Asian Culture NEEDS To Change

[@Razear]

Blame first-gen Asian immigrant parents for raising their children to be passive and conflict avoidant. Asian kids are constantly told to stay in their lanes and avoid starting trouble. Speaking up is not something that is encouraged, even if you're being treated unfairly. Asians put a lot of stock in respecting authority. And because age is typically associated with wisdom, the assumption is that the older person is automatically right solely because they have more life experience. It's a highly rigid, hierarchical way of thinking. Everything is a comparison game to Asian parents because they care a lot about reputation and being respected by others. Even if they're personally miserable inside, they'll outwardly project an image of success in order to save face. Credentials = prestige = status. It all boils down to perception. Someone could be a high school dropout and become a self-made millionaire, but he won't be perceived the same way as an Ivy-educated physician making six-figures a year. The money alone isn't enough. Mental health is dismissed because they think it's just an excuse to justify being lazy. Asians are very blunt about addressing someone's physical shortcomings. They don't think it's impolite to point out that someone is overweight because it's not considered a shaming tactic like it is in the West. Asians don't encourage their kids to strive for artistic endeavors because it's not financially lucrative to do so. They think it's much more risky than telling their kid to go into STEM, which is a tried and true path in terms of vocational trajectory. The thing with trust is that it only takes one bad interaction to ruin a relationship forever. And Asians are not one to grant second chances, especially when they tend to place a disproportionate amount of focus on negative experiences.

[@en-zh-lyrics]

So there are two glass ceilings, one is the glass ceiling due to Asians being a minority, the other is the glass ceiling imposed by Asian parenting, which reinforces the first one

[@theia1653]

In other words, be the ultimate betabuxxer. Get good grades in school, don't get in trouble, don't speak out, don't focus on girls right now, get a good job, be a steady and reliable provider. Everyday with APs is a negative experience so there's no time to cool off and make up, not that they will apologize for anything or change.

[@kroogle2294]

All of the above are absolutely shaming tactics in Asia or not , Asians just don’t think shaming is bad. Negative reinforcement is the default pushing tactic for Asians especially with their family members.

[@supermegacoolawesomeanimal1783]

There is no solidarity amongst asians. We need to stop asian hate within the Asian community. It's always East asians vs. Southeast asians, Asian men vs. Asian women, rich Asians vs. poor Asians, etc. This just makes us look even weaker to a society that loves to prey upon Asian people. Also, the community needs to learn how to physically defend itself. Keeping your head down and not making trouble does not prevent you from being murdered when someone is actively trying to kill you

[@ponuni]

where do you see east asians vs southeast asians? i would say east asians in america like to be around other east asians and it's the same the other way around. there's no beef here between these two asians, we just don't interact with one another and I think that's fine.

[@bayareayackem100]

Well.. tell the east asians to stop hating on the south east asians then. SE asians are usually more welcoming with no judgement

[@gametri-eq6lj]

@@ponuniwrong sea interact with East Asians all the time East Asians not as often

[@Katcom111]

not gonna happen, i just hate East Asian try to lump Southeast Asia thinking we are as a whole. People realize SEA don't look anything like East or anything culturally related. The ones that do are either half or fully EA diaspora that live in SEA.

[@Hewhoyettoknowhimself]

as SEA, I can't ask my East Asian considered as human being. I mean they hate each other ass, even Japanese can make their fellow Japanese as basically non human (burakumin）

[@MedalionDS9]

Stop basing your self worth by comparing yourself or wanting to be white or white adjacent as a barometer of success

[@jisoopark1150]

Most white people are not successful, in any shape or form and out of shape So

[@stephencollins9062]

Shut up you racist fool.

[@skillbopster]

White adjacent is not real.

[@yo2trader539]

If you actually live in Asia, you'll know that there is no "Asian" culture. Most of us cannot even understand our neighbor's language/culture.

[@NomasontoModisakeng]

It's always more nuanced.... It's Asian cultures which are the identifiers of each nation/culture... So race isn't everything and just because people are the same race doesn't necessarily mean they're gonna get along

[@user-jt3dw6vv4x]

East Asian Americans have a very hard time nderstanding this

[@knowledgefirst2028]

I'm going to get roasted for saying this: Asian American women's perception of Asian men (diasporic and from Asia) is off. I've heard it lamented from Asian American women before, "my brother gets EVERYTHING, and I don't." When I hear this, I can tell that these women don't know their brothers very well. Sadly, these women aren't interested in understanding their brothers' feelings deeper; they just take things for face value. Your dad, brother, uncle, are still minorities in America. I'm sorry, but, as liberal as many Asian American women are, it seems like they don't even care about what ethnic Asian men have to go through in America. I'm sure your brother has a lot of stress, isn't very happy, and doesn't get every little thing his heart desires (without at the very least being expected to marry, carry the family name, make good grades, not take any traditionally feminine hobbies, and find a good school and high paying job). Unfortunately, Asian parents sometimes see their male children as a financial investment. That's why some may perceive a better treatment of them, but you would take care of your expense car, right, same principle here. Culture aside, neither men or women come out ahead when gender roles meet a strict traditionalism.

[@Teleios15013]

If she think her bro gets it good wait til she sees white men

[@salometipsandtricks2786]

This is why most Asians women married white. 🙄

[@itsatrap4986]

​@@salometipsandtricks2786lol ta mean sellouts

[@TheLadyinblack1989]

Thai-Chinese here. I wish Asian parents stop comparing their child to other's child.

[@Buydaa.M]

@@TheLadyinblack1989 yeah

[@Hendra23155]

I am chindo (Chinese Indonesian) living in Aus. What you said it’s spot on. What I am seeing in chindo community is you can live a happy life , save the world, find cure for cancer BUT if you don’t make tons of money and not a business owner then you are Nobody. 99% family gatherings talk around who owns what and guess how much your relatives’ net worth

[@chengliu872]

A big one to me is looking down on blue collar work. When I was growing up it was like if you didn't go to college, you were some sort of loser or something.

[@L-K-K]

Is that a specifically Asian thing or do Western capitalist societies also look down on the poor - whether they're working class or not? Some things we should change, but let's acknowledge that it may be a common problem that all/most societies face, perhaps in slightly different ways or arising from slightly different context.

[@chengliu872]

@L-K-K: Blue collar doesn't necessarily mean poor, in fact some blue collar jobs are quite remunerative.

[@L-K-K]

​@@chengliu872 In the past they have not been. Even today many blue-collar jobs are not well paid nor offer much advancement options or job securities. Those value judgements were formed in the past & not re-evaluated as the situation changes, including the now over-supply of white-collar workers. When everyone has an uni degree, then those degrees may command less advantages. This problem of being stuck with outdated perspectives is not unique to Asian immigrant cultures. The specific expression or justification may differ, but the problem exists in Western cultures too.

[@chengliu872]

@@L-K-K: It really depends on where you live, but even in medium cost of living areas an experienced A/C guy or electrician can live a decent life with a wife who doesn't work.

[@L-K-K]

​@@chengliu872 I know that. Plumbers are super expensive! LOL. But it probably was true that doctors & lawyers on average used to make more money than blue-collar workers. So that stereotype was formed & never updated, nor reviewed contextually. Anyway, I don't value people based on how much they earn but rather how much they contribute to society / common good. Those blue-collar workers are just as important to society & our standards of living, sometimes even more so as they don't exploit others as much as white-collar industries can do. Similarly I don't value those in leadership roles/West who dreams / BS over those on the ground/East actually executing & making dreams a reality.

[@chengliu872]

I preference for boys thing is something that is the exact opposite for me. My mom was abusive to my father and turned that to me after he died when I was 12. I felt like being a guy meant a whole lot of extra responsibilities without any of the privileges.

[@winterfrost4879]

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.” Understanding both Chinese and Western cultures gives me an unique perspective. Sometimes there're no universal truths or ethics, only relative truths. The confrontation between China and America is a symptom of this. Each side has valid points that fit their own culture and understanding

[@Teleios15013]

- respect should be earned on an individual basis not based on age - happiness should be the goal not materials and money - mental health needs to be acknowledged and worked through. If you have traumas and bias you need to work through that. - more emphasis on masculinity, sports, and physical competency as opposed to just constantly studying. Makes all the boys nerds. - Asians need to study their history and what their people have fought through, created, what is unique about their heritage, and how they got to where they are today to instil a greater sense of identity and pride in ourselves.

[@rewind8822]

As a Latino American….please Asian Americans hold on to your culture and values. There is no shame in your success.

[@edwardpi9852]

No such thing as Asian culture in America. For those who have grown up in the USA. I 😂 😅 don't think 🤔 Asian 😂 culture apply to 😂Eddy Murphy. Just 😂in case 😂some Asian comedians use his movie 😂as a platform of their political campaign "The Distinguished Gentlemen" , I might be impeached or to jail not giving up, a born 😂street fighter. I am 😂 running for President 💪😀!

[@AGuyUwU]

Their success is nothing to be ashamed of, but the repercussions that it comes with to gain and maintain it. Japan and South Korea have the highest suicide rates in the world with robotic, inhuman working conditions and ridiculous beauty standards that causes colorism issues between pale faces vs brown faces. People are working themselves to death. Literally.

[@theia1653]

No, it's failed us here.

[@Buydaa.M]

@@theia1653 it fails eventually , since living in a dominant western society?

[@yo7989]

discriminating against women is not culture

[@kapiatgatas]

I have 5 older sisters and I'm the only boy. I have memories of belt whipping, turning black and blue and objects thrown at me by my parents. Especially my mom. I have seen other families favors their only son and it made me jealous and angry to my parents. But in the end of the day, those boys that are entitled end up in jail for life or 4' under. They grew up pampered and do no wrong. The parents forgot to tell them their is a law of the land and the law in the street called "Survival of the Fittest". It is common in Asian countries a boy carries the burden of the family. He goes to war, he carries the family name and the protector for both parents and sisters. If these girls sees the hardship of men, back in their old Asian countries they would understand and love their brother. But they only see the lime light, the sparkles, the colors and glitters of America. They don't even know how to cook especially rice without using the rice cooker. The burden and pressure is hard to carry for Asian men. And if he fails all the time? The same reason more men than women end in suicide or go to jail.

[@armorbearer9702]

The amount of respect attributed to age does stifle innovation.

[@SuperTap007]

Have more mental health awareness in Asian families.

[@kimchiacid-b7f]

Physical disciplins when parents are wrong. Asian parents never accept their mistakes, and when faced with them, they take it out on family. I'm literally dying of organ failure because my folks refused to listen to doctors simply because the community "knows better". To them, a kid should never know more than what their parents teach them, so any difference in opinion is automatically seen as disobedience, which is met with physical discipline.

[@theia1653]

They will never change. I have never known anyone else this closed minded.

[@gin170]

Older Asian Americans don't think about comparing to white people. At least not the older Asians, I know. White adjacent is an academic term that older Asian Americans don't even think about. They left Asia to have a better life for their family. That's it. To not achieve that is a failure in their eyes so they try as hard as possible to achieve it. My parents from a third world county, they don't think about terms like model minority. My parents doesn't even understand what Asian American Studies is. All they understand is working hard, whether it be academic or your job. If people think working hard and trying to achieve a better life for your children is a white people dream only, I don't know what to tell you. Family is big for Asian Americans of any country. Many also come from countries with no social safety net so they prefer not to rely on that or at least not all their lives. Relying on or living on social safety net is not reliable long term and definitely will not give you a successful life, it's a stop gap measure. This is why a lot of immigrants see Americans as spoiled because the US has so much more to offer to it's citizens and yet it's still not enough. Also, some Asian countries are more matriarchal. Boys are not anymore important than girls. Definitely not in my culture. See, we are not all the same.

[@1992pv]

Nah, my mom and dad always taught me that you always stand up for yourself but don't be argumentative. Just glad my dad taught me muay thai and my mom was a good enough to teach me eq.

[@reptilerule91]

I have to agree on the asian americans studying the original asian culture and aswell american culture including asian american culture, David is right on that. I also agree that we need to stop allowing ourselves to be disrespected and speak out.

[@roguenoir]

I'd reform the authoritarian parenting that often results in violence towards the kids and overreach well into adulthood

[@L-K-K]

Maybe it's more about all cultures needing to evolve with the times, that traditions should constantly be re-evaluated and anything that no longer serves us well be dropped or tweaked. Don't forget that Western cultures have the same issues too - like the broken (or never real) "democratic" systems, the over-emphasis on short-term gains over long-term benefits & profit over human lives/well-being. Because the last few hundred years have been dominated by the Anglo-European cultures, we can mistakenly conflate modernity with Anglo-European cultures. Let's not throw all our babies out with the bathwater as we "modernise", or rather as we try to solve imbalances that have accumulated and are now causing problems.

[@frankise2562]

I would agree to some points. Certainly some parts of the Asian culture I would keep but not all especially if you're living in the West. My top 3 Asian culture things to change. All responsibilities and expectations is dumped on the eldest child. As being the eldest, yes we do experience things first but we are also trying to figure life out when we don't have role models to look to. Since I'm the eldest as the girl there's thing called eldest daughter syndrome. As I got older, I drew my boundaries to say love you but this responsibility needs to shared with a younger siblings as well. Parents think the younger siblings don't know anything but they actually do and they might do it better than you if you let them. The next one is jobs with white vs blue collar. I live in Aus/NZ. If you get a high education you could only pursue a white collar job for more money. In this case not really. Our parents generation or grandparents worked as a labouring job so I can see they want us to have better education and not to work as hard like them.I work in a blue collar job and my job could easily pay higher than a white collar. I honestly don't like an office job like I need to move. Some traditional Asians think blue collar jobs are dirty or hard work and yet they are the unsung heroes they we have to risk out lives to do. Last one is more the taboo stuff. Mental health and learning disability. Mental health was spoken in my household hence the bottling up and you can't show weakness of vulnerability. I have a learning disability myself and that word is so taboo that it's thrown under the rug like you had to be normal when you're struggling at school. End of the day just set boundaries like have an honest conversation. If not cut those people out of they don't serve you. You're living on your own terms and not for others. If things don't work out then try something else. You honestly don't have to have things figured out either in any age group

[@EbiKing-g7g]

8:24 it’s to the point where a lot of Asian parents don’t even care that you would make bank doing something similar to the pizza guy. If it’s not academic achievement they don’t want it 🤦‍♂️

[@kalimbalove1912]

The filial piety needs to be gone. The extreme boy moms resulting in race with the worst mamas boys after latinos & Italians. All of these need to change.

[@doujinflip]

I've heard Fertile Crescent Arab men are infamously stuck to their moms too.

[@DiamondFlame45]

As a Latino American just observing, I definitely agree! Asian Americans tend to be very obsessed about wealth which is very myopic! At the end of the day, it’s all about balance. There are people with less who were able to bite the hand that feeds them and improved society for the better! Look at the black American activism in the 60s that got all non white Americans civil liberties. Because clearly being a model minority doesn’t incentivize the system to change.

[@mosqutio88]

Asian Americans also added value in the 1960s Civil Liberties, which paved way for equal access to opportunities such as opportunity to acquire homes outside of racial segregated districts and being able to open bank accounts and access to loans.

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

"people with less who were able to bite the hand that feeds them" - perfect representation of Latino Americans' overwhelming vote for Trump this election.

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

"people with less who were able to bite the hand that feeds them" - perfect representation of Latino Americans' overwhelming vote for Trump this election. All the black creators shtting on Latino Americans for the past few days are equally hilarious 🤣

[@DiamondFlame45]

@@mosqutio88of course. They had part in it too but not in the same intensity as black Americans.

[@mischa_lh]

@@DiamondFlame45Lets not make this a competition.

[@rl8571]

I am glad you are now distinguishing Asian from Asian in America. It is so vastly different mentality. You learn to be humble in all situations in Asia while in America we are told to be assertive in every chance encounter.

[@PeninsulaCity2024]

Just to add to this, there were times where I had US-raised family who feel they got to "fight" everyone even if the situation doesn't call for any sort of confrontation or assertiveness (I.e., a disagreement in a discussion). Where as family raised in Asia seem to try to reach an understanding first before resorting to a firm stance if at all. But thats just my family. Its not all perfect though. There were times where issues that should be taken seriously are downplayed by my Asia-born relatives, and other topics that don't mean much in the long run are treated as something dire if not importiant.

[@anibalhyrulesantihero7021]

Nothing wrong with being humble but know when to stand up for yourself. It's all about balance.

[@theia1653]

You will never advance in your career and relationships by being passive. Nothing will be handed to us.

[@jossanmarin56]

Dear FungBros, When are you releasing your book about this? Can’t wait

[@L-K-K]

I think we do need to differentiate immigrant culture from motherland culture. They are under different pressures and have different dilemma to solve. Sometimes immigrants could be holding on to old, outdated values as a way to hold on to their root & identity, while back in the motherland they're free to evolve & accommodate diversities. I find it sad that sometimes we only rediscover the value of our rich & diverse heritages via Anglo-European appropriations, that they are the one allowed to "discover" & validate the latest or greatest from our heritage & motherlands before we're allowed to openly celebrate those same things. Also keep in mind that nothing is good for everyone in all circumstances from all perspectives that we should have no limit on it. Solutions of today may become problems of tomorrow. Too much of a "good" thing could actually be a problem. Something may be good from one perspective but also have negative side-effects. The B&W thinking of Western Abrahamic religions, the Western scientific approaches, and even the Western style "democracies" all have their limitations and negative side-effects as well. We may overreact in our course correction, but ultimately we need to be constantly striving to return to balance. And all this I got from rediscovering different strains of Chinese philosophy despite being formerly enamored with Western culture living in the West.

[@jianh1989]

fung bros been unhinged lately, so far away from when they were posting contents running through the Air Jordans.

[@tht9039]

People do grow up.

[@ditsygirl5409]

I fully embrace the Asian culture’s pros and cons so I don’t want to change anything! I am the only weird one here! 😅

[@ken7432]

Nah you are not the only one on this. Don't worry. I also embrace Asian culture's pros and cons. Us Asians are doing mostly well in almost all metrics. I don't even know what to change in our culture or if those so-called "changes" would be positive for our community.

[@theia1653]

@ken7432 But did you take a girl home at 12-15 or sneak into her house at night and marry her at 18 on graduation day?

[@ken7432]

@@theia1653 No, I didn't. That's oddly specific questions to ask.

[@canto_v12]

It’s not good or bad, culture just is. Obsession with financial independence means people are industrious but sometimes unhappy and regretful and suicidal. Letting go of financial independence goals means people may be happier but sometimes broke and regretful and suicidal. In the end, society carries on and people either make it, or they don’t. What matters is that we recognise our advantages and disadvantages, and be honest with what we want in life.

[@tuck295q]

The audacity that the suicidal ranking list has no Taiwan. LOL Im Thai btw.

[@lalalaloveeelina]

Wildly insightful

[@lenliu749]

Very few of us donate or volunteer our time to charitable causes. We should be more altruistic and community orientated instead of dof eat dog mentality. Also we need to improve our soft skills. Many of us just don't stand out in social situations.

[@OcaOca]

Weight loss looking good!

[@jennyt2750]

Wow like ten years younger. Skin improved, everything. Jealous that he could shave off like ten years and look even better than when they first started youtubing

[@switzjon8405]

3:34 I think it depends. In business it's not a game. If they grew up in more urban settings they'll bring that heat.

[@valorzinski7423]

Asian culture does change and will continue to change, but it should never Westernize

[@raykuang2889]

I hate using this term in general, but let's do better in not perpetuating "generational trauma". My brother and I were born in America-SF, and growing up, I feel like we knew what we didn't want to pass down to our kids because of how our parents raised us. However, after my brother had his son a few years ago, I notice that he tends to be just as "mean" (I use this term loosely, and I can't fully elaborate here, but I think Asian Americans know what I mean lol) to my nephew as our parents were to us, if not more because it's like he's trying to subconsciously do it his way/one up them. I guess what I'm trying to say is, let's all be aware that we're actually doing what we're saying when we try to be "different" and "better" versions of our parents. I understand sometimes we tend to "turn into" our parents as we get older though, and we can't always avoid that.

[@jazznuka276]

Looking to western culture for social answers.

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

This is like dogs telling wolves how they should act, lmao 🤣🤣🤣

[@philjenkins1138]

@@牛奶面包-p8sAnalogy backfire. Wolves are wild animals. Dogs are domesticated aka civil. 🙄

[@hehe-mq2bk]

@@philjenkins1138 like wolves telling coyotes how to act.

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

@@philjenkins1138 Wild animals fight for their right to survive, which is why we see the rise of Asia and fall of West today. Domesticated dogs only serve their masters, lol 🤣

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

@@philjenkins1138 Wild animals fight for their right to survive and thrive in the world, which is why we're witnessing the rise of Asian powers on the world stage today. Domesticated dogs only serve their yt masters like good boys, and never dare to challenge their masters, but will bark at free and powerful wolves on behave of their masters.

[@chankane]

ChinaMac totally blew my mind lol…

[@kingsupreme5693]

Dang , She drinking some gatorade.😅😅😅

[@L-K-K]

The reason why our parents / ancestors immigrated to the West could also influence the value system that they impose on us. Eg if they moved for better economic opportunities or social status, then they might be the type that naturally value monetary success & status over other things. It doesn't mean that the countries they left all still have that same value system. I look at China & I'm amazed that the Tiger Parent Supreme CPC doesn't just look after their own personal interests like most corrupt politicians do, but actually on the whole still try to alleviate absolute poverty and improve standards of livings for more people.

[@doujinflip]

Those standards of living are narrowly-defined though. Like they would harp all day about how HSR access is accessible practically nationwide, but for things that are vital but invisibly routine like potable tap water gets totally ignored. Then there's stalled progress in actually going further once a problem is declared "solved" by Party leadership, such as poverty which direct handouts at one point got the population above the dollar-a-day extreme but hand-to-mouth effective poverty still affects like half of China. And there's definitely a lot of personal corruption in the Party ranks. It's practically impossible to get promoted without participating in some supposedly punishable activities.

[@L-K-K]

@@doujinflip For sure the improvement & solving problems work is never done, and in a population as big as China you'd still find plenty of individuals succumbing to corruption for personal gains. It's the same in the West, yet we insist the Western systems is the best in the world and anyone who aren't following the West's path are the bad guys. As if other countries really have the option to choose policies based on their own self-interest or to exploit other countries like the Western "democracies" have done to prosper and maintain a prosperous "democracy". Even in the US many people live paycheck to paycheck, and homelessness and illness-induced bankruptcy is still a real risk for way too many people. It's pot kettle black. But China at least doesn't lecture others on how to do thing or insist that others do things the Chinese way. Like fix your own problems first - you know your own culture and circumstances. If you can't even fix your own problems why do you expect others to follow your example. It's very disrespectful, and UNDEMOCRATIC.

[@hungchoonghow5857]

Question here, is it true that there are more Chinese Americans (Bruce Lee, James Hong, etc) and Korean Americans (Steven Yeun, John Cho, etc) than there are Japanese Americans (George Takei, etc)

[@Buydaa.M]

@@hungchoonghow5857 yes it is,Chinese Americans comes first and there are more Filipino,Indian and Vietnamese Americans than KorAms

[@zestycheesemaker4917]

Not true, maybe the boomers prefer males instead of females. But GenXer's w/ kids has a different experience than the old school.

[@itsatrap4986]

The opposite is true as well where the daughter gets the easier life, less harsh or very little resistance vs the son. Somehow this video fails to do so. Now, you're gonna paint Asian men and culture as patriarchal vs "merican".

[@ßhopkins]

agree with most points but i still wouldnt trade it with the culture in the west.

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

No self-respecting Asian would

[@sleepymofo]

Calling it Asian culture like we're all a monolith and there aren't many different ones that make us all unique.

[@doujinflip]

They largely have in common communal judgment, age-based hierarchy, and social status through education and occupation. You'd have to go as far as the more faith-driven Muslim nations to see other values take precedence (such as strict birthright status and widespread appreciation for original artistry).

[@zweiwing4435]

in my case, family always favorite to sister as position of younger sister, not me.

[@Yunia-d6b]

I am not sure but I think its not like this in korea🤔 they dont favor boys over girls. What would liked to be change is to be a little bit more loving to one another and to be more confident😊

[@arterisdewberry9467]

Let's see. Not all Asian parents are like this. But this is my opinion. 1. Forget about having high wealth. Not all life is about money and education. 2. Be more open about learning about other cultures and communicate with them. 3. Be more open about young Asian women/men dating black/Mexican people. Tell their daughters/sons to stop focusing only on dating white or Asian people. All races are either good or bad. 4. Also dating topic. Stop Asian parents to have their duaghters only date men who makes a lot of money or higher than the women. Some Asian women make enough money to support her self and don't need a man to make more than her as long he is saving enough or is smart enough with his own money and helps her with money too. 5. Stop Asian parents to make their kids only on focusing getting A's Not all Asian kids are good at every subject. That's my opinion about Asian parents. Rant over!

[@rommelangus]

6. Asian parents need to be more open to learning about masculine women, feminine men and transgender people (lgbtqiaplus) and communicate with them. They (including aunts and uncles) need to stop guilting their kids into becoming heterosexual.

[@arterisdewberry9467]

@rommelangus oh that's pretty good to know

[@theia1653]

It doesn't matter how good you are in school because no employer asks to see your transcript to make sure you got straight A's and hires you on that alone. They want well rounded individuals and good people skills matter more than grades in any customer service job. Even small talk has value.

[@AfroJeffrey]

You mean older boy.

[@6Euphoria6]

i would only change the parenting part. take it away

[@dtna]

Were you or your brother the favorite? Where is your 'bro?

[@Camaron8928]

David was probably the favorite son because he’s so loud.

[@dtna]

😂 ​@@Camaron8928

[@noworriesnohurrieschill]

youngest son out of 3 kids is the common parents want a son pattern 😅

[@warrpedd]

#hotpotboy

[@牛奶面包-p8s]

This is like dogs telling wolves how they should act, lmao 🤣🤣🤣

[@bgmsensei4918]

fr, these bananas are hilarious 😂 They've been beaten into submission by their yt masters for decades, with their men emasculated and their women taken by yt men physically and mentally. Only until recently, no thanks to their own actions, but only thanks to the rise of Asian countries in areas such as anime kpop and Chinese geopolitical and economic rise, did they began to enjoy some collateral benefits. And now they think they have any right to judge actual Asian cultures on what should or shouldn't be changed, lmao

[@ponuni]

@@bgmsensei4918 yeah just cover both your ears and ignore all criticism, that'll definitely help!

[@bgmsensei4918]

@@ponuni That's funny you say that, because my original comment was literally removed by video creator because he "cover both ears and ignore all criticism", lol. Funny how I was directly proven correct by the actions of the video creator and you

[@takhat1802]

Drug habit.

[@choo1030]

One thing I would change about Asian culture : I wish Asians would focus more on studying money, real estate, finance, and stocks

[@hailyrizzo5428]

don't they. compared to other races, i think they do

[@phil488pista9]

What? 😂 Most Asian I know are really good at all that you mentioned.

[@frankzheng1998]

mainland chinese who want to immigrate to usa here,if i could change 1 thing about asian culture,i want to change that asian parents believe that study into greatest university is important more than almost everything.of course it is great if you can make it,but study into university is not good for everyone,some are born for be great athlete,some are born for skillful job,some are born for great comedy and some born for be great singer or dancer or piano player.but most asian parents are force their children must study into best university.they didn't realize everyone have own different talent or destiny.is great for some kids but not every kids.can you imagine if mike tyson,muhammad ali,usian bolt,michael jordan birthed by asian parents is possible for them become world's best athletes and be famous and succeed?if michael jackson was birthed by asian parents is possible he become king of pop?something about asian culture must change,in my opinion.

[@hailyrizzo5428]

as an individual you are right. but as a society, no.

[@frankzheng1998]

@@hailyrizzo5428 but why west countries are not like that?now you tell me

[@hailyrizzo5428]

@@frankzheng1998 that is why the west is falling behind economically to china.

[@WaynesWorld12]

I'm mixed and didn't fit in with blacks, most Asians accepted me but Asian Culture is pretty good. Somethings maybe need some change but not as much as black culture. You all are better off then that community. Change or should I say REAL CHANGE takes so much time!

[@DJ-Everyday]

So, you're an expert on Black culture? What about Black culture that needs to be changed? Just because you didn't "fit" doesn't mean that there's something wrong with Black culture.

[@gametri-eq6lj]

⁠@@DJ-Everydaygangster rap, street culture, hyper-sexualization, emphasis on not being able to do things because of race, deep hatred against others races doing better

[@gametri-eq6lj]

@@DJ-Everydaybeing strict on values and trying to obtain higher status is not a bad thing the black community likes to hate on “white washed blacks” people who are strict on rules, put more time for education, unwilling getting into trouble, doesn’t push bad habits on their kids.

[@DJ-Everyday]

@@gametri-eq6lj This is really a uniformed understanding of Black culture. Your take is rooted in ignorance.

[@thesoulbrother8636]

@@DJ-Everyday 💯 percent facts! Well said.✔

[@Phoca_Vitulina]

I like that elephant analogy :D Also I agree that so many Asian boys get very spoiled/mama-boyed and girls have to be perfect :/

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Tiger parenting.