WINE SPILL w/ @joanday || dating an idol, brazilian waxing, fake friends

[@user-sq1ms7fb5b]

not joan telling us she doesn't recommend dating idols like we had a chance in the first place hajsjshsksjshs 💀

[@daisykim3674]

OMG 😭 💀 😭 💀

[@leen7704]

Lmao😭😭

[@22.7a5]

Frfr

[@dreendreen1137]

Facts 😂

[@whtwsht]

Me nodding along as if that was ever going to happen b😭

[@이세린-c8u]

You know it's serious when girls eat together and start talking, like ain't nothing stopping us from spilling TEA

[@joux.lhvs17]

So accurate lol! Girl dates = spilling teas 😂

[@kenzdomyuji8387]

yaaaaaaass

[@clairdelune4423]

🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵

[@joyceannvalera7131]

Can't helped ourselves 😅

[@vercas.1664]

Facts

[@rebeccadodd1394]

Ooh Joan's "I don't cry over guys." needs to be a t-shirt haha

[@karenkatequilat9881]

I AGREE!!

[@christinefrazier]

I would wear that shirt! 😆

[@AnaLivia-vy8og]

i NEED to know the korean version of the expression "too good for him" i just LOVED how it sounded

[@sakunaz25]

It's 아까워 (akkawo)

[@AnaLivia-vy8og]

@@sakunaz25 thank you

[@gatiuppal]

It literally means "it’s such a shame” that she’s with that person.

[@carlamaealcantara4200]

"I don't cry over guys." ~ Joan Kim, 2020

[@ntstm9387]

It has been month since you just wrote this _ but we nee to highlight it

[@pururu2703]

I truly admire Joan’s independence and impressed with Ashley’s live in the moment mindset. Im already 26 and feel pressured about the future and that stems from society’s expectation of women in a certain age to be in a stable relationship and eventually be married. I enjoyed these content, hopefully you’ll share more guys.

[@Nanana_Tonkats]

“Number 2 did that” HOW MANY IDOLS HAVE U DATED JOAN 😂

[@softygyeom]

OMG tho brazillian waxing is such a needed topic bc i think most young ladies or even teenagers want to try it but they dont know who to talk to or they are embarrassed to ask about it. so thank you for this!

[@prilailiu]

I love how it's called "brazillian waxing" when here in Brazil it's just called waxing bwahahaha

[@bali8619]

Lol haha

[@prilailiu]

@Caitlyn Davis thanks 😂

[@VamosMaquiar]

Né? Kkkk aqui é tão normal e no exterior o nosso tipo de depilação chega a ser polêmico

[@prilailiu]

@@VamosMaquiar hahaha, eu acho a coisa mais normal e os gringos falam como se fosse algo de outro mundo 😂

[@moonlightbae2879]

eh tipo montanha russa que na russia eh montanha americana KKKKKKK

[@ttc958]

I'm 30 and have never been happier. My life has only gotten better with age, my mental and physical health has never been better, im focusing on education and career.. It's great.

[@ttc958]

@@shandraelle it will get better my 20s were a depressing mess

[@ohyikes5743]

Thanks for this! I’m in my twenties and I find that as I advance in my career my anxiety just gets bigger. This makes me feel hopeful and somewhat comforted.

[@ttc958]

@@ohyikes5743 i worked a corporate job that gave me anxiety throughout my 20s. Had a mental breakdown, took the time do find my passions. Now i work and study in disaster management and environmental planning. I'm SO MUCH HAPPIER. Do what you need to do to make yourself happy. Life is so short, don't spend it miserably :)

[@congratulashuns]

PREACH

[@theserline1]

that’s so nice, I’m happy for you and hoping for better days for everyone :)

[@chloes5043]

I love how they are so different but respect each other's opinions. Girl friends goals 🧡🧡

[@medioreblatherskite]

Idk why knowing Ashley was/is secretly dating and it makes me hope other idols are happily dating and being a regular young adult

[@joanday]

🙈🙈🙈

[@vaanya5474]

XD

[@haseena1001]

Hey Joan - Aw you both have great personalities and a great friendship x 💖💖

[@maracestmoi]

Joan, you weren't kidding, im dying 2 know who u dated! LOL! I'm good with secrets! 🤐🙋‍♀️

[@fdinaatl]

Dang 언니 !!!! You really spill the real tea here !!! And kinda feels like u really wanted to spill like spill the real tea~ We really ready for that tho~ 🤭🤭🤭

[@pinkheartz123]

best duo over yall 💖

[@alliahrose2878]

This is so personal and juicier when you both following these two girls for a long time now. I'm just laughing and rolling my eyes together with them! These two are just so adorably fierce human beings! Love this!❤

[@chasingena4851]

I feel like Ashley as much as Joan have so much integrity in their respective fields that anyone not experiencing this on their own would need to be very mature, also pretty self-confident to not try to compensate within a relationship - which blows most guys in their 20s to dust in my experience. I'm just glad to see such a healthy friendship. I'm rooting for you both and I'm in for whatever the future holds. Cheers to you. 🧡

[@ValeTicket]

I love how natural, relatable and honest Ashley is, I'm obsessed with Get Real and her channel. Excited to stan any project she starts uwu.

[@fremmenista]

Loved the in-depth conversation especially about hair removal. That's the kind of stuff I love listening too! LOL

[@vikcatilhoon]

what i learned from this video: never date someone who doesnt pass ashley's vibe check

[@moonie1145]

When it comes to boys and dating I can say that I've never experienced the feeling of wanting to have someone to depend on, it is more like wanting to have someone on whom you can rely and genuinely trust them knowing that they truly respect you and want only the best for you.

[@dreamer9757]

Exactly!!!

[@shirleyvs]

This made me realize how special my relationship with my bestie is. It’s been 6-7 years now & this is exactly how it is with us. I love you both !!

[@이세린-c8u]

I'll never get tired of of saying it : yours and joan friendship is very precious 🥺💌

[@InternetStranger902]

I really related to a lot of these talks. I'm just entering my late 20s and have been living alone during the pandemic. A lot of my female friends are in stable relationships but I'm one of the few people who's still single. It was nice to hear the conversation of 2 people who are still trying to figure out relationship stuff. ☺️ I wish I could come to Korea one day and meet both of you! Stay healthy. ♥️

[@wennessa94]

You are not alone girl! I’m also entering the late 20s stage where everyone is either having stable relationships or getting married and buying houses, investing and expanding their career. During the pandemic I’m also working far away from home and staying alone and that made me to feel even more vulnerable and helpless. I’m the only few ones that’s still single (my entire life) lol but tbh previously I don’t really care. It’s just that for the passed one year I’m starting to feel the adulthood is real. Because of that I kinda had a pretty bad relationship experience and from there I started to learn to love myself more. Just know that you are pretty, you are enough, you are strong. ❤️

[@bilgeozdemir7575]

I love both of you and everybody who are living alone! It’s not an easy job. But I’m really proud that many of us feeling the power in them. Those who want to have stable relationships, marriage I hope every good thing comes soon 💖 I hope the worst day we live is passed already 🤍

[@lunae12]

We are in the same boat sis 👌🏻

[@InternetStranger902]

@@wennessa94 it sounds like you're maturing beautifully. Life is all about going through painful experiences and coming out better on the other side. If you're ever feeling lonely just know you have a friend here on KZbin that you can reach out to at any time :) ♥ and with the rest of Ashley's beautiful community as well. I'm so happy knowing we can all support each other! Stay healthy and keep fighting for your happiness. 🤗 ❤️

[@shandraelle]

I'm 30 now. still single. when in my culture, the girl in my age get married, have a kids, have a settle life. me ? just like this. sometimes I'm feeling down but sometimes just let it flow. btw sorry for my bad English 🙇‍♀️😬

[@hanelyaaa]

chicken + wine + girl talk is seriously the best combination ever!

[@Bibibeans]

This was soooo good. This was so relatable as well, because I'm 26 years old, and there's so much I don't know about regarding life and what I want for myself, and see for myself in the future. Your 20s are a rollercoaster honestly. Felt like I was having a wine night with girlfriends ahah. Ashley please do a video on your 7 year contract, that would be so interesting. Stay safe and healthy ya'll 💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@lynaheartbeat1919]

“I don’t cry over guys” YASS JOAN WE NEED TO HEAR THAT SAY IT OUT LOUD! but you two do more videos like this please.

[@joannagrace9305]

Joan: "I don't cry over guys" Yasss sizz! Hahahha strong independent woman ❤

[@laveu3364]

i really love how honest this was and how you weren’t afraid of mentioning some of the more “awkward” topics

[@itsciarajames]

I didn’t know how much I needed this! It’s hard because I moved to a new area and none of my girls are here with me! And quarantine makes it hard to meet new people. 🤦🏾‍♀️ But having a glass of wine with y’all was super fun. Thanks for doing this. 💛

[@faricsyung]

when i was younger i thought i'd have a career and my own family at 35. now in my late 30's, i'm still wondering what am i doing with my life or if i'm doing it right. most of my friends have settled down and have 2 kids at least. lol. i think life will happen anyway? it's good to plan and have goals but at the same don't beat yourself up too much if you suddenly have to change course. it might be nice to have your own family at this age but if you're single, it also means you can treat your parents more with your earnings and spend more time with them. just try to make the best with what you're given. ❤️

[@abbyl4621]

I feel like it's better for people to do things in their own time. There's so much pressure as an adult to be at a certain point depending on your age. I hate it bc I'm in my early 20s and working, but it's not what my parents consider a career so they think I'm on the path to being a loser. Personally I feel like I still have time and don't need to rush

[@faricsyung]

@@abbyl4621 you're right. you're still young and have the time to figure out what you want to do in the long run. :) i hope your parents will eventually understand your view.

[@geekdiggy]

did the hotel charge you guys extra for the tea all over the floor? the only thing juicier than this video was that chicken.

[@ashleybchoi]

LOOOL

[@navi3430]

LMAOOO

[@DocJoanaviMiranda0829]

there will be "that" guy who will not get scared with how independent and strong you are, Joan. I found one and I have always related to you because of your personality. So yes, there are still few real Men out there who is strong enough to accept that we are such powerful women. I love this video, such a mature and deep conversation.

[@bubuyognapusa]

Now one of my motto and goal in life is "Never cry for a guy" . I'm so agree with this ! Don't ghost and play games cause we are all older now its so immature. I love this kind of video 💖💕🍵. With all the staff girls always wanted to talked about but some can't. Stay safe Ashley and Joan💕

[@filmsandcamera9584]

i really love this topic because right now im lost. i have many plans before but now i dont have a guts to pursue those plans. i just realize that enjoying what you have is much more important than pushing yourself too hard just to achieve your goals. just do what makes you happy and always treasure those people who were with you through thick and thin of your lives. thank you so much joan and ashley. you both are amazing people. it really helps me a lot and i will continue to watch your videos coz i learned a lot watching it. Keep safe. Fighting.

[@rebeccadodd1394]

I wish I could like this video more than once, I love seeing you guys talking like this. Those deep conversations with friends where you talk about anything and everything always feel so comforting and freeing but it's been a while since I got to have one ;_; so I appreciate you sharing this with us

[@lizytang806]

omg ashley and joans friendship is goals

[@briesulit]

Love sit down style vlogs. Hopefully “Girl Talk” become a series in your channel. 💕

[@alicia4830]

I have just turned 21 so this is like having a real conversation with my big sisters. I grew up with 3 older brothers and I lost all my girl friends from highschool when I moved away from home. So just watching this video makes me feel comfortable & happy to have women like me who can talk about stuff like this. I appreciate everything you share ❤️❤️

[@iselaaguirre2379]

As a fellow Scorpio, let me just say, Scorpio women are strong and Independent . So it takes a strong and mature man to get us to want to see our lives with them long term. Not to mention we have a BS radar, we just won’t put up with it. We can be brutally honest when we see fit. Love you both!!!

[@todayiglowup4286]

im a scorpio and im not independent or strong at all HAHAAH

[@ViscousDom]

Zodiac signs aren’t even accurate. I’m not a Scorpio but I’m just as strong and independent.

[@phhmrkrmshn]

i have never imagined this kind of talk from the celebrities i mean this is so reallllll! and i enjoy it so muchhh thank you for sharing these experiences to us

[@SonyaSun]

Joan and Ashley are like the best duo ever, I always love it when they're in each other's vlogs!

[@stephaniewen7493]

Omg this type of girl talk is soooo good!!! Please do more of this type of videos in the future. Love you two so much!

[@strawmariii6761]

Ashley, the way you’re not worried about your future and just being spontaneous in life is such a “P” personality. That’s what perceivers are. You’re definitely an ENFP.

[@oopziedaizy]

oh god when joan said we weren't ready for this, she was totally right or at least i wasn't 😂

[@erniealmelia8536]

I really love the friendship of Joan and Ashley

[@Jennn460]

You both deserve so much better in romantic relationships. It’s great you guys have one another! This is friendship goals!

[@AndreaGonzalez-qf1cw]

something I heard that'd probably help someone: "some days you have bad hair days, some days you can have bad body days so the least you could to your body is respect it"

[@Hohoimate]

I GET SO EMOTIONAL WATCHING THIS VIDEO OF HOW MUCH YOU GUYS GET ALONG SO WELL AND SO TRUE TO YOURSELF. It hurts more because I don’t have anyone whom I could do these things like you guys do . Tears just roll down.

[@hazelabayon7443]

My saturday night is completed because of this saranghae ashley 🥺💖

[@kunoichiflower]

Real talk by real ass women!! I love this so much! I'm a new viewer and I've been gradually seeing some of your videos. Love the content and your personality! I love that young women get to see authentic content and see themselves through you both. A lot of what you've both shared resonated with me so much and affirmed how I feel about myself as a single 24 year old woman

[@juliey818]

This just reminded me of the late night talks with my besties

[@ginaverso]

*These two lovely ladies should do live streaming together or something, but regularly, not just once in a while. I want more girl talks like this. It’s not mere gossip, it’s Girl Talk. I’m really loving it.* *This is the thing: Joan + Ashley Girl Talk is the girl-friend stuff that I need in my life.* ❤️

[@MariaSokolArt]

OMG, that was the most enjoyable rent to watch ever! I am so like Ashley, she resembles me in a lot of things, and Joan is sooooo much like my BF! I miss her so much after watching this. Those times when we spent time, drinking wine and spilling tea about boys, our struggles, and dreams :) Your friendship is special!

[@maracestmoi]

1 of the most legit vids I've seen so far... and 2 of the most authentic and coolest girls I wanna meet and have in my life. that's just a wish tho. 😅 cheers to your beautiful friendship Ash x Joan! 🥂🤗🤗

[@berracetiner6713]

"i dont cry over guys" joan girlll u snapped

[@paige1114]

Both of you are truly such wonderful and admirable people, there is so much to love about you guys as an individual and even together, your friendship is so genuine and pure! Take care and stay happy, thank you for such a lovely video!!

[@MarintiaEiko]

This is my third time watching this🥺 Please make wine talks a series

[@lisa-vw1bp]

this was so nice to watch!! i'm always stressing about my future and how it will turn out but u just made me more relaxed and also it's so nice to see independent women

[@livelikecactus3732]

I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR IT SINCE YOUR LAST VLOGG AND JOAN TEASING AT THE COMMENT SECTION WAS MAKING ME WAIT EVEN HARDER AND ANXIOUS-ER 😂😂😂😂😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@lo97ve]

omggg the maturity and vibes from this video!!! i really loved this video and would love to see it more:)

[@omysparkles]

Sounds like Joan needs a more mature man who is as emotionally stable as she is. too bad she likes younger boys, that’s when the fighting is fun hehe

[@Ro-cp8uf]

Fun for Who?

[@mmt1575]

@@Ro-cp8uf for the younger boys

[@Ro-cp8uf]

@@mmt1575 sounds exhausting.

[@davida6146]

Wait she's a cougar!? That's sooo hot 🔥 😍

[@PinkieMilkie]

this is my favorite video from both of you, I really enjoyed the honest and chill talk ✨

[@pawee22]

THIS IS THE BEST! Imma buy a bottle of wine and rewatch this with my girlfriends hahahaha

[@tulip-avenue6659]

Omg i love this I’ve been waiting since the last time the joan and eddy talk

[@celinesunrise]

I've never really into qna but this video is just really interesting. Just because it's joan and ashley tbh😏💞

[@jessixyooj]

Serious we need more of these girl chat videos with wine...I feel like I’m part of the discussion!!!!! Love it

[@abigailabraira2852]

When they were talking about their age and kids, it was so relatable because I'm the same age as them 😭

[@runbibirun]

I love the relationship you and Joan have. Even it is a public vlog where you both can't be 100% open what is totally understandable - we all can feel more connected to you and feeling part of this girls staycation ❤❤❤

[@violetamizrahi9527]

“We’re old don’t do that” is my life motto lol

[@isabelaaguilar7394]

As someone in their mid twenties this was sooo refreshing and interesting to hear! I loved the perspective that you guys have about being independent but still thinking about depending on someone. This was really fun and I want an episode 2!!!!!! Ashley x Joan podcast pls 💖🔥

[@Hmmapayagataudehh]

I really love their friendship😍

[@paulinepagaduan7486]

I've been waiting for this video haha definitely worth the wait. I love all the tea and I love how feel empowered as a woman every time I watch both of you. Love you, girls!

[@juhiranisingh7464]

This kinda friendship is litt . Damn I wish I had more girlfriends but most of them turn into snakes later 😂

[@thaipink2295]

that's kinda sad 😭😭 but I hope you cut them of

[@juhiranisingh7464]

@@thaipink2295 yesss I did . Only allowing selective people now into my life

[@miawstay2727]

Juhi Rani Singh would love to be your friend you sound cool

[@itsmeaubrey]

Girk we are meant to have 3-4 close friends in life, i am fine with that. When they started slipping away, i got tired and just let it be 🤣

[@bluefeels]

Or even sharks lol

[@folkloredreaming]

SO EXCITED FOR THISSSS!!! LOVE U ASHLEY 🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@hindfathi4867]

Its soo fascinating to me how people are the same EVERY WHERE...the fact that I can completly relate to every things those beautiful ladies just said all the way in south korea while sitting in my room in sudan in africa is truly the miricale of the internet😅

[@3407km]

being human in the beginning makes it same at the first place right :)

[@jeidanour]

The girl talk I've been craving for... I admire you girls.

[@lunagrg8059]

I am not surprised that Joan dated a celebrity because some insider said that the idols we think are like not dating are actually dating influencers anyway love ya two🤍

[@murshcosain9620]

this is a banger aaaa i so love this girl talk oh my gosh 🖤

[@alliahrose2878]

I'm Ashley when Joan told "married...to you" HAHAHAHAHA I LOVE THESE TWO HAHAHA

[@leanar.8141]

Man this girl talk is juicccyyy! I love it!

[@jackiemayshiervo]

I've been waiting for this.

[@何凤眠]

finally a girl talk video with fellow scorpios👏🏽 the older sister vibes are strong in this one

[@IllaLuna17]

Girl you are breaking the hearts of those delusional girls who think dating idols would be a fairy tale. Please make a video of this deeply. Like interview friends (who are okay with it of course) about the experiences of dating a idol. Because in my head I think it would be a hassle hahaha like they will be more high maintenance, very into themselves. Like models, like I talked to a few and 99 percent were so into themselves only one was so down to earth and he was so super hot. He was very friendly and never took out convos to flirting.

[@animenightwalker]

I appreciate the girl talks as someone with not a lot of older girls to talk to for advice 🥺

[@devinazurenoona2851]

I am twelve years older than both of you. I never had this kind of conversation with anyone. It was really fun.

[@cherijuu]

I think this is the best, most tasteful dating-a-celeb/idol reveal ever.

[@sugarmilk28]

Joan: I don't cry over guys Queen!👑👌🏼 These two are like sisters 🤜🏼🤛🏼

[@samantha7966]

I love these girl talk videos between you two! More of them please :)

[@wallaby1266]

it's the way Joan almost choked on her drink when Ashley said penetrate for me lmaoooooo

[@frangconna3265]

This is feels like girls talk so much and its so cool you guys can make the audiences involved in this

[@cinnabom]

Poor Joan. Sounds like the first one wasn’t an actual relationship. She was getting played. She was the only one who thought they were together.

[@BT-hx7kx]

this was such a good video, you guys just being comfortable and talking to each other was so cute we loved the tea and the honesty and advice

[@fairuzu]

literally was waiting for this to come out since your last vlog! I am so happy thx for posting! Love you Ashley and Joan#ASHthetic

[@ayakantra1325]

OMG HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VID SINCE I WATCH YOURS AND JOAN’S STAYCATION VLOG!!!!

[@carastorme4026]

I like joan's braid/twist style, very pretty

[@beyonceumah5616]

the tea that was spilled in this video IMMACULATE

[@pikapikapowpow]

okay but the chicken looks DELICIOUS!!

[@mariarita7060]

I loved this format!! I really enjoy watching videos like this one and you guys give off the best vibe! It is fun to watch and be like "oh girl, same!". Hope to see more videos like this in the future, lots of love from Brazil! ;)

[@hilda6115]

Omg i never thought joan dated celebrity. I'm so curious who is he? Joan, i thought same way, man scared with independent women.

[@dontmindme9654]

Junoflo

[@sweetlikemochispicylikewas1099]

@@dontmindme9654 How did you know ?

[@엘라이-c8z]

Don't Mind Me she dated 2 celebs.. i wonder who the 1st one 😂

[@SuSu-jm8kt]

Don't Mind Me is he even an idol???? Never heard of him

[@엘라이-c8z]

Su Nguyen rapper, from show me the money

[@tinepintor]

ASHLEY I LOVED THIS VIDEO SM! Please do more segments like this 😍

[@imyourfullsun2964]

now joan, that mysterious bf will forever haunt me ksksskskks