Wedding Planners Share Their Horror Stories

Watch Nina plan her wedding on season 2 of Wedding Season: • Wedding Season
#wedding #bridal "I hate lavender flowers!"
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[@princekrazie]

This is basically babysitting for adults.

[@cupcake3929]

God I burst out laughing when I read this

[@stoneoffarel]

Yeah I thought the same about the groom...

[@alriaquino6994]

True...b

[@angelicahyde]

PRINCE KRAZIE ExACtLy

[@unknown-or3li]

adultsitting

[@hanahaki6635]

lavender is supposed to be calming,that lady *needed* some lavender in her life

[@everuby9202]

Lmao 😂

[@Faith_Southers]

fr tho lol

[@alyssaduong6485]

I don’t like lavender but I wouldn’t complain about it!

[@fionaeckert4556]

Definitely no lavender at my wedding. I get sick when I smell it.

[@lizziesteele7740]

I mean, as long as it isn't *overpowering* in scent (specifically *some* of Bath and Body Works' candles and lotion), I'll definitely smell it and keep the scent in my room or my house.

[@marinagemoftheseas]

That lady who assaulted the server should've gone to court. Disgusting.

[@hindsightpov4218]

She’s no lady. Just some entitled, horrible person.

[@bigzrx3670]

I literally watched this twice and I was yelling angrily at the video when she said the story. Service industry have to go through SO MUCH B.S. and garbage from people. ANd then you put your HANDS on someone? For doing their job? This is not slavery, but apparently she still thinks it is...

[@keithpaglinawan5092]

yes. she shouldve hired more hands. tsk. too self entitiled but cannot afford.

[@sierrahglass6266]

I’d press charges

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Whatever batman. Jk farting is pretty cool.

[@Viwaldron]

“Yellow flowers can go on the tables for MY guests” ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING NOT YOUR GUESTS 😂

[@erinmccann4415]

Flowey the Flower is shaking

[@scarlettcomicstm1632]

Ikr

[@griffin3440]

MaeganTheDoof flowery can just hide and they can use the flowers that Frisk fell into

[@griffin3440]

Omg it autocorrected to flowery I meant flowey

[@asdfxw5752]

@@griffin3440 you ruined the joke ( ;-;)

[@sibellachauveau1116]

Poor bride having to deal with her mother-in-law for the rest of her marriage, not just the yellow flower incident...

[@valeria6751]

😫

[@poff1626]

Hopefully she establishes boundaries real quick!!!

[@karina61400]

Literally was thinking that the whole time... “imagine what the bride has to go through later in life...”

[@argenys8]

50% of marriages fail i wonder why lol

[@WouldntULikeToKnow.]

The husband needs to put his foot down and tell his mom how it's going to be. Sorry, ma, it's not just about you anymore.

[@100Stratusfiedx]

The audacity of the mother in law to buy flowers.

[@Saiphers]

freal like damn u is not even the one getting married

[@Urumi89]

Plus that would have cost her at least 2000/3000 grand! Who would be such an idiot?

[@angi46131]

We did corsages with gardenias for our moms and grandmas. My MIL was aware that this was happening and even had said how sweet it was. She waited until the day of the wedding to come in and inform me that she hated gardenias and wanted something different. (She had already spoke to the florist and had been told by him that it was too late before she came to me while I was finishing getting ready.) I told her if she didn't like it, she didn't have to wear it and she left the room. A few minutes later the florist comes in with her corsage and a confused look on his face. He had been told that I said to take flowers out of my bouquet to make her a new corsage. That was not happening! I sent one of my bridesmaids to find my fiance and let him deal with it. That was almost 25 years ago and I still don't know what he said or did, but she was wearing it when I walked down the aisle!

[@saab3934]

@@angi46131 God, the unnecessary stress that she put on you. Hopefully, the rest of wedding went swell and she's treating you better now.

[@user-dx5fq1pp1w]

There should be an RSlash on this😂

[@picklepirate]

Dude, putting the yellow flowers in the lobby, I'm hiring that planner. She's a genius lol

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Underpants

[@witchbitch1238]

Literally

[@nashwahossain1040]

lol

[@nattyg5174]

People

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

im not a huge fan of yellow, I'd totally have lavender flowers if I had my own wedding

[@rockstarknight4331]

The mother in law should have respected the bride's choice of the lavender. It's the bride's wedding, not the mother in law's.

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Hello from the other hide

[@operaghosts]

Star Knight exactly

[@elizabethpinkiepie3614]

I don’t think most mother in laws care. It’s not their daughter, so they just don’t care about the bride’s wishes

[@unamed2516]

@@elizabethpinkiepie3614 Some are so controlling and manipulative if it’s their biological daughters wedding.

[@thatgrumpychick4928]

Mother in law's think they are in charge. Like honey, do you really think you're in charge anymore?

[@elliewheatley9908]

these mother in laws & mother of the brides are so self absorbed, it’s not about you sweetie

[@bishdisgosting4792]

Right 😂

[@dominiqueeeee6179]

This is why we are paying for our wedding ourselves, we don’t need any unnecessary opinions!

[@JennaTriplett]

I’m just not gonna get married 😂

[@marshall3894]

Dominique Rangel Congratulations!

[@ashleyg5384]

ellie wheatley right

[@michelem7914]

I'm kind of disappointed that the monther who assaulted a server wasn't kicked out. I hope they pressed charges. Servers are not there for you to abuse.

[@coldsuncrowfeet]

ok

[@morguemiss9516]

So true,I work in the industry and so many people are rude to those doing services for you. Its best when people treat their servers /bartenders with respect

[@michelem7914]

@@morguemiss9516 One of my girlfriends worked front desk at a hotel and a guest threw a shoe at her head. How is that behavior acceptable?

[@LilySaintSin]

@@michelem7914 Not at all!

[@ziinuka]

Yeah I was quite disappointed that they just bribed the venue owner like I assume they weren't the one who was slapped? Absolutely should have kicked her out.

[@maddychew6757]

“yellow means prosperity” im 99% sure that mother in law was an asian

[@gracio1231]

maddy honey I’m Chinese not sure if the Mother in law is Chinese good guess and not all asian mother in laws are like that xo

[@imscreeching]

yellow also means witch craft

[@forestwhale5711]

As someone who took a foral class it means friendship

[@queenkaterose]

Or she looks up what meaning of the flowers mean? (But I can be wrong

[@madisoned]

Asians would love red for weddings. I haven't heard of yellow

[@Kiki-cs8xv]

I've worked hundreds and hundreds of weddings as a venue manager, and I've seen it all. Many beautiful moments, and quite a lot of awful ones. There was the lady who threw up all over the bridal table. The groom's friends who got bored at the reception and started a fire (I wish I was kidding about that one). The Mother of the Groom who ripped out all of the bride's (beautiful) decorations and replaced them with cheap nik-naks from her own home. Many, many cakes that got left in a hot car and melted (pay for delivery, people!).The celebrant who forgot to bring the marriage license, so the couple just signed a blank piece of paper and weren't legally married. And possibly the most cringey one: the groom's parents showing a slideshow of his baby pictures while they sang a song telling the bride that he was still their baby and they loved him more than she ever would. I have felt genuinely awful for some couples. Sometimes the staff can see the divorce coming on day one.

[@Kit.E.Katz45]

WOW!😯

[@YourNewPrincess]

My God... I am starting to be scared to getting married...

[@hindenburg2006]

...I honestly want to hear the story about the groomsmen starting the fire, because that just sounds hilarious (as an anecdote...not when it actually happened, I'm sure).

[@Kiki-cs8xv]

@@hindenburg2006 It's not actually that interesting. Candles on the table. Bored guys who decided to see what would catch fire. Flowers: not very flammable. Bits of food from their plates: also not very flammable. Tablecloth: very flammable. Also a cost that we'll take out of your bond.

[@indigo_blue_s2830]

@@Kiki-cs8xv well aint the groom lucky with those "winners" for friends

[@wishtopublish]

You would think a guy who's sooooo particular about how his suit looks like would TRY THE DAMN SUIT ON BEFORE THE DAY OF THE WEDDING.

[@mistyfying7729]

He did try it on, he just didn't try it on AGAIN when he picked it up

[@wishtopublish]

@@mistyfying7729 Still bad to do, if you ask me. Not as wretched as someone who didn't check at ALL.

[@PolyBiBadger]

Misty Fying he should’ve or at least realized “Hey this isn’t my suit”

[@niicolerenae9264]

Misty Fying yea but that means he didn’t even look at the suit when picking it up, you can tell when something is shorter than expected when you look at it when you have a vision in your mind

[@Luisa-wr5bj]

I don’t get why they didn’t go back to where they ordered it from and get the actual tux

[@randomname1269]

WHY WOULD YOU SLAP SOMEONE WHO'S DOING THEIR JOB BECAUSE YOU'RE CHEAP

[@somonethatlikeskpop4894]

1.3K likes with 0 reply ?

[@randomname1269]

Laura 안녕하세요 I have Jimin's Jam !!! I guess so

[@vlo123veronica]

Yupp. People are just incredibly stupid and want to blame their own short comings on other people.

[@inannaenigma9391]

America. Enough said.

[@eadecamp]

Maybe that's why our wedding went so smoothly. He was 1,000 miles away from his family and I wasn't speaking to mine.

[@SeychelleSunshine]

I'm excited to hopefully have a destination wedding someday. Most of the drama loving people I'm related to probably won't have the coins to come so they'll have even less room to complain about not getting invited. 😂

[@hindsightpov4218]

Smaller weddings tend to be more intimate and goes without a hitch. I hate going to big weddings where you don’t know 90% of the wedding guests.

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

LETTUCE EVERYWHERE.

[@Ava-cw3jf]

unrelated but your cat is so cute

[@aleksandrapetrova4960]

Lol

[@ashthedrummer6243]

"THIS ISN'T KINDERGARTEN" 😂

[@bubbleslotp2561]

I read this RIGHT as she said it and it was wonderful

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

🍄🍄🍄🍄🍄🍅🍅🍅🍅🍍🍍🍍 YOPA.

[@na0m1fes51]

😂😂😆

[@AriXlle_1108]

She hates lavender BUT ITS NOT HER WEDDING SO SHE NEEDS TO CHILL OUT

[@big_chanel985]

ItsAri’Elle truu

[@bwd5900]

The Army hello army 💜

[@whoisidkxx]

You need to as well sorry

[@munachowdhury5055]

ARMYYYYY

[@somonethatlikeskpop4894]

@@bwd5900 hello there ARMY I purple army 💜

[@hillisawesome]

"Did you try it when you picked it up?" "nO?" HAHAHAHA, she was so done with him

[@PeteyPistolDee03]

Helen Luu i cried 😂

[@helletenbrix9614]

"Who said you could get pregnant before the wedding?' So good I'm not a wedding planner.

[@brittbc4215]

Helen Luu I would’ve been too. I wouldn’t have even married him. You don’t care enough to listen and have ONE thing done correctly for your own wedding? You obviously don’t care that much. Shows a lot.

[@krystlemurphy8514]

My bridal store didn’t ask me to try my dress on when I picked it up after alterations. I had to insist! 🤦‍♀️

[@christinahnah]

Omg I could totally watch 3 more hours of these stories lol

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

To through boots pud

[@chelseascannell1900]

If my mother in law ever tried bringing her “own” flowers to my wedding day that I spent months specifically planning the colours for, I’d put them in the bin petal by petal. NOT. YOUR. DAY.

[@CurlyFries120]

I'd set them on fire LOL

[@monkeygal158]

Oof that overdramatic groom over a tux is a hard no for me. You didn't try it on, it was your fault

[@EinfachLara]

Wasn’t his fault. He already got it fitted, why would he think they gave him the wrong tux and try it on again?

[@PolyBiBadger]

Lara II-// I think he may have picked up the wrong tux at the shop

[@nathanmcgee7425]

Lara II-// Common sense? Even if it's already tailored you try it on after to make sure no more adjustments need to be made or there was no mistake.

[@PolyBiBadger]

Nathan McGee Exactly

[@BekkiBicci]

I feel like it’s a bit unfair on the groom in this situation, it’s not his fault he got the wrong tux and if it had been the bride that got the wrong dress or her dress didn’t fit, I think she might have had more sympathy.

[@LisiLisichan]

The dark haired woman has stunning eyes

[@megha5176]

Yes !

[@lauriemille9211]

🥔

[@misschnandlerbong7024]

IKR! They’re gorgeous!

[@jhassy415]

fr

[@lilcactusboi9577]

Yeah!

[@jazminestryder]

It really baffles me how selfish ADULTS are. Seriosuly. Take a reality check - the world doesn't revolve around you and it's NOT YOUR WEDDING if you are the in laws!

[@pipersmith6132]

I love how none of these are bridezilla stories

[@chilanya]

this video is too short, i need more stories. working for a catering company i have a few of my own. always have a bad weather scenario. just because it's summer doesn't mean it'll be warm or dry.

[@jmercuryuk]

Look up reddit wedding horror stories. Way more and far more entertaining. These are tame in comparison

[@hdettore]

chilanya same here!!!! I needed way more of this!

[@s.markes4559]

I saw one🤦🏼‍♀️🤣🤣🤣 It was so windy, that the cake flew and fell into the sea🤦🏼‍♀️ And they were having their ceremony 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏼‍♀️ We ended up giving them a applie pie cake. I would have ended crying if that ever happend to me

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Fart

[@bri3915]

Especially if you live somewhere where it tends to rain or storm a lot in the summer like midwest usa

[@Vertasoie]

WHO THE HECK BUYS A WEDDING TUXEDO WITHOUT TRYING IT ? X'D

[@jozimaru5578]

He pick Up the wrong tuxido. The one he bought was already tailored for him

[@ZoeoOreo]

They gave him the wrong one after he got it tailored... I used to work at a bridal shop and you would be surprised how many people would get upset when we made them try on their garments before leaving the store to made sure they fit

[@sarasthoughts]

@@ZoeoOreo still, you should obviously try it on before the wedding!

[@ZoeoOreo]

sarasthoughts I agree but I think a lot of people assume that if they got something fitted for them then it should automatically fit which is why they don’t feel the need to try it on until it’s too late

[@acelovesdiyschristopher7023]

That guy apparently

[@madisonrhall]

I found it kinda cute that the groom was all “this wasn’t how I wanted to look on my wedding day” like boo, it’ll be ok. she loves you so much. go have fun!

[@melissaortiz784]

"This is assault, please don't do this" WOW. The energy of people on their wedding day is something inconceivable. Katie is a great storyteller by the way.

[@justanotheranonymousaccoun6365]

Melissa Ortiz It wasn’t the bride, it was the bride’s mother...so it wasn’t her wedding day.

[@hebbyful]

I don't like that the wedding planner went over the server's head to let her get away with it.

[@christinaudodi571]

@@hebbyful exactly, and she doesn’t seem to understand how wrong she was. Katie is extremely entitled and arrogant as well. The server probably felt like their job was at jeopardy since Katie went to their boss so they just dropped it

[@kaykamayy]

The girl in the white shirt was cracking me up. She’s a great story teller. Lol

[@match0um]

She reminds me of Chelsea Peretti, she's hilarious

[@miakayuki1212]

Madeleine L.B omg same😂😂 I literally said out loud that she’s like gina when I heard how she spoke/told the stories

[@No_timezone77]

Same here😂😂😂😂😂

[@Heytherexoxo785]

i know, but i didn't like the other one.

[@thehairharrington2843]

IK!!!

[@pascati9936]

These ladies were great storytellers, but *damn* listening to this stressed me out. I can't even imagine myself dealing with those situations as well as they did.

[@PyroPisces]

Me neither! I would be having a fit and trying to figure out how to fix things. (Also, the picture of Soleil you used for your photo is cute!)

[@indigo_blue_s2830]

Could you imagine she letting the venue manager sue the woman? Wouldn't that be karma at it's best! Lets see how you like those extra "charges" 😋

[@krystlemurphy8514]

PyroLace I was just imagining myself burning the yellow flowers haha

[@hindsightpov4218]

Baloncica bb I hope they gave that server she smacked a nice, big, juicy tip. A hundred dollars at minimum. If he pressed charges then the mother of the bride would have to pay a lot of legal fines.

[@autumnrogers2933]

I really want to be a wedding planner but I’m not sure if I’m cut out lol

[@Kn1cknackz0]

Videos like this just make me appreciate my parents. They would never, EVER even think about telling me what to do for my wedding, and they would especially never go behind my back to change things to their specifications. I cannot believe some of these people, it's infuriating. You have to have so much patience to be a wedding planner...

[@LadyGodivaish]

I thought the same until I got married...

[@shadrackakinkunmi]

Nobody : Not a single soul : Not even Aliens : The mother in law : I hAtE LaVeNdEr

[@ingriddubbel8468]

Stop with the "Nobody" crap, its stupid.

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Mommy lobby soggy doggy foggy

[@eleanorcooke7136]

The Satan in law

[@jenniferle8294]

Wedding planner in the yellow seems absolutely phenomenal. Rain on an outdoor wedding AND cancelled vans?? Those are two huge problems and she handled them like a pro

[@wolfyyt1926]

Jennifer Le hi profile picture pic buddy

[@danan9061]

I feel like she should have convinced them to opt for twnts tho

[@wolfyyt1926]

I came back to see the comments, and saw this, and my profile pic buddy, and was like.. wow I got a lot of likes, wow I don’t write like this... wow this isn’t me 😂

[@jenniferle8294]

@@wolfyyt1926 Haha we can share the glory profile pic buddy

[@cy8125]

@@danan9061 I agree, or at least brought lots of white umbrellas! Napkins? Yikes

[@bryanmacrina5175]

This is not really a horror story. It’s just very funny. So years ago, I was a cater-waiter at a wedding at a country club. At the end of the day, as we’re all leaving, we hear someone calling out to us. We turn around and see the bride, still in full wedding dress and veil, running out to us in the parking lot. She was literally holding a wad of green cash. She wanted to tip us all personally!

[@secretmina23]

Thats so wholesome. Bless her.

[@franny7997]

Aww this was very sweet!

[@rainbowgirlism]

Aww

[@samwilson188]

Aw, that’s sweet! She must have been a great bride to work with!

[@devinreis5811]

That's so sweet!

[@kimberlysmith9625]

Nobody: Nobody in the entire world: Leora: I H A T E L A V E N D E R

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

A bahah sizzlez

[@janettebiggs4550]

Unless you are allergic and it can kill you. If I ever get married there will be no lavender because I have family and friends allergic.

[@duckie4655]

Mother in law: But I don't like Lavendar! Me: But I don't like YOU. So cHiLl

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Slime ball coating my stonk

[@barca4395]

lavendar is NOT dark🤣 and it smells really good🖤

[@PHlophe]

its darker than yellow though, but the smell is nice but its invasive. i can see why some people don't like it. but the moral of the stories is that MIL are bitches.

[@Switilicious]

Lavender is freaking pretty it's like the best wedding color other then white or some prefer pink

[@vintagemint3167]

My auntie had lavender flowers for her wedding

[@frishtasafi6763]

I love lavender 😍😍

[@caligulalonghbottom2629]

some people think it looks like weeds...i like the smell but think the flowers are hideous

[@safiiyaa]

Groom: *I WANTED IVORY, NOT OFF-WHITE! MY LIFE IS RUINEDDD!*

[@BruinPhD2009]

ツツSaffy Well, at least he defied the stereotype that only brides are the crazy divas on wedding day.

[@safiiyaa]

@@BruinPhD2009 Haha, true!

[@Diamondelle84]

Groomzilla! lol

[@ninoninano3736]

Umm actually he wanted ‘Cream Ivory’ so like get it right please, you uncultured blind bat

[@safiiyaa]

@@ninoninano3736 Omg you are sooo right, excuse my cultural ignorance! 😲

[@melonchaa07]

Guy: "bUT tHIs iSNt tHE tUx I wAntED" The wedding planner: "A TUX IS A TUX"

[@meep257]

I hated how judgemental she was about that.

[@SilverstreamPJ28]

@@meep257 well he should've tried his tux on if he was gonna be so specific about it lolol it's not her fault

[@pumpkinscorner394]

I would have pressed charges. Screw catering to the crazy mother! Who cares about her feelings??

[@mj-yo7vt]

Funny thing is in Russia yellow roses mean break up soooooo

[@reaganluker2278]

Fun Factory that’s my parents wedding flowers. They have been going strong for 23 years.

[@mj-yo7vt]

@@reaganluker2278 It doesn't mean immediate break up

[@kriseurodyne]

оооо русские

[@kindakomplicated4537]

Fun Factory BAHAHAHAH “not immediate” so shady

[@sofiamendez6776]

Lmao, and in Mexico they mean death. 😂

[@ilove2929]

That bride's mother who cut corners and assaulted server is just total nightmare. The other is just typical client panicking, power play and family feud 😆 oh tough job you gals.

[@MrsStinnnsfire]

As a bartender/server in a restaurant where we regularly have weddings this is a pure nightmare. I'm sorry but there are 80 to 130 people that want drinks and coffee all at once, you are gonna have to WAIT.

[@champagnema]

I don't wana ruin the 666 likes

[@couch_philosoph3325]

If my mum behaved like this at my wedding, we will have a big problem. No server will be treated poorly at my wedding, no honey. Service jobs are hard enough and this should be a celebration of love, so treat people with respect and compassion

[@lolno6465]

I would have sued Them. I legit don't care if I ruin your Wedding, if you hit me i'll sue. I hate people

[@mimiel7938]

I am concerned about the mother in maw trying to change the flowers behind the bride s back though

[@jacklou.6699]

The crap servers and bartenders go through is absolutely ridiculous. I've had my time as a waiter without alcoholic beverages involved -- I can't imagine serving for people who are already somewhat intoxicated. Still, drunkness is not a reason to assault the servers!

[@oliviaeagle1093]

Is anyone gonna talk about how pretty her eyes are 😲

[@sharl1027]

the stories are hilarious, but the way they are telling it and reenacting it made it 100x funnier.

[@rociochavolla6799]

sharl1027 right? 😂 6:54 is my favorite part

[@Bluey306]

@@rociochavolla6799 omg yes i lost it at the punch gkldjfkd

[@sisterstina3700]

Suddenly I want to work as a wedding planner. Sounds like fun.

[@lisly1234]

I would kill myself, it's not for me

[@sunflower7874]

@@lisly1234 SAME ✌

[@PHE4_]

I like the movie with Jennifer Lopez, the wedding planner. Couldn’t do it as a job lol

[@chocolatemafia4303]

Ikr? Same. I like that kind of pressure

[@ecampbell9506]

Sounds mostly very stressful

[@kellacanb]

What she said: "This way everyone can be happy." What she meant: This way I can be happy.

[@angelica8000]

If that MIL do something like that in her son's wedding day, I can imagine what she must do in different occasions like rasing the kids or buying a house. I'm so glad my MIL is the most wonderful person and super chill.

[@stephaniemartin-ward4578]

When we were on vacation my MIL ripped out my husband's garden and put in what she wanted. At our house. A garden he had worked on for a couple of years. 20 years later he hardly speaks to her. Control freak b----.

[@rustyhowe3907]

@@stephaniemartin-ward4578 Oh that's so heartbreaking, glad he never spoke to her again.

[@opalwhitman8552]

wedding planner in head: OMG DONT ASSAULT THE WAITERS!! out loud: can u pwease not do that :3

[@WJLMAROON]

Haha thats the service industry. Trying to politely ask people not to do things that are completely bizarre.

[@Kaastengels]

I mean, at that point clients re basically royalty tho...

[@7lawaneeena]

Pweeeeease :3

[@mob2549]

don’t

[@dislikebuttonuser4996]

The service industry in a nut shell

[@SKB2643]

Getting married next week and 1 min into this video iv just called my fiance to tell him to try his suit! He keeps saying he doesnt need to because "he knows the tailors"!! Im like TRY IT ON NOW!!! Apr 2020 - WOW!! so many likes! Never had that before! Thanks guys. Wedding was amazing and he looked a treat in his suit! 🙃🙃🙃

[@IKKclauKR]

Tell me it fit!

[@bunnyboo486]

Does it fit him??

[@SKB2643]

Thank god yes it did!! But what is it with men not wanting to try anything on?? I had to force him to try his wedding shoes as the shop didn't have his size so we ordered online. I never buy anything without trying it on even on an average day and this is his own wedding!!

[@mentonerodominicano]

Wish you a lovely fun wedding and a wonderful life together.

[@ericbrown1101]

@@SKB2643 it's true, I hate trying on clothes. And if I'm getting it tailored, that means I've already tried it on. I'm assuming we're good at this point lol.

[@annissanaranjo5575]

when she clapped and said “that is assault” LMAOOO

[@user-yr1dz5pp5i]

So this is what Gina Linetti has been doing since leaving the 99

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Sup duck

[@user-yr1dz5pp5i]

@@vilmaantanelyte3717 Is that a comment on my surname?

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

What no, i was just replying to all of the comments and ran out of things to say.

[@user-yr1dz5pp5i]

@@vilmaantanelyte3717 Oh... cause my surname is a type of duck.

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Cool, what a coincidence

[@bleujay6127]

To all the control freak moms, EVERYTHING IS NOT ABOUT YOU! Edit: omg thanks for all the likes!!!!

[@acelovesdiyschristopher7023]

Probably gonna be my mom

[@cee8737]

If my mother tries to change anything on the day of my wedding; I just might have to fight her

[@acelovesdiyschristopher7023]

@Diana Taran saaame why you gotta steal my plans boo. Oh well we can share priests. 😂

[@Veronica-bc6pp]

They know etiquette and class!

[@jherlenecargill4081]

My dad always jokes about how my sis and I should get married in Vegas, cause it's cheaper and he won't have to put down a dollar... but honestly, same... I love weddings but me having to plan one is like UUUGGGGHHHHH let's get married in Vegas....

[@reaganluker2278]

“I HATE LAVENDER” *looks around my room* Me: well I love lavender.

[@aubreymanry9030]

ME TO GURL

[@mariamiamonteleone]

reagan l. My walls are lavender lol

[@reaganluker2278]

Maria Monteleone mine are too.

[@tania_draws]

Yas

[@lizetteavila4415]

Lol this sounded so calming!😂😂😂

[@josereyesbonilla4004]

I applaud for you wedding planners for being able to deal with these stressful things like you're planning someone's dream wedding and you gotta make sure everything goes smoothly during the ceremony

[@aliifahbianca5504]

I love how expressive these two women are, interesting stories too!

[@asian435chen]

Can we please do a florist horror stories, because BOYYYYY, some customers are ridiculous. My family runs a flower shop and some people are just plain mean, rude, illogical, frugal, and unnecessary. There was a customer we wanted to cut costs by renting fresh flowers from us for a wedding. That is not a thing! 🙄 There were people who come pick up flowers, pay, and then dispute the charges. We didn't force you to buy flowers?! There are folks that call complaining about "wilting" flowers when it's the roses opening up. Yes, flowers will open. Ugh, people.

[@ruthchelimo6751]

Stacy Chen Renting fresh flowers!! 😂😂😂😂

[@allisontolbert1141]

am a florist. can confirm we have some stories yall.

[@milo4497]

A current issue my family is going on is that the husband bought some flowers for his side girl. I guess the wife and him have joint accounts and found out about the charges. Like the liar he is, he tells her she thinks we’ve charged his card again. Insue the countless calls and the confrontation. She comes in all upset and arguing that she’s suing and we committed fraud. We tell her that he came and he gave us the info. Then the husband later came by and we told him to fix his own problems. Ridiculous!

[@stephaniehowe0973]

Boi Idk so weak use Cash you jerk.

[@myragroenewegen5426]

Renting fresh flower. Wow. The best of the worst of these stories often come down to people who just can't see that they're being cheap.

[@pricillareyes7001]

Can we do a video but with McDonalds employees telling horror stories.... I have a few

[@BeanColored]

Please do share

[@hopehodgson9973]

YESSSS

[@livvymaher1162]

This would be anazing

[@Gaby-us9td]

im all ears 👂🏼...😄

[@saffysaffyrocks]

omg yes - some customers can be so horrible yes

[@quirmi_6770]

Lady, this isn’t your wedding, this is your sons wedding, and the person who asked for the lavender WASN’T EVEN RELATED TO YOU

[@canadianjules]

That mom trying to commandeer the flowers bc the lavender wasn’t what she wanted..... girl you are NOT the one getting married! This is not about you! I hate people like that 🙄

[@Samexe-uy7zq]

It's always the mother in law

[@adellel.3827]

Yep😐

[@stacyhigginson170]

Story of my (married) life 🙄🙄🙄

[@m.m.574]

100% of the time

[@Mary-1493]

CallMe Sam I hope next time people have common sense not to marry someone who and parents that are this crazy/rude

[@sanzain4092]

I love these two women so much already 😂😂😂😂

[@prasunsubedi7849]

Oh

[@adora1308]

right? they are so cute 😂

[@ktlhall]

@@adora1308 Thanks! ;-)

[@maribee40]

That yellow flower lady needs to be put in her place.

[@Moontess]

I'm always amazed at how weddings bring out the cray cray in even the most sensible people.

[@maryavatar]

I got married on the island I grew up on (very small, population 200, above 59 degrees north) in December. The registrar had gone to the mainland to buy a new outfit the day before the wedding, and while she was there, a storm hit. The only ferry to the island was cancelled, and the island doesn’t have an airstrip. The island also doesn’t have a full time minister, and he was on some other island that day, so there was no one else on the island licensed to marry us. We thought we were doomed. But! Thank God for insane fishermen with sturdy boats. One of them went and picked up our Registrar, and brought her back, so although we ended up getting married after dark (the sun sets around 3pm that far north in December), we did manage to get married in the end. It’s our silver (25) wedding anniversary this year. We’re going to spend it on an island. We just chose one a bit closer to the equator - Antigua.

[@faeriesmak]

maryavatar That’s a great story. Thanks for sharing it!

[@MarleyIrena]

I love this story!

[@theaniqa99]

May you have many more wonderful years together!

[@karaleilani]

This is a lovely story! Enjoy Antuiga! :)

[@Jess-lf2fe]

What a wonderful story!! ♡ Such a romantic happy ending! congratulations on 25 years!! Cheers to many more! Tyfs. :)

[@meganchambers8108]

"The moral of the story is don't assault servers." Lol crazy that it needs to be said😂

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Sabakurt

[@sihaandhaha8460]

My mum hijacked my wedding. It was her day, not mine. She chose the venue, the dress, the cake, the meals EVERYTHING! when I complained about it everyone turned on me and called me unfair/ungrateful. I am embarrassed to show my wedding pictures. I absolutely hate them.

[@flamefangstar]

Did you decide to have another wedding?

[@sihaandhaha8460]

@@flamefangstar no. It's 10 years ago this year. So not much point now 😅

[@flamefangstar]

@@sihaandhaha8460 never to late to have another wedding at say chuc e cheese, haha but I'm glad you're still married!

[@lolabigcups7121]

The mother of the bride would've gotten as arrested or beat down.

[@hindsightpov4218]

lola bigcups And should’ve been arrested or beat down. She got off way too easy. How infuriating.

[@alysswagurak7038]

I put my headphones in and I HATE LAVENDER just gets screamed into my ear I died

[@GoogleAccount-fo9hp]

Probably how she felt when it originally happened. 😭

[@samanthamorris427]

Thank you for making me laugh 😂

[@frishtasafi6763]

😂😂lmao

[@akreeger7742]

It was so loud!!!! 😂😂😂

[@flux.aeterna]

Try the no pomegranates lady

[@geeklette99]

Man being a wedding planner sounds like a hella stressful job, but I'm also guessing the satisfaction of finishing such a big an important project is amazing

[@kennethhwang3425]

geeklette99 A friend of mine, who is a wedding planner, summarized the job accordingly: it’s like they all think they were Cinderella and we were all Fairy Godmothers who would absolutely make everything happen.

[@parrisnia72]

6:29 She came and she was like AHHHHH That cracked me up! 🤣🤣🤣

[@haileymullican335]

Man! These stories make me glad that the biggest hiccup at my dad and stepmom's wedding a couple months ago was my sister (the flower girl/confetti girl since we gave her confetti to throw instead of flowers) throwing the confetti all over the guests instead of the pathway. In her defense, no one told her that she was to throw them on the ground. At least, that's what she claimed, but we figured that it was obvious. Then again, she's 7. At least the guest were cool with it, and so were my dad and step mom. It was pretty funny watching from the alter! (Me and my other sister were bridesmaids).

[@rosieloves9493]

Nobody:.. KZbin: you're single watch this your wedding is coming up.

[@Sodiumreads]

Rosalinda Delgado 😭 me

[@pamelasalinas5477]

😂😂😂

[@nasrinv]

Same here...its like my relatives isn’t enough now KZbin mocks me

[@valerieh5400]

Lol more like KZbin: I know your wedding sucked and you’ll be divorced soon so enjoy! Lmao.

[@Chocolate.barbie444]

Yoooooo

[@junar2014]

mother-in-laws are the real monsters of every wedding. They always have something to say about anything and everything.

[@rkhound247]

No, no, no....immature and selfish individuals are the nightmare. They can be ANYBODY. My mother in law is nice. Sometimes I like her more than my husband 😋

[@mienyzaagustin8015]

I want them back! Their so funny and full of energy It doesn't matter in what video i just want em back

[@finnthyhuman_]

I'm so thankful for my mother-in-law now. She has the attitude of "you're an adult, you know what you want." But she knows when - *and how* - to voice her opinion on things.

[@johnhayes174]

If my or my future wife's mother EVER acted so disreapectful and entitled and disgusting to servers simply doing their jobs, I'd not so kindly tell her to excuse herself from my wedding till she regains some sense.

[@johnhayes174]

@@byknktsuki I said "if my". My mother would absolutely be asked by myself personally to step out and calm down

[@hannahb.375]

byknktsuki yeah I would have no problem kicking my mom out if she did that

[@dmf1301]

John Hayes I know. What kind of bride or groom allows their mother to assault people and doesn't say anything? Like, not even 'mum, stop it! Stop hitting people!' My mother would never hit anyone, but if I marry a guy with such a psycho mother, I'll definitely stand up to the witch when she's hitting people!

[@magicalvows4830]

@@dmf1301 Most probably, the bride and the groom didn't even notice, because they were rightfully busy being Bride and Groom and having fun!...

[@pRINCESSnARUE]

As a soon-to-be-bride, I would prefer to personally throw my own guests out. Because they ruined my day and wasted my money. If anyone should throw hands it should be the bride/groom.

[@crystalwagner5993]

Mother-in-law needs a reality check. It’s her daughter-in-law’s wedding. NOT HERS!!!

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

Jiggle jiggle goes my double chin as I jog

[@joniolson9145]

I'm changing my title from Event Coordinator to Event Damage Controller.

[@Lily-yb1ms]

These ladies were some of the best story tellers from this series 👏👏 “this is assault” made me wheeze

[@Noor-qh1qi]

I love the way the dark haired women would act out the voices of the people 😂😂😂

[@jooniebiased2458]

Suga

[@zuzu6864]

@@jooniebiased2458 Yoonji* xD

[@jooniebiased2458]

Rink_D LOL I was going to reply with that but I was afraid no one would understand but nonetheless THANK YOU FOR THE CORRECTION 💜

[@purplelux1664]

@@zuzu6864 Yoongi.*

[@dionysiushadipurnawan355]

Leora & Katie should make a youtube channel in their own, then make a collab...that shud be fantastic....

[@pinklovenikki]

Dionysius Hadipurnawan same! i wanted to hear more stories

[@dionysiushadipurnawan355]

@@pinklovenikki YAAASSSSS!!! the way they deliver it and the story....like seriously we would never know the story behind every wedding or event like this the event must be smooth and planned well for guest, it gave me a lot of insight

[@shufflebdream]

Leora is so interesting, i wish she had her own show

[@J03SAM]

6:52 when she did the facebwhile punching i lost it oml 😂

[@sophiakhwaja7591]

The lady in the yellow top reminds me of a mix between Scarlett Johansson and Maya Rudolph! Even her voice lol

[@Dudeno]

Yeah, those two popped up in my mind instantly!

[@liz2880]

I saw scar jo, but wow you’re right!!!

[@Persephoneswitchery]

Hearing “ I HATE LAVENDER!” Broke my little witchy heart 😂 this is exactly why I’m going to elope

[@mymo_on4722]

TY I adore lavender, so it broke my lavender heart :(

[@katiemarkiewicz4950]

Lavender is so pretty

[@icarus4569]

Agreed

[@zehlua]

My witchy heart too! I like purple and peach colours together 💜

[@raeechllee]

Same thoooo

[@lindsayhengehold5341]

Love wedding planners! They have a hard job :)

[@hanabi235]

I feel like every job about organizing parties and events are my favorite horror stories videos lmao

[@Latinxmom]

As an event planner we tell our brides to be 2 things! 1) ITS YOUR WEDDING & 2) We will put Rude people in their place. No one has time for that when planning a important special event.

[@maddi66515]

Madison Star good on you! Same name team!! 🙌🏼

[@SakuraaaHarmony]

Doesn’t really seem like they put rude people in their place though. The mother in law that assaulted someone should have been charged, and the other mother in law that brought yellow flowers shouldn’t have been allowed to put them up, anywhere, especially when the bridge specifically said she didn’t want yellow flowers

[@aprildannettegosa5381]

@@SakuraaaHarmony I agree about the yellow flowers no way she should have been allowed to put her yellow flowers up I get why they did not arrest the mother in law in the other story but the mother with the yellow flowers should not have been allowed to hang her flowers or however, she placed them

[@maryedits2514]

What’s your brand name?

[@maddiekane7452]

“I.HATE.LAVENDER!!” EDIT: 1.4k!??? Wow thanks guys this is the most likes I’ve ever gotten

[@justanotherpersonwatchingy7995]

Maddie Kane 😂

[@frishtasafi6763]

I love lavender

[@recoil53]

I'm just sorry for the bride for the duration of that marriage. Because you know she didn't let up.

[@claireostenfeld3364]

@@frishtasafi6763 same UwU

[@itspurelypassionate]

Maddie Kane hello a random Headphone user

[@marianacarvalho5239]

I could listen to these stories for hours

[@IceNixie0102]

I really wish I had hired a wedding planner. I did everything myself, and it was all AWESOME (except the programs didn't get handed out) but I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off trying to get everything done, when I should have been enjoying myself.

[@justmyemotion]

The first lady reminds me of Brooklyn 99's Gina 😂

[@hashtrozombie]

Yesss. First thing I thought of

[@cathyanaadventures7294]

Omg I thought so too. 😂😂 they kinda look alike too and same expression at hand gestures 😂😂😂 maybe they’re siblings? 😂

[@milicamilivojevic6077]

Yeess😂😂

[@caseydykes117]

OMG YEZ

[@tessa5742]

YES, it’s just her hair, gina’s a redhead, but if they changed that, she’s a full Gina.

[@ap_mess]

the woman in white looks E X H A U S T E D lmao

[@vilmaantanelyte3717]

🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🍅🍅🍅🍄🍄🍄🌽 for certain

[@winter-bw1ey]

Yea

[@thatgrumpychick4928]

I would be too if I dealt with that mother in law

[@madeleineparres9873]

Story 1: I've never heard of a groom-zilla before...LOL

[@Alex-uh7vz]

1:50 If this had happened to a bride the story would go SO differently...

[@TheTaiga123]

Can this be a series? Tbh I enjoy hearing stories like these especially the mom in law 😅 so bad!

[@meganm5988]

These stories are what I spend hours on r/bridezillas for lol

[@SarahKamil]

Megan M you are not ready to hear about r/justnoMIL

[@meganm5988]

@@SarahKamil I LOVE r/jnmil!! They're all so awful lmao

[@amnan2908]

What time

[@cindyasters]

At my brother in laws wedding, at the last minute at the wedding rehearsal, they decided no children, we had all brought the kids - It was a destination wedding - so they had a lot of very angry guests, my husband almost walked out of his brother's wedding. I felt karma got them back a little because there were three wedding receptions going on at the country club but they were the only one with an open bar and every one from the other receptions started going to the free bar for drinks. Also, their photographer took so long taking pictures after the wedding that they were very late arriving, the venue was instructed not to serve til the couple arrived so someone called and ordered pizzas and someone else went and came back with a lot of McDonalds burgers. The bride's mother almost had a major melt down.

[@lilajswagerriffic]

Lol they say karma is a b@#$%🤣🤣but so what did the parents do with the kids

[@Selene666]

tbf kids don't belong in weddings. especially if adults are getting drunk.

[@RogueVideoRaven]

Selene that’s a fair point but they should have made that clear far in advance. Plus, there are parents (or at least one of them) who won’t drink with kids around.

[@mishellmacaroon7649]

Selene some ppl want their wedding to be a family even some don’t and want to freely drink which is fine ,but if they wanted it to be a party with no kids kind of wedding they could have said it on the invitations not at the wedding rehearsal before the wedding day that’s just messed up.

[@Selene666]

@@mishellmacaroon7649 true. they should have been clear from the start

[@DJTM0315]

As a Wedding Sales Manager & Events Planner I relate soo much with these girls specially since we mostly handle destination weddings (in a resort in the Caribbean) so add the "away from home and make sure everyone makes it" factor...

[@RivkasNinjaHCS]

Its literally called "The Bride and Grooms big day" not "in-laws big day"