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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@shanepruitt2715
@shanepruitt2715 4 жыл бұрын
“A man knows very well what he is doing and is taking a chance because he is willing to lose you.” TG A word and a sermon! 👏🏾
@disnalee
@disnalee 3 жыл бұрын
Yes if he wants you he never leave you for anything!!! Love yourself. Thank you.
@teecee1678
@teecee1678 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@m.e.5446
@m.e.5446 4 жыл бұрын
Why does it have to be a game though?! Why can't people just be real and true and honest with each other....
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! We need more honest and genuine people in this world. There’s too many game players just manipulative and ego driven
@Mirror_My_Ambition
@Mirror_My_Ambition 4 жыл бұрын
Because most ppl don't even know their OWN truth and aren't HONEST with themselves. As a result, they play games..sad but true
@belitr5915
@belitr5915 4 жыл бұрын
That's too much like right.
@go_off_Sis
@go_off_Sis 4 жыл бұрын
Ask it LOUDER 💯😩
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 4 жыл бұрын
YES!!!’n Say it louder so they can hear 👂🏾 you in the back!!!!!!
@mzbattle1210
@mzbattle1210 4 жыл бұрын
So true, I walked away from my kid's father after 10 years. Although I am a single mother, I now have a great credit score. My hair has grown longer than it ever was the entire time I was with him. my children are happy we feel safe and at peace. We are our children's 1st. teachers ladies let's STOP teaching them it's ok to be miserable.
@chrissy1448
@chrissy1448 4 жыл бұрын
There is no better example than a healthy mom...period... Keep thriving!
@blinghelmetsllc2439
@blinghelmetsllc2439 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@Virtual.x.Bestie
@Virtual.x.Bestie 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@sunshinerays8960
@sunshinerays8960 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am.. My skin got brighter from the dullness and hair stop falling out.. Glad for you and all of us that had to learn and grow. But got strong and now have a peace of mind!!
@takingbackmypower9859
@takingbackmypower9859 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you I’m in progress now after 8years you’re right my kids don’t need to keep seeing me sad and the cheating wasn’t stopping.
@denisedean8503
@denisedean8503 4 жыл бұрын
A peace of mind it's worth being single.
@trendafernandez2378
@trendafernandez2378 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@mzlove4121
@mzlove4121 4 жыл бұрын
Whew! TRUTH! Wish it was a 1000 button! 😂
@3D3LIA
@3D3LIA 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽💯
@vanessachambers697
@vanessachambers697 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed 😊
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
Facts..exactly
@Pinkdiamond12
@Pinkdiamond12 4 жыл бұрын
Women need to listen to their intuition and use those 3 words "got to go".
@rosagreene4364
@rosagreene4364 4 жыл бұрын
Tony: “Hey Hey” Me: *hits the like button*
@kikic7637
@kikic7637 4 жыл бұрын
Same😁
@loveofmylifedance
@loveofmylifedance 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, truly!!
@lizzylewis5793
@lizzylewis5793 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@YourtrustedREAgent
@YourtrustedREAgent 4 жыл бұрын
Always
@mirarizqah
@mirarizqah 4 жыл бұрын
Popin in~
@erynd.9911
@erynd.9911 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t ignore the red flags 🚩 sis! What you ignore and disregard right now will be the very thing that causes discord later on! I learned my lesson with ignoring the red flags smh.
@shutit4024
@shutit4024 3 жыл бұрын
Oh same here and it ended badly and boy have I wished I would of called out them red flags
@terrybrown7510
@terrybrown7510 3 жыл бұрын
So so true! 💯💯
@Dragonfly_magictarot
@Dragonfly_magictarot 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@brittblessed
@brittblessed 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@sharonsavage5596
@sharonsavage5596 4 жыл бұрын
10hrs and he knows u are the one, for convenience or marriage. That hit me like SMASH 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾 pow 💥
@sharonsavage5596
@sharonsavage5596 3 жыл бұрын
@@yemedemure414 sis i was born with that name and God has blessed me with a father that was born with that name and a mother that was proud of that name cause she was a Savage for Christ so it has been thru the test of time. I would like to Add that I’m Savage for God” my maiden name is one that I’m proud of cause its made me into a strong, positive, and resilient woman of God. When the right man come into my life only then will i consider changing it. Stay blessed my sista 🙏🏾 sister Love 💯❤️👍🏾
@tulip4169
@tulip4169 4 жыл бұрын
I can attest that when you make a commitment to live your life for God and a life of standards, it can be very lonely.
@Korrun1
@Korrun1 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@JustBeYouTy
@JustBeYouTy 4 жыл бұрын
Yup.
@veelove2226
@veelove2226 4 жыл бұрын
It can be but I would rather be lonely and have peace and happiness, trust me I completely understand 🙏🏾
@michellebarnum8465
@michellebarnum8465 4 жыл бұрын
It can be lonely, but look at it from the perspective that maybe God is protecting you because he knew what was going to happen down the line.
@vanessalandry9763
@vanessalandry9763 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss very lonely...so I have become my own BEST FRIEND. When I get weary of being to myself then I just start praying and God cradles me in His loving arms and rocks me and redirects my thoughts.😊
@jewelsafire6844
@jewelsafire6844 4 жыл бұрын
If a man can't even show and return the love a woman is giving him, don't need any other reason to bounce. Enough is enough!👌🏽✌🏽
@jackiemcbride833
@jackiemcbride833 4 жыл бұрын
Leave when he won't commit.
@silviapalomba9946
@silviapalomba9946 4 жыл бұрын
He left me for the one he cheated me on,she dumped him after two years of them been together,he wanted her back she left and he back to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and asking me why I'm so upset about he just done a mistake ,so I said if she never left you ,you never back to me and you know what the manipulative man says that I should not think like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wish him to go to hell,I never took him back he can propose beg wherever I will never again love him again or even look to him as man or have respect for him.
@alicehardy8040
@alicehardy8040 4 жыл бұрын
Love Yourself first
@genj1184
@genj1184 4 жыл бұрын
exactly! if she never left you, you wouldn’t be here begging me. i went through the exact same! goodbyeeee
@my.0224
@my.0224 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾🖐🏾👊🏾
@veelove2226
@veelove2226 4 жыл бұрын
They try to come back after being dumped so glad you moved on it’s someone better for you! 🙏🏾
@schoolwork232
@schoolwork232 3 жыл бұрын
You are a smart woman Silvia...God bless you!
@carolyn4realife
@carolyn4realife 4 жыл бұрын
I'm one of your single 50 plus listeners. One question I've learned to ask myself when I was actively dating is, if I was ill, would I want this person at my bedside making important decisions for me or would I want to be at his bedside? Most cases it was a no both ways for me. "Gat to go".
@LaSultrySoul
@LaSultrySoul 4 жыл бұрын
That's a good question I think different ages different stages and when you at a certain stage in life uneccsary disruptions is just not nessary.
@carolyn4realife
@carolyn4realife 3 жыл бұрын
@@LaSultrySoul The sooner you learn and practice discernment on which situations are advantageous for you will only benefit you at any stage of life. Unfortunately for me, there was no KZbin with hundreds of videos. Even with that you have to vet who and what you are listening too. Mr. Gaskin has made it more than clear, some of us are sheep in middle of wolves. Happy to see his cup runneth over.
@LaSultrySoul
@LaSultrySoul 3 жыл бұрын
@@carolyn4realife Agreed 🤗
@cw6045
@cw6045 3 жыл бұрын
I'm closer to 60 than 50 and I am using that same concept for discernment...would he take off work to take me to/from a colonoscopy (let's be real)? I knew it was over when my husband of 30+ years would not do this for me, even though, of course, I did it for him. I'm loving my freedom...if God says I'm to be single the rest of my life, I will be alright!
@allthingsmelanietj5545
@allthingsmelanietj5545 3 жыл бұрын
@carolyn urdy your comment blessed me!!!!!!!
@elatyriaf100
@elatyriaf100 4 жыл бұрын
Never take a man bk if he left you
@darkskinisalwaysin
@darkskinisalwaysin 4 жыл бұрын
... spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and/or financially. Nope, don’t and never do it. Keep it moving forward. Never look back.
@MsLibra-fo8tw
@MsLibra-fo8tw 4 жыл бұрын
Never, never and I mean never!!
@JustBeYouTy
@JustBeYouTy 4 жыл бұрын
What if you’re married? Shouldn’t you reconcile?
@tlashai9902
@tlashai9902 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah because he will do it again.
@michelleclay4749
@michelleclay4749 3 жыл бұрын
WOMEN...PLEASE LISTEN TO. TONY....HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH..IVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT...AND WASTED SO MUCH TIME AND YEARS...BELIEVE ME IF HE LEAVES YOU DO NOT..DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..IM JUST LIKE PAUL WILLIAMS WHO LEAD THIS SONG WITH. MOTOWN RECORDS GROUP THE TEMPTATIONS.."DONT LOOK BACK"...I LISTEN TO THAT SONG..ALL OF THE TIME..VERY UPLIFTING SONG BY THE TEMPTATIONS....I LOVE THE VERSION OF THE SONG THATS ON THE TEMPTATIONS LIVE ALBUM WHICH IS ON YOU TUBE..."DONT LOOK BACK"...DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..TONY IS TELLING THE TRUTH..MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE...YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER..THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT AND WILL LOVE YOU.. WITH .NO DRAMA..YOUR LIFE IS NOT A REVOLVING DOOR..REMEMBER THAT..PRAYERS TO YOU ALL ..
@BlondeVolDoll
@BlondeVolDoll 4 жыл бұрын
I swear your video popped up about the time he messaged me LOL! Definitely a sign to not reply! 😩
@MoodyA1999
@MoodyA1999 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂don’t reply sis
@dawnsprings1708
@dawnsprings1708 4 жыл бұрын
Haha same!! He hit me up wanting to get back and I was thinking about everything he said right now when I saw this vid posted a min ago. Perfect timing!!
@BlondeVolDoll
@BlondeVolDoll 4 жыл бұрын
@@MoodyA1999 I’m not going to but the timing was insane! 😩🤣🤣
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
Yes it is! Follow through. You got this sis 🙏🏾❤
@lifeofmim
@lifeofmim 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t do it girl. You deserve better.
@kumajoey6031
@kumajoey6031 4 жыл бұрын
Can you please do a video on how a toxic father and daughter relationship can affects the daughter's dating life(when the father is present). I would love to hear your thoughts on how a father shapes his daughter's view of men. Especially when he withholds validation and no matter what you do it seems like you never good enough in his eyes.
@brittbritt997
@brittbritt997 4 жыл бұрын
YESSS! This needs to be addressed!
@jadew9177
@jadew9177 4 жыл бұрын
Omg...It’s what I’ve been growing through. My mother was the bread winner. My father was present and we lived as a family but he is very controlling and berated me as I got older after my mother passed. I
@kumajoey6031
@kumajoey6031 4 жыл бұрын
@@brittbritt997 🙌
@kumajoey6031
@kumajoey6031 4 жыл бұрын
@@jadew9177 I'm sorry you went through that 😥, how did this affect your dating life? So before your mother passed he wasn't being mean to you?
@Ashley_Banks
@Ashley_Banks 4 жыл бұрын
Yes this is an amazing topic!
@tasheearose3386
@tasheearose3386 4 жыл бұрын
My mom told me once if it didn’t work out the first time why would it the second? Stuck with me ever since, now I cannot unsee it
@tlashai9902
@tlashai9902 3 жыл бұрын
Your mom is a genius.
@schoolwork232
@schoolwork232 3 жыл бұрын
Very smart indeed!
@TharaMesseroux1
@TharaMesseroux1 2 жыл бұрын
Well, it might work… if they both grow during the break.
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 3 жыл бұрын
If I can do it, you can do it. Single mother of 4 in a shelter then a friend’s couch. The Bible says “ It was good that I was afflicted “ it was. God provided for me and my children. I’m thriving in my business and God keeps blowing my mind with new opportunities. I’ve been single 5 years if I date again good, if not I’m still good.
@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427
@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 3 жыл бұрын
I have 3 and I'm pregnant. Just found out my boyfriend cheated on me. Just straight up shocked... The dr called me to come in for my swab results..he confessed.... Just in shock I paid for this mans attorneys while he was locked away in immigration. I paid for his down payment for his other attorney this year for his child case because he wanted to fight for her. I have done so much. I'm leaving and I believe in God and that we will be okay.
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 3 жыл бұрын
@@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 You and the children will be okay. You deserve better and your health is very important. Trust God and find a family or friend that can help you in your transition. I’ll be praying for you. You got this 😘🙏🏾❤️.
@Godislove818
@Godislove818 4 жыл бұрын
This is so real, a man will come back after he left just to keep dragging you along... Tony’s as always 100%
@cemplygloria6261
@cemplygloria6261 3 жыл бұрын
Never make a man tell you he don't want you more than ONCE! I heard this from JUDGE LYNN TOLER and I kept it in my mind.
@pinkishdiamondz
@pinkishdiamondz 3 жыл бұрын
Love her
@pallana3701
@pallana3701 Жыл бұрын
Why not? People keep saying this quote but never gives the actual reason why you shouldn’t let him tell u more than once😮
@yummybubblecake7303
@yummybubblecake7303 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 i sooooo had to hear this today. He left and 8 months later came back talking about wanting to work on our marriage (I’m his 3rd marriage). So glad I didn’t break and go back.
@sheloves3663
@sheloves3663 4 жыл бұрын
I’m convinced fear of being alone is probably one of the most toxic traits someone can have aside from being envious. I enjoy my own company so that allows me to not let just anybody into my space and do what I need to to maintain my peace. Solitude and sanity > than keeping toxicity in your life. You also stunt your personal growth this way.
@shannonjohnson5367
@shannonjohnson5367 4 жыл бұрын
Keep going about your father’s business Tony...Kingdom work is rewarding. I pray for you and your family brother because your obedience is better than sacrifice. God bless!
@DDsAlchemy11
@DDsAlchemy11 4 жыл бұрын
My pet peeve is a man asking me for money and to feed him 😩 I hate it.
@tulip4169
@tulip4169 4 жыл бұрын
The internet is now filled with males indirectly begging women for money.
@Ms.Haleyy
@Ms.Haleyy 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a standard. Hashtag dealbreakers!
@lettya3993
@lettya3993 4 жыл бұрын
I hate it when men ask me if they can stay with me for a couple of days.
@Ms.Haleyy
@Ms.Haleyy 4 жыл бұрын
@@lettya3993 bLLOCKED! 😂 All of the way
@lettya3993
@lettya3993 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ms.Haleyy . Absolutely
@elatyriaf100
@elatyriaf100 4 жыл бұрын
""When you choosing from the wrong place in your heart you have a price to pay"" Deeeeepp
@lizzylewis5793
@lizzylewis5793 4 жыл бұрын
Keep breaking the code Tony. God has been using you in setting the captives free and I thank God for that. My eyes have been truly opened💯💯God Bless!
@mariabbanks
@mariabbanks 3 жыл бұрын
That emotional abuse hurts deep. Then comes physical and verbal. Sucks when you love someone.
@ericaallen5216
@ericaallen5216 3 жыл бұрын
I always say there is a woman somewhere!!! She either under the bed, in the closet, in his bathroom, behind the curtain, in his car, or on his couch. I don’t get fooled when a man says oh I’m not seeing anyone. Right!!!!
@slimmbeauty2949
@slimmbeauty2949 3 жыл бұрын
Tony is so right. I met a man and he knew I was in wife in a month. For me, I never had that before so I wasn’t prepared or ready to step in that place but ladies pls know that a real man knows and it doesn’t take long.
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 3 жыл бұрын
Not always the case, my ex left me for another chick, now hes divorced, so she wasnt the one for him, i was.
@relleyy
@relleyy 3 жыл бұрын
@@jesuswilljudge7296 no, that means that neither of you were
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 4 жыл бұрын
Left him because hes a cheater, a liar, a grown boy & a decepticon
@ena__we4205
@ena__we4205 3 жыл бұрын
Decepticon🥴😂
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 3 жыл бұрын
@@ena__we4205 💯
@nicolemcclintonwilks4421
@nicolemcclintonwilks4421 3 жыл бұрын
That made me giggle...💪
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 3 жыл бұрын
@@nicolemcclintonwilks4421 😃😂🤦
@Jeanninecomeau
@Jeanninecomeau 2 жыл бұрын
Once a guy leaves you, it's a wrap. They have to like you more than you like them. That's the only way it works. If he left, he was willing to take the chance of losing you
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 4 жыл бұрын
Ignore them Tony. We all the friends you need. 🥰
@vanessalandry9763
@vanessalandry9763 4 жыл бұрын
LMBO!!!😂😂😂
@schoolwork232
@schoolwork232 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@shelitaj.1479
@shelitaj.1479 4 жыл бұрын
Omg!! That exact thing happened to me a few months ago. My cousin called me talking about her abusive boyfriend and asked me to help her get away from him. Now I'm out of $2500 and two weeks later she posting pics of them together calling him the love of her life.
@alicehardy8040
@alicehardy8040 4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself first
@shelitaj.1479
@shelitaj.1479 4 жыл бұрын
@ezking 2729 me too, because I don't wanna have to bust her knee caps over my money. Lol..jk
@yolamayo2689
@yolamayo2689 4 жыл бұрын
🤦🏾‍♀️
@shelitaj.1479
@shelitaj.1479 4 жыл бұрын
@@SistahJay27 thank you.
@mariarasmussen8965
@mariarasmussen8965 4 жыл бұрын
OMG.
@mzbattle1210
@mzbattle1210 4 жыл бұрын
peace of mind is priceless
@laina1976
@laina1976 4 жыл бұрын
You betta say that
@shantellgonzalez7916
@shantellgonzalez7916 3 жыл бұрын
He is a mama’s boy. He left me to go back to his mom. That was the nail in the coffin for me. Now months later he misses me and knows that I’m his wife? Um no sir your mom is your wife carry on and God bless!✌🏽
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 3 жыл бұрын
His mama didnt raise him right
@brittblessed
@brittblessed 3 жыл бұрын
😃😄😆😅
@hollyrodgers9345
@hollyrodgers9345 2 жыл бұрын
Just went thru the same thing. Can’t marry a momma’s boy!! And yes, it’s like she is his wife!! Blah
@prestigiouswisdom1283
@prestigiouswisdom1283 4 жыл бұрын
Tony ever since I found your videos non of my relationships/Dates last. I be using all the game you exposing and they can’t even get past the 4 month mark 😩😩😩😩 help me Lord!!! TONY I had to pause the Video this fool kept passing gas!!! It annoyed me so much and he started at the 2nd month and I kept looking past it I should of left him then!!! Nevertheless he kept trying to pull the silent treatment to train me whenever I corrected him on his controlling behavior. 2nd time he had to go!!
@iamsadeashley
@iamsadeashley 3 жыл бұрын
Look at it like this... that just means you're one step closer to the man thats for you. 🤗
@meetvirginia7023
@meetvirginia7023 4 жыл бұрын
My ex texted me A few hours ago after he said he didn’t wanna relationship, so here I am seeking advice. New subscriber, hello. Sorry about the bro-code 😩
@ntrasmr87
@ntrasmr87 3 жыл бұрын
So don’t give him a relationship or anything else
@larichou25
@larichou25 3 жыл бұрын
dont take back a man who left you! Never! He's probably bored right now and needs someone attention. Please don't fall for it. Speaking from experience!
@lifeofmim
@lifeofmim 4 жыл бұрын
This message was badass. I feel very strong after that. Thank you Tony. Blessings to you 100x
@yumyaw
@yumyaw 4 жыл бұрын
A grown boy will be offended by what you are doing but a mature man with a healthy mind will take the message and change his ways. God said it himself “ New King James Version When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” 1Corinthians13:11 So those men have to respect what God has put on your spirit to speak about. Point blank Perioooooood in my Tony Gaskin’s voice 🤣
@antob3908
@antob3908 3 жыл бұрын
Hey 👋 Tony, good advice as always. I left my toxic husband after 11 years of marriage. Our daughter was 10 years at the time and for the first time I had to rent my own apartment, be a single mom and pay my own bills. Life was stuff financially. I didn’t entertain a new man because I was too busy working and raising my daughter right. Now she’s 23 years old graduated with her medical degree from university and now doing her residency in a hospital. Ladies I’ll not lie it was difficult but I refused to give up, my daughter kept me focus and with God’s grace I survived. Now my daughter is on the right path and I’m doing well. I’m now ready to date the right man God has for me. “Be strong ladies, believe in your ability”🙏💕
@sandranorth275
@sandranorth275 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, we need to know, sooo we as Women know how to better deal with Men in 2020, So I Thank You and Appreciate you and your Information!!!!😊🙏🏽
@evocentricpodcast1643
@evocentricpodcast1643 4 жыл бұрын
This was a great episode... And hr definitely well spent.
@tanyapineda7212
@tanyapineda7212 3 жыл бұрын
Why do relationships have to be so complicated? They could be so amazing🙄.
@schoolwork232
@schoolwork232 3 жыл бұрын
I think its because people don't want to die to self. If both the guy and the lady die to self and choose to please each other and the Lord, there is no way that relationship will not be beautiful.
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 3 жыл бұрын
Cause majority of males are little boys who cant lead
@onlyonekiney
@onlyonekiney 4 жыл бұрын
Tony Ive said this before but I gotta say again Thank Yu So much for just educating us grown women on The Game! Listen I was just with a group of women recently and Im telling you lots of women are just not up to The code! I told them they need to listen to your channel and get some education. It will save them a lot of heartbreak. Blessing to you Tony. Ive listen and learned from you Tony and im 58 years old, Never to old to learn this stuff, get you some education, point blank period!
@brendajefferson1734
@brendajefferson1734 3 жыл бұрын
I'm also 58 and still learning about men!
@marrencebaraquiel
@marrencebaraquiel 3 жыл бұрын
amen
@tjsmagicalgametime2916
@tjsmagicalgametime2916 4 жыл бұрын
At this rate I will never be with another man again!!!! I just cannot deal with all this falseness with men’s behaviour it’s too much to deal with.
@chickwitthagoodies
@chickwitthagoodies 4 жыл бұрын
Same here it's just too much maybe next lifetime if they ain't cheating they wanna kill your ass
@tjsmagicalgametime2916
@tjsmagicalgametime2916 4 жыл бұрын
@@chickwitthagoodies exactly!!! Doesn’t seem worth the while in my eyez! I’m just staying man free!
@ginad8238
@ginad8238 4 жыл бұрын
Sisters...Never give up ..but Surrender to trust God completely with your life and His purpose for your future. Grace and Peace🙏🏽
@toriyt2714
@toriyt2714 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t give up. When it’s the truth it can’t be denied.
@lsavestheworld5147
@lsavestheworld5147 3 жыл бұрын
Amen...too much effort...happier alone.
@Juju-gf3iq
@Juju-gf3iq 3 жыл бұрын
Unk you made really good points as always. As someone who has been in a former abusive relationship, I’ll say that when you are really done and at your breaking point then no excuse will hold you back from leaving. I let that financial aspect keep me there because we were living in a home that was 2500 a month. I was worried about how I would be able to maintain all the bills as a single mom of two small children but I had to take that leap of faith. I kicked him out (it wasn’t easy but when u mention that Popo 👮 oh that got him) When I tell you God provided and made sure I never missed a payment on ANYTHING and my kids was all the way straight! I could write a whole book on how much God looked out and worked through ppl to make sure I was able to stay in that home until lease was up, it amazes me. God is a amazing. When you let go and Let God handle it he blesses you in ways you wouldn’t even imagine. Now I’m a proud home owner and he put me in a better place. Turn your pain into purpose. God gives us the gift of Life. Don’t waste it on people who don’t value you.. Thanks Tony, God works through you to empower us!!
@MakeupTiffany
@MakeupTiffany 3 жыл бұрын
100% single club here. We meet on Tuesdays and Thursdays! 😂👋🏾
@Itsacamlife
@Itsacamlife 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what’s happening! Why is Tony making video that is reading my mind! Damn! It was meant to be!
@Sugarsugar4u
@Sugarsugar4u 4 жыл бұрын
"Choosing from the wrong place in your heart, there'll be a price to pay!!!!" ALL FACTS!!!!!
@lilrodz
@lilrodz 4 жыл бұрын
Got.. to.. go.. 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️ immediately 💯🙌
@arij.2821
@arij.2821 4 жыл бұрын
Right on time! Weak moments tempts me to get back an abus husband. but. God answered me when he sent you my way to wake me up.. but I feel so much peace without him. The kids are happy without all that mess.. Thanks love your Great!
@lial6061
@lial6061 4 жыл бұрын
Time for class! 🍎🔑
@annaadams86ful
@annaadams86ful 4 жыл бұрын
Introduce me to 100% single man.
@glamorous8685
@glamorous8685 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Tony not only some men are upset because u giving advice. But also your Success and turning your life around👍. You right never ever take a man back who Emotionally and physically abuse you. May God continue to bless you and your family always 😊.
@ClaraCouturexo
@ClaraCouturexo 4 жыл бұрын
It always makes me laugh when he says “Commercial Break” and here comes a commercial!
@binspired3117
@binspired3117 3 жыл бұрын
Your attitude is what defines you. This man is giving away the game and you complain about advertisements!!! Wow! Everything in life worth having requires sacrifice! Grow up LISTEN to wisdom so that God will Bless you. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Brother Tony is walking with the Lord. At 58 he is telling me things I wish I would have learned from my father. Years wasted for lack of knowledge. Stay humble, keep your spirit calm, pray and Thank God you came across this channel. It will save you a lifetime of heartache. I am crying 😢 just thinking of 40 plus years of relationship trauma! But I am full of hope that one day after working on the three B’s, well I have one down God will send my Boaz. In His timing... Be Blessed🙏🏽😇💕
@fayewest2463
@fayewest2463 4 жыл бұрын
This is a good topic we women make a big mistake when we take a cheater back my moto is never go backwards a Zebra never changes his stripes I don't care how much he tries to impress you or convince you that a change has come baby Duces!
@EarthGurl08
@EarthGurl08 4 жыл бұрын
✌🏾✌🏾
@jayray420
@jayray420 4 жыл бұрын
You speak the divine truth. The thousands of women you help will far outweigh those players who are pissed you're revealing a code. God bless you.
@ZfenProductions
@ZfenProductions 4 жыл бұрын
Smacks lips roles eyes: Ooooooooowh
@roxyweatherspoon897
@roxyweatherspoon897 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video stayed with him until my son had completed high school and I left life is good and my son has finished college and he is an army reserve Sargent Always consult God with any decision you make concerning your life and your children never let a man know you are desperate Bless you for your inspirational teachings
@MoodyA1999
@MoodyA1999 4 жыл бұрын
Keep giving away the game 🙌🏾
@beckyvegalifecoach2481
@beckyvegalifecoach2481 4 жыл бұрын
God is my provider! 🙌🙌🙌
@freckledfacedbeauty151
@freckledfacedbeauty151 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony for helping women all over! I’m 23 years old and I’m so thankful that my mom introduced me to your channel a while back. I have a whole new perspective now!
@doriscrumpton2980
@doriscrumpton2980 4 жыл бұрын
Hi 🤗💕 I will say this that if a man don't come at you like God fearing and loving God just keep it moving because he is of Satan coming to try you and destroy your soul. It's not worth it to give them the time of day other than a word from God and then watch them flee🙏👀🤔🙂💕🤗
@nelaina
@nelaina 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, after getting through the full video, I'm getting a sense of peace about what actually happened. At 42:20 I realize I was left, because after I walked away 4x due to his disrespectful behavior, giving him chances, he knew it would happen again...he knew he was not up to my level, which is why he went back to the grown girl he left for me. She is and always will be his slave. And will always take him back after he leaves her ...NOT ME!♥️
@MaryJimenez-un9xh
@MaryJimenez-un9xh 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I wish I would have known all this stuff 20 years ago, but I guess it's better late than never. I left my grown boy, and I myself realize that I still have some growing to do bc of your videos♥️
@loveofmylifedance
@loveofmylifedance 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao! Those ads come on real aggressive and no variety lol it always the same ads - especially the white guy in the kitchen with ten thousand powders
@karolineg7809
@karolineg7809 3 жыл бұрын
A man continues to lie about simple things... not allowing God to be first in his life.
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
Motivation Wednesday
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾❤
@ericajanellelifecoaching
@ericajanellelifecoaching 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
@@ericajanellelifecoaching Peace&blessing sis🙏
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
@@cherh Peace&blessing Sis🙏
@mission24love
@mission24love 4 жыл бұрын
Thank God for a man like you integrity, values and honesty want he do. I pray God continue to bless you and your family.
@mariadaskalakis9317
@mariadaskalakis9317 4 жыл бұрын
“This is about me pleasing my Lord and Saviour “ - grateful for it Coach. 💫
@jannesmith3874
@jannesmith3874 3 жыл бұрын
Tony will you make a few videos on "after" marriage. I know alot of these issues can apply to married individuals but sometimes it different after youve said, " I do".
@joanna6570
@joanna6570 4 жыл бұрын
It took the guy I dated 2 dates. I left because he was confused and wanted to and I quote “build an empire with someone” but didn’t say he wanted that with me. I wasn’t bitter just simply moved on. We parted for 5 weeks, he messaged me and said he knows what he wants now. After having time to think. And that was a relationship. Deep in my spirit I feel in that gap he didn’t manage to find better & I’m just convenient or something. Just a lot of mind games that I can’t deal with. Peace of mind is invaluable
@nathlitakarnley7495
@nathlitakarnley7495 2 жыл бұрын
Block him!
@joanna6570
@joanna6570 2 жыл бұрын
@@nathlitakarnley7495 thanks but I did and ended up changing my number because he kept on calling me off no caller ID
@sharnette8485
@sharnette8485 4 жыл бұрын
Tony we appreciate you for being a beacon of light in a world of darkness 💖
@heikemcjunkin5103
@heikemcjunkin5103 3 жыл бұрын
I met a guy true my sister , I didn't date after my divorce for 4 years when I met him I thought he were different telling me all u can trust women and do much more ,I moved from tx to va got us a place , I did everything for him , helped him getting cars cooked dinner washed his clothes just everything , but he really didn't do anything with me , going out or anything , one he was gone I went true a old phone and saw that he been cheating , I kicked him out , we got back together , and it happened again so like 3 weeks ago I told him to leave now he is very disrespect full towards me calling me all kind of things , but I've been watching ur videos and all what u say is so true I'm way happier now again Thank you
@ultimateoptimist5217
@ultimateoptimist5217 2 жыл бұрын
He is a narcissistic sociopath...run sister run fast and delete block and don't look back.
@nattysessentialsllc2044
@nattysessentialsllc2044 4 жыл бұрын
Omg! When your child has the right shoe on the left foot and you didn’t catch it because you were up all night crying...😂 I promise I have heard everything you said before this Tony but I appreciate the comic relief that allows me to not be as distraught about my situation... Thank you so much for giving it to us straight. It has helped me so much😊
@gracegratitude2642
@gracegratitude2642 3 жыл бұрын
Know your worth, value your life, love yourself, in America you can be anything, you can do anything , there are many outlets out there to earn money and keep going caring for yourself and your kids. It might not be the dream life but it would be peace of mind.
@NAJErEa91
@NAJErEa91 4 жыл бұрын
WOW! I NEVER REALLY CONSIDERED THE SPIRITUAL WARFARE U MUST BE UP AGAINST IN ORDER TO DELIVER THIS MESSAGE. I WILL BE SURE TO KEEP U LIFTED UP IN PRAYER UNCLE TONE. MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO YOU
@NAJErEa91
@NAJErEa91 4 жыл бұрын
WATCHED IT 3 TIMES :D AND LEARNED SOMETHING NEW WITH EACH REPLAY :)
@reginagee9064
@reginagee9064 4 жыл бұрын
Yes Tony!!!! Put the Lord 1st!!!!
@keeidoeee
@keeidoeee 3 жыл бұрын
“When you do the work, the results follow” thank you so much Tony! I needed this video so much, had to watch it twice! Great message
@iishalanae
@iishalanae 4 жыл бұрын
Honey it was the caterpillar for me. Honey he said they will show you love. Will crawl up on your shoe and hang on on your shoelaces... showing love 😆
@peaceful_and_blessed2879
@peaceful_and_blessed2879 4 жыл бұрын
Love this Tony!!! There’s a whole lot of us women dating Jesus these days and I can vouch that its worth the peace of mind that comes with it! Be blessed!! 🙏🏻🙌
@kw3870
@kw3870 3 жыл бұрын
I tell you... this is all confirmation of what the Lord has planted into my spirit. And he is talking through you. He guides my spirit and I follow. I don't waste no time when I notice red flags. When God see fit for me to be married until then I will be content being single and getting closer to Him in the mean time. 1 Corinthians 7: 7-8 & 32-34 and everything in between. Read it.
@nivanisadhai2476
@nivanisadhai2476 22 күн бұрын
It was black magic , affairs, witchcraft and cheating and voodoo magic, do I take him back,it was emotionally spiritually physically and mentally and psychologically. I feel I shouldn’t.
@veelove2226
@veelove2226 4 жыл бұрын
When I say Tony Gaskins is speaking the truth I’m so glad he spoke on this subject so many women need to hear this! TG been on a roll! If a man ever leave you! Never take him back! Speak on it! TONY GASKINS! 🙏🏾💯💯💯
@chickwitthagoodies
@chickwitthagoodies 4 жыл бұрын
This what happened to me he resented me when he came back around
@beckyvegalifecoach2481
@beckyvegalifecoach2481 3 жыл бұрын
I like the fact that you said that your calling can sometimes feel lonely . It’s true . Not everyone can go where God is taking you . Not everyone wants to grow . And that’s ok !
@Iamnayhall
@Iamnayhall 4 жыл бұрын
The passing gas ⛽️ part got me laughing so hard right now lol 😂 😆
@patwilson1257
@patwilson1257 3 жыл бұрын
What I have come to know about Father God is, He will lead and guide you in EVERY situation, if you let Him. He will SHOW you with red flags ect, if a man is not for you. We push aside common sense and choose to put up with things we KNOW are not right. In other word “”we play with fire and get burned”. Why go BACKwards?
@Pam_ela
@Pam_ela 4 жыл бұрын
LOL! Still paying Badcock for the furniture! I had those payments before in St Petersburg!🤣😂😅
@christineallen3003
@christineallen3003 3 жыл бұрын
That voice, Ooooooh! 🤣I love ❤️ it! I left my husband without a dime. Best decision I made in my entire life! He keeps trying to come back? Oooooooo No! ♏️❤️Evolution
@pamwhipple7580
@pamwhipple7580 4 жыл бұрын
I never believed that every woman is made to be a wife I feel better.
@tenea24
@tenea24 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve literally been watching your videos since 6pm last night..it’s 3am now 😭✨ I’m hooked 🤌🏽
@ZfenProductions
@ZfenProductions 3 жыл бұрын
Abuue= abuse Purrtu ruco= Puerto rico 🇵🇷 Jumeca= Jamaica 🇯🇲 🤣🙈🙈
@fayewest2463
@fayewest2463 4 жыл бұрын
Tell the truth Tony and shame the devil !!!
@samanthaadkins5551
@samanthaadkins5551 3 жыл бұрын
I want to start something for women, for those honestly stuck in abusive situations.
@mariagrady8425
@mariagrady8425 4 жыл бұрын
That was a mouthful. You help women to see plainly. We truly have to have the wisdom of GOD over our emotions.
@selasidoklah4799
@selasidoklah4799 4 жыл бұрын
Always on point. When you take him back you will definitely loose something either you loose it all or you loose some. Is 50/50.
@cindeed4422
@cindeed4422 4 жыл бұрын
It’s just me, my purpose, and God. I’m living that. That’s me. More men should learn to do that too. “Leather black jacket man” lol. My husband was wearing a black leather jacket when I met him at the club. Together 22 years.
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se 4 жыл бұрын
It's ok.. that's what happens when you do Gods will..keep it going..his blessings is bigger than what they offer
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