Asian brides for sale | 101 East

[@rose2dimples]

I'm vietnamese and I feel sorry for these girls. My parents were really focused on me getting an education and a good job.

[@Jimmylad.]

Can I ask do these girls know what there doing is a bit weird or is it kind of accepted in Vietnam.

[@marieboyd521]

Their should be some rules that if the husband is abuser.The wife should have rights ro divorce the husband.Instead of murdering them.

[@dinil5566]

@@Jimmylad. people from poor background just wants to get out of poverty. They just don't think much usually...

[@jingyun4323]

A lot of these foreign brides experience domestic violence as they have no rights. Sad.

[@marycanary86]

what baffles me about men anywhere in the world is how theyll meet a mordern, sensible girl, fall in love with her, think shes brilliant enough to marry her and then immediately chain her to the stove and expect her to be the opposite of the person they fell in love with....

[@joshfitz1055]

Sounds like you've had bad luck🤔

[@christopherwhippy3181]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@honeyhunters6055]

Bad luck dear 😆😅🤣

[@luciaschieffer8958]

i think you are totally right.

[@amybarn9251]

They are not in love. They just want a slave. Good on Korean women for fighting back, I chose education and career as well, I wasn't interested in this sick game

[@tinydough8746]

14:21 "Some Korean men think of their foreign wife as a possession" This sentence right here should make some people who think that Korean woman have high standards rethink again. It's not that they have high standards, it's just that Asian men tend to treat their wives like objects that they own. I don't think anyone wants to be treated like an object that can be pushed/bossed around right? It's just sad.

[@billoakes4475]

A husband that commits one act of abuse will do it again over and over. Walk away the moment one abusive behaviour happens.

[@lidiagizaw3828]

She's in a Foreign Country where she doesn't speak the language , has no family or money where do u want her to run to? I Swear some of u are idiots

[@zamiranoh82]

There's no problem if anyone would like to marry a foreigner, especially from a different ethnicity as it will improve the gene pool. However, it is not right for anyone (be it a man or woman) to marry someone and treat them as a possession. They're not a tool or thing but in fact, someone who's willing to share their life with them. I feel so bad for the lady who wanted to further her study. Who said that education is only for man? It's for everyone, regardless of the gender.

[@ramon3960]

When you say being with someone of a different ethnicity as it will "improve the gene pool" can you define "improve the gene pool"? Which ethnicity you are referring to?

[@richardbowers3647]

A poem titled 'The Joy.' The joy the boy sees Is in the face of the girl From her day. Time moves all along for both to share. When their lives endures the spark The two savor that time. Joy & spark are forever one.

[@jokbok995]

@@ramon3960 all etniticies My biology teacher said that's it ms actually better to mix with ethnicities than to just do it with your own you could say

[@szilvialakatos1519]

ZNoh I agree with u I just say it simply it’s SAD for me it’s especially weird because they are buying their wife if I was a man I wouldn’t buy my wife to me it’s weird but u definitely deserve more likes on ur comment because ur right

[@szilvialakatos1519]

stephen kroll I would say the wife who wants the money as a women I love the fact that I have a beautiful life with my husband and kids I also respect him for having a good job but I’d definitely not cry or beg for him to always wash me with money I couldn’t but again between women there are plenty out there that want only that which to me is not nice at all

[@tinydough8746]

I wouldn't want to marry an old, unattractive, controlling guy who expects me to take care of all his chores, and his parents.. To the men in the comment section, would you want to marry an old, unattractive, controlling FEMALE who expects you to do all the household chores, and makes you take care of her parents? No? Didn't think so...

[@flingshot3550]

Then dont. Easy

[@petxx8155]

Would you marry ME?...maybe I'm too old for you(?) but I AM VERY ATRACTIVE, VERY STYLISH, I LOVE FASHION, I USED TO BE MALE FASHION MODEL, NOW I OWN TWO SHOPS (BOUTIQUES), TWO CARS & 1 BIKE, 1 BIG HOUSE NEAR THE BEACH & 1 APARTMENT DOWN TOWN IN D CITY (NEAR D CASINOS), I NEVER GOT MARRIED B4, NO CHILDREN'S, LOVE NIGHT LIFE, LOVE TO HAVE DINNER OUT EVERY DAY, I LOVE STYLISH & BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AND I AM A GOOD FINANCIAL PROVIDER!!...but...i have 1 problem...I DON'T LIKE YOU!! Period. 😈😈

[@alvaropena5540]

Well, along with the expectation of having to care for the person you're marrying, there is also the expectation that you won't have to have a real job, and all your needs will be met i.e. housing, clothing, utilities, oh yeah and FOOD.

[@realitybites2035]

NO thats why i went to another country in asia and found my perfect love

[@michaelo8622]

There's a difference between guys and girls. Guys want to be the provider, and biologically, they can have children at an older age than women, so an older guy and a younger girl makes sense biologically. Emotionally, it works out if they both love each other and treat each other nicely.

[@cheesygirl3908]

Honestly just by looking at these men and their personality I can see why they r having problems finding a wife

[@sarathkumarmulugurthi9206]

And whats wrong with having that personality? Not everyone is extrovert or flirty. To make it worse men have to approach women all the time. Even though i am good looking i have never been approached by women looking for a date or what not.

[@petxx8155]

Woooauuu CheesyGirl, your comment is really "cheesy"!! You CAN SEE PPLS PERSONALITY just by reading comments?? Woooauuu...that's a RISKY MISSION!! Let me put this way: HAVE U EVER APPROACHED A GUY (MAN) TELLING HIM "HEYYY...I WANT YOU"??...INSTEAD OF KEEPING YOURSELF SEATED ON YOUR "FEMALE THRONE" HOLDING THAT TYPICAL LOGO "IF U WANT ME, COME & CATCH ME"?! FEMALE PERSONALITY is simply ASTONISHING, isn't it??😨

[@jayk2027]

@@petxx8155 tell her bruh

[@petxx8155]

@@jayk2027 😂😂SHE WILL NOT GET IT, bro!!😂👍👍

[@petxx8155]

@@hellosunnymorning do u mean MAN??😨

[@diblik]

So they want a perfect wife that would take care of the in-laws and do everything at home... but they get miffed about being asked if they have a steady income and looks to match hers...

[@keiththurman1045]

The lies of feminism spread like wildfire

[@robertrowan7477]

Ya like the women make $4000 a month............

[@Ikajo]

@@jbsc97 One man literally said he thought Korean women were too headstrong. Too independent. No wonder the women reject men like that.

[@ADG-pl7ur]

@@Ikajo What he's saying is that these women want to wear the pants in the marriage please understand or stay single

[@Ikajo]

@@ADG-pl7ur Women wants to be equal to their men. Not baby-making servants. You are quite an idiot if you can't grasp that concept. And _I_ am a woman myself. I rather stay single the rest of my life than live with someone who won't view me as equal. Thankfully I live in one of the most equal countries in the world.

[@MountainPig88]

I speak Vietnamese and many of the clips used while interviewing the Vietnamese women doesn't match with the english translations. For example, the 19-year-old was talking about how her "husband wants a son and she wants a daughter, so they laugh about that, etc.", but the english translator was talking about how she was worried her marriage wouldn't work out. I don't know where they are getting these sound bites from, but they should at least show the clip of the woman saying those things, unless they're just making these brides say whatever they want the news piece to say.

[@RaymondLo84]

That's what we called FAKE news ...

[@crodo123]

this is why i dont believe in documentaries anymore they just show you what they want and absolutely push an agenda.

[@arnonabuurs7297]

its all bullshit, i live in Thailand and china for over 10 years and still arent maried hahahaha

[@jeezosdude867]

Every news lies

[@sethkritarth]

I am not surprised, they probably say whatever they want to make everything sound more grave/ supporting their story. They know that their main audience (US, Canada, UK, Europe, Australasia) doesn't care about these people or the real issues, they just want to see how the rest of the world (Asia, Africa) is always doing bad things. Talking about how bad other places are gives them a false sense of superiority. Very rarely would you see Aljazeera or a wester controlled TV channel doing a positive story about Asia or Africa.

[@addyphoenix2655]

these men will treat these poor women "brides" like slaves. after all they bought them through these agencies, they gotta get their money's worth. this is really sad.

[@laviebanale]

addy phoenix Korean men are very macho and sexist.

[@addyphoenix2655]

lavie maintenant i wudnt particulary call them “macho” but surely sexist.

[@taypuppy30]

@@addyphoenix2655 they can be very possive to, so imagine this situation Lol i would die

[@aryanrahul4417]

You will know andy you have a purchase bride

[@reeer9121]

@@laviebanale mαchσ??? umm nσ...thєч αrє uglч mídgєtѕ😂😂😂

[@LiamNoir]

Sang Won Park: (translated from my understanding) "I'm afraid of strong women and their expectation that I should be a decent partner.". Men, stop looking for someone to both look after your mother for you and be your new mother. Grow up and be a person of your own like the women have already done.

[@vijayabhanuthyagarajan7191]

The mindset is prevailed in few eastasian countries indian men too hv tht mindset

[@ahyarhartanto1802]

in my country, it's usually the younger child who supposed to live in take care of the parents, and not the daughter in-law, we also have stereotype that mother in-law usually give pressure to the daughter in-law, thus making many new couple wanted to move out from their family houses as soon as they get married lol

[@spacesuit9354]

Simp

[@jonam7589]

that shows you are stuck in your anglo-saxon culture and have no idea about the asian cultures. You really cannot preach them since there is no connection.

[@candieland4276]

"I like young girls haha" ....yeah, maybe watch that guy...😦

[@livinglovinR]

Agreed!

[@asands123]

the younger the better he said, what a creep

[@JustJenni07]

😨😨😨😨

[@cocaman1345]

OG trough and through 😂

[@LifeofMinna]

theyre nagging on the korean women for choosing husbands based on income.... while choosing women based on beauty and youth. all these dusties always trying to talk women down from the standards they cannot meet. poor underprivileged women having to face these sacrifices and put up with these bums ... stay strong sisters lol

[@reeer9121]

Mina nσt σnlч thαt thєѕє αѕѕhσlєѕ wαnt wσmєn undєr 25 вєcαuѕє thєч thínk wσmєn σvєr 25 αrє unαttrαctívє αnd αrє ínfєrtílє.

[@bskyline9224]

тrυтн ѕeeĸer ....whilst they are on their 40s. MEN’s AGE ALSO EFFECTS BIRTH DEFECTS YOU LOSERS!!!!!!

[@LifeofMinna]

@rugssean who said anything about career Mr incel?

[@LifeofMinna]

@@reeer9121 😁👍😆

[@reeer9121]

@@LifeofMinna 🙊

[@acolley2891]

It's all about ego. They would get along fine with a Korean woman but they want a woman that they can look at as being beneath them. Someone who they "saved" and owes them something. Those children are so pretty

[@MrBenHaynes]

Interesting hypothesis Ms Colley. I wonder for what percentage of unions that this rings true? Yes mixed marriage children are pretty (and healthy/resilient). I have a couple of Eurasian teenage boys myself. It's enjoyable to see both races in them although it did cause some identity issues in their younger years (as they were viewed as westerners by asians, and asians by westerners)

[@AryanSharma-jw6iv]

Same goes for the women too ig, there are comparatively less number of women then men their and obviously they don't make compromises cause they have choices, so the left over guys also need someone in their life too.

[@tnguyen777]

My wife is korean and I’m Vietnamese. So I’m doing it backwards...😂

[@Thienle92]

It must had been a steep hill climb but you did it. my man xD

[@cheesepie2989]

You must be rich. LOL

[@tnguyen777]

Cheese Pie actually I met her my senior year in high school. She was a junior and the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I was poor and she had a money. Our first 6 years together I was dirt poor 😂. She treated me second to god. She never asked me for anything. She pushed me to be better. We built everything together. Been poor and broke together. Today we own 2 separate businesses and have 6 kids. I’m putting 3 kids through college. I worked harder then everyone else because I love her and want the best for her.

[@Thienle92]

@@tnguyen777 You've found a unicorn

[@tnguyen777]

TN thank you I feel very blessed 🙏. Yeah I got lucky. I married my first love. It’s been 26 years. Some good years and some bad. She is my strength and my hero

[@alldaymori1]

I'm fine with this type of arrangements as long as the men take care and respect the women. That is how you make multiculturalism work.

[@joshuacollins7398]

My girlfriend is Filipina and we respect each other. She is independent. I am Afro-Panamanian-american. We share the household work. She is 33 and I am 36 years old.

[@joshuacollins7398]

@Ghana Gone Gondar I am just me. Lol. I lived by myself for awhile. So I would have to clean and maintain my house.

[@tierradeluciernagas4500]

Filipinas go for anything except their own they want money

[@tierradeluciernagas4500]

Don't let her close to any white man you will be sorry jaja

[@shauncameron8390]

@@tierradeluciernagas4500 And a Visa to GTFO the Philippines.

[@Honestandtruth007]

Joshua Collins.... That's perfect matched. What a lucky dog you are 👍👍😅

[@satinsangel1688]

Heaven forbid a woman actually thinks for herself, no no, can't have that! 🙄🙄🙄

[@MrGianoulos]

She is his property. Do what he says.

[@KOLAkola]

satinsangel1688 right they want a stupid naive wife hence wanting younger women

[@livinglovinR]

Yup. These scrubs can't afford to have a woman from their own country cause they're the leftovers.

[@pgum123gonowplayread4]

@@MrGianoulos Its supposed to be a negotiation and agreement , not a being a fudging tool

[@mindfortress105]

Working out great in USA

[@anna_1857]

I like how they keep on mentioning how korean women should look at a man’s personality instead of their income but they keep on mentioning about the brides being young and pretty

[@Dovexbeloved]

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[@QWERTYUIOP-dh6qk]

"to collect his new bride" the narrator herself is somehow... hm...

[@sasorishino]

Yep, that also ringed a bell to me.

[@AryanSharma-jw6iv]

Nope😂

[@manuelmoraleda9684]

A round trip ticket that's good for 5 years should be part of the marriage contract. Why stay unhappy. The government should stay on top of this and be concerned for the bride, not just the fees earned and remittances. Physical and mental exams for both parties without exceptions. Please note that there are guys and some gals who should never get married; that's OK too. What's not OK is when the other party's life is miserable or worse is ended.

[@shadowangel8005]

They do in Australia to an extent. They check to see if they have enough money on there own rights to get home.

[@manuelmoraleda9684]

@@jbsc97 Common sense based mental exam is what I'm referring to - Would you want this person to marry your sister ? Ask him on how would he deal with disagreements. What would each other expect ?

[@Lorisa25]

"I can't find a wife! they all want me to make real money & have expectations for themselves" What a hard life HA!

[@jellyrun1]

soon they will find out that woman are not worth the effort....:)

[@user-qr7eb1sf3l]

jellyrun1 neither are broke men

[@thecutbeautii3399]

@@user-qr7eb1sf3l *round of applause*

[@Bolgavets]

The Korean men were mentioning that Korean women have unrealistic expectations / standards. Its similar in the U.S. He mentioned how Korean women expect the man to earn $4,000 / per month but that only a minority of men earn that much in Korea. The more average income for men after 10 years experience in a career would be around $2,000 / month. You completely ignored that and instantly attacked the men as if they are lazy and incompetent. Try to put yourself in their shoes next time before throwing judgement.

[@Bolgavets]

@@user-qr7eb1sf3l Neither are women who are so superficial they can't see beyond the $$$. Not worth any man's time.

[@lenitaa7938]

Deciding to marry within 2 days of meeting is very superficial! There is no way you can know about each other in such a very short time!

[@giovannibez9509]

it would be interesting to know their situation now after 10 years

[@MUSICSTATIONBAND]

in Philippines The Bride and Groom share everything. including cooking, child care, work.

[@oldrichsterboholly8699]

In phillipines people eats pagpag the garbage food in pilipines parents sell their own childre to abusers dont bring philipines here my friend is one of the worst countries and nations ever. Shame on pinoy

[@arariche5423]

Only the very poor eat left overs from resto and no stable job.There are a lot of worst country in this world not only one.

[@AsianSP]

@@oldrichsterboholly8699shut up moron! every country has a good and bad side.. koreaboo!

[@leon-lm2ph]

Thats sound healthier than it being one sided

[@beverlyledbetter4906]

I guess that's why the Korean women don't want to marry them; they know what their men are like!

[@mirang9884]

As a Vietnamese I keep trying to hear what the women said under the translation. Also, marrying a foreigner, especially a Korean/ American husband is somewhat an inside joke for Vietnamese people for what I know. Thank you for shedding some light on these marriages.

[@Jimmylad.]

What do you mean it’s an inside joke?

[@mirang9884]

@@Jimmylad. it's something people might joke about that's kind of hinting "I'm/She's gonna get out of here and be rich"

[@steppenfuchs5608]

13:09 basically confessing he wants a breeder not a companion or girlfriend. This behaviour makes me sick 🤢

[@jasonb9652]

Really?? Everyone has preferences. Much like girls that want 'tall, dark and handsome' or an income of $4k a month before they will even look at you. Or are those preferences okay??

[@supersagarsagar]

@@jasonb9652 apparently according to this women only they can have preference

[@beverlyledbetter4906]

These guys actually expect their wives to be virgins?? Makes me wonder what the deal is with all the actresses and kpop tarts; there's no way that those women are virgins!

[@user-qr7eb1sf3l]

Irresponsible for a woman who is looking to start a family to not seriously consider the man’s income first

[@hyojeongyoon9323]

There is always reason why these Korean guys fail to find Korean woman.

[@missrayelyn3045]

I see why the women don't want them. They act very entitled.

[@keiththurman1045]

stephen kroll Korean men , now more than ever, need an emergency dose of mgtow

[@ADG-pl7ur]

@stephen kroll So what, who cares what other people think, they need to grow some balls

[@MrSaiLikesPie]

The problem is never one sided. A lot of Korean women are greedy and shallow. My friends korean girlfriend told me exactly that.

[@fbyi2940]

@Memcha Laishram isn't wife is gonna be momma after the marriage?

[@gaiadove]

Do the men look at the women’s personality and not her age or beauty? Didn’t think so. So what that her standards began with money? If you want kids, you need money.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

Yep.

[@wowso4]

Exactly

[@YoutubeModeratorsSuckMyBalls]

It never was about personality, who told you such s..t? It always was about beauty. It is true for both men and women

[@melaninairekween3866]

Did he really say "the younger the better" 👀

[@Mudig]

Is there a problem with that? Men are fertile well passed their 60s while women lose it in their late 30s early 40s. It's called biology.

[@Holistic_angst64]

@@Mudig yeaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh that's a bit creepy. Sounds like he wants a breeder

[@kellycarlson1716]

Amen! God bless you!

[@f.m.m6706]

@@Mudig lol bullshit, men’s peak reproductive abilities also spiral down. Still producing sperm does not mean it’s high quality sperm. Older men produce sperm with a greater potential for mutation and genetic defects.

[@mindfortress105]

It's true, and no amount menopausal women raging will change that

[@youtubevideo7086]

The real problem is K, drama and Cinema industry from Korea, ,, the poor girls from Vietnam or Philippine watch a lot these kind of drama and movies and they believe Korea is a paradise and Korean men are all angels

[@ValentineWan]

This was recorded decades ago when korean drama was not a thing and there was no kpop at all. These young brides wanted to marry korean men because they wanted "better life" and not certainly because of kdrama -_-

[@ahimsavada]

Al-Jazeera is such a great media outlet. This is a real documentary about an important issue. Thanks Al-Jazeera.

[@folddealfeal2740]

he said he likes youngr girls, "the younger the better" yuck makes me sick

[@xijinping7089]

it's called biology, same reason women like men with money

[@xijinping7089]

u mad bro

[@johnnythao]

Just because he said "the younger the better" it doesn't mean that he's looking for a child bride, he just prefers her to be younger than he is, which is very common in Asian cultures. See my father was already 20 yrs of age when married my mother, who was only 14 years. Yeah I know, a bit young, but that was the 80's before R.Kelly was a thing.

[@folddealfeal2740]

@@johnnythao FBI FBI come quick, we got one lol

[@johnnythao]

@@folddealfeal2740 Lol!

[@meitschitschka]

I am a German woman who married a Thai breakdancer. Cannot wait to be able to fly to Thailand and show his family our beautiful daughter.

[@2TMarie]

Medical and Psychological backgrounds should be done for anyone that wants to get married!

[@aznprnz2225]

From personal experience, there's good and bad on both sides and in any country! Beauty, money, social status, education, etc. This is a cultural problem. It needs to change!

[@weldonsouribio5515]

Korean men: Korean women have too high expectations! Also Korean men: I want a perfect wife to take care of everything at home and also be beautiful and need to listen everything I say! Hmmm......the disconnect

[@KOLAkola]

Weldon Souribio sounds like they need a dog

[@muffintop6874]

And take care of his mom too

[@kucingmiumiu854]

Koka Kola my dog: no... just no. Let me push your things off your the table to proof my point

[@MrMuscleTroll]

Women: wants men to be rich, handsome, physically fit. Everyone: ...... Men: have standards Everyone: how fckin dare you!!! I'm not here to justify men treating their wives like slaves. But women nowadays are so entitled. They bring nothing to the table but expect men to give them their live.

[@MrMuscleTroll]

@ beware of the white knight

[@rou8390]

The sad part is that declining birth rates and large gender gaps are happening all over Asia. China cuz of the once child rule, Japan because people prefer growing their careers over making a family, and now Korea because of preference for men. This is scary.

[@shadowangel8005]

I think it has more to do with birth control more then anything. Japan is to modern and weird, no wonder they are having issues.

[@rou8390]

Shadow Angel yeh maybe, but I specifically remembering watching a documentary about how Japan has a declining population because young people want to be successful first, then marry. Also they have anime and body pillows so the guys r already preoccupied. Lmao

[@DKM805]

People are not possessions.

[@DennisRay99]

Agreed

[@mindfortress105]

You are if you willingly sell yourself

[@vanessahillman8059]

These issues certainly all do exist in SK, however, not all Korean men think or act this way. My husband comes from a modest farming Korean family. He and I share home chores fairly equally. My mother-in-law is an absolute gem. She takes care of me while I’m pregnant and pushes my husband to care even better for me haha. They consider me carefully when asking me to do family activities due to difficult pregnancy symptoms. Though my father-in-law had issues with our multicultural relationship for years, he has come around and supports us beautifully. I know I am lucky, and my ability to work independently in SK if something to happen to my relationship makes my marriage more stable because we come from a more equal footing. There are also very happy Korean-Vietnamese couples in our current city. The government programs to help with integration are everywhere and free. I’m hopeful that after seeing the effects of abuse, more protections will be put into place too.

[@dash9569]

"Because even without her father, she can live happily with me" :')

[@bonneepanyachith4017]

These korean men need to look themselves in the mirror

[@KOLAkola]

😂it’s all ego. They don’t want to feel old but they truly are.

[@jeffreygunawan611]

LOL

[@seraby7151]

They know they are ugly that's why they are looking outside because no korean women wants to marry them.

[@user-fu4wy5il5v]

I Guess Pretty Man is ok to even do that I Guess Looks do matter m8

[@elizabethnakamura3123]

TRUE

[@SpicyMartina]

I have quite a few Korean friends and all have married American military. They view Korean men way to demanding. I say they are just picky. A couple admit that they are. As a military wife myself you do come across a lot of Asian brides. It's no wonder the Korean men have a hard time finding a wife as most of them are state side.

[@Holistic_angst64]

Briefly saw a Korean man for a few days (yes, a few days). He made his elderly mom clean his filthy condo like a maid, his poor little dog was covered in matted fur and dirt, he didn't have a shower curtain despite working a high profile job and being more than able to afford one, and he had dirty laundry EVERYWHERE. I feel so bad for these poor women :(

[@richardbowers3647]

He was wanting a take-charge woman!!! I'm guessing.

[@jolin8493]

Thats why he need a wife, who happily take care of him, as long as he take care of her. Not both can work hard and also have a family life. Unless you will let your children suffer because both parents are busy.

[@nikki3355]

@@jolin8493 so wife = maid to clean after his mess? if he can't even take care of basic functions in his own life do you expect him to be able to take care of anyone else? Please...

[@jolin8493]

@@nikki3355 Yes, a wife to clean after his mess, if he works 16-18 hours a day and wife stay home and get loads oss money to stay home take care of home, children and husband. My dad who worked 16-18 hours, 7 days a week for decades, did not had time or afford to do things home. One hour in the garden for him would be 1000´s of dollars in income loss. My mum solved it by hiring people, because she is lazy upper class lady. At least she solved tasks who was needed to be done so my dad could make millions for his family, without being interrupted chasing income (security/resources) for the family. Its about sharing responsibility within a family.

[@jolin8493]

@@nikki3355 (or wife can work too, so they can hire someone to take care of mess)

[@jonam7589]

We shouldn't be surprised when these marriages don't last. He wants a younger woman who is not as demanding and she is using him in order to have a better life and send money home. This is never about the love, it is a transaction that is mutually beneficial. It sucks!

[@stanlee3041]

I had a book with pictures of Asian brides but after a while I couldn't read it because all the pages were stuck together

[@isabellepark8578]

I'm surprised that the professor thinks that the unwelcoming attitude towards families with mail-ordered brides is only due to sexism and xenophobia. It often has got nothing to do with the fact that those brides are from South-East Asia. Most locals have no respect towards these sexist, old men with disgusting values and bad temper, and when a mixed family is excluded in a social situation, it is almost always because of the annoying husband. Not a single man in this video considered values or interests when they were looking for a wife. They all wanted someone young and pretty so that their friends can be jealous... says a lot about them (and why no one wants to marry them). I just feel sorry for these brides and the kids and wish the situation was better for them.

[@vashposh]

17:33 so cute! i pray these women find happiness and that their children thrive.

[@sonjaheck3156]

Me too. That is the cutest kid I have seen in ages!

[@patricialim2286]

Don't they feel scared married to a stranger who they never meet at all. Its better to married for love rather than buying a bride 🙄🥺

[@karlos_infamous]

It's a two way problem solver: Men with money but can't have a wife the normal way + poor women who needs money to support herself and her family members = they are just basically helping each other out. But in all honesty, I feel so sorry for all of them. They can't find love the normal way.

[@brendagodinez8285]

These women are warriors, they are doing what they have to do to have a better life, sometimes it’s not the happy ending and happy fairytale but they are in a way or a million ways hustling just like everybody else or more.

[@timothyspool1399]

I feel for the Vietnamese brides, but it's very risky to enter into a relationship just to make money. If you focus on what money you can get out of a relationship, it's not surprising that they are treated like property.

[@Mark-kf9si]

What I’m a single dad & I’ve never been able to get my daughter (who’s now 20yrs) to do any housework 🤣😂 Mark from Australia 🇦🇺

[@jonam7589]

you're not Asian.

[@pixie_dust2089]

that's previlidge in most asian countries women are not givenan option for houswork.

[@tnbn23]

Bring her to africa for 4weeks😂😂 ,l could do a lot by the time l was 7years old.wasnt giving a choice.

[@amilie0202]

My grandmother never got to see my grandfather until the wedding day. They had 5 childrens together. Marriage bound by love is still a very new idea in some asian country.

[@mindfortress105]

It's a new idea, and a bad one, everywhere. Marriage was always about raising children and joining family resources, not love

[@jendom0112]

So....are the MEN tested as well? I’m assuming not. That’s quite the double standard....🤦🏻‍♀️

[@tinypuff5217]

Luke E So because they have more money, these men are justified in abusing or even killing their brides?

[@adrianwilliams9005]

U think that thats the problem, the testing, that might b the least disturbing part of this.

[@MrGianoulos]

That's your problem, you assume too much. Typical taco sause

[@adrianwilliams9005]

@@MrGianoulos what r u talking about, exactly wot am i assuming?

[@nitinp5037]

Why it is double standard when the guy is the one paying?? These women want money,these men want a young women...

[@matildamaher2650]

Multicultural marriages are awesome. my husband is Australian and I was born and raised in India. So yes, women must seek husband who are caring and family oriented. I’m happy and blessed to get one

[@shadowangel8005]

I'm Australian and my wife is Thai. We have been together over 3 years not and married for 5months. Australia is not exactly or safe for asians though, my wife was attacked a few times when she's been on her own. We ended up just moving to Thailand.

[@matildamaher2650]

That’s sad your wife was attacked, hope she’s doing okay.I live in W.A and it’s quite save.

[@richardbowers3647]

A poem titled 'The Joy.' The joy the boy sees Is in the face of the girl From her day. Time moves all along for both to share. When their lives endures the spark The two savor that time. Joy & spark are forever one.

[@khutti100]

You did a great job marrying foreigner rather than marrying an indian man who is after a big dowry. You are saved from burning alive because of dowry.

[@MrGianoulos]

Why do India people smell like burnt rice or oil?

[@alicialilly4817]

So sorry for all the Vietnamese women. Keep strong please.

[@alcortez1261]

those kids are so cute, too bad they have a broken family at the start of their lives.

[@vutube379]

@enyawix So u do your FAIR share of the cooking and cleaning? And grocery shopping, and budgeting, and child rearing, and caring for YOUR elderly parents too? Do you really do YOUR FAIR SHARE? A large % of American men treat women as objects and/or care takers. Even in Korea according to this video men want this from Korean women & Korean women are saying no. Men want more than they give; it is as simple as that.

[@workeveryday8737]

This is the reason why government is so important. Make your country rich and strong. Because if you don't your citizens will suffer.

[@pepperoniunicorn8641]

$10K!?!?!?! Just jump on a dating app man, geez

[@haddingtoniangcp2464]

Or go outside and meet people. Wayy cheaper

[@nastasijasimonovic6927]

20:53 - 20:55 SO ARE YOU! This man is SO narrow-minded and conservative. Because of such men, no wonder your birth rate is at its lowest.

[@maatonne]

Birth rate is low because of women

[@smileandlaughs]

Husband and daughter is fat, while the wife is extremely malnourishly thin. Did they even feed her?

[@BoydJones]

The same thing is happening in Taiwan. Something like 1 in 4 births are to non-Taiwanese women now.

[@Vamanaswastika]

They should just put them on Amazon and if your a Prime member, you get her shipped to you for free. With extra bubble wrap.

[@annekaelliot5417]

Beating Women is Violent and wrong, she is not your property shes a person with thoughts feelings, and those words i love you, means respect my life choices as well as yours, and i am just as equal as you are, and independent, we share and care for each other.)

[@luckyali4948]

My Korean GF was a strong woman! She offered to share the expensive dinner bills which American girls don't! I think all women desire to marry a successful and handsome man however there are few men!

[@muftiwicaksono7914]

marry her, quick!!!

[@aj-sz8mu]

multiple times hearing. the government is trying to change, help, address issues. what a wonderful thing.

[@missk7001]

The men want a full time cleaning lady and cater for their mother but bemoan their fact that women have become picky. What a patriarchal world.

[@MohitJouhari]

so what are your suggestions to abolish patriarchy.

[@garthrice4278]

You seem to know alot of what people are wanting and thinking. You a psychic or a big mouthed idiot? I notice that alot of women keep saying there are no real men anymore, well maybe they decided there aren't any real women anymore and have decided to go to Asia to find real women. These are obviously guys that you don't like or respect so why do you feel so threatened by Asian women who want to get to know them and perhaps marry them? It's your decision to do and be who you want to be and to decide who you want to be with and its nobody's choice but your own so why do you think you have the right to comment on what some guy wants?

[@WeLsHMeLlY]

This is from 2011 & yet popped up in my recommended lol but I wonder if it's still like this? 😳😲

[@jessiecorn17]

Yes. I am an American living in Korea since two years ago with a boyfriend of one year. Sadly it's pretty much the same. Men expect everything from a woman without giving anything in return. But I think these guys here are probably the worst of them all. Usually younger korean guys are more open minded these days. I think these guys are just angry at being rejected by korean women.

[@WeLsHMeLlY]

@@jessiecorn17 wow 😲.. it's awful to think that's it is even remotely like that..I don't mind at all putting a nice meal on the table & doing housework if I'm at home..but it's different when it's demanded or expected from you!...eh no thank you! so is your bf Korean?

[@petephok5726]

@@jessiecorn17 e

[@jessiecorn17]

@@WeLsHMeLlY Yes my boyfriend is korean. Luckily there are some guys that have open minds and are kind. He is really gentle and kind and we always do everything together like the housework and support eachother.

[@WeLsHMeLlY]

@@jessiecorn17 Aww, well I'm glad to hear that 😊 there is a kinda craze going on at the moment with young girls obsessing over Korean & Japanese guys & I often wondered how would it work as I know they have very strict upbringings.

[@yudhathama6670]

Low birthrate, less people marriage, High living standard expectation, insane living cost..all this is side effect of "developed" Country..

[@lynnleigha580]

That's fkd up that these women have to go through all these examinations, mentally and physically but not the men?!?

[@youtubevideo7086]

I would never do that to human, , I will always do my best to help my girlfriend or later maybe my wife, , cleaning, , washing dishes are not difficult, , it's always nice to do together

[@jonam7589]

because you are from a different culture.

[@pelimalol]

This is from 2011! We're in 2019 are there any changes???

[@Saeedahmed-em7xd]

Marriage is no more an institution..its pure business

[@keiththurman1045]

It’s always been. Love has nothing to do with marriage. It’s a business partnership

[@shauncameron8390]

@@keiththurman1045 Whit men having the most to lose from it.

[@shauncameron8390]

A property-transfer from the woman's father to her husband.

[@mrinalinimandal9232]

A 43 year old man meeting a 24 yr old woman. Is it alright???

[@kazuuka]

If women in Korea are becoming more independent and financially and socially autonomous then why do they require their potential husbands to be so well off?! It's gonna happen at someone's expense, hurry up and get an office job and get used to the idea of a house husband!

[@keiththurman1045]

kazuuka Houseband!

[@almightydawnthegreat]

I feel like you need to be able to respect your other half, which means you need to know they can earn as much as you to prove they are capable people. I wouldn't be able respect my husband if I thought he was a mooch

[@Biya666]

@@almightydawnthegreat it's okay if the girl is earning less but not for the guy? Lol

[@shauncameron8390]

So they can be housewives and stay-at-home moms as they don't plan on working until they drop dead like a man.

[@dann9282]

This is the tamed version. The horrible aspect of it are beatings, passport taking away, and forced into hard labor.

[@cuekinaja]

OMG yes, the risk of abuse is very high for these Vietnamese brides. And they mentioned about two murders.

[@sithlordhibiscus9936]

My (late) grandmother *hated* that she couldn't live with either mum or uncle, because she had to take hers in, and care for them. My mother chose to stay home with us. Point being that change is inevitable. I don't like change that much, tbh, but Korean/Chinese men must change or admit they're hiring women to play a part in the play they're calling a "marriage".

[@ProjectEnglishII]

So many similarities to the situation in Japan. I'm not sure about the abuse, but the expectations for a wife to be responsible for child, elder, and husband care are the same.

[@neogeo79]

I want to hear from the Korean women.. What do they say about this?

[@enniswhalen2428]

This is a REAL lesson for inexperienced men.

[@kallepikku4991]

The level of journalism these days. LoL: Korean women choose to be single. Women most affected. Korean men search for foreign wives. Women most affected.

[@yourtreat2]

Women as a possession? Nah.

[@emmbaya1595]

The foreign women are so goodlooking🕵️‍♀️

[@nathalya5882]

Theyre just desperate to go out of poverty.

[@annekaelliot5417]

Korean, Vietnamese, Japanese, Chinese, Malaysian, Indian, Afghan, Indonesian, Tibethan, Bangladeshi, Figian, Yep all Asian countries

[@freeagent8225]

Even if they were free, perfect and never aged I would pass, better to be single.

[@lidiagizaw3828]

She will age coz she's human like u .

[@rcharlton1973]

My wife and I separated after 21 years of marriage. I just wish I could find someone and fall in love again.

[@user-ll1iz4wq6k]

Bruh 💀

[@lidiagizaw3828]

Please dontbuy some poor girl then abuse her

[@sh6161]

Maybe you were tr**h

[@fainitesbarley2245]

How does a “traditional preference for sons” translate into a significant gender gap precisely? We know how that happened in China. What did the Koreans do twenty plus years ago? What did you do to your girls in these rural areas with no young women?

[@Holistic_angst64]

@Ghana Gone Gondar shut the fvck up

[@user-ll1iz4wq6k]

“The younger the better” ? ….red flag

[@im1sthuemanonearthimn0tsur65]

yeah I knew JESUS wasn't real this what life is about doing everything 2 get a non touched girl

[@pscoolguy]

In SOUTH Korea, it is very acceptable for South Korean men to date and marry outside of the race. At the same time, it is completely unacceptable in South Korea for South Korean women to have a boyfriend or husband who is not Korean. Also, the women who marry South Korean men are completely expected to learn to speak and be literate in Korean and acculturate themselves into the South Korean culture. I never lived in North Korea, so I do not know what is acceptable there.

[@raghad49]

same in saudi arabia

[@aj-sz8mu]

that is really odd to hear that Koreans arent aware of the Philippines. We had so many korean exchange students when i was in ELEMENTARY, all the way to college. they were there to learn English (except they end up learning Tagalog more than English xD) but i guess its more common for them to go to us, instead of us to them

[@pgum123gonowplayread4]

For the men here, women look for: a guy with half a nice face with a nice good enough humor and attitude towards life. Who is going to be nice to them and has decent salary.. (However the humor is NON negotiable, and a decent salary most of the time is what is set for the range). Also women look for companionship as people. (hence the humor and treating as nice as can be, along with the man having an attitude towards life). Companionship is compromise .

[@KOLAkola]

Sounds like these men need a pet preferably a dog something relatable.

[@wastelandpotential4609]

why would they put up with incapable insecure misogynist when they can be happy with a career that makes more money than them?

[@rbd6502]

@Roc but shes right though.... they need pet dogs. at the very least theyll know its loyal :D

[@bioches]

so they can abuse animals instetad? they need therapy

[@j3d89]

@Cybersix quite the contrary, women are the sociable.. that's why women prefer jobs where they Interact with other people, while men prefer machines with no problem.. on the part of income.. is not insecurity, women as soon as they earn more they wanna jump ship to a guy with higher income, is called hypergamy, they talk about equality but they hate being the breadwinner.

[@nitinp5037]

Why they need a pet when they can have young southeasasian girls???

[@carlyp.g.2886]

11:16 men's right activist? Didn't know those existed....

[@Jazzisa311]

LOL welcome to the internet. If you want to keep your sanity, never google 'The Red Pill'. Seriously, you'll be happier not knowing XD.

[@Beepinboopinbopin]

This is NOT an actual representation of Korean women. Things like this is frowned upon in Korean culture. Every country has women who may sell themselves as a bride. Please do not associate this with Korean women.

[@quirkyquips9915]

The high alcohol abuse is certainly not helping. I keep seeing various docs about Korea. Essentially the men drink after work with a few admitting it's too much. The gender inequality as women are wanting rights & men in men's right groups have shown hostility toward them. A unisex bathroom near a train station & cafes, six men came in but when a young woman went in, a man had been lying in wait, trapping her in a bathroom stall & proceeded to stab her in an enraged attack. He had no remorse as she deserved it. Incels in Korea. The next doc was about the high rate of suicides, especially among older people. Many resort to a bridge over a river. In the farm land areas, they swallow pesticides. It's sad. And now this. You in your own countries, while we don't understand each other's languages, we seem to have the same hurtful issues. I believe all of us just want to have peacefulness, love, families & friends with dignity & respect. The one thing that stood out to me was the majority had girls. I hope they will find what I just mentioned above. 🍃🕊🍃

[@shikhiroy5186]

Same in India. It is expected to take care of the family.