Nnamdi and Alera Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

[@iamtired9350]

It's crazy how I've watched every episode, BUT I still don't remember any of these individuals until they show when they initially matched😂😂

[@robertstanley9633]

sameee- like who?

[@rirodgers4233]

Yes like their style and features be looking so different.

[@augustisart]

Same. Same 😂😂😂

[@Naturescanner1276]

Hahahha YES!! Everytime Im like who the fuck are those people??? I literally saw every episode. And then when they show the episode where they matched and Im like oooooooh😂

[@noemail-cv3dj]

It’s because they never look as good as they do when they film the episode.

[@evynp]

I'm so happy the show is actually producing results!

[@denz310]

Better numbers than the Kendra G shows

[@daowonimdee]

The results are determined by the seriousness and the maturity of the couples who match.

[@tmcurly]

@denz310 It’s the same IMMMO Kendra g has 6 marriages and plenty relationships

[@HumbLeeTV]

@@denz310😂😂😂

[@eddielyrics]

Bravo

[@r.r911]

11:14 "We're very different, but our morals are the same." Well said! Beautiful couple. I wish them the best. ❤

[@celsocosta2581]

African American women seeking serious relationships must seek AfRICAN BROTHERS 👍🏿

[@g.neptdadaaa]

🎯

[@titlepending1302]

Ugh i like this man name Ngoy ❤​@celsocosta2581

[@ShayLamere]

@@celsocosta2581This is TEA!!!

[@GrootmanSipho]

I love when people timestamp the part of the video they’re talking about. 👌

[@Diva08180703]

Arlette and her husband really out here creating potential families. This had me grinning ear to ear

[@BravoSmart-p8v]

Been thinking the same thing

[@njeriperry]

🥰

[@TyriaHolloway-lx8ln]

I caught myself, I was cheesing hard 😂😂

[@laj4186]

Me too!!!

[@Allureadoree]

And yk that’s honestly such a beautiful thing to think about like it’s truly somebody out there for everybody.

[@chaevialva2229]

See how he applied pressure?.... See how she's appreciative...... See how they're BOTH glowing........very mindful..... I absolutely love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@BushBabyBoxing]

She hasn't done anything above and beyond....You're supposed to be appreciative to kind expensive gestures..

[@3ZN-q6q]

Chris brown don’t need to apply pressure ….if a man gets a female by the skin on his teeth…it’s never gone work

[@chaevialva2229]

@@3ZN-q6q yall make any excuse to be mediocre.... The MEN that get it, GET IT!

[@versatillion15]

Does applying pressure only mean buying gifts

[@chaevialva2229]

​The man planned dates without being asked...... He had an itinerary planned out for their trips(As well as other things but I'm not about to re-watch the video) ...THAT ALONE IS APPLYING PRESSURE.... It shows how intentional he is whilst dating.... He's not there to waste her time or "when am I seeing you" her to death..... Guys need to quit messing with baddies that just wanna be "flewed out". That's low hanging fruit behavior..... For some of us it's not always about money, it's about the effort .... ​@@versatillion15

[@gigynasty542]

They both are so mature and loving, I hope they take this relationship far coz they're looking so cute together

[@averychilco]

Africans got morals and standards??😂 Love how they act brand new after moving to a much classier country.

[@RoyaIboy]

This is the difference between dating a Nigerian man vs dating a black American man... Nigerian men are cultured, smart, intentional, nurturing, and providers... Black American ladies, take note!!!

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@RoyaIboy why generalize black American men like they don’t do that. There are good and bad men in all nationalities.

[@nonapplicable9590]

He is so considerate “I wanted her to make it back home okay and on time for work “ … I’m so happy for both of them

[@thundavolt]

It must really be bad when something like this stands out

[@jimmye.787]

@@thundavoltthey going through it these days

[@kanopopo]

Honestly this is THEE best follow up! He’s a good man!

[@candyxox]

Nah the best follow up is the proposal

[@dazzypeters6793]

​@candyxox Nah that was too much happening so early. I would never propose after a month

[@d.7203]

@@dazzypeters6793 This is also way too much happening and it's very evident that he likes her way more than she likes him (which is worse). He might be a good planner to his credit but all these trips to Baltimore, NYC, Mexico so early is a bit too much and excessive out of the gate. She's also not reflecting the same energy back as she was a bit hesitant to be called his girlfriend and instantly corrected him about something as minute as the hotel slip up in the beginning. She's a grown adult herself and has not reflected the same investments he's made on her either. A woman like that will leave that relationship, and expect every single guy she meets afterwards to be on that delusional timing as he is. I'm willing to bet that this won't last long.

[@dazzypeters6793]

@d.7203 You know what's crazy ? I was thinking the SAME DAMN thing. Where's the reciprocal energy ?!! I was waiting the entire time to see what she would do for him and it looks like he's trying a bit too hard to get her to commit. I mean the man bought her a dress, trips, etc. and she gets him a damn hat. I truly hope the best for them but I want her to come back to the center and treat him well just the same

[@d.7203]

@@dazzypeters6793 To add to that, he mentioned he is on the market for a job, meaning he's not where he would like to be financially speaking but is doing all of this out of the gate so fast. Bless his heart.

[@msw170]

That's a man preparing to become a husband and father! I love it!

[@bettymangwatu7847]

For me, it's always how happy Arlette gets😅when she really sees a relationship working. This show is really producing results 👌.

[@24Karatz08]

When she called him babe… There u go, My Boy!!! ❤

[@OfficialNatalieC]

Same😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️

[@jaimecca6259]

Everyone simultaneously saying “ohhhh” when Arlette shows the flash back

[@jadesanni9157]

I was still confused when I saw the flashback 😭

[@Starfish-kx3du]

Still don't know who those folks are

[@hndrxx30]

Facts 😂😂😂😂

[@tiste6770]

😆

[@shamay4893]

​@jadesanni9157 this one was like a month ago

[@tslee3008]

When she said he was really beautiful...I felt that❤

[@tinawalker5335]

Top tier compliment

[@Pablopicasso796]

Honestly me too

[@ErnestClark-qu2zu]

Not many women in today’s society would say that …. One LUCKY MAN! Hit the lottery with this beauty 👍☺️

[@tslee3008]

@@tinawalker5335 yes

[@tslee3008]

@ErnestClark-qu2zu I tell my man that... that's whyyyy I was like ok... she is genuinely into him. Love to see it

[@BobbyPen]

I’m just reminded that a man will roll out the red carpet for a woman he actually wants. This man planned several well though out dates, out of town for his long distance relationship. I love seeing black women loved properly! Bravo young King! You did your big one 💞

[@mrbrave29]

If this man was on any other ballon show, the girls would talk down on him.

[@tiannabobo1170]

Nah some genuinely just aren’t built that way.

[@ashleysibanda8764]

That's what I said 🎉

[@mrbrave29]

@BobbyPen if only more good men were appreciated. Too many city girls out here.

[@pjsimpson6281]

It’s like women are only interested in what someone does or gives them lol. Makes sense

[@BlvckByCulture]

A gentleman!! He is what we call a REAL MAN!! Bravo my boii!!

[@MaryByrne-wr7ou]

A lesson for us ladies, when he is truly interested it's not complicated. This made my day. Love this match ❤

[@3ZN-q6q]

Bullshit

[@3ZN-q6q]

Chris brown don’t need to apply pressure ….if a man gets a female by the skin on his teeth…it’s never gone

[@thundavolt]

You realize she also made it very clear she was interested by encouraging the first visit

[@changingmymind2]

I was smiling during the entire interview. They exude joy.

[@m3blove594]

Yes, so was I!!😍

[@iyatashhartley7968]

🎉girl ❤

[@Angeliz225]

Me too 😊

[@tiste6770]

…you exude joy

[@Partystreet_qa]

Me here😅

[@JS-tk7wo]

I can tell dudes love language is" acts of service and giving "

[@tslee3008]

Definitely...😊 he is so intentional. And she receives his acts with great appreciation ❤

[@ikennaamaechi2054]

@@tslee3008that’s what really matters

[@dazzypeters6793]

@tslee3008 But little reciprocation on her end. I root for them but homegirl gotta give too

[@JS-tk7wo]

@@dazzypeters6793 she bought him a hat

[@dazzypeters6793]

@@JS-tk7wo Exactly my point. It's lackluster

[@je39981]

The first man during that update that is vocal about his intention and commitment. Straightforward and gets to the point. He’s wasting no time.

[@abednego8304]

then u did not see the episode where one guy proposed to his date turned girlfriend

[@je39981]

@@abednego8304 I did but personally I learned sometimes I usually don't have anything good to say so I don't say anything at all if I'm in a situation like that. 😅😅

[@iphone-and-foodstamps]

Ma’am, move closer to this man. He will love you, take care of you, lead, and provide. You won Miss Alera!!!

[@mrbrave29]

Why is it 1-sided? They both won.

[@iphone-and-foodstamps]

@@mrbrave29 it’s not one sided… of course he won as well.. i was speaking from a woman’s perspective

[@jeffjackson2255]

Both of them have been very close 😃now comes the commitment

[@grace.n.godministries]

I love the chemistry and maturity between them. I pray it works out for them. We need another pop the balloon episode !!!!!

[@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161]

Slow down lil grasshoppa- episode 20 JUST came out a few days ago 😂😂😂

[@d.7203]

It's not gonna work out. He clearly likes her way more than she does him

[@grace.n.godministries]

@@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161 I need it now 😂😂😂. I’ve been watching previous episodes

[@wickedtowise]

wednesday!

[@wickedtowise]

@@d.7203i don’t think so- i think they just play to their strength. He has more job flexibility than her sometimes in relationship certain things have seasons. It doesn’t mean that they will not stand the test of time. Oh my goodness.

[@Demilove22]

OH wow he's intentional. I wish them the best!!! Looks like a great match!!

[@DLCOrganization]

Gaslight much? The *_VAST MAJORITY of men_* are intentional in pursuing relationships with women.

[@Melly4077]

Arlette, you're doing the Lord's work. The chemistry between Nnamdi and Alera can both be seen and felt. Keep at it, girl! 😁👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@effetang]

Im so proud of this young Man. He came dressed like a African dad in his 50 but right from his responses and questions i knew he was a Great Guy... I hope she won't break your heart bro... Wish yall the best ❤

[@mikecheckproductionz]

I'm genuinely worried... The moment he stops being "Perfect" that's when we find out what's really good. In terms of investing in each other, how would you rate it? 50/50? 70/30 80/20?

[@ImKnotMyHair]

I see wedding bells for these two….love it !

[@duchessngy8454]

That's typical Nigerian man. The Nigerian man takes care of business and if you get a faithful one you are in for beautiful everlasting memories

[@ZodGeneralzod]

Yeap, you can say that again, my Naija Brother representing......................

[@hampinc6796]

him saying his disposition is in relation to him being african was funny. because u can find humble lowkey people in all cultures - as well as wild and crazy ones. also, i know a few latina women out here in cali that date nigerian & Ghanaian men. they say many of them are SUPER controlling and use money to keep their women submissive. they expect the woman to be a 100% housewife while they do what they do in the streets. they feel buyign things should be enough for u to "obey". when the woman doesnt agree, things become tense and sometimes violent. thats one reason why a lot of african men/american women (white black and latina) relationships dont last long. the cultures dont mix

[@brightokechukwu4886]

💯💯💯

[@duchessngy8454]

@@hampinc6796 stop commenting and trying to put negativity under my comment. You sound bitter and unhinged. Your friend told you but you have not experienced it and look at the venom coming from you. Be gone. You lucky there is no way to delete this nonsense you just wrote

[@dmvbay2535]

@@hampinc6796 sounds like a YOU problem

[@JustWatchingLikeYou]

Not her downplaying it at the beginning by saying they’ve been on a couple dates 😂 Ma’am y’all then showed us 15+ dates in pics & videos on here, then we get to the end to find out y’all actually an official couple now ❤️ I love them so much. I’m wishing for the best & hoping for an engagement

[@theshyevelyn]

@@JustWatchingLikeYou lol

[@CherishedNike]

Right it’s a red flag 🚩 he needs way better. But he is intentionally being blind to see it

[@wickedtowise]

we love humility and real love!!! i love this

[@wickedtowise]

@@CherishedNikewhat?😂 a read flag?

[@TsukiMo0n]

@@CherishedNike What is this guy even talking about?😂

[@Coachkingrod]

One improvement in this season is that people are actually going on dates. The amount of matches in season 1 who did not even go on dates was crazy. I'm glad people this season are actually for the most part building genuine connections.

[@theshyevelyn]

💯

[@Thenoble1j]

Big improvement and it’s great to see

[@daowonimdee]

Season? What "season"? Lol

[@doffydonquixte]

its the same season lmao

[@Dakotapeacexo]

@@doffydonquixte no its not you didn't see the reunion episode where they said that was the end of season 1?

[@breyashadell326]

This is one of, if not the best, catch ups! You can feel how happy and well compatible they are. I am smiling and giggling like it's me lol! I wish them nothing but love and longevity on their journey together #FavCouple

[@DTSNC81]

Shout out to him for being intentional, transparent and vulnerable! And shout out to her to being open, willing and intentional. Shout out them combined for being prepared and not allowing modern culture to shape their perspectives on what should or should not be.

[@Fienikx]

This has me smiling from ear to ear. They are so so darn cute and their love is beautiful. This show has really given me back my hope in relationships.

[@rirodgers4233]

Same. I come here for motivation.

[@blackjoy9079]

Same!

[@DennisMpofu-wv5zo]

Me too l want to give women a chance

[@blackjoy9079]

@@DennisMpofu-wv5zo Heal your insecurities and you won't be afraid to

[@inhisimage0457]

“I’m an African so I have morals and standards.” I LOVED that. 😊May the rest of the world catch on.

[@bkandy7165]

Being African has nothing to do with it smh.

[@inhisimage0457]

@@bkandy7165 I was merely repeating the words HE USED. And my affirmative opinion which I’m allowed to do. smh

[@iudoka]

@@bkandy7165it really does, our culture still values family unlike the west…it’s a very religious whether Christian or Muslim, so very big on morals and standards in general. He’s been raised properly. Big ups to him hopefully they work out.

[@bkandy7165]

@@iudoka im married to an African and fully aware of the culture and know for a fact there are good and bad apples. There is just as much criminality, back biting, lying, betrayal, jealously, witchcraft, and sinister behavior as any other culture. There are upper, middle class, and poor and people who have values and people who do not lol.

[@omarsheriffkaptan]

@@bkandy7165Oh it sure does.

[@McCray409ENT]

Besides the couple that got engaged, this catch-up was very refreshing 💯. Arlette is awesome. I love this show 🙌🏽

[@kymoranash8549]

who got engaged???!

[@jamesbarron5000]

@@kymoranash8549 kzbin.info/www/bejne/d5fFiaecp82Em6c

[@jason20021]

@@kymoranash8549 "Mike and Khe"

[@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161]

Mike & Khe ​@@kymoranash8549

[@McCray409ENT]

@@kymoranash8549 Mike and Khe go lookup up “catch-up Mike and Khe.” It was live 🔥

[@CleoComments]

Intentional is the word for this one! So beautiful to see this blooming. Also eye opening to see that he is checking in with her, taking her suggestions and speaking to his friends to plan. Food for thought about making what you want known

[@kelsblair5963]

I notice that the quiet and uncontroversial couples that match have the best chemistry and apparently time. It’s organic. This is how you know that love is peace. ☮️

[@nadiavanzspice2216]

Im here watching from london....this is the only pop the balloon show i watch ❤ blessings from the UK 🇬🇧

[@GrindSzn7]

Watching from Manchester 🇬🇧

[@ummanas]

Watching from Birmingham UK 🇬🇧

[@ruthrobinson328]

Watching from London ❤

[@kcelestej1]

Oh he’s in love Miss Alera. He may not have said it yet, and it may be soon, but he is. That’s a good man.

[@Antisatan7771]

Yup! I’m just hoping she has the wisdom and knowledge to keep this afloat cause as a man when it’s working? ITS WORKING and we ain’t LEAVING. Looking at him he’s also easily to get hurt in that state and we’re gonna knock on wood! It only takes one before we turn into something else then it’s over for everybody 😂😂😂

[@deemiller5024]

This Catch-up was EVERYTHING. I was smiling at my phone the whole time. Blessings to this inspiring young couple. They dropped so much wisdom❣Arlette and her husband are the definition of Excellence as well. From them reassuring by exemplifying what is possible to truly celebrating and rooting for the success of each couple. I love this show for many reasons. It's not gold. It's Diamonds💎💎

[@theona3726]

Yoooo the energy on this show is so healthy and not just for ratings.

[@TyWerks]

agreed this show really has something when it comes to restoring black love fr

[@melissalee8827]

Wow very impressed with their level of maturity and consistency in planning quality time. So glad to see actual connections result from this show and not people on the show with agendas or looking for viral moments.

[@bosstler21]

This looks so real and organic. They are my favourite couple right now.

[@MirleineAuguste]

I can’t stop smiling watching this !

[@lllhargrove]

i know!!! Me tooooo!

[@joynay444]

Alera lucked out and got a good one. He's Nigerian too and they don't play about marriage and family. This young man is intentional and really cares. I hope she appreciates it and also puts in as much energy.

[@crazyloner407]

This made me feel good. In the beginning she was acting like it wasn’t working out,then gradually built up to say they are doing the dang thing. Loving it

[@helenac72]

Oh my goodness, this is seriously the best match from this show. They are so beautifully balanced and mature about their courtship. Kudos and much success to them!

[@TheSmokeweeda]

If she’s smart, she will follow this man and make this relationship work. He’s a catch!

[@GavinDavisMusic]

Idk to me, she sounds like she could possibly self-sabotage it. I pray not tho…

[@BushBabyBoxing]

She's not smart after all he did she still wanted an extravagant proposal to be a Girlfriend 😅 He should cut his losses ..

[@mr_knowitall]

If I recall, from the episode, she said she wants to relocate to Africa. Soon thereafter she matched with an African man.

[@hope4me847]

@@BushBabyBoxingWhat's extravagant about (free) cheesecake?

[@Antisatan7771]

Like Bruhh ! almost every guy can attest doing things for a chick till she broke our hearts then NOBODY getting this treatment 😂😂😂

[@tinawalker5335]

Yeah I really didn’t think she was feeling him on the episode but I’m so glad she went for it. So amazing to see.❤

[@donaldkakoma8780]

True thats how she seemed she even told call if you don't call il just cut you off like she doesn't care but bro Loved her from the very first day.

[@ronwilson9080]

Thats what couples should be doing!! Taking a serious road forward and planning their life together! Communicating about what each other likes ...instead of guessing or expecting "Magic" to happen. One day at a time! Excellent!

[@Markan6186]

She is so pretty. Arlette I'm actually looking forward to a lot of these updates because we had some good matches. Please pump them out!!!

[@blackjoy9079]

The level of joy this catch up brought me! I love this for them! African men are the standard (I'm African so I know). And these yougins are really setting the bar because these mid to late 30 year old dudes are angry, broken and dusty always scared to do the minimum. Keep it up yougins! Y'all are doing it RIGHT!

[@blazeworks]

I love how hopeful and supportive Arlette & BM is about the couples matching !!! They really care 🎉!!

[@believeume122]

Same!! I love that they really care.

[@wendyjames7738]

This is so sweet!! I pray this builds into something special❤❤❤ much love to this couple..

[@buzzbabe1901]

Nothing is hard if only if we can all be intentional. I am so happy for both of them❤️

[@flavianhugo6056]

That's a Nigerian (Igbo) hardcore blood. When a Nigerian Igbo dude is down with you he goes 1000% to spoil you. What an awesome story. I love their story and time. Wishing them all the best 🎉🎉🎉

[@tamika5170]

I was smiling this whole interview, I love the intentionality of both of them. I wish them nothing but the best 🙏🏾❤️

[@albrat1563]

When 2 geniune people meet that's what you get

[@maybemabel3953]

This is the calmest catch up I’ve watched. The love literally is translating to me. Such easy love. No war, no issues. Just two healed and mature people. I’m rooting for y’all.❤️❤️

[@buzzbabe1901]

There's also DaJon and Sariah...... You would love that one too😊

[@Osa_wende]

@@buzzbabe1901tTose two would legit go far!! Love them.

[@maybemabel3953]

@@buzzbabe1901 yeah I watched that too❤️

[@mindful-accountability]

It’s very interesting to see how he was looked at and perceived in the initial episode by contestants… meanwhile we had the most to offer.

[@EJayyDreadHead]

Perfect match

[@emmanuelkamara8444]

Nnamdi is really representing like he should. We African men we take care of business💪 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@manman3792]

Then why you all gotta flee to U.S. to find “better opportunities “ instead of not building Africa up?

[@StarrStuddedEnt]

He makes me proud. Especially since my son is also Nnamdi.

[@emmanuelkamara8444]

He reminds me of when I first met my beautiful wife, I was so intentional setting up dates and making things happen. Boy she was blown away yearning to say yes the day I ask her to be my wife and when I finally proposed she couldn't conceal her joy 🤣

[@js8213]

Nope not all. Some like the rest of men. This guy happens to appear good

[@wisecrack4645]

Dude is an Igbo man representing...ride on brother! Ladies, if you want to go African, trust me, you can never go wrong with Igbo men! The top 1% of men in Africa, if not the world!

[@wisecrack4645]

I wish them the very best in their relationship. I pray it works out.

[@js8213]

Absolutely not true at all!!! It's individually we should assess

[@HiTextureHair]

One of my favorite matches to date. Both were very open and authentic. I wish them the best.

[@msd3879]

I love when a man puts in that effort and it's appreciated! ❤

[@Louma034]

Arlette and BM doing such a great work. I love when a couple match and take it further, blessings to you all 🙏🏿.

[@PCVentures-z1q]

This is what happens when two genuine people who have done the self-work connect. It's a purposeful, intentional, and amazing experience full of memories 🙌🏾. I'm so tired of the ninja turtles, "high values", and clout-chasing beggars. I could not stop smiling watching this lol.

[@vanessavazquez5167]

This!! This catch-up was so refreshing

[@y.m.505]

The guy is genuine; but the lady, well, it's hard to tell...

[@gogo6189]

@@y.m.505well said…I’m not sure about her lol

[@PCVentures-z1q]

They both are awesome. We have to stop projecting our own feelings onto other people and expecting that to be the case. Some people are negative by nature and always expect something to go wrong. He's happy, she's happy, and I'm optimistic and hopeful that their union will continue to grow.

[@AshleyIjames]

A man with a plan! My favorite “Catch Up” so far. Many blessings to this couple. So beautiful to see!

[@laj4186]

Congratulations!!! This is so beautiful. This is what real genuine connection IS. Good job doing the work and becoming more to have more!!!

[@AbbieeTech]

I love the intentionality of this couple🥹

[@jackieg8887]

This couple was so relaxing to watch

[@mkawa1566]

I was relaxing, joyous to watch

[@cca6163]

I remember watching this episode and wasn't quite sure about them, their walkoff seem awkward. Nevertheless, it's joyous to see they have been truly enjoying being in each other's company. I wish them joy, peace and tranquility as they further determine their future together ❤️ 🙏🏾

[@maybemabel3953]

Honestly. I had no hope in them but voila! It’s good to be surprised

[@misstiff29]

This was absolutely splendid. She enjoys his small gestures just as much as the larger ones. He made her protective heart all soft and stuff. This is what nurturing and protecting looks like during a courtship ❤🎉

[@wasimdbala349]

of course you love it, you like one sided relationships where you do all the receiving and none of the giving. lmfaoo predictable treesh

[@MrPavu4ok]

They are so genuinely great!!! ❤ One of the top couples of the show fr! The show does work!

[@kagiso_tuda]

Got an old man blushing the entire episode ya'll

[@SimplyPops]

Congrats to these two! All genuine connections for real ya!

[@preciousfires5088]

How's your match going bro?

[@erikajuliette]

@@preciousfires5088i wanna know soo bad 😭

[@Max-unswayed]

bro I'm anticipating your catch up like crazy ...😂

[@johnsesay6035]

I'm watching from Stockholm Sweden 🇸🇪. This is one of my best shows 😊

[@Karisma187]

Watching from Malmö, Sweden, I love this show

[@celsocosta2581]

I'm watching from Gothenburg, SWEDEN, proud African men and addict to this spectacular show 👍🏿

[@alanowanliss991]

Yesssssss.....I love how they're doing the things they used to do alone but now sharing it with each other, thats exactly what dating is about. And notice how intentional he was, he made PLANS, no excuses! Love them and so happy for Arlette and her husband

[@1Sakks0]

When they matched, I didn't think much of these two. So, for me, this is one of the best catch ups yet! All positive things. Out of all the trips and dinners, her favorite part was the quality time. Hope you guys have the best time in Mexico.

[@WhoaNowbrother]

I see a marriage coming 😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@esthers9122]

🙏

[@WakeupAmerica2025]

God I hope so.🥹🙏🏾

[@GavinDavisMusic]

Nah, she couldn’t even say the word…

[@jman1562001]

@@GavinDavisMusic when she said stop calling me your GF LMAO!!!! Man this CAN'T BE LIFE!!!!!

[@jericaloving1288]

Alera just be sure to reciprocate and plan for him as well❤

[@manonfire7675]

Exactly. She better not take him for granted or leave the efforts to keep the fire up to him. It can be draining when it's just one sided. He's a great guy that was raised right.

[@Brwniee95]

🙇🏿‍♀️ good point

[@Isthis40]

They both bought each other stuff.

[@truths33k3r77]

I was looking for this!!! I lost a good 1 by not doing so❤❤❤

[@jericaloving1288]

​@@Isthis40It's not just about buying things...I didn't say anything about buying things.

[@spicegyal4711]

I can feel the chemistry. Two genuine people. I wish them all the best. ❤

[@StacyBrown2]

I love this episode. My cheeks hurt from blushing and smiling. I wish you both an abundance of blessings in your relationship.

[@ToyaBecks18]

Don't think too hard, guys...just get married. Yall are a match made in heaven. ❤ I pray blessings over you both.

[@jcalvioficial]

No, it's the opposite. Think pray, be intentional before marriage

[@IAmRocketMan]

Look what happens when two people make it work! Congrats to them.

[@bambamjunior]

Naija no dey carry last!!!!!!!!! Nigerian men forever winning. Refreshing episode tbh

[@jt3693]

My most favorite update of them all so far!!! They are so cute and seems perfect for each other!! 🥰 Hope Arlette keeps us updated.

[@keenanny]

Definitely one of my favorite updates! I can tell they're both genuinely feeling each other

[@pronite22]

Goddamn I’m actually addicted to this channel. Crazy😂😂

[@alexisdejohn1349]

Same lol 😂

[@kennethhaynes7601]

Type shit 😅

[@MahliA-m3o]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheeJasmine.B]

Lmaooo right

[@mkawa1566]

Same here

[@flash23ish]

Much credit to her for being easy going and letting him plan everything and allowing him to lead

[@DugardEmmanuel]

some ppl gone say bro tricking but bro doing his thing fr love it

[@darvellwilson386]

She seems genuine, so if that is the case, she deserves to be tricked on!

[@DugardEmmanuel]

@@darvellwilson386 facts

[@TheMakendi]

Exactly and they’re also long distance so it literally costs to link up

[@davnoble8472]

@@darvellwilson386do you know her personally?

[@sommerskye5777]

This was so sweet and refreshing to watch! May they continue to be happy and grow together ♥️

[@chukwuderadike6633]

A true IGBO brother , Nnamdi , you're representing us well

[@zenekia]

hey Arlette...when they mention other couples lets have a flashback of them also....i can't remember ANYONE

[@kandace_elizabeth]

@@zenekia 100% agree!

[@Isthis40]

Lol, he was talking about Shawn with the cornrows who matched with the girl (Lexxi)who had on the black witch boots (brown dress friend)Serenity

[@julienneriviere6723]

@@Isthis40 the witch boots? 😂

[@theshyevelyn]

@@Isthis40 😅

[@Isthis40]

@@julienneriviere6723 🫣 I bet you know who Im talking about now

[@ceedabulls]

She is beautiful. Exactly my type. With the personality to match. That skin color is amazing

[@DaLlami]

Omg I love their energy! You can tell They both have good spirits , looking forward to seeing how they grow together 🫶🏾

[@shalaking6481]

I enjoyed watching this ❤️ glad they worked out! Hope they continue to grow together in love

[@Butterfly-jt6cr]

Namdi is one of those guys women overlook not knowing his the real deal until they get to know him!

[@prudencedantye9297]

Yup

[@mkawa1566]

Yes, and ladies miss their blessings. I wasn't physically attracted to my hubby at first. I went on the date then fell in love. Married 30 years.

[@ts8024]

He seems like a good person. Nice and respectable. Hope he gets a great wife, whether it's her or someone else.

[@BushBabyBoxing]

Facts....He's the catch between them for sure...I was waiting to hear what she did for him...

[@idowumohammed4689]

@@BushBabyBoxing She moved things forward very quickly by flying cross-country to see him. She is also very appreciative. We shouldn't underestimate that.

[@BushBabyBoxing]

@@idowumohammed4689 He paid for that flight...Lol You're supposed to be appreciative when you get something for free....

[@buzzbabe1901]

​@@BushBabyBoxingbut she offered to come and he said why not and paid for. You guys don't get it maybe but Nigerian men love to take carw of women they are into.. And his love language just might be acts of service.

[@BushBabyBoxing]

@@buzzbabe1901 you're missing my point. What is she sacrificing ? So far this whole show has been about everything his done, but what has she done for him?

[@Explorer63-k6d]

The best Pop the Balloon show on KZbin 💯👍🏾💯

[@59wooly32]

Yall remember that one guy saying a long distance relationship was a 30-40 min drive and barely could “find” time to see her? 😂 this is a prime example of “if he wanted he would” live in different states but still made time ro see her often. Beautiful ❤

[@mrbrave29]

Why is the narrative always 1-sided? Both parties have to put in work for the relationship.

[@59wooly32]

@@mrbrave29 did you not watch the other video i referred to? Or you just saying shyt

[@mrbrave29]

@59wooly32 why bring up the other video when this is a positive video with success? The sisterhood loves to bring drama into positive situations.

[@59wooly32]

@@mrbrave29 huh??? 😂 im sorry but legit wth are you talking about. Maybe you didn’t read my comment correctly babe. My comment WAS a positive comment. BUT its also informative as well. Which might i add, i can write or say whatever i want. There are alot of women AND men who stay in relationships/situationships that are like the video I mentioned who don’t know if they should stay or not or holding onto “what if this person changes” ect. The wholeeeee point of my statement is saying THIS video is a prime example of “if he wanted to, he would” meaning if someone cares about you or is trying to show you that, this is something they take seriously. Then they will take the initiative to show you that. Don’t settle for someone who isn’t giving this type of energy when it comes to just you and only you. Not materialistic stuff but the point of making things happen and showing it. That simple beloved. So how bout you mind the business that has to do with you. Because im not the only comment that said similar shyt RESPECTFULLY. Go try to micromanage someone else’s comment because i couldn’t care less about anything you have to say, thank you

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@mrbrave29 exactly they never fail to do stuff like that 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@6155ish]

Wow, so nice to see young people having great times together, enjoying each others company! These two seem to be equally yoked ❤❤❤

[@_CPerk]

My boy smitten! Good for them…I love It when they end up liking each other

[@GameOnRadio1]

I’m cheesing this whole damn interview. This was dope. And good times are being had by what seems to be good decent people.