Are You Struggling to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship? Find Out Why

Why Do Narcissists Make Leaving a Relationship Feel Like Climbing Mount Everest?
Leaving a relationship with a narcissist is not easy. It's a road packed with traumatic experiences, manipulation, and the huge working of regaining your autonomy. This video goes deeply into the complicated process of leaving a narcissistic relationship, providing insights, support, and direction for anyone going through this difficult journey.
🚪 00:00 - The Harsh Reality of Leaving a Narcissist
Discover the psychological barriers that make leaving a narcissist so challenging, including the fear of their change with the next partner and the harsh reality of their quick move to new relationships, leaving a trail of pain and abandonment.
🌪️ 02:28 - Navigating the Cycle of Hoovering and Love Bombing
Learn about the manipulation tactics narcissists use to pull you back in, such as hoovering and love bombing, and understand the emotional impact of these cycles on the victim.
🐒 03:28 - The Impact of Flying Monkeys and Narcissist's Vindictiveness
Uncover the tactics narcissists use to manipulate those around them against the victim, the challenges of dealing with vindictiveness, and the fear of social alienation and retaliation.
💔 04:27 - The Role of Couples Therapy and Strategies for Exiting
Explore the difficulties of engaging in couples therapy with a narcissist and the essential steps required to safely exit the relationship, highlighting the importance of legal considerations and the slow, necessary process towards recovery.
🎭 05:53 - The Emotional Aftermath of Narcissistic Abandonment
Understand the emotional aftermath of being left by a narcissist, including feelings of rejection and betrayal, and strategies to navigate the complex healing process.
This video is a must-watch for anyone looking to understand more about the psychological and emotional dynamics of leaving a narcissistic relationship. Whether you're considering leaving, in the process of leaving, or recovering from a narcissistic relationship, this video offers valuable insights and support.
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Are you struggling in a narcissistic relationship? Find out why it's so hard to leave, how to recognize hoovering tactics, and the importance of escaping a toxic situation for your mental health and well-being. Don't suffer in silence, learn how to protect yourself and break free from the cycle. #mentalhealthawareness, #narcissisticrelationship, #NarcissisticRelationship, #LeavingANarcissist, #Hoovering, #LoveBombing, #FlyingMonkeys, #CouplesTherapyChallenges, #EmotionalImpactOfLeaving,

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One thing our parents seem to be failing at how a man is supposed to treat a woman and how a woman is supposed to treat a man. I think the educational system is upside down. with AI assistant a laptop and an environment at home or at the library with oversight making sure the kids are doing their class assignments. that means that AI assigned to your child would report to the parent the accomplishments the student is making concerning homework. Then the educational system could be transformed into social development teaching dancing, sports role-playing maybe theater plays art wouldn’t be so many kids feeling they were left out in someway.

[@yourinnerchildmatters]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this important topic. It's true that there's a lot to be improved in teaching respect and social skills. bless you

[@danmalone5365]

Being traumatized over and over a persons ability to feel free listen to music and dance is gone. I was an old man before I was 10 years old. I was frozen I couldn’t bounce a ball I couldn’t dance I didn’t even know what kind of music I liked I didn’t even know what color I liked when I was 10 years old. About that same time walking home I went through an alley and there was these chickens that were still inside a cage that had fallen off the truck as they were being loaded into the warehouse to be slaughtered. So I opened the cage to let them go and they just laid there on the ground they had been institutionalized like me they longer had the desire to be free. The reality of it was they were sitting in the cage for so long just laying eggs their legs quit working. But that was my thought at the time how people get so traumatized they are no longer free they need to be told what to do. When Mary Poppins came out in 1963 or 1964 I think I was 11 years old. The actor Dick Van Dyke used chalk to draw a picture on sidewalk then they jumped into it. I remember that’s where I wanted to jump into the picture with them never to return to this World. A person could argue at this point well this sounds like a grandiose story if I ever heard one trying to get sympathy. Which tells me just about anything a person may have experienced in their life. could be considered grandiose my experience being traumatized is worse than anybody else’s in the world to gain attention. Personally I don’t give a damn I paid my dues now I am free.

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I appreciate you opening up and sharing your journey with us. It takes courage to speak about past traumas. thank you so much, as always!

[@danmalone5365]

Seems like all the relationships. Although there were very few were messed up. My first wife. We just bought our first home. We had two young children. I had a job and the future was in front of us of what could be. I was in Barstow, California in a 3 week telecommunication class. My wife waited until I left. Then calls me in the middle of my class. Said she was going to divorce me. I had no clue so they let me go early from class flew back home she picked me up at the airport when we arrive home. All my so-called friends were emptying the house out of all our furniture. She already had an apartment saying I think we need some quality time by separating. What a bullshit line. She was having an affair with somebody else and if I hadn't walked in on the situation. Real-time witnessing with my own eyes in a traumatic way things you don't want to see. I probably would never have believed anyone trying to tell me the obvious. This is why I don't carry concealed weapons, because in that one sec of insanity I would have shot them both dead. Then spent the rest of my life in prison. Or been executed, which probably would've been a better deal. While writing this little story reminded me of my mom. She told me if she ever lost her my mind. She wanted me to shoot her. I want you to promise me you will shoot me. Then I said what about me. I'll end up spending the rest of my life in prison. She just looked at me as if she never thought about the consequences. My mom and dad fought fought it seemed like every day, mostly verbal. After my mom turned 40, when she started to wake up to my dad's abusive manner. When I was much younger I guess they were in physical and verbal fights. I don't remember I guess my mind turned off. Because I couldn't remember those situations. But my younger brother who was right there with me told me a completely different story. You mean you don't remember all the furniture being broken dad was cussing mom out all kinds of yelling and screaming. No, so I guess my mind just kind of went bye-bye, during those times. In the end, my mom did lose her mind. I remember distinctly the day she was no longer with us. She was sitting on the couch with my dad. Leaning next to my dad stating what a wonderful husband I have. That's when I knew my mom was no longer with us. She died from diabetes, liver failure, she smoked used prescription pills wrongly and all the wrong foods, suffering with obesity trying to regulate her own emotional state of depression and hopelessness. Pay me now or pay me later. One thing's for sure you will pay.

[@yourinnerchildmatters]

I appreciate you opening up about your experiences. thank you

[@danmalone5365]

Before you leave could you at least tell me what I did wrong just a few examples. 14 years to understand I was an old man before I was 10 years old traumatized over and over you know longer are free to dance to listen to music to play spontaneously. You are frozen into a conditioned performance meeting the needs of others expectations.

[@yourinnerchildmatters]

I appreciate your honesty and openness in sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you've been through a lot, and I hope things get better for you. You deserve it, bless you!

[@danmalone5365]

The smartest move I ever made was stay out of relationships. Until I reconciled my past, no relationship would've worked at least a quality one. Sometimes taking the long road is necessary for some of us in order to break the chains of shame that keeps us from self-discovery. Shame had a hold on my soul my spirit. I had to stand still for long time. In order to understand the most simplest things. What most people just take for granted. It's our birthright our inheritance being capable of being loved and giving love. The fires of chaos burn the opportunity for people to escape, those who do the smell of smoke remains for a long time.@@yourinnerchildmatters