I think a lot of us learned to silently pray in a house where the devil played. I believe the devil tries to break us early. I hope more and more of us grow and become stronger despite it and we give it a name so other children recognize what it is.
@colorfull2472 Жыл бұрын
I can't even explain how real this is for me. Thank you Ashley for putting into words the story that so many of us have lived
@angelbainbridge6018 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@stormiemountain8062 Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@elizabetheasley2311 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@kaytesandlin7479 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like she wrote about me
@tracybranch2955 Жыл бұрын
Girl. I'm up late.... Praying, writing, talking to the Lord, he's revealed much to me tonight and I'm singing and writing down a song I've had in my head for a year. I just received the notification for this video and never heard it before. I think you're singing my life. God Bless You Sister..... 👆🙏❤️💪
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@Dana-xt8ze Жыл бұрын
WOW.......#1 hit song!🤩
@matthewprice6260 Жыл бұрын
Thankfully 4 ever thing❤🎉
@billiejolineman7007 Жыл бұрын
I hope you find the courage and strength you need for change. God is good and will help make a path.
@matthewprice6260 Жыл бұрын
@@davidholton9667 I am great thank you and yourself?
@tracysummers6944 Жыл бұрын
I can't apologize to my children enough for staying in a marriage I should have had long before I did. These lyrics ring so true!
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@FarieFly Жыл бұрын
They know
@Bagglady889 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@lisagonzales837 Жыл бұрын
A marriage I should have left a lifetime ago ...... however I did get out Alive, but not without scars.
@michellebrandt2994 Жыл бұрын
Same here
@carmanfinley58 Жыл бұрын
It truly is amazing how someone you've never met can write a song about an event in your life you've never told anyone about, and perform it with the emotion you feel. This is truly a masterpiece.
@larrydallas55974 ай бұрын
As the wife of the name that appears at the top I 👍! 1st time hearing g.
@utahguy058 Жыл бұрын
This song is a masterpiece. I wish that I wouldn't say Im fine when I know I'm not. I watched my mom do the same thing growing up, and I swore I'd break the pattern. Well... here I am keeping it alive. It just is too easy now.
@amandasandefur1406 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it becomes the normal answer, not the truth.
@domesticgoddess9684 Жыл бұрын
Im with you…it sucks!😢
@carmanfinley58 Жыл бұрын
I was in the same situation, please remember it NEVER too late to change your destiny.
@staceyherrington2340 Жыл бұрын
Does anyone really want to act like they care about our sad stories? It’s best sometimes to not let other know our business specifically in small towns sad but true. Small towns love to use it a fuel for the fire instead of straightening a woman crown when she’s going through heavy things they don’t care how hard it hurts your children either. That’s sad I’m my opinion people have lost compassion for others.
@domesticgoddess9684 Жыл бұрын
@staceyherrington2340 actually IMHO, you are wrong. Some of us do still care and will listen, and give advice or support. I'd much rather straighten a woman's crown, than tear her down. So yeah, we do care.
@silviarodrigues9453 Жыл бұрын
This song is heartbreakingly beautiful!!!💖
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@_PF323 Жыл бұрын
I have no words, so I’ll just say thank you!
@gsmith2835 Жыл бұрын
My mom stated in a very abusive marriage for years, pretended all was okay. Finally she had enough courage to leave with 3 small kids in toll. The first time I heard this song I cried because it sounded like my moms story.
@catherinepraus86355 ай бұрын
Commend your mother it take so much courage especially when it’s not just you you have to take care of
@matthewhayes8642 Жыл бұрын
Ever since Girl Goin’ Nowhere, I’ve been a fan. This lady, this artist is the best singer/songwriter/performer in country music since Reba McEntire. Not disrespecting the other talents like Ella Langley (who I’m also a big fan of) or the rest, but, Ashley’s songs are just fantastic, one after another. Thank you for sharing your talent with us!
@TheCsaf243 Жыл бұрын
You're right. I don't think it gets any better than Ashley. She's the best out there.
@lisaskokowski1870 Жыл бұрын
I love ❤️ Ashley but I also love ❤️ Sara Evans,she is my girl ❤
@marialinville1076 Жыл бұрын
I'm standing at work, silent tears rolling down my cheeks. A few of Ashley's songs have had me in tears, but this song; this song shows pure, valuable, human emotions. Thank you, Ashley. This one hit hard but was needed. Thank you for helping all us black sheep silent criers and back sliders. 💚
@marinecorpswarrior915 Жыл бұрын
Your comment summed it up for many of us, myself included. Thank you!
@ginnygingin2 Жыл бұрын
😢omg, did we live in the same house?
@marinecorpswarrior915 Жыл бұрын
@@ginnygingin2 After reading a lot of these comments I think many of us did grow up in the house.
@sherilea014 ай бұрын
I heard this for the first time on my way to work. This is a different level it hit me so hard and made me realize alot about my life.
@ColleenH38 Жыл бұрын
So very sad and so full of truth. Ashley is one of the best female country artists ever!
@jenifermiller9082 Жыл бұрын
I wish it said hate you run in my blood instead of hate that it runs in my blood. But love this song so much!
@stephanied9629 Жыл бұрын
When you're driving home from work at 7:30 in the morning and a song starts playing on the radio that immediately & quite literally stops you in your tracks.... You pull the car over to the side of a curvy country road, pull the song up on KZbin to play it again and just sob and sob while listening to the whole thing again & again. I've never heard a song that has so very accurately described my entire life. (with the exception of the lyric "I think my Father did the best that he could do" because my Father definitely didn't.... but then again, maybe he did, according to his abilities, no matter how poor) But every single other word of this song, I've lived and I feel it deep in my soul. In my bones. And while you're still on the side of the road with a tear-filled face, a man stops to ask if you're okay. And you lie.........
@AndyBenitez-jy7es11 ай бұрын
Hi Stephanie 💐💐
@dianneperry2903 Жыл бұрын
We're going Friday night, Nov 3rd to see Ashley for the 3rd time in Tifton, Ga. It's going to be a GREAT concert!!!
@Lisa-ld1mn Жыл бұрын
Congratulations to the whole team (including the McBryde Trybe) because Rolling Stone named this song #13 in the top twenty songs of 2023 so far!!!!!!!
@stephineellerbe3526 Жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart. My mama went through this for so long and after 11 years she left but the "not speaking her mind" ultimately led to her raising my sisters kiddo while she did drugs and it ended up killing my mama from stress and then after my sister from drugs because she didnt know how to cope. Ladies-& even gentleman, the cycle can be broken. You are worthy.
@paulpupo8799 Жыл бұрын
My name is Vicki and my mom physically and verbally and emotionally abused me for over fifty years I didn’t tell my husband or my adult sons so much shame and humiliation I too learned how to lie finally in my sixties I shared with my husband and sons what I had gone through I still suffer with severe anxiety my husband and I have two beautiful grandchildren I would kill if someone abused them I did have a very happy childhood because I was raised by my loving and kind grandparents I became a mother would raised her boys with love and affection my mother never once hugged me kissed me or said I love you my sons are adults and I hug and kiss them and tell them I love them everyday you can rise up and tell your story or it will eat you alive thank you Ashley for this beautiful song
@FuzzyFrogg66 Жыл бұрын
Damn sure hit that nail on the head!!! Hellz yeah, bout time someone got that truthful again and, at least close to, first time for such a sensitive topic...no one (generation or two depending on age) wants to hear a song and question what they contributed to their not so functional offspring's life management skills...
@jasongadberry101611 ай бұрын
This one hits home For a man born to an alcoholic mother and a two timing run away father We wonder how we made it Your music is true And tells the stories we all live through but are afraid to tell Keep going The world loves you!!!!!!!
@mjmaccabee7252 Жыл бұрын
One of the most personal songs I've heard in ages. Beautiful,
@heathermarie64478 ай бұрын
I still mourn my childhood
@heliguy0101 Жыл бұрын
I remember going to church and my mama said I couldn't go if I was going to tell my grandparents what was going on. I promised until we pulled in the driveway and then cried. It got me. Then I learned to lie.
@raegibson3066 Жыл бұрын
This was how I grew up too. My parents separated when I was 7 and divorced when I was 12. I was very careful in my relationships but picked the wrong ones from broken homes, always finding the ones who were broken and needed fixing in their lives too. I was afraid to speak up as I would never want a fight. I watched others have what I wanted and always wondered how they made things work. Thank you for this true story....
@dawnfagiano Жыл бұрын
This hurts my heart 😢..so real . Thank you Ashley
@barbarapeters525 Жыл бұрын
what ever you sing hits home for so many of us
@codyreed3421 Жыл бұрын
This song rocked me to my core. Ashley, you are incredible. Not only do you have the best voice in country music, you are also a top tier storyteller. Thank you for being awesome, genuinely.
@jamestaylor2599 Жыл бұрын
Wow. I don’t know what else to say. You are my absolute favorite singer and I’m so thankful for your music and honesty.
@jessicaking9926 Жыл бұрын
Ashley casually breaking our hearts....
@ashleydugger99 Жыл бұрын
And I’m here for it lol!! Everytime!!
@madysonstenen Жыл бұрын
She's a god
@madysonstenen Жыл бұрын
But still R.I.P NOAMI JUDD
@madysonstenen Жыл бұрын
Brandy clark is a God two
@felicia12007 ай бұрын
Damn. This is deep on so many levels. Words can not describe how much I can relate to these words...😢
@Campbelltonya Жыл бұрын
Ashley’s voice and this song is amazing! Then add in the guitar at the end, chills all over! ❤
@michellebrandt2994 Жыл бұрын
Another masterpiece! Thank you Ashley
@trish9900 Жыл бұрын
Girl this is life. I sware. I grew up in church. Still lies were everywhere. Church. Neighborhood. School. Most parents. When ya mama tells you to lie either for peace or war. It just comes. Learned behavior at its best. Sad.
@jeanninedarwin314810 ай бұрын
My eldest daughter sent this to me and thanked me ❤
@ngamgoimei5226 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully written and sung
@jeaninehogshead4710 Жыл бұрын
Once again, and again a masterpiece…..I don’t know how you do it but you always search out the hidden truths and sing my heart.
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@carrielacey2998 Жыл бұрын
Oh my heart. My generation and I hope the next never knows I’ve spent my life making it better for them
@allanmacek4413 Жыл бұрын
Looking & sounding fabulous! ❤️🔥❤️
@ChelseaJane-ic2hg Жыл бұрын
This song is nothing short of a masterpiece. I love it. Beautiful song about horrible pain. ❤️
@AlvinChildress-k9m Жыл бұрын
Too cool! This woman is a great songwriter.
@jayt4835 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow. Wow. Wow. Just….. you’re it. You’re the person. Incredible. Real.
@littlebit6222 Жыл бұрын
Your such a hero to so many who have lived this life in silence. Love you so 💗 💓 😘 💛 ❤ 💖 💗 much. I wished I could stand at one of your concerts. That would be a dream come true.
@summerhamilton7064 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful and sad song. This lady will break generational curses ❤
@nubelialeandro3722 Жыл бұрын
Seriously! Ashley can do no wrong with songs. Wow! Hit after hit. Truth in every word. Sing it girl. ❤❤❤🇨🇦🍺
@sweetboo1022 Жыл бұрын
Tanya out tonight releasing her new songs 🎵 & now Ashley gonna gift us this beautiful song. I'm a happy happy girl... just a happy happy happy girl.
@benicio1967 Жыл бұрын
Boy these lyrics are really something else. The writing on this song is truly amazing.
@SNelson777 Жыл бұрын
Wow…just WOW!!! This is real, it’s raw, and unfortunately, reality for too many of us. I hope this one wins many awards and gets the recognition that you so deserve. Thank you, as always, for sharing your talent and your heart. Keep on keeping on BadAsshley!! ❤
@jeffandpam110 ай бұрын
Queen 👸 of lyrics and us simple little folks. Thanks Ashley❤❤❤. Good ole gurl.
@kon123ification Жыл бұрын
"Working late, Fogging up the windows of an 89 sable" damnn.
@meredithgletty9129 Жыл бұрын
You're telling so many of our stories ❤️🔥thank you
@AprilCarter-wc6oe10 ай бұрын
Best cry of my life . Thank you for this ❤️
@christifortier2176 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful song and such a beautiful voice and execution. A shame so many of us have lived what you sing and were taught to carry those lies to other parts of their lives. Parts where you are so depressed and in so much emotional pain that you cry yourself to sleep and then cry when you wake up realizing you have to face another day, but when anyone asks you just smile and say you are fine. A little over a year ago I found out I was seriously ill with no cure. It's been tough, but also so freeing. Hardly anyone speaks to me anymore because I learned how to be honest and they couldn't deal with the truth. I'm sure there's a lesson in there. Fantastic job Ashley! As long as I draw breath i will be a fan!!❤
@heather4907 Жыл бұрын
It broke my heart when I listened to this song my daughter sent me. 💔 Because I stayed with a man that I should have left. The pain and the regret are just a part of me and my kids. I know how it is to go from the victim to the liar and back again. And so does my daughter. And I hate that with all my soul.
@juliehinkle-c5t Жыл бұрын
I recently saw Ashley preform in Kansas. One of the most profound monuments of the show to me was Ashley singing this song and at the end struck a defiant pose, and sang the last word “lie” Boy, did that hit home. Thank you Ashley ❤
@patrickostrom2762 Жыл бұрын
Ashley,with Soul of "Lie" and Life! Reflection of Being human ! One of Ashley's ballad's early in the am at home or open road down the highway!
@alexlewis13 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this song to get released! This whole album really! Some of my favorite songs are on it! And soon I won’t have to listen to live versions with crowd noise just to hear them all! Thanks for always speaking to my soul with your music. You are the accidental preacher!
@cathyrampola180 Жыл бұрын
You made this 65 year old women remember the past with this song. Love your music
@brittanymessier1729 Жыл бұрын
I'm blown away yet again!!! I wish I could meet her and sit down to tell her the difference she's made in my life just being honest with her music! Love this woman beyond words 💖
@deborahperkins2579 Жыл бұрын
Saw this performed live. Loved it then, love it now. My favorite. Speaks so much truth .
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? Song for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@eileenhightower8411 Жыл бұрын
What a heartfelt song, delivered impeccably. You can say so very much from the heart and without the profanity. She is a great, great songwriter.
@leemcculloh68428 ай бұрын
Ashley has once again made a beautiful song with a absolutely great meaning.
@mailepiko4376 Жыл бұрын
My life. I know this what my kids went through. Thank you. I feel heard and understood. As a mother you do what ever you have to do that your kids are happy even when you are not. They are the most important things in my world. Love is the thing that keeps us going and sane.
@extremephotographykoval3795 Жыл бұрын
Loved it this hits home for me I love how Ashley sings the truth in her songs amazing voice and song!!
@PonyUptheGreens Жыл бұрын
The words in this song accompanied by a amazingly beautiful and unique voice, will touch your soul. Ashley sings with heart and from the heart.❤️
@jacquelinesmith2585 Жыл бұрын
Another great song by Ashley, and Matt slayed the guitar!
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@tekalitha Жыл бұрын
What a powerful song.... grew up learning to lie..I'm breaking the cycle
@virginiaworden2558 Жыл бұрын
She is sooooo GREAT... So NORMAL.......
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? Song for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@LadyJollyRoger Жыл бұрын
Ashley never disappoints!!!
@amccabe6477 Жыл бұрын
She is the Queen.
@cormacdavid7355 Жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful 👋 Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
@jimquinton9327 Жыл бұрын
What an incredible song that unfortunately a LOT of us can relate to. Another beautiful/painful song!
@Mcfaddenclan000 Жыл бұрын
Some heavy lyrics hitting home.
@marinecorpswarrior915 Жыл бұрын
I don't know who wrote this song but whoever wrote it, it's like they peeked into my childhood then my life as an adult and wrote about it. This song hits hard🥺😥
@jessicastanton848 Жыл бұрын
I am pretty sure she did.
@marinecorpswarrior915 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, just checked (don't know why I didn't do it sooner) you're absolutely right she did write it.
@MartyHood-ll8vm10 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my childhood
@mickeyduck29273 ай бұрын
Quietly i leaned to pray,line, reminds me of a song off A walk to remember ❤❤❤
@ateliervintagerose Жыл бұрын
Yes!! Another great song from a great writer and singer! Thank you Ashley ❤️ 🤗 hugs from the Netherlands 🇳🇱 Sandra
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@CBurns1990 Жыл бұрын
What a song lady!! Some powerful words because of someone's actions.
@camelliachristopher4131 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sweetheart 💜 Amen
@flametexas Жыл бұрын
Love this song…. Love Ashley’s voice! Once again one to add to my playlist!
@davidholton9667 Жыл бұрын
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
@TheCsaf243 Жыл бұрын
@@davidholton9667 Would you just go away with all this scammer nonsense?
@missyturner-summers6665 Жыл бұрын
It was so true for me. And as alwayd beautifully sung. Ashely mcbride God bless you
@warriornation232 Жыл бұрын
This song hits on so many levels. As with all of Ashley's songs.the writing is powerfully poetic.
@toddclark332 Жыл бұрын
❤her voice is my angel thank you Ashley 🙏
@azlaw20012 ай бұрын
I can’t say it enough, you are the absolute best female artist that I have heard in 30 years. Keep it up girl, I’m a fan for life!
@samanthamartin3445 ай бұрын
Speaking a truth so deep it took me 3x through the song before I let myself see myself. My ex and I both grew up like this and it carried forward. We were at peace with each other when he passed recently. I hope my children don’t carry this forward 😢
@jamesdendy526 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful song, beautifully done!
@amandasandefur1406 Жыл бұрын
This is as usual an awesome song.
@AndyBenitez-jy7es11 ай бұрын
Hi Amanda 💐💐
@barbarapeters525 Жыл бұрын
Oh girl this hit home ! Love your songs! Keep em coming
@Livn2Dream Жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this song and your music in general!! I am constantly looking for any new release you have, amazingly raw and I adore and appreciate YOU as an artist!! Thank you so much for giving your gift to the world!
@catherinepraus86358 ай бұрын
Ok this one’s my favorite no wait they all are go baby go
@sarachazindonaldson909 Жыл бұрын
Powerful song and describes my childhood too....thank you for giving this a voice
@cormacdavid7355 Жыл бұрын
Hello Sara 👋 how are you doing today. Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
@sonyaroberts8206 Жыл бұрын
This was my life and sadly it's so hard to overcome the trauma we grew up with.
@AndyBenitez-jy7es11 ай бұрын
Hi Sonya 💐💐
@shannonasbell758310 ай бұрын
My dad was an alcoholic. I believe today my mom drove him to that. Cause I also had a toxic mother who just needs to be better than everybody else. I have to deal with her now.l as she has gotten older. She is the cause of most of my anxiety. But my parents abandoned me from 7 yr to about 15. And when I did move back I was kicked out at 17. I learned to lie about ever damn thing. But, I wish I learned how to live. Never got that, taught myself everything and most times I was wrong about it.
@karenwalsh1143 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this one.. big time!!!
@cormacdavid7355 Жыл бұрын
Hello Karen 👋 Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel, better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will put a smile on your face..
@ivaludlow6116 Жыл бұрын
Super beautiful and sadly true
@jewls9697 Жыл бұрын
Ashley, you are amazing &love your talent!! Great voice, great songs!! I just 💖 everything about you!! You keep kicking ass out there!! ❤ gf!! I need a signed copy please! lol It was worth a try!! That gurl will be at the top soon!! 💖
@shayshaykidd1740 Жыл бұрын
Amazing voice. Your terrific. This one hits home
@bscvfd2133 Жыл бұрын
So happy for this!
@allanmacek4413 Жыл бұрын
Ashley, you’re amazing! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@staceyherrington23408 ай бұрын
My mom did the same to my dad and I gave everything to my kids I didn’t want them to go through I did experience. I’m a curse breaker
@staceyherrington23408 ай бұрын
I think my mom hates me for doing better than her we don’t talk now days 😢