Ep 2: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across Phoenix, Arizona! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
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[@princezimende]

Who else thinks the Doc is the one who actually needs therapy 😂

[@TheLoveOfNikki]

🙋🏾‍♀️

[@monas]

MEEEE

[@starring.sydney]

He’s such an asshole 😅

[@winolachrysostom9698]

Facts

[@babygod729]

the fact that this guy wears manicure says a lot abt him💀

[@jujubee1016]

The dentist trying to diagnosis people's mental health is CRAZY

[@lovedronabosman5839]

Didn't he say he can offer therapy to someone lol just to find out his a dentist

[@Syddcm]

I would hate him as a boss 😂😂😂

[@charriemac1]

Ok. I was sure he said he pulled teeth. 🦷. I was wondering how we got to mental health from that. 😅

[@SapphierBlueDie]

I was lost when he said he could offer therapy sessions 😂

[@GreenGiant873]

😂😂😂

[@ayshanaynay]

Homeboy thinks dentistry qualifies him as a psychologist 💀

[@Kay-cn3bi]

😂😂😂

[@Theberrychica]

He watched Kev Samuels one day whilst having an angry w**k after hearing his high school sweetheart cheated with the mailman. He only became a dentist to so he could have “DR” on his credit card hoping it would stop her cheating ways, but it didnt. Now Dr Elam just runs around the planet smoothly destroying cute women because they all deserve to pay for what his ex did.😂😂😂😂😂😂….. just kidding! Elam is doing too much though for real😂

[@ayshanaynay]

Omg 💀💀

[@davidoluwadare2787]

You study psychology on your way to dentistry

[@andresf.3472]

@@Theberrychica😂😂 goofy a55 😂😂😂 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@clemmer62]

The doc is displaying all the attributes of why he is single... He used his job title to win the woman, but that only goes so far.

[@datjamaicantv00]

Frrrrr

[@kendrakissez]

Exactly hes a pretentious and arrogant and I can't see anyone putting up with his foolishness

[@Maria_maria412]

Yea he’s clearly the one with issues. That was definitely proven when you’re 38 and choose to date a 20 year old. Sick

[@shyne1308]

It gets him between them legs

[@saitamatf6016]

Y'all say this and still go for guys like that hoping they treat you well then the nice guys you girls don't go for get the left overs 🤣🤣😂

[@trendingaesthetic7728]

As a doctor (physician) myself, be weary of people who introduce themselves as such in social situations. It's very telling when someone introduces them as Dr. such and such unless you are at work or a work-related event.

[@madeleineg8438]

As a doctor myself, I agree. 😂😂😂

[@japanvanle]

As someone that dated a doctor, I agree. 😅😂😅

[@amberabracadabra]

Bingos

[@suzukaziodyne9723]

My aunt is a doctor but she refuses to tell anyone lol I admire that

[@machelhunt115]

Exactly.. dr is not your name.. it’s a title

[@shaigiles7999]

The doctor is making me think he’s not an actual doctor. He says he’s a dentist but then speaks to some like he’s a therapist saying he charges by the hour. Sir, is your name Legion?

[@hannahh.4417]

😂😂

[@marylynezenyi9692]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@CoolinWEssy]

Not Legion 😭😭😭

[@amandaclbn8324]

He a banker too 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shaigiles7999]

@@amandaclbn8324 baby, he don’t know who the hell he is. His face is fine but then you look at his clothes and listen to him speak and it’s an absolutely not!

[@leelee7663]

I think it’s crazy that some of the men are arguing with her about HER body. Her choosing to be happy, comfortable and secure with her frame and not allowing a man to change her because he’s not happy with her frame is the definition of secure in my opinion.

[@gmkwheels]

Agreed, very appalled by that they casually mention it.

[@TheNinjapancake14]

Exactlyyy!! She wasn’t saying she’s not willing to go to the gym. She’s just saying she is fine with her body, and will not change it just for this one guy she just met. Not sure how that is stubborn. Even in the comments, all the men are comparing this to a man willing to change his haircut, or a crackhead willing to get clean for his partner.

[@ecclairmayo4153]

They sounded insecure!

[@scottchayse6759]

Great. Now she can stay single forever. 👍🏾

[@user-pp6bp7vp5u]

They aren't arguing. What you're observing is the fact that men are visually oriented and most men do not prefer bigger women when selecting for long term dating or marriage. Period. That's how men are wired and that will NEVER change... nor should men be shamed for it either. A women can be whatever size she wants to be, but the bigger she gets the fewer men will consider her for relationship - we will just look for a slimmer version of her in another woman.

[@lovelylyricist3505]

I like the guy with the locs, he seems down to earth and like he lives a peaceful life.

[@markoti.]

Terence, he seems cool

[@tainaayiti]

Me too. He seems like he wouldn't be a headache

[@skylewis7656]

Is it just me or the doctor purposely waited last minute to pop his balloon so the host can go up to him & he can give lectures? 😂

[@bobscratchett5346]

Yes!

[@Msmabintistar]

I peeped that with the first girl

[@bradcdo9596]

Absolutely. He’s so full of himself.

[@Kay-cs8pm]

Yes lol 😭 although some of his points I get , but still.

[@generalmoxie2413]

Doc was on point though

[@avigrett1484]

A doctor in a dating show is a serious red flag.

[@oceanhudson]

you didn’t lie . at all .

[@ebonynaomi1085]

He seems to have some sugar in his tank.

[@HeyBriaLanae]

@@ebonynaomi108580% of them seem to 😅

[@buttcheeksguy]

by the end of the video when he was throwing the balloon, he raised his arm and you can see he wasnt wearing underwear now what type of doctor...

[@nasanni]

@@buttcheeksguyHe was wearing what looked like a reddish colored plaid boxers. And no t-shirt or tank underneath his sweater. What did you see?

[@davidlin1199]

The 22 Yr old girl with her own airbnb business is a liability but the 21 year old college student isn’t ?

[@Techbae99]

He only picked the college student because of how submissive she is.

[@mariemalorny176]

He did pick her it’s not going to last just for the show believe me he’s too much I don’t think he can handle him 38 years old go figure.

[@duediligence5844]

it didn't last, bcuz he came back. I would like to hear from the 1st young lady, tho....

[@julienichole._]

Well the 21 year old knows what she wants. The 22 year old does not which is why she would be a liability. I think it was good match although I don’t think it’ll last long.

[@scottchayse6759]

He picked her because she’s a lot more mature than the other young one. And she’s more feminine. It’s not that hard to see that.

[@Stroproducedit]

Doctor is for sure the type that tries to get into your mind FIRST and basically rewire it to fit his reality! It’s insane to come across these types. But what he’s doing is, he’s seeing if you’ll submit to his version of reality. This is exactly how it starts out with a narcissist, he’s playing cat and mouse with their minds, literally testing how far he can go. If that girl at any point said “maybe I do need therapy” and believes it, you best believe he’ll feel accomplished! He’s the truest of a toxic narcissist. Take note ladies!

[@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera]

Dude is definitely a narcissist. Thinks he's the smartest in the room type of dude. And corny. He going be single for a long time with his attitude.

[@Stroproducedit]

@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera actually quite the contrary. I hate to say this but usually Narcissists are very successful in having relationships. It might be a revolving door, but most can find people. Mainly because there are so many broken, emotionally hurt people seeking love. They come swooping in because they see them as prey, and opportunity to rise their ego.

[@Cayoroots]

@@Stroproducedit They are good at starting relationships due to the charm but they never hold them.

[@aizensouske6440]

@@Cayorootsbro isn’t a narcissist everything he said was so on point and came from experience + seeing other people’s mistakes that’s so evident especially when he made the statement on the fact that they’re on a platform where they should expect criticism so him just speaking his mind shouldn’t get the girls turned up the same way the girls putting down the men and the men just take it

[@Cayoroots]

@@aizensouske6440 Oh you haven’t seen his other videos..

[@cookie7051]

Dr Elom is a nutcase. He was analyzing everyone but himself 🤣😬

[@goldengoddess1652]

Whew this one!!! Lmao

[@Exclxsiveskye]

A true narcissist 😂. The fact he told ole girl she was insecure and need help. Like what. Everybody insecure like no sir not everybody 😅

[@kallie9059]

And one of the weird things that I feel like no one talks about is the charity question! When that lady asked him what type of charity organization he runs, he couldn’t answer. He gave some broad answer like “to better the world” and tried to deflect by asking her to elaborate on the charity she does. Even though “mental health” is a more specific answer.

[@cookie7051]

Exactly!!! He was super vague about every question ask​@@kallie9059

[@nerdsoup2958]

Yall so pressed

[@Swag1You]

Dr came thinking he's the main character is cracking me up

[@karithema9ician657]

🤦🏾‍♂️ They literally still wanting his zesty azz too🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂 I’m convinced Blk women just like the “Look” and not nothing else.

[@Akhona3]

He’s so annoying 😭 He thinks he’s HIM

[@hilo4580]

Somebody call they auntie and get them off this dating show. What is that hair🤢 these men are young they don't want no ogre looking female. And she pregnant? Omg.

[@mrs.p4349]

@@Akhona3well he’s right. She’s annoying and immature. He has to pick what’s best for him. Not his type. Just to be honest😊The fact that she said you is. In this day and time Ugg . We as black people shouldn’t be saying you is.

[@mohamedaxmed9300]

Dr was definitely the main character

[@manofihsan8300]

Dr. Elom is hilarious with the whole dentist/therapist relationship 😂

[@MrsRobinAskew]

Terrance is the best! He is so fun and sweet! I hope he finds someone as amazing as him.

[@Favouredandree]

Ikr sweet as ever.

[@amandarodriguez6932]

You're calling a woman stubborn bc she doesn't want to change her body and make it bigger for you is the wildest thing I've ever heard

[@ADUHEMAA]

Rightttttt

[@blissdad13]

you mis heard

[@user-sj5ju4jb7t]

I think you listened to respond. What I got is the guy picked up on her being the stubborn type, he’d want someone that’d hit the gym and sculpt the booty but since he thinks she’s stubborn she would likely not be agreeable with what he’d want.

[@blissdad13]

@@user-sj5ju4jb7t they are not used to having to qualify for a man. At all.

[@siroche3638]

@@user-sj5ju4jb7t this woman is thin for real I think it would be a struggle for her to build up. so I know It would be off putting for me somebody asking to change my natural body that I worked hard to be confident in but people can have different requirements

[@TangibleReads]

Dental guy didn't come for a date. He came to hear himself speak and put people down.

[@user-xk5ng4fd6y]

The wmn were still rockin' with him regardless, so what does that say?

[@noellenonhlanhlamakiwane7497]

Yesssss

[@TangibleReads]

@@user-xk5ng4fd6y she is young and dumb

[@ladyt5571]

And to find employees. The first girl, he made that clear

[@eyesofthebeast]

half these men look like they want men more than they want women-- the dentist included

[@apiowinnie7201]

The girl who shuts the so called Dr up while he is trying to talk down to her is my heroine...

[@kelsiereneeallday]

She’s so young, she doesn’t know what she deserves yet. I just know that man stays speaking down to his partners. There’s a difference between emotional maturity and condescension. Poor baby, I hope when she’s truly grown she finds a good man

[@itchydays7140]

That doctor just proved why he is single at 40

[@Skyeissa]

Yea, it just seems like the doctor is there to belittle those who are younger than him and stroke his ego. At 38 years old you shouldn’t be telling a 22 year old that they would be a liability to you especially when they are still trying to figure out life themselves. He was in her shoes once upon a time so he should understand being young and trying to figure out the unknown, the unknown being what you like. It just seemed so rude to me. She’s not going to act 40 in her 20s, she is a baby adult at that point.

[@alviee-k6084]

Facts!! Speaking of proving points.

[@biap4765]

RIGHT🤣

[@blairsantillana]

Let’s hope no woman ever has to deal with him. I hope he finds the man of his dreams.

[@sammyabbas5305]

That’s a fact !

[@DeeAmora]

I mean roasting the girl because she’s confident in her body. It’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself.

[@vontevbb8922]

You kinda just answered why they were doing it in your own sentence you literally just said “it’s like they wanted her to be insecure because she wouldn’t agree to changing herself”……….BECAUSE SHE WOULDNT AGREE TO CHANGE 🤦🏾‍♂️ The slowness

[@vontevbb8922]

Let’s say I was a confident crackhead and didn’t wanna change, wouldn’t you assume people want you to be insecure about yourself ?

[@DeeAmora]

Her body being compared to being a crackhead is wild. Stick to music

[@Ari-hn7gd]

@@vontevbb8922you’re slow because why should someone change their BODY??! That’s like her asking them to lighten their skin and if they say no…they’re stubborn. Like uhhh noooo.

[@Ari-hn7gd]

@@vontevbb8922crackhead is a terrible example because crack is actually bad for you. Her body is what it is. She isn’t unhealthy so why should she change it to suit someone’s preferences?!

[@annethstephen7934]

Get that so-called doctor a therapist🤣🤣I can't

[@viivikuure3095]

the dr. guy is a _text book_ example of a person with narcissism.🙌🏼 the girlies dodged a bullet fr

[@kiara6918]

Everytime the doctor opened his mouth I was hoping it would end soon😭 he needs to be humbled EXPEDITIOUSLY

[@EarCandyAsmr]

I’m so glad everyone else felt the same way 😭 😂

[@Cobras17]

He was talking about humility and integrity, like he has any of that himself.

[@helenakatto7565]

Expeditiously 😂period

[@kiara6918]

@@Cobras17 right. half the shit he was saying I was in awe. like😟

[@Daniel-bn4wp]

I know . The skinny girl was very pretty but I feel doctor was upset that she had a sassier attitude than him

[@danielle5391]

Man...the Dr looked a lot better when he was silent.

[@Lolabammy]

😅😅

[@shafaqpinky11]

I was about to say same thing 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SeemberEne]

Absolutely

[@qtcarmen7d896]

He’s full of himself 😂

[@lindajohnson5569]

He's throwing me...hes God's gift to Women...o. a pop ur balloon dating show! Wearing work boots😂😂😂😂😂

[@aaronmarie555]

it was irritating to see everybody say they didn't want Jessica because she was plus-sized. Then, immediately after, they all criticized the skinnier woman for not being thick enough.

[@nyokagreen9970]

Don't forget the bulk of them drooling over the first young lady because she is thick.

[@zsanettgalantay1772]

That just winded me up.

[@JuleneSings]

It makes perfect sense. People don’t lie excess. Not too high, not too small.

[@Deyondraa]

@@JuleneSings it doesn't because the lady before that wasn't even big she just had thicker thighs and they still judged her. seems like to me they want some girl with plastic hips n booty

[@Favouredandree]

😅😂😅 seriously!! Jessica is very rude, to all the men that popped on her.

[@duanenunnally607]

The Dr ain’t looking for nobody he’s giving everyone a counseling session

[@tlouonps4]

Dr Elom be popping his balloon just so he can hear himself speak

[@Lolabammy]

I had my eye this way😏😏😏😏 the moment he first opened his mouth...

[@AlexiaTracy]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@KahinDaz]

lmaooooo

[@nnicole9646]

I’m saying

[@Msheepz]

Facts

[@imsugar]

the doctor being 38 years old on a dating show LMAO he definitely ain’t the catch.

[@trendingaesthetic7728]

100%. He should have his pick if there wasn't something off.

[@Journeywithkris]

🤣🤣

[@Coachkingrod]

But there were 41 year old women on the dating show. What does that even mean? Lol. The Dr. was doing too much tho lol.

[@leahknowsbeauty1168]

And settling for a 21 year old!!!

[@HereForFun98]

He lacks so much self-awareness

[@SheIsUnboxed]

The fact that none of them popped their balloon once she said she doesn’t know what she wants in a man is VERY telling

[@dcm2dcg]

💯💯💯

[@justalyssa464]

“Maybe you’re just artsy because I don’t understand what’s happening” 🤣

[@reeserelli9011]

Imagine a room full of people saying you have no ass and then them getting upset with you when you say you think your body is fine the way it is.

[@whosmaka7080]

Ima be real ion think it was the fact she had no ass it was the unwillingness to put in the work natural to build ass and it’s not like that wouldn’t have benefited her if she’s really a model having more curves or define curves especially for her slim build would have been a plus she don’t gotta get major ass but a slim gym fit bod with the nice butt would have made that girl a instant 10 scale breaker imo plus yeah she did get defensive about it and I mean aye it’s a bunch of guys 🤷🏾

[@briasworld8]

Exactly but that's all BM ever care about when it comes to BW & they'll never say a WW has to have a Body.

[@whosmaka7080]

@@briasworld8 no mam that is false men hell even black men really like women with nice body features either ass or tities, the men you are mainly referring too or about are goofies who are weird asf. But a majority of men love women of any color especially black men retaining black women love a woman with some nice physical features it’s not all we care about truthfully cause majority of black men date black women and in the majority im pretty sure not all of em have nice or over bearing physical features but it’s just how men are 🤷🏾

[@GoJojo-lv6zi]

Right, whenever I've mentioned that I'm trying to lose some weight (10-20) pounds in front of a black man, they're always like nahh I like them slim thick, then Dr. Elom talking about "your health problems are a risk." Which is it? Point is, don't listen to these men & definitely don't change in a way you don't already want to for a man. Especially one that is not your husband -- not a boyfriend, not a fiancee, a husband only. And even then, proceed with caution. We're not blow-up dolls or avatars. Looking in the mirror and liking what I see is more important -- that's where confidence comes from. If I will be happier at a lower weight, I'm losing it.

[@dj5180]

like girl that pissed me off so bad 😂

[@coco_ryann5955]

I'm going to need them to get some short girls that like short guys for Terrance. He seems so genuine and down to earth. I be rooting for him so hard!!

[@ManifestNobility]

But the short girls allot of times be the worst ones because they short themselves they also want a super tall guy , its been my experience that the girls that give "short" (I'm 5'7) guys the most love are the average height girls like 5'4 , 5'5 .

[@user-le2gv4bt1s]

Omg me tooooo

[@deborahosamezu2566]

me tooooo

[@floodedfits8333]

that boy gotta stop dressing like he don’t got no money 😂😂

[@kimmyhead7097]

He was side eyeing the whole time 😆 Can't hide anything on his face.

[@BlackLuv17]

I'm happy she got the cousin.. hope They stay together Just to get on his nerves 🤣🤣🤣

[@mizzbeanab205]

😂😂😂Terrence said “he don lost her over the counter” is sending me 😂😂😂

[@GreenBanana675]

THE DOCTOR STAY AVOIDING QUESTIONS ABOUT HIMSELF. HE IS THE ONE WHO NEEDS THERAPY AND HE'S A PLAYER 😂😂😂

[@mrs.p4349]

You guys just don’t get it 👀She’s truly not his type. Just being honest. When she said you is. I was done ✅

[@GreenBanana675]

@mrs.p4349 He tricked her. He wanted that 22 yr old girl that went with his cousin.

[@blissdad13]

He had his way. Every woman wanted him. You mad?

[@lv2756]

@@blissdad13that’s a problem. They wanted him because he’s attractive and many women on the street would give him a chance thinking he’s a catch and find themselves with an emotionally abusive man

[@blissdad13]

@@lv2756 you don't get it. he didn't hide who he is.... he wasnt up there selling a dream.. he was brutally honest.. unapologetic. Confident. And every woman chose him. Every single one.... the chose him BECAUSE he is "abusive" not because they didn't know he was... He was the only man up there that not one woman could control or manipulate.... thats the man that women call narcissist...

[@HevanL]

That doctor was insufferable. He is literally the worst kind of man to encounter: delusional, self-centred, arrogant, gaslighting, and pushy. Going on these diatribes on a dating show with no self awareness.

[@MN-ix1se]

👏🏻

[@berniceabenaboadi4829]

​@@_iamkadijakimAnd this is where the ignoring of red flags and heartbreaks come in.😢😂

[@HevanL]

@@_iamkadijakim His only saving grace.

[@_iamkadijakim]

@@berniceabenaboadi4829 I’m working on myself 😩😩😭😭

[@jackieduncan7536]

💯💯💯

[@Amandaxo18]

Arlette is such a instigator and that makes it more interesting. I love it😂😂❤

[@sthhtx8297]

just happily married and creating content 🤣

[@whitneyaseyo7232]

The Ghanian/Liberian girl was keeping it STRAIGHT 😅 you gotta love her you just have Tooooooo

[@sheraqedw77]

I do!!!! She’s a hoot!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@shanniemcfanny]

Every time the doctor opened his mouth I got the immediate ick. He really thinks he’s all that 😂

[@sunflowers_n_coffee]

Lol this dr is self absorbed and rude

[@tcfranco6228]

He’s very condescending and he always has to have the last word. Likes to hear himself speak 🤢

[@dieAlbaKids]

So how do you think us men feel if these women open their mouths? These women who cant do absolutely nothing. They cant do nothing and bring absolutely nothing to the table but still act like theyre the prize. So how do you think we feel? At least the doctor is a DOCTOR, is smart and well spoken. You just dont like him, bc he destroys you womens delusions

[@dieAlbaKids]

@@tcfranco6228yall dont like him bc he puts yall on your bullshit. He makes yall realize how delusional yall are

[@DonnyMack91]

He is. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@leabee8101]

"i may not be able to date you but i would hire you" is so condescending omg 😭😭😭😭

[@amadib.6405]

That took me out

[@jamalclark6208]

It’s really not. Most women make better workers than wives today lol

[@caitlynnculleton6923]

I honestly don’t think he meant it as shade but it really came off that way lol. She didn’t seem offended though, I would’ve said f*ck your job 😂

[@CoachFats]

I caught that! lol 😂

[@jaheim9541]

Explain

[@onedollarbleach6891]

I loved the second woman’s personality, it’s not for everyone but she kept us *ENTERTAINED* lol

[@GetIntoTheBLACK]

One thing I’m appreciating is that media is starting to bring more Africans on shows. I love the accents, the pride, the culture…the continent is so diverse and beautiful I’m just happy to get the exposure. Looking forward to living on the continent and traveling around at some point in my life.

[@lesleighwilliams2115]

Telling a complete stranger she’s insecure and tried to convince her he knew her more than she knew herself was crazy. She stood in a room where everyone spoke on her shape and she was still confident enough to sY shes happy in her skin took strength and he took that as insecurity. Thats why he's standing on the line now.

[@breannnahh]

Right, that Dr needs help

[@SlyXD-mb1so]

Right, I did think that was weird. If she got a bbl then ppl will complain but she don’t and she’s happy and now that’s still a problem.

[@NinaBum87]

He’s obnoxious AF

[@trustlife21]

Naw dude was right about her

[@essenamsoares5811]

😂😂Fact!

[@estasquecrujes]

My girlfriend is a psychologist and she diagnosed the good doctor as a narcissist. He gaslights, he attempts to assume power over others and he's condescending.

[@AT-mu6ov]

I’d doubt she is because no psychologist worth their salt would assume they could make a diagnosis based on someone’s behaviour on a dating show

[@estasquecrujes]

@@AT-mu6ov a) the word diagnosis was used by me and not by her; b) it's not a formal diagnosis, it's a bit of fun; c) his narcissistic personality traits are so pronounced that even without an assessment she is certain that he is one. There are just too many behaviours in such a short period, how he positions himself above others, how he attempts to assume power, the way he switched into charm when there was competition, etc Anyway, believe what you like bud. Well done for learning the psychology disclaimer.

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

@@callme_fakezthat person who did that to you and didn’t let you again to confirm is horrible and I’m sorry that happened to you but their girlfriend mentioning it in passing with the obvious signs isn’t a issues. Search up the signs and try to compare he hits some of them. she isn’t saying that the doctor has to take that as fact just an educated opinion. The funny thing is he tried to diagnose someone else and offer them therapy without really knowing if she was insecure or not. Makes sense people are pointing out things he may have

[@greenaesthetic6387]

@@callme_fakezman shut up

[@xoxokrissi]

Which is why he dates younger women. He assumes they are easier to control.

[@selmamweendeleli9195]

This man are so respectful.

[@senaisdancing]

When ever its "my name is david and im 30 years old" 🤣 it made me laugh so much even me im tired of listening him introducing himself so i cant imagine how he got tired 😁 by the way all the guys over there you guys are so KIND to ladies first ever! ALL the best 😍

[@iiswhoiisss4410]

the fact that all these dudes were trying to imply that girl is not ''willing to compromise'' cause she loves her body and doesn't want to walk around with a fat ass is absolutely INSANE WORK.

[@user-hj1wp1dt2g]

agreed that was nonsense

[@chancarter3440]

Agree🙄

[@chiraq4301]

Agreed. Not all women want a bbl and are content with what God blessed them with. I can appreciate that…those men have issues within themselves

[@HenriiE]

INSANE. I had to come to the comments bc I knew I wasn’t tripping 😂. Now if she had a bbl they would say “these women don’t love themselves”. This guys were cringeeeee

[@macuelarene3406]

My wife is fat now since she already gave birth to 3 children, she’s no longer what she used to be before, but I love her anyways, I’m not deceived by physical beauty, no even by her interior beauty, because I made up my mind to make that lady happy, and what I do for her, makes her love me, I receive the love I provide and I teach her to be a good woman and person all the time.

[@PrayingPriest2]

I like how the young 22 year old noticed how toxic "dr" elom is and dismissed him, his whole insecurity showed and he wanted to talk all over her.

[@aissatougueye5609]

yes!!

[@RachidPardoTV]

If a high value man with options has a high value demand, he is automatically toxic?? Nah my brother, he knows what he’s looking for in a woman.

[@MistyMarie]

But then they matched!! I'm so confused

[@warrioreon11]

​@@MistyMarie You're only confused because you do not know the nature of your own sisters. A lack of observation on your part, a trait most of you lack.

[@zanehampton2434]

​@@warrioreon11facts

[@lorettafranco6763]

This doc is wild and definitely a little coo coo😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@AuntieSy-Sy]

This show is top tier, sis!!! High quality guests, good vibes, all Black and soulful... I'm sooo loving this!! 🤩💗🤩💗🤩

[@goddess-Be12]

The guy with dreadlocks is really down to earth, very kind and respectful can't believe all the ladies are concerned about his height I pray that he find true love

[@fistandpen2505]

Might be the best and committed dude in there, who knows. But because of height, he may have been passed over. Imagine the young lady going for the most egotistical dude on the lineup vs the dread guy who said come back if you don't get matched AND the guy who asked for a balloon back. Tomorrow, it'll be "men" are assholes.... nah your decision making is butt lol

[@drillingig2368]

@@fistandpen2505Looks matter. Everything else is an after thought.

[@heartmind6373]

yeah, the third girl showed him some love though...she also was the best I think

[@doc2746]

😂😂😂😂 y’all don’t know how to pick em

[@MusikkFreak27]

@@fistandpen2505 as a fellow dreadhead I would've picked him 1st so quick!

[@Rishele]

The fact that everybody is a “model” is hilarious lmao

[@chan2009ify]

lol people use that term so loosely

[@50centstwin50]

Foreal. "I'm a model" 😂😂😂

[@ashiaku9864]

They just let anyone be models these days. I remember when it actually used to mean something 😭

[@RICOtoochill]

Fax 😭😭

[@geminipricess29]

One key thing to remember is there are now different types of models 🤐

[@deniwealthflo]

There’s just a lot I enjoy about this episode: The kind of girls. I even feel like the male attendees vibed with each other than any other episode.

[@feliciascott83]

I think the doc parents made him become a doctor but he actually wanted to become messy counselor

[@grace_from_dogville]

That "doctor" guy is the definition of an energy vampire with a superiority complex.

[@maytrixed1]

THIS. OMG ENERGY VAMPIRE😭😭

[@sampeter2714]

Unless you’re offering free sex to the men in the comments, we really don’t care.

[@l.mendes547]

He was literally projecting what he is, how ironic... Also funny when he is asked his name, he feels the need to present himself with his title to hide behind it to act superior. He has no right to "evaluate" the girl based off a few minutes observation.. which isn't his field in the first place. Since when do Dentist's give therapy sessions?

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

What’s crazy is some of his clips went viral on tik tok and he everyone’s talking about he’s amazing

[@crystalokoli]

yes, his energy is disgusting. yuck

[@boldandcourageous4176]

The fact that Dr.Elom calls himself Doctor means he is caught up with his career and it's all he identifies with! Your career is not all of who you are.😮‍💨

[@HiNinqi]

He's trying to garner brownie points. It really seemed like he was hoping they'd be interested in his job and not notice how creepy he was the entire time. My eyes were like this every time he spoke: 😬

[@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801]

What's wrong with that? No disrespect I'm only asking

[@praise3700]

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801😅😅I’m an MD and it’s so weird to introduce yourself as that in a social setting. These women are not his patients neither is he at a conference presenting a paper.

[@Mya_water]

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801Having a career and being your career are different

[@Quawnn]

@@shammgodfaejikarimbahir8801 Nothing, this is just bozo logic. If they put in the work and dedication to achieve that title, they would also call themselves doctor

[@user-jh2ej4cm8f]

I like that last guy! He's dope

[@nabunjelamurah5342]

This the best I have watched from here, the ladies were very decent well behaved, and the guys are mature…. I mean this is so nice to watch. I will re-watch. Thank you

[@nikisimming]

The Dr is so full of himself. The guy with the jordans bothered me too. I loved the one lady asking the Dr what was wrong 😂

[@bulletsRflying]

Where's your ring at ? 😂 The truth hurts doesn't it

[@joanmeso4250]

😂😂😂😂

[@yadinoba]

@@bulletsRflying where's yours?

[@bulletsRflying]

@@yadinoba I got mine since 2016. You?

[@yadinoba]

@@bulletsRflyingthat is quite sad, to be married and to worry about other women's marital status... thoughts and prayers for your wife

[@Tinamay1112]

The doctor guy is talking about humility while he introduces himself as a doctor in a social experiment 😂😂😂😂

[@ayaref6429]

This 😂😂😂😂

[@southernkeyz1]

I would too if I had worked hard all those years to earn those credentials…put some respect on my name

[@simoneammon9874]

Very cringey!

[@makaylabyron972]

​@southernkeyz1 I hear you. That was my first thought when I read that comment. However, I also think people need to have some humility. There is a time and place and the way its said matters too.

[@blackqueen5201]

Annoying

[@chicparlor7590]

Second lady is hilarious!! Beautiful and seems fun

[@_Wanh_]

Right! I like her strong charisma!

[@nochasebeatz4495]

The Anita baker joke sent me through the roof 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mbahgeatannagela]

No Dr she isn’t insecure …. She accepted the fact all rejected bc of her size but she kept the smile bro she is confident and loved at home

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@abeltesfaye_]

Exactly! She was so graceful & that man is NOT qualified to be anyone's "therapist," when it's obvious he's an egomaniac sociopath, himself 😂😂

[@ZipporahRian44]

Yeah she took the criticism with grace.

[@SAVAGEoLIFE]

Nah she def was feeling some kinda way about it lol. Her feelings was hurt n she had a lil attitude behind it.

[@couldbetee]

@@SAVAGEoLIFEno shit… they were dogging her for her body

[@marshallsongz5976]

My man Terrance be out there loving everybody😂

[@daeona]

Like a true short king 😂

[@user-le2gv4bt1s]

I want him to get chose so bad 😂

[@jewane1k952]

My dawg fr🤣🤣

[@deenoted]

Lmaooo fr! He calls every woman gorgeous

[@dj5180]

@@daeona a true short king? I’m screaming 😭

[@dmddmd7980]

Arlette’s faces be killing me, hilarious 😂

[@newchapter6064]

I’m seeing the evolution of my guy Terrance ! Can’t wait to hear his success story

[@brianna6134]

So, she's insecure because she's fine with the way she looks and doesn't feel the need to change it.... That's literally what it means to be secure.

[@dblxde]

exactly, and better yet, she's a MODEL. she's out there to represent herself because she's comfortable in her own body. she also agreed to join this dating session, there's NOTHING insecure. if anything, the "doctor" was throwing shade because she wasn't willing to change her appearance for somebody. I mean come on, most of these guys want a thick woman, and when they can't get it, shade is thrown. ridiculous

[@justadosepodcast]

THANK YOU! My sentiments exactly!

[@JM-nz4hk]

His point wasn’t about looks. His point was about humility. That she needs therapy cause of her humility. He even popped it after he heard her continue to speak. 2 totally different things

[@Selma21162]

@@dblxdei mean They are all little boys there! Haven’t seen a single men there

[@kakishisfriend1126]

Right! They're so weird. Anymore butt and she's not fitting in tbe model size clothes.

[@shianneoliva]

Calling someone insecure because they don’t want to grow a bigger booty? 😂 craziness

[@SN-by1cb]

Really crazy stuff! An insecure person would jump on any opportunity to do what they were suggesting.

[@ola_eboda]

Literally crazy. I was hearing this and I was like this dude is crazy!

[@ola_eboda]

@@SN-by1cbbingo

[@lastnamefirst9423]

Yeah this really highlights the mental gymnastics men play and how self serving they are when it comes to women. She has to agree to alter her body, otherwise she's stubborn. She has to change her nails otherwise she can't be his wife. She's not maleable it's really alarming what some men want women to do.

[@ml2539]

Right gas lighting is crazy

[@EniolaOmole-nt5cf]

Has to be the funniest edition I've watched 😂

[@pumalee9132]

Amazing episode the contestants' answers were great!❤💯

[@christinatsoutsi5028]

The dr is capping like crazy. Only a 20y would've fallen for that. He is giving narc vibes.

[@CCharles]

💯

[@AaliayahIvy]

Yes and seems homosexual on the low

[@thatjamericankidd6637]

Most doctors are

[@CCharles]

@@AaliayahIvy i was waiting for someone to say that...lol yah. He gives off sweet sugar in his tank for sure

[@athomewithhollie]

Yea n she know damn well she meant cover financially lol. N he not gonna do that. She with an old man for nothing lol. He gon drain her of her youth.

[@lilu8175]

Dr. Elom is the kind of man who writes doctor everywhere. Once when he is on the plane they will call him for an emergency and he will have to admit he is only a dentist 😂 so embarassing 🤭

[@shizman8037]

But they're Drs tho

[@Fffyou]

​@@shizman8037yeah but no. He probably got his degree from like ITT Tech or University of Phoenix before they closed down 😂

[@goabaone6655]

my goodness he has a stinking personality!

[@chlidaheavenlight1518]

Ikr😂😂😂

[@jaeminie5994]

Lol for real and he is SO creepy he was always preying on the young girls 🤢 if a woman was 38 and she chose a 21 year old guy she would get DRAGGED. This old man is creepy asf for choosing a 21 year old girl. Actually all the girls were too young for him 😂 at his big age he should be married with kids by now not in a KZbin dating video

[@Lifeisgoodeth-]

This is a whole therapy session 😂🙆‍♀️ had come to this episode to get the insight of Dr Narcissistic 😂

[@shyne1308]

And you writing about him

[@Sisima13]

52:07 she put him in his place right there 😂😂😂 Dr Elom was vexed 😂😂😂😂

[@landij]

That Doctor seemed too comfortable talking down to these women. I feel for anyone who enters a relationship with him.

[@gzt4377]

This!

[@aw3024]

Who hurt you?

[@KEwashe]

Docs have a God complex.

[@blingbaby3971]

@@KEwashethis one certainly does

[@southgr6163]

Y’all talk down on men every chance yall get 😂

[@mssmith727]

The “doctor “ dentist who’s 38 and dressed like a bum is the biggest red flag 😂 he’s definitely not a prize and that’s why HES THERE

[@vivianmuyonga9681]

😂😂😂😂say it 😂😂

[@user-ph8to6vt2q]

But he got one of the best girls... So... That's debatable 😂😂😂

[@mssmith727]

@@user-ph8to6vt2q he got a girl who literally only wanted him because he said he was a doctor 💀 she wants money goofy

[@jenniebudget8078]

@@mssmith727its not just money. He has money and looks and intellect.

[@mssmith727]

@@jenniebudget8078 ok goofy

[@Bebops711]

“U got friend zoned” is crazy 😂

[@fiddlerngobeni]

I like the girl who asked "HOW LONG" she rocked the episodi😂😂😂😂😂

[@flourwillfly1445]

The doctor is cruel. He’s humiliating some of those women without any intention of dating them.

[@flatbkush6]

Good

[@missycoop4312]

No one's means real dirt. He is special.

[@Yikes1992]

But they all still wanted him after the humiliation, so clearly it works for him.

[@dougbones7095]

Smash and dash

[@creecree2697]

@@Yikes1992 yea, that was pretty interesting to see :/

[@ceemore7778]

All the dentist had to say was, "I'm looking for somebody I can control."

[@shar1886]

Exactly

[@itdontgetnorealerthanthis94]

You xeroxed my thoughts.

[@charonvallejo1580]

Somebody called him legion and I'm still laughing 😂

[@AmeenaMcKenzie]

I feel bad for the girl he chose.

[@person4.0]

Exactly

[@Lemmeknowlemmeknow]

„it’s funny but it’s not a joke“ best line ever

[@dwantrigga6032]

This is the best Episode of them all

[@blackbonnibang2423]

The doctor irritates my soul!!🤣🤣

[@Ytremz]

And you hate that you love it

[@blackbonnibang2423]

@@Ytremz There's nothing to love about a man putting down any woman.

[@Nursejoy550]

He needs mental help. He’s a dentist and wants to give the model beautiful young lady therapy. How, by cleaning her teeth. `

[@rngoode2002]

And the guy in the suit

[@ebonywagner1682]

He needs someone that he can bully

[@Jas_Elan]

The way they treated the third girl was crazy ! They complain and say black women are all over weight . This woman is slim and they tear her a part . She was confident enough to still love her body regardless and actually didn’t get defensive. I think she handled them well given how badly they talked about her frame. I’m stunned that all the women still wanted the doctor after he opened his mouth sheesh .

[@Missp99]

This!!!! I feel exactly the same way. He is full of shit.

[@brooklynforever1990]

The goalpost always moves

[@user-xk5ng4fd6y]

She was very attractive, but no blk man wants a microphone stand.

[@LanceDa510]

Your average black man is not complaining about black women being over weight, in actuality most black men like thickness. And black men are known for dating overweight women.

[@ackeered]

Status is power.

[@dijauneaiymuan9834]

Terrance had me weak at 33:53. 😂😂the lady is gorgeous by the way. It’s just the way he said it

[@GangstaBoo7]

I really liked the second girl 😂 she's bold and hilarious

[@dannij02]

The Dr thinks he's the smartest person in the room. If anyone needs therapy..it's him

[@hbktrini]

He’s literally a DENTIST with the mindset of a surgeon talking like a “qualified” therapist 😭

[@sydneedaugherty4368]

Yeah, inflated ego for sure

[@Yawn54]

I’ve worked at a few hospitals & the doctors behave as if they are gods gift to the planet.

[@simone_e.4207]

FACTSSSS

[@kiv_daniels]

He thinks because he’s a doctor, he’s such a catch but that arrogance is so unattractive

[@Mr.Drewski]

That beautiful young woman just earned herself the privelage of getting to hear Dr Elom talk about himself for two days straight 😂😂😂

[@AyeeNinuh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@LaBrittanyAmuThomas]

"But he can fly me out" 🙄 smh GURL RUN!

[@AFRICANOGiiRL]

‼️‼️‼️ this I was soooo mad at her decision, like girl he literally told you he’s not paying for your tuition ( the embarrassing way ) & he just wants to mold her… smh she fell for the game like 2nd pick said. 👎

[@Mr.Drewski]

@@LaBrittanyAmuThomas she will be chasing that high from the first trip for the rest of that relationship.

[@travisreed4070]

When you introduce as I'm dr so and so..big red flag..she could not get past DR...😂😂it's silly

[@user-hn9dy8nt9w]

Hey man, honestly the lady hosting is the one man.

[@kumjenklins8487]

The Doc didn't care about the age of the other girls; he just knew he couldn't fully control them mentally. But the 21-year-old college student was different-she was looking for a provider, especially since she's about to graduate. The Doc saw this as an opportunity to use his resources to control her and make her obey whatever he said, whether it was right or wrong. There's no way he did not genuinely prefers younger women, yet he ended up with a 21-year-old. If he had played rough games as a teen, he could probably be her father. Hahaha!

[@wendymashinkila8447]

This Dr is a wholeeeee RED FLAG🚩

[@gilbertbwerere]

he is probably not a doctor

[@Lolabammy]

A walking red flag going somewhere to happen😅

[@75Cee]

THANK YOU!!!

[@agapeemekachiemenem5421]

He's Legion😂😂

[@arikas5466]

what a blessing that “Dr” elam chose to come on this show because i hope EVERY woman steers clear of this gaslighting holier than thou sad facade of a man after watching this🙄 good god

[@cocotrain2002]

i hate when women use the terms gaslighting and narcissist but this guy is a raging red flag and comes off as all of those and more .

[@zamorapakalolo1389]

😂😂😂

[@reneilwemakgobane3366]

😂😂😂😂

[@vah_nessa]

​@@cocotrain2002I thought it was only me. Good lord he's so annoying. Honestly he's like an epitome of what a true narcissist is like and more like u said😅

[@anaitziley2832]

Facts

[@Only1Valleyval]

I’m dead @ Anthony saying, “gimme gimme dat balloon” 🎈😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ReachSkyla]

Its absolutely wild that the doctor made a huge deal abour age and then ended up choosing the young girl at the end that clearly wanted a doctor to support her financially 😂😂 like you cant make this up

[@seektruth5750]

The doctor is a gaslighter, strongly, the fake calmness and lack of humility, gag reflex 🤧

[@Babybookieboo]

Yup. He’s 100% emotionally abusive

[@craigallen2277]

Fake calmness😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀. Saying that calmness is fake...is wild.

[@sampeter2714]

Interesting take. Now rate your head game.

[@ExceptionalLex]

​@@sampeter2714 please grow some brain cells

[@tyrellsmith6447]

The fact the doctor said the other girls were too young, then turns around and picks somebody thats 17 years YOUNGER than him is nasty work😭😭😭😭😭😭 call the cops

[@BTwine]

It really pissed me off. She's obviously such a child and he was so hard on everybody else

[@j.baldwin3012]

In a lot of cultures, age gap relationships are very common, especially when you have accomplished men.

[@janellenelson8120]

He was playing in their faces, he just wanted to win 😂😂😂

[@seashellsff5er8691]

​@@j.baldwin3012 just because its common doesnt mean its right, in my culture men beating women is common, old men marrying teens also common, also spousal rape is also common and legal (Muslim country)

[@j.baldwin3012]

@@seashellsff5er8691This isn't a man beating a woman, spousal rape, and it isn't an old man marrying a teen. She is a fully grown adult. That is, unless you're telling me that women in their early 20s shouldn't be treated as adults. Either she's an adult that is capable of choosing who she should be with, or she is a child who needs to be protected and have decisions made for her.

[@thelovelydrkeyx3250]

Soon as she said dirt under the nails and Dr. Elom popped his balloon, I bout died 😂

[@britzone1]

lmao Jessicas reaction to when David spoke was me af. she real for that. i like her.