are you the a$$hole?

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ItalianBach

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@ItalianBach
@ItalianBach Ай бұрын
who here is watching this video?!?!?
@Cat_lover258
@Cat_lover258 Ай бұрын
Mee
@LiamTravels
@LiamTravels Ай бұрын
Hiya big snake
@EmiliaHuck
@EmiliaHuck Ай бұрын
Meeeeeeee
@issouptime
@issouptime Ай бұрын
MEEE
@lpsswirls
@lpsswirls Ай бұрын
i don’t remember
@Lyra1573
@Lyra1573 Ай бұрын
Been cursed with the menstruation today, very glad to have a bach video to distract me from the pain
@ffjj2001
@ffjj2001 Ай бұрын
his vids induce menstruation istg
@PurpleHeartGirl
@PurpleHeartGirl Ай бұрын
Same girl 😭 Bach is saving us all
@leila.hopeee
@leila.hopeee Ай бұрын
SAME OH MY GOD
@AxelXx25
@AxelXx25 Ай бұрын
The worst curse 💔
@artemis88899
@artemis88899 Ай бұрын
Same girl 💔😭
@dxl3naa
@dxl3naa Ай бұрын
i fear bach reading these paragraphs is the longest he’s gone without mentioning leona lewis or magic buzzing roses
@ClaireW-gz6ve
@ClaireW-gz6ve 17 күн бұрын
This is the most sophisticated and serious I’ve ever seen him
@ezjones1168
@ezjones1168 Ай бұрын
this is cliterally what i’ve been waiting for
@flamerssoul
@flamerssoul Ай бұрын
I’m sorry… what?
@liyahliyah694
@liyahliyah694 Ай бұрын
Hahahaha stealing this 😂
@50_shades_brighter54
@50_shades_brighter54 Ай бұрын
OMG I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT SAYS CLITERALLY THIS IS AMAZING NEWS
@El_Negro2003
@El_Negro2003 Ай бұрын
Negawatt
@xxdrippinghaloxx1712
@xxdrippinghaloxx1712 Ай бұрын
@@flamerssoulis this ur first time here?
@charleigh.h
@charleigh.h Ай бұрын
2:51 i love how you hesitated then decided that the bachteria did in fact need to know about “isaaco”
@gavvla
@gavvla Ай бұрын
had to restart the video because i was too encapsulated in bach’s beautiful, gorgeous, outstanding caramel chocolate frappuccino orbs to focus on what he was talking about
@Lyra1573
@Lyra1573 Ай бұрын
@gavvla so relatable
@kerys_n_c
@kerys_n_c Ай бұрын
A+ for descriptive language 🤩
@princessloveheartglitter
@princessloveheartglitter Ай бұрын
they're more like decadent rabbits droppings but you do you
@illrememberyalintherapy
@illrememberyalintherapy Ай бұрын
ao3 level of writing skills there
@Yasmine-h4dd
@Yasmine-h4dd Ай бұрын
someone got a high english GCSE
@love_ontour
@love_ontour Ай бұрын
7:40 they broke up so NTA 🤷🏼‍♀️ he is being a responsible parent, he is setting boundaries and being civil. if they were still together he would absolutely be TA, but she is overstepping boundaries and probably makes her daughter feel worse about the situation than she should instead of working to make her feel better by finding her real father, taking her to therapy, creating fun experiences while brother is away for example. unfortunately for her, she did this with someone who isn't easily manipulated.
@weewooweewoo906
@weewooweewoo906 Ай бұрын
BAH, since neither seem to put the welfare of children above their own selfish grievances
@love_ontour
@love_ontour Ай бұрын
@weewooweewoo906 I would personally never take care of someone else's child especially my ex's. 🤷🏼‍♀️ the fact that she keeps pushing that on him knowing he doesn't want it could put her daughter in a dangerous position or a position to be emotionally traumatized further. she needs to take care of the child she created
@weewooweewoo906
@weewooweewoo906 Ай бұрын
@@love_ontour if you are already practically one child's parent but cut them off once you learn you aren't biologically theirs, you should not have children at all, this is correct; but you are also still an asshole.
@PanosSchmitAlmeira
@PanosSchmitAlmeira Ай бұрын
@@love_ontour okay well I was born into a situation like this and I hate my father for it, it doesn't take much to take along the little girl and give her some attention.. if my dad did that to my brother I would've been happy, that's all I wanted. It's not about taking care of her, but alienating her is going to ruin his relationship with his son as well and ruin the psyche of that girl. But of course it's always the needs of adult people and never about what children need..
@love_ontour
@love_ontour Ай бұрын
@@PanosSchmitAlmeira well the mother that is taking care of her and created her should tend to that.
@LJGator808
@LJGator808 Ай бұрын
7:06 If the mom cheated SO MUCH she can't even think who the real father is, she deserves to take on the responsibility of her actions. NTA
@entropy3615
@entropy3615 Ай бұрын
Even if she only cheated once, it still isn't the guy's responsibility in the slightest. And the other people who tried to pressure him are weirdos as well.
@kateohdowd
@kateohdowd Ай бұрын
The kid doesn't deserve to be punished for the mums shitty behaviour tho, and her growing up watching her brother have a relationship with his father while her father is absent is really going to fuck her up.
@cravinguravity
@cravinguravity Ай бұрын
yeah but the kid has nothing to do with what her mother did yk? hes an ass to her, but nta ab not taking care of her as his own?
@sparrklerains8972
@sparrklerains8972 Ай бұрын
So you'll just hurt the child to get back at the mom?
@LJGator808
@LJGator808 Ай бұрын
@@sparrklerains8972 Well the mom seems great with men, I'm sure she can find another male figure fo HER needy child.
@caitlindawn7071
@caitlindawn7071 Ай бұрын
I want to say I'd bring the daughter along on visits simply because the two children will be raised as siblings, but then again, that's an added expense he didn't sign up for & may take away quality one-on-one time he needs with his son that he has limited time with. What happens when the mother decides to have more children? Or when she gets a new significant other and hypothetically decides she doesn't need her ex playing "father figure" anymore? Because of these potential issues, I probably wouldn't take her along. Although it would be upsetting for me, too. She'd be invited to birthday parties and whatever else, but not regular visits because it just seems too complicated.
@caitlindawn7071
@caitlindawn7071 Ай бұрын
That being said, no hostility or negativity should be aimed towards the daughter, it isn't her fault her mother cheated.
@blingaling555
@blingaling555 Ай бұрын
and they can be raised as siblings when the mom has custody of the son
@Kiara-M
@Kiara-M Ай бұрын
​@@caitlindawn7071 He isn't even punishing the kid, he's just being indifferent
@Nyssa.x
@Nyssa.x Ай бұрын
This is the best comment I’ve seen on the topic honestly.
@babyramses5066
@babyramses5066 Ай бұрын
That part. Honestly, I don't put it past her to just decide on a whim one day that even though she pushed her kid on her EX who said he didn't want to be involved at first but did anyway for the sake of the child, she doesn't want him to be the daddy anymore- kid's trauma be dammed. What a selfish, awful person. It sounds harsh but he's right to just say NO from the jump and not let her guilt him into saying yes later when she can take i back at anytime.
@happybirthday7587
@happybirthday7587 Ай бұрын
7:17 imo she should be explaining the situation to her kid and trying to do something about finding the bio dad that is on her. Kids are expensive and I wouldn’t want to pay for a kid that isn’t mine especially if someone is trying to push me to do it. I don’t think he’s the asshole
@PanosSchmitAlmeira
@PanosSchmitAlmeira Ай бұрын
well as someone born into a situation like this it made me hate my dad for alienating my brother, if he gave him some attention and love, it would've made me happy but he chose to destroy his self esteem and in the end lost my relationship as well
@PanosSchmitAlmeira
@PanosSchmitAlmeira Ай бұрын
kids are expensive? so why did they have any to begin with? if he hadn't found out he would've been raising both kids anyways... they should've thought about that before having sex
@happybirthday7587
@happybirthday7587 Ай бұрын
@ yes obviously kids are expensive and clearly MANY people who have children don’t think before having them :)
@JoeCarswell
@JoeCarswell Ай бұрын
@@PanosSchmitAlmeira Why not hate your mum for creating the situation in the first place? The root of your brother's self-esteem issues is your mum because she caused it all, but you've displaced all that blame. If your situation is similar, your dad has absolutely no responsibility for your brother; it's incredibly unfair for you to expect anything more.
@luzdani11
@luzdani11 28 күн бұрын
That is his son’s sister, his son’s blood, if he cares about his son he cares for his sister too, maybe not like his own child but with kindness enough to take her out to play with her brother. Yes he’s the asshole for lacking sympathy for a literal child and concerned about money like a stingy prissy. Seems he’s only trying to get back at the woman for cheating that is literally all
@CATS_ARE_GODS_LOL
@CATS_ARE_GODS_LOL Ай бұрын
7:47 I think he’s totally in his right to refuse to raise her daughter, but he could at least be more friendly to the little girl.
@robyngraham1378
@robyngraham1378 Ай бұрын
13:06 'British columbia not before christ' thanks for clarifying bach🙏🙏
@adelmusa691
@adelmusa691 Ай бұрын
I wasn't ready for such an intro 😭😭😭
@pbrownie4
@pbrownie4 Ай бұрын
It was the idea of him being the piece of ham I kicked under my fridge years ago that got me
@emma_incorporated
@emma_incorporated Ай бұрын
thanks bach, for easing the pain my uterus drops upon me each month
@jasminemcmahon3893
@jasminemcmahon3893 Ай бұрын
16:01 dont think we didnt hear the rose toy. We did.
@elliecook8405
@elliecook8405 Ай бұрын
"YES NEW BACH UPLOAD" we all shout in unison
@bellaorchard4099
@bellaorchard4099 Ай бұрын
Why is this npc comment always at the top
@El_Negro2003
@El_Negro2003 Ай бұрын
@@bellaorchard4099racism
@crhiannonelizabeth4267
@crhiannonelizabeth4267 Ай бұрын
in the 2nd one, the mom is responsible for her daughter’s understanding and processing of the situation. if that were me, i would also probably take the girl because i couldn’t bear the idea of her being hurt, but all in all that is NOT op’s responsibility. he has every right to preserve his time with his son, and has no obligation to prioritize a child that he has never had any affiliation to. his only responsibility pertaining to her is to respect the fact that she’s his son’s sister; invite her to birthday parties and maybe group outings with the son’s friends, and maybe send the son home with a souvenir for his sister when they go somewhere cool. acknowledge her existence, don’t be cruel to a sad toddler, but don’t raise a kid that isn’t yours and you aren’t attached to.
@Cbarney2012
@Cbarney2012 Сағат бұрын
That’s so real
@lottiex06
@lottiex06 Ай бұрын
“Thank you Lord Bach for posting” we all say in union
@Professionalwaffler2003
@Professionalwaffler2003 Ай бұрын
The second guy was clearly NTA, he was cheated on, making that child not his responsibility. The mum chose to cheat and chose not to seek out the bio dad through dna testing etc. she’s taken away both children's chance of having a happy family and taken away her little girls chance of having a father at all. But instead of dealing with the consequences of her own actions she’s blaming the poor guy she cheated on. What makes it worse is they are separated aswell so he has absolutely no connection to that little girl. Yes it’s horrible for the child but if the mum really cared she wouldn’t have cheated or she would’ve still tried to find the dad in the years since she cheated (if the child is asking for the OP she’s clearly 2 years plus). also consider the poor little boy whos growing up in a seperated house bc she cheated.
@Professionalwaffler2003
@Professionalwaffler2003 Ай бұрын
Also let’s not forget if she’s clearly that bothered that he’s not the bio dad she could’ve always not had the baby. If she’s chosen for what ever reasoning to bring the baby into a world without a father figure that was her choice, not the OP’s
@heloitzmi
@heloitzmi Ай бұрын
I might even say both ta just sorely on the fact hes denying his son a life with his sister but idk u might be right
@jamiegibsn7543
@jamiegibsn7543 Ай бұрын
@@heloitzmi well he's not doing that. sounds like they're together most of the time, except when he goes to his dad's.
@ratt2199
@ratt2199 Ай бұрын
that's not how dna testing works lmao you can't just find people by testing the kid. i get that its complicated but i do kinda feel like he's not *the* asshole, but an asshole. yall talk about the child like she's exclusively a consequence of bad behaviour. well she's not, she's a whole, living child who deserves empathy and choosing to disregard your kids sibling out of resentment for your ex is not "nta" behaviour
@lils6065
@lils6065 Ай бұрын
We missed you bacharina
@sillygirlren
@sillygirlren Ай бұрын
SO GLAD TO SEE BEARDED BACH YET AGAIN. I DO NOT WISH TO SEE A DAY WHERE BEARDED BACH IS NO LONGER. I YEARN FOR THE BEARD.
@ant.....4626
@ant.....4626 Ай бұрын
second one isn't an ahole. firstly he has no responsibility for that child and second of all, and mainly, forcing a relationship that already has a negative background is going to end badly. Especially if its forced and the fella won't forget that he got cheated on and he isn't the father, it's his choice to not be involved in her life and its the mums responsibility to find her actual father instead 🤷🏼‍♀️
@Zealspring
@Zealspring Ай бұрын
I feel like the girl who moved to BC after high school graduation knows she’s NTA; she just wanted to tell the story lol
@hatsuneMikusGayCousin
@hatsuneMikusGayCousin Ай бұрын
"Thank you, king bach, for blessing us today." we all chant in union from your shrine.
@may8593
@may8593 Ай бұрын
King Bach is a completely different person
@Gretelsbetterhalf
@Gretelsbetterhalf Ай бұрын
7:00 NTA he’s not her dad. The mom needs to retrace her steps instead of trying to put her daughter on him. The kids will be raised together if they share custody and if mom finally does her job right. He’s not responsible for keeping the family together ffs. That man is not a plan b. 10:15 NTA & the ‘friends’ trying to guilt her for speaking up are basura. Imagine being sexually harassed and then being blamed for ‘ruining’ the pervs life. These are the same type of people to ask “well what were they wearing?” when someone gets SA’d
@hannahwieder1997
@hannahwieder1997 Ай бұрын
8:00 - NTA. It’s not his child and he is trying to focus on raising his son. If the dad is setting boundaries, saying he does not have the energy to raise a second child that isn’t his, that should be respected. The mother didn’t respect him the first time by cheating on him, and so to expect him to offer childcare for her child seems like a lot 😅
@kay-412
@kay-412 Ай бұрын
he is damaging the child and instilling a foundational lack of confidence and trust in the child by doing that. it’s not her fault.
@alanab7859
@alanab7859 Ай бұрын
@@kay-412it’s not his fault nor his responsibility. It’s the mother’s responsibility.
@hxrlzp7108
@hxrlzp7108 Ай бұрын
wake up guys, our freaky english king posted
@maddieworm
@maddieworm Ай бұрын
i live for bachs video titles
@spectrophobic
@spectrophobic Ай бұрын
Let’s hope he doesn’t stop titling them then
@kerys_n_c
@kerys_n_c Ай бұрын
@spectrophobicthat would be truly awful
@Bandkid9
@Bandkid9 Ай бұрын
@@kerys_n_c yeah it would be pretty bad
@Totallynotaweirdkid
@Totallynotaweirdkid Ай бұрын
"HE HAS FED US" we all shout in unison
@Hannah-Taylors-Version
@Hannah-Taylors-Version Ай бұрын
and the crowd is applauding the new bach video
@BaiXue27
@BaiXue27 Ай бұрын
as a kpop fan the first thing in my head was "yeah, i'm the drama" from aespa
@maeriivy
@maeriivy Ай бұрын
Ya, ya I'm the drama Ziggy-ziggy-zag, I'm new 'Cause I go biggie, biggie, bad, it's true 날카로운 눈 안에 비친 toxic 내 본능을 당겨 zoom Hold up, what? (Oh, my God) You say, what? (다쳐 넌) You better watch out 우린 이미 거센 boom 달려가고 있어 vroom I li-li like me when I roll Li-li-like me when I'm savage Li-li-like me when I go Li-li-likie when I baddest (uh-huh) Hold up 빛을 따라서 (mm) 달아 다 다 달려나가 run Go finally, ra-ta-ta-ta (다, 다) 다음 세계를 열어 난 One, two, it's time to go 후회 없어 난 맞서 난 깨버렸지 날 따라서 움직일 rules 손끝으로 세상을 두드려 움직여 Yeah, I'm coming I bring, I bring all the Drama-ma-ma-ma (hey, hey) I bring drama-ma-ma-ma (hey, hey) With my girls in the back Girls in the back Drama Trauma-ma-ma-ma (hey, hey) I break trauma-ma-ma-ma (hey, hey) With my world in the back 나로 시작되는 drama (all that) Drama-ma-ma-ma (bring it that) Drama-ma-ma-ma With my girls in the back Girls in the back, yeah (I break) Trauma-ma-ma-ma (we them) Trauma-ma-ma-ma With my world in the back 나로 시작되는 drama (drama) Drama-ma-ma-ma Drama-ma-ma-ma (three, two, one) Drama-ma-ma You know I've been kind of like One, two, three (yeah, yeah) 깜짝 놀랄 다음 scene (what? What?) 키를 거머쥔 주인공은 나 (uh) Four, three, two, going down 쉽게 through (yeah) Deja vu 같이 그려지는 이미지 날 굳이 막지 말아 이건 내 drama 도발은 굳이 안 막아 Uh, I'm a stunner One, two, it's time to go 타오르는 날 (타는 날) 느껴 난 and I love it 새로워지는 rules 난 눈을 떠 (두 눈을 떠) 시작된 걸 (넌) 알아 (now) It's coming I bring, I bring all the Drama-ma-ma-ma I bring drama-ma-ma-ma With my girls in the back Girls in the back Drama Trauma-ma-ma-ma I break trauma-ma-ma-ma With my world in the back 나로 시작되는 drama Into the real world 다가온 climax 두려워하지 마 (whoa) You and I (oh, yeah) 함께 써 내려가는 story (oh, yeah) 날 가로막았던 no (oh) 한계를 뛰어 넘어 every day Oh, I'ma make it my way Out of the way, yeah (oh, yeah) I bring, I bring all the Drama-ma-ma-ma (hey, hey) I bring drama-ma-ma-ma (oh, oh-oh-oh) With my girls in the back Girls in the back Drama Trauma-ma-ma-ma (trauma-ma-ma-ma, hey, hey) I break trauma-ma-ma-ma (trauma-ma-ma-ma, hey, hey) With my world in the back 나와 함께하는 drama (all that) you know, I'm savage (Hey) 거침없는 baddest (Hey) 나를 둘러싼 thrill (Hey) 거친 여정 속의 drama (drama-ma-ma) 내가 깨트릴 모든 trauma (drama-ma-ma) 지금 시작되는 drama Ya, ya 너로 시작될 my drama
@J.oneforme
@J.oneforme Ай бұрын
Omg literally
@jaqsre
@jaqsre Ай бұрын
“you shouldn’t have told the gf” ok well he shouldn’t have cheated 😭
@nathanr5737
@nathanr5737 Ай бұрын
“It’s just like an Italian breathed on me”
@Recyclabled
@Recyclabled Ай бұрын
Why are the comments never about the video 😭
@lachlanchester8142
@lachlanchester8142 Ай бұрын
Why isn’t yours about the video 🤨
@arcadius7231
@arcadius7231 Ай бұрын
Yes, If it was me in the situation with the child not being mine, I think that I would take her along with me when I take my son out for things. But at the same time, I would never lead her to believe that I was her father. That way, she knows im not her father, but that I am willing to allow her to hang out with us.
@Rumpuspumpus
@Rumpuspumpus Ай бұрын
8:04 the thing that upsets me the most is that he doesn’t want any relationship with his sons sister, because at the end of the day that’s what she is and although he doesn’t want to be a father to her, it’s sad that he doesn’t seem to have anything to do with her, even though his kid lives with this girl half the time. I feel for the little girl but I think the mother has made it difficult for her daughter. I would hope he would make an effort although I do understand where he’s coming from. Just a sad situation.
@Kiara-M
@Kiara-M Ай бұрын
It's because... IT ISN'T HIS KID. It's the moms fault that the kid is crying and upset, she's putting thoughts in her head that she'll one day be accepted as "his daughter". ALSO, He was never known as her father in the first place because they broke up BEFORE she was born. He isn't on the certificate, he's not punishing her for not being his daughter, he's simply focusing on HIS son.
@gjmottet
@gjmottet 29 күн бұрын
@@Kiara-M Its worse than this, if he steps up a bit for the little girl then the mother will likely try to make him do more and more. It is a slippery slope with the guy's boundaries.
@lilydeboda6969
@lilydeboda6969 Ай бұрын
“You have 48 hours to leave the galaxy” I laughed way too hard at that
@galesal1109
@galesal1109 21 күн бұрын
Being of German heritage doesn’t make you German. She’s American of German descent.
@leviticusshroom
@leviticusshroom Ай бұрын
I’m loving the tasteful decoration in the back bach
@niamh8441
@niamh8441 Ай бұрын
@7:40 I wouldn't go as far to say the guy is NTA, but he isn't entirely. He has zero responsibility to raise this child and people pressuring him before she was born were wrong. HOWEVER it seems like he is punishing the little girl simply for being born; I'm sure her brother would also love to have her come on days out etc. He doesn't need to take on full responsibility or "raise" her but making an effort to include her is just the nice thing to do- for the little girl and her brother- as I'm sure this will be impacting the son too.
@Sugarddicted
@Sugarddicted Ай бұрын
this
@lehoe5871
@lehoe5871 11 күн бұрын
Including her can be seen as him tlaing responsibility. If she were to take him to court for custody and child support he would be responsible for both. The mother needs to tell the girl that’s not her dad and find who she slept woth
@niamh8441
@niamh8441 11 күн бұрын
@ i don't think taking her on one of their days out once in a while is going to stand up in court as "taking responsibility". I'm not saying include her in absolutely everything and treat her like his own kid; but just some basic human decency.
@heywhatsupmate123
@heywhatsupmate123 Ай бұрын
I feel like the second story is not the ***hole but he could've handled the situation a lot better.
@aurorabelle6075
@aurorabelle6075 Ай бұрын
8:10 I would NOT be the kids father figure because 1. Cheating is my point of no return and if someone asked me to father their child of infidelity, I probably wouldn't be able to help feeling sick around that child 2. What happens when the ex gets into another long term relationship? It's going to complicate things farther down the line when it comes to relationship dynamics
@izzyhaylockk
@izzyhaylockk Ай бұрын
i’d probably do the same that the man did. the daughter isn’t mine so why would i look after her. the ex cheated on him, so why should he care for her other than for the son. it’s simple really. the daughter isn’t his, therefore, not his responsibility. now aitah for thinking this 😭😭
@domplayssax
@domplayssax Ай бұрын
haha when you said "Maybe trim your bush and then you will know there is no snakes in it" I was just waiting for the Segway to "this video is sponsored by Manscaped"
@earthtorach
@earthtorach Ай бұрын
bach panicking and going on a tangent about calling himself Italian when absolutely no one asked 😭
@kaii2535
@kaii2535 Ай бұрын
#0:01 already a banger
@Nyssa.x
@Nyssa.x Ай бұрын
9:58 so mutual friends thought it was fine to backstab his friend and cheat on his girlfriend but losing those two people who he obviously didn’t care about is gonna ruin his life🤨. Those are mutual enemies fr and they’d rather see two innocent people hurt than one guilty idiot smh
@Mollfg
@Mollfg Ай бұрын
0:00 Me: I can’t believe there still together after all that shit You: who? Me: my butt cheeks Stay calm butter cup it’s called dark humour😈😈🙀
@nmixxfangirl
@nmixxfangirl Ай бұрын
7:58 NTA, but neglecting a child who is innocent just seems absurd to me especially when it’s your own child’s sibling, plus it is not the child’s fault so it seems a bit unfair since she is so little and doesn’t understand but it isn’t his kid or his responsibility so
@madisonterry1241
@madisonterry1241 Ай бұрын
Who else thinks that Bach actually looks like a lord of the stars with that blue light radiating from his head?
@patricialongbottom3367
@patricialongbottom3367 21 күн бұрын
Being the same percentage Italian as the Italian Bach is rocking my world, I’m about to have another period
@bluewolf9166
@bluewolf9166 Ай бұрын
We love the animal crossing censorship
@spidernoirismyhubby
@spidernoirismyhubby Ай бұрын
i would 100% raise the other kid too cause i'd feel bad, not really its fault the mum cheated
@laurageorgina3649
@laurageorgina3649 Ай бұрын
You could react to absolutely anything and still turn it into comedic gold 😂👏🏼
@kaashen33
@kaashen33 Ай бұрын
my take is treat children the same. not the childs fault, dont blame the little girl for the moms choices. i would treat a child as my own if they didnt have a mom figure and i was in the spot to be one. singling them out is messed up, its a baby edit: maybe not mom figure. like just kind and nurturing adult figure.
@gjmottet
@gjmottet 29 күн бұрын
This is the nice thing to do in the short run but cruel in the long run. The guy is not her dad and the family dynamics are unstable enough based on the mother's choices that trying to build a relationship with the girl or be a father figure at this stage could easily result in it getting ripped away when the mom gets a new boyfriend. The kid is already singled out by her mother's terrible choices and the guy is not making it worse by having strong boundaries at this stage - it actually models social norms/respect that she will understand when she is older. If something happens down the road and the mom gets sent to jail or dies and the girl has no where else to go, it might be noble to step up and build a relationship at that point because it will not be ripped away resulting in heartbreak and greater confusion. He might not be the kid's dad, but this is the son's half sister and a decade from now with the cheating in the past and life calming down, a stable good relationship might be able to form between the young lady and the guy despite how her life started. Right now, it is too raw and holds too much chance of heartbreak. The ex wife is a piece of work creating this situation and she needs to put on her big girl pants and make a stable life for her kids so maybe a future connection can be made.
@kaashen33
@kaashen33 29 күн бұрын
@@gjmottet maybe not step in and pretend to be the parent. but you can show kindness and be a kind adult figure, yeah idk what that mom is doing fr, so many kids go thru what the kid is goin thru
@leila.hopeee
@leila.hopeee Ай бұрын
bachelina posted, we all chant while dancing around a bach sculpture on fire
@breakingbad3610
@breakingbad3610 Ай бұрын
the seconds one is kind of an asshole, hes lowkey taking out the anger he has on the mom on the kid that didn’t do anything. he doesn’t have to raise her or take her along with them all the time but idk straight up ignoring her existence is a dick move
@meganhawkes14
@meganhawkes14 Ай бұрын
NTA. not your kid, not your problem. mother should keep the daughter away when the son is being picked up
@robyngraham1378
@robyngraham1378 Ай бұрын
17:31 you playing with ur hair has me in bits
@goblinbxtch7540
@goblinbxtch7540 Ай бұрын
FYI being a whole quarter something is not "barely" something 😅 literally means your parent is half and their parent is full, that's not the same as people claiming an ethnicity from generations above that they never met
@garyoak9649
@garyoak9649 Ай бұрын
10:18 Bro run
@Plain_Kahn
@Plain_Kahn Ай бұрын
17:14 *gently caresses beard* 🫶
@piastri_x81
@piastri_x81 Ай бұрын
i beg do more of these it’s acc so funny 😭🙅🏼‍♀️
@anjieemarie7313
@anjieemarie7313 Ай бұрын
bach i literally love ur humor 😭😭😭😭😭
@montyparata3507
@montyparata3507 3 күн бұрын
As a father, one blood and one step, i raise them both with the same love, and see my stepson as my first born and he makes me so proud. The only reason it works though is because his mum has always been honest and loyal, and also trusts me to truly be his daddy. Honestly, if i was in this guys position i probably would try to love the girl and take her in but i fully get why he doesnt want to. We gotta remember this dude probably has a broken heart and that this is traumatic af. He is not the asshole, but its still a really sad reality.
@Demeter-k5v
@Demeter-k5v Ай бұрын
Sometimes I forget you have 535k subs I feel like you should have way more I love your videos ❤️
@sophlou2367
@sophlou2367 Ай бұрын
about the child one, i understand both sides but i have no idea how you can spend time with one child see the other one left out and let that happen, imo you are heartless if you see a child who sees you as a father figure and keep rejecting her. it's like you're punishing an innocent child who has done nothing wrong, the only thing she's done is be born and it's like you're punishing her.
@fedsrwatching111
@fedsrwatching111 Ай бұрын
I think the reason a lot of European people have somewhat of an American accent is because a lot of the media they consume is from the US. It’s the same as my cousins in Macedonia when they speak English they have an American twang which makes sense if they’re learning the language they’d pick up on the dialect of the media they’re learning from
@totalmarmalade4
@totalmarmalade4 Ай бұрын
'make longer videos pls lord bach' we all chant in unison
@LivGem_ee
@LivGem_ee Ай бұрын
The BC one, honestly, good for that girl for moving on with her life. Fellow Canadian here!
@starboyparks
@starboyparks Ай бұрын
2:43 should've made your username crazywerewolf888
@jellybeanboy8724
@jellybeanboy8724 Ай бұрын
"Thank you lord Bach for posting!" we all say in unison
@Lyla944
@Lyla944 Ай бұрын
0:05 same
@abiwilliamson468
@abiwilliamson468 Ай бұрын
16:15 is so nice sound. Uncle figuring something out sound.
@montyparata3507
@montyparata3507 3 күн бұрын
You will make a great father mate. Idk if you already have kids or not but when you do they're gonna be madlads
@lils6065
@lils6065 Ай бұрын
THE KING IS BACK
@elin_
@elin_ Ай бұрын
1:42 Us scandinavians might sound American to you, but I can hear the Swedish, Danish and Norwegian accent behind it. Especially in older people.
@kierachance
@kierachance Ай бұрын
guys wake up bach uploaded🙌🏼🙌🏼
@zog2844
@zog2844 Ай бұрын
I'm actually so jealous of Bachs f1 posters at the back. I was way too distracted by them
@ilovehorrorrr
@ilovehorrorrr Ай бұрын
bach's beard is looking SO good rn
@not.mojiii
@not.mojiii Ай бұрын
THE BACHTERIA COLLECTER HAS POSTED AGAIN💯💯
@Ljfxo13
@Ljfxo13 Ай бұрын
i dont think he should be expected to be the little girls father but he could atleast give her a bloody hug how immature u wont hug a 4 year old girl whos crying
@livlauren5825
@livlauren5825 Ай бұрын
Oh thank god I just heated up my lunch
@lucyyyy16
@lucyyyy16 Ай бұрын
thank you bach you have inspired me to post my own AITAH
@Ria-z6b
@Ria-z6b Ай бұрын
thank you for the upload king Bach!! we all exclaim in unison
@gurkirandhadwal4053
@gurkirandhadwal4053 Ай бұрын
I should be finishing my essay but Bach comes first
@Hannah-Taylors-Version
@Hannah-Taylors-Version Ай бұрын
we've missed you king bach of the italians
@DaejaEmiko
@DaejaEmiko 29 күн бұрын
My parents are divorced and my mom has 4 kids only two are my dads and he has always treated my younger siblings as my siblings. Like giving them birthday gifts and Christmas presents. And inviting them out if they want to and always greeting them when they are around. But the OP is NTA
@ThePrymal
@ThePrymal 29 күн бұрын
You might be my favourite KZbinr
@elliebellieboo
@elliebellieboo Ай бұрын
Bach is a time lord confirmed ‼️⁉️⁉️‼️
@josh4kicks
@josh4kicks Ай бұрын
8:07 NTA, that girl does not see him as a father figure, even if she has FOMO. Real dad should be getting pressure from mom
@nathanr5737
@nathanr5737 Ай бұрын
Thank you for clarifying Lord Bach, I did think Jesus had entered as a new character to the story
@MoldyTiramasu
@MoldyTiramasu Ай бұрын
wait I thought he couldn't read...
@jojo_ischicken
@jojo_ischicken Ай бұрын
Thanks for this wonderful video blessing my ears and eyes ❤
@maykuraishi
@maykuraishi Ай бұрын
A new Bach video lets go 🎉 I’m a day late but better late than never 😅
@lifewithgrxcie
@lifewithgrxcie Ай бұрын
thank you lord bach we all say in unison🙏🏼🙏🏼
@skyrainfinity
@skyrainfinity Ай бұрын
finals are over now i can finally watch ur vids again🙌🏽
@Slimjimwilson
@Slimjimwilson 14 күн бұрын
I’m Italian but live in the UK and I’ve had to just learn to ignore the mispronunciations because I’d go mad if I didn’t 😂
@stick6669
@stick6669 5 күн бұрын
3:13 he said Porsche wrong every time
@baconandeggs.official
@baconandeggs.official Күн бұрын
mate your my new favourite top youtuber. 🤙
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