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[@bethanynelson6257]

Everyone looks absolutely stunning…. But… Maddie 😭 WHO GAVE YOU THE RIGHT

[@prozierozie5692]

Maddie, the Heartbreaker we all needed

[@amusiclover7340]

Ate and left no crumbs 🔥🔥

[@stephtaylor6292]

I just want to thank Maddie for bring the sexy in this week's episode, by coming dressed as a hot renaissance mermaid and introducing us to Tom Hollands lip sync battle performance! Never. looking. back.

[@lowbatterylifestyle7025]

They are absolutely amazing. I’m so glad they are on this podcast.

[@lindsaykill1702]

Maddie is everything. The look, the voice, the rabbit, the humor… I’m obsessed.

[@HypeerChick]

Literally👀

[@HeatherBeKind420]

She's the best!

[@FinleeRice]

I’m only ever in the comments for the Maddie praise. So deserved too.

[@nicolasnamed]

In the talking about better experiences with bi people, my experience with my bi male partners (gay trans man) is that I feel a lot more comfortable about my trans body on the bedroom. Like, I'm sure there's cis gay men who are fine with having trans partners but I've just always felt safe and comfortable with bi partners cause there's just an openness to my different body that I'm not sure I'd get from a cis gay partner as easily. Plus I totally understand having a bio sex preference for your partners, as long as you're respectful and not mean when you express that to someone imo it's fine. I would recommend staying open-minded though!

[@ashgavs]

I never thought about it that way and I love this take on it

[@nicolasnamed]

@@ashgavs Glad my insight was appreciated! :D

[@lc360]

Ashley I just wanna say your podcasts are really helping me undo a lot of internalised homophobia. I'm also 27 and trying to be brave enough to pursue my dream creative career and I admire you for just fuckin going for it. I genuinely think you're so cool and i hope you get the success you deserve :)

[@amusiclover7340]

Maddie, respectfully, ruin my life you can have everything 🛐

[@Partly_Crazy]

I was not aware of the lip sync battle. I am now very aware of the lip sync battle. Thanks Maddie!

[@kennyjac]

How the fuck did I not know about that lip sync performance. My life is forever improved. Ty Maddie 🙏🙏💙

[@mariannetfinches]

I was so excited to see Jess was back on the pod & you did not disappoint! Also I'm shocked Maddie managed to find 2 people who hadn't seen the Tom Holland thing. I re-watch it every few months. It's truly legendary 🤣 Edit- Maddie's Vision Board sounds excellent. Will there be vampires? If so which ones?

[@natasham7421]

BLACK GAY TEACHER NERD RIGHT HERE!!!!!!!!!!! YESSSSSS

[@emilymons11]

The thing that Maddie said about being addicted to the task that they can try to accomplish with being the “perfect person” for someone resonated a little too hard with me 🙃 thank you for providing me with this weeks therapy topic! 😂

[@meelane]

Jess talking about her music tastes and scene kid was such a flash back

[@lemonpledge7093]

It hurt me that no one knew AFI 😭

[@robyn00xx]

@@lemonpledge7093 which boggles my mind…. I’m the same age as maddie… and I ~still~ love afi

[@321licata97]

I like when Ashley says I’m gunna like the podcast in the beginning and affirms that I did like the podcast at the end. Does that make me a good girl? 🥺

[@emmabunch-benson4795]

The Tom Holland lip sync battle is what made me fall in love with him

[@wanderingphotomagician]

Jess describing the ‘safety’ in fully understanding the way you aren’t being seen & cared for in a relationship & using that understanding to comfort yourself so that you can stay in what is known is something I have never been able to put into words, but I have FELT THAT! I’m in the happiest point of my life, but this was still so retroactively validating! Thank you!

[@oreo1237]

MADDIE that outfit 😰 I can’t. So excited to see you in Nashville, Ashley! Can’t wait.

[@zimboloves]

“Paramore is FUBU […]” As a Black woman who grew up listening to Paramore I couldn’t agree more. They’d definitely be one of the headliners at the cookout.

[@Do.Your.Best.345]

Jess and their indoor sunglasses 😎🤣🌈

[@jyt74]

Jess's comments at 18 min--cool to hear, appreciate for the algorithm.

[@saggguy7]

before transitioning I thought i was a girl in a boy way, and after transitioning i realized i actually much prefer being a boy in a girl way

[@sofimunoz1190]

Maddy is rocking that outfit! 💕

[@HypeerChick]

Jess was amazing, I would love her to come back again ❤

[@julia_rsm]

The Tom Holland Lip sync battle is awesome! Everytime I find it again, I have to watch it!

[@kikiniet3086]

Listened as soon as I got up this morning, waited until the video dropped so I could see Maddie's gorgeous outfit!!

[@Ale6xN7]

Everything Jess and Maddie saying during Jess' story put into words how I've been feeling for I don't even know how many years in my relationship. We've been steadily drifting apartately, and this gave me the words to explain why I'm still holding on even though I haven't voiced or had my needs met.

[@grizzlyadams-xw8tk]

From Germany I send back to you, Ashley, all the energy, hope and just amazing good vibes, which you give to us through this great podcast. As a Baby-Gold-Star-Lesbian I do learn new terms every time I am listening and watching. You are very beautiful and cool.

[@SpaceyD]

All of my closest people fall somewhere on the ADD/ADHD spectrum: interrupting is our love language ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@moonflowerplant]

I'm a bi girl from europe and I honestly wished those episodes where much longer and I'd love to know more about your bi girl theory, because it actually felt really insightful and made me think, i hope you can talk about it more at some point

[@user-mr1qw2bl6w]

KZbin recommended the lip sync battle to me a few hours after I watched this video. I'm obsessed now 😂

[@barbieguevara1483]

I love the contrast of Maddie un every episode of this. And i love how red lips works for her. Raw! 😸

[@fambi1271]

The way I jumped out of my chair when they started talking about Super Mario 64, literally my favorite Mario game to this day

[@susannagivan7898]

We have to investigate the pop punk to hot topic to theatre to renaissance fairs to being bi pipeline

[@zazajf]

omg did anyone else notice how ashley was about to call main main her gf and then she was like wait idk if that episode has come out yet also, such a lovely episode to listen to! beautiful voices

[@michelleauriemma463]

never would i thought that ashley would mention bad bunny in the pod... loved it

[@tuulimm1461]

I'm 16 minutes in and i HAVE TO PAUSE... Maddie you are FUCKING GORGEOUS!

[@zyxxyzify]

Jess was amazing! Hope she comes back again! And Maddy omg 😍

[@wojlife3190]

Jess was a great guest! Love seeing black women on the pod. Also, Maddie's awesome and I didn't realise they were closer to my age lol

[@drew037]

re the convo about interrupting (around 47:00 i think), i feel like y'all would be fascinated by the linguistic theory about "high involvement" vs "high considerateness" conversational styles! i believe the terms were coined by deborah tannen, and there's a great episode of the lingthusiasm podcast that discusses this idea -- it's called "how to rebalance a lopsided conversation" :) as an interrupter myself i found it super interesting and i love that the theory presents both sides of the coin in a positive light!

[@Raddiebaddie]

Loved the interview with Jess today!! Loved seeing them on the show Shrill

[@zimboloves]

“I can’t believe we’re talking about touching grass in a video game” 😂😂😂😂

[@colleenrawson8477]

We need Maddie's gender vision board!

[@colleenrawson8477]

Also really appreciated Jess's vulnerability in this episode. Love the balance with the laughs, this pod is the best!

[@hayleykrebs4123]

I love most episodes, but this was definitely one of my favourites. So much chemistry 🥰my goodness 🔥

[@eowyns4181]

Maddieeeeee! I love your sweater! Avril was my trans/gay awakening!

[@circleofleaves2676]

Definitely agree about Maddie's voice. During Maddie's Sharing Corner, after Ashley says "queer people love Tom Holland", when Maddie replies "You're about to get a glimpse into that... as to why"... They way they say "as to why". Oh my god, tingles. Such a great voice.

[@ihatemickiegee]

your sunday show in chicago was amazing trust me if people don’t watch the special (they will … that place was packed all weekend) i will make them until they realize they fucking love you. k bye! now i’m onto watch the episode.

[@Kbee1231]

Jess channeling Tems 👌🏾👌🏾

[@emilypumpkinseller]

the interruption thing is so relatable. My partner comes from the interrupting side and I come from the never interrupt side, and on top of that, he has ADHD and I don't. The first time, before I learned it wasn't personal, it pissed me off. But now I get it and we're good.

[@circleofleaves2676]

Tom Holland trained in gymnastics, ballet, tap, hip-hop/street and parkour. Dude's got moves for days.

[@JansmaIvy]

Oh lord, the not interrupting really hits home for me. My (soon to be) ex husband used to FLIP OUT the moment I would speak. Been together 23 years and I have been working on it so hard…And now he uses it as the main excuse of why he chose to have an affair. Sure dude…that’s the real reason. Ugh

[@elliliveswhere]

Me watching with my turquoise jewellery on 👀

[@wadnold123]

Ashley can you possibly have Alok Vaid-Menon on the pod? They were on Youngmi Mayers podcast and I’m extremely curious as to what would happen if they joined you on a WHGS episode.

[@sergbastian5]

Okay okay the Tom Holland lip sync is such a great tangent and I can't believe I missed it!! Thanks maddie!

[@randomripoff123]

oh my fucking god this whole episode was great but that final "maybe homophobic gay thought" absolutely fucking took me out holy SHIT, amazing. lol also i love the intro music now concluding as the outro! and including it as the transitions into and out of little ad spots throughout. nice little change there, it works really well!

[@franki3809]

Am I the only one that kinda likes the tour announcement/text list threat lol😂

[@HypeerChick]

Maddie you look incredible this episode holy shit 🔥

[@CassySida]

PLEASE do the gender vision board, I'm obsessed with this idea

[@alessiababy3638]

Maddie you're stunning as usual 🌈

[@kflahart1997]

I learned on the last episode that Maddie was from NC. Today I learned from what city. Shout out to Chapel Hill. They a Tarheel y'all And I totally agree with the Sexy raspy voice. Much love to all

[@raquel8780]

Love this podcast/show! Kind of reminds me of a version of the Seinfeld show where awesome funny guests and cohosts are able to shine their funny and interesting perspectives with Ashley in the same way comics and comedians kind of did on Seinfeld.

[@aKihiKoaDDicT]

maddie spreading the word of tom hollands lipsync battle performance 😌🙏

[@nevakear4834]

I think it's kind of rude to interrupt, but at the same time I know sometimes it's because people want to express themselves and they are engaging. The worst part is when they don't circle back to what the other person was talking about. When the partner circles back to the topic the other person was talking about and both parties say everything they both want to say it's fine.

[@allisonhauser]

Jess they did you dirty not knowing the cannon #afi

[@allisonhauser]

did we go to the same 8th grade lol

[@mirandamaher880]

THE LIVE REACTION OMG IM LIVING

[@AlliB33tle]

Well you definitely need to print out a screenshot from the Tom Holland performance! (For the vision board)

[@shaliekk]

Yes the Tom Holland video... it touched my soul..🙌🏻✨

[@LadyInTheTree]

When you live in Delaware and know a show will never show up in your state and you just need to buckle up and travel ! I will get to a show!! Putting it out into the comment universe to make it come true !!!

[@shaliekk]

Maddie looks so ridiculously good in this...

[@TheTobylover101]

I’m a weekly pod listener and I’m so happy I came here to see your beautiful faces. Looking fine

[@emmabunch-benson4795]

Will definitely be watching your specials !so happy for you

[@nathanmoranx2105]

I'm so looking forward to watching this when I get home later. 😁

[@neversittingdown]

Maddie, your 2009 playlist is all my favorite music, and I'm still a hot topic kid at 24. You are not alone

[@321licata97]

MADDIE. SUPER MONKEY BALL REPRESENTATION IS WHAT I NEEDED, WHAT I DESERVE, AND TODAY IT WAS FINALLY WHAT I WAS GIVEN. 🍌🍌🍌🐵🐵🐵

[@radiationshepherd]

Holy crap I've always called myself "male brained" I relate to Ashley suddenly 😂. Like it's harder for me to relate to the way Sapphics talk about the way they experience their attraction vs my straight guy friends

[@kyndramb7050]

I've seen Tom Holland's lip sync soooo many times. Lmao!

[@darew1101]

Saw you in Chicago andddd you were amazing!! still can't get over that straight passing secretly freaky pan couple! that was wild

[@mariaobregon4108]

The way I FELT the adhd thing. Could cry

[@DeathsAngel619]

Maddie looks AMAZING

[@jd9785]

Feeling like the vibe on the channel is starting to change a bit, preferred the older content

[@theembersinside1420]

As someone who had a riot grrl zine in the 90's (75 cents by mail 🤭), I hugely appreciate Maddie's zine endeavors!

[@alexgutter8509]

Good luck for your CC set and your special this week ! You've worked so hard for this, go slayyyy ♥

[@reelfinsfishn3869]

Loved the vision board idea!!!!

[@evamags6272]

Just want to agree with everyone else and say that Maddie is hot 🥰 I hope everyone has a lovely day 💕

[@lisajopegg1685]

That Tom Holland video is something I watch and share regularly. Yes, I'd be happy with Tom Holland in that drag though I'm not attracted to him otherwise.

[@kaeshon4daniels]

MADDIEEEE 👏🏼 Lol my favorite Spotify playlist is Emo Forever😅 The best of all the bands you listed and more. You’re not alone! Hahahaha

[@marbrum]

Jess is SO BEAUTIFUL I'm in love

[@daughterofdemeter]

Ashley if you're going to properly top us into signing up for things you need to use a sexier voice lol

[@prozierozie5692]

IS THAT A CHRISSY PLAYBOY BOOK!!! I live

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

Big congrats on the specials Ashley I will watching them always supporting u and thank u for the incredible work and making me laugh the last few weeks been so so difficult and sad for me this podcast has really helped me 🫶🏳️‍🌈

[@4lovebysara]

Please come back to Sacramento! I found you *just after* you were here last! 😭

[@stephtaylor6292]

text. list. x

[@4lovebysara]

@Steph Taylor oh I'm 1000% on it! Just want her to know where people are interested! I check her site too cause I'll drive a bit if necessary!

[@4lovebysara]

@Steph Taylor I just saw she's coming in August so I'll look for the text!!! 🥳

[@BiggerinRealLife]

I've been watching the Tom Holland lip synch for YEARS every time I need an uplipt. I love drag queens but they could all take a LESSON.

[@JasonWhite-ol8ie]

I've always known I was a bisexual male but how TF do I find you only after realizing I'm agender?

[@deliri0um]

listening to this I thought maddie was dressed like a little bo peep lol.

[@norie_mess]

i watched this while eating cashews. 10/10

[@sunmama2]

MADDIE !!!!pop off girl 🔥🔥🔥

[@AlliB33tle]

Woohoo new episode! 🎉

[@Eyeswide39Open]

“Taylor Swift” but hasn’t heard of TEMS 💀 girl extend your repertoire please.

[@a.morujo6073]

@ ashley, in your theory, where do the lesbians who slept with men before coming out fit?

[@ashgavs]

Total mixed bag! Not enough data or trends to make a conclusion 😢

[@hellobell123]

I HATE GOOD GIRL. Like LITERALLY HATE that, it makes me feel like a puppy

[@sofia01ht]

MADDIEEEE!!!

[@noahalexis3100]

Love it!

[@cherubicpilgrim1502]

Maddie the raspy tendencies of your voice remember me of the ones of Natasha Lyon. I think your voice is kind of similar. And I'm saying this as a big compliment, her voice is freaking sexy.