Ep 8: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
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[@Captain_ObviouslyRight]

I'm starting to feel like "entrepreneur" is code for "haven't quite figured things out yet" 😂😂

[@snenhlanhlathembeka4327]

😂😂😂

[@cortrellhonor8839]

Literally

[@Orgizo08]

It is lol

[@JozelleRenia]

Bingo😂🤯

[@BrittanySimone_]

Frfr

[@kiwanejohnson1258]

I love how my brothers are listening to the ladies before popping their balloon’s. Much respect brothers!

[@kennahowe7582]

Exactly!!!! This is the best episode thus far.

[@emoneroberson5026]

Or the ladies was just attractive that’s y like 😂

[@kiwanejohnson1258]

@@emoneroberson5026 ok….. but I’m glad that they’re letting them respond 😊

[@thehardtruth3027]

Because at the very least, they wanna get laid😁😁

[@BlackSavage946]

Maybe the women can learn from the bruddas when they're lined up with they're balloons ready to reject mandem off rip.

[@akuborgodwin8199]

these men deserve awards for being the most respectful group of men out EVER assembled together. they all gave that short lady with the heels a chance

[@ian.rotich]

What you trying to say.... about the short lady🤨🤨

[@alicia9498]

@@ian.rotichBc she’s stunning like what

[@BellaStackz]

“My name is Keyshawn they call me Key” we get it 😂😂

[@kellywarren2561]

Omg I thought I was the only one. It was driving me crazy. Every time he talked I had to skip that part. I think the only person Keyshawn could match with was key. He seems to really love that side of himself 😂😂

[@shanicea7156]

Lmao right! I was like “who is ‘they’??”

[@bembegreen8027]

Fr he was annoying with that.

[@MizzSweetTe]

😂😂😩

[@coaluck]

Agreed and on the flip side Preston looked annoyed every time he had to repeat his name and age 😄

[@Helen_Boayue]

This is actually the best cast of men so far! Love that they are respectful, well spoken and just well rounded.

[@SourceressNunSpiritualityTVLLC]

HIGHLIGHT COMMENT FOR SURE

[@kairanelle1380]

I don't. "You a woman you should know your role" and the men behind him nodding is concerning

[@Helen_Boayue]

@@kairanelle1380 compare to all the previous casts of men worse has been said

[@JayJay1988]

@@kairanelle1380so you shouldn’t know your role as a woman? So many women want men to know their role but it’s a problem for men to want a women to know her role??

[@iJarib]

Is it? The guys seems to have an arrogant take on a woman's submissiveness. Like they want a woman who wouldn't talk back or anything

[@sherineofficial7851]

I like how they stopped popping the balloons as soon as the contestants walk out!. Everyone looking for depth. Love to see it!

[@user-jz2fx9me8q]

Unlike the bad shallow minded representations of ur gender, that are quick to pop balloons becoz the female next to her pops hers or coz of the way the man walks out

[@advanced8998]

Yeah but it doesn't seem honest though. It's like they're just waiting because they don't want any backlash. I preferred the raw honesty

[@ThurstMETV]

@@advanced8998Exactly. Most of them were not interested in the second woman! They were just waiting for a moment to pop and potentially go viral! lol it’s too obvious. Secondly the men don’t pop right away. The women do.

[@planettiktok3258]

Lol it ain’t that they looking for depth , men are simple asl lmao that’s it meaning they passed the looks test initially

[@kairanelle1380]

I think they just don't want to seem shallow

[@michezulu]

The lady in the green jumpsuit was so thoughtful. I really enjoyed learning her POV. She stimulated real discourse around the concept of ride or die.

[@Spoons7414]

lol what?! She’s an absolute fool

[@myathompson3674]

definitely, I never thought about it that deep, but I have at the same time; because I associate with negative things too, as well as positive, but in a lot of her answers, similar to her reason for why she doesn't do ride or die is because she doesn't want to stay in a gray area, but be direct.

[@DV-lr8ec]

She has no idea how to interpret ride or die 😅

[@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv]

She gave off masculine energy that no man likes. That's why she wasn't matched.

[@jbb8261]

It amazes me how some women see women like her as inspirational when she has her head up her butt

[@harristerrence]

Having a 1 year old and 2 year old on a dating show is crazy 😂😂😂

[@yourriderdie8472]

With them sunglasses on

[@Dominiquetheque]

What's his @?

[@pal4025]

I was hoping she went with the other guy. He didn’t even bother to take off the glasses. No manners. If I can’t see ur eyes I can’t trust you

[@Gdir_hsa]

Metro boomin was wilding for real for real😂

[@choirofangels6228]

​@@pal4025 for realll And he just passed ahead of her when they were leaving He was the brightest red flag in the room

[@PrettyVicious]

“If we have a similar name i can’t take you serious” Girl grow up. 💀😂

[@Bailey-zv9hl]

Right😂😂😂

[@lailancampbell]

Same thing I said 😂

[@Brwniee95]

That was so random 😩

[@adielgumbo8981]

He was too cheeky for that 😂

[@babyrheas]

She was petty and immature

[@blessedmomof2]

I also love how none of the men popped their balloon until the women started speaking and answering questions. This group of men was by far the best!

[@rachelyeager47]

I agree! These men had real depth! Give them another round!

[@sipteawithtee]

Yes!!! Love this

[@Ijom4bestt]

Because they are young. The older men above 30 do not have the time for endurance 😂

[@julisaortiz2576]

agree

[@user-jy4qz6ef8h]

They gave the 2nd woman a chance even tho , respectfully, she was a bit out of shape. Yet here she is talking about ‘I’m not a ride or die’….‘I like to travel and eat’ 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@ReignOfC]

The presence of the second woman in the green was everything. I love her aura.

[@Vlindertjeab]

She's gorgeous 😍🩷

[@cliffordhamilton2786]

Like seriously! She was phenomenal!

[@Cayoroots]

Very articulate, thoughtful, knows what she wants, and not combative. I agree

[@JDtheGemini13]

Here’s my thing. She seems like a scammer a lil bit 😅 she’s got a great sales pitch but ultimately wants somebody with money and dips in hard times

[@iLoveYouShow1]

@@JDtheGemini13she did say she was from Atlanta 😅 you are what made ya but it didn’t give the user type kindof just her natural operation.

[@sheff-eb6jb]

Everyones a model 😂😂

[@ln8396]

Exactly wtf

[@jayouterbridge8]

Better than saying unemployed! But damn it must suck to be short! That one dred got called out every single time early on for that

[@JakaylaJohnsonChannel]

I don't care what NO ONE says...Arlette is that girl (woman)!!!! She's so classy, beautiful, well-mannered, well-spoken, well-dressed, sophisticated, she needs her own TV SHOW! She is an example of an elegant black woman that deserves a huge platform. She's entertaining, sparks controversy (some people don't like her mannerisms, others like myself do). She puts out consistent, HIGH-QUALITY, enjoyable content. May God bless her abundantly. :)

[@vivianclarke246]

I agree !

[@crazyasse3667]

She's African women, she Carry herself with class ❤

[@inarijm]

I agree☺️🩷

[@titanjake8640]

She is so fine. Glad she is married and don't have to get on a show like this

[@JakaylaJohnsonChannel]

@@titanjake8640 She's definitely beautiful & hopefully happily married💕

[@applepie6559]

“Im Rico and I’m TwentyFo”🤣

[@anissagr523]

Cringed everytime he open his mouth. His African parents must be stressedddddd

[@92spice18]

But did you guys notice how he spoke eloquently when he shared his understanding of the “ride or die” phrase. He’s probably really well spoken but putting on a front. I would’ve popped his balloon as soon as he opened mouth.

[@kbjones4854]

I thought it was just me. I expected so much more from him growing up in a two parent household. He kinda gave off he was playing a character and that’s not really him. Like suburban kids that try to act hood.

[@yupthatsme2402]

Him & the first dude was genuinely getting on my nerves 😂

[@modestblossom]

😂

[@TinyDemoness]

I love Alexis! She's so strong, confident, intellectual, direct, and articulate. LOVE HER!

[@ThiaFort-fk7sh]

No, she is not. She is arrogant, masculine, and overbearing. First, she said she is open to dating a younger man, and then she pops his balloon because he is younger.

[@Saraminaj]

@@ThiaFort-fk7shhow is that arrogant? It’s literally her preference. The boy sounds unserious as hell she was doing him a favor by saying it was age instead of embarrassing him.

[@indigonai1565]

lol articulate but not necessarily intellectual

[@indigonai1565]

@@ThiaFort-fk7sh😂😂 she’s all over the place. She’s giving the energy that: she’s flaky, stubborn, and looking for a come up

[@siobhanwright3078]

⁠@@indigonai1565she gave me the energy of someone who’s been hurt and never healed like get off the dating show and go work on opening up 😂

[@janayyyyyyy]

This entire line up of men was absolutely phenomenal, the intelligence and self awareness was amazing.

[@MissOMGBeautiful]

Bring back this panel of men! They were funny, well spoken, respectful, and presentable. Loved the energy they gave.

[@peacebalancetruth]

🎯💪🏾🥳

[@EmilyIntsiful]

Best line up so far. Not shallow at all!

[@Latoya_T]

Agreed

[@ssbeets]

Loved how they all actually waited on responses from the women no matter what their preference was.

[@onrecordwithoni]

And they all look pretty well put together for the most part / are actually handsome . Brava t✨

[@samuelchimezie]

I love how none of the men were superficial; they all wanted to dig deeper before popping. It was a great panel.

[@HoneybadgerQ]

Correct. And That also shows you the women STILL need a lot of work to do

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

Yes unlike the last group of men! Hopefully the next group of women will do the same because they were off the chain too

[@Mya_water]

@@HoneybadgerQWhy are you so dense?

[@ratedn4nia]

Men are visual and it doesn’t make them superficial. You can dislike that but it not changing

[@Cjanellea]

Agree

[@JoWithTheFro1]

Kee is actually so well-rounded for a 26 year old. Loved everything he had to say. Need more men on dating shows/apps like him!

[@tdcleveland09]

Yes key was my favorite and Cornell or Carnell was amazing as well

[@MJdoesit]

He got mad at the girl for defending herself and thinks he’s smarter than what he actually is so annoying

[@bohemiandaddy]

I want a panel of women that are this respectful and come with the questions and energy.

[@JazzMyneJoyy]

Prayers to the first woman with the Heart Condition that may impact her ability to have kids. That’s not something that was in her control and she probably had a tuff time receiving that news. Someone will come along love that accepts you and wants to build something with you.

[@HoneybadgerQ]

God works in mysterious ways. It could be a reason for that not in a good way.

[@lilylillies]

Facts 👐🏽

[@MsHnBK]

I loved that she was vulnerable enough to share that. ❤ I wish her happiness.

[@snicholson8884]

Man popped the balloon as soon as she said she had a heart condition. 😂😅

[@maltarpeddy]

@@snicholson8884and it’s nothing to laugh about…

[@benimcanm351]

Let’s get some single old-heads on the show. Can we get a 35-45 age range? Also, you should include “Are you open to dating shorter men?” on your questionnaire, so our short Kings aren’t always getting left behind.

[@TheGoodylady]

Yes please !!!

[@drillingig2368]

That’s life, man. Equality is counterintuitive.

[@Skylarchase27]

Yes and the age rang. She has young women with older men. They get rejected for being too old. It should be age groups.

[@djovechkin]

Hell na, thats too old

[@marie-stellamakoumbou2709]

why is your comment not a top one?? I 100% agree!

[@MrStrosty]

As a man her ride or die explanation was pretty straightforward and makes sense to me.

[@GerinaJade]

2nd woman in the green is secure, thoughtful and intelligent

[@edsonchakanyuka3733]

Nah. She has a reasonable size of delusion. She has no clue what role a woman plays in a family. Oh, I forget, she is a woman😂😂

[@DV-lr8ec]

She's a fool and will remain single. Mark my words!

[@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv]

She was masculine

[@mariegordon97]

Men scared of a strong & intelligent woman

[@clintonmarunyane3096]

@@mariegordon97 you're delusional

[@paulj2948]

I vote to prohibit sunglasses. Really?? That's an immediate pop.

[@brandonleemoss]

Ironically wearing sunglasses actually gives you a higher chance of success on this show😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@EliMills]

I agree. That's not even something an adult should think of wearing in this situation!

[@mzgymeni]

He's hiding his eyes because he's high. POP!

[@willberforce876]

the finest chic went for the guy with the lamest outfit and shades on tho lol

[@paulj2948]

@@mzgymeni and a 1 year old and 2 year old she found out after picking him. Probably 2 mothers.

[@imanicunningham1268]

I think it’s insane to choose a guy that you didn’t even see his full face because he has freaking sunglasses on

[@Sumi2379]

Yea that’s weird cus ppl be looking different without shades & hats too 😂

[@WilsonWorldTV]

@@Sumi2379 but most girls on the show wear make up, I could say they would look different too lol

[@kelsey7546]

Literally what if he had only 1 eye or was cross eyed. Not that it’s a problem but it should have been presented lol

[@kristenbarber8577]

That part.

[@WilsonWorldTV]

@@kelsey7546 lol okay ? What if she had dermatitis...should that be presented as well lol. It should be rule in that case. girls cant come to the show and contour their face. I need to see your real cheekbones, nose shape and skin conditions 🤣 but crazy thats not realistic scenario.

[@reneemoodie9993]

The second lady was direct, knew what she wanted and expressed herself really well.

[@naomim5746]

34:12 🤣🤣 I gagged at her question “How many men stay with a woman who loses her legs. I’ll wait …. 👀

[@animezae]

And the follow-up of “it sounds nice in theory” when some claimed they would 😂😂 statistics say otherwise sir

[@nicoleblake2700]

​@@animezaeyea but irregardless of others poor decisions shouldn't you stand on your own principles???? The fact that she didn't answer says a lot about her mindset which alludes to her not truly being with someone in hard times and tells you she'll only be there unless things are beneficial for her.

[@nowlyrics3084]

I would stay with mines

[@adaezenwabuwa6839]

I feel the girl on yellow gown with all her intelligence and right questions chose the wrong guy

[@lexih8473]

100%!!!!!!

[@marilyn_warrior]

She got swayed by the smooth talk

[@MimiMonet.]

Yesss omg

[@shiquonnewinkfield4751]

Only dude hiding behind shades and a hat, and the fact that he brought his 1 and 2 yr old up once he was the last man standing. He knew what to say and what not to say to get her. Textbook manipulator

[@Nikerawalker]

He a PIMP🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ She trippin

[@quiavajanai1141]

This was the best group of men. They actually let the women speak before popping their balloon. None of them were shallow or rude. Love this

[@AlwonDomz]

Several ladies were not good with rejection, however, the fellas didn’t reciprocate. Definitely a step up from previous line ups.

[@earlynrivas2928]

I Must COMMEND the guys on their MATURITY👏👏👏👏👏🎉

[@bleeka325]

The one comment about the forehead was the worst it got I think

[@AlwonDomz]

@@bleeka325 I thought it was unnecessary until they zoomed on the edges. It did look very unnatural.

[@graws7009]

Attraction is necessary. To call them "shallow" if they immediately popped their balloon, is pretentious and pseudointellectual

[@beccaclaire5428]

This group of men is THE absolute BEST! I liked Preston, Styles, Marcus and Key the best. They were all so respectful, kind, articulate and open minded. ❤

[@BlackLuv17]

Yes true 🎉🎉🎉

[@reinvent905]

You wanna meet Preston huh lol

[@StackRunItUp]

I can’t take the first girl serious 😂 “if your name is like mines, I can’t date you”

[@victoriacampos1050]

couldn’t answer any question either

[@tierremitchell4977]

Doesn’t know what a love language is😢

[@doodiemac100]

Classic example of a professional goofy

[@vgreen1106]

Why did I get emotional from the first young lady when she spoke on her fertility situation. How noble of you to share that. May God continue to bless you!

[@opulence_prime]

It was foolish of her to share that. She’s only 20 ppl outgrow and live full lives with heart conditions.

[@AssataDemure]

It was brave not necessarily wise

[@vgreen1106]

I receive that. I Honor transparency. God Bless that Queen

[@didimarcus277]

How is that noble? It is a challenge which she will overcome that's all.

[@oumoubarry1860]

Ameen! Felt the same way

[@stevej1427]

She didn’t even know what love languages were. She could have just said acts of service.

[@WholeHeartily]

Or even “I don’t know! I’m not sure, I didn’t read the book but I like xyz signs of affection”

[@audreyjones1499]

I didn't either😂 but I'm in my 50s and been married forever Lol. I googled it so I know now.☺

[@dahmeneekah]

😂 Had me guessing quality time... He figured it out, I think

[@Morg100]

And then she randomly threw in that she had a dog… like girl HUH?? 😂😂

[@stevej1427]

@@audreyjones1499 it’s all good. It might be a millennial thing., idk. We all learned it at some point. I was around 27. Some girl asked me and I was clueless.

[@ayindestruth4052]

Rico went from "twenty fo" to " Im twenty-four" when shorty in yellow popped out 😂

[@kamaliah1865]

So LOVE the woman in the green jumpsuit thoughts and for sticking to her convictions 💅🏽

[@RephaiahTchazelIsrael]

🚮

[@Jstwatching]

I noticed Rico really liked the lady in the yellow. Even pronounced twenty-FOUR properly for her lol

[@AckeeandSaltfish]

Same and we say all 37 of his teeth when they started talking 😂

[@williamss232]

Thought nobody else caught that. Everbody talking about him saying it wrong nobody noticed when he said it right 😂

[@3OONZlE]

him and styles was feeling her from the jump . was smiling as soon as she walked out

[@troublemonroe]

😂

[@d.7203]

LMFAOO

[@JulieKeeshaaa]

Jasmine was pissing me off😭 that girl couldn’t answer no questions… & all she wants is a provider

[@user-gu6vf3je1d]

And looking like she ain’t never been provided with nothing but a heavy meal.

[@Smoove2010]

The women were just off, the men were more on point. Asking and answering questions they took it more seriously.

[@tabootabletalkpodcast]

like most BW

[@klccostello1273]

The 2nd lady sounds like she don't need to be dating at the moment. She got alot of stuff to unpack personally

[@lanesiam1066]

😂😂​@@user-gu6vf3je1d

[@thecritic1126]

The girl in green was very sophisticated, Well spoken, and charismatic

[@princessnaija4890]

Yes by far was my favorite contestant

[@isaiahmcclinton2087]

She gave me the ick😂. The user mentality, and the tongue is powerful. You will reap what you sow.

[@AL-vg7rx]

This line up of guys were intelligent, respectful and outspoken. I really like this set

[@kmbrlystewart]

Ladies, please leave something to be desired and go over questions at home. If you've watched the show, you should know what to expect. These men were the best group of men I've seen on here that actually looked for the women to have depth. Good job guys.

[@missyd1215]

Why would the women go over questions? You're right this is best group of men, after 8 episodes. If anything they're most likely responding to all the valid complaints that the women had on the show, about the men not dressing appropriately, and eliminating the women for very superficial reasons like the color of her dress or not wearing a watch. Most of the women have always dressed nice and asked solid questions to the men, now these men are stepping their game up trying to match the women's energy.

[@bleeka325]

@@missyd1215I thibk they are saying they should come prepared. Some came on the show as if they hadn’t considered their own deal breakers or what they what in a man or even a couple questions to have ready since you know you’ll need to ask some

[@capcandypaint]

I agree 100%. This time the women were a let down when it came to depth and self awareness. These guys were top of the line for sure.

[@2LOVABLE2B]

Idk about the best group of men a lot of them didn’t have real jobs/ careers the majority of were putting on fronts like they were “deep”.

[@kmbrlystewart]

@missyd1215 For instance, the guy with the tight plaid pants kept having to tell some of the women to ask questions of substance. The lady in the green spoke well but ended up shooting herself in the foot. The girl in all black from Phoenix was extremely shallow. She just wanted a guy with money and had nothing to share with them about herself. She likes going out but couldn't even figure out how to say that she's clubs. She said multiple times that she goes out and she likes dating and going out to eat. She recently lost 65 pounds said something about the gym but couldn't really communicate that she goes. Several guys were models, and the 2 on either end are heavily in the gym but she never ask them questions that would tell her anything about them.

[@AriBae7]

I love how the 2nd girl in the green handled her turn, she was very very well spoken and handled the men’s opinions very well💕

[@blackbutterfye]

Her level headed perspective on things threw the men off. I love how she handled herself.

[@jesuscastillo1493]

@@blackbutterfyeLOL what do you mean that exactly? She will remain single forever. Nowhere near an attractive women and her beliefs are pretty one side and not putting her thought on another perspective.

[@jesuscastillo1493]

@@blackbutterfyeLOL she will remain single forever and if you think otherwise you’re crazy.

[@jesuscastillo1493]

@@blackbutterfyein what way? She will never have a man take her serious.

[@izmane]

Me too. She spoke very well and was firm in what she was saying. Those guys talking about ride or die know damn well it's usually on the lady side to stick by some trash men.

[@chris7563]

Some people have just learned the word "ambition" and they never let it go 🤣

[@Marstoinfinity]

The girl in black 😂😂😂 she got caught in her lie about working out 😂😂😂

[@tierremitchell4977]

Right 😂

[@ccn042000]

I'm a woman... and these fits these women are rocking ---aint it at all. But this line up of men----their mindset, intellect, questions/conversations are top tier.

[@csmith2484]

Same here. I'm watching and thinking what's up with these outfits? 🤦🏾‍♀️ I like watching these videos but the mindset of the people on the show is wild. They're young but woah.

[@jangaholland2647]

Okay, I was thinking the same thing. The outfits were missing this time.

[@saranityg]

Same, I actually loved this video. Shame on the women.

[@eni4eva770]

Yeah.. The lady from Terrence episode looked nice in her yellow dress and i wasnt mad at that and the 2nd lady in the green jumpsuit

[@mimis.201]

❗️

[@Themarketplacegirl]

I can’t wait to see the Ivory and Prince update 😂😂😂 girl you spoke about intuition and ignored yours! Prince said his kids were far away to convince her that’s not a problem when it is. That means you are not a present father and you have two toddlers.

[@WholeHeartily]

I saw that too

[@ZeeTene]

Exactly!!!

[@ShayLamere]

I was definitely looking at him sideways...

[@doubleb_tv]

Best match on the show today, and has the potential to be a blissful mess. Ivory is TOP TIER! I would have fought for the spot too!!

[@4GoodandEvil]

Also the 2 kids are 1 & 2 yrs old. There’s definitely drama behind that. She should’ve asked if they were by the same woman.

[@ugi2559]

I hate that the men felt that women are required to fulfill their “roles” but also felt that when they are not fulfilling their roles as PROVIDERS women should stand by their side 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@AmeenaMcKenzie]

the man with the glasses pissed me of asking what is the role of a woman.

[@annaterracciano3559]

@@AmeenaMcKenzie I would have popped his balloon once he asked that question and wouldn’t have answered

[@nicoleblake2700]

That's a fair point.

[@TychoKingdom]

My thing is if you are mid 20s and still in your "potential" there is nothing wrong with that but you arent ready to be a husband. Focus on your career. A wife is not your mentor go find one. A wife is not you business planner or auditer. Go hire one. If you want your wife your woman to take up some of the responsibility that you have as a man the be happy to give her some of the power and respect. These men never want to do that. They want all the accolades with out putting in all the work. NOT gonna fly. You wanna be traditional BE traditional. You wanna be non traditional BE non traditional. You dont get both its 1 or the other. It can be a spectrum people love that word. You can't follow 2 contradicting list of rules at the same time.

[@AmberSantana-is3dq]

@@AmeenaMcKenzieI wonder if you get pissed with your white boss when he expects you to play your role without question

[@pamfrease3462]

Love how intelligent black people are and how smart they can be.

[@Flykics]

Finally, it's a mature bunch. They seem like they really came to find someone without being overrrrly shallow.

[@Jordybuilt]

Guys are but the females on the show were terrible

[@sweetesttanya]

“healthy love is boring, healthy love is safe” is a word!

[@anonspectre1796]

What? Bro yall keep yallselves single with that nonsense.

[@theedanishow]

@@anonspectre1796 HOOOOOOW?! i think men got this false narrative of what being a ride or die is. healthy love is boring and safe wtf!

[@foxmoontp]

​@@theedanishow they are applying ride or die to "for richer or for poorer, through sickness and in health".

[@samanthayates8812]

​@@anonspectre1796 A man cant say he wants a woman to be his peace then complain when a relationship is consistent and "boring"

[@anonspectre1796]

@@samanthayates8812 the only ones who do that is women. And thats word to the divorce rate of 80 percent all initiated by women

[@rubieallee]

I have to say since finding your channel, hearing men and women articulate their thoughts so eloquently is so refreshing. I am impressed at the calibre of emotional intelligence and self awareness on display. Love your platform.

[@nicolegrant8101]

"I ain't grow up around adopted kids" Man what does that mean???😂😂

[@saundrescott5024]

I love the second woman. She knows what she wants. She handled herself with grace, even after she was being tried. Additionally, she explained very well how “Ride or Die” is negative in her opinion, and didn’t back down.

[@sandrafernandez3839]

She was an intellect, not meant for this group of men.

[@aguy9071]

BIG

[@Dabigmothertrucker]

She was built like a line backer and she cry herself to sleep on her deathbed alone

[@blewgrassboy8461]

​@@aguy9071😂😂😂😂 I love how woman look at things men don't even pay attention too.

[@thermologo3451]

​@@sandrafernandez3839 she was an intellect huh ? You must be as bright as her

[@mysteriousvirgo6552]

This is the best line up of men I've seen on this show. They are well-put together, handsome, well-spoken, searching for depth, didn't pop their balloons immediately, nice smiles, intelligent, etc.

[@suffolk6311]

U bugging. Grown men with braids? Not attractive. Every episode everyones a model or marketer.

[@Liz_yo1]

Agree , the first man in the line up got my attention most definitely 😩

[@mysteriousvirgo6552]

@@Liz_yo1 True! He even has a book on Amazon. He seems to practice what he preaches.

[@anisaantoinette6381]

Definitely the best batch of men by far , and I was surprised only one had kids

[@mysteriousvirgo6552]

@@anisaantoinette6381 I know right!

[@Tititranbam]

I love the host, she asks good questions so it seems ppl can walk away with something they can improve and/or reflect on and seems genuinely happy when there is a match

[@nicoleblake2700]

The lady in yellow was a pleasure to listen to. Very insightful and knew what she wants and looking for. This episode is very emotionally intellectual. This is by far the best one.

[@kevinpierre3668]

The girl with the green stance on ride or die was 100 percent on point. Don’t know why those dudes didn’t understand.

[@kianaarias7930]

Because you’re a real man, and that’s exactly what I was thinking. If there were adult men there, they would have understood

[@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv]

She didn't articulate her definition of it well. The men were explaining it correctly and she made up her own definition.

[@f.abeni1611]

@@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv the men were right about the definition (the popular example being a ride-or-die drives the getaway car for her partner after he commits a crime), and she is right in her stance to not be one. My (maybe unpopular) opinion is that having a moral compass is incompatible with being someone's ride-or-die. e.g. if the woman believes in God, her allegiance is to God first, and if the choice is between her partner and God, she chooses God.

[@charnacharna3981]

You're a man that thinks of it in a Negative way. Any Marriage that has lasted over 30 years would be considered "Ride or Die" which means you were there thru thick n thin. The good & the bad ,etc. There are many ways to describe that term but most focus on the Negative‼️

[@sloppygirlz]

She was the opposite of what men want.

[@amanifisher2197]

One thing about Arlette, she’s gonna host a show the CORRECT way!! I love it for real!

[@KomuhangiPhinnah-lp6yo]

Me to i love it

[@doubleb_tv]

The spread hand on the leg deserves more recognition!! Arlette is a sophisticated host. Respect 🤣

[@JusDrawBraw]

Facts. I've been watching the ghetto ones waiting patiently for her balloons popping video to be released!

[@amanifisher2197]

@@doubleb_tv YESS!!!😂😂

[@xxrazor10bladexx]

She do better than most but when it’s a cast of woman and it’s a guy doing the line up she should not ask if that woman’s the guys type. Because most of the time if the man says yes. The woman get jealous or insecure and pop because the man saw something in the woman in question

[@gabriellelayne9258]

Seeing such a beautiful cast of black men and women interacting in such a respectful and equitable manner was a wonderful experience. Everyone has different tastes and preferences, and it was nice to see people stand on those without having to tear those who don't meet those preferences. ❤❤❤

[@ehqueen9442]

I love all the men! Very mature, handsome and well put together! Very articulated ! They never popped and let the ladies speak before doing it! They even listen and ask good questions! THE BEST CAST

[@shingiraibondai747]

Shout out to this lineup for not being petty n popping for no reason. Really enjoyed this episode

[@robertneal8244]

He popped because of her forehead

[@I_speak_truth]

@@robertneal8244exactly, great episode

[@in_vas_por8810]

​@@robertneal8244Is it petty to have a preference?

[@Crazyboi85]

​@@robertneal8244that's not really petty, it's just preference

[@EstherOlabisi]

​@@in_vas_por8810 It's one thing to not be attracted. It's another thing to say it the way he did. It's like saying I don't like you cos your lips are too big. It was disrespectful. She was a nice lady so totally unprovoked.

[@jj20ization]

Bro i respect this panel of men, seem like they kept it real and didn't pop thier balloons based on looks

[@JMF_HAIRSTYLES]

They sure did

[@anukidesigns]

When the man said can you “feel us” that was so deep !

[@marilyn_warrior]

How😕

[@cameronn_terrell]

Not really lol

[@lillysglamhouse]

Not really lmaooo

[@tatydial12]

​@@marilyn_warrior if you're intuitive, understand energy and go off your instinct, yes, this question was deep.

[@coveredinit710]

I kept scrolling just for this comment. He sounded like an idiot lmao and she literally said pop who you dont like based off how they look 😂

[@maiyiayang4001]

The best group of men by far, not popping their balloons based on looks alone, and looking for depth.

[@Summer_li53]

The fourth male with the brown pants is gonna make a great spouse someday. He’s handsome, intelligent and genuine.

[@Queen_Laureign]

I swear he is Spritual ❤ so handsome. Instantly gave me londrelle vibes 😍💕

[@YettaDean]

He just smacks his lips too damn much. Mr attitude lol

[@Summer_li53]

@@YettaDean , 😅😂😂

[@kierrajefferson5987]

I agree. He stood out the most to me.

[@Edovelvet]

He needs to be on the show again. Let’s find him love. He gives everyone grace and that’s a beautiful hard trait to find.

[@elishacox4619]

Styles is getting treated like Terrance! He can't help that he's short! He's so handsome

[@fondafriday8131]

Yes, he’s very handsome ❤

[@cheyennewilliams6565]

God took his time creating him 😂😩

[@khadijahleigh7183]

Styles is smooth, and seems sweet

[@tiffany5757]

reach out to him lol

[@originalstorm6272]

He my type but just a lil too young 😊

[@zamyaspurlock7420]

The man in the white shirt has his priorities straight he knows what he wants and I love that for him a true king! ❤

[@Presh_P]

I love how they are giving everyone a chance to speak before popping I usually don’t like these types of videos because everything is based off of looks. I love this!

[@blvckshinobi3864]

Shouts out to the Black Brothas ✊🏾 on this panel they stood on their morals and philosophies. Just because she looks attractive doesn’t mean she’s will be a good woman to you. This one of the best episodes

[@indianrider956]

Agreed, ladies, us men don't like strong independent women who are not ride or die, .. who are petty and go out on dates, (which men pay for) and the weaves are getting longer and longer...

[@oopsie8866]

@@indianrider956you sound so bitter 😭 no woman has ever been near you, and if you don’t like ‘independent women’ what do you like??? Children?…

[@dcfal817]

Semen retention and delayed gratification is 🔑 as a man When your lens of life isn’t focused on pedastalizing the power of vagina and looks, you can fairly judge women better

[@indianrider956]

@@onikapinkk fam, no shade at all from me...but us men love your natural hair...not the weaves, wigs or attachments...

[@user-bk1wv4ex3q]

Is the best episode

[@charriso]

This is the first time I've liked every single one of these guys. They all seemed genuine, engaged, and they are all cute!

[@flo1953]

This has to be the best episode yet! The conversations are intellectually stimulating.❤❤❤

[@tanishalewis7591]

Arlette I love that so far you have kept this as finding black love. I don't know why we keep thinking that something is wrong with building with us by us and for us. Everyone else does it because it is normal and healthy to build within your own community. Keep it up queen.

[@MzClassieBooSkittlez]

That second lady, honestly I respect the actual hell out of her. She's so very blunt. Her points were valid. As a woman I need someone who adds to me not subtracts from me. I want someone who is at a secure place in their life same as myself. I want someone who doesn't put me in a situation where the choices are ride it out or die trying. Constant endurance and emotional/physical labor is not her happy ending, and that's not wrong. She wants a love that flourishes, nourishes, a love she can relish in not endure and "hang on" to. Respect, mad respect.

[@kojoboateng6755]

Isn't 'subtraction' the thing that women do?? Let's face the fact, most women in relationships only subtract, most of you'll don't add anything of physical value apart from take take take.

[@ratedn4nia]

She should go buy a dog

[@lejamesbron5880]

You're not in control, however. None of us are. I can have a 10 million dollar hustle, but what happens if things that are outside of my control make me lose most of it? You're just going to run away? Lol she has more red flags than a Chinese new year parade, although i do like the way she carries herself. She has a very bright aura, and itll get brighter when she leaves you 🤣

[@lea1000]

@@lejamesbron5880 she offered enough insight to convey that she would stick around in that kind of hypothetical scenario you offered, granted that said partner has a capacity to get back on their feet. The "ride or die" she is referring to is to do with not wanting to tolerate acts of disrespect, harm or dysfunction, which no self-respecting person should settle for regardless.

[@WinZoen1804]

​@lea1000 no she didn't she clearly stated she wouldn't stick around🤦🏾🤷🏾

[@southerngirl3876]

Arlette gon make sure we know why somebody popped that balloon! I love it😂😂😂

[@FashionSense518]

😅🤣😅

[@NOHSAL]

EVEN if it's obvious. Lol Deal breaker: Kids Men with kids: 💢🎈💢

[@gboii08]

I love it too

[@themothershifter999]

Exactly cuz if not everyone will give the same general answer or no answer at all and then it really wouldn’t be entertaining

[@user-ot3vb9es4b]

😂😂the girl in yellow couldn't stay within the camera range... Arlette is so patient for not getting pissed

[@lw6339]

Right!! Bc I kept getting irritated. I had no patience with that girl 😭

[@ambercain2391]

This is probably the best group of men that I’ve seen. I loved how all of them kept their balloons unpopped prior to listening to more of the women’s answers to their questions, and really asking questions that are more in depth to really get to know if there’s a match or not. My favorite woman was definitely in the green jumpsuit. She was very classy and articulate with her answers, and I love the way that she explained her perspective of “ride or die”

[@neytirisolar9270]

“ what’s your career?” “ are you guys providers?” 🤣 Jasmine came for the moneyyyy honeyyyy

[@maiyarene_]

I was embarrassed for her

[@keitarouse468]

​@@maiyarene_very

[@Appplecidder]

She been watching sprinkle sprinkle

[@xKouture]

It was embarrassing. She couldn’t at least hide her motives. Like girlllllll 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@neytirisolar9270]

@@maiyarene_ it’s when she couldn’t even explain her hobbies 😭

[@Riyuki1]

"What are your hobbies?" Jasmine: Dates.

[@glogawdd1922]

💀💀💀

[@sweetwonkahallelujah7016]

when bcches ask you do you like to travel say NO becuz traveling and having fun is for bcches…that doesn’t build legacy…MEN HAVE TO PUT IN WORK

[@SpiritofPraiseSOP]

Yea..... she was definitely different, at 1st I was thinking maybe she isn't a talker and then I was like but neither am I ..... I still would've said more especially for the sake of the experiment.

[@MrD334]

Basic

[@frostydavidine]

😂she just wants to be spoiled by her man

[@thelovely961]

The most emotionally mature cast I've seen yet on pop the balloon thus far. You can tell that these men are actually listening, ready to settle down and looking for love.

[@mizzstizzie]

I loooooove these cast of men! Almost all are so self aware and have depth to them and have emotional intelligence... I love that they were challenging these women to look deeper. Especially at their age. I was so impressed. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Also 5'8 ain't even short whats wrong with these women.

[@KellyA-qi7zi]

When people say im an Entrepreneur and do not elaborate or qualify it, its a tell that theyre either unemployed, still fumbling with ideas or struggling financially.

[@JDBass36]

I said this in an other comment Seems like the safe occupation to say is I'm in entertainer or Entrepreneur To act like they making moves but don't have anything really going on So they masked it like you said

[@doc2746]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DivineMitwens]

I agree or list 100 different occupations, it’s like come on. 😂

[@ErikaKay00]

☠️🤣🤣🤣

[@eroberts0476]

All Jasmine said was she needs a provider and likes to go out and have fun.

[@crazychaba9816]

My guys are dressed well, This is one of the best dressed lineups ever. Finally they are representing us Men well.

[@ItsNSB]

I was thinking the same thing off rip too

[@cvokoye]

No Diddy

[@Braundi619]

Yep

[@MiVidaBellisima]

Dude with the shades on indoors was a no but otherwise yeah! Lol

[@xxoza]

@@cvokoyedon’t turn ts into sum real cus i be seeing everyone saying “no diddy”

[@antaneiajackson2267]

It’s Rico for me. He’s a handsome man for sure. He seems like a chill person, love that.

[@mindlessgirl23]

I swear. I need him

[@marissa2408]

He reminds me of Future

[@IndispensableBeauty]

He was a sweet heart. The accent was nice .

[@runnergunner5685]

This was an exceptional panel of gentlemen. They represented very well.

[@2LOVABLE2B]

Asking somebody about their childhood in this setting is diabolical 💀 Edit: the question is not inappropriate but the setting is.

[@pouinichan]

😂😂

[@misspretty347]

As if they had control over whatever happened when they were children 💀

[@IcyceeCraftlabb]

Want us to go cry nd shit 1:45:44

[@callme_nickey]

I don't think so, I actually thought it was a genuine question.

[@Kingmuhammad92]

Even on a 1n1 first date that’s a heavy question 😳

[@sa.2043]

finally!!! woman in the green jumpsuit is articulate, smart, and quick with the classy comebacks

[@wpsnick]

“Comebacks” ? That’s exactly why she-and likely you as well-did not find a match. Clap back for what; in doing so she exposed herself inability to accept rejection, which gives insight into how she would respond to the criticisms from her partner. Y’all gotta think lol.

[@Andredh2k]

Im happily married and this show is entertaining to me lol. I do feel bad for yall though, so happy i met my wife on college

[@TheLost_n_Profound]

Bless you! I wish that was my story smh

[@welicatiga]

Sending positivity and longevity to you and your wife 🙌🏾❤️

[@jeenajoan]

Favorite line up of men. Their demeanor was so respectful and they spoke very thoughtful. All the best to them.

[@__carlosv]

Arlette is the best host on KZbin for this series. The best structure, the most professional w/ grown and sexy vibe. The best editing & quality of people.

[@akerevic7676]

Arlette is so good at it is like it's a who tv series.. can't wait for her to post a new video everytime

[@kiwanejohnson1258]

Bro she is the best at this. I tried watching other videos and they’re goofy and silly, not saying anything is wrong with that, but on other channels they play too much

[@GrizzlyEats]

she might as well just copyright the idea.

[@aderaleonard7454]

I absolutely agree. Actually worth the watch!

[@moniquefrey-jackson3977]

Arlette is the best hostess of this show....classy

[@dd60622]

I can't believe Ivory proceeded with the guy that has two back to back lil kids 😫

[@Skylarchase27]

Ghetto that's why

[@708LITBIT]

W Rizz. You could peep the connection w/ the answers

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

I busted out laughing so bad LMAO. Out of all those men, she chose the one that has 2 kids back to back who he clearly isn't seeing on a regular basis if "they stay kinda far away" yet his raggedy behind is standing there on a dating show looking for another woman to make baby momma number 2 and 3.

[@taylor5354]

I was hoping she wouldn’t continue but she open minded 😅

[@chewchew4270]

Doesn’t she want to see what he looks like without the glasses?

[@FirstNameLastName-ic1tn]

I absolutely loved the conversation with Alexa. The entire convo with her and all the men summarized my thoughts perfectly. Being a ride or die for the right person!

[@Cahtame]

The girl in the yellow dress choose a guy in dark glasses with 2 kids 1 and 2 years old when she doesn't have none 😂 wtf

[@khrissmith6132]

Great selection of men. The way they responded, they were respectful, mature, listen and knew exactly what they wanted. Love it.

[@Damegrant]

Give it up to Arlette’s feet, cause the back and forth would kill me. 😂😂😂

[@inutukawana7408]

😂😂 facts

[@oumysougou3502]

😂 for real

[@peacebalancetruth]

Aye😂🎉💪🏾🥳

[@oalatishe]

and in heels!

[@RinaIsThatChic]

😂😂😂😂 thats what I was thinking the whole time

[@zekeeeej]

10/10 agree Arlette is going to go far. I hope she can get picked up by a network This would be an amazing high production dating show

[@solaraq4753]

Been binging the episodes, so far this one stood out for me. This was one level headed panel of guys, I like how they did not pop the balloons based off of the looks. Quite intelligent bunch, thought- provoking questions, great answers.. the lady in yellow challenged them, you could feel the tension. And another thing I’ve realized is that men are polite, nicer and respectful.

[@WAVEWORLDEXP]

Having a 1 year old baby on a dating game show is insane

[@LadyK007]

‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@FaithandSunshine]

I said this previous episode about having a 2 year old. Not saying you can't date... but a dating show when you got babies at home seems like a red flag!

[@EmilyIntsiful]

False! You can have family and friends take care of them while being on set for one day. There is people who don’t mind dating someone with a kid. I go on dates too.

[@LickyTee]

@@EmilyIntsifulfacts

[@Jspiz11]

@@EmilyIntsifulNo, that just means your priorities are not right.

[@childhisiam]

I liked this group of guys. They held the women accountable and forced them to give some depth

[@willberforce876]

drizzle drizzle

[@Mya_water]

These men were useless and trash

[@chantellemarcu683]

Agreed 👍🏼

[@doubleb_tv]

Absolutely 💯. I think this was the most respectful group of men that even under pressure they stood tall and used wise words to defend themselves.

[@ajordan1847]

Yes...whew.

[@deborahaddo5429]

By far the best, respectful and presentable men.

[@kebluvcmm]

These gentlemen are so respectful. Great group!