You should definitely have the author of the lesbian masterdoc on the pod especially because I've heard she later came out as bi, could be a super interesting convo
@someonesomehow3792 ай бұрын
Ashley saying "just give me a dollar" is the og "just give me my moneyy" 😭
@camelcaseco11 ай бұрын
This was such an eye-opening episode for me - I am _probably_ a trans woman, whatever the hell i am its not a man, and i had sort of a realization - im mostly into women, and my fantisies tend to be like. lesbian sex. but its me (a "man" to them, i havent transitioned at all) instead. idk. love this episode. absolutely phenomenal, bring chanel back soon please!!!!
@delaneykeller138911 ай бұрын
This podcast makes Mondays bearable.
@prozierozie569211 ай бұрын
Honestly same!!!
@zazeej11 ай бұрын
This podcast made me recognize the days of the week again thank you
@lllorenzo11 ай бұрын
This episode was sooooo good. I rarely comment on videos, but this one's worth it. Chanel Ali was great.
@darkestbeforedawn64511 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I found this podcast/your stand up. It’s become my comfort thing 😂
@maiabradshawlevy39111 ай бұрын
This has kept me company whilst I’m up late (it’s 3am where I am) doing my homework last minute in true mentally ill ADHD fashion. I hate being alone downstairs in my house this late so I appreciated the laughs whilst I tried to get my work done!
@badkidclub11 ай бұрын
Such a great episode!! I appreciate all of you so much. This podcast helps me connect to my queerness every week. Chanel was a fantastic guest!!!
@spriddlez11 ай бұрын
One person I was with was like "I just really like your face. I like seeing your face when you are enjoying yourself. Is that weird?" And I'm like "bro. That is pretty much the most basic component of sex. It ain't a kink" haha. It was honestly really sweet though
@reetanruutu11 ай бұрын
this was one of the best episode if not the best, thank you ❤🎉
@lavlmoon11 ай бұрын
Best part of Monday is a new whgs!!
@Elecjester11 ай бұрын
you threw away donuts!? ... I can't even.
@SpaceyD11 ай бұрын
That's it Ashley! You finally bullied me enough! As a birthday present to myself (Sagittarius ❤) I upped my Patreon level. I can't wait to binge "YHGS!" 💕
@MaddieMadMoo111 ай бұрын
This is what makes my Monday better. I have a sneaky Monday post work glass of wine or two while listening.
@claraboe275511 ай бұрын
I always love the awkwardness of the guests when ashley screams at us listeners 😂😂
@ashleyG9289211 ай бұрын
You're best Ashley! Always give me deep belly laughs. I feel so happy watching your stuff. I forget all my life problems temporarily.
@Queerbbby11 ай бұрын
One of the best episodes yet!! And please get the maker of the lesbian master doc on!!
@jay160311 ай бұрын
Ironically the author of the masterdoc later came out as bisexual
@rachelweissman793611 ай бұрын
byeeeee I’ve had a massive crush on Chanel since the first time I saw her at Sunday skool this is such a revelation even though I’m definitely too awkward to ever talk to her after the show lmao
@ninreck512111 ай бұрын
I'm masc, afab, non-binary and I had a really interesting experience in barbie because I still relate a lot to like sapphic community and there were sapphic friends with me there who are all she/her women or she/they women so I felt community with them while simultaneously relating to little bits about the Kens and Alan but over all also feeling excluded from all groups because there were no non-binary characters in the movie so I just cried through the entire credits because I had way too many emotions at once
@gabbyfishelink294311 ай бұрын
Ok, so I would just like to say that the Harry Potter books were what helped me realize my sexuality… I hate peoples, but I LOVE books. My room is decked out. I have floating candles and brick walls. My dresser is 3 antique trunks stacked on top of each other. My door has a “Platform 9 3/4” decal on it. This room is my safe space and it makes me feel SO happy, that’s why I never leave it 😅
@circleofleaves267611 ай бұрын
Yes, the Jerk Store is a Seinfeld thing. George misses his opportunity for the perfect jerk store comeback, then gets on a plane and flies all the way to another meeting just to try and set up the joke again, and a colleague still one-ups him. (I was born in '79, I get it.)
@badkidclub11 ай бұрын
That give me a dollar section before the gay thought section was so good! hahahah
@esthermaples445611 ай бұрын
Loved Chanel's revelation, she's a fantastic guest! & im off to read the master doc, thanks Maddie 😉😁 i keep saying "that was the best episode!" & then you top it! Typical bottom, i know 🤣😂🤣 Hugs!
@gracejones455711 ай бұрын
george gorging shrimp , and his manager or smthing says “the ocean called their running out of shrimp!” george in his car later “the jerk store called their running out of YOU”
@rogue-enby11 ай бұрын
Lol the thing in the closet makes it look like Maddie has bee antenna 🌻🐝
@luvpurple9511 ай бұрын
Chanel is so cute!
@spaceisnothing6 ай бұрын
Fucking loved this episode
@jessie-nl8eb11 ай бұрын
The jerk store called, they’re running out of you!
@CRM___10 ай бұрын
Maybe I’m just high but you should hire her on permanently. Or maybe I just love beautiful black women who open up their minds even if just a little bit
@ninreck512111 ай бұрын
this episode was such a mess, I love it, also Maddie I adore you
@Lady.Fern.11 ай бұрын
I used to soak paper in my dads coffee and burn the edges 😂😂 bound it together with a leather strip 😅
@CRM___10 ай бұрын
This podcast just unlocked a memory from college. I actually did a presentation describing Harry Potter character characteristics and asked the class to guess who it was that I was thinking of. Oops.
@CRM___10 ай бұрын
This podcast in conjunction with marijuana of course.
@annemanalisay54311 ай бұрын
Claim him on your taxes 😂
@5Nunes511 ай бұрын
Really should have gotten a longer laugh!
@SydneyBreault11 ай бұрын
The small intersection of Ms. Rachel and Ashley Gavin fans (maybe just me?) is here to request Jules from Songs for Littles on the pod!
@randomripoff12311 ай бұрын
ashley i'm starting to wonder if you know ANY straight people. alex is definitely straight, right? is he the only one? incredible. just incredible. someone run the numbers. actually--ashley you'd love to run the numbers. if you have the time, do it. lol
@someonesomehow3792 ай бұрын
1:15:07 aww 😭🩶 ashley u are so fucking cute wth
@abigailwettenhall681111 ай бұрын
I just looked it up, the lesbian masterdoc was written by tumblr user Angeli Luz in 2018
@mariannetfinches11 ай бұрын
Who else is looking up the master doc? And does this count as a book club? 😅
@ARKINNICK11 ай бұрын
the jerk store called they're running out of you
@felishab714311 ай бұрын
I loved this ep!
@AsiaTr3asur311 ай бұрын
Yesss this is a Harry Potter safe space!!
@ArchaeoV10 ай бұрын
Love this episode! 🤩
@thecomorbiditycurator801811 ай бұрын
49:00 It's not my place to tell anyone who they are, but that concept is how I determined I was pan and not bi. The gender part just wasn't a thought that ever crossed my mind when attracted to someone. It was not a factor I considered. All that matters is the vibe.
@goldenmomo8511 ай бұрын
57:57 I neeeeeeeeed to read this document!
@gangstagrandma11 ай бұрын
The Comeback - Seinfeld.
@circleofleaves267611 ай бұрын
No, coffee is not inherently bad for you. Just don't get it from an absolute trash place like starbucks, where the coffee itself is garbage quality plus they put a whole bunch of other junk in it. Just get good coffee. And regarding the money aspect, buying takeaway coffee in a plastic cup is NOT the default. Making coffee at home is the default. And there are so many different methods of making coffee at home.
@zarli-aria11 ай бұрын
Ashley (and co) I love you but please for the love of god hide the clutter behind Maddie. My ADHD brain is far too distracted by the Dr. Bronners soap and trying to guess what you use it for (endless uses). I understand that's ridiculous but its 100% true and honest hahaha
@ashgavs11 ай бұрын
Nope!
@learningomorisoundtrack397911 ай бұрын
Trans rights. B)
@Axolautism11 ай бұрын
Sadly, I wouldn't have been able to go to the Minneapolis one even if I did know about it because I have college things to do :(
@bilong9211 ай бұрын
comment for the algorithm
@bilong9211 ай бұрын
@@Florilegium1 aww thank you haha
@CRM___10 ай бұрын
I think the terrible feng shui of those shelves cultivated your poor internet moment. I say….. remove the couch but leave all the pillows and cushions and sit on the fucking floor. I can’t look at those shelves anymore. You should still put the foam lining on them.
@Grounded_Gravity11 ай бұрын
My queer utopia = Star Trek but gayer.
@esthermaples445611 ай бұрын
SAME!
@ezlanpowers11 ай бұрын
I think the reason we do not connect womanhood with AFAB (assigned female at birth) genitals is for transphobic reasons and exclusionary reasons. When we do this, we alienate trans women who do not have the same body parts or genitals and trans men or even nonbinary people for not having a "specific" set of associated genitals to be their true gender. I think it's very common for people to assume one is connected to the other. But genitals are just the thing we are born with at their core, only society goes "Your assigned gender at birth is determined by genitals" not truly all people even see gender. Some tribes don't actually have gender roles, they base their roles off gender in many but not as we do in Western cultures outlook on gender. pee pee vagina gender rules always get me confused because I'm so used to separating my sense of being a woman from merely my genitals to assure my trans sisters feel included.