No Arielle Scarcella, Non-Binary Is NOT Sexist

No Arielle Scarcella, Non-Binary Is NOT Sexist
Reacting to Arielle Scarcella's Non-Binary Video
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[@auntietoejam]

Nonbinary folks: *eating cereal in their own living room minding their own business* Arielle: I'm gonna need you to give me a scientific study that I will refuse to read.

[@-sam3304]

P e r f e c t c o m m e n t

[@poke-talia268]

Non-binary people just hanging out and watching videos by nb supportive creators like Samantha. They make a little blanket nest and get ready to take a floor nap or something. Holding a handful of bees, just whatever. They're living their lives.

[@entropyshade2120]

lmao

[@gnome5051]

Me, an enby, sitting eating cereal in my living room: oh no

[@WhichDoctor1]

@@gnome5051 You stole my line! :p Oh no

[@Hazy.Kitsune]

“I don’t understand this therefore it must not be real”

[@whatthefvksk]

Wow, in that case, math doesn’t exist. I don’t understand math so it doesn’t exist :>

[@RaisedByRage]

I don’t understand her therefore she must not be real 👀

[@existentialcrisiscat5188]

i don't understand Chinese... so it must not be real :0

[@KattReen]

@@whatthefvksk Abolish math!

[@mercyfulxtyrant]

I don’t understand science therefore it must not exist

[@jessherselfable]

I love how she’s like “If it’s x, y or a then I can get behind it,” as if all non-binary people are just waiting on pins and needles to have their identity validated by her specifically.

[@duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa]

THISSSSS

[@winkywonkie]

For real. Your uneducated opinions and assumptions don’t really matter sweet heart.

[@1greninjawolfbossdeath648]

So she isn't allowed to say she supports something? You said that she was saying "x" and criticised it like all people who agree with you were waiting for your validation. Hear how stupid that sounds?

[@winkywonkie]

@@1greninjawolfbossdeath648 Could you elaborate? I don’t know if it’s the way it was worded or the way I read it but I don’t know what your point is.

[@1greninjawolfbossdeath648]

@@winkywonkie I was saying to OP that she can voice her opinion with out thinking that everyone was waiting for her to voice it to be validated.

[@mophead_xu]

"imagine if somebody said that being a lesbian is for purely political." me, knowing there's a section of radfem who do believe identifying as a lesbian is a form of activism to reject patriarchy: "oh, no."

[@janicefinch3563]

But there are lesbians on all sides of the political spectrum There are gay men on all sides of the political spectrum. There are trans people are on all sides of the political spectrum. Most nonbinary people tend to lean way to the left. Which is why nonbinary seems political.

[@MossSolarisBright]

@@janicefinch3563 that's a legit interesting point actually

[@MossSolarisBright]

Wait people do that?

[@zeronicmuhidin8111]

@@janicefinch3563 most lgbt ar left wing

[@vuivraalbastra]

@@janicefinch3563 You're right, but that's not what the original comment is about. There's apparently a section of radfems who say sexuality is a choice so they choose to be lesbians because in their eyes you can't be a true feminist while still being with a man. It's... bizarre, to say the least.

[@defygravityXD]

Arielle: “Isn’t everyone nonbinary?” * Gender abolition has joined the chat *

[@elnombre5597]

Ah yes, step 1. Extract gender. Step 2. Find strange person on the internet with deep personal issues and over shares all the time but is honestly really nice and everyone should give them a chance but instead just walks all over them. Step 3. Profit

[@TehMomo_]

It's Step 3: ???? Step 4 is profit

[@elnombre5597]

@@TehMomo_ I WAS HOPING SOMEONE WOULD FIND ME FROM THAT IT WORKED HELLOOOOOO

[@wh9686]

@@neon9016 how??

[@soup6277]

@@neon9016 i really don't think it is? gender abolition is just the idea that it'd be cool if the concept of binary gender didn't exist at all lol

[@mathis3440]

“Non-binary doesn’t have a set definition” it’s almost like it’s some sort of an... umbrella term... that encompasses many different identities, like trans or LGBT.

[@Fatasscar67]

Ye! People who don’t actually align with any sort of gender could technically call themselves agender. Non-binary is just more widely recognized and requires less explanation these days.

[@rysingsun4693]

Yeah, it was really clear she didn't want to do any research on it. Just about any NB person probably could've explained it to her and answered all her questions. And like... Google exists. Some of us are agender like me, some are genderqueer, some are bigender... All she had to do was google or ask nicely. It's a bit frustrating.

[@alexturnbull1301]

Also it’s kind of self explanatory male and female = 2= binary and therefore non binary means not that

[@Lobo-o_o]

Yep!

[@yukiandkanamekuran]

i use the term of "its a system of gender that uses a spectrum rather than set categories" like every nonbinary person's experience is different. People gotta realize that.

[@redgumz3224]

"It seems like it's a made-up term that anybody can use for whatever they want." *So is gender Scarcella.*

[@lissq2769]

So are words in general pretty much haha

[@syd1735]

Religion and politics and many other social constructs

[@pluto7382]

EXACTLYYYYYY

[@pluto7382]

this comment is everything

[@shade247]

Sex isn’t though. Gender is made up but sex is not

[@terrikemp8751]

I'm a 56 year old Gender Fluid AFAB (Which I would say is a form of non-binary). And no-one lost a Lesbian with me, because I've always been attracted to Gay, Bi, Pan Men, that are masculine, but who aren't afraid of their feminine side.

[@vamplizzard]

Heck yeah my fellow enby

[@omnichrome9784]

I’m a 50 something non-binary person, also! 👋

[@catboy_tylerr]

heck yeah!! it's always wonderful to hear about nonbinary people that aren't young adults

[@xz740]

@@catboy_tylerr Just statistical outliers.

[@Snuzzled]

@@xz740 I mean, yeah, nonbinary people as a whole make up a small portion of the population. So?

[@lovesspinachmorethanpopeye]

"non-binary people don't exist" me: mr stark I don't feel so good

[@-poggersgogy101-9]

Me: ‘fades away’

[@leej2864]

mr stark please i don‘t wanna go

[@-poggersgogy101-9]

@Bob Snider :O I’m not real?!?(at 3am) “scary”

[@glassudassuhd4052]

@Bob Snider no

[@-poggersgogy101-9]

@Bob Snider wow turns out I’m gonna die because I’m neither O-o

[@marinaSassygUrl88]

Her whole video in 2 words : “I feel”/“I think”

[@Mx.Pickle]

Literally no facts presented at all... ridiculous. She seriously needs to keep her nose out of trans people's business because she clearly does not know what she's talking about and doesn't even care to do the research or educate herself. people will never leave us enbys alone omg

[@gialanamoon5094]

Welp, if our feelings are invalid, than so are hers!

[@Mx.Pickle]

@Fucking grass, Why thank you! you have a great day/night as well

[@dannyboy020]

I feel like a bird… so am I a bird now? 😂

[@amiliar2656]

She says non-binary is a "new thing" when it's literally been around for centuries. Why doesn't she research before she makes videos?

[@melmarmoria167]

obviously because the non-binary agenda of taking over the world already corrupted all the research material available. duh ;)

[@mewmew6158]

She chooses to be ignorant constantly, can't stand the bitch

[@horrorsans6427]

@@melmarmoria167 I know, right? I love doing things for myself ;)

[@yeoman2k1]

I think she meant the term being a new thing. But has NBism been around for centuries??

[@horrorsans6427]

@@yeoman2k1 From what I hear, at least one century.

[@spam9690]

Arielle when she finds out all words are made up and can mean different things depending on how people use them:👁️👄👁️

[@dimension196]

Ha ha Male chicken

[@blackbutterfly2437]

Real talk for sec: Is the word nesecaasssccescesary _really_ ne- ok really.... NEEDED?

[@roseedits747]

It’s the nails. You can’t resist subscribing when she’s got the nails

[@_samanthalux]

😈😈😈heheh

[@michaela_corinne]

I KNOW her nails are so amazing

[@bananacat4339]

Every time she asks you to subscribe I'm genuinely disappointed that I can't subscribe more than once

[@emma-di5ly]

@@bananacat4339 Same!

[@emailbenbenson]

Clickity-Clak Clickity-Clak

[@teeleaf9252]

"Why are people's identities only valid through the existence of pain" Ma'am I'm about to cry

[@reedsylvier5250]

Literally I want this on a t-shirt, a jumper, pins, the works, I want this on multiple items of clothing at all times. Give me some lux merch with this quote, I need this quote. NEED

[@ashanddoodles13]

@@reedsylvier5250 damn that's a good idea, I wonder if she'd be down for that

[@jasonbolding3481]

it would hazard to say it's related to defining "women" only through trauma and oppression

[@exposureeee]

Ikr. I loved when she said that.

[@RathaShadar]

This line hit me. I think the thought has always been there, in the back of my mind, but this line gave it voice. I've spent a lot of time justifying both myself and other people through their pain. The thought processes are long, hard, and complex. This simplifies things greatly, in a way that I probably should have noticed long ago.

[@scalylayde8751]

"everyone has masculine and feminine traits in them" - is she saying that nonbinary people think that in order to be binary you have to be a walking talking stereotype of your gender?

[@richardmetcalfe920]

She is.

[@iuliaionelapetcu1411]

Because that is what they are saying by making up this non-binary bullshit.

[@dollienan]

@@iuliaionelapetcu1411 ok lulia

[@scalylayde8751]

​@@myntie2529 Nonbinary is a broad umbrella term that covers any identity that is not "man" or "woman." For example, people who are gender fluid and feel like a man sometimes and a woman others may identify as nonbinary. Someone who feels that they are "inbetween" those two genders is nonbinary, but so is someone who doesn't identify with the scale of Men and Women at all. Many cultures have more than two recognized genders, and cultures like that were even more numerous in the past, so the idea of binary genders is not universal or inherent to humanity in any way, but it can be a hard concept to grasp when you're first introduced to it because of how the binary frames how we see world.

[@scalylayde8751]

@@myntie2529 I brought it up to make the point that the gender binary is not inherent to humanity. None of that had anything to do with the oppression of women, or female infanticide, but nice non-sequetor. If you decide you'd actually like to learn about nonbinary identities rather than troll, I recommend transequality.org as a place to start.

[@lumen526]

"Isn't everyone a little non-binary" baby ... you wanna talk? You feel dysphoric? It's okay we can work with that.

[@sparaticegoist4562]

THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT TO BE THIS FUCKING FUNNYJDJFJKDIF

[@Nerodotnet]

EXACTLY PLEASE

[@miaogolo6439]

It’s the same as when a baby gay is coming out to their mom who goes “well, everyone likes looking at women” LIKE?!?!?!? Excuse me mum is there something YOU want to tell ME?!?!?

[@enielfblerta428]

Yeah, some of those hardcore terfs seem pretty sus in that regard.

[@odessawales]

Not everyone's a little non binary.

[@entertain7us148]

Arielle: "Non binary is confusing" Samantha: "then FIGURE IT OUT GIRL, GOOGLE IS FREE"

[@MOTHHMAN]

Lmao she's such a queen (Samantha that is, not Arielle lol)

[@thearchangel6038]

Non binary means not binary I'm a bigot so tell me if I'm wrong

[@MossSolarisBright]

Google is indeed free (and so is hours of questioning your gender because you now have *k n o w l e d g e* lol)

[@jaredballoonboy7944]

@@thearchangel6038 The name is very self explanatory.

[@QuikVidGuy]

it's literally so much easier than trying to classify everything as 1 of 2 things

[@soulgazer11]

Samantha: **explain the definition of nonbinary** Areola Salmonella: "y'all can't even define nonbinary"

[@friendofstars]

Areola Salmonella 😂😂😂😂

[@Kai-iy3kk]

SALMONELLA 😂😂😂

[@Atinylittlefella]

SJSKJDKAJDKADKJ😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gaybatgosqueak]

Lol I'm stealing that name for her

[@imagineaworldlikethat4081]

Love that name

[@originalname6921]

Trans and enby people: exist Arielle: and I took that personally

[@roselizparadisnivar358]

fr

[@mellar5864]

What is enby?

[@originalname6921]

@@mellar5864 it's short for non-binary

[@mellar5864]

@@originalname6921 oh ok thx

[@roselizparadisnivar358]

@@mellar5864 nonbinary people, is when someone doesn’t identify exclusively as a man or a female and its an umbrella term

[@Sargassomermaid]

So I was a casual fan of Arielle back in the early 2010s when I was trying to figure out my identity and at that time her catchphrase was something like "thank you boyfriends, girlfriends, and everybody else in between" and when I found out last year she was a terf I was kinda surprised at the turn she took. Like at some point she did understand it or at the very least empathized with it.

[@missylarsson3517]

I used to watch her vids as well as a lesbian, but I honestly got tired of her immature ways. Many times she was talking about how disgusting penises were. Which is fine to think, but very rude to mention multiple times in many different videos. Not only are there people who might find penises attactive who are watching her vids, but also there might be trans people who are already feeling conflicted about their bodies hearing that, making them feel bad. And of course just cis men who also don’t deserve getting their genitals insulted. Idk it is just plain RUDE and this was way before the trans controversy started. I also thought she had this strange obsession of gold star lesbians and she loved to point out that she was one. She is really immature, defensive and willfully ignorant.

[@Sargassomermaid]

@@missylarsson3517 yes! That was a big contributing factor to why I stopped watching her! Like she started making content that was more and more... insensitive. I think I stopped watching around the time of her video where she had lesbians explain why they wouldn't date bi women. Like I'm surprised there isn't a video out there documenting her slow decent farther and farther right over the bast like 8 years.

[@happinesspridejoy7394]

I used to be a fan many years ago as well and then her videos just got worse and worse and I was like woah I didn’t subscribe for all of this 😧

[@lilacblue3331]

Omygod. I don't know her, but it must feel terrible to have to witness that

[@Sly-Moose]

Wow. Did she just become a sellout to the transphobes? XD

[@felixw8281]

She’s so confused it sounds like a gender identity crisis

[@reedsylvier5250]

Like those stereotypical "I hate this orientation"..turns out to be that orientation

[@ida6192]

arielle: i GUESS i could get behind nonbinary people if- everyone: literally no one asked you

[@Peertje304]

She's pretending we actually want her support XD

[@MaskedKittyYT]

like we’d ever need her lolz.

[@noorykorky5056]

LMAO... That's a good response. 👏

[@soupyweb]

the word non-binary is so self explanatory and she's still confused like-

[@Lee-ss8yj]

My grandpa's best friend recently came out as non-binary, and they are over 60. They transitioned in the past (mtf) and detransitioned because it didnt feel right for them. When they found out was non-binary was (my cousins (now ex) s/o is nb, so that's how my family was introduced to this topic), they instantly identified with it. I hate this "It's a trend" thing. No, people just finally have the information available and don't need to fear persecution.

[@vxmpirique]

Im happy that they is who they want to be :) but ye, i hate the “It’s a trend” thing to edit: as you can see, i am half asleep.

[@lunso3811]

Arielle: "We're loosing all the lesbians!!" Trans lesbians: exist Arielle: "No"

[@ddjsoyenby]

"ONKY CIS LESBIANS, AND YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO CHANGE DOWN THE LINE!"

[@MOTHHMAN]

Arielle is like "I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that"

[@dr3dg352]

I'm in trouble then...

[@cryokitty44]

True, weather she recognizes us as valid or not. Not that any of us would want her anyway!

[@robbesworkshop]

Lmao

[@amatanata]

Oh no. Not one of those “WERE LOOSING ALL THE LESBIANS!”.

[@apologyapocalypse8693]

Ooof she made a video about Elliot Paige, and that's all she basically says.

[@mrlnxf8455]

I'm a lesbian. I'm here. We're fine. We're doing okay. As long as transphobes don't use us for their ideology.

[@daninoa9650]

@@mrlnxf8455 We're just hiding from Arielle.

[@somewhatsurprisedpikachu2887]

@@daninoa9650 shhh, Don't let her hear you! 🤫

[@kaywho6477]

i’m a lesbian and i’m nonbinary. lesbian history is FILLED with enby and GNC people because of how being a lesbian interacts with and subverts expectations of traditional womanhood. it’s part and parcel of being a lesbian for so many of us. a pity arielle is so ignorant of her own community’s history...

[@dammit_larry]

“eXcUsE mE?! hOw dArE yOu iDenTifY wItH sOmeThInG i dOnT wAnT tO uNdErsTanD”

[@joeymatthews3576]

"But but it would just be too hard to accept you" Like what?!

[@craigjenkins5434]

"Don't want to" being the operative phrase. Anyone could figure it out with a little research

[@dammit_larry]

Parents: I will always accept you an unconditionally love you! Their kid: In that case, I’m non-binary! Parents: >:0

[@UTU49]

Why the hell is Arielle Scarcella so angry?

[@AnubisDogman]

Be what you want. If you're unconvincing, I'm calling you by the gender I see. The burden of proof lay with you.

[@moonbased7796]

Arielle: “Aren’t we all a little non binary??” Me: *spits out my apple juice* “MA’AM NO!! It’s like saying aren’t we all a little bit autistic? Which is a shitty claim to say. I’m someone who is questioning their gender and who is autistic and I ask you kindly you not to say that.”

[@fairyblu6929]

I am someone who is autistic and genderfluid and I 100% agree with you.

[@patrickmcgillis4634]

Same here ( autistic and bigender). I agree with you because not everyone has an asd and not everyone identifies as enby. Arielle is narrow minded and uninformed.

[@Rainykitty33]

Her: Sex is binary, only man and woman exist, gametes, basic biology, blah blah... Me, intersex: Hi 👀✌️

[@PKLuver944]

Don't you love it when people forget that genetic variations exist? Haha...haha...haaaaah. 😐

[@CarlosHernandez-jv6wk]

Her: Claims biology proves there are only two sexes. Me: Learned about chromosome variations in the 9th grade *checks watch* 11 years ago in a Biology textbook.

[@mushroomlover479]

Hello! I've never met an intersex person!

[@genericname8727]

@@mushroomlover479 You very well may have. Though I know what you mean.

[@lauragrigoletto906]

And also she forgets that some people ar born with XXY or X0 chromosomes

[@stellarpanda1431]

"Non-binary doesn't exist" Me: guess i'll die

[@dewilew2137]

👋🏽

[@stellarpanda1431]

@@dewilew2137 ?

[@moonbased7796]

Arielle: “non binary doesn’t exist?” Me, who’s questioning their gender: so do I die or? 🤔

[@stellarpanda1431]

@@moonbased7796 Mood

[@user-tx9eg4tc8o]

@@moonbased7796 arielle:"noooooooooo"*shakes head up and down*

[@alexruth9413]

when i was younger i thought that non binary people were attentions seekers, because everyone felt that way. turns out not everyone feels that way and i'm non binary.

[@mink5251]

This is so funny I’m sorry 😭 That seems to be how it is - I thought people who said they were bisexual were doing it for attention because “everyone finds both sexes attractive, you’re not special” and then I found out I was bi lmao

[@gwendolynrose6626]

I used to think that too and now I'm seriously questioning my gender lmao

[@bonthebunnycat667]

Same I was spoon fed enby phobic videos until I started to research and understood why I never felt connected with the binary genders 😭😭😭😭

[@kingofdemons573]

I felt the same way about enby and Genderfluid people, and turns out I'm genderfluid switching between male and enby and sometime female.

[@francismccarthy5926]

Arielle: talks about non-binary “erasing feminine traits” Me a non-binary person: *looks down at crop top and push-up bra.* “Huh.”

[@HkFinn83]

I respect your choice to be seen as a gentleman...or a lady

[@therubestergaming]

Lol gg, best of luck to you, human

[@lonk2026]

her saying that was so funny to me as an afab nb, i was only ever comfortable to present femininely after i came out. being nb let me express MORE feminine traits, not erase them

[@dannyboy020]

The female breasts are private weather you like it or not 🤷🏻‍♂️ Females are usually submissive and males or usually dominant in humans.. this isn’t a made up trait, it’s natural, even in cave man times You can see it with non human primates It’s weird… my own species doesn’t know how things work That’s so bizarre to me, I assumed humans would be more aware by now Non binary doesn’t exist, it’s made up and has no biological meaning. It’s a useless term for people who don’t fit in or hate their “gender role”

[@onyxhuddy2373]

"Isn't everyone a little non binary? " *Mother Mother plays in background *

[@itsthatocean]

😂 Literally what I thought too

[@bepis602]

JSJDHSHHSHSHSHHSE

[@spiderteeth9540]

I love that mother mother (specifically hayloft) is the band/song of Nonbinary people

[@bepis602]

@@spiderteeth9540 nah not hayloft, verbatim. Its literally about gender non conformity

[@iampidgeon6923]

*Excitment in hayloft*

[@gawd-zila]

Samantha is literally so amazing. Name *one* other youtuber who goes out of their way to give you time to politely subscribe.

[@airplanes_aren.t_real]

I really like that I wasn't expecting 0:43 but I was pleasantly surprised

[@willow_animates8123]

I know right! Some youtubers are just like: *OMG SUBSCRIBE NOW FOR MORE CONTENT, IF YOU DO, YOU GET GOOD LUCK FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE*

[@13._.1]

AND supports enbys those are hard to find....

[@wolfieisacat13]

ikr?! she's such a good person.

[@elixaire5517]

i love the 'thank you very much' idk just makes me feel appreciated

[@herberthidgens5937]

Her whole video is literally just "i don't understand non-binary people :( but instead of listening to actual non-binary people and educating myself, I'm just gonna make a lot of uneducated claims and assumptions so I can justify not agreeing with them"

[@cloroxbleach5734]

This is kind of unrelated but do you know why they are promoting gender neutral bathrooms?

[@okkelly6207]

@ Clorox Bleach well mostly for non-binary and gender neutral ppl to have a bathroom where they feel comfortable

[@cloroxbleach5734]

@@okkelly6207 so would it be like a third bathroom? Or would all bathrooms become gender neutral?

[@WhichDoctor1]

@@cloroxbleach5734 Gender-neutral bathrooms are already quite common in a lot of Europe where people are less uptight and squeamish around human bodies. There is just the one bathroom that everyone uses. Same with saunas and changing rooms

[@WhichDoctor1]

The worst part is SHE INCLUDED CLIPS FROM VIDEOS BY NONBINARY PEOPLE WHO EXPLAIN ALL THIS in her own video! All she needed to do was watch the vids she clipped from and all her questions would already be answered

[@totally_not_twig7851]

Saying that we're all nonbinary is bullshit. As a nonbinary person myself, the best way I would describe it to her is this: you use she/her pronouns. Those make you feel like you. If someone were to call you a he, or use he/him pronouns, then you wouldn't feel like you, you would feel uncomfy or like someone else. This goes for not just nonbinary people, but all trans people. I use all pronouns because that's what makes me comfy, and conforming to just one isn't who I am.

[@AsiaRollins]

I love your pfp

[@odessawales]

W. As a guy w she her pronouns this is pretty relatable. No I'm not mtf. I'm just feminine

[@SlavLesbo]

@@odessawales this is what arielle was talking about.

[@JudithOpdebeeck]

“its a problem because theres so much in the world thats sex-segregated” then how about we dont bleeping sex-segregate???

[@unclenought6385]

Remember when everyone blew a fuse because the tube announcement changed from “good morning ladies and gentlemen” to “good morning everyone” in order to be more inclusive but it was seen as outrageous for some reason. Man, what a time. Imagine finding the word ‘everyone’ offensive because it implies that your narrow world view might not include people. To live so precariously.

[@heidiraitio8660]

There are sex segregated spaces for a reason...

[@dewilew2137]

Because that’s a shitty idea. I don’t know any real women who would be comfortable being in intimate personal spaces with men, especially women who have survived assault. Y’all weirdos are the only ones who want that. You’re in favor of making 50% of the population uncomfortable and potentially at risk in order to appease maybe 1% of the population? That’s actual insanity.

[@unclenought6385]

@@dewilew2137 I mean, I’m assuming you’ve jumped straight to bathrooms, the KFC near my house has a neutral bathroom. All the stalls are divided by tiled walls that go floor to ceiling and the door has no gaps, there were no urinals but I haven’t ever been to a house with one either; there were just sinks lining the walls. Uh 10/10 would use again.

[@adurnadrago3936]

@@heidiraitio8660 Yeah. That "reason" is not a good one, though.

[@messsaltos5495]

“do you only have half of the dysphoria?” yeah, i got a discount in only half of top surgery

[@neamt9200]

She literally brought up the whole argument of “transtrenders”, which don’t even exist because they were debunked years ago (some exceptions apply). Being non-binary isn’t sexist, it’s being yourself no matter how that may be. Btw, you all look lovely today 💜

[@mountainbikingvampirewitch5972]

This!!! Also I love your profile picture! 💜

[@danching6057]

I'd love to hear Samantha's take on Transpecies and Transracial people!

[@mynameisuju]

@@danching6057 lollll would you really? Cus both of those are radically different from transgenderism

[@danching6057]

@@mynameisuju Um, I don't want to start anything but Samantha just quite literally said in her Video (this one) that you can't judge what you don't understand, so.

[@JustSomeKittenwithaGun]

So believing in trenders makes me a transphobe...?

[@seacrystal6189]

"AMAB nonbinary people don't do anything significant to change their looks!" What about the huge amount of drag queens who identify as nb? Do they LOOK like they don't put effort into their gender presentation?

[@xz740]

Drag queens are female impersonators who for entertainment. It’s not real.

[@paulbiu8895]

@@xz740 that’s only part of it ... there are many people who use drag as a way to express their gender identity a large majority of what we see in the mainstream is female impersonation doesn’t mean that’s the only representation

[@dilf2677]

drag queens (men) are in no way shape or form related to trans people.

[@seacrystal6189]

@@dilf2677 Some do identify as trans

[@dilf2677]

@@seacrystal6189 then theyre not drag queens. a drag queen is a man

[@soumiu.8264]

Arielle: *”We’re losing our lesbians!!! They’re turning into men!”* Trans lesbians, trans bisexual women, non-binary lesbians and enbies attracted to women: *”Mr. Stark, I don’t feel so good.”*

[@aster9809]

I- LMAO

[@soumiu.8264]

@mi pájaro me esta buscando Seeing as I’m neither trans nor fully lesbian, (I’m bi) I’m not the best qualified to answer this, but here we go anyway: Some non-binary individuals express and identify as a somewhat more femme way. These individuals also feel an attraction to women. They also might identify as lesbians because they are AFAB, although this really depends. Regardless they are very welcome in the lesbian community. :D

[@catarina4613]

@mi pájaro me esta buscando gender identity doesn’t influence your sexuality. they’re different things.

[@rickycairn3326]

@mi pájaro me esta buscando Trixic isn't a very well-known term so a lot of femme presenting enbies or people who don't yet know about the term Trixic call themselves Lesbians. It's also a lot easier to explain to people a label they already know

[@seewobble7048]

Woke language - "Translesbians" Old school - heterosexual male.

[@pluto7382]

“non-binary doesn’t exist” me: *ceases to exist* 😆

[@ashstrange3950]

Suddenly I don't feel so good ✨ disappears✨ 💃💃🕺🕺

[@pluto7382]

@@ashstrange3950 mr.stark, I don’t feel so good

[@randomcitizen2139]

Suddenly we're nothing, just a fidget of their imagination, was I ever here? _Who knows_

[@horrorsans6427]

*Turns to dust, popular RPG style*

[@SpikeyBagel]

i simply disappear from reality completely. no memories of me, only gaps. everything i've made is now corrupted and in a quantum state. i never existed, so nobody ever made it, but it still was made

[@Alexej-zj4ow]

Me, an agender: *Casualy existing* Arielle: *slaps table* I need PROOF

[@myusername1385]

**slowly fades out of existence**

[@mercyfulxtyrant]

Mr stark i dont feel so good

[@UTU49]

Arielle Scarcella is catastrophically unconstructive. She is angry and attacking from the very first sentence of that video. There is no point whatsoever in discussing any of these issues with her, because she is just SOAKED in anger. Does she find nonbinary people incredibly threatening? Why?

[@gayce6662]

*Mostly turns into nothing and rarely comes back* (90% of the time I’m agender, sometimes a little or a lot boy, rarely ever boy lol)

[@CheesenMac123]

Hello beautiful person, you’re valid.

[@ashanddoodles13]

Okay why did hearing Samantha standing up for us make me cry :,) I'm so happy people like her use their platform to help and educate people

[@katestarnes1709]

I love how she uses “transexual” instead of transgender so she can say that you can’t transition to a different sex. YES. WE KNOW. That’s why we’re *transgender* not transexual. Edit: some people are comfortable or even prefer with being referred to as transexual because they’ve medically changed their bodies, and this is also completely valid!

[@Spacewith2224]

Ehh it depends on your definition of sex. Phenotype maps more closely to gender, but even NHS in the UK base the “sex” on your medical records on phenotype rather than anything else.

[@robbesworkshop]

Exactly, gender is not sex. Biological sex is in the past, and gender is literally pronouns. *PRONOUNS* . Not anything harmful there.

[@FlowerTower]

@@robbesworkshop huh @ biological sex is in the past.

[@robbesworkshop]

@@FlowerTower basically what im saying is it isnt relevant

[@FlowerTower]

@@robbesworkshop uuuuuh... that’s dangerous. You gone go to the doctor and be like, “biological sex is in the past” and die cuz they calculate your medicine dosage wrong, LMFAOOOO. Don’t be so woke that you sleep deprived.

[@ribon-ichigo]

When Arielle mentions how she's only ever known young non-binary people it becomes apparent that she doesn't hang out in trans or non-binary spaces to, you know, have a completely unbiased look at the community before making content talking about them. I see people in nonbinary support groups online that say they're so happy for the "new age" terminology becoming more well known cause it's helped them piece together what's been strange to them all their lives. There are people coming out in these groups who are in their 40's, 50's, hell a person came out in one of the Facebook groups I'm in and they are 78 years old and been so confused as to why they could never "fit in" to their assigned gender. This person specifically became aware of the term from their grandchild who came out as nonbinary to them, and after doing some research to make their grandkid comfortable they had their own awakening that they are also nonbinary.

[@calliopejackalope1087]

I went to a clothing swap for trans people in my area (I'm not trans but thought my feminine clothes could go to a new a home) met non-binary people as old as 70. One of whom loved their slim male frame, didn't want oestrogen but got breast implants. It really put things into perspective.

[@reedsylvier5250]

Yes 👏👏👏 this

[@kitbun6900]

@Lin Calasso Hi, genderfluid transmasculine here! Gender is a social construct but that doesn't mean it's not real, it's more of an internal feeling of identity of how you see and feel who YOU are. Clothes, accessories are just fabric and accessories and don't have much to really do with gender anyways, but it can if you feel like it's important to your gender personally. So, if you feel you are whatever gender you may be and if it feels right to you...then you're that gender. (:

[@_nariix]

That's literally so amazing how they were able to find out through their grandchild. I feel so bad that they hadn't discovered who they were until way later in life because I feel like that definitely didn't give them enough time to be comfortable in their own body.

[@V_Chaotic]

Hey samantha, im 13 and trans, and just wanna say thanks, cus your such a good role model, i love you

[@starcluster7983]

You are so valid! I agree that Samantha is a really good role model!

[@JH-og1rg]

I agree with you.

[@_samanthalux]

Love u bb 💚

[@alexandrar4572]

@@JH-og1rg i love you and im so proud of you!!!

[@london2518]

we’re all proud of you 🥰

[@spencecents3473]

her : non-binary people don't exsist me: a demi boy who uses he/they pronouns **disappears**

[@gvnlessktchn]

Me, a genderdoe person: **disappears but only sometimes**

[@mari-annie]

@@gvnlessktchn just to check, this is the genderdoe that also called genderfae and means you go between non-masculine genders, correct?

[@gvnlessktchn]

@@mari-annie mhm!

[@mari-annie]

@@gvnlessktchn cool, thanks!

[@skyhiireke5027]

I like this thread :)

[@TiBunCosplay]

"Non-binary people are all super young!" Me, a non-binary person who is in my 30's: Tell that to my body's aches and pains.

[@VeganAtheistWeirdo]

Her video showed up in my recommendations and I literally had no idea who she was, so I commented to let her know that I exist. I'm a 49-year-old agender enby. She never replied. Clearly she wasn't actually asking these questions, she just wanted to dress her bigotry and ignorance up as inquisitiveness.

[@l6318]

Cis here, but they seriously don't warn you how much more ouchy your 30's are than your 20's...

[@richardmetcalfe920]

Hello fellow 30s non-binary

[@peanutbuttertoast7742]

"Men are from Marz and Women are from Venus" *Everyone from Earth* : ✌️💛⚪💜🖤

[@thatoneoaktree1272]

Earth enbys :P

[@aarondeer5719]

Nah, enbys are from pluto *cuz a lot of people dont think they’re real* -planet-

[@thatoneoaktree1272]

@@aarondeer5719 thats so perfect 😭

[@garthrogers2269]

I'm a cis/het male and the only concerns I have over someone else's gender identity or orientation is that they are safe and happy. That's all that matters.

[@ileana2901]

there you go: 👑

[@nikkialkema1032]

thanks

[@melmarmoria167]

you are fucking precious, i hope you find a hundred dollar bill on your way to the supermarket/work bro

[@leyna0512]

Thank you sm- it’s so rare to find supportive cishet males nowadays so just yes

[@OzCroc]

I'm cis gay male and I agree

[@KearaGraves]

OMG it really felt comforting hearing your opinions on this! i've had so many people on my instagram and youtube trying to tell me i'm sexist or misogynistic for being genderfluid and it's so hurtful! i can't understand their reasoning and how they'd even think that! thanks for being an awesome ally to nonbinary folks xo

[@CamoGilly]

how many more of my fellow genderfluid peeps am I gonna find here? XD

[@Pinkyorangegirl]

​​​@@CamoGillyHere's another one for you😉

[@theriemannbreaker8174]

Arielle Scarcella is the physical embodiment of concern trolling.

[@chubbybunny6975]

Right?? She almost gives off this "middle-schooler that jokes about sh00ting up a school way too often" vibe, but with horrible horrible transphobia

[@kerycktotebag8164]

I was getting a distinct sealion vibe from Arielle

[@Mx.Euphoria]

Me: I'm sexist. Person: But you said you don't care about People's gender? Me: Oh some lady on the internet said being Non-binary is sexist.

[@Raz3y]

Hi I saw that you have the word enby in your username, I have a question,,, does enby and a non-binary person is the same thing or are they different?,,, I want to know aaa

[@Mx.Euphoria]

@@Raz3y In my own definition, Enby is just a term for “anything except boy or girl” so I personally don’t think it’s exclusively just Non-binary people who use it. I can be wrong, and I’m willing to accept it if I am! Have a nice day! 💜

[@lauragrigoletto906]

@@Raz3y from what I learned it's a short version for non binary derived by the short NB

[@oghenbread3330]

we started abbreviating nonbinary as NB cause its shorter and easier, but NB is also used as an abbreviation for non-black, so people started using enby instead, to avoid confusion and to respect terms that are used to talk about race. Not every nonbinary person is ok with being called enby though, it makes some people uncomfortable so pls ask before you use it for an individual person ^^

[@Raz3y]

Thanks for all the replies :D my question is now solved lmaoo

[@imtallish5699]

I just came out as demigirl but I’ve honestly felt more non binary, I love your account, it’s a lil safe space :)

[@elliecloete6553]

whats demigirl ive never heard that term?

[@parkerbench1843]

@@elliecloete6553 it's in between girl and non-binary when you don't fully identify as a girl but in some ways still identify with womanhood

[@putridpunk7988]

thats so valid I love you for that ♡♡♡

[@imtallish5699]

@@putridpunk7988 tysm!! 🥺

[@nicothenecromancer]

That's so exciting to hear! I'm non-binary myself and use they/them pronouns what are yours?

[@JanaMagDich]

"Non-Binary people are confusing" Well maybe ✨EDUCATING YOURSELF✨ would help with that

[@boopp9283]

Fr like sorry we CONFUSE you but like why is that our problem

[@eldritchabomination9726]

Yea like Russian confuses me but I'm not out here claiming it's sexist

[@SlavLesbo]

I tried and it doesn’t make sense. People define it by what it’s not, not man or woman. They don’t define what non-binary itself is.

[@sleepy-emerald]

​@@SlavLesboNon-binary. Not binary. Are you stupid?

[@dolphinbanana3053]

@@SlavLesbo Because non-binary literally is only defined by what it isn't, that's why it's called what it is, it just means anything that falls outside the gender binary

[@mercyfulxtyrant]

Lets be honest Samantha slays every outfit she wears

[@kyliestafford2607]

You do be right tho

[@airplanes_aren.t_real]

Ikr And her backgrounds always match her style

[@personofthepeople561]

facts

[@LuckythegachaChildLol]

That is true

[@smoothcriminal6622]

Absolute QUEEN

[@charcoal5825]

“Girl just Google it” Lmao

[@matthewrugel9241]

It’s like saying “not red”. There’s no definition other than being not the color red. Blue, sure, but not the definition. It literally takes nothing to try to respect what makes people comfortable

[@Eris_Norregard]

Except the pronouns. That's the only thing to which the "live and let live" doesn't apply because when you're talking to an enby person and you have to avoid using "he" or "she" it takes an active effort - changing the language and though patterns you've been using literally since you were born. I struggle with "they" pronouns (or neo-pronouns) a lot. Edit: I just read my comment again and realize how passive agressive it sounded. 💀 Just to be clear, I support nonbinary folks. I do have troubles with pronouns (and by that I mean that I mess it up every chance I get😂), but I'm empathetic enough to be willing to at least try.

[@personone1382]

@@Eris_Norregard many non-binary people use binary pronouns as well. for example my friend uses he/they/she, but i have to use those pronouns all evenly (i use he/they more because he isn't out to his parents and they think they're a girl 😭) also they/them pronouns get a little easier to use if you think of it this way: like for example if you went to the doctor and you were fine you could say, "oh, they said i was healthy." it's no big deal. 😊

[@Eris_Norregard]

@@personone1382 Thank you for the answer. My problem is that people tend to not realize how much are our thought processes tied to what we can comfortably say. I speak czech, english, russian and german, and out of the four, only in english am I able to form a sentence without including gender. The other three languages all have gendered nouns and the verbs and adjectives have different suffixes depending on that. And "they" is used only for a group of people, not as a substitute when you don't know gender. A person is always either a he, or a she, no exception. That's how it goes for ALL slavic languages. There's over 300 million people who speak some slavic language as their birth one just in Europe and Russia combined. As for german language - that's 100 million people just in Germany, Austria and Switzerland. According to google, that's already more people than there are native english speakers in the whole world. I have zero idea how pronouns work in chinese, or spanish, or french, or any middle-eastern language whatsoever. I have zero idea how most world languages work, really, but I suspect most of them are not as "gender-neutrality friendly" as english. You see what the problem is? As it is now, the non-binarism is simply an idea flying around in the english speaking parts of the internet, that cannot exist in the real life of a vast majority of world's population.

[@personone1382]

@@Eris_Norregard i just wanted to help at least a little. i see the problem. but thank you for the great and thoughtful comment!

[@aswecoll1de]

@@Eris_Norregard pronouns have actually started evolving in many languages such as Spanish and French, although I’m not sure about Slavic ones I’m sure that if you did the research or talked to someone who studies languages (I forgot what it’s called I’m sorry) I bet it would be easier to find a way around it or something to substitute! :) /gen

[@foxyjambread3826]

Every time I find a binary trans creator who's supportive of the nonbinary community my withered enby heart grows another size. Please stop being so supportive y'all my cardiologist is getting really concerned. EDIT: You say I'm not confusing, and that's really awesome, but also a little disappointing, because honestly the look of hesitation on a stranger's face before they address me because they have no idea what box to put me in gives me LIFE.

[@faithleeper3609]

Omg yessssssss the confusion…. I live for it

[@cryocriminal_1019]

What u said at the beginning was funny and cool. But u must be sick getting enjoyment from confusion!

[@riverkoi8707]

You're undoing all the damage Kalvin Garrah and Blaire White did to me and I can't thank u enough :")

[@christianobangnaldossleep4189]

I wish I can like this comment a thousand times I'm so happy for you 😭

[@corey1937]

we support and stan😊🏳️‍🌈

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

😂😂😂😂

[@elliotledoux4307]

SAME OMG

[@vamplizzard]

Heck yeah. They made me feel like what I was feeling wasn't real years, after I started to find out who I am. At times I still feel like I'm making it up. I'm a genderfluid person who mostly identifies as a woman, and that's okay because that is who I am and I like being me.

[@licoriceicecream2295]

“Non-Binary is just a glorified version of Androgyny!” Me, a Masc Non-Binary who identifies at Non-Binary just because I disassociate with gender as a concept

[@putridpunk7988]

EXACTLY like not all nonbinary people are androgynous and if it was just about being androgynous nonbinary wouldn't exist

[@licoriceicecream2295]

@@putridpunk7988 I mean if all gender was was expression then Arielle’s argument just falls apart

[@queer-ios3155]

It's like, what do you mean it's just androgynous, I really just wear whatever the hell I want and if that confuses you that's really just your own limited thought process holding you back

[@poke-talia268]

You are valid. Awkward gender-fluid/neutral non-binary person here. I have periods of time where I get disphoria over having a feminine body and people referring to me by feminine pronouns, other periods of time where I'm totally fine with feminine pronouns and think stuff like "hehe tiddies" but most times I'm just like "hi. I am blob." And then lie down on the floor and take a nap. This is just my experience of existence. It has nothing to do with other people or trying to erase women, like.. What?

[@flumenstellarum]

Yessss. Same. I’m transmasc non-binary. Like, I want to partially transition to the point where I can pass as male, but also I can be androgynous af and confuse ppl. But also I can be a femboy. Hehe. BE AS CONFUSED AS I AM! Mwahahahahaaa 😈

[@leviallen4227]

As someone who's Non-binary, honestly all of her points make me laugh, especially the fact that it's completely political like sis PLEASE 😂 I'm going to edit my comment though not necessarily important, I just want to mention that I want to get gender reassignment surgery, but I don't want to get top surgery and SEVERAL people tell me that it's not even allowed, that I have to get both, and it's not valid, or a fetish. How come it can be the other way around and fine but this is not? Idk man apparently I'm being quirky for hating a part of my body 🙄✋

[@lonely_saturn]

SAME.

[@vvvampy]

Ikr

[@frostbluez]

I mean it’s true that *most* non-binary people are on the left but I mean that kinda makes sense since the left is mostly accepting of nb people and the right has been shitting on and making fun of nbs for like ever

[@ahuman7300]

How about this: ITS ONLY POLITICAL BECAUSE WE HAVE TO FIGHT FOR OUR RIGHT TO,,,,,, idk,,,,,, E X I S T ??? Maybe that might be a part of it

[@alliexcx5576]

Lmao same

[@bones214]

The implication that we nonbinary people owe anyone androgynous presentation is just outright absurd- like Sam stated gender is not how you express yourself via clothes, and makeup, and what not, it's how you identify on the inside- anyways there was a lot to unpack here thanks for bringing attention to this, Samantha

[@pancakebatter6826]

my thoughts exactly

[@thesleepydot]

exactly. people like her are creating gender roles even for non-binary people wtf

[@dannyayabaca676]

Title: Arielle Scarcella....... Me: Oh shit, here we go again

[@mme.veronica735]

It's amazing how transphobic she is when she years ago collabed with a trans woman and even made a video talking about that woman's p******. Turns out she just used her so she could say "I'm not transphobic look at my trans friends" but then ignored Melody's needs The trans woman in question was one of the first trans woman loving woman I found online her name is Melody Maia Monet.

[@FrootFlyVids]

as someone who is amab nonbinary and takes estrogen i didn't realize that i don't exist, thanks arielle 🙄

[@putridpunk7988]

its not that you don't exist its that you are beyond human which means the laws don't apply to you :)

[@elnombre5597]

I shall *cease to exist* now, goodbye everyone.

[@beep3242]

If we don't exist then we can't be arrested. Let's go rob a fuckin bank

[@dianaeakin5460]

Same! Like, she probably just thinks of us binary trans women. I'm literally more than a woman lol!!

[@giuliacolucci3123]

Hey just wanted to say you're valid and don't let anyone else let you think otherwise❤️ have a good day xx

[@CanonSkyrissian]

I'm a nonbinary lesbian so y'all can imagine how much I loathe arielle scarcella

[@dinxpe6592]

Imagine how I feel when Im being accused of WHITE PRIVELAGE.... The fact that I indentify as a black man and still being called a '' White dude''!!! What the hell, this is 2021...no more time for Transphobes and bodyshamers

[@bug874]

@@dinxpe6592 e

[@lacatolica1080]

I can also imagine how much you loathe your own dad

[@CanonSkyrissian]

@@lacatolica1080 nice assumption there dumbass

[@kai-gm9re]

@@dinxpe6592 ...what?

[@blackbutterfly2437]

"Why does non- binary mean the erasure of female characteristics" Me, a demi-girl perfectly fine how I am: "Oh no, do go on while I ignore everything you're saying"

[@nyalpiers7203]

I'm Nonbinary... How TF is it sexist.... that's what confusing hun 🙄 Love you Samantha 💕

[@RayIsASimp89]

Same

[@someone-gi5lq]

Same

[@NickyTannock]

I think their argument is that only afab nonbinary people medically transition (which is not true, I'm amab and my goal is to transition medically), so Arielle thinks it's a way to turn women into men. Kind of like their argument that transmen are lost lesbians.

[@yakuzaman5074]

Everything that confuses her is sexist and everything she doesn't like is sexist ,its just how she functions e.e

[@RayIsASimp89]

@@yakuzaman5074 Why this so true

[@possum-mom1603]

her saying that "everyone is nonbinary" just because everyone has feminine and masculine characteristics etc. is the equivalent of when people say "everyone is bisexual because even if you think you're 100% straight or 100% gay there's probably someone out there in the world who'd change your mind".

[@blackbutterfly2437]

It's almost laughable how stupid she sounds

[@xz740]

@@blackbutterfly2437 it’s laughable how much boys and girls who believe in these ideas invent complex categories and indulge in sexism.

[@adamgr6988]

@@xz740 Keep coping terf

[@someoneontheinternet16]

i used to be like that, i apologyse for being an asshole

[@xz740]

@@adamgr6988 New made up words that only your group uses. I have noticed that it is people who believe in this ideolgy who are the most aggressive and bigoted that they claim others to be.

[@ezekiel_king]

"Why are people's identities only valid through the existence of pain?" So powerful 🥺

[@eldron29-a54]

Because oppressors are sadists. And they have a god complex, so they want us to suffer in order to get their approval.

[@ttthecat]

That was a powerful statement that helped educate me.

[@ZachStachelski13]

Because you guys worship oppression and bend over backwards to virtue signal at every opportunity.

[@acehillyer3261]

"Why are people's identities only valid through pain" Beautiful, immaculate, phenomenal, thank you

[@leej2864]

“nonbinary is sexist” me, a nonbinary feminist: 👁👄👁

[@aster9809]

Bro same...

[@janetandamocha7874]

hOw DaRe YoU! Feminism is ONLY HOW ARIELLE DEFINES IT AND NO ONE ELSE, INCLUDING REALITY, MATTERS.

[@somedude172]

you forget what her idea of "feminism" is... to her, youre probably evil for not wanting cis lesbians to be the dominating class lmao

[@sleepy7138]

@@janetandamocha7874 the “who dare you” reminds me of a TikTok of voldy not nose b*tch coming back 😂😂😂😂

[@liahamilton8931]

😱😱it can’t be!😱😱

[@lapisangstylazuli]

Her "isn't everone non binary" make me think of when people tell me "isn't that just normal' when I say I'm demisexual

[@astralcamisado648]

'Everyone's a little autistic!'

[@kerycktotebag8164]

/screams in non‐binary aromantic/

[@pastelk]

@@astralcamisado648 My brother said that to me when I told him I might be autistic and I was like FSDDFXDSFXFFXFFFGH

[@cristinamintas3462]

@@pastelk yeah "everyone is a lil ADD, Everyone is a lil bi, everyone is a lil gay, everyone is a lil crazy, everyone is a lil depressed" just no- It don't work, it-, no-... just no.

[@jukiepuffs806]

Fellow demi over here. It's so annoying!

[@runstygge]

Me, a person struggling with figuring out my gender for years, to finally find out im a non-binary. Its so sad seeing LGBTQ+ people or creators, talk down on a group in the community.

[@ddjsoyenby]

yea.

[@UTU49]

TERFS make me really sad. Clearly there are also gay and lesbian people who are trans-exclusionary.

[@giorgianacurbat6413]

Me, nonbinary: *eating pizza, watching Monster High* Arielle: YOU'RE SO CONFUSING

[@fio9306]

This is perfect timing omg I just came out as non binary at school today!

[@Vanity_destroyer_vlorp]

Congratulations ❤️👏🏼

[@v444mpirebrat]

I'm proud of you!

[@phylasvell]

congrats 👏🏻💜

[@aratusingtheinternet]

Congrats

[@andi714]

Oh my goodness, good job! I could never lol

[@officialdoyoung1176]

Arielle: *Spitting false information she probably got out of her head* Google: Am I a joke to you?

[@lunabluebiscuit4942]

I don't think she got it out of her head

[@gingertwerk472]

She’s always lying and erasing real facts🙄

[@alexrose20]

"isn't everyone inherently nonbinary?" you're in the void now I can't help you 🕳️

[@staz6757]

Did you know that there is a non binary identity called gendervoid... hehe I identify with that as well as agender nd non binary :)

[@mellsc9412]

Arielle's "I could get behind non-binary IF" reminds me very much of a coworker I had who said something along the lines of, "I'll give them somewhere in between man and woman, but anything else is unreasonable." Like girl. I wasn't asking you to give me anything other than human decency. We don't need Arielle's permission or approval to exist, and it's baffling to think she believes we do.

[@RPCs4everXP]

This pains me cuz I used to be a fan of Arielle in her early days (back when she wasn't.... this) and helped me figure out I was bi and liking girls was ok. So seeing her rip apart my gender identity like this is just... I feel betrayed...

[@biggaylol5438]

It’s honestly heartbreaking seeing creators go from supporting people like them to hating on people who aren’t.

[@lostotter1956]

Doesn’t she have a really biphobic video on her channel? Not trying to erase your experiences with her helping you though :’)

[@janetandamocha7874]

I feel you - I may be binary, but her change in content and attitudes felt like looking up to someone only to have them tell you they don't believe in gravity and that the concept of gravity is sexist.

[@talzerrie]

A few days ago we had to do presentations at school and when we went through them we can see each other’s prp. A person in my classes prp was the non-binary flag. I asked if they are non-binary. They are! It was cool to learn that about them.

[@pluto7382]

wow that’s so cool! 😁😁

[@spider_meg]

What does prp mean

[@talzerrie]

@@spider_meg Prp = Profile pic

[@gutznb0nezz261]

“Why does being non-binary mean the erasure of feminine traits” Me a fem presenting afab enby: damn guess I’ll die (Edit) I no longer identify this way cause I realized I’m genderfluid but remember you don’t owe anyone anything in how you decide to present yourself or how you express your identity

[@user-tx9eg4tc8o]

You peeps are valid and great and hope you have a great day

[@venus-sy5zd]

ikr as a feminine alt enby im so tired of these stereotypes that mainly CIS people (in my case) have of us like who gon tell them that non binary is not a " fAnCy WaY oF sAyinG aNDrOgYnOus" 😩😭

[@a2point083]

@@citrusbutonyoutube3026 right

[@a2point083]

@@venus-sy5zd what does being alt have to do w this🤨

[@Arloooooooo_]

@@a2point083 Its just a clothing style and stuff.

[@sweetprincess787]

"isn't like everybody non-binary" reminded me of a very ignorant tiktok I watched months ago about a girl saying saying that "girls who don't comfort with stereotypical girl behaviours should also be labeled trans" and I was like: ????? why do you want the world to revolve around you???

[@dangieale8693]

It's funny how she says that "nb has no definition" but she ignores EVERY PERSON who explains what it means to be non binary

[@unclenought6385]

“But isn’t everyone a little OCD?” It’s giving me the same energy tbh. Like no. You hoovering everyday doesn’t equate to the reality of someone with OCD, and has to manage that condition. It diminishes someone’s struggles. Maybe someone who has OCD can’t leave their house because their entire life is controlled by the patterns and routines they have built up as a result of their disorder. Maybe a non-binary person is homeless because their family has kicked them out for being who they are. This is the reality for some people and this something that should not be undermined by someone claiming “well we’re all a little bit (blank)”.

[@silasreed1]

I’m a dysphoric, transmasculine enby, and I absolutely hate Arielle’s narrative that dysphoria is mandatory for validity as a trans person. My trans siblings who have no dysphoria are just as valid as those that do, and I love all of you no matter what

[@SOSYML]

I’m a trans woman, and for me, gender euphoria is a much better way to know my gender. Sometimes, having dysphoria, getting misgendered and put in uncomfortable situations could motivate/make you more determined, I guess (speaking only for myself here), but more than likely it’s just going to hurt. Presenting as your true gender and having all your needs met, on the other hand, is what is truly reassuring. I just don’t get this line of thought that pain is the ultimate answer to everything. You don’t have to be at peace to be who you are or have an opinion, but I mean, there’s no need to gatekeep everything. My heart goes out to you and every dysphoric trans person out there

[@hideakisorachi3953]

exactly! my dysphoria didnt help me realize that I'm trans, it just made me confused and feel like I had body issues or something. euphoria from being called the right pronouns and being perceived in a certain way is what helped me realize

[@horrorsans6427]

I actually feel dysphoria for catgender, and people don't believe me. I hate my XY chromosomes and I want to be seen as catgender, even though it's nearly impossible, so they just say, "It's only invalid euphoria!" (which isn't how that works)

[@sararedbride9728]

Yes you need gender dysphoria to be trans it's in the definition of transgender, also TRANS means you want to TRANsition to the other gender, what gender are non binary people trying to transition to?. Now you said you don't need any of those things to be trans? That's b.s, that's like saying a woman that is only atracted to men and only dates men is a lesbian because she identifies as such, even tho she doesn't fit the definition simply identifing as such is enough to be valid. You people just want to change the meaning of words to fit your agenda. I guess if a male prisoner says he's transgender (even if he's not), makes no effort to present as the opposite gender or medically transition hes still trans because he says so and can be transferred to a woman's prison and that's all good with you, and yes that has happened before google it, it didn't end up well for the female inmates

[@horrorsans6427]

@@sararedbride9728 But I'm transitioning from my birth gender into another gender AND I hate my parts. I mean, why else is the white on the trans flag there?

[@blakedawson944]

"Nonbinary people born women get surgery" Me, a nonbinary person with no intent to have surgery: huh Update: I have intent to get surgery 😂 but that's not the point

[@richardmetcalfe920]

Literally...

[@coralovesnature]

Same

[@paulinerbs]

Same...

[@TheMrKulls]

"non binary people born men only change their behaviours and presentation" Me, a non binary fae who's been on HRT for 7 months and wants to have at least one surgery: huh

[@bi_bean3872]

Fr

[@justdecaffeinated]

the nonbinary is not a box, it's the floor where the binary boxes sit let us sit on the floor and leave us alone, arielle

[@horseyhunters9426]

I really like how you put that, I totally agree.

[@user-es3fl3yr9u]

She be like: “Why isn't nobody explaining a self explanatory term?”

[@SuperSymbiote1]

It's not self-explanatory tho. The way it is presented is just something that someone isn't, not what someone is.

[@GlitterGalore-]

@@SuperSymbiote1 But that’s the point, by explaining what they are they are filling in what they aren’t. there is no such thing as “half” non-binary so that would mean if someone says they are non-binary, that’s that,

[@GlitterGalore-]

@@SuperSymbiote1 (also if she had energy to make that video i’m pretty sure she could’ve tried ASKING an actual non-binary person

[@SuperSymbiote1]

@@GlitterGalore- That does not mean it is self explanatory. And what if someone doesn’t know, is exploring, or just says non-binary. Those 3 arn’t actually an identity, except maybe the exploring part if there is an end goal.

[@dontbeshyputsomemore791]

“Isn’t everybody non-binary” *me who’s a-gender in the non-binary community* ಠ_ಠ

[@skill07qc67]

@Lin Calasso I don't know myself but maybe it is just the feeling to be part of the women or the man's group, both, neither etc. We are complex creature lol This is more about why* we express ourselves a certain way rather than how*. Like, a butch women could look the same as a pre transitionning transman, but you can't always tell the difference just by looking at them. It's not about what we see, but what is their inside. Some will express gender a certain way, others don't feel the need. For exemple, a transman can still wear dresses juste because he likes it and not be less of a man in his internal sens of himself.

[@blondesasuke4819]

@Lin Calasso The only thing that makes you a man, women, or nonbinary, is you feeling like that said gender. If you're more comfortable with certain pronouns and being referred to as a certain gender then you are that gender. And while yes most trans people feel dysphoria that makes their true gender more obvious, you don't have to feel dysphoria for your gender to be valid. Like for me I'm non binary agender, what that means for me is I don't feel dysphoria no matter how I'm gendered and don't understand the importance of gender on myself, but this doesn't make me cisgender; Because of that I'm comfortable with all pronouns(I usually favor he/they tho) in the same way tha another nonbinary person might only be comfortable with they/them pronouns. Hope this made sense to you

[@liahamilton8931]

@Lin Calasso that’s actually a really good question. I think gender is a part of consciousness. It’s not really anything set in stone and it doesn’t really have any real meaning other than an identity or something you can resonate with? Like if we switched the definition of boy and girl. I’d be a boy. They’re just words to give validation to feelings. Nobody feels like a wo/man the exact same way somebody else feels like a wo/man. This being the case, being non binary is totally normal and okay. There’s nothing wrong with it and it makes ZERO sense why people are so against transgender and non binary folks. I just don’t feckin get it. I honestly have no idea and I’m just thinking out loud here but it’s super interesting to think about.

[@Omar_ToxicBanana1701]

Hybrid genders are problematic, you must choose which wc you should use, and which prison you should be put in..and it will never happen that the gender box in ur ID card is checked as "non-binary", it will always be either male or female, there should be a good reason that it's how it worked for 1000s of years.

[@recremy207]

@Lin gender isn’t actually a real thing. It’s a social construct. What makes a woman is identifying as one. Same for dudes. There’s no way to define what feeling like a man or woman is like either. It’s weird bro.

[@AAAtombomb]

Being Non Binary, I see this stuff a lot but even just hearing the smallest bit of support means the world to me. Thank you to you and to anyone who supports us.

[@antonvinther31]

I support you. Hope you have a nice day.

[@prpl_guy3454]

*aggressively throws acceptance and love at you*

[@TheDemonsPactOfficial]

ofc

[@EmilySmith-dp2sk]

Sphinx (Me): *being bisexual non-binary demigirl and existing * Some People: I don’t UNDERSTAND Me: :)

[@nograe]

Sphinx, what a great name! 🔥

[@EmilySmith-dp2sk]

@@nograe Thx now it's Eclipse because im indecive

[@nograe]

@@EmilySmith-dp2sk Oh, I feel you. 😅

[@faithleeper3609]

Dude I love both those names

[@starojunes]

Areille is making it more confusing lol. There are plenty of cis-women who love looking adrogynous but still identify as female and use she/her pronouns. Androgyny and non-binary aren't the same thing.

[@icewitchisla1981]

I feel like this is just her continuing to wage this "war" on Elliot Page. Like leave them alone, they aren't hurting anyone.

[@horrorsans6427]

Elliot Page is an enby? Cool, I didn't know that!

[@ayypapi9366]

@@horrorsans6427 he uses he/they pronouns but i don’t think they’ve explicitly said they were trans in his coming out post :)

[@horrorsans6427]

@@ayypapi9366 Ah, I see! Thanks for the info!

[@drygonfyre]

@@horrorsans6427 From what I know, he said that he was trans masc, but no one knows if they mean binary man or male-aligned enby.

[@masonallen3961]

I'm guessing Arielle has never heard of Kate Bornstein because their exsistence pretty much disprove most of her points. She's a 72 year old AMAB non-binary person (who started identifying as non-binary all the way back in 1986) who has recieved sex reassignment surgery and has a mostly female gender presentation. It shows that Arielle has done zero research on non-binary issues as Bornstein's books Gender Outlaw and My Gender Workbook are foundational texts to the non-binary movement. She should really do more research before she starts ranting about a topic she knows nothing about. Note: Bornstein uses both she/her and they/them pronouns.

[@carolusrex2407]

"You are not confusing" She clearly hasn't met me yet. Trust me, I am confusing. My gender isn't tho. Love you Samantha

[@putridpunk7988]

this reads like me saying I haven't slept in days but my skirt looks cool

[@TheBirdGuy923]

I read the title and thought “wait...what?! 🤨 How the h-e-double L is being non-binary sexist?! That’s just stupid to think that.” And she’s a lesbian?! Wtf

[@windcrystal1349]

Even if she's lesbian, she's not a part of the LGBT community. She's LGBT, but she's not a part of the community. A community is here for EVERYONE in the community. If you dont support EVERYONE in the commnity, you're NOT a part of the community. It's ALL of us or NONE of us. Even if she's technically LGBT, she's not a part of MY community. You can be gay, trans, enby, ace, demisexual, demiboy, anything, I WILL support you. Because you're one of my people. But if YOU dont support absolutely EVERYONE of the community, I'm gonna make your life a hell. Because you're making it to the other. She's lesbian. If I knew only it about her I would support her. She dont support EVERYONE in the community. I'm not gonna let her alone. I want every of my people to feel OK. If she dont let them be happy, I won't let her be happy. I just hate people who say shits like ''I totally support LGBT ! But y'know... The ''asexual'' stuff... Like... Why are they trying to pretend they dont love sex ! I mean... What dont they give it a chance ?.. That's cool...'' . She's exactly this type of non-respectable walking trash-human thing... She doesn't deserve to be seen as human or even a ''Being''. Just a ''thing''.

[@HarbingerOfWAH]

@@windcrystal1349 as an aroace enby, thank you! I appreciate you

[@osfichofis3453]

@@windcrystal1349 Yooooooooo, I agree

[@TheBirdGuy923]

@@windcrystal1349 preach 👏👏👏

[@noviadediegolainez]

@@windcrystal1349 preach it for the ppl in the back 💕✨✨

[@st.mars6]

This video was literally just Arialla flexing her ignorance.

[@heyhello6624]

I don't understand physics, therefore gravity is not a thing

[@mikayladixon8180]

I can’t believe she recorded, talked out loud hearing herself, then edited it, possibly watched it through, and she STILL decided to post that💀