Men Will RESPECT Your Value When They See THESE 5 Things

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive the peace and love you deserve ❤ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉 www.loveafterheartbreak.com. This book will lead you to find peace and happiness in your life.

[@christinemarielayne]

❤❤❤ your so right ♥️Thank you 🙏🌹 for helping me realize loving Myself and My curves aren't a bad thing ❤❤I can only pray My sisters learn how beautiful 😍 they are too❤❤❤❤

[@lindsaylimes3362]

I really needed to hear this today thank you for make the video and sharing it.

[@severinlippold7841]

Thank you for your quick answer. Maybe I'll order the book

[@Scortch-bonnitli7yg]

South jams

[@PyntonRealties1]

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[@shawanahickman6952]

I know my worth and it's priceless. I'm not chasing anyone, I'm not looking, I'm waiting on God's promises 🙏🏾 eggs don't chase sperm the sperm chase the egg

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@deedeedoug3416]

🙏 Amen 👍

[@Laoriginal718]

God doesn’t promise marriage to anyone tho. Marriage isn’t a biblical promise.

[@anonymousbyname1121]

@@Laoriginal718Who said anything about marriage?

[@shawanahickman6952]

@@Laoriginal718 honey you live your life and let God guide mines

[@deaudradonald6360]

This video had me crying happy tears. Because I’m walking in my value as we speak. Many have passed me by. Until, one man saw my value and he asked me to marry him and I said. Yes! All Praises for this confirmation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Thank you for sharing this

[@s-whitestudythewordministries]

Congratulations Sis 🎉

[@lashandramorgan8569]

Great for you ❤

[@jessicaatchison5423]

Congratulations 🎉

[@vaclinciapounds8859]

Congratulations to you queen!! 🎊 👏🏽 💐 🥳

[@BlackberryTitties]

The way y’all seek male validation and really see marriage as a win is pretty sad! 💀

[@Neelkamaldas8252]

It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!

[@CC-kr3mr]

As a woman who was married to a narcissist, who left me in a very bad place when I divorced him, it took me five years to get back to my full potential, build up my business by my own home, and be financially successful, spiritually, and mentally strong. It took me so much to get to that point yet now that I am in a new relationship, I will never disclose how poorly my ex-husband treated me. It’s in the past, and I fear it will paint me as a woman who will tolerate disrespect. I told my new boyfriend that I was spoiled beyond belief, which is true financially, but not emotionally. I told him that I was spoiled beyond belief and he treats me like gold. You have to mark yourself in a positive light. All I’m saying is don’t tell your new man that your last man was disrespectful. It will make him think it’s OK.

[@Allaboutthe80s]

That's powerful and very smart. I never thought of it that way.

[@sweetcheeks5775]

i had to learn that the hard way. now i always lie on dates and tell them i’m use to men buying me things and paying for dates. i also lie and say i have a great relationship with my dad. weeds out shit men and sets the bar high for those who are interested.

[@Zelicious11]

Love the wisdom! Thank you

[@BTParent]

​@@sweetcheeks5775 why lie ... Why not say what we learnt

[@Luxiouriousprettyme]

and viola the very things shera seven teaches which i just posted about on my channel

[@olayinkacredle]

“Some of you have a dirty unorganized home” 😫😭😂😂😂😂I’M SCREAMING because he’s right! This was me until I got it together. I was a newly divorced single mom of three young kids, leaving that bad relationship left me in a deep depression and I let myself and my home go. My sister finally had a serious talk with me and I addressed it starting getting back into clean habits again. It totally changed my whole mood and the way I carried myself around and my kids. ❤thanks for always speaking truth! We need to hear it

[@auroramarquez2518]

Lol ummmm I like to say mine just looks lived in...😅

[@JannetteFajardo-y8q]

Signs

[@sigabou7296]

Trying to get out this funk with my house now also

[@Nika-je6zd]

Good job, well done!

[@believe-gj6ds]

All yall say that and remain single

[@weinerwagon6667]

Chased him for 2 weeks. I’m so embarrassed. Not any more! I will NOT be ignored and my value not seen! Amen!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@outsidethebox8406]

I've learned the more you chase someone, the more they run away from you. It's so hard when you feel like you had a genuine connection with someone but if they can't see your value, gotta let it go.

[@jessicaatchison5423]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@sanyaoluoluwafemi1846]

You are not designed to chase, you are designed to attract. That's why personal development is key, and working on yourself to become a better person and the right person will find you effortlessly because without chasing.

[@AnnDonley]

@weinerwagon6667 Never chase a man YOU are the prize.

[@Trishamonica]

"Confidence is not about thinking you're going to always get it right, it's about not being afraid to get it wrong.. it's not about thinking everyone's going to like you, it's about not caring when someone doesn't.. it's accepting yourself, loving yourself.. Whoever's going to like it, like it, and whoever doesn't doesn't" 💖💖💖

[@DayatraSmart]

That's gift-giving.

[@kkthanxbye09]

This is beautiful

[@talentdzviti]

I had to tell a guy just a few days ago that I want a man who loves & fears God, who has integrity, is abstaining from sex until marriage & has a well paying job and manages his finances well, those are my standards in how I started valuing myself when it comes to dating. The guy I told this to said that as we're getting older (I'm only 32), my standards are too high. I asked him how are my standards too high (for my age)? Firstly I'm still young, 2ndly, why are we rushing to settle for trash on the streets? For who, for what, for why? I knew that this guy just wouldn't meet my expectation & I'm not forcing anyone to, he's just not for me & it's really ok. There's some good guys out there who will have similar values. God told me never to settle, so I've learned from my past experience, ain't no way Imma be disobedient & allow someone to devalue me by settling for less than what God wants for me. The right one will come 😊

[@teru8443]

Many men or people in general think 30+ is quite a lot already because of the limited ability of a woman to have kids. Especially in men channels they are promoting this idea: to date and marry women who are younger than 30...

[@alitez960]

Trust me,its not about money,love is priceless

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that and pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏

[@heathermetz6576]

🙏 to that! Stand strong in your faith and God will bring you the right man.

[@danijasthestylist1991]

Yesss Okayyyyy talk to em 🗣️🗣️🙌🏽🎯

[@BayouBarbie504]

You have no idea how timely this message is. I've been crying all morning after another disappointing meeting. I'm tired of this diabetic, soda drinking, septic dating pool! It's infested! I've been questioning my standards because I feel like no one is meeting them. I'm acknowledging now that it's not my standard. It's the quality of men I've been meeting. I won't diminish myself for a relationship. If I'm alone for the rest of my natural life, so be it. I'm not going away from the plan.

[@heather7119]

I hear you, I affirm you, I am standing right there beside you with this comment, and I am going through this with your same mindset. We got this girlfriend! Lets get out of the cesspool and figure out how to put ourselves in better company as we pray for God's guidance :)

[@yulias9991]

Thank you for writing this, I feel you 100% and I have the same mindset. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, now I confirm that I am not the only one and that I am not crazy.

[@naetube9249]

After another situation that ended disappointment, I absolutely agree with this!

[@cookiecrumb5810]

Bless your heart

[@Melanisia]

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[@lisasmith75775]

It breaks my heart to detach from people that I love or once loved because I still hold them close

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@DayatraSmart]

Not me!

[@ashleyg1882]

I feel like you’re the older brother I never had! Thank you ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@aliciabrown6679]

Man… the knowledge this man speaks! He feels more like a mentor to me. He’s in the rotation for my daily personal development time.

[@imspecial2286]

I would rather have a peace of mind than a piece of man. He's absolutely 💯 right. Ladies have confidence and love yourself. Don't let any man devalue your worthiness.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*

[@JulieMurray-qq2of]

I’m in 💯 agreement on all you’ve said. I watched my daughter lose 150 lbs and boom, she was lighter, healthier and her confidence blossomed. True beauty showed up. She’s an out door enthusiast and now she blogs, is a photographer and engaged. For myself, health, fasting ( currently) detoxing, prayer, peace and purpose are what God desires for us and where he can do amazing things in and through us. I just stepped away from 18 yrs of chaos in a marriage. I had to leave to find peace. I felt stuck and not appreciated for my true self. It was so freeing and I will guard my space and keep the peace to attract the next right man if God chooses that for me. I love your videos Stephen and find your wisdom so impactful and helpful.

[@certainlymarie]

30:49 it’s all about health… I started my health journey 5 weeks ago and have lost 12 pounds already. I cannot wait to see my results within 6 months 🙌🏾

[@thepaperedsleuth]

I say all the time, "Every good man is not the right man for every good woman." And vice versa.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@patiencesibanda6599]

I know my worth🤗🤗🤗God will never fail me , 👏👏i deserve better things in life😊😊😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@sxymf96]

It's the not letting the bad behavior slide for me.. He will try you and try you and try you some more.. Stand firm no matter what level he's on..

[@bettybridges3507]

Great 1:23

[@oluwaseunsmith4027]

I just had the courage couple of days ago to tell a guy I really like that I need to stay away from him. He’s got a girlfriend, yet he still wants to get together with me, and because I really like him or so I think, I’m always unable to say no to him. I got a notification for this video and decided to watch it and it sure spoke volumes to me, it feels hard but I’m certain I’m going to find Value for myself and also create peace within me. It really is important. I’ve been confused and sometimes overwhelmed just because of how I feel about this person and I’m realising that it isn’t healthy at all. Thank you Stephan for sharing ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@jadamckinney503]

Wow… Yeah… don’t mess with anyone else’s man. What goes around, comes around.

[@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz]

Checking your weight... really got that haven't heard this before.. That was what I did in the pass years..i was so sick to the extent of me hating my own self..i was so scared, complaining to myself that no man will ever want someone want me the way I was because I was definitely out of place...i started seeking for solutions everywhere and anywhere but to no avail. So i decided to start praying to God to make a way for me so that I can become healthier and beautiful...booms God did it I mean for the past 2yrs i haven't been in any relationship i use those years taking care of my health and beauty... here i am now everyone is appreciating God in my life. Even with that am still taking my time because I deserve the best man.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

First and foremost there s only one me I love being me There s no one like me And there never will be I always embrace this genesis thought Am fearfully and wonderfully made That's conformation from the good book the BIBLE Thanks coach Steph for this reminder

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.

[@MaryRosent]

Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?

[@MaryRosent]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their ex.

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

Thank you for sharing this valuable info! I just looked him up, and he seems impressive.

[@jacquelyndobson1365]

Give HIM to GOD, Sis. The battle is HIS. Plsy yhe zyokslandaAfams cut fpr faoyj qnd comfort. U al.ost thetr!

[@NCMarti-td3wj]

I was anorexic for many years, never managed to get a stable relationship as I wasn't aware that I looked like a skeleton! I didn't even got my period anymore. And I kept on wondering why no men wanted to build a proper connection with me, until I realised that I was not looking healthy and my anorexia was the main reason they didn't want me. I was constantly ill, stressed, cold, anxious, picky, tired... I asked God to help me to become healthy and show me the way to become the woman he wants me to be. Weight matters for your mental health and what you attract. This applies not only to overweight. ❤

[@Daphne6057]

Being the woman God wants you to be is the principal cornerstone of all this.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@lisawilliams4757]

I've been single for 13 1/2 years. Working on myself,living myself.

[@lisawilliams4757]

Loving myself

[@antoniarashida]

The way you care for the heart & souls of women is so appreciated. Your energy is powerful & healing. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge, love, and positivity.

[@Zfaith_fitness_detox]

I’m a Christ Centered Holistic Personal Trainer and a Specialist in Detoxification and Cellular Regeneration. You’re right about plant based eating. Meat and processed foods absolutely create inflammation in the body which inflames your cells and your brain can not function properly, nor can the organs. I’m heart break, this is especially important. I have had to really watch my diet during heart break! Your mental health depends on what you eat spiritually and physically. ❤

[@Isaiah_61_7]

Narc abuse caused me to become MCs/ei, I almost lost my life in 2020. Changing my diet to natural foods 100% changed my life. I lost 55 lbs already and I physically feel like a different person. I was so sick and I now I am so much better. I was allergic to EVERYTHING, and now it’s only 2 things praise God Almighty. Full recovery in Jesus name. Also I want to say I am 38 and have 4 kids all naturally. I was at 250 lbs and currently at 195. Still working on becoming fit enough to ever save someone in an emergency 😂❤🎉.

[@LetJesusTouchUrLife]

11:29-12:07 Amen. Like me or dislike me, I live to worship and serve my King.

[@3peasinapodity]

Yes! That is me. I've been told that my walk says I act like I'm better. I told this ex neighbor that I've had this walk as a preteen. I told him that I'm usually in a good space, and my walk must show that. In my head; those that have a problem with my presence has an internal challenge

[@teresacroft7409]

I use this analogy about dating. You have a budget and a style of vehicle you need. You see this really nice fancy car in the showroom floor. You take that fancy car out for a test drive. You want this car, but you know you gotta return it and buy what you really need / can afford. You want that person, but you know down deep this ain't the one.

[@anthiabaker2695]

The creating peace around us concept makes so much sense. And love that you pointed out that ‘messy’ houses - it’s huge revelation. .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@RothePhoenix]

I missed a lot of red flags with the last man I dated. When they all came into view after the second date & he asked for too much if we had a third, I told him no. The man was a narcissist who had been lying at every opportunity, and when I called him on it, he told me God hated people like me. I laughed so hard over that one. The complete lunacy and bloated ego that he would even begin to know who "god" liked or disliked. Dodged a huge bullet with that one. I also started screening even more thoroughly. I know people have pasts that many haven't healed from or even explored, but that doesn't give anyone the right to judge me. I don't judge, but I do learn from their actions what to expect from them.

[@chavondottin2170]

You didn't miss them. You were in denial and overlook. Been there.

[@thebeamli]

Loving that yellow on your beautiful skin. Thanks for the new videos.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@shellarain]

Love this so much. This past month I’ve been really finding myself. Turning to God, building a relationship with God. Following truth, happiness and putting in a lot of hard work to be my best self. I’ve been in the gym every other day for this entire month and have lost 10 pounds just this month. I feel amazing, spiritually , mentally, physically.. self love makes the world of a difference. I’m married but it doesn’t change how helpful and inspiring this video was. ❤ thank you 🙏🏽

[@christinebringazi3481]

Stephen, you have helped me so much. I am now sungle after being in a 21 year abusive relationship. Your words have helped me to heal. Thank you for being honest, genuine, and honest. You are the big brother we all need.

[@mikefredrick7186]

Someone’s worth and value is priceless, but we should not go and try selling ourselves to another person. They should see it when you show it in time!!

[@princessmillerpowell]

I've always been a big girl, and now a medium woman of large stature, so I can say with clarity that managing my weight and what goes into my body and what kind of fuel I put into it, makes a HUGE difference on my mind, my attitude, and how I feel about most things in general. My outlook is more positive.

[@amysinger2201]

Thank you Stephan, an Ojibwa friend of mine told me a story of how eagles mate. They mate in the air by flying really high, then joining, then falling to the earth (you can't soar and join), and then releasing before they hit the ground. For an eagle, mating is a life or death proposal. He needs to show that he can soar with you, but won't hurt you. But we females don't fly low, you'll end up with a duck, we soar and wait for the best eagles to rise and meet us. and they better bring a fish (which is a whole other analogy about the guy who brings no fish vs the guy who can't get off the ground because he keeps going after fish that are too big). I really appreciate you reminding me of this, I've been hanging out with too many ducks that don't know a thing about fish.

[@KEIHFR]

Yes had a guy try to manipulate me by telling me I was wifey material but thought it was unfair that I chose to abstain until marriage. I told him that he can't ask God for a wife,but only on your terms!!

[@HelenaRobalo-r3z]

This is when I break up before we go out. My favorite thing to do prior to meeting The One.❤❤❤

[@kristabland1657]

My homework is not only in fully understanding my worth, but more in the practice of not advertising it. It's not my place to convince anyone of sampling or even purchasing what I have to offer. 11 times out of 10, those that I'm trying to convince are just not interested or even in the market

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@kamaleta1379]

It is so true that our weight can impact in so many ways...thanks to the man he's brought into my life since my weight loss journey, I'm not where I want to be but I'm getting there with lots of support

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@2010LQ]

This man is such an art speaking… I love how he speaks the truth and choices of words. There’s no way you can’t comprehend every point he makes because it all make sense and worded perfectly.

[@lelaslipgloss1728]

That’s what bothers me. Every time we talk about the healing part. I don’t watch reality tv hell or tv at all, I don’t listen to bs, I workout 5 times a week, maybe even 6 I have an exceptional diet. I’ve lost over 65lbs… I keep my home clean, I take time for myself I journal, but some kind of way… I have found myself back in a weird situation and I can’t understand for the life of me why God would allow me to go through this AGAIN… I have came so far and worked so hard to get to this place this space of peace. Now I feel this gentleman seriously came in my life to disturb my peace and play with me. It has taken everything in me to keep it together and just say okay and walk away but not understanding WHY is really blowing mine. It’s so annoying… smh I hate having to be the bigger person… I feel like I’m saying it’s cool and just leaving and it’s not cool! SMH having to give myself the closure is so annoying! None of this makes any sense. But okay… smh yall this going on real time 🤦🏽‍♀️😩let me get ready for this damn gym smh I can’t…

[@MsBrwnNProud]

I feel you! It’s frustrating.

[@thebeamli]

It's a test. Learn whatever you can from it and move on. You're now operating from experiencing, growth, and peace. You got this. I went through this last summer it's taken me 7 months to heal. Now I've healed better than before. Because I was able to heal things with that individual that were still unconsciously lingering.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@thebeamli]

You may never get closure from that person and that's ok. Accept this truth, learn from the experience, and the same discipline you use for the gym, use to do what you need to do to heal. Whether it be therapy, self-care, or no contact

[@lelaslipgloss1728]

@@thebeamli thanks mamas! 🤞🏽

[@dannielleturnerbryant7531]

Stephen always speaking the true values on life & relationships. This man is a blessing walking. 💗

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@chanelgray555]

You hit it on the nose when you mentioned "changing the peace around you" ❤

[@THEREALCANDYOFFICE]

Instead I get “ Mrs. Candy thinks a lot of herself but she cool though”. 😂When he said show up being you”, I felt that! I’m confident but never arrogant I’m CANDY. My energy is top notch. Authenticity is me.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Amazing77712]

This video actually is the best! You can not ever go wrong striving to be the BEST that God created you to be! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@BrutimalRobinson-nq2os]

I know my value and I know my worth and I can no longer put up with anymore bs

[@GaelleEkounda]

The Wright point is on point 😁 I prayed and asked to be healed in my body and be helped on my health journey, and God helped me stay on track when I couldn't before even though I knew what needed to be done. And yes I feel better in my body, my mindset and the glow is visible, attracting different opportunities. I feel better and I know I'm heading to what's for me, in a more confident way. Thank you

[@joyricherson4570]

Car analogy is great!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@dannielleturnerbryant7531]

Sometimes change hurts in a good way, not a bad way. ❤ I know the difference.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@buddhabritt1985]

I'm getting to know my worth at 39 😌💯

[@athealovesu]

Yessss sis!

[@tronalddump2444]

It's never too late.

[@jelenanedeljkovic605]

Men dedicated to serve in the name of kindness, respect, wellbeing, creation, love is a majestic shift in a society, specialy nowadays. My deepest bow to you, dear Stephan, and to all men who were serving, are serving and will serve to that. 🧡🙏

[@beautyandskindepot]

This is so well said and presented well! As women we must stay in tune with ourselves and remember to have patience. ❤

[@itzelflores2537]

On December 16 I ended my relationship... well he decided to leave and it hurts me a lot but I supported him... I cried a lot but I don't want him to be with me because I asked him to...

[@jalisam7383]

Some people can't handle the truth. They run from it. But running affects us more. Thanks for advice ❤❤❤

[@ariannnaa1]

Stephan you really are doing Gods work in regards to relationships. Thank you for the time, thought and effort you devote to these videos and articulating the truth. I am in a relationship going on 4 months and we are passing the honeymoon stage and going on to the being triggered stage/getting comfortable stage and it feels like a cross roads for me. Watching your content allows me to consider other perspectives and look at his behaviour to really understand the nuances and then ask myself the hard questions. I am 32 and don’t have the time to give to someone who isn’t willing to put in the work a mature relationship requires….. anyway, just wanted to say thank you for what you do for us women🙏🏻

[@3peasinapodity]

Even those that can discern my worth acknowledge my worth, if they still have brokenness they won't know how to move and act and show

[@merrittsmellows]

I'm not afraid to keep working on myself. That's all I got right now. The relationship was exhausting.

[@Adoration1961]

Thank you. I was in an emotionally abusive marriage for almost 30 years. Your videos are helping me gain back an inner sense of worth and value. For far too long I let my abusive spouse define who I was. It's taking considerable time and energy to find my out of the sticky, tangled web of lies I allowed myself to believe during those years. I cannot thank you enough for addressing sensitive issues with so much clarity, honesty, respect, and kindness. I'm grateful to God for making me aware of your 'ministry.' Thank you again.

[@aliciabrown6679]

The house analogies you used for several key points were spot on. One unintended thing I got from this was that it allowed me to take inventory for some course correction. I try to be open to it where possible. So good…

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that!

[@Pamela1980s]

"Intuition is an extension of the spirit" yes Stephan 100%. I always listen to my intuition now, didn't when I was younger and paid the price many times (but hindsight is wonderful!) Brilliant advice as usual - your points about getting my house sorted (decluttered) and losing weight really hit me (God spoke to me throught you!!!) I'm going to do something about it so thank you!

[@godiscallingallsouls]

Weight is a really sensitive topic and I thank you for proceeding with caution. I needed to hear that. Thank you for teaching us all what a healthy relationship and person looks and how to cultivate that. God bless you 🤍

[@taniellpeterson3803]

He's really good at expression... You feel what he's talking about...

[@ArleneRichardson]

I know my worth and I refuse to settle for less. I trust God to send me the right person. I don’t run behind men I keep it moving. 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@ArleneRichardson]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@melissaroshan]

This blessed me. I will not be in partnership until I’m walking in my full potential, and until I meet a vibrational match who’s walking in his. And we both recognize and honor what we see in one another.

[@kimtucke5136]

A wife of Noble character Who can find? I am worth more then Rubies 🙌🏾 Proverbs 31:10

[@gingeri1842]

We’ve been learning men from the starter of the creation!!! It’s the time that men learns women. !

[@vschilling3598]

I am recently divorced after 30 years. But he left 5 years ago. I have been working on myself making peace with a toxic marriage I had. All emotional. I know my worth. If God wants to place a man in my life. He will. And I will continue to pray if he does. That I will be open to see it. Thank you for this. I may be open to have someone in my life. So listening to your content helps me look at myself and ask?? Is there any unresolved hurt?? Or hang ups. I am so much stronger than 5 years ago. I will continue to better myself!! I am on Gods time not mine.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@chiquitadixon8463]

This was what I needed. I didn’t get the notification from KZbin but I definitely got the email notification. I am going through it I was questioning myself. Healing is where I am at now. Taking my notes. This message was God sent. 🙏🏾 Thank you.

[@y.m.6667]

Stephan, Regarding the weight issue. I hope you are talking to both men and women because there are men out there who are overweight as well thinking it's ok and women should accept it.

[@martinenseya3219]

Excellent statement!!! I love Coach Stephan's analogy and examples. No matter what I will no longer settle for less than what I am worth. God is in control. Blessings

[@aferreira1717]

That is true. I know my value but I keep meeting me who sees my beauty....sweet talk me and then text me saying they want to lay with me. They haven't even gotten to know me. I am 65 years old and sick and tired of this. This is why I stopped dating.

[@MsSunshine846]

You being brave will change someone’s life. Way to go, Stefan, saying things many think but are hesitant to say. You did it very well too

[@lyndamegino8664]

Walk with God and he’ll direct you to the right man for you. Don’t look for love, let love find you and never put down your standards to anyone no matter you how much you like or love him. Be yourself and never pretend that you’re something that you are not. I really love listening to you and I completely agree with you.

[@bcvc3365]

Loved the analogies! It really helped me to understand this better! 👏 great video, Stephan! Thank you 🙏

[@NatashaT-vs2vb]

Thank you, as bright as the Sun. Most important is to clarify your own value to yourself as a woman.

[@vschilling3598]

You are Authentic!! I think your an Amazing young Gentleman ! A Man of God!! God sure is Blessing you with this amazing content. I have listened to so many Couches and your content is Real!! True!!! God Filled. Keep up the great work! Thank You!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@almetabowman990]

God bless you Precious Stephan I thank God for giving me the confidence in knowing my true worth. And being Authentic is what I value the most. I Shall continue to trust God 💯. I know that God has the right King for me that will receive me as the Loving Queen that I Am. I love being in a peaceful state because it's healthy for your heart, mind and Spirit. Precious Stephan I truly appreciate you always sharing words of wisdom and knowledge that's a blessing to All. I've asked God to restore, rejuvenate and to bless you beyond measures in the Miraculous and on time name of Jesus. Always Love Almeta ❤️🙏

[@cjay2658]

I SO NEEDED THIS MESSAGE!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! GOD BLESS YOU!!! 🙌

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may God bless you as well 🙏

[@DasAzadeh]

It is so beautiful the way you speak , the extra care, attention & kindness you use for delicate topics . The truth always hurt, it’s a knockout so softening the blow or setting up a soft cushion to land on are the only options when you love or care about the person and even ourself. Keep excelling Stephan 🙏🏻💕. Thank you for all your outstanding teachings. God bless.

[@madamecat100]

Mr. Stephan, I'm so glad you hit on being your best self as far as weight, and I heard your God- honoring heart. I needed to hear this. Because you're right. Keep speaking what drops in your spirit. It's Him, and I receive this word. Thank you. ☺️

[@myboynakai]

HAHA LOVE THE ANALOGIES ! THANK YOU for reminding us all to get back to our highest value that we know we are worth!!

[@marygranke204]

I'm pretty much plant based with my diet and am doing intermittent fasting and doing the 28 day detox. . And I have not had any red meat for a month and a half now....I still have my grilled cod fish once in a while and if I were to eat according to my blood type....it would be plant based diet because I am A-. I feel so much better and don't have any arthritis pain and wish I had done this diet sooner. Thank you for the information.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@marygranke204]

@MeetStephanSpeaks Your very welcome @

[@Natalia-nx2bq]

😆 Those disclaimers are sooo sweet!! I really feel you try to describe your divine counterpart! Good luck Stephan! ❤

[@janedie2739]

Good for you for addressing weight! God cares about this, too, and it doesn't get mentioned openly in a kind way these days. I appreciate your willingness to speak honestly. 🙏🏻

[@mpfree7]

Thank you for that video. It is very important to be able to look critically at yourself. Sometimes we really have things that we need to improve: maybe our life or surroundings are messy, maybe we are overweight or maybe too busy with chasing the wrong type of people. These thing might be hard to hear, but making an effort to improve them can make a huge difference.

[@zde-6397fb2]

You respectfully cover very uncomfortable topics with grace, Stephan. Perfect as always. I'm grateful for your coaching/counseling abilities. You practice what you preach. Thank you.

[@ShaBella509]

Thank you for mentioning the home environment this is important you always give great jewel's of wisdom!

[@ArleneKelton]

Thank Stephan for the reminder..I receive this message.. Continue to let God use you to heal our hearts. Peace&Blessings 😊❤

[@SandraGarcia-ez4nc]

It’s true being in your ideal weight is very important, it shows your putting effort in yourself. It makes you more confident. Raises your self esteem

[@oksanamazur2123]

That's lame bodyshaming fellow women. What is ideal weight? What if that is not achievable because of health issues?

[@Z-gg3fc]

⁠@@oksanamazur2123no it’s not. Then eat less and more healthy foods

[@oksanamazur2123]

​@Z-gg3fc 😂😂😂 you are funny. For example, I am Ukrainian and gained few kilos over last 2 years because of my constant war-related stress. Whatever I do, my cortisol level is extreme and body saves fat because it's a mechanism evolutionally developed over thousands of years. Even if in the middle of war it's possible to exercise and eat healthy, good luck in escaping extreme stress

[@angelaglinogo3609]

I'll be turning 28yrs old next month and I'm NBSB! When I get presured by my workmates bcoz of my status, I turned to your vids. And your vids always validate my standards. Thanks a lot!

[@HellenofTroy897]

What's NBSB?

[@milliemill3782]

Thanks for always looking out for us Stephan ❤. Working hard to be the woman that is more precious than rubies.

[@kimwilliams5014]

Man, I truly appreciate your courage to speak about the healthy weight thing. It’s not about fitting in to culture’s superficial expectations of female attractiveness; it’s about honoring God by honoring our temples. I struggle with this but I have overcome other things with God, so why not this? Thank you, @Stephan!

[@DamuReign0109]

Always on point.. Stephan, you're definitely in your purpose when it comes to your gift.. continue to get closer and closer to GOD!!! GOD knows my heart and HES ALWAYS Speaking through you!!! Thank you Jesus!!! 👑

[@kiaraeijo]

Thank you for this!!! Last week I found out that a guy that I liked back in college got engaged and I messaged him confessing that I had feelings for him back then but I immediately felt stupid and I unsent the message. So to make myself better, I made an extra effort in my appearance and when I got to work that day, I caught two of my male coworkers staring at me (One of these coworkers is a friend of mine). It shocked me because I never got that attention when I was younger (I'm 31 and no guy that I was interested in looked at me that way when I was in my teens and twenties)

[@lindalobb9660]

So when you said what God wants you to be I had ear rining in the right eat. Your so right, like these tip's thank you.

[@zuieg-1249]

Stephen- thank you for this message. I found out someone I am dating and really like is dating other people. I had to walk away. I know my worth and value

[@Mary24700]

That house analogy was 💯💯💯, thank you for your messages!!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️