Ep 2: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@trendingaesthetic7728]

As a doctor (physician) myself, be weary of people who introduce themselves as such in social situations. It's very telling when someone introduces them as Dr. such and such unless you are at work or a work-related event.

[@madeleineg8438]

As a doctor myself, I agree. 😂😂😂

[@japanvanle]

As someone that dated a doctor, I agree. 😅😂😅

[@amberabracadabra]

Bingos

[@suzukaziodyne9723]

My aunt is a doctor but she refuses to tell anyone lol I admire that

[@machelhunt115]

Exactly.. dr is not your name.. it’s a title

[@ohmisskaimi]

I'd kill to hear Elom's exes talk about their past relationships with him. I know those girls have stories to tell ☠️

[@StSt-f7y]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Godsdaughter1025]

Yeah he seems nuts

[@xMissxJ]

@@ohmisskaimi right, for daysssss lol

[@laquinbright3418]

Surviving Dr Elom 😂😂

[@RiceSteph]

Boyyyy arguments every damn day

[@TangibleReads]

Dental guy didn't come for a date. He came to hear himself speak and put people down.

[@CullodenJones]

The wmn were still rockin' with him regardless, so what does that say?

[@noellenonhlanhlamakiwane7497]

Yesssss

[@TangibleReads]

@@CullodenJones she is young and dumb

[@ladyt5571]

And to find employees. The first girl, he made that clear

[@eyesofthebeast]

half these men look like they want men more than they want women-- the dentist included

[@AjaaK-dl6li]

Found myself rolling my eyes every time “Dr Elom” opens his mouth. He’s single at 38 for a reason.

[@bellefemmekenisha]

Well. He said most conversation are lacking substance that he seeks- and he probably has enjoyed the many beauties of the world… show brings even more exposer to beauties of the world… because the man is good looking we cannot deny.😊

[@immaculeenyirabagwiza7505]

Same here!

[@ComedyGlor]

​@@bellefemmekenishahe's good looking and yet single at 38...

[@TheRaifShow]

@@ComedyGlor Looks like you've skipped right over most of Belle's comment

[@ComedyGlor]

@@TheRaifShow tbh I don’t understand what she’s saying reading it now

[@viivikuure3095]

the dr. guy is a _text book_ example of a person with narcissism.🙌🏼 the girlies dodged a bullet fr

[@maddym8795]

Not the last girl who he switched up so hard for 😭 he fr saw a chance to mold someone so young and open, and probably was scared bc he knew if he didn't match with her he'd be going home alone. Dude needs serious help

[@CheerTicaTV]

I noticed that too!! Using culture as a vulnerability… what a shame she should’ve picked the one next to him.

[@VeeShenge]

You can't call someone yo don't no a narcisist yall need to stop this. You are not his doctor you have not assessed him to give him that diagnosis.

[@isispiscis_]

frfr

[@dardanm3544]

Idk if it’s even narcissism it just seems like he needs therapy lol

[@KevenTalks]

This show is ADDICTIVE and part of the reason is because it showcases so much about human behavior. The ones who look most presentable don't necessarily have the substance to back it up - meanwhile the ones who carry grace and kindness really leave a lasting impression even if they weren't that compelling at first glance. You really see that people's energy matters most at the end of the day.

[@krismiskarol]

Very well said and i agree!!

[@spaniardboy214]

Yeah dude at the end looked less put together than the others in suits and such but his soul seems rich as hell. Cool dude and vibes

[@beverlybrown1722]

Well said

[@Tjones.96]

Agreed. The dude from Alabama is probably the least desirable physically for most, but has the nicest personality.

[@AlvarangaBH]

Omg!!! I just found it 2 days ago and I stayed up all night last night

[@DeeAmora]

I mean roasting the girl because she’s confident in her body. It’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself.

[@vontevbb8922]

You kinda just answered why they were doing it in your own sentence you literally just said “it’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself”……….BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT AGREE TO CHANGE 🤦🏾‍♂️ The slowness

[@vontevbb8922]

Let’s say I was a confident crackhead and didn’t wanna change, wouldn’t you assume people want you to be insecure about yourself ?

[@DeeAmora]

Her body being compared to being a crackhead is wild. Stick to music

[@Ari-hn7gd]

@@vontevbb8922you’re slow because why should someone change their BODY??! That’s like her asking them to lighten their skin and if they say no…they’re stubborn. Like uhhh noooo.

[@Ari-hn7gd]

@@vontevbb8922crackhead is a terrible example because crack is actually bad for you. Her body is what it is. She isn’t unhealthy so why should she change it to suit someone’s preferences?!

[@janileerichtercorson4005]

Not gonna lie, Ive been married for 22 years but this show is my guilty pleasure lol. Love Arlette's energy and she's classy.

[@yurrm1dd]

🚩🚩🚩

[@Neveradullmomento]

You can literally see ”The Doctor” waiting and thinking about how he can manipulate each person. Strange character.

[@jamesmali8233]

He belongs to the 20% that 80% of women want. The ones that make them think all men are dogs😂😂😂

[@o0jency0o]

Disgusting! 🤢 He was just there to network and get his name out there. Not there for the show, he was there to promote himself! I hope they're casting better this time. That poor (young) girl that he picked didn't see it. I guess being one year older than the older girl made her more sophisticated.

[@jadesmith7983]

​@o0jency0o The young girl only wanted him for his money and he knew it. That's why he told her he would fly her out on a first date. They both chose each other for shallow reasons.

[@CrunchyGreenWater]

​@@jamesmali8233 He seems to have strong narcissistic tendencies. Thankfully he doesn't hide those tendencies very well, so the majority of people will notice quickly and steer clear. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Dima80F]

Doctor spoke the truth that women can’t handle. Respect to that guy.

[@coco_ryann5955]

I'm going to need them to get some short girls that like short guys for Terrance. He seems so genuine and down to earth. I be rooting for him so hard!!

[@ManifestNobility]

But the short girls allot of times be the worst ones because they short themselves they also want a super tall guy , its been my experience that the girls that give "short" (I'm 5'7) guys the most love are the average height girls like 5'4 , 5'5 .

[@LondonNephilim]

Omg me tooooo

[@deborahosamezu2566]

me tooooo

[@floodedfits8333]

that boy gotta stop dressing like he don’t got no money 😂😂

[@kimmyhead7097]

He was side eyeing the whole time 😆 Can't hide anything on his face.

[@shaigiles7999]

The doctor is making me think he’s not an actual doctor. He says he’s a dentist but then speaks to some like he’s a therapist saying he charges by the hour. Sir, is your name Legion?

[@hannahh.4417]

😂😂

[@marylynezenyi9692]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@CoolinWEssy]

Not Legion 😭😭😭

[@amandaclbn8324]

He a banker too 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shaigiles7999]

@@amandaclbn8324 baby, he don’t know who the hell he is. His face is fine but then you look at his clothes and listen to him speak and it’s an absolutely not!

[@JessicaLemusEverythingGoes]

The 22 year old low key ate the doctor UP!! 😅 she said my daddy taught me well , i don't need your BS advice. DEEEAD 😂😂😂😂

[@adjoagyeamaogyeaman1406]

She ended up with his cousin. Lol 😆

[@susanh.6312]

That's not what she said. She said she got her AirBnBs from him.

[@belizegal29]

She didn’t humble him.😂😂 she was immature and ridiculous.

[@ohhhbirdy5975]

@@belizegal29 you're a bozo

[@InternationaLChefSue]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@clemmer62]

The doc is displaying all the attributes of why he is single... He used his job title to win the woman, but that only goes so far.

[@datjamaicantv00]

Frrrrr

[@kendrakissez]

Exactly he’s pretentious and arrogant and I can't see anyone putting up with his foolishness

[@True_crime_bartender412]

Yea he’s clearly the one with issues. That was definitely proven when you’re 38 and choose to date a 20 year old. Sick

[@shynebayarea510]

It gets him between them legs

[@saitamatf6016]

Y'all say this and still go for guys like that hoping they treat you well then the nice guys you girls don't go for get the left overs 🤣🤣😂

[@Swag1You]

Dr came thinking he's the main character is cracking me up

[@karithema9ician657]

🤦🏾‍♂️ They literally still wanting his zesty azz too🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂 I’m convinced Blk women just like the “Look” and not nothing else.

[@Akhona3]

He’s so annoying 😭 He thinks he’s HIM

[@hilo4580]

Somebody call they auntie and get them off this dating show. What is that hair🤢 these men are young they don't want no ogre looking female. And she pregnant? Omg.

[@mrs.p4349]

@@Akhona3well he’s right. She’s annoying and immature. He has to pick what’s best for him. Not his type. Just to be honest😊The fact that she said you is. In this day and time Ugg . We as black people shouldn’t be saying you is.

[@mohamedaxmed9300]

Dr was definitely the main character

[@danibumms]

The doctor calling the slim girl insecure when she stood tall and firm on loving her body even though a ton of men were insulting her for being slim is the biggest gaslight I’ve ever witnessed. I hope she knows she’s always loved and valuable no matter what size.

[@Loverof_christ99]

He gave me SUCH toxic vibes, I felt horrible hearing him go on and on. I would reject him Sooooooooo quick Edit: I went to his instagram to chew him out but it didn’t work, he responded but he was indifferent😡, some people are just toxic and they don’t care and you can’t change them 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@bgstyle5361]

He is the insecure one. People with doctorate outside their job don't introduce themselves as - Hi,my name is Dr. Elim....

[@tinicole9912]

like i’m gagged

[@kinGsaL1515]

They were definitely not insulting her, they were just telling her what they thought. But I agree with everything else, he was acting like it was objectively an issue and if she didn't wanna change it it's because she's insecure. The idea that they may not like it but she does and would not want to change it seemed like a concept that he just couldn't understand. He was very full of himself.

[@SayNoToIdiots]

He's the smartest one. Value man.

[@Venzilith]

That 22 yr old was really unbothered and real and give them a whole show😂😂😂😂

[@InternationaLChefSue]

😂😂😂😂😂😂yup

[@amandarodriguez6932]

You're calling a woman stubborn bc she doesn't want to change her body and make it bigger for you is the wildest thing I've ever heard

[@ADUHEMAA]

Rightttttt

[@blissdad13]

you mis heard

[@blissdad13]

@user-sj5ju4jb7t they are not used to having to qualify for a man. At all.

[@siroche3638]

@user-sj5ju4jb7t this woman is thin for real I think it would be a struggle for her to build up. so I know It would be off putting for me somebody asking to change my natural body that I worked hard to be confident in but people can have different requirements

[@kaylad1669]

@user-sj5ju4jb7tit’s her body tho.. she doesn’t have to change it just because of what he wants.. he’s not gonna change his body for her.. like bffr

[@jujubee1016]

The dentist trying to diagnosis people's mental health is CRAZY

[@lovedronabosman5839]

Didn't he say he can offer therapy to someone lol just to find out his a dentist

[@Syddcm]

I would hate him as a boss 😂😂😂

[@charriemac1]

Ok. I was sure he said he pulled teeth. 🦷. I was wondering how we got to mental health from that. 😅

[@SapphierBlueDie]

I was lost when he said he could offer therapy sessions 😂

[@GreenGiant873]

😂😂😂

[@avigrett1484]

A doctor in a dating show is a serious red flag.

[@oceanhudson]

you didn’t lie . at all .

[@ebonynaomi1085]

He seems to have some sugar in his tank.

[@HeyBriaLanae]

@@ebonynaomi108580% of them seem to 😅

[@buttcheeksguy]

by the end of the video when he was throwing the balloon, he raised his arm and you can see he wasnt wearing underwear now what type of doctor...

[@nasanni]

@@buttcheeksguyHe was wearing what looked like a reddish colored plaid boxers. And no t-shirt or tank underneath his sweater. What did you see?

[@tameikajohnson984]

That Elum guy is so hurt and damaged. I guarantee he is struggling with his sexuality.

[@cintiaevans2606]

Telling someone they can’t handle criticism and need therapy just because she said she liked herself the way she looked and wouldn’t change is crazy

[@cebu7777]

yes exactly. he was intimidated by her confidence and tried to gaslight her publicly.

[@nelienidmedina9628]

I was thinking the same thing! like why a person can’t like the way they are? Wtf

[@ct4cf]

Crazier still is the fact that therapy is useless psychobabble. Skinny would b better off buying drinks 4her friends. Phycology is NOT a science. Sociology is NOT a science. Neither can employ the scientific method 2test or confirm abstracts.

[@revaholic]

That model girl is better off without any of these guys...she's comfortable with herself and stands up for herself and they all popped cuz of that

[@theresaharrell9043]

Exactly!!!

[@kiara6918]

Everytime the doctor opened his mouth I was hoping it would end soon😭 he needs to be humbled EXPEDITIOUSLY

[@MorningsWithMaria]

I’m so glad everyone else felt the same way 😭 😂

[@Cobras17]

He was talking about humility and integrity, like he has any of that himself.

[@helenakatto7565]

Expeditiously 😂period

[@kiara6918]

@@Cobras17 right. half the shit he was saying I was in awe. like😟

[@Daniel-bn4wp]

I know . The skinny girl was very pretty but I feel doctor was upset that she had a sassier attitude than him

[@cookie7051]

Dr Elom is a nutcase. He was analyzing everyone but himself 🤣😬

[@goldengoddess1652]

Whew this one!!! Lmao

[@Exclxsiveskye]

A true narcissist 😂. The fact he told ole girl she was insecure and need help. Like what. Everybody insecure like no sir not everybody 😅

[@kallie9059]

And one of the weird things that I feel like no one talks about is the charity question! When that lady asked him what type of charity organization he runs, he couldn’t answer. He gave some broad answer like “to better the world” and tried to deflect by asking her to elaborate on the charity she does. Even though “mental health” is a more specific answer.

[@cookie7051]

Exactly!!! He was super vague about every question ask​@@kallie9059

[@nerdsoup2958]

Yall so pressed

[@SaphiaLouise]

it's so cool to watch this and see how much Arlette has perfected her craft over time!

[@gudbyeblues]

perfect host

[@danielle5391]

Man...the Dr looked a lot better when he was silent.

[@Lolabammy]

😅😅

[@shafaqpinky11]

I was about to say same thing 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SeemberEne]

Absolutely

[@qtcarmen7d896]

He’s full of himself 😂

[@lindajohnson5569]

He's throwing me...hes God's gift to Women...o. a pop ur balloon dating show! Wearing work boots😂😂😂😂😂

[@lesleighwilliams2115]

Telling a complete stranger she’s insecure and tried to convince her he knew her more than she knew herself was crazy. She stood in a room where everyone spoke on her shape and she was still confident enough to sY shes happy in her skin took strength and he took that as insecurity. Thats why he's standing on the line now.

[@breannnahh]

Right, that Dr needs help

[@SlyXD-mb1so]

Right, I did think that was weird. If she got a bbl then ppl will complain but she don’t and she’s happy and now that’s still a problem.

[@NinaBum87]

He’s obnoxious AF

[@trustlife21]

Naw dude was right about her

[@essenamsoares5811]

😂😂Fact!

[@skylewis7656]

Is it just me or the doctor purposely waited last minute to pop his balloon so the host can go up to him & he can give lectures? 😂

[@bobscratchett5346]

Yes!

[@Msmabintistar]

I peeped that with the first girl

[@bradcdo9596]

Absolutely. He’s so full of himself.

[@Kay-cs8pm]

Yes lol 😭 although some of his points I get , but still.

[@generalmoxie2413]

Doc was on point though

[@oceanbeama992]

The Doctor not diagnosing himself as the problem😂😂😂

[@InternationaLChefSue]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@steph-we8yp]

the dentist guy was talking about humility but has none 😂

[@reyhaneghasemi436]

Exactly

[@Princess-bs2wi]

Exactlyyy

[@guillermohernandez2825]

Came here to say that

[@tyrasworld5675]

Have an idea what he likes

[@mollygrace3068]

He’s tryna launch a podcast or something.

[@cemiaSimmons]

“Not married, never been engaged no kids, your 38 and a doctor? What’s wrong ” CLOCK IT

[@Swanky97]

🌈

[@michellesmith1540]

Maybe he hasn't found the right one. I'm in my 40s, no kids, never been married. I chose my career...not everyone is meant to have that life or wasn't at that stage yet

[@talkingtochapri]

And the way he was gaslighting every women, I wouldn't be shocked if he has kids, he looks like a 304 who has created multiple broken homes. He is also giving sassy gay, bi, he is arguing like a teenage school girl 💅🌈

[@ryanperkinsjr9516]

Says A lot about what’s wrong with todays women if he’s single at 38 no kids and a dr

[@cemiaSimmons]

@@michellesmith1540 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the age, not having kids and never been engaged . I think a lot of people choose their careers for financial stability for the future so they can have certain luxuries. That’s not the problem people see in him, it’s the arrogance, his lack of respect and empathy towards these women . Telling someone they struggle with self love or they need therapy is not in his scope of practice as a “Dentist” . He should hand out dental floss not his obnoxious attitude .

[@reeserelli9011]

Imagine a room full of people saying you have no ass and then them getting upset with you when you say you think your body is fine the way it is.

[@whosmaka7080]

Ima be real ion think it was the fact she had no ass it was the unwillingness to put in the work natural to build ass and it’s not like that wouldn’t have benefited her if she’s really a model having more curves or define curves especially for her slim build would have been a plus she don’t gotta get major ass but a slim gym fit bod with the nice butt would have made that girl a instant 10 scale breaker imo plus yeah she did get defensive about it and I mean aye it’s a bunch of guys 🤷🏾

[@briasworld8]

Exactly but that's all BM ever care about when it comes to BW & they'll never say a WW has to have a Body.

[@whosmaka7080]

@@briasworld8 no mam that is false men hell even black men really like women with nice body features either ass or tities, the men you are mainly referring too or about are goofies who are weird asf. But a majority of men love women of any color especially black men retaining black women love a woman with some nice physical features it’s not all we care about truthfully cause majority of black men date black women and in the majority im pretty sure not all of em have nice or over bearing physical features but it’s just how men are 🤷🏾

[@GoJojo-lv6zi]

Right, whenever I've mentioned that I'm trying to lose some weight (10-20) pounds in front of a black man, they're always like nahh I like them slim thick, then Dr. Elom talking about "your health problems are a risk." Which is it? Point is, don't listen to these men & definitely don't change in a way you don't already want to for a man. Especially one that is not your husband -- not a boyfriend, not a fiancee, a husband only. And even then, proceed with caution. We're not blow-up dolls or avatars. Looking in the mirror and liking what I see is more important -- that's where confidence comes from. If I will be happier at a lower weight, I'm losing it.

[@dj5180]

like girl that pissed me off so bad 😂

[@reecea.419]

I love Terrance from alabama😊 I absolutely love how laid back and open minded he is. I've never been a fan of that accent and he changed it all for me. Wishing him the best.

[@12tribes-Be12]

The guy with dreadlocks is really down to earth, very kind and respectful can't believe all the ladies are concerned about his height I pray that he find true love

[@fistandpen2505]

Might be the best and committed dude in there, who knows. But because of height, he may have been passed over. Imagine the young lady going for the most egotistical dude on the lineup vs the dread guy who said come back if you don't get matched AND the guy who asked for a balloon back. Tomorrow, it'll be "men" are assholes.... nah your decision making is butt lol

[@drillingig2368]

@@fistandpen2505Looks matter. Everything else is an after thought.

[@heartmind6373]

yeah, the third girl showed him some love though...she also was the best I think

[@doc2746]

😂😂😂😂 y’all don’t know how to pick em

[@MusikkFreak27]

@@fistandpen2505 as a fellow dreadhead I would've picked him 1st so quick!

[@princezimende]

Who else thinks the Doc is the one who actually needs therapy 😂

[@TheLoveOfNikki]

🙋🏾‍♀️

[@monas]

MEEEE

[@starring.sydney]

He’s such an asshole 😅

[@winolachrysostom9698]

Facts

[@fluxam17]

the fact that this guy wears manicure says a lot abt him💀

[@tlouonps4]

Dr Elom be popping his balloon just so he can hear himself speak

[@Lolabammy]

I had my eye this way😏😏😏😏 the moment he first opened his mouth...

[@itslexitracy]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@KahinDaz]

lmaooooo

[@nnicole9646]

I’m saying

[@Msheepz]

Facts

[@lauraeeeee]

Dentist introducing themselves as Doctor is so much lol

[@krisbraun4754]

from doc literally took dirt under nails. i stopoed viewing and looked at comments and i was spot on about him a misfit!!

[@belizegal29]

Well….. he is. He went to medical school. If you go to the dentist, how do you address him or her.

[@SultryNeoSoul]

@@belizegal29well he’s not actually he is just a dentist 😂 let’s not exaggerate. Dentists don’t go to medical school darling, dentists go to dental school. He’s not out here saving lives or anything just removing plaque and filling holes in your teeth. He’s more of a construction worker than anything. The grandiose inflation is only to puff up a dentist’s ego but dentist know damn well they don’t compare or measure up to a heart or brain surgeon. Stop with the Tom foolery 😂😂😂

[@gnessi4029]

@@SultryNeoSoul👏👏

[@ewurabenaptff]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@estasquecrujes]

My girlfriend is a psychologist and she diagnosed the good doctor as a narcissist. He gaslights, he attempts to assume power over others and he's condescending.

[@AT-mu6ov]

I’d doubt she is because no psychologist worth their salt would assume they could make a diagnosis based on someone’s behaviour on a dating show

[@estasquecrujes]

@@AT-mu6ov a) the word diagnosis was used by me and not by her; b) it's not a formal diagnosis, it's a bit of fun; c) his narcissistic personality traits are so pronounced that even without an assessment she is certain that he is one. There are just too many behaviours in such a short period, how he positions himself above others, how he attempts to assume power, the way he switched into charm when there was competition, etc Anyway, believe what you like bud. Well done for learning the psychology disclaimer.

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@callme_fakezthat person who did that to you and didn’t let you again to confirm is horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you but their girlfriend mentioning it in passing with the obvious signs isn’t a issues. Search up the signs and try to compare he hits some of them. she isn’t saying that the doctor has to take that as fact just an educated opinion. The funny thing is he tried to diagnose someone else and offer them therapy without really knowing if she was insecure or not. Makes sense people are pointing out things he may have

[@greenaesthetic6387]

@@callme_fakezman shut up

[@xoxokrissi]

Which is why he dates younger women. He assumes they are easier to control.

[@mbahgeatannagela]

No Dr she isn’t insecure …. She accepted the fact all rejected bc of her size but she kept the smile bro she is confident and loved at home

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@abeltesfaye_]

Exactly! She was so graceful & that man is NOT qualified to be anyone's "therapist," when it's obvious he's an egomaniac sociopath, himself 😂😂

[@ZipporahRian44]

Yeah she took the criticism with grace.

[@SAVAGEoLIFE]

Nah she def was feeling some kinda way about it lol. Her feelings was hurt n she had a lil attitude behind it.

[@couldbetee]

@@SAVAGEoLIFEno shit… they were dogging her for her body

[@mei.mei1]

The guy standing next to the Dr just keeps laughing every time he talks 😂 I'd be laughing too, he's so full of himself 🤣

[@Janniyahodge]

😭😭😭 I noticed in the second girl

[@Plastic_]

Hes a fan

[@eaugusto9504]

he just keeps giggling like a lil bitch omg

[@ruthmphahlele4569]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ericad5933]

Is that what’s going on I was wondering why is he shaking so much.

[@mrs.anderson3150]

Loved the 3rd lady, the cousin. She has a great personality & didn’t take offense. I hope she finds true love.

[@2341melinda]

Killed me to see the hurt on her face. I hope she finds everything she’s looking for

[@aaronmarie555]

it was irritating to see everybody say they didn't want Jessica because she was plus-sized. Then, immediately after, they all criticized the skinnier woman for not being thick enough.

[@nyokagreen9970]

Don't forget the bulk of them drooling over the first young lady because she is thick.

[@zsanettgalantay1772]

That just winded me up.

[@JuleneSings]

It makes perfect sense. People don’t lie excess. Not too high, not too small.

[@Deyondraa]

@@JuleneSings it doesn't because the lady before that wasn't even big she just had thicker thighs and they still judged her. seems like to me they want some girl with plastic hips n booty

[@Favouredandree]

😅😂😅 seriously!! Jessica is very rude, to all the men that popped on her.

[@xochilsilva1357]

I wish the electrician the best. He seems like a genuinely sweet, hard working, family oriented man.

[@martinpedersen2650]

Dude is so nice.

[@prettyxkitten]

Same! He’s my favorite. I feel so bad for him

[@shfc5463]

Which one?

[@shadowfoxx4]

​@@shfc5463The short one

[@dr2001dre123]

I agree! Dude was humble and seemed pretty authentic

[@leabee8101]

"i may not be able to date you but i would hire you" is so condescending omg 😭😭😭😭

[@amadib.6405]

That took me out

[@jamalclark6208]

It’s really not. Most women make better workers than wives today lol

[@caitlynnculleton6923]

I honestly don’t think he meant it as shade but it really came off that way lol. She didn’t seem offended though, I would’ve said f*ck your job 😂

[@CoachFats]

I caught that! lol 😂

[@jaheim9541]

Explain

[@cherrysIushie]

I LOVEEE HERRR 😂😂😂😂 1:04:54 she read that man !!! “You’re a doctor… what’s wrong?” 😂

[@nonyabigness]

Lmfao I swear I rewinded that part so many times. When she praised God in her cute African accent and followed that with a subtle read omg 😂 I needed this timestamp you gave because I need to know where to find her

[@PrayingPriest2]

I like how the young 22 year old noticed how toxic "dr" elom is and dismissed him, his whole insecurity showed and he wanted to talk all over her.

[@aissatougueye5609]

yes!!

[@RachidPardoTV]

If a high value man with options has a high value demand, he is automatically toxic?? Nah my brother, he knows what he’s looking for in a woman.

[@MistyMarie]

But then they matched!! I'm so confused

[@warrioreon11]

​@@MistyMarie You're only confused because you do not know the nature of your own sisters. A lack of observation on your part, a trait most of you lack.

[@zanehampton2434]

​@@warrioreon11facts

[@tf2432277]

The woman hosting the show is soo beautiful and professional love her classiness

[@Andre-vh5wt]

@@tf2432277 She’s average let’s not look past make up ladies

[@rasadams9034]

Dude! She's married, to the producer of the show dude. Just saying , she's beautiful tho.

[@Andre-vh5wt]

@@rasadams9034 average woman

[@peachypie3442]

She's also married

[@SharonNamwaje]

Excatly

[@GreenBanana675]

THE DOCTOR STAY AVOIDING QUESTIONS ABOUT HIMSELF. HE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS THERAPY AND HE'S A PLAYER 😂😂😂

[@mrs.p4349]

You guys just don’t get it 👀She’s truly not his type. Just being honest. When she said you is. I was done ✅

[@GreenBanana675]

@mrs.p4349 He tricked her. He wanted that 22 yr old girl that went with his cousin.

[@blissdad13]

He had his way. Every woman wanted him. You mad?

[@lv2756]

@@blissdad13that’s a problem. They wanted him because he’s attractive and many women on the street would give him a chance thinking he’s a catch and find themselves with an emotionally abusive man

[@blissdad13]

@@lv2756 you don't get it. he didn't hide who he is.... he wasnt up there selling a dream.. he was brutally honest.. unapologetic. Confident. And every woman chose him. Every single one.... the chose him BECAUSE he is "abusive" not because they didn't know he was... He was the only man up there that not one woman could control or manipulate.... thats the man that women call narcissist...

[@esemusic8294]

The Ghanaian girl gathered them all up. Nice one, sis! ❤

[@Mr.Drewski]

That beautiful young woman just earned herself the privelage of getting to hear Dr Elom talk about himself for two days straight 😂😂😂

[@AyeeNinuh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@LaBrittanyAmuThomas]

"But he can fly me out" 🙄 smh GURL RUN!

[@AFRICANOGiiRL]

‼️‼️‼️ this I was soooo mad at her decision, like girl he literally told you he’s not paying for your tuition ( the embarrassing way ) & he just wants to mold her… smh she fell for the game like 2nd pick said. 👎

[@Mr.Drewski]

@@LaBrittanyAmuThomas she will be chasing that high from the first trip for the rest of that relationship.

[@travisreed4070]

When you introduce as I'm dr so and so..big red flag..she could not get past DR...😂😂it's silly

[@boldandcourageous4176]

The fact that Dr.Elom calls himself Doctor means he is caught up with his career and it's all he identifies with! Your career is not all of who you are.😮‍💨

[@HiNinqi]

He's trying to garner brownie points. It really seemed like he was hoping they'd be interested in his job and not notice how creepy he was the entire time. My eyes were like this every time he spoke: 😬

[@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801]

What's wrong with that? No disrespect I'm only asking

[@praise3700]

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801😅😅I’m an MD and it’s so weird to introduce yourself as that in a social setting. These women are not his patients neither is he at a conference presenting a paper.

[@Mya_water]

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801Having a career and being your career are different

[@Quawnn]

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801 Nothing, this is just bozo logic. If they put in the work and dedication to achieve that title, they would also call themselves doctor

[@imsugar]

the doctor being 38 years old on a dating show LMAO he definitely ain’t the catch.

[@trendingaesthetic7728]

100%. He should have his pick if there wasn't something off.

[@Journeywithkris]

🤣🤣

[@Coachkingrod]

But there were 41 year old women on the dating show. What does that even mean? Lol. The Dr. was doing too much tho lol.

[@leahknowsbeauty1168]

And settling for a 21 year old!!!

[@HereForFun98]

He lacks so much self-awareness

[@troystewart2909]

Jessica became more and more likeable ; congratulations on her health journey.

[@brianna6134]

So, she's insecure because she's fine with the way she looks and doesn't feel the need to change it.... That's literally what it means to be secure.

[@dblxde]

exactly, and better yet, she's a MODEL. she's out there to represent herself because she's comfortable in her own body. she also agreed to join this dating session, there's NOTHING insecure. if anything, the "doctor" was throwing shade because she wasn't willing to change her appearance for somebody. I mean come on, most of these guys want a thick woman, and when they can't get it, shade is thrown. ridiculous

[@justadosepodcast]

THANK YOU! My sentiments exactly!

[@JM-nz4hk]

His point wasn’t about looks. His point was about humility. That she needs therapy cause of her humility. He even popped it after he heard her continue to speak. 2 totally different things

[@Selma21162]

@@dblxdei mean They are all little boys there! Haven’t seen a single men there

[@kakishisfriend1126]

Right! They're so weird. Anymore butt and she's not fitting in tbe model size clothes.

[@Theempirestrikesmax]

Wait them calling her stubborn for not being open to changing her body just because she’s slim is actually insane

[@starry_skies]

Ikr! Crazy...

[@athenae2]

men

[@peoplearecrazy1798]

She didn’t have a backside and clearly does not eat enough.

[@xXVanessa43Xx]

THIS!!!! I instantly got the ick with every single guy after that

[@ZialaRose]

Literally

[@grace_from_dogville]

That "doctor" guy is the definition of an energy vampire with a superiority complex.

[@maytrixed1]

THIS. OMG ENERGY VAMPIRE😭😭

[@Silverarrows445]

Unless you’re offering free sex to the men in the comments, we really don’t care.

[@l.mendes547]

He was literally projecting what he is, how ironic... Also funny when he is asked his name, he feels the need to present himself with his title to hide behind it to act superior. He has no right to "evaluate" the girl based off a few minutes observation.. which isn't his field in the first place. Since when do Dentist's give therapy sessions?

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

What’s crazy is some of his clips went viral on tik tok and he everyone’s talking about he’s amazing

[@crystalokoli]

yes, his energy is disgusting. yuck

[@darlenec1745]

Ms 20 vibing authentically! Love how she switch up the lingo.

[@landij]

That Doctor seemed too comfortable talking down to these women. I feel for anyone who enters a relationship with him.

[@gzt4377]

This!

[@aw3024]

Who hurt you?

[@Liloshun]

Docs have a God complex.

[@blingbaby3971]

@@Liloshunthis one certainly does

[@southgr6163]

Y’all talk down on men every chance yall get 😂

[@HevanL]

That doctor was insufferable. He is literally the worst kind of man to encounter: delusional, self-centred, arrogant, gaslighting, and pushy. Going on these diatribes on a dating show with no self awareness.

[@MN-ix1se]

👏🏻

[@berniceabenaboadi4829]

​@@_iamkadijakimAnd this is where the ignoring of red flags and heartbreaks come in.😢😂

[@HevanL]

@@_iamkadijakim His only saving grace.

[@_iamkadijakim]

@@berniceabenaboadi4829 I’m working on myself 😩😩😭😭

[@Sweetquietstorm7536]

💯💯💯

[@AnthonyBerry-gg3mm]

Man really said "Did I say I was a Doctor?" ..... that's how you know that man just be talkin

[@monsterlovesme]

got his degree in Yapology

[@lw9966]

A HOLE

[@lw9966]

@@monsterlovesmemost definitely did go be a therapist already lol

[@sakurahoor]

HahahahahhahahahahH​@@monsterlovesme

[@juggerswood]

@@monsterlovesme 4 years to get a undergrad degree in pure Yaponomics and a Associates Degree in Yapology.

[@ChokeArtist411]

“I look like somebody auntie?” YES!

[@Livin4menow]

Definitely shouldn't have wore her hair like that

[@nikisimming]

The Dr is so full of himself. The guy with the jordans bothered me too. I loved the one lady asking the Dr what was wrong 😂

[@bulletsRflying]

Where's your ring at ? 😂 The truth hurts doesn't it

[@joanmeso]

😂😂😂😂

[@yadinoba]

@@bulletsRflying where's yours?

[@bulletsRflying]

@@yadinoba I got mine since 2016. You?

[@yadinoba]

@@bulletsRflyingthat is quite sad, to be married and to worry about other women's marital status... thoughts and prayers for your wife

[@ashianagi9521]

“I can afford you financially but not emotionally” lmfao he called himself out. He knowww damn well he ain’t ready for no damn relationship

[@pokemontas8025]

Not the girls melting over the Dentist whilst he repeatedly insults them 😭😭

[@dinajones2761]

He’s feminine

[@ericalashay0209]

Couldn’t be me. I would’ve tore him a new one 😂😂

[@nanaesiappiah6103]

It's cause he's Ghanaian

[@rettab7390]

Right! I saw that episode too!

[@tython7253]

@@dinajones2761how? 😂

[@johannees622]

I’m watching this episode almost a year later and the show has gotten so much better. Incredible work! ❤

[@arikas5466]

what a blessing that “Dr” elam chose to come on this show because i hope EVERY woman steers clear of this gaslighting holier than thou sad facade of a man after watching this🙄 good god

[@cocotrain2002]

i hate when women use the terms gaslighting and narcissist but this guy is a raging red flag and comes off as all of those and more .

[@zamorapakalolo6699]

😂😂😂

[@reneilwemakgobane3366]

😂😂😂😂

[@vah_nessa]

​@@cocotrain2002I thought it was only me. Good lord he's so annoying. Honestly he's like an epitome of what a true narcissist is like and more like u said😅

[@anaitziley2832]

Facts

[@wendymashinkila8447]

This Dr is a wholeeeee RED FLAG🚩

[@gilbertbwerere]

he is probably not a doctor

[@Lolabammy]

A walking red flag going somewhere to happen😅

[@75Cee]

THANK YOU!!!

[@agapeemekachiemenem5421]

He's Legion😂😂

[@karynthompson4320]

I just want to know why he is on the show. Shouldn't he be busy....with teeth or something? In a different socio-economic arena then this show? That's how he acts to me.

[@PearceTaylor]

I feel so bad for the last girl bc she doesn't even know she "matched" with a predator. She fell right into his trap. As soon as he heard her age, and she said "I'm looking for a leader and a mentor", his ears perked up. He turned on the charisma, turned off the aggression, and sold a delusion of grandeur to seal the deal. You can tell by his interactions with the previous women, that he is a malignant narcissist, and all he wants is control. The way he was almost preaching and diagnosing the other women is a clear mark of a controlling and dangerous man. It's a tragic story of a blind and unsuspecting 21 year old girl who thinks she found love, running into the arms of a guy MUCHHHHH older than her who lures her into his life for his own nefarious and controlling reasons. He's just found someone to "mentor" to "shape" to ..... "groom".

[@sweetradical]

To finance! Lol if he ain't paying, trust me, she ain't staying. She's the perfect match for him.

[@augustusbrown5320]

@@sweetradicalRight

[@rhemagenesis]

There was something very attractive and yet familiar about Dr. Elum, then it hit me… he reminds me of my ex. Charm, high self regard, self righteous

[@celestejones-vd8vq]

you are very discerning, and I agree. Are you a victim of narcissistic abuse? Once you've been entangled with one, you see the world differently. And you can spot predators and see what others don't see. False charm, manipulation, and grandeur, are like the game between the snake and the snake charmer. Narcissists are weak people who are not in touch with reality. Elom uses his resources and status not to help but to enclose him in his fantasy. With the young woman he will cause her to share in his fantasy and in that emergence, the abuse will begin.

[@PearceTaylor]

@@celestejones-vd8vq fortunately I’ve never been in a relationship like this, unfortunately I’ve never been IN a relationship (but it’s bc I am very aware and discerning and WILL stay away) Ive just always been able to see past facades.

[@margauxtepartage]

I discovered the show recently and am quite addicted to it and more than anything the wonderful and beautiful Arlette ❤❤❤❤❤ and this line up with the first contestant is such a good vibe, such a breath of fresh air.... I'v been through episodes that were completely depressing omggggg😅

[@Tinamay1112]

The doctor guy is talking about humility while he introduces himself as a doctor in a social experiment 😂😂😂😂

[@ayaref6429]

This 😂😂😂😂

[@southernkeyz1]

I would too if I had worked hard all those years to earn those credentials…put some respect on my name

[@simoneammon9874]

Very cringey!

[@makaylabyron972]

​@southernkeyz1 I hear you. That was my first thought when I read that comment. However, I also think people need to have some humility. There is a time and place and the way its said matters too.

[@blackqueen5201]

Annoying

[@elenalekic2868]

'Ur 38, ain’t marred, never been engaged… what’s wrong?' hahahaha jeez I love this girl, she so right.

[@utarian7]

That's me! :(

[@kelzalicia6365]

​@@utarian7I'm juuuust watching this episode, and you made me fall out laughing! You're funny.

[@edelweiss9460]

The man has standards, I'm guessing.

[@narayanachakra3288]

He isnt into modern women..thats why

[@comfortzone5618]

She read him!

[@Jas_Elan]

The way they treated the third girl was crazy ! They complain and say black women are all over weight . This woman is slim and they tear her a part . She was confident enough to still love her body regardless and actually didn’t get defensive. I think she handled them well given how badly they talked about her frame. I’m stunned that all the women still wanted the doctor after he opened his mouth sheesh .

[@Missp99]

This!!!! I feel exactly the same way. He is full of shit.

[@brooklynforever1990]

The goalpost always moves

[@CullodenJones]

She was very attractive, but no blk man wants a microphone stand.

[@ackeered]

Status is power.

[@SelenaBESTT]

They just want non-black women. They don’t care about the weight Cuz black men are the only race of men to date obese white women with attitudes

[@GeorgeKing-v9g]

I'm just now watching this show. Now I'm hooked and binge watching this. I love it. It's a lot of fun!

[@elizabethsonnik8214]

Terrance!! I want Terrance to find his match. He’s so genuine, very respectful & so funny. He did his best to be nice to everyone even when he popped his balloon. I love him he’s so precious

[@zacharywoods9548]

Yea he seem like a good dude just tryna find his one

[@teejay1102]

YES!!!!!!!!

[@Pinkblueflowerlady]

She would have to be short and not wear heels…

[@Amaterasusole]

Right? He has kind eyes!

[@shfc5463]

Yeeesssss!

[@iiswhoiisss4410]

the fact that all these dudes were trying to imply that girl is not ''willing to compromise'' cause she loves her body and doesn't want to walk around with a fat ass is absolutely INSANE WORK.

[@mikiminach-i2j]

agreed that was nonsense

[@chancarter3440]

Agree🙄

[@chiraq4301]

Agreed. Not all women want a bbl and are content with what God blessed them with. I can appreciate that…those men have issues within themselves

[@HenriiE]

INSANE. I had to come to the comments bc I knew I wasn’t tripping 😂. Now if she had a bbl they would say “these women don’t love themselves”. This guys were cringeeeee

[@macuelarene3406]

My wife is fat now since she already gave birth to 3 children, she’s no longer what she used to be before, but I love her anyways, I’m not deceived by physical beauty, no even by her interior beauty, because I made up my mind to make that lady happy, and what I do for her, makes her love me, I receive the love I provide and I teach her to be a good woman and person all the time.

[@traceyanderson9905]

The dentist said the 22 year old was a liability even though she has two Airbnb properties and is a property manager but he said yes to the 20 year old college student.

[@kanskorner]

We all know he only want one thing from that 20 year old

[@LaMonteStennis]

She don’t have two Airbnb’s

[@yyyd6559]

​@@LaMonteStennis😂

[@she-baartist]

dude! i went back to this video because that baffled me! what the heck!!!! what the heck just happened???? he picked the college student but he implicitly said that he doesn't want a liability... he trashed that 22 year old beautiful girl who had 2 properties and a modelling job... and he said that she couldn't teach him anything??? that doctor is beautiful but confused at the same time...

[@dubemonwutalu8143]

🤣🤣🤣🤣. The dude is confused for real.

[@WheresReis]

I love when Arlette be trying not to laugh but can't hold it in lmaooo

[@lilu8175]

Dr. Elom is the kind of man who writes doctor everywhere. Once when he is on the plane they will call him for an emergency and he will have to admit he is only a dentist 😂 so embarassing 🤭

[@shizman8037]

But they're Drs tho

[@Fffyou]

​@@shizman8037yeah but no. He probably got his degree from like ITT Tech or University of Phoenix before they closed down 😂

[@Geegee-r1n]

my goodness he has a stinking personality!

[@chlidaheavenlight1518]

Ikr😂😂😂

[@jaeminie5994]

Lol for real and he is SO creepy he was always preying on the young girls 🤢 if a woman was 38 and she chose a 21 year old guy she would get DRAGGED. This old man is creepy asf for choosing a 21 year old girl. Actually all the girls were too young for him 😂 at his big age he should be married with kids by now not in a KZbin dating video

[@Ireallydontknow989]

What I’m not understanding is the men calling her “stubborn” and “insecure” and need a therapist because she’s confident in her body and doesn’t want to change it for someone else validation…. I think every man in that line needs a therapist more than her.

[@midnightblues8330]

Yes! I was floored with the way she was labeled. If this is a reflection of the dating pool, there isnt much out here

[@daisyholicduke]

Like huh?! Lol I’m so confused as to where he’s getting stubborn & insecure from. They can’t handle a confident woman & want to “humble” her so bad.

[@naomicollier7403]

@@daisyholicdukeseriously. He was right about one thing, and it’s the part where he couldn’t handle her. Not because she’s “insecure” but because her confidence is just too much for a man who wants an insecure woman.

[@iamrightyourwrong5198]

Women always got something to say tho .. so maybe they at the point to where they are annoyed

[@PamBeesly9545]

@@iamrightyourwrong5198 huh? She’s literally just existing in her body and they’re calling her names.

[@shanniemcfanny]

Every time the doctor opened his mouth I got the immediate ick. He really thinks he’s all that 😂

[@sunflowers_n_coffee]

Lol this dr is self absorbed and rude

[@tcfranco6228]

He’s very condescending and he always has to have the last word. Likes to hear himself speak 🤢

[@dieAlbaKids]

So how do you think us men feel if these women open their mouths? These women who cant do absolutely nothing. They cant do nothing and bring absolutely nothing to the table but still act like theyre the prize. So how do you think we feel? At least the doctor is a DOCTOR, is smart and well spoken. You just dont like him, bc he destroys you womens delusions

[@dieAlbaKids]

@@tcfranco6228yall dont like him bc he puts yall on your bullshit. He makes yall realize how delusional yall are

[@DonnyMack91]

He is. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@JanellE-22]

The fact the host keeps her composure when they first come out with all those balloons popping 😅 My eyes would be twitching 😂😂

[@jordanguin79]

The fact that the chill guy with the locs was related to Dr. Elom is absolutely crazy… like total opposite😂

[@dreaminpink2]

It's beyond me...

[@trendingaesthetic7728]

I know! But are we similar to our cousins? I have some similarities with mine but there isn't one I'm too much like. I also have some major differences to my brother. Anyways, I liked him! He was well-spoken and seemed open-minded.

[@pinkorangesoda]

it was the guy with big hair not the guy with the locs lol

[@o_m8717]

​@@pinkorangesodaHe had dreadlocs.

[@pinkorangesoda]

@@o_m8717 Oh true. I thought he had a afro for some reason

[@christinatsoutsi5028]

The dr is capping like crazy. Only a 20y would've fallen for that. He is giving narc vibes.

[@CCharles]

💯

[@AaliayahIvy]

Yes and seems homosexual on the low

[@thatjamericankidd6637]

Most doctors are

[@CCharles]

@@AaliayahIvy i was waiting for someone to say that...lol yah. He gives off sweet sugar in his tank for sure

[@athomewithhollie]

Yea n she know damn well she meant cover financially lol. N he not gonna do that. She with an old man for nothing lol. He gon drain her of her youth.

[@lastdays7855]

The doctor is giving narcissism! He craves attention and admiration from others. He’s puffed up arrogant, and thinks to highly of himself. While lacking empathy and compassion for others. He’s very critical and pessimistic and would NOT make a good husband, (which is probably why he’s almost 40, alone, and on a tv dating show). 😆🥴😂

[@archivechannel839]

Medical school attracts psychopaths

[@mm877]

This.

[@teenicole757]

Dr.elem is the most annoying man on earth…NARCISSISTIC MEN MAKE ME ITCH😑😑😑😑

[@Evitaschannel]

"Hes intimidating" "It's called male energy" somehow he dissed himself 😂

[@YurrahAlHadi]

his intro was fire not going to lie. I 100% understood what she meant tho. Carrying that energy as a man should mainly be reserved for other men, but not around women or in more social settings. It can definitely come off as too aggressive vs just being a mature man.

[@Evitaschannel]

@@YurrahAlHadi imo it wasnt really that agressive just really defensive and non-telling. As in, you can't read him or tell any personality just from looking at him. He's in a dating show, but doesn't seem open at all, probably so he doesn't get hurt. Which is why he was defensive immediately and tried to find solidarity with other men.

[@sashabennett6491]

I can see why the “doctor” is single 🤣🤣

[@Hellomoto123]

The dentist who acts like he's a doctor of psychology. The skinny girl actually though he was a therapist based on the bullshit manospehere talk he was talkin. Complete fraud.

[@withlove_jannelle6373]

me too

[@peachypie3442]

This doctor is giving narcissist. Periodt!

[@OutsideTheRopes]

Dude is moist

[@Daisy_Anne99]

Fr

[@Vodkana]

Navy lady was the ONLY one doctor Elom COULDNT tussle with and I fuck with that

[@autumnkahea8628]

SAME 😂 watching him finally get stfu was a healing moment for me lmao

[@morpheus2072]

You love him.

[@Stopherx]

😂😂😂

[@joysteeleharris40]

Exactly. She asked what’s wrong with you. She picked it up.

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Yes! I think everything he’s saying to the model is everything he wanted to say to the lady before her but he was scared. So now he’s throwing it on someone that he feels isn’t gonna come at him like she would.

[@Stroproducedit]

Doctor is for sure the type that tries to get into your mind FIRST and basically rewire it to fit his reality! It’s insane to come across these types. But what he’s doing is, he’s seeing if you’ll submit to his version of reality. This is exactly how it starts out with a narcissist, he’s playing cat and mouse with their minds, literally testing how far he can go. If that girl at any point said “maybe I do need therapy” and believes it, you best believe he’ll feel accomplished! He’s the truest of a toxic narcissist. Take note ladies!

[@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera]

Dude is definitely a narcissist. Thinks he's the smartest in the room type of dude. And corny. He going be single for a long time with his attitude.

[@Stroproducedit]

@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera actually quite the contrary. I hate to say this but usually Narcissists are very successful in having relationships. It might be a revolving door, but most can find people. Mainly because there are so many broken, emotionally hurt people seeking love. They come swooping in because they see them as prey, and opportunity to rise their ego.

[@Cayoroots]

@@Stroproducedit They are good at starting relationships due to the charm but they never hold them.

[@aizensouske6440]

@@Cayorootsbro isn’t a narcissist everything he said was so on point and came from experience + seeing other people’s mistakes that’s so evident especially when he made the statement on the fact that they’re on a platform where they should expect criticism so him just speaking his mind shouldn’t get the girls turned up the same way the girls putting down the men and the men just take it

[@Cayoroots]

@@aizensouske6440 Oh you haven’t seen his other videos..

[@ElsyOO366]

"I already know how to do that. My dad. That's how i acquired the properties" DR (in all caps) Elum: *triggered*

[@Rishele]

The fact that everybody is a “model” is hilarious lmao

[@chan2009ify]

lol people use that term so loosely

[@50centstwin50]

Foreal. "I'm a model" 😂😂😂

[@ashiaku9864]

They just let anyone be models these days. I remember when it actually used to mean something 😭

[@DoloKai03]

Fax 😭😭

[@geminipricess29]

One key thing to remember is there are now different types of models 🤐

[@ohheygoldi]

The guy with the dreads is sweet, blue collar worker, nice smile, good energy and has a peaceful spirit. I hope he finds a nice woman

[@mellowillow]

Yeah same☺️

[@Swanky97]

He would have definitely been my pick… dark skin, nice teeth, a trade career, and I’m sure he can cook being from the south. And I love a man w toys ( fast cars, 3 wheelers, bikes, atv’s etc)

[@timekaschannel]

Yes, and seems to be fun and funny, too! 😂

[@EoCA777]

He was such a chill dude, I hope he does too. He doesnt deserve all the rejections. That height is runnin em off sadly lol

[@isispiscis_]

fr i hope so too

[@odionbabah9126]

These are actually the funniest set of guys on the show Actually the funniest episode so far for sure Lol

[@godizself1]

The best thing age 22 said: I don't want a man that's going to be hurting my feelings. I dated a man that used every opportunity to do that. It's a dispirited energy.

[@dannij02]

The Dr thinks he's the smartest person in the room. If anyone needs therapy..it's him

[@hbktrini]

He’s literally a DENTIST with the mindset of a surgeon talking like a “qualified” therapist 😭

[@sydneedaugherty4368]

Yeah, inflated ego for sure

[@Yawn54]

I’ve worked at a few hospitals & the doctors behave as if they are gods gift to the planet.

[@simone_e.4207]

FACTSSSS

[@kiv_daniels]

He thinks because he’s a doctor, he’s such a catch but that arrogance is so unattractive

[@flourwillfly1445]

The doctor is cruel. He’s humiliating some of those women without any intention of dating them.

[@flatbkush6]

Good

[@missycoop4312]

No one's means real dirt. He is special.

[@Yikes1992]

But they all still wanted him after the humiliation, so clearly it works for him.

[@dougbones7095]

Smash and dash

[@creecree2697]

@@Yikes1992 yea, that was pretty interesting to see :/

[@aliyahsplaylists]

how is she defensive because she loves the way she is????? do yall hear this guy 41:38

[@seektruth5750]

The doctor is a gaslighter, strongly, the fake calmness and lack of humility, gag reflex 🤧

[@Babybookieboo]

Yup. He’s 100% emotionally abusive

[@craigallen2277]

Fake calmness😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀. Saying that calmness is fake...is wild.

[@Silverarrows445]

Interesting take. Now rate your head game.

[@ExceptionalLex]

​@@Silverarrows445 please grow some brain cells

[@barb4life71]

The guy who introduced himself as doctor every single time is talking about humility?😂😂😂😂💀

[@SrgFani11]

Correction 1 x he said my name is Elom. Does he even know what he's looking for.

[@mom2babygkaterad946]

He said it a few times. He’s so condescending….

[@big3heart]

😂😂

[@yasministryheals]

Yeah, he was crap 😂

[@crazysexycool2569]

If I spent 10 plus years in higher education and took out hundreds of thousands of dollars in student loans 💸 I will ALWAYS introduce myself by Doctor wherever I go, lol 😆 Hw has earned the right; he has invested the time and money to be addressed and greeted according ly 😊

[@saradann31]

Everybody skipping over Terrance, but he is standing-out as a black king 👑 for me! His personality is 🥰🤌🏽

[@AwesomeMan2696]

you say that but you wouldn't have picked him either over the other options

[@tertiuscuyler6297]

@@AwesomeMan2696 lol a primitive biological trait of women.

[@getaho32]

hes so cute bru

[@chanelcampbell1633]

What's kingly about him? Then, what does his race have to do with anything?

[@gabmoss]

I was looking for some Terrance love his energy is everything 🤍✨

[@marcalexander5594]

35:43 😂😂😂😂 Arlette’s remarks “she don’t need no building okay!” 😂😂😂

[@tiff9985]

The conversation with the “doctor” and the third girl has my mouth on the FLOOR. He is unbelievable

[@m3vm3]

hes funny

[@butterkitten9229]

@@m3vm3yea if you’re weird and insecure

[@SonnyWest87]

Everybody so obssessed with the doctor. lol.

[@SonnyWest87]

Third girl was definitely a model. She had such a pretty face and smile. I’m athletic so I like them slim. She seemed really nice too

[@SonnyWest87]

I can tell the first guy was good with number #3. He kept looking at her