Arielle Scarcella, calm down it's just TikTok... Trans Woman Reacts

[@_samanthalux]

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[@Lily-lp5dg]

Hiii 👋

[@Aymelia-colon3]

Hi Samantha, you look great

[@taco2399]

I love the purple background, maybe green next time with your emerald necklace :) anyways love you girl

[@jesseb6432]

daily remember that you are awesome ❤️

[@nayanmonigogoi5492]

Beautiful video u luks gorgeous day by day love u Samantha 💞💞💞💖💖

[@nixuniverse5240]

Y'all remember that episode of iCarly where Ricky Flame was fighting little kids to win at something because he knew if he fought anyone his own size he'd get rinsed ? That's how I view these people.

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

2T: PSG 4-0 CLF

[@jungtothehuimang]

That's the perfect representation of people like Arielle and Blaire

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

@@jungtothehuimang No and no

[@jungtothehuimang]

@@Amaterasu-zl5yh Don't be mad that we're funny and you're not love 😘

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

@@jungtothehuimang what?

[@LiamRichie825]

I’m just proud all of the lesbians I used to watch back in the day who were friends with Arielle have distanced themselves from Arielle because she’s gone so mask off.

[@Itsangie4now]

Tbh, I've seen her videos but I've never subscribed to her channel nor become a fan of her. I don't have a problem with Arielle being a lesbian. It's just I don't like her mentality towards the different sexualities out there.

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@Skil Set no u.

[@idkwuzgoinon]

I’m glad I got some sense and stopped watching her years ago 😬

[@akoalabear239]

Literally mask off. Shes an anti masker 😅

[@ratbastard6293]

I always got a weird vibe from her videos

[@spencerd6126]

My favorite part is when Arielle says “they’re hating us for being bioted” as if being bigoted is a good thing

[@beatrixthegreat1138]

Sounds like a self awarewolf to me.

[@thereadinggentleman551]

I’m surprised she isn’t cancelled for saying that already

[@mimzithegal]

Did you know not being transphobic makes you smarter, hotter, and better than everyone else? That’s not even a joke, it’s just fact.

[@hemlock1881]

I forgot to read the “not” the first time I spedread your comment lol

[@mimzithegal]

@@hemlock1881 ha ha, good thing you double checked

[@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342]

I'm the kind of guy who likes to argue just for the sake of arguing so I'm trying REAL hard right now to counter what you just said in any shape or form that I can possibly muster...... And I failed lol. That was a perfectly written comment!

[@hemlock1881]

@@ameliasellers6396 it’s just a fact 😊

[@kayenjee]

Facts.

[@henryejboro8371]

She saying that "they're eliminating homosexuality" just shows how arrogant she is. Like girl aren't you aware that they're guys who are trans and also gay Or is you just ignoring that part.

[@coconatsu9079]

or bi/pan trans people

[@henryejboro8371]

@@coconatsu9079 exactly!

[@galuxius1861]

Not to mention a huge push in rights FOR LGBT+ (that includes gay people) was done by trans women?

[@rociovalladares3412]

I agree, for example Contrapoints, she identifies as a Lesbian

[@rociovalladares3412]

Can somebody help me, I hate Arielle, and most things she stands for. But a I do have a question (It's just a question, I genuinely don't understand and I would like to know) I'm a Lesbian, but how que you identify as Men (Cis or not) and be considered a Lesbian?🤔 How would that work?

[@ch6rista]

“trans people hate gay people” im literally a gay trans guy LOL

[@kazikek2674]

Arielle be there asking "Do you hate only other gay men or yourself, too?"

[@sikly_frsh]

Same

[@dxrk_rxign]

same Imao

[@allydef]

I’m sorry but you’re actually not real because she said so (/s)

[@Ari-xz9en]

Right trans people don't hate gay people there's trans gays to lol she don't know

[@kaiedwards9032]

Can someone tell Arielle that “Euphoric” and “turned on” arent the same thing 🙃

[@meiimacca4054]

Is she seriously claiming that? I don't even want to watch a reaction that woman is so vile.

[@1sleepyguy42o]

@@meiimacca4054 yes, a trans woman was sharing how getting called things like 'bitch' or 'whore' make them euphoric and Arielle said "sounds like a fetish. Being called that is literally turning them on"

[@inviotb]

Oh my god she actually thinks that? She is such a sick human being, for the amount that she calls us perverts, it seems she’s the perverted one in this situation

[@actualgoblin]

@@1sleepyguy42o gendercrits say that all the time but i've literally never heard a trans woman say that misogyny made them feel gender euphoria hmmmm

[@pivinne5536]

@@actualgoblin but even then its not being degraded thats making them feel gender euphoria its that they used slurs against women to them, making them feel validated as trans women. Which makes perfect sense to me. I cant see how that's a bad thing- its a silver lining on a crap situation

[@anitanielsen1061]

"They are ELIMINATING homosexuality" I see she is ignoring the gay transes ig

[@Crazylegoman3791]

Oh yeah you’re right. Trans dudes who like dudes and trans girls who like girls.

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

1T: NAP 0-1 JUV

[@sarahbarabe8470]

Also idk why people in such outrage as if trans people are a huge chunk of the population when the reality is that the majority is not even LGBTQ at all

[@mycenaeangal9312]

@@kimieatsu so then she’s ignoring the bi and straight trans people? Like even if we take her fucked up logic and run with it, it still doesn’t work.

[@shanenanigans27]

In a TERF's mind gay trans women are just 'straight men trying to force lesbians to date them' and gay trans men are 'women who pretend to be gay men so they face less sexism.' Which is utter bullshit they use because they don't listen to trans people. They just want to villainize them.

[@charlie2.048]

A trans person makes a joke on TikTok and TERFs collectively have a complete mental breakdown.

[@babayaga102]

"It's like being degraded is turning them on" I'm sorry sis but BDSM existed even before cis people understood that trans people exist you can't blame trans people for that lmao

[@isafi6408]

also she equated gender euphoria to being "turned on", once again a transphobe is making trans women out be sexual deviants

[@anitanielsen1061]

That’s JUST what I thought when I saw that!

[@andrewwindsorisanonce2951]

@@isafi6408 Because they are

[@isafi6408]

@@andrewwindsorisanonce2951 how so?

[@actualgoblin]

@@andrewwindsorisanonce2951 elaborate, kind sir

[@SeanShimamoto]

I can’t stand Arielle. She’s a horrible representation of our community. We’re supposed to be lifting each other up, not tearing each other down.

[@pompitousoflove]

As a nb lesbian, we don't claim her

[@DarDarBinks1986]

Trans lesbian here. I don't claim Arielle. She's an angry TERF afraid of losing her place at the table.

[@R0mbVs]

Shes also buddy buddy with Candace Owens which is a yikes from me

[@cipherbunz2612]

another nonbinary lesbian here, I dont claim her either

[@coconatsu9079]

yikes i hate her too but glad that lesbians stand against her :))

[@DayDay0622]

I'm trans and I most certainly didn't transition to be a fetish. I Transitioned to be myself and hoped people would respect my transition and see me for the woman I am.

[@RebisOfTheseus]

You are perfect

[@BFBFour2763]

​@@RebisOfTheseus fr

[@benbastianiartmusic1421]

Samantha's sass is just the best. Unbeatable!

[@dudleya]

@Skil Set no

[@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342]

@@dudleya uhhh... YES!

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@@dudleya I’ve seen that person’s other comments and I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and think that you were replying to their rude comment. (Sorry if this sounds passive aggressive, I don’t mean it like that if it does sounds like that.)

[@dudleya]

@@HiBuddyyyyyy I was

[@AnDr3w066]

“Samantha”

[@rickyknives9550]

If we're trying to eliminate homosexuality by being trans... Tell me why I, a trans guy, is HELLA into men. (Sure, I'm bi, but point still stands.)

[@NatureLover-pj2qe]

I’m also a bi trans guy

[@galacticbreadboi9796]

Eyo- bi trans guy gang!

[@adrian6591]

They took our job 🤣🤣

[@Lorvina1]

She's talking about girls that might think they should be boys because they like girls. Lesbians becoming straight because they are confused. There are detrans stories like this.

[@pepethelastsamurai3480]

@@Lorvina1 yea but to imply thats all trans guys or anywhere even close to most of them is definitely incorrect, and even most detransitioners only do so temporarily. I absolutely am supportive of detrans people if thats their truth, but they shouldnt be used as a transphobic argument. They are people not tools

[@Amy-oo7mm]

Trans person: While being called derogatory terms for my correct gender sucks, at least they're acknowledging who I am. Arielle: This proves it's a fetish!

[@austinlam1172]

does arielle know that she can just be a lesbian without bothering us? like you don't need our approval to be gay girlie, idc what you're up to

[@gaybatgosqueak]

Yeah but she lacks talent and still has to pay her rent. Hence why we suffer. Wish onlyfans didn't shoot itself in the foot, she could of just went on there and left us alone

[@rlybigcheese]

She's just grifting, it's so horrible what some people are willing to do for money. She's attacking a whole marginalized group just to get some conservative bucks, it makes me sick

[@subliteral1380]

If she doesn't need your approval, why do you need hers? She exists, sure, but if you don't listen to what she has to say, then it can't bother you. There's plenty of people online that would drive me crazy if I gave their opinions any validity. I just tell myself that they are wrong and then move on. Why torture yourself by caring about the opinions of people you don't like? It's not worth it, and it gives them power over your thoughts and emotions. Whose opinion matters most to you, yours or hers?

[@austinlam1172]

@@subliteral1380 I don't? lol

[@subliteral1380]

@@austinlam1172 Sorry. I misunderstood. You said that she was bothering you, and I thought that meant you cared what she thought, otherwise it wouldn't bother you in the first place. Does that make sense? Anyway, I'm definitely not trying to tell you how you feel, you know better than me!

[@NeuroticErotic]

Anyone else notice that the more Arielle obsesses over trans people, the more she seems to neglect her personal hygiene

[@MissMannah24]

let's just wait a few years and she's gonna look like gollum.. (already half way lmao). hatred and bigotry doesnt do your skin any good

[@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342]

@@MissMannah24 I don't like to mock the looks of people but you know... She's such a pos that well... Who really cares lol. Let's get real. Is she a burn victim or something? Perhaps a mud wrestler??? lol Why's her face look so dirty all of the time? I don't even think she's ugly really... Just that she looks like she needs a bath lolz.

[@MissMannah24]

@Mar See we can literaly smell her from here. if dirty wet sock was a person, it would be arielle lmao

[@bethanyoneal5789]

She always looks like she needs to take a shower

[@gaydragongeek]

Did anyone notice a little mustache and hair so lightened? She just looks so … different.

[@sophieknowles4876]

As a lesbian who went to Arielle's channel years ago to find sex positivity and education, it really frustrates me that she's gone down this road and is even actively sex shaming people. Good video, Samantha. ^-^

[@blairmcbride5437]

Yes how dare Arielle state facts like trans women are men and always will be and because lesbians and straight men like women they don't want to bang biological men.

[@Laura76393]

I’m in the same boat. I used to watch her as a teen and she was great. I wanted to revisit her channel to see what she was up to now and it’s just…. Wow

[@canonicallykayfabe]

Every time someone brings out a vid about Arielle Scarcella I am rudely reminded that she exists and still makes content

[@thenamescara64]

Literally same, I saw the title and was like ‘not her, what does she want now’🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

Why they still have their hair in their chest, l shave mine as much as l can

[@MissMannah24]

let's not remind ourselves that her ''content'' is mostly porn stuff and transphobia spewing nonsense.

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

I never heard of her before. Lucky me, I know now she exists.

[@toastghost9145]

I could've happily lived my entire life not knowing she existed. Alas.

[@FortoFight]

On the topic of finding misogny euphoric as a trans woman: what Arielle isn't grasping here is that those of us that have this experience aren't necessarily justifiying misogny by doing so. It's entirely involuntary, I don't choose to find misogny validating but the sad reality is that misogny is a part of the woman's experience in this culture and therefore for a lot of trans women it's a sign that other people recognise us as women when we're on the receiving end of the same treatment. I would take issue with someone if they tried to claim that misogny was good because of this, but I don't think that's a common take.

[@anzabi1543]

I fully understand you, as a cis woman I have this feeling too sometimes (or internalized misogyny) that pretty women get cat called or degraded so even though it's dangerous and a bad sign when guys do this, there sometimes remains the feeling that to be a woman, especially a beautiful woman (cause people focus on women's looks so God damn much) I have to get cat called cause even negative attention seems like positive attention. It feels awful but it's the sad reality so I'd absolutely understand how a trans woman could feel this way, and there's no point in being mad about women who feel this way cause we didn't choose to treat women like garbage, that was men over hundreds of years, so I'd say there's defo some (generational?) Trauma there that effects many many women to this day Edit:wrong word.

[@kenadiweldon4993]

And then the comment she made about it "turning trans women on"? Like what?? This bitch doesn't know what euphoria means apparently

[@anzabi1543]

@Fucking grass isnt it "Dysphoria"? :0

[@anzabi1543]

@Fucking grass ahhh Oki thank you for explaining:))

[@willowwisp9320]

you can get euphoria from bad things, that just happens! when transphobes on the internet assume im AMAB nonbinary and tell me i must just have a small dick and that’s why i think I’m nonbinary, i get a rush from that. Because in trying to hurt me they assume something I’d rather have them assume. It absolutely doesn’t mean it’s ok to body shame or reduce people to their genitals, just like transfemmes feeling mixed feelings about misogyny doesn’t mean misogyny is ok.

[@beccab2151]

"They're hating us for being bigoted." As they should be. Don't be a bigot.

[@ashleypisarts]

“Non-man” was inclusive to non-binary people and people that don’t identify as a male. It’s not rocket science, Arielle…

[@SpookiePossum]

Apparently to her it is

[@jungtothehuimang]

I cannot understand why this is so hard for people like her to comprehend it's all in the wording it's very clear she is willfully misunderstanding to push her narrative.

[@stevie5076]

I would understand this more if gay men were referred to as non-women loving non-women

[@jungtothehuimang]

@@stevie5076 we say non-men and non-women it just depends on what situation we're speaking about. This isn't a gotcha.

[@ItsAllNunya]

@@stevie5076 they are and its technically bc lesbians arent involved in mlm/nblm/mlnb discourse that we dont see that side of things. please look into this more. my best friend IS involved in it, and we discuss it regularly, this is my source.

[@AirieFeristo]

At this point I'm just grateful for Arielle providing trans/nb creators with free content.

[@AdeshMahabir1985]

Seems it goes both ways

[@viedaboss3510]

Thank you As a lesbian I support you and all trans people We are one community

[@Acorn905]

Yes! If we lift the others up we can all help evryone out! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 💙💗🤍💗💙 💖❤🤍💛🧡

[@eriwhomst]

love how she frames being a leftist as being awful... girl who is doing away with our rights rn? 😭

[@mjpink8408]

This fear mongering is why people make being a “leftist” seem like a demonic thing. Like no sweetie, try again 😂

[@galaxyocicat5660]

Trump literally tried to ban people like her from being able to adopt and she out here still supporting them lmao

[@ZOOM4N]

I cannot understand how can one be lgbtq and not a leftish ~ especially when leftish seeks social equality, it is like both want the same things but have a different name. It is just that being a leftish you focus more on the political view of how a society is being built but overall looking at the whole picture being lgbtq would fit perfectly in that kind of society .

[@shashamiaow1504]

if a men is getting better position in society because of patriarchy, doesnt mean he must support patriarchy. He could have think of the consequence for society and decide to be against it. the same with being left. we LGBT people might getting our rights but doesnt mean the extreme left is all correct

[@romyjane17]

@@shashamiaow1504 the extreme left in the usa is still right leaning in our country lol

[@abenagyampo]

Arielle Scarcella is jealous and miserable. She eats, sleeps, and breathes transgender discourse. I could not imagine being so obsessed with an entire group. She’s worried about everyone BUT Arielle.

[@tylerwatts2497]

She's cis too, right? Why does she think her opinion on trans discourse matters?

[@bigbawlzlebowski8886]

@@tylerwatts2497 One could say the same thing about white people talking poc issues...stop gatekeeping.

[@softgender]

@@bigbawlzlebowski8886 white people talking over black people during the ongoing BLM protests was a big issue as well. Majorities should not talk over minorities

[@iliporsberg6157]

@@softgender except you accept such a thing when it is beneficial

[@softgender]

@@iliporsberg6157 Uh, no, I personally don't. Or did you mean that minorities in general do? Because I think most people want allies to shout with them and their causes, not over them

[@TastyYazz]

As someone with the nickname "Mars", hearing Arielle Scarcella say "I love you Mars" gave me a visceral negative reaction

[@myasmith1820]

She does know that not all trans people are straight right?

[@07Flash11MRC]

Those people obviously don't count. Otherwise they would disprove her whole claim, lol...

[@Ari-xz9en]

Right

[@moxthecat787]

When a grown adult is mad about tiktok (unless there's actually something bad happening of course), you know they're just transphobic (in this instance)

[@cringeygachakidthatalsodoe7154]

You mean lgbtq+ tiktok? because most people are angry about little kids dancing

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

Empoli 1-2 Venezia

[@moxthecat787]

@@cringeygachakidthatalsodoe7154 yeah, mostly LGBTQ tiktok

[@ddjsoyenby]

let kids make their lil tiktok vids.

[@Amaterasu-zl5yh]

@@ddjsoyenby true

[@azayzelderegis1655]

I don’t appreciate the trans TikTokers who say “this is why you should be trans”. Being trans isn’t a trend, it’s not a luxury, it’s quite literally having a female brain inside of a male body, which causes gender dysphoria that can be relieved by transitioning. Or vice versa for trans men. It’s not a trend! Having gender dysphoria isn’t “cool, hot” etc. It’s just a variation that naturally occurs in humans. That’s like saying “everyone should be gay because it makes you cooler and hotter”-No!! Being gay is not trendy or a choice! Neither is being trans!

[@miaumiaumiau692]

you didnt watch the video/seem to understand it. the video was a joke, as a trans person, it's jokes.

[@azayzelderegis1655]

@@miaumiaumiau692 Yeah other people don’t view it that way.

[@Xxxypher]

Arielle is really bitter about younger people gaining more attention faster than she did at her peak back in 2013/14. Her brain has really degenerated over the last 7 to 8 years and she's forgotten that the internet is far more accessible now than what is was a decade ago.

[@tavrosnitram1529]

i can totally see this being the case i remember first watching her back then and had to bail because of how bad she was getting she just kept getting worse it seems

[@mountain9310]

7-8!? Edit: oh shoot... I think ik stuck in last decade...

[@Itzy91]

She doesn't have the same reach she once had. Remember how we all thought she was decent all those years ago? lol

[@ddjsoyenby]

terf ideology rots your mind.

[@lamb2004]

she gave me bad vibes back then like her presence always weirded me out and glad that my senses are right

[@achani97]

The bathroom debate.. As if a potentially predator would stop at a simple sign to go into a womans or mans bathroom. People should fear those and not fear people who just want to feel safe and secure.

[@tavrosnitram1529]

seriously though, tons of men would barge into the womens restroom not even claiming to be trans women before this whole "bUt WhAt AbOuT tHe BaThRoOms" nonsense

[@lealsofi]

@@tavrosnitram1529 saying "women will get raped anyway" is not a good argument to abolish the few sex segregated spaces we got left. The issue with self-ID is that men will be legally entitled to those spaces, look at Wi Spa, the "transwoman" was not breaking ""any rules"" and ended up being a serial sex offender and indecently exposing themselves to women and girls, if they didn't let people with penises in these spaces this wouldn't happen at all, bc staff wouldn't let them in.

[@trashcat4886]

@@lealsofi oh of course you're here too. Have you ever BEEN outside?? TALKED to a person?? I know I'm wasting my time because your stupidity is mind numbing, but no one walks into women's spaces, claiming that there is no issue with them being there. That is literally made up. Regardless of the fact that most rape doesn't actually come from random strangers, it comes from family members and friends, a 'women's' sign is not going to stop a rapist! He (assuming they are male) doesn't care! Most men, especially those who ARE emboldened enough to force themselves onto others are painfully insecure. They're not going to demand access to women's spaces with the hope of eventually taking advantage of them? Not to mention: trans people are more likely to be the victim of sexual violence! Not the predator! It's so painfully sad how this blatant fear mongering is so common. There is no big bad cis man who is going to put on a wig just for what? The power? The thrill of walking into the women's restroom and taking a piss? Men don't WANT to be seen as women! For example, the Olympics have been allowing trans women to compete for years, and not once, not ONCE has a cisgender man called himself a woman to win a shiny medal. Why? Because men don't want to be seen as women! That's why misogyny is still a thing?? There is no dude with a beard going into women's spaces because a transwoman (who may or may not still have her dick) is allowed in there. Because guess what?????? Being trans is ALSO seen as a bad thing! There are people who make caricatures and paint trans people in a negative light, sometimes through their own bodies, but those people don't ACTUALLY want to be seen as trans!! That's the whole fucking problem with it! Also they didn't even say "women will get raped anyway" they literally said (it didn't stop them before), implicitly stating that it's not going to stop them now, because it's not! Bad people don't have this need to justify their actions. Bad people are a result of bad mentalities. Somebody going into these spaces with the intention of hurting others does not CARE about who is or isn't allowed there. Murder is illegal, but that doesn't stop Joe down the street from killing someone now does it?? Because Joe down the street doesn't CARE about the law! He wants to hurt someone! Also who is going to check? Who is going to make sure that no one going into the women's restroom secretly has a penis? Who is going to make sure that no one in the guy's restroom has a vag? No matter the answer, it is creepy and uncalled for. Not to mention, it literally will not work. Do you want to run into someone as beautiful as Samantha in the guy's bathroom? No, people will claim she doesn't belong in there! (She doesn't, but that's the issue with the 'trans bathroom' regulations). Has anybody here seen Jamidoger? Dude has a full beard and looks pretty damn manly... but he's trans... Do you want to see him in the women's restroom? No! Because he doesn't belong there! There is quite literally no way to enforce trans bathroom laws, because you do not know whether someone is trans or not! Even when I still identified as cis and used the bathroom of my assigned gender at birth, I got /so/ many weird looks. I get weird looks regardless of which bathroom I use, because You. Cannot. Tell. You think you can, but you can't. THAT is why the trans bathroom debates are stupid. It's literally victim blaming and prejudice held together by fear mongering.

[@unknowns78]

@@trashcat4886 Go Trash Cat!

[@pjaypender1009]

She's just intentionally misunderstanding the "Think of the children" argument. What she doesn't realize is that they will come after her again.

[@gaybatgosqueak]

She's the token lesbian, she probably thinks she'll be accepted

[@moonchild2077]

I like how she has to dumb down the conversation to "make" her points. (I put "make" in quotations because she still isn't doing a good job and just comes off as a hateful, bitter little woman.) She cackles to herself when she thinks she made a good point and the bigots will agree even when it literally makes no sense, just because it validates their bigotry. What a fun life. 🙄

[@puerry]

I mean maybe if you guys actually had intelligent rebuttals with evidence rather than sarcastic and egotistical remarks I'd believe you x-x

[@moonchild2077]

@@puerry idk who "you guys" is.... Also, none of that was sarcasm? I am not trying to convince you of anything. Idk who you are. 😂

[@harasnicole]

Why does it look like Arielle just ate some chocolate sloppily and didn't wipe her face properly?

[@LF-mg3nx]

Hahahaha accurate :'D

[@sikly_frsh]

I feel like she put on some really pale foundation on her cheeks or somethin

[@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342]

At first I was like dang, I thought my facial hair was bad. Oh wait... She just needs shower lol.

[@mortenbecks2017]

yeah, she should have exfoliated away that self-tanner a week ago.

[@bethanyoneal5789]

She just always look dirty. It’s gross

[@illreadwhatshesreading]

love how all these conservatives are now turning their attention to making fun of teenagers on tik tok also really rubbed me the wrong way when Arielle was commenting on that trans woman writing about how she gets euphoria from being called slurs by saying 'this is what THEY want'. like this was just one woman speaking for herself?? why are you talking about the trans community like they're a monolith?

[@kazikek2674]

It's easier to dehumanize and abandon any attempt to connect and empathize with perceived enemies if you treat them like a monolith and disregard personal thoughts, nuance, and ways they reach their conclusion. World would be better if people in any and all types of discourse on all sides of the political spectrum remembered this, but, well, for now we are stuck with how it is.

[@Hannah-kh4be]

Samantha's makeup is always so beautiful!

[@anitaturri9514]

@Skil Set you're not doing what you think you're doing troll, here's the attention your parents clearly didn't give you ... 🙄🙄🙄

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

@Skil Set uhm what

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@@anitaturri9514 good comeback. (Sorry if this sounds sarcastic, I genuinely mean it.)

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

Yeah, she’s so beautiful! I wish I knew who to put on makeup like her. I struggle so much with eyeliner stuff ._.

[@pepethelastsamurai3480]

@Skil Set Everyone reading your comment rn: kzbin.infok6lkaeiOJTM?feature=share

[@Ishouldgo2sleep]

As a student in psychology who had a course about how "genders are socially construted" and as a person who's life moto is "let them be" I cannot fathom people taking the time to create a video trying to stop progress... girl is fighting the wind real hard

[@tavrosnitram1529]

genders really are a social construct, and many societies have had their own terms for different sexualities and genders throughout recorded history, its only, i guess historically recently with all the colonizing, that people take issue with it

[@gaybatgosqueak]

It's for money

[@crazysmall.artist]

@@tavrosnitram1529 it's not but okii.

[@crossroads670]

Socially constructed? Lmao what. So trans people were just socialized poorly by their parents into the ‘incorrect’ gender?

[@gaybatgosqueak]

@@crossroads670 You aren't the brightest bulb in the box eh? Gender is a social construct, this is a fact. What that means is that gender doesn't exist outside the human mind. Humans created the idea of gender in order to describe themselves within a society.

[@lunarloser09]

Arielle Scarcella: "Nonbinary is stealing all the lesbians!!!" Me: *Sips my nonbinary lesbian juice*

[@Ari-xz9en]

Congratulations

[@cptRb0o]

Sameee bestie!

[@fridaybutitssaturday1362]

How can you be a none-binary lesbian? Are you meaning it in terms of attracted to people who have the organs of a woman or something else? I'm researching this topic a lot for a little article so I'm trying to get as many views from as many different people as possible

[@lunarloser09]

@@fridaybutitssaturday1362 the (most updated) definition of lesbian is "non-man loving non-man". I, as a non-binary person, do not identify as a man and am attracted to women and other non-men. Hope this helps a bit :)

[@fridaybutitssaturday1362]

@@lunarloser09 actually yeah- that helps a bunch- thanks

[@ClassicKellyYT]

I’m just glad Samantha’s videos exist so at least while we’re watching stupid and hateful people on the internet, we have some of her therapeutic comedy on the side. 🧡

[@Nicolas-sd4yk]

@Skil Set no she isn’t.

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@Skil Set you are wrong and being a d*ck. Leave please.

[@chadfalardeau5396]

@Skil Set never was

[@jonnaking3054]

@Skil Set what does it mean to be a man to you?

[@angelrodriguez1776]

Samantha Lux is a MAN!

[@ryanleon288]

some of my favorite things from this: - arielle saying "these people" in reference to trans people - kink shaming degradation

[@silvercandra4275]

This is probably the one time, that kink shaming degradation actually would make one feel bad in a not fun way, if it wasn't her doing it. I'm joking, but not quite.

[@ryanleon288]

@@silvercandra4275 for real tho

[@microwave8931]

Why do people get so upset over k¡nk shaming

[@silvercandra4275]

@@microwave8931 I always get kinda upset over it, but in this particular case, because she apparently used to be all about sex positivity and contradicted herself by doing it.

[@actualgoblin]

@@microwave8931 idk, I think it's funny

[@simonantonehie6392]

As a cis lesbian, Arielle makes me so angry

[@cluckerchick9425]

Same

[@ilyStarry]

Every time I see that woman pop up on my feed a tiny percentage of me dies inside. Although Arielle wouldn’t care as she’d probably want me to die on the outside too.

[@talcastle4656]

every time Arielle talks abt trans women is just: Arielle, tell me you believe autogynephilia theory without telling me you believe autogynephilia theory

[@monikabaumann6050]

She once mentioned autogynephilia unironically back when she was friends with Kalvin Garrah and Storm Ryan in one of their videos. That was the moment I realized she was a TERF and lost all respect for her.

[@Ian_Jules]

@Reality, Bane of Men in Dresses Are there autogynephiles in existence? I wouldn't be surprised. But to use that as evidence that all trans women are autogynephlic is a *huge*, unjustifiable leap.

[@kazikek2674]

@@Ian_Jules Pretty much. I also find it a bit of a flag when someone refuses to express their views directly and then utilizes phrases lke 'those people' and 'a transgender'. Not all of my views are 200% LGBT+ positive all the time (not surprising for where I come from), but dang it, that feels like a major lack of empathy and often a dehumanizing attempt.

[@tire.d743]

Unrelated but, Samantha's voice is so calming to me like If I had friend who talked like that I would listen to them ramble forever

[@petrasolano2.073]

on behalf of the lesbian community I apologize and I inform you we are not all like this

[@channelcoconut6830]

You don’t speak for the lesbian community, only for yourself Just like Arielle

[@ryn6606]

as a lesbian i agree with your message

[@petrasolano2.073]

@@ryn6606 ty

[@beatrixthegreat1138]

We know.

[@jonirenicus463]

We don't care, nobody cares weve better things to do

[@soulgazer11]

I like to call her Areola Salmonella.

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

Lol

[@redacted7851]

I call her the same thing lol

[@13th.moon.]

i love how people like arielle completely forgot the kindergarten rule of 'dont judge a book by its cover' she sees a non-passing trans woman and calls them a fetishist, but then when they DO pass, she says they're making a mockery of women and that they're sexist for being extremely feminine

[@MagicBus-ct7fe]

It is disgusting to say that being a woman is something you get from a bottle you buy

[@yasminchan7425]

"Let the men in your life know that you can take care of yourself" I honestly expected her to agree, the person were literally just saying women don't need to rely on men protecting them from everything, we aren't that weak?

[@toastghost9145]

It's always interesting when someone disagrees *just* to disagree, even if doing so goes against what they actually believe. Do you hate trans and enby people so much that you'll degrade yourself and other women just to not have to acknowledge that they said something wise?

[@tavrosnitram1529]

not to mention, tons of men need protection from other men all the damn time, as well as protection from women sometimes

[@microwave8931]

Yeah the children sure don't need help!

[@alexbennet4195]

@@microwave8931 No babes, children need help from ADULTS (who are not, in fact exclusively male). Their comment was about women, who fortunately are not actually children.

[@microwave8931]

@@alexbennet4195 someone built like a man vs a woman

[@whateveriwant8039]

The only thing that I agreed with Arielle with is that being lesbian makes you hotter and smarter than everyone else

[@morgan9660]

As a nblw, I 100% agree

[@eaterbattery]

And being gay makes you cooler than everyone else, sorry it's just how it is 🙄💅

[@eaterbattery]

And being gay makes you cooler than everyone else, sorry it's just how it is 🙄💅

[@0racle.sunrise3570]

Biphobe! (I'm kidding, don't take this seriously)

[@s0f_03]

As a lesbian, I wholeheartedly agree.

[@Kima344]

6:05 1 year later and Arielle was right all along

[@thebloodyarchon5013]

I have a cousin who is trans and i love him. Xavier if you ever see this, know that you are loved by me, God and your family. Same goes for any other trans person that sees this, please know that. Don't let jerks like Arielle and Candace Owens get to you, Ok. You are loved, you are valid, you are not evil, you matter and you deserve to live your truth, not the lie they tell you to live.

[@Pursuepeace0715]

why not just call and tell them?

[@thebloodyarchon5013]

@@Pursuepeace0715 who says don't.

[@Pursuepeace0715]

@@thebloodyarchon5013??? pick up the phone and make the call!!! 📞

[@thebloodyarchon5013]

@@Pursuepeace0715 Who. Says. I. Don't. Do. That. Already?

[@dio_hoestar_4204]

@The Arcon Don't listen to this other cranky dude. You're a real one.

[@clown-eyes]

Ok but like your new background is so pretty not sure if you’ll keep it but you should!

[@h4zith]

I think she switches between the rainbow colors in order for each vid

[@clown-eyes]

@@h4zith ya

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@Hazith yay rainbows!!

[@JRedrum]

“Just let people use whatever words they wanna use” great! Problem solved. So does that mean y’all are gonna stop policing language then?

[@MiracleMorris]

I'm so embarrassed that I used to subscribe to Arielle years ago...hopefully I can make up for it by subscribing to you 🙂

[@meiimacca4054]

That's called growth and it's beautiful!

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@@meiimacca4054 ATTENTION EVERYONE! Wholesome comment alert.

[@MiracleMorris]

@@meiimacca4054 Awww thank you! That was such a positive statement

[@meiimacca4054]

@@MiracleMorris Of course! We stan empathy and education! 💖

[@meiimacca4054]

@@HiBuddyyyyyy Eyyy someone's gotta be since Arielle aint!

[@a_random_fangirl9618]

8:05 according to the LGBTA wiki "Lesbian is a term that defines queer attraction to women. This attraction is most commonly used as exclusively wlw/nblw attraction, as communities sorrounding exclusive wlw/nblw have become the primary part of the lesbian community. However, there is no one perfect definition that encompasses all experiences of lesbianism. This term includes butch, femme, non-binary, anonbinary, cusper and multigender folken." And this is just the first paragraph.

[@rociovalladares3412]

Isn't there a term that already defines a non binary person who is exclusively attracted to women?

[@rociovalladares3412]

(I'm just asking) How can you be gay or a lesbian ( historically binary terms) without having a binary gender?

[@rociovalladares3412]

And I say historically binary terms because in most definitions still defines gay and lesbian as people attracted to the same gender they identify as.

[@eaterbattery]

@@rociovalladares3412 Nb people liking women are also called trixits. And if non binary people call themselves gay/lesbian, it's okay, it's just a term they like better.

[@a_random_fangirl9618]

@@rociovalladares3412 Some non-binary people prefer call themselves lesbian/gay, because they may feel more comfortable using those terms. Of course there is a term for non-binary people attracted to women/men. With the comment, I was just saying that Arielle saying that lesbian means a woman with primary and secondary sex characteristics who is sexually attracted to a woman with primary and secondary sex characteristics. The definition she gave is wrong, since now lesbian means both a woman who loves another woman and a non-binary person who loves a woman.

[@maddysvideos2985]

"just let people use the words that they're comfortable with" the hypocrisy is insane

[@BarryBoggs-qp5lj]

Lmao the “some lesbians are men” tweet was probably referring to the fact that some trans men still identify as lesbians, which is hilarious because Arielle would 100% consider them a lesbian

[@BarryBoggs-qp5lj]

@@christmastree6817 not really, trans men are men but there are certain expectations and privileges inherent to being a straight man that trans men don’t always have access, while also dealing with a lot of harassment and discrimination that cis men don’t, so they cis straight men and trans straight men aren’t really the same, which can cause a lot of trans men who are attracted exclusively to women to be uncomfortable with calling themselves straight since it doesn’t really reflect their experiences. So it’s not saying all trans men who are attracted to women are lesbians, just that some identify as such for a variety of reasons and that’s not really a bad thing.

[@BarryBoggs-qp5lj]

Also a lot are older or were already in a serious relationship and don’t feel it’s necessary to analyze their entire identity

[@BarryBoggs-qp5lj]

@@christmastree6817 I just don’t see why it’s important to dictate what label other people use for themselves, using the “technically correct label” isn’t going to change transphobic people’s minds, and figuring sexuality/gender and how they interact can be complicated and a lot of people can’t be bothered to think about it if it’s not bothering them to begin with. Like as long as these trans men aren’t telling others they should be lesbians, I could care less what they call themselves

[@microwave8931]

A lesbian dude is straight, not lesbian...

[@BarryBoggs-qp5lj]

Y’all are just getting way too invested in how other people talk about themselves. There’s also plenty of trans woman who are only attracted to men who call themselves gay or homosexual. If they are happy and aren’t trying to force labels on others why does it matter

[@Trotsky0518]

One line I like from the Final Fantasy VII Remake is, "True beauty is an expression the heart. A thing without shame, to which notions of gender don't apply."

[@azarahwagner2749]

Trans rights are human rights and cover everyone !!!

[@TheFeelingOfC]

The last clip has me SCREAMING people in the lgbt+ community have said “bisexuality doesn’t exist” and other iterations of dumb shit like that for CENTURIES how does she think she has even one point???

[@CommanderCodey]

Arielle: “Homosexuality doesn’t exist because it’s based on a binary” Me:being a gay pangendered person 👁👅👁

[@iliporsberg6157]

What is pangender

[@swiggetyswoogety7556]

@@iliporsberg6157 I think it’s when someone is all genders

[@iliporsberg6157]

@@swiggetyswoogety7556 am i allowed to ask how it’s possible to be gay if one encompasses all genders?

[@clownfern]

Me with my nonbinary girl ass dating my nonbinary partner being VERY GAE

[@lux0s420]

Not yall ignoring the literal definitions of certain things... UGH.

[@JanayHeart]

I am literally obsessed with your vids! I’ve been binging them for like 2 days now and I’m so in love with you girly.

[@Bildgesmythe]

The conservatives that scream the most about saving women and children are also the ones most guilty of domestic violence. The never spare the rod group.

[@geewhiz747]

Any evidence?

[@snowcity1735]

The “wew” every time you reference how it flew over her head it’s just- *chefs kiss*

[@-J-e-m-]

Do people not understand jokes? Transphobes have such a weird perception of trans people that they can't even realise when we're being satirical?

[@NeonAmnesia]

They need any ounce of something to latch onto, and they'll just run with it without confirming whether or not it's a joke. Typical transphobe behavior.

[@defygravityXD]

"It's literally the idea of the 'gay agenda'" Yes babes, that's the joke. Who's a "snowflake" now?

[@anothermiddleschoolburnout8816]

I think we just gotta roll harder with the "Gay Agenda" thing.

[@Phase3baddie]

So wait...she thinks that trans people are trying to get rid of homosexuality, but then when trans people are homosexual, she also gets mad? Pick a lane

[@Jeatti]

Maybe trans people are just funnier and cooler :D (j) Also I literally awwed when jeffrey came unto the screen, please follow them if you don't already, they are such a source of healing, happiness and overall sunshine! Love from a cis bi girl #BWithTheT Always 🌈❤

[@Leena79]

I go to Jeffrey's tiktok whenever I feel I need a little kindness and extra acceptance in my day.😊

[@mjpink8408]

Oooh I love them!!

[@Jeatti]

@That Fruitcake thank you for your answer! That is very true, I will edit my comment to not include the first part of the sentence. We shouldn't attack people for displaying ND behaviour.

[@microwave8931]

Is Jeffrey the guy who said that women and children don't need help

[@Jeatti]

@@microwave8931 first of, they are nonbinary. Secondly, that sounds right out of context, I don't know what you are talking about

[@AmanKumarVlogs]

Samantha is such a great motivation for me on my own KZbin journey, I am glad I was motivated by this women

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

❤️ same

[@jonnaking3054]

I think "inspired" is a better word, since that prompts you to take action from a positive place. People like Ariella MOTIVATE you, motivation usually comes from a negative place

[@Righteousmagik]

can't believe arielle is doing the i'm the good trans woman routine. hope she learns that compassion and friendship will help her in her journey.

[@jacineyatrakos3149]

Arielle isn't a trans woman

[@AngelA-ws7qn]

I'm loving the 1st one of 2 transmascs just vibing and Arielle getting all upset that they said "we're cooler and hotter that you"... as if ua cis gays don't talk about how much cooler we are than cishets all the time

[@cat5933]

It’s so sad because as a young gaybie i looked up to her and the other lesbian youtubers that worked with her and I remember the shift in her content that was biphobic and now it’s super transphobic :( that was years ago but it still sucks that the people that helped me in the beginning are so malicious now

[@sadfaery]

Yep, I stopped following her when she ramped up the biphobia and didn't even see the massive transphobia until I started seeing trans content creators reacting to it.

[@elisa5302]

Gaybie lol hahahaha noice, can I use that? 👉👈 hehe

[@outtathepantry]

@@elisa5302 a lot of us use it lmao,,, they didnt come up with it, so yea you can use it owo

[@elisa5302]

@@outtathepantry I have apparently been living under a rock, with my fingers in my ears... Hehe jk idk I just wanted to be part of the convo is all 👉👈

[@taylorsherwood1903]

Her upper lip tan is KILLING ME. Baby girl.... Ariel, exfoliate mama.

[@Aspensauce64]

Arielle: “the ‘gay agenda’ thing is stupid” Also Arielle: “this is the trans agenda” What

[@pastlesandfish]

Is it just me or does Arielle look like she needs a bath?

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

Honestly yea

[@Punkrockpenguin2]

Wouldn't help though

[@thatpoorsandersy32yearsago36]

Yes, to me she looks like she has a beard

[@elle502]

as a lesbian, literally everything she’s saying about lesbians makes no sense😭

[@sarahbarabe8470]

Idk why the trans women in women's bathroom is a debate, like are trans women supposed to go into the men's? I feel like a trans woman in a man's bathroom is gonna be at risk for being the victim of violence and assault.

[@shaunnicolegroening]

my ex girlfriend is cis but was born without a uterus apparently it’s not even that uncommon ? Lmao

[@gOdkNoWsIWTBF]

The worst part about Arielle is that having pride month is largely thanks to trans women and drag queens (such as the awesome Marsha P Johnson!) so i really don't see how she can be a gay woman and then put down trans people.

[@CreativeUsernameEh]

people can be wrong. Being trans doesn’t make you immune to criticism or make you always right, especially when you’re anti science and anti free speech.

[@gOdkNoWsIWTBF]

@@CreativeUsernameEh of course, i'm not saying that trans people are above criticism. What I'm saying is that people within the LGBT community should support each other, not put each other down. (I'm a trans guy myself)

[@alimay4342]

That irrelevant lady : "trans people are hurting children" Children : no concept of sexuality or gender and sees trans people as any other person

[@Kleineganz]

I loved this! One thing that came to mind though... that tweet about 'lesbians are...' came across to me as bi/pan phobic. Like... if you're a woman who loves other women, you're lesbian, but you can also love men too... doesn't that actually make you bi or pan? (Not that Arielle's take was right either).

[@melthebestest2225]

yeah exactly! a lesbian is someone who likes women- that's kinda the whole point of it. if you like men, then you're not lesbain. God i hate bi/pan erasure

[@alexbennet4195]

The tweet was stupid af, but somehow even in disagreeing with something so obviously wrong and indefensible, Arielle's response managed to be stupid af too, just in the other way.

[@SCP-1116]

it's lesbophobic, too. there are other terms, like the umbrella term "sapphic", to describe non-men's attraction to women, be it exclusive to women and women-aligned people or not. a lesbian is sapphic, a bisexual or pansexual person can be sapphic, but a sapphic person may not be a lesbian if they're attracted to someone who identifies as male (or male-adjacent). there's a bunch of discourse about this, especially on twitter. lesbians deserve to have our own space. (you're entirely right, though-arielle's take was trash.)

[@marstheleanvampirequeen696]

1:34 did you know that learning about queer history and acknowledging that there have been nonbinary lesbians getting top surgery for decades makes you cooler, hotter, and smarter than everyone else

[@microwave8931]

That's not what lesbian even means

[@marstheleanvampirequeen696]

@@microwave8931 read leslie feinberg

[@marstheleanvampirequeen696]

@Reality, Bane of Men in Dresses leslie feinberg wasn’t a man and what does being jewish have to do with anything

[@microwave8931]

@@marstheleanvampirequeen696 Leslie Feinberg cannot change the English language

[@espen990]

I don't agree with the "it's just a joke" explanation. There's no humour in the eggplant tweet, it's just hurtful to cis gay men who have genital preferences. The real problem with Arielle commenting on that tweet is that she finds the single person on the left who has these kinds of opinions and acts like this is the leftist concensus. It's the same tactic as finding a video of a screeching red-haired feminist and pretending that this is the average feminist.

[@silvercandra4275]

I mostly agree with you, but I also kinda get where the eggplant person came from. Getting turned down for being trans is probably just as hurtful as being made fun of for having a genital preference. Not saying people should make fun of people for having one, just saying that I get the frustration...

[@espen990]

@@silvercandra4275 Yes, it hits harder for trans people because they often have to go through terrible self-doubt, self-hatred, and insecurity just for being who they are, so it's understandable that rejected trans people get angry... Increasing acceptance is key.

[@seanskoog388]

@@espen990 I am a gay man who is only into people who are biologically male and have male sex characteristics. I don't care that some gay men are open to dating trans men, because some only care about secondary sex characteristics. Everyone has preferences, and nobody should be criticized for theirs. What bothers me is that people get offended when they're rejected because they aren't the type of the person in question. I'm gay, and if I hit on a straight man, I won't be offended if I'm rejected.

[@violamae7090]

Arielle: “Did you know being a lesbian makes you cooler, hotter, and smarter than everyone else?” Me: [thinking of my past crushes] “Why actually yes I-“ [glances over, stops] Arielle: [looks freakishly like my (similarly transphobic) mother] Me: “...no, Miss. No it does not.”

[@BlueSkidoo13]

I once got an ask back in Tumblr days telling me to "Stay away from our gay men. Stop trying to make them straight" and I just said "no" because there's no convincing these people that trans people are who we say we are.

[@BlueSkidoo13]

@mr balls I'm married to a gay man. Lmao.

[@BlueSkidoo13]

@mr balls I'm a trans man married to a gay man. Bio sex has nothing to do with who you're attracted to.

[@BlueSkidoo13]

@mr balls No. Because sexuality and gender are two separate spectrums, even scientifically. Heterosexual is inaccurate. It's been proven at this point that gender isn't in the pants, but the brain.

[@lilimae9413]

there were some things she reacted to that i didn’t agree with. for example the “lesbians can be men, lesbians can be straight, etc.” one. however that was probably satire. but she turned it on trans ppl and blamed them. trans women can be lesbian cause they ARENT men, and so can non-binary people. the term non men is just to include enbies in the definition of certain sexualities such as lesbian

[@user-bv7lg5wi5p]

Mhm yeah. I didn't get the "lesbians can be men" or "lesbians can be straight" because like isn't the whole point of being a lesbian is not being attracted to men and being attracted to non-men.

[@microwave8931]

@@user-bv7lg5wi5p it's women. Not non-men.

[@TheDemonAscended]

She does realize that some trans folk are also gay, right? Like I’m a gay trans man. Also I’m proud of my surgery scars. The liberating feeling top surgery gave me was so strong that I’m still riding that high almost a full year later.

[@noodles8951]

Biologically you are a female. 100 years later when archeologist dug up your bones, they will identify them as a female not trans or whatever. Acknowledge science. Scientifically you are a straight female.

[@TheDemonAscended]

No, I’m gay. And they ain’t gonna dig up my bones, I’m gonna be cremated. We also keep records on those buried, so even if they did dig up my bones they’d see based on all records from my living life that I was male, and they would be able to conclude that I was a trans man based on bone structure and how I lived in my life. It’s not that hard, also future archeologists aren’t going to be as transphobic as they were in the past or present

[@TheDemonAscended]

@Reality, Bane of Men in Dresses if I was straight then I’d like just gals or just nbs. But I like guys and NBs, so I’m gay and biromantic.

[@TheDemonAscended]

@Reality, Bane of Men in Dresses it’s gay. A man attracted to another man is gay. I’m a man who’s attracted to other men sexually and romantically, so I’m gay. I’m also romantically attracted to non-binary people so technically if I was being specific I’m a biromantic and gay/homosexual man, but I mostly just use gay.

[@TheDemonAscended]

@Reality, Bane of Men in Dresses Yes, sex and gender are different. Sex is what you are born as; male, female or intersex, while gender is a hardwired identity; man, woman or non-binary. While gender and sex most of the time align, it sometimes doesn’t. And sometime sex doesn’t match your sex chromosomes. Cisgender is when your gender matches your assigned birth sex and Transgender is when your gender doesn’t match your birth sex. So a biological male can be a woman. And having XY chromosomes doesn’t always mean you’ll be physically male or have male parts at birth. Sometimes the Y doesn’t have the SRY Gene in an XY pair and sometime the X has the SRY Gene in an XX pair, and sometimes it’s just an X or more than two sex chromosomes. When it comes down to it the only thing that really dictates what and who you are is your hardwired identity, and deep down inside you know what gender you are and you don’t need to look at yourself nor at your documents to tell you that. I always knew I was a guy, I was just not lucky enough to win the coin toss on biology. I can’t change who I really am on the inside, but I can change the outside to match my identity. And my quality of life has improved. I feel much more comfortable and happy since I’ve come out and have transitioned. I sometimes forget I wasn’t born with male parts and it’s always jarring to see older pictures of me before my transition. The me I am now is the real me.

[@pinotnoir4234]

"those are children, you're like 45 years old calm down" lmao I died

[@randomdreamer5429]

it's so sad that some lgbtq+ people like Arielle are being hateful towards other members of their own community.

[@ddqio7774]

maybe cause some ppl in our community are taking it too far and ruining the opportunity of people understanding us and taking us seriously? tf

[@randomdreamer5429]

@@ddqio7774 what do you mean, i'm just talking about Arielle being transphobic while being in the lgbtq+ comminunity how are trans people "taking it too far" ?

[@Jenna-in4br]

@@ddqio7774 no, trans people have been here with us since the start, they aren't doing anything wrong

[@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417]

@@ddqio7774 how are they taking it too far

[@annaholdennn]

the amount of mental gymnastics you gotta do to get to these conclusions is mindnumbing, like how could anyone think like her lol

[@prageruwu69]

1:40 does she know that lesbians (and everyone in the lgbt community tbh) make jokes like that all the time?

[@sockz4884]

As a young queer person, her content is always so comforting. It’s always nice to know people are fighting for us, and Im glad I have someone I can look up to :]

[@RickNelsonMn]

This era of discourse is something I see as having emerged for me. There are 4 decades behind that sentence which explain it. There are about 6 years where the emerging era became known to me. I feel less lost at age 60, though sad I'm 60 writing this.

[@TheMeetic666]

A proper KZbin ad in the middle of the video, featuring Samantha, within a Samantha video, after the sponsored message? It's Samantha-ception, and I love it !!!

[@YomiTheBeast]

Ariel is so bad at constructing arguments that she has to unironically react to jokes as if they are real.

[@nahicorua]

"I think he's confusing being made fun of with being cat-called" they say it as if they aren't the same thing with different names🙄

[@leahkitty377]

I love how she doesn’t understand in the very first TikTok that they’re literally just joking

[@sunflowerspirited4974]

Her arguments against trans people don’t even make sense? I was lost every time her clips were on…

[@gaybatgosqueak]

She's strawmanning and playing dumb on purpose