Bridesmaids Share Their Horror Stories

Watch Nina plan her wedding on season 2 of Wedding Season: • Wedding Season
#wedding #bridal Some bridesmaids share their wildest stories, from bachelorette parties to wedding day nightmares.
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[@camillemadore8511]

"Treated the dress and shoes like Harry Potter, justed shoved them into the closet until they presented a problem" The second bridesmaid is hilare and a total mess. I love it.

[@hayleygrimes8804]

I love it! That is amazing! That is me! I just was in my cousins wedding because she asked me to be a Bridesmaid and it was amazing! I treated it the same way! Just treated the dress and shoes like Harry Potter and shoved it in the closet.

[@hayleygrimes8804]

Until they presented a problem. Lol!

[@NicoleFoti]

She was my favoriteeee haha

[@recoil53]

"I don't care that the knot looks a lot like a penis".

[@jocelynenevarez1457]

I dont understand why she just didn't pin it with safety pins??? 🙄🙄🙄

[@rjameelah09]

Are we ignoring the iconic line she just said 😭 “I treated it like Harry Potter and shoved it in the closet till it presented a problem”

[@Kn1cknackz0]

Everything she said was gold, I was just dying

[@ninaswimmerperson234]

Ya she’s awesome

[@TahtahmesDiary]

Definitely a phrase I am tucking away for later!

[@MagicalGirlFreakCos]

Rita she’s now my spirit animal

[@josiespeakman3590]

I LOST MY MARBLES

[@carleyreyner6814]

WHY do people have bachelorette/bachelor parties the DAY before their wedding??? Is that ever a good idea????

[@jenniferbond7073]

Carley Reyner not a good idea, agreed! I had a bachorlette way before the wedding. But had an impromptu party with my bridesmaids in the room the night before. I was sooooo hungover the day of my wedding. Wasn’t planned, had a great time but if I could do it over I would not have gotten so lit the night before. 🤣

[@avonee1976]

Never!

[@Tlove4321]

Never. My sister chipped her tooth at her bachelorette party and was sick the whole first half of her wedding 😂 thank God for BC powder lol

[@MeggieTheWerewolf]

Starting a petition to make bachelorette/bachelor parties a freaking WEEK before, who's in?

[@carleyreyner6814]

@@Tlove4321 ouch! I had to look up BC powder because I thought it was slang for coke! Lol!!!

[@sneakerhead6625]

i feel like bridesmaids have way better stories than the brides themselves 😂

[@recoil53]

Well the brides aren't going to admit it. They want to sell/believe the fairy tale.

[@avarosefleck]

recoil53 i’m so sorry but i just made your likes 666

[@A_T216]

The brides always forget their lesbian revelations, so there's nothing to say until 5 years into marriage where they discover their sexualities again and get divorced.

[@RandomSwiftie13]

@@avarosefleck no you didn't it's at 61...

[@salmaabdullahgb]

@@recoil53 loool what many brides tell a story of stress but they don't get to see the mess other sort out

[@andreasmith1951]

Imagine being the “lesbian bride” and finding out through this video that it was you

[@peach2832]

Imagine being her husband finding this video!!!

[@rjameelah09]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cornishlasscornishlife8855]

Sophia Smith Drunk words are sober thoughts.

[@emilycheek1899]

@@cornishlasscornishlife8855 yes but not ALWAYS

[@magnoliaroses0]

Sophia Smith omg imagine her husband! Or the stripper lol

[@100Stratusfiedx]

LMAO imagine the night before your wedding you realize you're a lesbian

[@plzno1854]

100Stratusfiedx imagine being married and realizing you a lesbian... Ross geller is SHOOK 😂

[@narutosraman]

“decide” instead of “finding out” sounds a bit weird btw, should probably word that better, just giving you a heads up

[@natanyat4901]

@@narutosraman Become? "Turning into?"

[@100Stratusfiedx]

@@narutosraman I didn't mean for it to come off like that. I apologize. I think I said decide because she ended up still getting married.

[@fynefilms]

who has a bachorlatte party the night before a wedding?!?!

[@corelei]

"I didn't know Sienna was stabbed shortly before the wedding"

[@summerjones2424]

Cordula The Platypus she was so funny

[@kissyjimenez1364]

Siena's is the best one! Such a story you tell and laugh about after.

[@nicolerenee03]

Siena could be a comedian. Her mannerisms and the way she tells stories is hilarious.

[@SamCooperYT]

Nicole Wilcox what one is Sierra

[@Rachel-sz5lq]

Sam Cooper 2nd one

[@hurricanetortilla2569]

IKR!!! I found her instagram account and turns out she is a comedian!!! @sienaeast

[@nicolerenee03]

Ritwika Ghosh Haha! I called it!! 🤣🤣

[@chrishawkins6233]

Her voice and mannerisms remind me of Awkwafina

[@chinyerekorie6298]

As soon as Sienna starts the story, she sounds like the type of girl you don't ask to do this type of thing, lol. She's so cute.

[@Victoria_Marie]

Chinyere Korie swear! Lol she looks adorable in the pictures though. But also looks like she’ll punch you if you say she’s adorable. I love her, I need to find more videos of her lol

[@katherineheasley6196]

Nah, you do ask her to do this thing, but you realize she's going to be a mess, but at least she'll be good-natured about it.

[@TinasCrazyLife]

She was my favorite to listen to lmao

[@Be1smaht]

Yeah but irresponsible

[@wvrjl]

I'd say you shouldn't ask her for other reasons, like zero consideration for someone other than herself.

[@emilyfogerty6438]

That last one I literally would have just kicked them out. If you are ruining a special day that is once in a lifetime and you are refusing to cooperate for pictures then you need to leave because that is so unfathomably rude.

[@karenksz34]

Right!? She was given way too many chances at that point lol

[@SjofnBM1989]

I honestly think she had some serous mental illness issues that she was not working on.

[@mariamiamonteleone]

Maybe she has a crush on the bride or groom

[@ashleyjohnson6273]

I almost kicked a bridemaid out of my line a few days before my wedding, but realized it would completely throw off the walk down the aisle (we used a song dedicated to a late family member and things were timed) so she stayed. I just kind of ignored her on the day and tried to have as little interaction as possible lol

[@CheriseRichardson]

Oh god yes, I wouldn't want to see my photos and see her in them!

[@chloeralston2498]

No one: Literally no one: Seriously no one on the earth: The first bride: I had a lap dance, and I’m lesbian now

[@meensbeans_]

Chloe Ralston I cant believe the wedding was still on 😂

[@NicoleFoti]

bahahahaha

[@SjofnBM1989]

Every drunk girl thinks she's a lesbian

[@Pepperthecory]

I have a feeling more than a lap dance occurred

[@salemh931]

@@Pepperthecory Yup, definitely.

[@sophiebee1679]

"you can't argue with drunk people" - so true

[@goodguydis3404]

Im grass

[@emilyjane6901]

"i didnt realize sienna was stabbed shortly before the wedding and now she's limping down the aisle" WHEN I TELL YOU I CRIED LAUGHING

[@Alexis-go5cd]

I broke the 666 likes 😌

[@Kylie_h]

I was not expecting that one. I spit out my water

[@ireneangelucci3733]

same, Sienna was hilarious

[@JAdreams88]

The second woman had an amazing personality!!

[@NicoleFoti]

She was SO funny

[@Selene666]

she was too intense for me

[@peachypeppa]

Do you want her contact info

[@puckbryn3583]

“like a flesh shoe”

[@beez6039]

Like a flesh shoe.

[@magickmiiror2853]

That last bridesmaid in the story seemed absolutely rude and self-centered, especially considering she was supposed to be the bride's "childhood best friend". Fighting with the bride, texting the bride's groom a very out of line chain of texts, throwing tantrums, stealing center pieces, and more? Oh no, they had far more patience than I. I would have booted her out after the first tantrum. Not on MY day! There's already enough stress going into planning such a ceremony. If they don't have the courtesy of help and instead add even more- nope! Goodbye!

[@NicoleFoti]

She sounds like such a monster

[@magickmiiror2853]

@@NicoleFoti when I first started hearing the story and how after her first breakdown she admitted she had no where to stay and yadda yadda, I did feel for her a bit at first, but then she kept on going and going with more and more drama, and especially at texting the bride's groom what she did, didn't feel for her anymore!

[@SjofnBM1989]

She definitely had some very weird attachment issues towards the bride. I'm not sure if it was just emotional immaturity or a severe mental illness. Maybe a combination of both?

[@stephlrideout]

I dunno, it sounded to me like she was very sick and desperately needed some help. That's not normal crazy behaviour.

[@magickmiiror2853]

@@stephlrideout & @SB W, very true. Good point. I should have thought about those.

[@blaq_betty]

this first story is sooo juicy😂😂😂😂😂

[@bitturuyal6850]

Ikr! Like gurl tell us more 😌😌

[@bubblegum3130]

could become a whole fanfiction

[@Boxes-of]

I don't even have 5 friends, can't imagine being a bridesmaid that many times

[@cutekitten1185]

Instead of being, like, 100% friends with 1 - 4 people i’m like 20% friends with like 10 people????

[@shannonstibor6967]

I've been a bridesmaid once, and if I could, I would have turned it down. But it was for my dad and stepmom's wedding so I felt I had to say yes. It's overrated, don't even bother trying to imagine doing 5 times

[@veevee4805]

I have quite a few close friends, but only one of them is Christian, and she doesn't want to get married, so I'll probably be a bridesmaid only at my sister's wedding. But hearing all these bridesmaids horror stories, I'm starting to think that's a good thing.

[@pinds83]

@@veevee4805 Christians aren't the only one's who get married, so I'm not sure what you mean.

[@veevee4805]

@@pinds83 I thought Christians were the only ones who had bridesmaids.... Correct me if I'm wrong

[@haneenhawash1739]

Hard-to-swallow-pill of the day: Sometimes we just outgrow our child best friends and it’s ok

[@Candies1Creations]

I would have kicked her out my wedding as soon as she sent that text . Like who does that?

[@destinygatez7068]

Candice Marie Creations SAME I’m already obsessive as it is. If my childhood best friend tried this I would’ve burnt her with her own cigarettes.

[@ada627]

😂

[@quinngerber8237]

3:57 "I treated it like Harry Potter: I shoved it in the closet until it presented a problem" omg I died 😂😂

[@gryffinclawgacha9397]

Well how rude... I love Harry Potter

[@alexal.2483]

"She's literally crying in a fetal position"

[@weronikakolenska6390]

I laughed at that I don't know why but I did.😂

[@devinrehrig1565]

why not just... find another tailor.

[@NicoleFoti]

right tho? haha

[@firedragon7911]

But fr did that tailor legit refuse to work on the dress because of her bra???? Or did I misshear that?

[@emilycheek1899]

@@firedragon7911 yeah they did

[@Tlove4321]

I’m confused on the fact that they ordered the dresses 8-10 months before the wedding yet she only had 3 weeks to get it tailored 🤨

[@RemRewRoe]

@@Tlove4321 right?? What year was it that it takes 7 months to get something from China? And three weeks is enough to find someone in the neighbourhood who knows how to sew to fix that dress sizing issue

[@HijabiStarr19]

I love the second girl in the white stripes. Her explanation was HILARIOUS “im not ready im not wearing deodorant” “i feel like i was being lightly bullied” HAHA DEAD

[@Lauren.E.O]

The “old friend” in the last bridesmaid story sounds like the star of some bridal horror movie 🍿 👰 👧 🔪

[@lilvamplaura]

"you're marrying both of us" and multiple meltdowns? I think her friend may be in love with her honestly.

[@lemen11]

Or maybe jealous of her friend, the bride, and wanted to be the centre of attention. Some people will create drama when it's not all about them. It's childish and selfish, but unfortunately some people just don't know how to behave like mature adults.

[@lilvamplaura]

@@lemen11 tell someone who cares

[@lemen11]

@@lilvamplaura alrighty then. You have a good day.😘

[@itsamberwest]

lemen11 you handled this so well 😂 I’m just as confused as you are

[@ChickenTendere]

@@lilvamplaura I- tf was that whole 360° I-

[@miray3242]

I think the rude bridesmaid in the last story was in love with the bride.

[@TrueImmortality]

Still not okay to act like a crazy person lol

[@miray3242]

TrueImmortality I agree

[@bxgirl2930]

Or a episode of single white female! Wanted to be with the bride or BE THE BRIDE

[@mariamatedei]

Pretty toxic love if that's the case lmao

[@mariamatedei]

@@bxgirl2930 that sounds like a reality TV show "Single White Female: want the bride or be the bride?"

[@sarahoconnor7656]

She should of used safety pins to hem the dress.

[@zionakinjide650]

have*.....S.pin sound more reasonable.

[@peaceandlove2752]

Sarah O'Connor that or tape?

[@FraxinusDipetala]

Ive used a stapler and scissors in a pinch.

[@Izzy41630]

I know someone who used some bobby pins once, in a pinch, but it didn't last too long. Might do for a walk down the aisle.

[@funnyfoxbird]

Or cut it at that point

[@Cheeseanonioncrisps]

I have been a bridesmaid once, and halfway through the ceremony I decided that I didn't want to be one anymore and tried to push the other bridesmaid out the way so I could go and sit in the pews with my parents. My grandmother had to usher me back into the aisle. I mean, in my defence, I was four, so nobody's expectations were very high. 😅

[@erinnichols4866]

Sweetheart, you were probably a flower girl.

[@siobhangallagher2576]

@@erinnichols4866 I love how nice and calm the response was🤣😊

[@lexim1430]

@@erinnichols4866 Yeah, this is much more accurate. No 4 year olds are bridesmaids, they are flower girls

[@melissaherrera940]

@@lexim1430 my mom had young girls from the family as bridesmaids for her wedding so it’s not impossible

[@letitianaidoo4267]

@@melissaherrera940 Odd, but cool. I guess it's nice when people switch things up at weddings coz that makes it more interesting and less traditional

[@snakeufaceu9759]

„Im not ready, I’m not wearing deodorant” me every Monday morning Edit: daaaamn thanks for the likes guys, I’ve never gotten this many 💜

[@ashleygeorge1994]

Me every morning I have to work lol 😂 despite waking up with way more than enough time to get ready

[@uzmanaveed4877]

Army

[@snakeufaceu9759]

Uzma Naveed damn right 💜

[@alejandramanzanares413]

Damn I love that profile pic 💜#BTS

[@theegrach]

what part of asia bc in my country, you have to or else, it's gonna be hella stinky. lmao

[@VBVTV]

You never hear dudes saying, "I've been a groomsman 5 times."

[@emilycheek1899]

My brother in law is like in a wedding every weekend lol

[@VBVTV]

@@emilycheek1899 He's an anomaly.

[@Izzy41630]

It's probably because usually they just kind of show up. They don't have to do fittings, and showers, and all of that stuff months in advance. They get a rental tux, slap on a boutonniere, stand there for photos, done. With bridesmaids, it is an ORDEAL.

[@christinamitrovich7554]

Emily Cheek some guys are grooms men a lot.

[@emilycheek1899]

@@christinamitrovich7554 thats what I was saying?

[@stanypensaert3720]

I've never been a bridesmaid. Who else? 😭

[@magickmiiror2853]

Me either /: I was invited to be one only once, but the wedding never happened, they broke up shortly after beginning to plan it lol

[@monaherman]

Yeah same, I'm the oldest sibling so no marriages yet cuz they're too young and my best friend was only allowed to do sisters and SILs as bridesmaids. :/

[@meganreid3206]

Stany Pensaert i’m being one tomorrow for the first time!

[@stanypensaert3720]

@@meganreid3206 Good luck, girl!

[@hannahott9185]

Consider yourselves lucky!!! 🤣

[@seenamr6405]

Imagine watching this and realizing the story is about you.

[@aldc1697]

There should be a video where the people who the story is about react to these videos 😂

[@mj-yo7vt]

Bridesmaid 5 times? I don't even have 5 friends

[@jettasify]

I'm at 8, said no to two. It's overrated. Won't do it again. Ruined one friendship

[@myAinAutistic]

Yeah, I have 3 friends, 2 are closeted gays, the last one is a man, with enough male friends. I already made up with the idea of not being a bridesmaid-best ma’am, but I still trust him to have a wedding (of someone I care and not some long lost cousin that I don’t know) to attend xD

[@jettasify]

@Agatha z keep it that way. Trust me. Lol

[@summerjones2424]

Marry Goround love your profile

[@helenf.7221]

I have like two friends and my bf is my best friend. Never had to do any of this stuff thank christ

[@cmsunny111]

The last story sounds like a horror movie omfg

[@desireeholloway3353]

“She did end up stealing a center piece and throwing up everywhere “ lmao!!!

[@meganhoover361]

“She ended up stealing a centerpiece” I lost it 😂😂

[@dikshaml5507]

You know in India the bride pays for the bridesmaids dresses, shoes, makeup and hair. Being a bridesmaid sounds expensive in America.

[@mohamstaz3618]

It depends on the bride. When I got married, I had the girls pick their dresses from Azazie, which have nice quality dresses starting at around 50 USD, and told them to buy whatever silver shoes they wanted to go with it. I also paid for their hair and makeup, and their accessories. All in all, they only paid around 150 dollars each (a high estimate), and the wedding was local, so no big travel expenses. I'm also of the opinion that you don't ask your bridesmaids to pay any amount that you wouldn't personally pay yourself if you were in their wedding. These crazy women asking their bridesmaids to fork over 1,000 dollars or more for destination weddings/dresses/accessories can sit on it.

[@mkuti-childress3625]

I think that got cemented when people began paying for their own weddings instead of the bride’s parents covering all of it. They need their friends to buy their own clothes. I ordered my bridesmaids’ dresses from China, too! 4/5 of my bridesmaids were going through a tough time financially, and I didn’t want them to go broke for my wedding. They looked great for the price. I’m older now, but I was a bridesmaid a few times in my 20s and 30s, and I remember really stressing about the cost, especially when I was a broke student.

[@avilik13]

I'm Samoan and it's the same in our culture. It's kinda rude to expect people to pay for their own stuff.

[@londongalx]

It depends on the bride, I bought all my girls dresses, shoes, jewellery and paid for their hair to be however they wanted. Make up was on them though

[@joiceraiana]

Exactly. I don't wanna spend that amount of money to someone get married. I would rather be a normal guest and even that only if Im close enough to the bride or groom.

[@laurenkylehines]

The first woman is soooo beautiful!! Her smile and teeth... omg, I'm swooning.

[@EN-mh6sr]

@Lauren Hines....check out the Buzzfeed As/Is teacher video. She's on there too.

[@tselanelove8197]

Omg THANK YOU. You can follow my IG tselanelove

[@e.k_liadon]

So the moral of the story is “never invite your childhood friend unless you’re still very close”

[@letitianaidoo4267]

It seems like a given to me, but maybe it's coz of the life I had. I moved a lot and lost touch with many friends. I occasionally run into people from the past over the years, and it's nice and first, but after you're done catching up there isn't much to talk about anymore and then it's just awkward.

[@taikayaki]

This is why I never wanted a big wedding 😂 too much drama

[@valerielinares2068]

It's not about the size of the wedding. It's about the type of personalities you have in your wedding. My cousin had 14 bridesmaids. Wedding went off without any drama. It also depends on perspective and attitude. Some brides are easy going and can let stuff just roll off their back. While other brides let every little thing get to them. So, even if there were issues (major or not) at my cousin's wedding, it seemed she was laid back enough to not let it bother her.

[@b64771]

Omg that last story was nightmarish. What a train wreck from start to finish

[@gemuseschnitzel8261]

This Siena girl needs to be a comedian

[@knuffelbeer193]

She is!

[@princessmarlena1359]

I absolutely REFUSE to be a bridesmaid [anymore]. When I get married, it’s just a simple elopement, nice honeymoon. No parties, no ceremony. Too expensive, and I hate my family.

[@katieohlms2319]

Princess Marlena ouch!

[@lonelyronin2428]

Damn, what the family do to you! Stories, please?

[@malorie8557]

Honestly, one of the best decisions my husband and I made was not having bridesmaids/groomsman. A wholeeeee lot of stress was missed due to it.

[@danielle739]

I wish they showed a picture of the safety pin story dress!

[@foxbearchillinbytheriver]

8:27

[@VashtiPerry]

They did

[@victoriad6004]

They did, it just didn’t show the back with all the safety pins in it

[@danielle739]

Thank you guys !!!

[@EH012]

Bridesmaid number two, who is hilarious, reminded me so strongly of the actor Natasha Lyonne, who plays Nichols on Orange is the New Black, that I literally googled her name to accurately comment about it. I'm so satisfied.

[@missmoxie9188]

Your comment is satisfying

[@Miztli3]

Lmao "I felt like I was lightly bullied by this woman" 😂😂😂

[@chloewhitesell417]

that sienna girl was hilarious

[@h.m.d.2989]

"It was so hellish to have someone with throwup on them and like, resist..." Sounds like a day with a sick toddler.. 😅🤮

[@charlenesantiago6104]

"I treated them like Harry Potter; I shoved them in the closet until they presented a problem" is my favourite line ever.

[@NicoleFoti]

The dress hemming story gave me so much anxiety haha That would 100% happen to me

[@avarosefleck]

the first story is called being the mom friend

[@graceneedham18]

seems like the childhood friend decided to stay a child

[@aaliyakhan5370]

The blue dress in the safety pin story was stunning. She did a great job!

[@brigittemlr]

“Like a flesh shoe”- Sienna 2019

[@dumisalengwati3068]

Good God the girl in the last story is incorrigible 😱 She managed to do every inappropriate thing a bridesmaid shouldn't do!

[@chelsea2059]

Did this feel like an episode of Drunk History to anyone else? Lol. It just needs the reenactments.

[@josiespeakman3590]

"I treated them like HARRY POTTER. Shoved them in the closet till they presented a problem." When I tell you I LOST IT.

[@Lexiekween]

“I’m not ready I’m not wearing deodorant”

[@shadajalloyd5786]

The last one would’ve been out of my wedding IMMEDIATELY. cause girl no lmao

[@QuimBeelivingstone]

WOW. I didnt realize how much i love bridesmaid horror stories

[@wiliatar]

The last story is sad asf the bridesmaid is jealous of the bride and is trying to sabotage the wedding

[@tilarfifield2407]

OMG THE DAVIDS BRIDAL STORY 😱 I cannot even believe that lady asked her about her weight! I used to work there and we would literally be fired if we ever commented on someone’s weight. RUDE!

[@allyford92]

The second bridesmaid was hilarious if anyone knows her @ lmk.

[@jiabahbaz6736]

noelle127 sammeee

[@prag3037]

@sienaeast

[@edenmuriel1021]

The last story was my favourite. The bridesmaid stole a center piece.

[@omg_jess]

Eden Muriel they were very beautiful lol

[@zipporahp.30]

“Someone with throw up on them trying to resist.” Welcome to nursing.

[@mugdhanbapat]

Sienna seems to be the friend everyone needs. Crazy and cute!

[@katxberry7691]

I was the MOH for my bff and overall it was a fine experience. There were no issues with the bride at all because she was very easy but her wedding party was 8+8. Huge! It’s really hard to coordinate with 9 different women’s schedules, preferences, and personalities. We split the group down the middle to plan and execute the bridal shower and the bachelorette party, with me leading the party team. One of the girls (and her friend she brought along-it was a destination bachelorette party) was extremely difficult to work with, late to everything, made side comments about everything that was already planned, basically didn’t put effort into the planning process but acted like she felt left out from the beginning. Another one kept making suggestions for things to do that cost money but kept expressing how she wouldn’t be able to spend much. A few of the girls went out one of the nights and she joined them, they paid her way the whole night. She literally lived the closest to our location and travel for her was the cheapest. Overall, it went well and the bride was extremely happy and grateful with how everything turned out. But working with women you don’t really know who are so different from you was a challenge. I learned A LOT from the experience-mainly that I will probably never agree to be MOH again except to do it for one other person in my life. I say that because I was MOH for a coworker once.......MISTAKE. Wasted a beautiful speech on her lol. But that’s another story. I’ll happily stick to the bridesmaid role.

[@roomforlight1047]

I absolutely fell in love with the second girl in like 2 seconds

[@rowenaravenclaw2215]

The second girl's voice is so beautiful. I could listen to her forever

[@gogobubblegum9763]

I'm no longer upset I've never been a bridesmaid 🤣🤣

[@madisonbarnett6564]

The girl with the red hair! Her hair looks so beautiful omg the color looks amazing on her

[@omg_jess]

Madison Barnett thank you so much!!🥰🥰🥰

[@SalmaKlein]

Don’t ask bridesmaids to pay for their dress, especially if you have expensive taste. You never know people’s financial situation.

[@Kimmehface]

If a bridesmaid can’t pay for the dress, they can politely decline. Paying for the dress is part of accepting the role of bridesmaid. Unless you have a friend or family member that can’t afford it and you really want them in your wedding... then the bride should pay it.

[@SalmaKlein]

Kimmehface nowpe

[@C1984_FR]

@@Kimmehface Bride and groom should pay for everything. Bridesmaids dresses ect should be included in the budget. I would not have dreamed of allowing my bridesmaids to pay for anything, the dress, hair, make up and nails were paid for by me.

[@Kimmehface]

That’s very unusual. I don’t know anyone that did that and I was in a lot of weddings. I wish someone paid for my stuff but it’s not traditional in my culture. Maybe elsewhere it is.

[@letitianaidoo4267]

In my sister's wedding, she paid for our hair, makeup and nails as it was for the day. We paid for the dresses and shoes since we would get to keep them. It seems like a good compromise to me. But I do agree that you must first ask your bridesmaids what price range they're comfortable with and work from there.

[@capture_diaries]

Siena, the one-time bridesmaid, is legit the best storyteller ever.

[@jessicacashion5372]

Sienna was soo funny, love her energy. Hope shes in more vids in the future!

[@lexim1430]

The child hood best friend was totally in love with the bride. No question about it

[@aisenpai6721]

I LITERALLY LOST IT WHEN SHE SAID '' YOU KNOW LIKE FLESH SHOE''

[@kiksuyesni]

4:20 "I was gonna ask my grandma to hem it but she was on the rez" FELTTTTT I WENT TO A PROM WITH A FRIEND A STATE AWAY AND MY AUNTIE WAS SUPPOSED TO HEM KT BUT SHE WAS ON THE REZ SO WE USED PAPER CLIPS-😂💀 ( I knew this girl was native American😂)

[@crystalm586]

@Elizendo No honey, we natives call all reservations "the rez". She's Native according to her insta

[@christie7201]

@Ellllaaa Actually it's "Nation" I'm Pima and T.O. 🙃 We call it the rez here in AZ, hon

[@christie7201]

@Ellllaaa And btw. Nation has nothing to do with it. If you are Native American, you'd know most Natives call it the rez. Let me guess. You're a Cherokee princess? Apache, Navajo, Cheyenne? Oh I know! You must be a "Great Granddaughter of a Blackfoot chief"! Right?

[@christie7201]

@Ellllaaa You're in Canada. Your terms aren't the same as us U.S citizens'. Like I said, we call it the rez here in AZ. T.O. is one of the many nations whom was also put on the "rez" back in the 1800s. So instead of sitting here trying to tell someone that the rez does not mean reservation (Which, to us, it does) take in to consideration that if you're from Canada, your cultures and terms are way different. We don't use the term of rez for residential homes here in the West, it's used to refer to the reservation. And if you're assuming I'm not Native, you are very wrong 🙃

[@mariesbabysis]

@Nameless You do not speak for every native person in Canada. I know a lot of indigenous people that refer to reserves as a rez.

[@nancyoyula]

Started with pregnancy horror stories yesterday and I've been binge watching all the horror stories lol

[@magica4679]

“I was gonna ask my grandma to hem it but she was on the rez.” Lmfao I felt that. I just knew she was native from the moment she came on.😂

[@tarasitton8176]

When I plan a wedding I inform the Bride that she needs to be careful in choosing her bridesmaids. As a rule of thumb if you wouldn't trust that girl to be in the room with you when you give birth she doesn't need to be at the alter with you when you give your heart to someone. It is equally as important and a bad friend or a drama queen can ruin the whole day.

[@annikabrewster6667]

“bc my grandma was out on the rez” 😂

[@alexandria3005]

Like me too girl lmao

[@Izzy41630]

I was briefly confused by this because we have a lake near me, that's our town's reservoir, and everyone calls it the Rez. My mind went to 'How could she be on a lake for so long?' XD Think I need to go to bed.

[@Hessed3712]

That last girl (not the lovely lady telling the story) needs to see a psychiatrist. Who acts like that?!

[@shannonbrophy3687]

The third lady was hard to follow in her story; pauses in her sentences was odd. Last story was really good.

[@sallylee8422]

Still entertaining story tho

[@rachelolsen3428]

These were wild stories! I've never been a bridesmaid, and I hope if/when I am one, we can keep things a little calmer.

[@AlexisGatica07]

Girl the first story😂😂 somethings better left unsaid

[@leiratzadok4712]

sienna is definitely the best one but they are all so beautiful,have amazing personalitys overall really have interesting storys🙌🏼💗

[@perlaphilpot77]

Someone tell Sienna to make a KZbin channel! She's so entertaining

[@desireeholloway3353]

Wow! The safety pen dress and venue looks astonishing!👍🎉🎉🎉

[@NotTheSauce]

That first bride needed some serious intervention - stuff you say when you're drunk is just stuff you're too scared to say sober.....

[@NuttyRedBaBonkerz]

Sienna's storytelling was amazing I would listen to a podcast of her

[@senecaclark5776]

The second I heard “the Rez” you got my heart I know exactly what you mean girl

[@hvalea]

Seneca Clark RIGHT 😂 and when she started the story with her cousin wanting her to be a bridesmaid

[@gaming_with_rex4031]

@@hvalea Wait what's wrong with that 🤣

[@hvalea]

L. K. There’s nothing wrong with it, indigenous peoples are just really close with our copious amount of cousins

[@lonelyronin2428]

Hi, young adult here. What's the rez? The closest Ive ever heard is the Ritz.

[@senecaclark5776]

@@lonelyronin2428 Google is a marvellous thing

[@themarquis336]

That last girl telling the story is HILARIOUS. Such a fan.

[@tylerjune4120]

Siena is the type of person I would love to be friends with -she seems like a lot of fun

[@sarahbedwell2542]

Absolutely love that nude and shinny sweater💕

[@AshLey-uj3ox]

Sienna is such a good story teller!

[@dohene]

I’m so glad this was suggested to me. Siena is my spirit animal.

[@BP-yd9vn]

I loved the last story. I think there's a story in there that was omitted, like maybe the bridesmaid was once a girlfriend and wasn't ready to let go of the bride? That would make the story make sense.

[@kristi604]

I love the second girl, Sienna, so much! She’s hilarious 😂

[@narnia1233]

The girl with the unhemmed dress, she could have had it pinned up. I’m surprised no one at the wedding could help her with that. My mom could have done that in just a few minutes.

[@baileywright1656]

My mom used to temporarily hem stuff with a glue stick. Works great for dress pants, though pins would probably work better for heavy dress fabric XD

[@lucychu7140]

Love the last story.