Are You Giving The Same Amount of Energy to Men as the Mammies Ya'll Hate?

[@sequanamo3]

Because where you put your energy is where your energy will be 🙌🏽

[@rhoka27]

Synchronicity. I was just thinking about how I've been spending WAAAY too much time consuming these 2hr videos when I said to myself that this would be the year I'm supposed to be making my first million.

[@DanielleLavirgo]

Yessssssss! 💰🤑💕✨

[@schristine159]

This is why I left divest Twitter, I just stay in KZbin now. They would get into diaspora wars and cut you down if you didn’t wear natural hair. It was sad and ghetto over there 😕

[@myfriendjenonline7831]

That’s Twitter for you! 😂

[@PrettiestGemini]

Yes they talk so bad about the Black women who don’t conform to their every standard and I’ve called it out multiple times. Just because we are like-minded doesn’t mean we all literally have the same mind.

[@majesticgirlgames]

Twitter is where good movements go to die!!! All I see is divested women on twitter harassing black women who don’t fit the standard.

[@ririp5865]

I see what you're saying. I'm 19 and starting to divest and still finding it hard to receive positive energy and focus on subjects that bring me peace. I appreciate your focus on individualism and doing things that specifically help yourself.

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

I think the biggest belligerent types are the exmammies who had kids with black men and still have to deal with them.... Maybe that's where it's coming from. Because personally as someone like you with no connection to black men I do not care about their flaws like that. As it's not my problem I think different types of divestors live different types of lives

[@jenni1085]

I think exposing blackistan manipulation and leveling up are both needed in this divestment movement. I didn't become divested until I watched msarchduchess and divested zealot. I realized that I could not participate in blackistan dysfunction anymore and I needed to improve myself such as not wearing bonnets outside (lol) or serving people that serve me (ex. Not marching for BM), that's where the leveling up content comes to play.

[@jenni1085]

I get what you're saying about overconsuming the content, however.

[@DanielleLavirgo]

Thats a good question? I need a whole video on that!

[@DanielleLavirgo]

Its all important but just be sure you get to the place where you don’t need divestment videos to fuel your reasons. It need to be for you and not out of anger. Anger is a great tool to fuel change but if ppl stew in it they won’t grow and naturally will give attention to things that doesn’t serve them. Which is the point of being divested in the first place. The content creators are helping but they can’t fix you only stir the pot like I’m doing to get you to keep moving forward. Eventually you will be able to consume the content out of entertainment not emotion. I help teach a particular skill and that is to keep your emotions in control so you can think clearly 💕✨

[@jenni1085]

@@DanielleLavirgo Yes your right. I only consume the content for entertainment now but I truly do feel like those content are needed for newbies who may not be aware or need a new perspective. I would enjoy your video on this topic if you chose to pursue it. Thx ❤️

[@peacebrooks4230]

Anger begets anger, divesting begets growth.

[@antiableism]

Period!! I always ask why these channels dont talk about other things under divestment. There is so many topics that deals with divestment instead of just complaining about dusties.

[@eriririiii]

I’m so happy I found your channel. Subscribed

[@bw753]

Hi Danielle, I'm really looking forward to your new podcast. Thx for the reality check: "where your attention goes, there it will be". Whewww as usual, the Virgo straightforwardness jumped out 👸🏾

[@DanielleLavirgo]

💕💕💕

[@kdyall26]

I was wondering if it was just me I am all for venting your frustrations and letting that unhealthy energy out. However some people who are "divested" spend too much time harping on mammies and dustmites. Started to consume this content less and less especially when they started "self imploding" and started beefs with each other. I am tired of drama which is why I am reducing some of consumption of that content. I appreciate what they have done and will support some from time to time but I also have to preserve my soul to continue my personal healing and divestment process

[@DanielleLavirgo]

Just caught wind of drama, want no parts of it.

[@godislove7410]

Can I have some advice? How can you feel so happy with all this hate we get

[@Peacebewithu34]

You have to not focus too much on the hate. Life is too short to focus on misery. You have to focus on self care, meditation, explore your hobbies, watch positive videos, and have fun. If we focus too much hate, it will grow insecurities and life will not be much fun. I'm telling you enjoy life as if is your last days. Yesterday is history, today is present and tomorrow is a mystery.

[@DanielleLavirgo]

I don’t care. Do you, get selfish and keep how you feel to yourself unless its to like minded women. The shock value about how the black community think about black women who are “divesting” should be old news and if you only focus on what’s benefiting you to grow you won’t have time to care. Thats why i think it’s important to get to a place where consuming content about the black community should be almost non existent. You will filter out the haters and push back. But if you keep watching it you’ll be stuck in that algorithm. Also eventually stop talking about how you feel about black men and their mammies it gives them energy and they give it right back. Laugh at them and their shenanigans and keep it pushing. Hope that helps!

[@godislove7410]

@@DanielleLavirgo thank u so much

[@myfriendjenonline7831]

First find something you really like or love then dive into it. For example yoga or cooking or anime. Watch those videos to get out of the KZbin algorithm spiral of gloom. If you want to occasionally peek and see what the haters are up to, create a second profile and just peek once in a while but don’t troll over there, just watch the circus, don’t join it. And get off Twitter. Like most of us the hate is really online so take a break often.

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

To me I fear that telling white men this makes it seem like we don't like white men we just hate black men if all we do is complain about black men. We don't really love white men if all we care about is what black men are doing. To me all I care about is black men on the level of being black and discrimination if it affects me. Other than that my concern is nt them nor do I have anger for these people.

[@DanielleLavirgo]

Exactly

[@preciouslizzie]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

I like that about your channel that it is about leveling up one's life because that's more important than any man that's the value I find in your channel

[@charisnicole]

This is truth 🙌🏾 thank you for this

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

I really don't need the harsh truth about black men since I don't want them but I feel maybe those channels are trying to change the minds of mammies? I would feel that white man didn't like me at all if all he complained about was white women. Because I feel like if he's focused on her and angry her that means at one point he prefered and it didn't work well all he needs is it to work with some white woman and I'm out of the picture therefore I wouldn't want anything to do with him

[@RickyManner]

How can I get you on one of my podcasts?

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

yeah my thing is everyone assumes when you complain about men and dating that you're talking about black men I never get it I have complained about men over and over and over again about how I don't want certain men but it had nothing to do with black men it was actually about hispanic and white men who were of low value. In leveling up we are supposed to be leveling up so bad behavior is bad behavior for me seeing that I'm not attracted to black men I am not considering or talking about such men That's what I hate is the assumption that any topic about men goes straight back to black men as if they own us or something. Like can black women talk about men without black men coming up it shouldn't have to be every tie we specify talking about men that they are not black more importantly is who the man is and if he's a good fit for you. That's annoying that many divestors act just like the ppl from the bc who automatically revert to black men. If race isn't specified

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

I agree I feel fake divestors for examples can be male or female..... Js

[@divestedkonservativekarame4269]

My thing in the level of is getting past low class men. That's my thing not black men low class that's my sgtruggle and I don't cry about it or complain about it that often I know that I need to work on myself to get better results.