Ep 7: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@jamerialwhite3694]

Maintaining your composure and confidence in the midst of everyone popping their balloon as soon as you arrive is overlooked

[@diva6407]

I have to command them on that. Good for them.

[@Effie_Mwaps..]

For real 😅

[@pnice0610]

I agree!!

[@lelelew2735]

Yea my anxiety would be crazy

[@Morg100]

I agree. I’d stop mid sentence like “so what’s the problem?? 🤬🤬” lol

[@jamerialwhite3694]

No one hosts a "Pop The Balloon or Find Love" show better than Arlette. Very classy, mature, and entertaining. I stay invested in this lol

[@richardsnipe2471]

Hers are the only ones I watch. The others are very (very) ratchet.

[@FlywithMikey96]

Because they invite IG baddies and dudes there for clout.

[@myles5949]

FANTUM??????? 22:26

[@deonte1496]

I like it but it's just a Mature version of the rest of the find your match videos they still roasting each other and laughing 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@uriyahisrael1950]

It’s like she perfected it

[@PipNPensPublishing]

That first dude, I hope he lands someone who deserves him. That guy was chill, confident, and cool.

[@StatikFresh4]

Agreed

[@jakesnapper1469]

Ya you can tell he a nice guy

[@ciarrahogans9764]

True

[@ohmygvddess]

I agree. He was solid

[@thebassman5820]

​@@jakesnapper1469 They don't want Normal nice men Let a no goal , no job having aspiring rapper named Pookie come out there and watch a cat fight start out of nowhere 💥💀💀💀💀

[@kanayobardi7736]

The first guy is a legend. He may be 5'6 but his demeanor and confidence is over the roof. A proper gentleman 🎉❤

[@Ishbikes]

& he didn’t lie about his height. That was dope

[@geminirising1]

I love him! ❤❤❤

[@emilyordner5545]

and he had something positive to say about everyone!

[@TastyInn-y9e]

He’s from my country 🇱🇷

[@LauraH..]

The first guy was a 10/10! Very secure of himself! Can take judgement very well! A KING!

[@comeatmebro8120]

That chick in red who didn’t immediately pop her balloon wasted his time. She wasn’t attracted to him from the start and made him think he had a chance just to pop it at the very last second lol

[@sarapiquer]

What year has this been filmed? All that importance on religion made me feel like I was watching a clip from the Middle Age. I guess that’s how people still think in USA, that explains a lot about that country

[@RobPizzaSauce]

I respect that

[@fernandawilson7974]

Don’t feel bad for him thy did him a favor. It will be their lost

[@C_In_Outlaw3817]

@@comeatmebro8120 I agree with you.

[@ZeeTene]

I like that this group was mature in comparison to previous episodes. They were respectful of one another and did not try to purposely humiliate someone for a viral moment

[@Tashasmith7388]

🎯

[@karenmcgee1869]

I love it❤!

[@seanoshinuga8310]

Can’t wait for the follow up episode lol

[@waddellcarissa]

Yes!!! I notice this too. The best one yet

[@amarakanneh6628]

This comment is underrated. Seems like some people come on this show to blow up.

[@nicoleblake2700]

This group of ladies were soft tone, well spoken and very respectful. So nice to see. Then men were respectful. This was a good watch.

[@Imjusthereleavemealone]

Yes they were they all deserve good men! 🥰

[@issy785]

all made of a guy who kept sayin respect

[@ISOLVE365Inc]

Yes these ladies were respectful and beautiful seems inside and out

[@ISOLVE365Inc]

I feel like he was too rushy and desperate. He could’ve just asked her one question he thought he was already in.

[@ISOLVE365Inc]

The girl in the gray them are breast feeding from little TT (.)(.) flat and low smh

[@nayyoung9749]

The 3rd guy SAID "I did different sports in high school"..BOY SHE TALKIN ABOUT NOW😂😂😂

[@shattablaze3369]

1st guy here lol . This was an amazing experience the energy was filled with positivity and the ladies were amazing. Always remember you win some you loose some but you always stay relevant to who you are . Thanks and this was a blast

[@PreciousSullivan]

U were the best! Wish u all the best on your search

[@chanelrowe3305]

You really were the best, I want some jollof rice from a cool king like you

[@shattablaze3369]

@@PreciousSullivan thanks . And eventually God will surely do that

[@shattablaze3369]

@@chanelrowe3305 thank you and sure lmk anytime lol

[@TravelwithRia92]

you were great!!

[@1994jct]

The first guy was so classy and respectful while also having a personality! Hopefully he finds Love!

[@vickjr98]

Facts man. Raised well

[@brittanychristopher7410]

Yes he was very respectful and seems like a good dude

[@SinaSpeaks]

He was

[@daveparker5541]

They don't want that. They want a dude with 3 kids and 3 baby mommas.

[@tyekincade152]

Same! I’m definitely rooting for him

[@taphycanning7812]

That first guy needs a standing ovation, almost all the balloons were popped she he walked out and he stuck through it, and he remained cool throughout this embarrassment and rejection, his mama raised him right

[@teejohnson9160]

He’s confident & knows who he is. That’s attractive.

[@devinwynn1299]

@@teejohnson9160 Disagree with this. He did come off as very respectful and understanding, but he was not genuine. Only went with the last girl because it was his only option and she's out of his league, so he even admitted to not wanting to say something wrong. His answers seemed like he was trying to sell himself and be fake. Just be yourself bro.

[@zizoegy8460]

To some; rejection is not humiliating or embarassing. It's not to me.

[@vswayz490]

​@@devinwynn1299Out of his league? 🤦🏾

[@d.arthur462]

Not embarrassing at all

[@Xeroxattnp]

The host is the best part of the show her energy smile an overall demeanor she was clearly raised right

[@MrAde-jy3uu]

“She looks good!”…. “Respect” dude was unintentionally hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@95luannaable]

He was so funny. I was dying laughing.

[@CapreDiem42]

Why I come cross your comment when he said that. N when he asked if they had children I had to laugh cos the way he said it n his mannerisms. He’s too real lol like you can tell he’s is being his authentic self. Big ups for that

[@sheheals_wounds5169]

😂😂

[@markcupid6250]

He was hilarious 😂

[@sfjksnfjkarnfjaerkf]

That mf funny asl 😂😂😂😂

[@beastbuilds9741]

the first dude was chill af ngl

[@sajadacooper]

facts

[@xKouture]

He took that constructive criticism like a champ ! He’s really charming

[@sajadacooper]

@@xKouture he did!!

[@Emaniwilson]

He needs a blind date episode very charismatic

[@alkhapone7124]

She popped last sec on sum bs

[@EliasBakare]

The last guy was very critical. Drilled the ladies so well that they forgot to ask about his relationship with God. Nice episode. First guy was very respectful.

[@EKPitt]

😂 you’re right

[@brandonbates6239]

Thank you!!!! Lol

[@Mythicalstorytale]

Boy that last guy is my favorite

[@oliviamerrick9256]

I was screaming where are the questions for him!!!?!?!

[@tpwaythegiant]

I thought the same thing lol

[@miciahfit]

Having to say let’s give it up for him ladies twice is so crazy😭😭. First guy was soooo sweet omg awe

[@Sweetbunniez]

I can see why Arlette is married. She exudes class, elegance, positivity and many traits that most people would gravitate to. I love her energy and it gets me in a good mood everytime 😭💗

[@FrenchyBelgian]

Exactly!! She looks kind and authentic as well

[@michaellieberman5231]

Agreed..Comes across warm and friendly and real and also doesn't get in the way on the show...

[@sincere3005]

That’s such an on point observation and the very thing that carries this show.

[@kutekid4everhigh]

Yes!!!

[@unabashed]

She is lovely, but you know that single women, who want to be single, can and do also exude those same qualities. We need to normalize desirable women being single by choice (almost all single women are single by choice, btw).

[@deestephen3176]

This is probably the best line-up of women yet. They had valid reasons for popping and were so respectful

[@kenneyp.9456]

In looks definitely

[@francismanancis4186]

Nah the one with Ramen Noodle hair was the best one@@kenneyp.9456

[@jcalvioficial]

​@@kenneyp.9456as in light 😏 ⬜

[@TheBrendan737]

True, they all had a lot of substance in their answers and reasonings for popping! Much better than some of the previous contestants.

[@laurab6418]

This line up has a lot of older and wiser women, they were definitely the most respectful of all the other videos 😭

[@Venusmindtrap]

The first man is wonderful; so respectful, kind, great energy, and willing to compromise.

[@TheOfficialCBGChannel]

I’m glad to see ppl stand for Jesus and not be ashamed!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Esmeb89547]

The men need to be more clear on what their religion is and be honest about it.

[@KinaruKitanaJade7373]

AMEN!!!

[@xguy9999]

I agree. God comes first

[@PreciousSullivan]

Amen! I was over here shouting lol…. Something about the name Jesus! It is the sweetest name I know❤

[@daughteroftheking3220]

Yes, praise the Lord the ladies weren’t playing when it came to that. Also, we need the men to be decisive/bold in their faith and put God first like the ladies. Without a strong foundation in Christ, everything crumbles.

[@stevend2748]

First guy was a masterclass on grace. Kudos to the short king.

[@orrielbamuza8115]

Short king😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Butter_fly_zen]

Ha!

[@mom2babygkaterad946]

I thought of Zacchaeus from the Bible…

[@TortillaBill]

​@@mom2babygkaterad946 that was a deep cut

[@boodaddytvs]

I feel like Arlette Took a course, got a coach, or went to a conference and got the KZbin playbook. Interesting content, stretched out over an hour for more watch time and picking the right clips that can go viral. Her subscribers are going to skyrocket if she stays consistent

[@TinoMadz-mb2vd]

She has to be consistent I'm rooting for her cz her show is very professional no bashing when someone is rejected people are so respectful and civilised

[@ChristianJoyD]

She does it better than the others because she doesn't let then get away with "They're not my type". She makes them expound.

[@FindingMyPathToGod]

Her preparation was 🔥 that’s why her show is so successful

[@favoureriata3820]

None mirage does it well as well

[@chikarayleigh4534]

@@favoureriata3820 you're not ok. Nons Miraj has the worst dating show. They just come to roast each other.

[@adriennepinson5936]

I really like the last guy. I initially thought that he was drunk, but he sounds really authentic, wise and emotionally intelligent

[@a.r.tavares1322]

He was high as a quite tough.

[@moniqueuu8777]

@@a.r.tavares1322 🤣😂

[@Meeew6996]

The first guy was such a sweet heart I hope he finds his match and in life

[@jameshorton5395]

That's the problem.

[@tantalize811]

​@@jameshorton5395 He's also not particularly attractive look-wise. They popped straight off the bat because none of these women found him desirable.

[@bladeowens]

He really was! He didn't flinch when basically all of the balloons popped.

[@themanbehindtheslaughter2678]

He's short and unattractive so probably not

[@misspersonality6637]

Right!?I hope so too!

[@jose71115]

The first guy was soo chill. I felt so bad for him he genuinely was a good guy.

[@yayos.7340]

He was

[@kanyejohn9460]

felt bad for him? they literally did him a favor.

[@victoremmanuel7823]

A lot of these ladies don't even know what they want...I say he dodged a bullet. One of them said she's on the religious side and not spiritual...how can you be religious and not spiritual??? 😂

[@Saraminaj]

@@victoremmanuel7823​​⁠maybe she means spiritual as in spiritual energy with rocks and all that other stuff spiritual ppl do. Religious more as in christianity probably.

[@Emmanuel-ti6ym]

@@kanyejohn9460 Facts

[@zion9146]

The speed and efficiency I tap on Arlettes new videos with is insane 😭😭

[@ebonyy5248]

onggg lol

[@aarmanssr6977]

Run to this shit so fast! Best show out.

[@mindingminesx]

watching during my lunch break at work 🫣

[@ivannossey4055]

Frfr 🤣🤣🤣

[@christinenyenpan5774]

Yah😍

[@shantriciavinson260]

Love the last guy.. very mature, funny, intelligent, and confident

[@okechukwuerinne2039]

You should have typed 'intelligent' in caps. He's about the most INTELLIGENT fellow I've seen on these shows.

[@kayw174]

He did not come to play

[@__REALITY]

This is gonna be goooooddddddd “Sometimes being obsessed leads to toxicity “ he ate with that !!

[@Pablopicasso796]

What exactly did he eat?

[@ItsNeezy]

​​@@Pablopicasso796 you must not have comprehended the seriousness behind being obsessive.

[@shaymene8112]

That was so accurate

[@LETS_MAKEMCLOVIN]

He spoke a word!

[@thankmelater90210]

Being obsessed is toxic and problematic. She gonna be too clingy you can't have room to breath or be yourself or be free to go as you please. It's not smart to be with someone like that unless she changed her mindset and ways. She's 25 she should be old enough to know that. She still young minded when it comes to relationships but very intelligent.

[@hateisasignofenvy651]

The host is going places, balloon show or not. She has that it factor classy & very professional

[@shaypurvis9149]

I agree

[@Seshbethinja]

She is great. I wish she would either engage the ladies after each contestant leaves, or they should have some background music playing at the very least.

[@REM977]

@@Seshbethinja I agree with your first wish but can do without the background music. It tends to be distracting.

[@TyetGoddess]

My heart aches for sweet Poet. I could hear it in is voice he’s was getting emotional trying to articulate his position ‘religiously’ while feeling judged by the women because of said position. Stay strong sweet heart. I see you.

[@angeliyah2879]

He did right holding in those emotions. Once he journey further he will be thankful to meet women on the same journey instead of these lost females

[@SavingWallets]

Yesssz everything you said ! He was trying to say just that!

[@Devante56136]

​@@angeliyah2879 I'm with you on that!

[@SheisJade]

None of these women are on the same frequency, as him.. he will soon meet his tribe ❤

[@KymaniTheIntrovert]

interestingly enough it was probably that same type of judgement he experienced in said religion that pushed him away from said religion and pushed him to his own private personal relationship with God

[@janedougherty3327]

I think that the first man from Liberia was so confident, interesting, intelligent, and respectful. You can tell he was raised right. He is going to make that special someone a wonderful husband and father. Family man all the way ❤

[@TheBenitaAngela]

I think this was my favorite group of women. They weren’t disrespectful even when they were just not physically attracted to someone. I also appreciate when young women can stand ten toes down on the importance of their faith.

[@MariaHeredia-dw4id]

But none are virgins or married why buy the cow when the milk is already free HARAM!

[@keinaanabdi6821]

I think the first guy set the tune for the entire experience

[@Enkaybe]

@@keinaanabdi6821Shut up ! You guys want to claim everything women do shut up and go fool elsewhere tsww

[@DT-ze7vs]

That because most of them believe in Jesus Christ the one and only true God🙏🏾 and was raised right most likely

[@tes-xj8uy]

and they were all really beautiful and polished

[@turningheadsdaily7534]

This is actually the first show on KZbin that feels authentic and not scripted for views and actually goes in depth to explain why the matches are being made or not. Huge props Arlette 🎉

[@wa2368]

What a bunch of religious nuts these lasses are....ugh.

[@crystaldavis6245]

The African guy was classy and caring. He wanted to get to know the woman with the balloon on a personal level which was very nice. May he find his special lady who appreciates his authenticity.

[@eagle_eye7734]

I wonder if his being African was what mase her pop the balloon?

[@Itsredbaron]

He was cool as hell

[@unklemelshow4775]

A woman like that doesn’t exist.

[@connieq2811]

He was cool. He should have slowed down a little and asked a question or two

[@malcolmskinner3117]

He blew it.He's on a show and should have asked her a question or two about food like although you're a vegan should I make any attempt for you to try a meat dish just to get your opinion or are you not open to that at all.Cmon get into you know.Stunt on her my boi.

[@Butterflytay]

Currently binge watching all the episodes. This is such an entertaining series and to my surprise also very educational in a way… it makes me evaluate what it is that I’m looking for in a partner and how I am as one.

[@steven_green]

This show needs to be on Netflix or something 😂 I dont even watch stuff like this and I'm tuned in.

[@lisalyric6711]

Lol I agree it would be a great show on Netflix

[@jacquesjervis3910]

It’s been a concept for years in the Uk, it’s called take me out. Instead of balloons it’s buzzers lol

[@lisalyric6711]

@@jacquesjervis3910 interesting.. Is this on Netflix

[@tonic740]

Too boring and awkward to be on netflix and plus it's missing structure.

[@lisalyric6711]

@@tonic740 too awkward and boring but yet you watched?

[@AngieM285]

Why did cedric come out like he had no idea where he was 😂😂

[@faizaadem9339]

I SCREAMED!!!!!! 😂😂😂

[@horefonte7226]

😭😭😭😭

[@Lnk_380]

Hé was way too funny😭😭

[@Tt3533tt]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@imsleep2573]

He treated it like an auction block lmao. He even checked out Arlette on the way out. Boy definitely came to play.

[@pebz_idjfn3]

Why the 2nd dude looked so displeased when he matched with her at the end 😂😂😂😂

[@tamekanashay]

I thought I was the only one that noticed that. Like mans was not pleased at all.

[@daneliec]

I noticed that too!!

[@viralvideotv1538]

right?!

[@ashantyreina8729]

Yessss.. I noticed and went straight to the comments.😂

[@signiiture]

It's gonna be one date then BOOM 💥 😂

[@Justaperson630]

The first guy seemed great. He kept his composure, had a great attitude, was kind and understanding… he will find his match!

[@LesaStar]

The first guy was very respectful. He might need his own show like Terrance 👀

[@StoryTimeEnthusiasts]

Yes

[@JayJay1988]

I agree

[@thelonercoder5816]

lmfao short guys can never win. And yall say us men are shallow!

[@LesaStar]

@@thelonercoder5816 You must’ve commented under the wrong post? I said he was respectful and deserves his own show. I’m just confused on who “yall” is? 😂 I didn’t see anything wrong with his height.

[@zonin88]

Agreed

[@denawilliams1843]

I’m a model and chef a rapper and a entrepreneur and a pilot! These men do a lot

[@jackie812001]

They lie a lot

[@ikobengmathambo]

Where do they get the time to do all that😂

[@nunyabusiness3516]

That means unemployed. It's code

[@zachazow]

Doing a lot means you don't do anything

[@alicianance9613]

Factz

[@darshellbertola7176]

The way Arlette makes them explain themselves cracks me TF up 😂😂😂 “so why is she not your type” LMAO bye

[@AbigaillOwusu]

She’s hilarious! “why did you leave your balloon unpopped” 😂

[@darshellbertola7176]

@@AbigaillOwusu “so what about his appearance don’t you like?” She’s GOLD lol she make them stand on business 😆

[@briserenity]

“So physically, what is your type” 😂😅

[@darshellbertola7176]

@@briserenitythen she want to say “athletic” and he plays sports 😂😂😂😂 ma’am don’t you watch football, they got some big boys on the defense line.

[@montj9672]

I love that lol

[@kanayobardi7736]

The last guy's got what I call 'esoteric swag & confidence'

[@anisaadam1342]

I love the first guy!!!! So respectful and his energy is top tier !!!!!

[@lifestraight]

Would you have kept your balloon tho Ms. Adam? Lol

[@anisaadam1342]

@@lifestraight yes. He is charming. And African as well like me

[@godsownson2469]

He is too respectful and that is why he single,because women are not attracted to " MR NICE GUY "

[@Leech_treatment53]

Women love saying this but never be in relationships with these men

[@FlamerXxx]

and most women still wouldn’t go for him sad world

[@LuxeLurker]

The 2-yr plan was an EXCELLENT question. Definitely a quality episode.

[@Dreamboydc]

My most favorite part of the show ❤

[@NBAHarps]

Every time the host asks them to go into detail: now why you over there being messy for😂

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

Instigator

[@joynay444]

Arlette is messy af and she WILL laugh in your face LOL

[@ebonih7138]

Can’t escape it 😂

[@arai.2254]

NO ACTUALLY !!! I was just about to comment this! Like if the person said “I’m not attracted, respectfully” why would you stand up there and ask them what about them makes them unattractive 😐🤨it’s like she wants to be messy for entertainment (which I guess is making her money sooo)

[@char6081]

As she mf should

[@Anonymous-mb4hz]

Aw dude was really respectful to them even while being rejected. Hats off to him for being kind.

[@JustbeingTiffany4]

The girl in all black has a beautiful spirit! I love her even after her balloon get popped she still says how she genuinely feels about that person.

[@kaleyum778]

I would have been crushed and ready to go 😂😭😭😭

[@Jizzledagiantkilla]

Why are you looking 👀

[@jacobe5495]

She consistently insinuated sexual assault (claimed staring at her breasts etc). That should be a red flag for anyone 🚩. My conclusion is, she has some trauma she is working through.

[@theoracle2760]

​@@jacobe5495Claiming someone was staring at her "breasts" when she barely even has anything there. Plus she's wearing a catsuit and has sunglasses hanging in her cleavage area, which he easily could be looking at her sunglasses. She's the type that will have a man locked up for something he didn't do. Smh.

[@jacobe5495]

@theoracle2760 she's the type that makes it hard for real victims to be believed.

[@a_83567]

I love when Arlette presses them for more details when they say the person just isn’t their type. Arlette gets the tea but in a polite nonmessy way.

[@ESBEAUTII]

No it’s very messy

[@ItsNeezy]

Because she knows the real answer and knows they're gonna tap dance around it.

[@agabrielle]

@@ESBEAUTIIagreed 😂😂

[@lelelew2735]

Lmao shes a instigator

[@s.f7778]

It’s very much messy bfr

[@Divine222_Love]

This is the most respectful group I have seen so far.

[@jizzyg4119]

So so true. It was refreshing

[@Derjodou]

Respect……😂

[@user-jd4uz9gw3h]

Respek

[@mariedeclassified]

Now this is the first good group of women I’ve seen! Everyone was so RESPECTFUL and well rounded!!! I love the sensitivity and consideration of the men’s feelings. The guys were mostly all super respectful as well! The other groups of ladies have been so petty and immature. This is so refreshing to see. ❤

[@mscrystald1]

This was the nicest group I've seen on the show. Very respectful and supportive of the ones that got a match.

[@nitamarchele5023]

Thats cuz they watched the previous episodes and saw the rude thots get dragged in the comments lol...they didn't want the smoke.

[@Igetsitin89]

​@nitamarchele5023 right that lightskin girl with the lil brother still getting dragged til this day 😂😂

[@uliceyoung722]

“Obsessed sometimes leads to toxicity.” Flamed! Lol

[@shattablaze3369]

That’s facts

[@yemedemure414]

🔥🔥🔥

[@ceelettice]

Fully agree! I could tell from her interests in the guys she kept the balloons for, that she probably overly invests in her love interests until she becomes codependent. Which we all know how that ends for the lover girls. But hey I could be misjudging.

[@serious7179]

​@@ceeletticeyeah, she needs to work on herself because that comment was telling

[@mallayadiggs261]

💯

[@NatalieI257]

The fact I’m binge watching this show while working remotely! Love it.

[@IamSunShine127]

Girl since I started on these shows I haven’t been doing ish at work. 😂 😂😂😂

[@NatalieI257]

@@IamSunShine127 😂😂

[@isisisi.]

Me too!!! My husband and I keep clownin’ they fake responses 😂

[@sabrinastarks7868]

Man, this shizz is hilarious... Ms. Amuli needs to be on someone's network with this pure entertainment.

[@gwengiddings750]

I binge it too. Can I get to no u more ?

[@nonsoisking]

The third guy was very calm. I felt his energy from my phone even after 8 months, 🙏.

[@Jelaun]

them shouting "respect" as he walked off has me screaming lmaooo

[@PastorAngelinaTv]

😅

[@marissat62]

His smile too lmao!

[@benjaminbryant3721]

😂

[@Cheickstar001]

He took it like a champ😂😂😂

[@OfficialDaikey]

I was cracking up at that 🤣🤣

[@dalajiawilliams9737]

Why is nobody talking about the girl that went missing mid-episode?! Lol. But….Finally an episode of level-headed, respectful, reasonable people! Nobody popped the balloon because of petty stuff. Everyone truly seemed to be looking for love.

[@Dream-Me]

Which girl ??

[@niasutton9682]

😂 the girl in the pink

[@mrs.fdeddins1045]

The one guy said had too much makeup on. She never smiled

[@Booksandarts]

I was looking for this comment. She looked like she was uncomfortable so maybe she left.

[@digimagic3288]

They even gave the guy that didn’t have much conversation a chance

[@MiaMore.]

Ashley in the gray dress is twining with Halle Bailey! Her hair, eyes, smile, soft voice, personality. She also lights up the room every time. So adorable & beautiful!

[@tracycenteno9963]

Shes so sweet too

[@Barbiecakezz]

I thought so too lol had to do a double take a couple times

[@edturner3615]

I thought you said Halle Berry at first!

[@utarian7]

I think a frangipanni in her hair would really suit (straight 40 year old Indian man's opinion)

[@vswayz490]

​@@edturner3615 Me too...I was like "WHAAAAT!!!?"LOL😂

[@nazliayub4786]

I was shocked how many think they can just replace Arlette, she's the real star! ❤

[@waynette8611]

Sincere’s tatoo “Who’s Cooper?” “My dog”, “Oh, then maybe I should “Aarf”. I’m dead! 😂. Long dread dude takes the award for most entertaining🏆

[@Talaya_sh]

45:44 when he said “respect” after she told him that’s all he says got my crying😭😭

[@fyb3x890]

😂😂

[@SinaSpeaks]

Respectfully same 🤣😩

[@_method_5877]

🤣🤣

[@DarkRainOfficial]

Respect

[@rprince4293]

Respect ✊

[@Chevaux804]

This is the most respectful and mature matchmaking show I've seen on KZbin.

[@Igetsitin89]

Yeah with class I don't watch the other ignorant ones

[@Kongoman125]

That last dude, should go straight, 2 Hollywood 😂😅😂 great, acting...buddy, lmao

[@Noneyabiz13]

These are the most respectful group of women on the show. Love them ❤

[@sorrywhoareyou887]

I agree

[@adventureswithsuzanna5667]

Agree

[@F_Dot_]

Respect....Respect

[@WholeHeartily]

The conversations on faith are intriguing! I never expected an online dating show to really explore the range of expressions of faiths in the black community.

[@breonac2343]

I am here for it tooo❤️

[@AndrelSaunders]

They can't be Christians though. Just my opinion

[@RonDonProductions]

Bro was trying his best to not say he was an atheist because he knows how our community shuns the lack of belief. It's definitely a struggle to get people to hear a different point of view, but I enjoyed that part of the show. Edit: My comment was about the 2nd dude, didn't realize there was even more faith talk lol

[@simone_e.4207]

​​@@RonDonProductions He said enough though. When you know what you believe in, it's not hard to articulate.

[@simonesherron7921]

What gets me is I was just explaining to my Black Agnostic friend about the importance of articulating your knowledge or expression of your position of religion especially when it comes to dating and here we see why I am right *sigh* 😫

[@Bombeyfilmmedia]

1st & 2nd dude was super confident, honest and chill. No goofy energy! They played it perfectly when they got rejected and selected. Fellas take notes and apply it to life.

[@abdifatah_Aden]

2nd guy from the air force looked rude af. The way he carried himself was super arrogant.

[@FrenchValleyAirport]

Last man is SMART 🤣 the Victorville and gang correlation off the dome like that 😂😂😂

[@Ishbikes]

*I said ARE YOU IN A GANG* 😂😂

[@chakadaralph29]

Arlette,just a suggestion to have the ladies who popped their balloon to move further down the line to avoid moving back and forth too much..i.e ease in walking for you and your guests...i just love how you listen to your fans in the comment section

[@janahudson1165]

I thought the same. The people who pop should step back after they answer why they popped

[@thehardtruth3027]

Is that necessary? It's really not that long of a walk🙄

[@jcalvioficial]

It's a good idea. Work smarker not harder.. if possible not at all 😜

[@destinyani]

Good point

[@Slavocean]

I like the back and forth walking

[@ashleyfuega]

“Have you ever been in a gang?” 😂😂😂 he was so serious too. I’m literally crying 🤣🤣 51:10

[@Mariamsadventure]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tinybootykia4411]

😂

[@JJ-nr2np]

The fact that he knew her ‘hood was crazy.

[@tes-xj8uy]

real questions! lol

[@TheLoveOfNikki]

I DID NOT see that question coming 😂😂😂😂

[@ytwatcher69]

The second guy did not seem interested in his match at all 😅

[@chaunceyelliot1633]

He didn’t seem interested in none of them.

[@chrisw4405]

Because most of them is just there to waste they time . Can’t blame him

[@angeliquewest-sv6ud]

I don’t think he liked any of us to be honest but it was all fun

[@lindokuhlengcamu519]

A​@@angeliquewest-sv6udhi there airforce girl. You looked good on the video 👌🏽

[@adgee5401]

Not everybody shows emotion the same way. I would be just like him. It’s just a female at the end of the day.

[@edabailey]

"Who is Cooper?" "My dog." "Okay ,Cooper! Well shit! Maybe I need ta 'arf!'" 🤣🤣🤣

[@Inksplash52]

The fact Cedric had some balloons left was crazy to me ,dude was off 😂

[@amandaclbn8324]

Right, no substance at all, just respect 😭

[@jehanalexander7563]

zero substance

[@PHARAONICORP]

That dude was definitely a lame 😂

[@beauneamcneil6284]

lmaooooo cus i was for sure questioning my own sanity

[@CL-ck6lf]

when he said that as long as she can clean my balloon woulda been popped😭

[@KnewYawkPapi]

Cedric was funny. The team saying respect when he left is absurd 😂😂😂

[@SinaSpeaks]

Respect ❤️

[@AmoSaxFrancis]

RESPECT

[@owijayson]

Rispek

[@NamesZKP]

Tbh I dont think he was interested. He wasnt saying much or eleborating or creating dialogue. Idk maybe he was just nervous and didnt want to say the wrong thing since they already got on his ass for looking at them in a way. I think he got caught up in the loop of policing himself too much rather than actually making a connection with them.

[@garconslord]

When Cedric first walked in had me dying bro looked at the camera like “what is going on”😂😂😂 #respect

[@dihamilton25]

He was awful 😂😂 where the heck she find him

[@brandonbates6239]

He called himself agent slim . Niggga I was crying the whole time .

[@bcm7k206]

@@dihamilton25your comment is reflective of yourself

[@Jazzmin554]

@@dihamilton25u awful

[@dihamilton25]

@@Jazzmin554 thank you.

[@jonbe9]

21:53 his body language says he wasnt really interested and he didn't request to hold her arm on the way out just sayin

[@JDjee5]

I can here to say that as well. I would’ve kept my balloon popped, he was so unenthusiastic about her. Smh

[@narimennarimen9965]

Because he was probably interested in the 1st girl

[@Mank_Mindset]

The last guy proves that ladies like mysterious things, the way he presented himself it messed with their minds

[@platanoconsalami167]

Surprised I had to scroll this far down to find a mention of that guy. None of them expected that level of articulation I imagine. Made me laugh due to the fact the same thing has happened to myself for a majority of my life lol (My appearance not necessarily matching my intellectual impression aka ppl judging a book by its cover)

[@vg1024]

@@platanoconsalami167 you need to improve your wardrobe. No excuses my guy.

[@vg1024]

I love the last guy, he was more articulate than mysterious. I would have probably taken the same approach.

[@platanoconsalami167]

@@vg1024 lmao. I never intended my remark about appearance being based on clothing 🤣 Hope all is well! Appreciate the reply! It was more on first impression or stereotypical assumptions based on my “unchangeable” physical traits. Then most ppl necessarily being proven wrong about it in a way after getting to know me. Basically people would think I’m ghetto or from the hood with low IQ or something(regardless of how nice I dress) but when they speak to me they see completely different. It was comedy with teachers, none expected me to be a straight A student with a 3.8 gpa

[@platanoconsalami167]

@@vg1024 Yeah one of my favorite segments from one of the men due to that. No glazing lol, just genuinely liked the approach he took. It wasn’t a I’ll present myself and hopefully one picks me style most of the men who come on do, it was more I’m breaking all of you down to see through the true colors you guys carry and see if its more so good enough for me

[@detectivehawk4976]

First dude probably was insanely chill af. Every girl lowkey dissed him and he didn’t take anything personally and complimented them back instead

[@BeachBallCrusher]

The chick in the red top literally led him on then popped at the end. She is definitely the type to play games.

[@HoneybadgerQ]

He should have never done that. That would of made him interesting. Men should never compliment women after rejection. Women get fueled off that

[@whitneywilliams317]

​@@HoneybadgerQ I can't disagree, but that fact he didn't take it personally and took it like a champ gave me the notion that he didn't care wtf those girls thought anyway 😂😂. He knows his value.

[@robertneal8244]

@@HoneybadgerQ Not every CHICK dissed him, and why would he take anything they says personally? The last episode the men did the same thing to the lady that was a personal trainer. And she actuality handled it well. And not complimenting a women after rejection doesnt make you interesting, Idk who told you that bro😂😂😂and most women don't get fueled off that. Just the ones that reject you😂😂😂

[@Tevron_]

Hes cool, but he needs to upgrade his wardrobe asap. Bro cant be rollin in wearin that

[@MaxIsBackInTown]

When he asked “have you ever been in a gang” I lost it 😂

[@NatashaMiller0804]

I swear that guy was drunk. 😂😂😂😂

[@MillionDollarCo]

😂😂😂😂 he wobbling toooo much

[@alonzoslaughter5112]

Victor ain't sweet 😂

[@OolaCosmas]

Bruh looks high af

[@skiniminonochie]

The look she gave him😂😂😂

[@Lizette-y5s]

The First Gentleman has the most genuine heart🥺 I pray she finds someone for him.

[@popcorn526]

Ladies, as a married Christian, don’t let anyone take you away from your faith. I guarantee it’s not worth it and you will be compromising your right now for your forever. Stay blessed all! 🙏🏾

[@eustaceelms9403]

Sounds like you going through it now

[@gasmakingboost]

​@@eustaceelms9403😂😂😂

[@kaileebroadway7723]

I was so encouraged, when the women stand firm. It was beautiful!

[@Rittersport88]

A lot of yall are worst than "worldly" folks. Some of the biggest cheaters and gossipers I've known

[@innitbruv-lascocomics9910]

​@@Rittersport88 Christians LOVE to parade their supposed "Godly" values and defame us so called "wordly" people yet they will committ some of the most heinous things under their God. And then other Christians would be quick to say "they weren't a REAL Christian" when confronted. They hide and cower behind their archaic book. Such sad people.

[@CDProclaim180]

I'm sorry but a relationship with that second guy will be so painful. Zero excitement, zero personality. Amazing episode Arlette!

[@TheRalphbitch]

U prefer him to be noisey and ghetto?

[@BigGlockGucci]

It's because he was tall, that's all 😂

[@JD-te6vm]

He had a good deal breaker tho

[@JAYWIL01]

It really doesn't matter when you're tall and have your stuff together.

[@khorediathiam1976]

I thought the same. He wasn’t that excited for his match either.

[@michaelrainerii3547]

Man when someone says they're not attracted to you, that's all necessary 😂. No point in the humiliation after

[@maizelinefrazs6493]

Exactly my point

[@maizelinefrazs6493]

These ladies miss out on #1😢 what is it they are looking for I would take back a Balloon he's a true man

[@Deltahairlines82]

Facts

[@shesojaded3625]

Right! They don’t need to elaborate

[@bryanhawkins9418]

I feel you but it’s helpful to the person to know if it’s something they can improve upon

[@Tahani08]

The first guy was so sweet, and handled himself well. I hope he finds his love 👍🏽

[@PrettiBelle]

I'm addicted to watching these. I've been married for 16 years and I'm glad to see that someone still believes in finding love. Very respectable show. Well done🎉🎉

[@natashacashaw9803]

❤Yes I love this

[@Fruit17-ip4vl]

Great comment PrettiBelle! 😎 I have been married 31 years and I am also a sucker for watching shows about finding love! My era was different so it is intriguing to see how young men and women navigate the dating scene and how they find true love! I love the introduction/music to the show and the production is excellent! Great host! ❤️😎

[@autumnsky3032]

I liked the first guy. He may have been short but he was a vibe.

[@mariahcherrynolan6408]

True...I mean in a world of where ladies do BBLs, make ups and hair extras, being short is natural, so yeah I hate when people use that as a barrier too much

[@teesmith8448]

I definitely would loved to go out with him if I was younger.

[@summertime718]

Very

[@Blueberry_muffin42]

A whole vibe!

[@opulence_prime]

For real. The day I work 3 jobs and turn down a short man take me to the King. Cus if his height isn’t a issue for him it’s not for me.

[@lastdragonx]

Arlette is about to dominate the entire dating show market. Mad props

[@modestblossom]

I was like this needs to be on 📺

[@impeccablenaturale]

I put her with Kendra G.. I'm new to both of them and haven't seen the styles of social media dating shows. Just so happen to randomly click on, being nosey about the view count, and now I'm hooked! Arlette is great and it's interesting seeing others' methods in choosing mate interests. Sooo refreshing to see after watching a couple headass "20 vs" videos.

[@lastdragonx]

@@impeccablenaturale Kendra's show is ratchet in comparison to Arlette. Kendra is the ghetto version of Jerry Springer. Trash.

[@lastdragonx]

@@modestblossom Exactly. Maybe it will. Her platform is growing overnight.

[@chanel.8996]

arlettes grace and energy is top tier

[@qweenroro3991]

He was so kind to them while being rejected based off of looks. Very mature.

[@shanisha0730]

I am SHOCKED the last guy lasted as long as he did. 🤣

[@lschild222]

This…he’s a clown

[@jouddy]

He was high asl lol

[@valerieg8874]

Fact's !

[@laquirriapretty6091]

That man was a winner wym . Very smart and very assertive ❤️ I think he should’ve picked the one in the gray dress though 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@bernadinn1224]

That's a very smart man and that's why he had all the ladies in line till the damn end. Yes he was High asf lol but he forsure was the smarted nigga on this episode]\

[@CamirrasKitchen]

the last guy taking over like he is the host of the show 😂

[@thabangmashego9459]

He did that

[@MalikaEsdelle]

Right 😂

[@kitcowool]

My kind of guy! He needs all the data before making a decision. Asks deep questions!

[@marybulinda]

It was smart of him genius move

[@kingbiko7339]

He's dope

[@dalive___]

“That’s okay Marviiiin!” 😂

[@shanda123]

The girl in the gray dress seems like she has a beautiful spirit. She is so calm and her voice is so soothing. I think she would have been a great match for that last guy

[@visionarybrushstroker7694]

She’s the prettiest to me

[@errielrollins2972]

Me too

[@chymerexdesign]

Same! I’m like dang i thought they were vibing for sure

[@lalaverdefrijole]

I agree, she has a nice vibe, is articulate and knows what she wants. I thought she was vibing with the 2nd gentleman, the one in music with the heavy jacket.

[@imanisimone2862]

YESSSS I was thinking the exact same thing

[@ImInLoveWithAllocos]

The dreadlocks guy was so high it's not even funny 🤣🤣🤣 Also, Arlette is a G for always repeating the same questions over and over again with such style, smile and patience

[@Rainmakesflowers]

I just said the same thing he’s high as hell and I’m cracking up at him🤣🤣🤣

[@wonaiharuperi3724]

I came here just to check if anyone else noticed 😂

[@krystalbbeautiful8569]

@@wonaiharuperi3724me too lol

[@krystalbbeautiful8569]

😂😂😂😂

[@Nini_savage7]

@@wonaiharuperi3724 you were not alone

[@jtheo4055]

That dude really said “ I would talk to you, I jus wouldn’t take you serious“ 🤣🤣🤣

[@pistolpvyg]

Lol.

[@samyoe]

They can't handle the truth 😂

[@steventaylor1292]

I mean tht goes for every wig wearing female. Why would u take someone who lacks confidence and needs a wig to feel beautiful. These women aren't wives, just rentals with wigs.

[@lifeoflove7482]

I’m addicted to watching this ! Awesome job Arlette ❤

[@CallmeTorib]

Poet is emotionally intelligent, it’s important not to get swayed just because someone is finding words to explain their expression. (Which isn’t even necessary and it’s actually a privilege to receive) He truly understands the world without societal judgement. And that is a beautiful thing

[@zyasiakaliis5166]

exactly he’s very in tune with his internal self and the world. refreshing to see someone like that.

[@kaujuanrichey7100]

Emotionally intelligence is an oxymoron. We gotta stop saying this contradictory shit ladies and gentlemen...

[@meneedmoney]

@@kaujuanrichey7100damn I never thought about that in that way. It kinda is

[@yanou4u]

​@@kaujuanrichey7100 Being able to combine the two correctly is a form of wisdom not necessarily an oxymoron.

[@porshp8941]

nah i dont think he's emotionally intelligent. Simply bc he really struggled hard to understand that the women who believed his lack of religion was not a good fit for them was somehow them being judgmental or not showing grace. If he were so emotionally intelligent he would recognize the difference in them being protective of their desire for a man with the same convictions as them as opposed to him being offended and feeling so judged. They want someone with the same beliefs. thats not always a judgment or a non-grace issue. He wants to appear like he has a high EQ and SQ but he's still learning.

[@Romphotography]

The model with the grey dressssssss Whoa . Beautiful, soft , amazing smile . I don’t even like girls and I’m in love lol

[@cboy-ou2hr]

That’s Rihanna

[@pajonazare]

I've watched this episode and was only waiting to see her all the time. She is so sweet and well spoken 😍😍😍. Beautiful

[@blacklight3596]

Classy

[@airforceshadow765]

she reminds me of Halle Bailey . very sweet

[@Lorenzo-e7m]

@@airforceshadow765not even close to Halle berry 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@nikkinites3176]

This set of ladies had some sense. Not popping based off shallow superficial issues. Great show!

[@realizmstudios]

which show were you watching , they literally popped the first guy because he was short.

[@mrrdw77]

Were you joking or serious?

[@teama5956]

Arlette is the OG of this pop the balloon! Love her! ❤

[@strangepretty7991]

Girl in the silver dress probably one of the prettiest girls i’ve seen

[@isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva]

Facts!

[@baerares2743]

Litttearlyyy!!! I was so sad for her she didn’t get the guy

[@harunyusuf6622]

fr too bad she got a kid

[@dynasty507]

​@@harunyusuf6622 Poor thing. For recreational use only.

[@dejahshaqurah4460]

@@harunyusuf6622So what? Her having kids doesn’t mean anything.