The Most Vulnerable Video I've Ever Made... Why I Left YouTube and More of Your Questions Answered

[@ariannefowler455]

I'm so happy your son is here healthy and happy. What a year! You hit all the major life stressors and came out the other side. You were so missed! So glad to have you back, but more importantly, glad you feel ready to be back.

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much Arianne, I’m so happy to be in this place too and kind comments like yours mean the world to me! ❤️

[@dmallen469]

Everything you're talking about, by themselves, are major life changes. Moving, a new job, a baby boy, the loss of a dear friend! Holy moly! Be good to yourself. In these life altering events, the ONLY thing that helps me is the simple quote, "This too shall pass." I eat, sleep & pray that. I, too, am super-vigilant. It can be exhausting. I am so happy & proud that you are navigating all of these things with grace & a true sense of self.❤❤❤

[@AshleyAye]

So true!! My therapist mentioned that fact so many times last year LOL all big big stressors! ❤ I love that quote and yes, the hyper vigilance is tiring! I appreciate your kind words so much ❤

[@maureenhansen8321]

Ya know Ashley, the minute, I mean you came back, I knew in my heart you had finally found your inner peace, confidence, self doubt had disappeared and before me was the woman that had grown and fought her way out of doubt, anxiety and confusion. I know you will always struggle with anxiety and panic, as do I, but along with your faith , I see the light in you! An emergence of a beautiful Mom, wife, sister, daughter, but also a friend to yourself!!! 💞💞💞 Your birth story Ashley, I can’t imagine how frightening, but just as you told, the chain of circumstances was all held in Gods hands!

[@AshleyAye]

Maureen!!! Thank you so much ❤ Your kind words always touch me!!!

[@AshleyAye]

Hi Guys! 🚨🚨🚨as soon as you are done with this video go watch Coffee Talk - kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZqtnHSEpdhjh9k it’s 9 min of your life well spent!!! Also! So sorry I go out of focus in some parts - I need a new vlog camera so I’ll be shopping online for one this weekend! 🤣 thank you for bearing with me - I don’t do many non makeup videos so this was new to me!

[@MsRobbieLou]

Wow, what a year! New baby, new job , new home, and other personal things are a lot when it's just one at a time, so big hugs to you and your family. Congrats on the new baby! I'm glad to see you're back ❤💜🩷

[@AshleyAye]

Ms Robbie Lou!!! Thank you so much ❤❤

[@juliablair4963]

Last week i stumbled across your history/beauty videos and became an instant fan. I was confused at first about the makeup, but then as I watched more videos, my amazement grew as you have such a talent for inspired makeup. I love how your look matches the beauties you are talking about. Truly a gift. And I love, love, love the thoughtful and careful way you explain tough parts of a persons history. You are so kind and respectful. And we live in Tennessee, just north of Asheville, NC, so I get your love of the mountains. Blessings and hugs to you, beautiful soul. You have been like an amazing history teacher and makeup artist all wrapped up in one. I’ve never seen anything like it and I’ve been telling all my coworkers how super cool you are.

[@divadoll55]

I just finished the beauty biography series and love the way you tell their stories. You show the human side of these talented yet vulnerable women that gave so much to others. I look forward to more of them. I just started watching your channel and find you charming.

[@kellybrick1618]

Congratulations Ahley on a healthy baby boy. You are inspiring, I love the way you explained everything.

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you Kelly! That means so much more to me than I can express! 🥰

[@hrachelp3316]

Thank you for that. It was nice to get to know you better. And nice to see North Carolina through your loving eyes.

[@AshleyAye]

You are so welcome! Thank YOU! ❤

[@sydneymartin7638]

Love your KZbin channel! Just discovered you and binged so many of the beauty biographies - done so well! NC born and bred, too, but in KS for the last 40 years. Both sides of family from mom and dad in NC - it will always be home. The best of everything - mountains to the west and beaches to the east. I hear you! ❤

[@katherinebaer6798]

Oh my gosh! Just found your channel and have been enjoying it immensely. What a couple years you had, though. Talk about having too many balls in the air! Glad you came out the other side, stronger and with a new little boy. Kudos to you!

[@oxfordstyle5807]

Omg I had commented before you got to this part of the video, I CAN'T WAIT FOR BEAUTY BIOGRAPHY!!!!!!! SO HAPPY TO HEAR THIS! ❤❤❤❤

[@AshleyAye]

Yay! Thank you! I'm so excited you're excited!!! ❤

[@donnalemmon9037]

You are so beautiful inside and outside. You have the light of a woman of God. Prayers that He blesses you and your home always.

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much! You too 🥰

[@pyggme]

Lovely to have you back Ashley, and wow, what a year you've been through. Losing a friend is so much harder than people usually think. You are the only youtuber I follow besides "hair guru accounts" and I've missed hearing your stories and listening to you - the fire made it even more cozy. Also, love the super matching nails to that outfit! Take care ♥

[@jenniferdobyns8940]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I did miss your videos, and was hoping to see you again and so glad you are back. Congratulations on the birth of your son, enjoy these moments, they grow up so fast!

[@heathere9894]

What a lovely time by the fire! Always a “Like” thumbs up. ☺️ SUPER excited about Beauty Biography coming back.

[@AshleyAye]

Yay! Thank you! ❤

[@PBXVIILY]

Loved your bio on Lana Turner! Congratulations on your Sons birth. God Bless. Wonderful story. ❤

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much!🥰🥰

[@annahart521]

Constantly watching your videos and recommendations I thought many time that you should come back. Love to see you back. You are loved!

[@Justme77400]

I'm the same way. I LOVE the cold, cozy weather.

[@AshleyAye]

I’m REALLY missing the cold about now!!!

[@Justme77400]

@@AshleyAye I hear you. I count the days until Autumn.

[@kristypilip1971]

Thank you so much for the video!! I, too along with everyone else was wondering, where's Ashely??? Praying that everything was ok.......and congrats again on the healthy boy!! I lost a best friend of about 25 years about 3 years ago after a falling out, we were sister in laws and then best buddies. I dont think I'll ever get completely over it. As we get older, we do lose people...or maybe they lose us actually. So much to look forward too though!! I hope you feel more comfy with your utube "friends" we all love you Ashley!!!! xoxoxoxoxo

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much Kristy for the prayers and well wishes!!! 🥰 it’s so comforting to hear that others understand how hard it is sometimes to let go of friends!!! I’m in such a better place and so happy to be back!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@michellemoeller5358]

I just found your channel a couple days ago. And ive been bingeing for the last 2 days. I love your personality, style & content. So happy i found u.

[@ambersara]

Loved this video! So happy your baby boy came healthy! You make me want to visit north Carolina, you have the most amazing personality when you are talking I feel like I'm listening to a close friend 🩷

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much!! 🥰 that means the world to me!

[@heathersargent289]

You had me crying, that was an amazing QA . I'm a very empathetic person and also deal with anxiety so I can understand and relate to everything you said. I lived in NC for awhile when I was young the mountains are beautiful some magical and freeing being there but I lived in Myrtle Beach SC most of my life and I am definitely a beach girl. But the mountains and Beach are my 2 favorite places to be.

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you Heather! 🤍 I feel the same about the mountains and the beach - I could never live anywhere too far from either!!

[@erika.vieira]

Awe, so glad you're back Ashley! I enjoyed hearing your birth story too, sounds like it was a very rewarding yet scary experience! xoxoxo

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much Erika!! I hope you are doing well! 🥰 ❤️

[@leslieisaacs3080]

Coffee talk, hometown talks or beauty biography. I just enjoy spending time with you.

[@martyjones5750]

Hello..! I am a new follower.. my name is Marty ( short for Martha) and a grandmom five times over..You are a delight, and I envy your friends having you in their lives!✨❤.. I live on the eastern side of the Sierras so I totally understand how you feel.. if I don’t have a mountain top in my periphery, the world is just not right.. also, total old-movie buff.. Turner Classic Movies is my favorite! I learn so much there and I’ve learned so much from you already.. so happy to make your acquaintance🥰

[@katherinelove6910]

This was so nice! Like sitting and chatting with a sister. I’m also from the foothills of nc and lived in Raleigh after college for many years. I’ve just moved back to the mtns after being able to work from home so I know exactly how you feel! What a small world! ❤

[@AshleyAye]

Aww thank you!!! 🥰 and oh my gosh that’s too funny!!! I lived in Raleigh for a year (I went to State my freshman year of college) but then I missed the mountains (and my brothers) so much that I finished at App 😅 you’re right such a small world!!!

[@katherinelove6910]

@@AshleyAye too funny! I don’t blame you! Hopefully you’ll be able to make a trip down soon. ☀️

[@thingsbytheberk]

I appreciate you Ashley ❤️ what a wonderful video, thank you for sharing your story ❤️

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you Rachel!!! ❤️ it was tough to hit public on it but I felt like it could be positive for people to hear! I appreciate you so much!!!

[@yvonnerahmes9618]

So good to see you back! Always welcome here, love all the discussion, can't wait for whatever you choose to do here. I will try and follow you on instagram :). You are lovely as ever!

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much Yvonne!! So happy to see you here and appreciate your kind words so much 🤍

[@stacypoma7853]

So...when I watched one of your biography videos for the first time, I loved your content but I was annoyed by the makeup part of it. But I kept watching your biography video's because they were really good and interesting. But I now find myself using some of your make-up apply techniques, I feel like you are such a genuine and lovely person. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.

[@saelwo]

So glad you are back! And that you & your family are doing well! I’ve missed your videos especially the Beauty Biography ones. I’m from MS but NC is very special to me because I spent every summer during high school at Montreat for church camp, near Black Mountain/Asheville. More recently, I’ve attended an Outlander fan gathering in Ferguson every year since 2018 which doesn’t look very far from your hometown area. Through genealogy research I’ve discovered more ancestors that either lived in NC or were born there so I wonder if “genetic memories” have played a part as well. 💜

[@AshleyAye]

Oh my goodness!!! Ferguson is just one county over from where I'm from but my family has been in the mountains for generations so many of them lived in Wilkes County (where Ferguson is located). What a small world! I'm so glad you enjoy the area!! It's truly so beautiful. ❤ Thank you so much for welcoming me back! Beauty Biography will be back on March 31st and I'm excited to share it with everyone once again! ❤

[@saelwo]

@@AshleyAye It really is a beautiful place! There’s something about the mountains, the air, etc. I’m not familiar with the eastern part of the state yet but hope to change that in the next few years. There are a few historical locations that relate to the Revolutionary War I want to visit.

[@marjoriestclair]

You are an excellent mother. I hope that you know that lots of people’s relationships that broke down during the last two years. We made a decision not be vaccinated against Covid. We were defriended and maligned by many people we thought were close friends. So, we moved across the country to a more open state. Best decision ever. Anyway, feelings have been raw and understandably so. Now, several people we know have had strokes, turbo cancers, and the like… health problems. We are doing fine. We’ve made new friends. People were welcoming here. For whatever your reasons were for losing friendships, they weren’t friendships if you were judged harshly for no good reason….

[@auroremoth]

You are very sweet, kind and talented. We miss your videos, but above all we wish for you to be happy. ♥

[@cathychase663]

always wanted to see NC - I am from OR - it's gorgeous too- we are on volcanic beauty

[@ceecee7879]

Cawfee Tawks are the best! Your birth story……chills! Let’s just say WAAAY to close to my experience with my December baby 😬🙏🏼. (Who is now a grown man still my baby 😢)

[@ceecee7879]

Absolutely understand about the anxious go to person! So true

[@ceecee7879]

Blessed Mother is 100% my go to intercessions home girl 💙🤍

[@AshleyAye]

Awww CEE CEE ❤️❤️❤️ I adore you! Those December babies just put us through it I guess! 😅 I have no doubt this little boy will always be my baby too! the blessed mother 🙏🏻 I completely forgot to mention too that I had like a tiny saint blessed mother keychain I put on my hospital bag! That baby had divine protection every which way! 🙏🏻

[@rethabyrum2605]

Love your videos 😊. Fellow North Carolina girl here !

[@cathychase663]

I love iced coffee- your home is gorgeous

[@cathychase663]

I can relate to a lot of this.

[@oxfordstyle5807]

Wow, now I want to go to North Carolina, it looks so beautiful! I'm in Ontario though so the exchange rate isn't fab right now. OK, that's probably enough comments for one video ;)

[@UnapologeticallyShelley]

There’s a type of anxiety characterized by “catastrophizing” (yeah, not even sure it’s a real word and super hard to say). Basically, it’s where every worst possible scenario runs through your mind. In some ways, it does make you more prepared when things go bad, since you’ve already played out the scenario in your head. Once you’ve pictured it, it’s less likely to freak you out. 💕💕

[@AshleyAye]

Yessss! They call it 'coping ahead' in DBT (the therapy I use)! The 'catastrophizing' can be a really helpful tool when used to reduce the anxiety instead of amp it up! 💕 I use that word too so I hope it's real LOL

[@mariamastee4245]

I developed the skill of picking things with my toes when I was pregnant with my twin girls. Pretty neat!

[@oxfordstyle5807]

You sound so mature! I feel very similarly turning 30 and having my 3rd baby. Your pregnancy sounds like a nightmare 😢

[@AshleyAye]

Aw thank you!!! Congratulations on baby #3!!! ❤ It was a hard pregnancy but oh so worth it!

[@johnnybohemospotatoorchest2041]

i like Ashley. She's a feminist while remaining feminine and classy. She harks back to a different time. Hope she does many more videos. Oh, and she's funny too.

[@ameliaruth3538]

I just found you on KZbin 😢❤

[@ceceliataylor84]

❤❤❤!

[@kellywolfe5930]

I do believe in God and I think when things line up like that it's just confirmations sent from above to show you like look see im always with you. You definitely was going through so much oh my gosh that would be scary passing out while being pregnant that must have been terrifying for you and probably those around you too.. when I think back about having my son I was completely alone but out came this gorgeous beautiful baby and I felt so much love that I never felt before when I look down at him.. he was premature his umbilical cord got wrapped around his neck twice and his heartbeat was dropping so they had to go back up and twist it back around long story short it wasn't very hard time but that love us mothers have for their child is about as closes to the feeling of God I think we can have in that moment... I'm glad you're back and I'm sending out love to you and everyone else 💙💛❤💚💜

[@mordan4686]

God bless you ❤ love from Israel 💜

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you! 🥰🙏🏻 May God bless you also! 🤍

[@jackcrow3166]

I don’t know who you are but I hope you’re doing well

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you Jack! I am 😊 I hope you are well also!

[@jackcrow3166]

@@AshleyAye best wishes, darlin

[@MrsCroark]

You’re most useful skill sounds very much like Enneagram 6 super powers!

[@AshleyAye]

That makes sense!!! I’m always typed as a 6 or a 9 and they have SO much in common! I was once told that as a 6 grows they become more like a 9 so I always just read the stuff for both of them 🤣

[@megcormack681]

💙💙

[@AshleyAye]

🥰🥰

[@Thanxloveit]

💜🌸💕

[@patrice7p]

Yes, for Cancers is normal to recluse in order to grow, like a caterpillar 🫠 .You are not alone and you haven’t missed anything. I really respect you for doing this and staying true to you ❤️

[@AshleyAye]

Thank you so much! ❤