything or even increase the awkwardness), the problem is that when I do it is very tiring, it takes all my mental strength to socialize or have a simple conversation with a stranger or even someone which I don't know well. Do you think it's a good idea and I should keep it up or should I stop?
@MOVIES-gq4oy
@MOVIES-gq4oy 2 жыл бұрын
Same situation bro. I would say that you should keep trying, but don't stress yourself. If you feel that you're not interested or don't need to talk to a certain person, then don't do it, that will only drain your energy and probably will make you more introverted. But if you really wanna talk to someone but you feel too shy or uncomfortable, then try to overcome yourself. That's what I do usually
@Silly_lil_scribbles
@Silly_lil_scribbles 2 жыл бұрын
I have too, and I think it’s fine as long as you aren’t stressing yourself too much :)
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Whatever makes you feel comfortable but also confident!
@j19l8r4
@j19l8r4 2 жыл бұрын
The third one hit me ngl
@teegutta4689
@teegutta4689 2 жыл бұрын
HEY GOOD MORNING FAMILY, FRIENDS I JUST STOPPED BY TO SAY HELLO AND THANK YOU FOR ALL THE HELPFUL VIDEO. TEE PHILLY 💪 💙
@hud3486
@hud3486 2 жыл бұрын
I used to think I am introvert because I don't talk much but turns out I just love observing people and love peace. Also my mental illness makes me insecure. The anxiety and all. but I am extrovert when people told me to speak in front of people, making new friends, and start the chat
@banant5620
@banant5620 2 жыл бұрын
What I find really weird about my introverted side is that it appears like suddenly after one night. I still remember it. Was talking to friends very loud like usual and then the next day I was silent which intrigued some people. Tbh, I too don't know wtf happened. I went to sleep and my brain said "introvert you are" One thing about my current status with friends, they come and go. Everytime this happens I think "Man, I wish I had a best friend that will always go to me to hang out". Of course, I adapted and learned to push aside negative thoughts (Now even the big feels, very nice) This made socializing with strangers a bit more preferable for me. I know they will come and go and they don't really have an effect on my daily life
@rebeccaliew2247
@rebeccaliew2247 2 жыл бұрын
Used to be more Extrovert than Ambivert (mid-point between Extrovert & Introvert). Until I realised I attracted narcissistic people into my life, I became more Introvert. Especially when trying to heal from broken hearts after I got discarded by a narcisssist or I found them out & pull the plug first. I healed enough to be able to socialise again but I find that spending time with myself more than with people is much preferable, a.k.a. I suppose I'm Ambivert now.
@xsvstxr
@xsvstxr 2 жыл бұрын
1. yes and no 2. yes 3. yes 4. yes and no 5. yes 6. sometimes
@VioletyV
@VioletyV 2 жыл бұрын
I can talk to strangers for a long time. But the problem is that I'm not good at starting any conversations.
@ilovecatfoood
@ilovecatfoood 2 жыл бұрын
1✅ 2❔ 3✅ 4✅ but i don’t have friends so im always alone home weekends 5✅ 6❌❔ my social energy is more chaotic, maybe i just enjoy being with people but im used to being alone
@wilfredluttmer15
@wilfredluttmer15 2 жыл бұрын
You 're characters are so cute!
@myribstellmesheslying
@myribstellmesheslying 2 жыл бұрын
I don't like being around other people. When I'm alone, I dread the time when my housemates come home. This video further proves that I AM an introvert.
@Illvzion
@Illvzion 2 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert but when I want to say something really bad in a situation it might come out a little aggressive, however I have a laughter defense mech so right after I’ll just killer smile and laugh at it
@myawishesuwell7605
@myawishesuwell7605 2 жыл бұрын
Heads or tails. Let me have the strength in spirit n emotion to mirror others through love
@Mar-gb6sh
@Mar-gb6sh 2 жыл бұрын
I need to work on my social skills and have social anxiety 😅
@jamie746
@jamie746 2 жыл бұрын
introvert among extroverts, extrovert among introverts.
@NotZoomAtAll
@NotZoomAtAll 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I am an introvert anymore, cuz I like talking to people, it makes me feel good I would like to have friends but I just don't. Every time I Have someone to talk to, I have nothing to say so I keep losing the opportunity to make at least something like a friend... literally the last time I remember I had "friends" was when I was in 3rd grade... Now I basically just watch other people having friends and tbh I envy them...
@theyeetedone3247
@theyeetedone3247 2 жыл бұрын
I only like talking to friends and family. When I’m around strangers I usually try to avoid eye contact and talking. I tend to search for someone I know so no one starts talking to me and I can just stand beside the other person. Mostly I like doing something with just one partikular friend of mine. So after all: I’m an Introvert
@mikistrawberri
@mikistrawberri Жыл бұрын
When I was a kid, I did played with other kids (mainly my cousins). But then i'll ended up sitting things out for a while before getting back in the game. There were times i was forced to go outside.😂
@ABCD-bl5rw
@ABCD-bl5rw 2 жыл бұрын
"everyone enjoys hanging out with friends"
@aaliyahcookie9740
@aaliyahcookie9740 2 жыл бұрын
I am always perceived as an introvert by my friends and I thought it was true, I get tired quickly of conversation, I am not very keen on talking and all that stereotypical stuff. But I came to a realisation a long time ago. I am in fact not an introvert. I just don’t like my friends and everyone around me right now💀
@user-qx9oe2cm4c
@user-qx9oe2cm4c 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to #3 because I use to know every one in my school and was basically friends with every one or at least talked to them while now I only have a group of friends and like to distance myself from others because of something that happed back then.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching our vids!
@kanatapaw
@kanatapaw 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be an extrovert. natrully I am but I became a introvert because of sociaty and journey in life.
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