Weird Questions Gay Couples Get

[@cheshireket3132]

This is like asking the chopsticks: "whos the fork and whos the knife?" No one is. We are a different way to eat.

[@Musicalheart430]

This is actually… a great metaphor

[@Kappalem]

What are sporks then lmao

[@RandoDoodlz]

That’s actually such a great analogy/metaphor.

[@RandoDoodlz]

@@Kappalemthe asexual aromantic peeps lol (I’m just kidding)

[@samandros3451]

I like that. But you'd be shocked if they answered.

[@713majesty]

A lot of these are just asking “who’s the top and who’s the bottom?” In so many words.

[@Caelesistis_Aurealis]

Those question are so... Ew 🤮

[@MrCoco59f]

Because obviously you need to know about the sexual life of someone you just met. At least it shows a rather universal sense of curiosity towards that rather than disgust, I suppose lol

[@Potatocrime24-7]

I switch it on them with "your wife pegs you doesn't she."

[@felwalkr_94]

@@MrCoco59fwell, either it’s just curiosity, or they’re just conditioned to immediately think that most gay relationships (regardless of gender) are intercourse-based.🤷‍♂️

[@ericvalinor7257]

We’ve gotten “who’s the top”, “are you twins”, “will you go shopping with me”, “are you legit married”, more “are you brothers”. When we said we were married, not twins, it was like they crashed and had to reboot. One time this woman asked if we were brothers. We said we’re married. She pretended we didn’t say anything and moved on with the conversation.

[@chasef89]

If people regularly mistake you for twins, that's really a 'you problem'. As a fellow gay man, I can tell you that the rest of us think boyfriends twins are weird.

[@ericvalinor7257]

@@chasef89 I’ve never heard that before, but I wouldn’t want to seem weird. I’ll just divorce the man I’ve been married to for 13 years.

[@Banana-xk1gs]

@@ericvalinor7257 Lmfaoo. I guess some people interact with others with a label already built based on what they look like. Specially minorities

[@_Just_Another_Guy]

​@@chasef89 ??? It doesn't exclusively happen to gay couples. There are a lot of straight couples that have been mistaken as siblings.

[@samandros3451]

I was on the subway once and saw two men standing very close and facing each other in a way that seemed quite intimate. I assumed they were a couple until I noticed they were identical twins. I thought that was interesting.

[@anticyclingclub]

How come nobody is talking about the corgi getting absolutely spoiled in the background at the bbq?

[@mckennaisaperson4058]

Thank you for pointing this out, you’ve officially made my day

[@Ordinary-m8i]

The corgi is so cute!!

[@raspberryjam9258]

I died of cuteness

[@cursedspider]

‘So who’s the female in the relationship?’ No one that’s kinda the point

[@amyartlover]

Exactly, what do they mean by that?

[@cristian-bull]

@@amyartlover they mean to ask who is the top and who is the bottom (assuming they don't switch)

[@amyartlover]

@@cristian-bull I don't think so. Since women can top and men can bottom and they don't switch

[@Waffl3B1T]

It’s like asking who’s the fork/spoon to a set of chopsticks. None of it makes sense. Lol

[@amyartlover]

@@Waffl3B1T exactly

[@ostephoo7712]

People asking, “who’s the girl and who’s the guy” is like them asking who’s top and bottom but with only their heterosexual knowledge at hand, and either way that’s extremely intrusive and ignorant.

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

It's not that bad of a question

[@ostephoo7712]

Tide Pod Pad Thai Maybe not to you, but for some it’s insensitive, it’s as if they refuse to acknowledge that you’re both the same gender. That one of you HAS to be the girl or guy because that’s what they think is “normal.” And it’s not any better than the top or bottom question either because, although it does recognize the orientation, it’s not really their business to ask just because their curious.

[@ifraaxmaxamed3642]

@@tidepodpadthai2633 I need help can you help me?

[@nikemaraje5]

@@tidepodpadthai2633 well it kinda means they're saying bottoms are girls and tops are men

[@mercygirl317]

@@tidepodpadthai2633 most of the time its pretty obvious anyway lol

[@zoem9693]

"I need a new gay best friend!" What happened to the old one?

[@hi24626]

Clearly, they realised it was better to end their friendship with her. Sadly, she did not get the hint.

[@julietaradaelli9564]

She ate him. That's pretty obvious...

[@zoem9693]

@@julietaradaelli9564 ah, I had a feeling that's what happened😂😂

[@thisismyusernamesoihopeyou6069]

She killed him

[@itspaydayfellas2533]

I CAN be UR 🏳️‍🌈 bestfriend

[@Higheeler]

“Are you sure you’re gay” got me so mad as a bisexual, I always get assumed to be straight or a lesbian. No matter how many times I tell them, that I’m bi

[@sk8085-b]

Bi invisibility is real...

[@ChronicallyOnlineINTP]

That's literally just bi erasure 💀

[@suspiciousgumnut]

@@sk8085-b I didn't know John Cena was bi

[@houmous942]

I mean why does it matter so much to you, it's like someone from LA who would keep forgetting if you're from North or South Carolina, there's no point getting mad over something no one really cares about.

[@caramel9154]

​@@houmous942 I think it's like when your sock falls down over and over to the point it gets annoying

[@insertcoolnamehere9087]

*Yeah, everyone knows gay Terry*

[@nadian848]

_Yeah, Gay Terry..._

[@june8999]

Good old terry

[@MasterGeTrecked]

OMORI

[@nadiarey4196]

A proper celebrity, that one. Like Gay Al.

[@zosiapiatek1736]

I actually just sow him yesterday

[@toottootgoestheboot]

“Two queens” “he’s talking about the beds” killed me😂😂😂

[@balancarjoyceg.5759]

I actually didn't understand it.

[@kathrynaaloisio8206]

@@balancarjoyceg.5759 they thought he called them queens

[@devilsdauxter1036]

@@kathrynaaloisio8206 what does that mean

[@kathrynaaloisio8206]

@@devilsdauxter1036 calling someone queen is a compliment

[@enzomartinez8083]

Haha reminds me of Sam & Dean from supernatural -"two queens" -"yeah i bet"...😂😂

[@MissStoryTelling]

"I need a new gay best friend!" Fictional lady, what happened to the last one?

[@NAdorableYoung]

*points at profile pic* did you paint that?? it looks awesome!

[@MissStoryTelling]

+Nathan Young it's a profile shot of my protagonist from Dragon Age Inquisition. It's not a painting.

[@nowolves870]

He died from AIDS

[@NAdorableYoung]

nowolves god damn. You're a savage. 😂😂😂😂

[@MissStoryTelling]

Moni Mon Not as great as Dragon Age Origins, but Inquisition is a close second with characters and story development. The last DLC installed in the game makes it ten times better. I say go buy it XD I just saw it selling with all three of the DLCs for a much cheaper price than when I bought with no DLCS half a year ago XD

[@lucaswb7387]

It took me like 8 years to come out. When I finally was brave enough, I did it and the first thing they said was “are you the woman or the man in the relationship?” Honestly just made me cry even more.

[@hayddencosplays]

Congratulations on coming out be proud 🏳️‍🌈

[@tajung6667]

Were they being sarcastic or..?

[@anupamaMall]

What does that question even mean?

[@CloudyCat2306]

@@anupamaMall they mean who so called "plays" the role of the guy/girl in the relationship, like who is more feminine, submissive and who is more masculine, dominant which OBVIOUSLY isn't even valid cus their both guys so🤷‍♀️👀

[@anupamaMall]

@@CloudyCat2306 Well that's a creepy and sexist question anyways.

[@wattskuno1342]

“why are you asking u-ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh” new favourite line.

[@gachastudiolover325]

I have to have that saved as a ringtone

[@mo8239]

I dont understand that one.?

[@wattskuno1342]

Neptune The Parakeet in the video, the girl asks if they’ll accompany them to like a pride parade or smthn?? and he asks “why are you asking us” because she doesn’t even know them, but then realizes it’s because they’re gay.

[@ombrenightcores]

They’ll even ask if we’re related even when we’re completely physically unalike in every way. This happens to every queer couple. Pretty much everywhere.

[@ExploringTheTube-fd1oo]

"We just met you" "Oh I don't mind".... girl just come lmao

[@markintexas3030]

My husband and I get the “are you brothers?“ question all the time. I don’t think I’ve been asked that once when I’m out with my actual brothers. Though at least the brother question is better than the time I was asked if I was his dad. I’m only three years older than him. He still laughs and laughs about that one.

[@dlg322]

There is a pair of elderly sisters in my building. I work from home and have a dog, so the old people in the building all know me. My husband and I were on the elevator with the younger one and she asked if we were brothers. I explained that no, he is my husband. A couple weeks later, we were on the elevator with the older sister and she asked if he was my son! I'm two years younger than him!! 😂

[@wiktorija1]

I'm a girl and I had relationships with a guy. People were asking if I was his little brother or maybe sister. But brother was always the first question.

[@angel2bx609]

Ouch! I can imagine you will hear that laugh until the end of time 🤣

[@plestrange511]

"Are you sure you're not brothers" I CANTTT

[@maitezonga1170]

_Incest has entered the chat_

[@enzomartinez8083]

@@maitezonga1170 no thanks...😒😒😕😤

[@BulletxBro]

“ARE YOU SURE YOURE NOT BROTHERS” I CANT

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

To be fair, I think most straight couples look like siblings. When they start making out 🤢

[@Мишка-б3б]

“lol maybe, like, yesterday we were a couple, but who knows, things are changing sometimes”

[@mothlight9661]

Nahhh he's totally dating his brother obviously

[@TurbFlo]

My dad once had the opposite scenario occur, and he and his brother were mistaken for a gay couple xdd

[@inspectorspinda]

And one of them is obviously a different race from the other it’s hilarious

[@ninazagorova4194]

Dear straights, the "Who's the man in the relationship?" should stop I understand that you are asking which one is dominant in the relationship or which one gives and which one receives, but gender doesn't play role in it anymore. Even in cisgender-heteroxual couples, a woman can top. Does that make her a man? No. Does that make her male partner a woman? Also no. In conclusion, just ask "Who tops?". You get the answer way sooner

[@Ali-nom]

THANK YOU OMG FINALLY SOMEONE WHO GETS IT

[@mow0118]

Or even better: don’t ask at all

[@Ali-nom]

@@mow0118 Fr

[@dachasie]

@@mow0118fr why are you interested in a couple’s sexual life anyway?

[@Flow-Fi-]

@@mow0118 this ^^^

[@kinoMtsuJ]

The fact that they actually switched outfits in the grill scenes

[@zmrzlinakopeckova3439]

Oh my, good catch!

[@Lindwyrm6429]

They never switched outfits, they just switched places?

[@cantthinkofagoodnamei3123]

Girlfriend: you know how every family has that gay cousin? Me: my family doesn’t have one Girlfriend: ...are you sure? Me: I don’t ge- oh. I am the gay cousin

[@ameengrewal5208]

SOLANGELO!!!!!!!

[@tiago83051]

Why do I find this so relatable?

[@raffa4792]

SOLANGELO!

[@allhailnamjesus9052]

Sweet home Alabama

[@wjjekehdjs]

SOLANGELOOOOOOOOOO

[@dannysanz3705]

"two queens... He's talking about the beds" l'm dying right now 🙋😃😅

[@CantEatFlutes]

Why was it funny?

[@dannysanz3705]

+Asger Nielsen for the slang we used today to refer each other(gay men), of course there are so gay men who hate being called that way cuz it refers a feminine gay, of course a stereotype

[@DaijaWatson]

+Asger Nielsen feminine gay guys are sometimes called queens.

[@isaacherrera2337]

im dead too XD

[@CantEatFlutes]

+Daija Watson oh thank you:)

[@AlyxRhae]

With Lesbian couples its more like. Everyone just assumes your bestfriends until you start like making out.

[@what-fo9jg]

The Lonely Artist then you’re just SUPER bestfriends

[@AlyxRhae]

@@what-fo9jg that too

[@yeshvinny193]

😂

[@flippaclipanimations1933]

You know something, homophobic guys are more worried about two boys as a couple, than two girls being a couple

[@uririwuu]

Yes

[@xRainings]

I’ll never understand why these people are so insistent on figuring out “who’s top and who’s bottom” and try to be sneaky about it. It drives me insane

[@scivolanto]

Well, how are they supposed to get their nasty little fantasy next time they masturbate otherwise?

[@mr.caicedo9480]

​@@scivolantotf with you man

[@agentnull5242]

@@mr.caicedo9480They’re mocking the guy.

[@Pigismal]

they could at least have the decency to ask normally even if that's still incredibly weird.

[@lisetravis]

It's so gross

[@fruitbatfox]

“So, when you guys are on a date like this, who pays?” As a gay girl I can confirm that when on a date neither of us pay. We always just eat our dinner and walk out. But we have to stand the whole time because there’s no man to pull out the chair.

[@MartynaPac]

Hahahah you killed me with this one!!!!

[@pinkpixels4499]

Wow really? We never even go on dates there's no man in the relationship to ask someone out

[@Lazy_Gay_Man]

As a gay man, I can say that we just battle each other to decide who pays

[@_Choco_]

This comment is killing me 😂

[@adrikrystal]

"Do you two just check out guys together all the time?!" "...yes."

[@GrowingRobinArt]

+Adriana Odstrčilíková It's true. We do that too. xD

[@klaracerna1380]

kočko, jses to ty? ♡

[@adrikrystal]

+Klara Cerna to teda jsem brouku ❤ ty jooo, my se pronásledujeme snad všude :D

[@Kelly_C]

*pretends to not spend 80% of time with girlfriend doing exactly that*

[@saltyonions9268]

I think you forgot, “ why are all the good ones gay”

[@EldritchMushroom]

/accidentalally

[@wendywe37]

​@EldritchMushroom they were just saying that they forgot a weird question?

[@randohuman5084]

No but seriously, why?

[@WaterMellon-jr2ni]

As a gay. It is true.

[@SleepyHollowKnight]

Honestly agreed. I’m aro but like I can admit when someone looks good and gay guys always look the best. Guess they didn’t spend all that time in the closet for nothing

[@HughWilson-p3s]

Hilarious, and so true. At a sushi bar I was asked whi's the man? I held up my chopsticks and asked, "which one is the fork?"

[@danielziki]

Great explaining haha

[@Wind_XO]

Omg....🤣🤣🤣

[@ItzFedenka]

You're my idol now

[@HughWilson-p3s]

@@ItzFedenka thanks 🤩

[@pwcb-music3688]

Are you sure you’re not brothers?! *sweet home Alabama intensifies*

[@natethepc]

Please no

[@itsjustme8807]

@@natethepc *yes*

[@YabaDabaDoo6]

@@natethepc *_y e s_*

[@inkwrll9722]

*oh sh-*

[@YUI-po7gu]

SWEEET HOME ALLAAABAAAMMAAA

[@goldenheart__]

to be completely fair, “who wants wieners? you guys, right?” is actually really funny to say to a friend if theyre comfortable with it. im 100% sure that if i said that to one of my friends they’d be like “yes. both versions. i want both.”

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

Eh, kind of a lame joke we’ve all heard before. If it’s not funny enough to burst out in laughter, I don’t say it.

[@goldenheart__]

@@JDMimeTHEFIRSTunderstandable, but also, different people have different senses of humour and not everyone has the same experiences. none of my friends or i have ever heard that joke come from homophobes/straights trying their best, and we make little comments like that all the time that arent supposed to be groundbreaking comedy but just something to giggle at for a moment or two i completely understand why its in the video bc it has a completely different meaning depending on who says it, their tone, and what contexts youve heard it be used in before. as with a lot of gay jokes. but if its used with friends that are able to find that even a bit funny, i think its fine

[@hallinguyen2169]

EVERY TIME GUY IN THE RED IS CONFUSED AND THE GUY IN THE BLUE JUST PUTS HIS HAND ON HIS SHOULDER IS WHY I BREATHE

[@endrgirl6630]

Honestly-

[@_Choco_]

I love how you can just feel the awkwardness through the screen 😅 it's hard to believe that this is just acting instead of real footage, lmao 😂

[@anordinaryheroo3135]

No, actually! Especially when you're bisexual, so you get all of these questions AND the "so are you more likely to cheat?" "Do you check out guys and girls?" "What's your favorite gender?" "Are you sure you actually like men if you're dating a man (and vice versa)?" "How can you be bisexual if you're in a straight relationship?" "Do you like... date girls (opposite gender), but sleep with guys (same gender), lol? (More uncommon question, but still asked)"

[@Cachopather3070]

​@@anordinaryheroo3135I guess "what's your favorite gender" get a pass, I mean, being bisexual doesn't mean you can't have preferences

[@goldglobemsp1140]

2016: no 2017: no 2018: no 2019: let's put this in everyone's recommended

[@toxicmarshmallows6920]

Lol yeah

[@Awesomeplayer98]

2024: let’s do it again

[@SomerandomguyYoudontknow-h2l]

​@@Awesomeplayer98real

[@gnoot50]

@@Awesomeplayer98 you beat me to it lol

[@WhimsyWhespir]

Them: are you sure you're gay? Every gay person ever: are you sure you're straight?

[@jameswood88]

The one I hate is “oh, I don’t have a gay best friend, can you be my gay best friend?” It’s like we are an accessory or something.

[@Ajv516]

I blame shows like Will & Grace for popularizing the idea that gay men are accessories for affluent women. I completely disagree with the idea that the show made advances in positive. representation. Drives me crazy whenever I hear that BS.

[@SakuraLuckyStar]

“Are you sure you’re not brothers” What, you think one of them was switched at birth or something? Pretty sure they’d know if they were brothers, and if they did it would be a VERY different scenario

[@Yui-0109]

It reminds me of that one news where a gay couple founds out they were brother ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ

[@DisastrousSoulHymn]

​@@Yui-0109 Oh god I remember it too, I felt soo bad for those two :(

[@airam1721]

​@@Yui-0109 holy cabungas...

[@ghostvien]

“Why does everyone have a gay cousin? I don’t have a gay cousi-“ “Ohhhh I *am* the gay cousin....”

[@wondersaimlessly2114]

Aria Draws "oh mah goooddd"

[@parnwonganudroj6485]

I am have my cousins and I also am the gay cousin lol

[@kingkiitt7355]

Me tooooo!

[@bonesbones2364]

Me to

[@taroamami9019]

"GAY TERRY! GAY TERRY!" One of my nicknames are Terry lol...

[@insertedgyemobandnameshere813]

Taro Amami lmao Also one word Danganronpa

[@timetravelinghotdogbun4409]

I mean who dosent know gay terry

[@josephfernandez3600]

I actually like when people think gay men are super confident and sassy and have sense of fashion and humor while I'm here doing my college homework, scrolling through tumblr and reading comics bc I have no friends hahaha 

[@maps600]

+Magnetic Hug SAME

[@gabentherealultimatekeyboa9284]

+LEO J I was just thinking that. lmao. I'm laughing because I'm bi. hahaha

[@ricisipjr]

Same, though i condition myself not to mind the situation. Life still great no matter.

[@gabentherealultimatekeyboa9284]

+Jun isip just go with the flow.

[@echoeddra8on]

Awh, future me...please tell me we go on AT LEAST one date, please. I CAN'T LIVE IN THIS STUPID CLOSET ANYMORE!

[@IryaniHime]

I'm a girl and hetero but... all of them is just... uncomfortable. Ugh. I'm so sorry to all of people that have through these.

[@enzomartinez8083]

Thanks...I've though some of those questions...so annyoing...😳😳

[@americanswetar9921]

Bruh my mom caught me and my boyfriend and asked if it was for a play in the theater....... I don’t do theater

[@IryaniHime]

@@americanswetar9921 welp, denial is one of human things, sometimes so...

[@amyartlover]

Thanks, as a bi girl it's so annoying and awkward to get these questions and comments. The worst one being "are you sure you're bi?" If I don't match a stereotype for bisexual people.

[@ocean3802]

Atleast these people don't think something is wrong with you😔 where I lived, if someone came out (they rarely did), the family members would be terrified and make prayers after prayers to "heal" them. And people still defend these cultures and religions till this day. Sad.

[@londonpurvis7662]

As a lesbian, I can confirm that the most annoying question is "who's the man?". Um... no one. The whole point is there IS NO MAN.

[@smileydude1195]

London Purvis or in the videos case. BOTH ARE THE MEN

[@negg7046]

Or THERE IS NO WOMAN

[@toby2560]

Lol being trans ftm I’ve been asked both “who’s the man?” And “who’s the woman” ha

[@TheLundSystem]

As a gay, I am asked this constantly, like Srsly, THERE IS NO GIRLS!!! GIRLS ARE CRINGE!!! jk but still

[@ravenswoods177]

I've been hearing that forever....just comes from ignorance

[@Wild_Child189]

I hate it when people say, “You’re gay? ____ is gay! Do you know ____?” Like, yes, all the gays in the world meet up for weekly meetings.

[@JuicyBurger29]

Shush, the council of Gays must remain secret. I was sent on behalf of them. Burger Man signing out (from the council of Burger)

[@JuicyBurger29]

Shush, the council of Gays must remain secret. I was sent on behalf of them. Burger Man signing out (from the council of Burger)

[@irishjournalgaming]

that would be so sick though, I would love a weekly world wide gay meeting

[@Isoldyourlungsontheblackmarket]

NNOOOOOO REAL

[@Someone_Anonymous15]

"We just met" *that's ur cue to stop*

[@ashy_inking1476]

The first fujoshi to ever fujoshi 💀

[@erinmiller1433]

The way this couple can communicate with just a touch on the shoulder is goals

[@KJ-wh8fu]

Love that!!!😂❤

[@weebaries7340]

the hand always kills me xD “Why are you askin'-“ *places hand on him* “-oooooooooh“

[@nadazahra8913]

i dont understand this :((

[@Bea-zn8vr]

it's something like "Why are you asking..." *places hand on him* "ooooh, it's because we're gay"

[@alaplaya5]

hmm inter ESTING this happens to everyone XD so relatable

[@coffeedragon5204]

the magical touch of realization. lol.

[@julianieberg1635]

If some one asks *WhOs ThE BoY aNd ThE GiRl In YoUr ReLaTiOnShIp* It's like asking a vegetarian eating a salad *So WhAtS tHe MeAt In ThE sAlAd*

[@toxicmarshmallows6920]

Lol, yeah

[@acksoul]

Julia Nieberg ?

[@boobabloobi]

Lamo Camo ?

[@EX-MartialEmpress9]

I like how this random video has collectively invaded every single KZbin user’s recommendations in the last 2-3 days

[@PawsOnTheBalcony]

Can we talk about how that dog is absolutely living his best life, though 😭

[@biblicallyaccurateangel1378]

“Are you sure you’re not brothers” I would just start making out because I would never kiss a sibling.

[@yana-perrault]

“Yeah everybody knows GAY TERRY” took me out 😭😂 this is the funniest buzzfeed video i’ve ever seen.

[@RandallWorks]

I lost it every time one asked, 'Why are you asking-' and the other touches his shoulder, so he goes, '-ooooohhh..' XD

[@alex-xk7rw]

RandallWorks i didnt understand a Single one of them! Can someone explain pls???😱😫😵

[@TerraceCigarettes]

The we just met you bit was good at every turn

[@sascha2689]

lmao the first one. literally gonna be my family at my wedding. like “you may now kiss the bride” *”SASCHA, YOURE GAY? I THOUGHT YOU WERE FRIENDS.”*

[@Aasiyahmarie]

"Which one the guy and which one the girl" "Um we both guys 😥"

[@alexmcd378]

Aasiyah lockhart I mean that's kind of the whole point. How do they not get that?

[@maeviix537]

"Two queens?" "He's talking about the bed" Me: I thought he was talking about Shane and Ryland tbh

[@tranquits]

MisteenPosion YES OMG

[@Amira-be9pj]

Yasss

[@ZakBaganslover4ever9]

I didn't even think about it, I was expecting him to say "one"

[@davina7321]

XD

[@striderviolet]

“Are you sure you’re not brothers?” Ma’am what? How do you even get there in your mind???

[@Sempramore]

Many gay couples do look like brothers (but not this one)

[@theocean1973]

Since this video is almost a decade old, I YEARN for the days of "Which one's the man?" rather than the "Why do you want to destroy Western Civilization?" we hear today.

[@papyrusse.]

Fr 💀

[@Anna-1917]

I'm a trans woman and I just got asked that in reference to my girlfriend and I lol. Honestly.. it was pretty funny

[@Somebody-g3i]

They're already "destroying Western Civilization".

[@milocallist.o]

💙

[@WitchKing-Of-Angmar]

Funny, I'm from the eastern civilization, called New England.

[@Sillaycritter]

Only correct way to react when you meet a gay couple: “Oh you’re gay? “Yeah” “Okay that’s nice.” *proceed conversation*

[@milliesabine2107]

“Two queens?” “Wha-?” “He’s talking about the beds” 😂😂😂

[@vlogo4371]

The "who's the guy/girl" one is hets admitting they aren't fully present for their relationships and fall back on roles rather than engage fully

[@Immabereal2u]

I love the touching of the shoulder and ooohhhh

[@everythingisawesome2903]

*Gay 101: You're not actually gay if you don't know Gay Terry.* 😂

[@Progress234]

100th like

[@teribolding433]

i’m gay teri (i wish but the spelling 😭)

[@tatsf]

Realistically... most of us DO know gay Terry/i !

[@SomeBeans]

@@teribolding433Finally, gay teri. I'm now officially gay!🏳‍🌈

[@CentralCoastGener]

Oh that Terry! Ahh. Got it 😉

[@THEWILLBROTHERS3]

Or when they ask “who’s top or who’s bottom.” Its genuinely insane to ask someone what role they take during intercourse. No one asks straight people “what position is your favourite?” So why do they think it’s ok to ask gay guys the equivalent of that. Its too personal, intrusive and makes people uncomfortable.

[@Oktopus549]

,,We just met you,, is so real why to people think it’s okay to ask strangers intimate questions gay people don’t owe you details

[@dayanajvalles6460]

"Two queens" "Wh-" "He's talking about the beds" Lmao

[@PixxieHart]

2:02 Why did I think she meant gay rabies😭😭😭

[@i_uevpp]

no joke i thought she said gaybies

[@arkani27]

I thought so too bruh

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

If a gay person bites you, you’ve got gay 😅. This how we can trick anti-vaxxers to be vaccinated

[@airam1721]

​@@i_uevpp I have groundbreaking news for you buddy

[@gelofshower]

Same 😂

[@Sevenly_jm]

I'm a bi and I date a girl( lesbian ) all my friends ask me that when will u get a bf? R u gonna be single? Get a MAN! ( although I've told them that I date a gurl) like bruh this is 21st century love is love....so love between two women can also happen what's so weird about it?!

[@hathathatusnemamaiikkuuu]

:] get it, this is just nonsense lol

[@gramplolo7530]

You need new friends.

[@Sevenly_jm]

@@gramplolo7530 I guess so...🙂

[@lego0008]

21st century or not, ignorant and homophobic people unfortunately still exist, quite a lot of them, and it's unlikely that they will disappear any soon. Some of these people are literally sitting in government parliaments and making laws to discriminate non-cishet people, so unless some revolution happens, it will stay this way, and get even worse.

[@AthenaHueber]

For the younger crowd, these skits may seem "silly" but these were/are GENUINE questions that have been asked to myself from straight people. These skits aren't that far off. 😂

[@PracticalPerry]

Agreed. And, there are a host of craZy fishing comments or questions people say to try and find out if you are g-y, but I will save that for my upcoming KZbin channel.

[@keithlee5008]

“You two aren’t brothers?!” “Why are you asking u- uhhhh” “we just MET YOU!”

[@bradlemmond]

"Are you _sure_ you're not brothers?" Well I _am_ from Alabama, but yes I'm sure.

[@vshah1010]

Would that be incest?

[@zachariahsmith1324]

@@vshah1010 .....

[@sweettums]

“why are you asking us-ohhhhh”

[@sycophanticteenager4441]

emily sunshine I don't understand that part

[@sweettums]

blurryfaced_alien ø people tend to think that gay couples are more feminine.

[@littlebitsandy]

ew i hate how awkward it is, it just like radiates through the screen

[@shadowsword3569]

the video is well done then cause that crept me tf out

[@AnnieC2495]

“We just met you.” “Oh I don’t mind.” The clueless entitlement I giggle snorted omg

[@yuukiiiiilover]

“WHO WANTS WIENERS! YOU GUYS RIGHT” made me physically recoul

[@siddoesntknowyou]

bisexual but i giggled that was funny

[@chaoslabj]

He gives off that vibe of a supportive dad, that can't help it with the dad jokes and I kinda love it

[@300DBenz]

Ugh, I knew that one was coming a mile away as soon as I saw the Webber. When he said that, I responded “Who wants grill marks on his face? I hope you do!”

[@Ttnytntny]

​@@300DBenzand you wonder why we're homophobic

[@josephd8663]

only just noticed, The hotel receptionist is called terry GAY TERRY

[@wanderer_1018]

:0

[@avastars3393]

My life was a lie

[@zmrzlinakopeckova3439]

So maybe he wasn't talking about the beds-

[@aquaticats7118]

With my ex we never got asked who the girl was because I’m so feminine and he was masculine… Instead we often got “I can tell who the girl is” (they can’t 🤭)

[@AnyaS18]

I was watching that dog in the background the entire time😂😍

[@carolkim8854]

Same, it's so cute😃

[@guttermaggot845]

do you know what type of dog? it is really cute...☺

[@Ohjor]

+_SirUnicorn_ it's a Corgi

[@F7dim]

Haha same

[@abelstock]

me to xD

[@oroontheheels]

“Will you be my new gay best friends?” W-what happens to your last best gay friend?? 😰

[@diyadraws540]

LMFAOOOOO

[@yesandnogamerproductions5733]

She ate him

[@FIXINIT3]

“Are you still gay?” “How does that work?” “How do you know you don’t like woman if you’ve never dated one?” And also the most common one in video games “(derogatory slur)”

[@JaniceinOR]

I get so frustrated by people who know they are straight without experimenting, but then think gay people cannot know without experimenting.

[@Beckford4000]

Yes, the “How do you know you don’t like woman if you’ve never dated one?” should have been included a lot. Also, when the gay man isn't young/fit/handsome/effeminate = "you don't look gay." And the people who think you grow out of it once you reach 45, because old gay men don't exist!

[@DonnieChoi]

R u still st8?

[@brunocamposquenaoeoyoutuber]

​@@DonnieChoiI don't think they ever were a state.

[@WITCHCATFT]

So everyone is suddenly being recommended this at the same time 8 years later? 😂

[@Keys2Notes]

Yep, also hello!

[@Jem.Studios]

Yup

[@zipthechipdip]

yesss. apparently.

[@ColuorBrown]

Real

[@RequiemEnbyFurry]

APPARENTLY LOL

[@heyitsnicky5796]

Gay people are not objects there is no such thing as a gay wedding a gay best friend or anything like that and if you’re asking who is the man in the relationship they both are a better question to ask is who is top or bottom or who is dominant or submissive it’s best to avoid questions until you think if they would be Appropriate or not some people would rather stay away from the top or bottom question(like me) So just be respectful and don’t be the people in this video And not all gay people are feminine that’s just a stereotype

[@crystal_flower]

Amen.

[@vyaluvs]

Fax

[@antiabrahamicreligion]

Yeah u are right I have seen 70% gay men act more masculin and straight than the straight ones I swear...

[@cockycookie1]

Preach!

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

You're right. But it's really bothered me, how if it was your first date, which one will paid? I lived in non friendly lgbtq country, so I didn't know about these stuff

[@tateghoul]

Straight women always tryna collect gays like Thanos did infinity stones

[@bugfairy]

im bi but i do that

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

Beemo, same- I have no lgbtq+ family members and I’m still a baby gay, I need the older gays guidance.

[@americanswetar9921]

And the gays reply like Thanos too, “I don’t even know who you are”

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

Who's the pioneer of this culture? What's the the big deal? It's so sick, I mean we should just be friend with everyone and doesn't have to consider either they are gay or not. I live in the religious country, so I'm asking this, because I don't know the culture in the lgbtq friendly country.

[@twigtoyoulater]

who doesn't know gay terry

[@gakto.1936]

Lmao

[@tsuyuasui988]

everyone knows gay terry!

[@numbnutz6393]

tsuyu Asui yeah gay terry

[@khary30]

Terry and Greg y’all

[@Kris.krisis]

Ooooooooooooooooooooooh thaaaat Terry!.. Yeah everyone knows him

[@vivi_needssleep]

8 years later and this video STILL triggers me, it's perfect

[@spaceotter1237]

Or like if a straight person knows someone else who’s gay they have to mention it multiple times for literally no reason

[@MorbidRose02]

"Why are you asking u--ahhh..." got me

[@electriclove5760]

i don't get it ???

[@catartik]

@@electriclove5760 its a stereotype that gay men are very good w/ design/artsy stuff so the ppl r looking for the gay guys' opinions. seems like he didnt get the memo though

[@שרלילה-ג6כ]

Someone: "I'm gay" Someone else: "tHen YoU suReLy KnoW My 3rD cOUsiN'S bEst FrieND's haLf-BrotHeR in VieTNaM, hE's GaY tOo 🙂🦄🌈"

[@the_epiclore_]

Lmao

[@uririwuu]

I am bi this really happens

[@minmin4842]

💀💀

[@hustenfrostvn]

Hmmm.....if- nvm

[@Vishal-Ravishankar]

Worst thing is when you happen to actually know him.

[@linusenglishtips7523]

“Two queens?” Took me a sec but worth it

[@coraz6825]

"Are you sure you're not brothers?" ...I think they would know.

[@borkoducko2866]

Cora Z 40th like

[@airam1721]

The worst part is that something like that happened. Massive F for the brothers.

[@mees1379]

“wait youre a couple?” gay couple: yeah- “i though you were siblings since you two have the same surname-“ gay couple: w-were married- so yeah t-that happens with your surname-“

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

I know your comment is 1 year ago, but I'm curious, if one gay couple married, which surname would be use? Is there any regulation or something?

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

@@watchdominion7356 oh, okay, thanks :)

[@amandawoods7929]

To be fair, fewer straight people are changing their surnames when they marry nowadays.

[@suzannea5203]

I’m so frustrated at the fact the meat isn’t getting cooked at all

[@julcsi5849]

Awesome 101 oh my god same 😂

[@onaevisu]

I was just distracted by the corgi being treated like a king

[@crippleth7606]

Every Homosexuals: I HATE THESE QUESTIONS!!!! Me, a single, closeted lesbian: _I wish I could get these questions..._

[@destinysmith1319]

Me too bro :')

[@queenwerty490]

Same

[@neaymayonaka6419]

Gayyyy

[@queennisha6829]

Same except that I‘m out to most of my friends 😂 one of them sometimes ask me those questions soo

[@mintayza7784]

4/7 out but I wish I could get them too

[@stevede5275]

1:02 everyone has a gay cousin. If you don't, you are the gay cousin.

[@smudge82_]

Stefan DeJager hahahahahaha. this is a funny comment!

[@andreaprochowski4717]

Stefan DeJager When I read your comment I was like, " Which one of my cousins is gay!?!?! What if I'm the gay one?!?!?!" And then I remembered that I came out as Bi a year ago

[@Mika-ip4qb]

Stefan DeJager I am the gay cousin

[@vittortoise]

I'm the asexual cousin, does that count?

[@stevede5275]

FusionMusic i guess haha

[@sippingsunshine32]

It's so cute how they understand something after their partner touches them.

[@fiftyyearoldjosephhileman4543]

"We're pretty sure" has to be the best line in this entire thing.

[@lixfolder4530]

"gay terry" 😭🤏

[@Blackstachio]

God this was painful to watch 😂 It always gets awkward Like i rolled up my sleeves on a short sleeve shirt to play my cello and immediately i got a “your so gay” like we’re friends but damn 😂

[@lurvensjoseph7183]

1:56 Him: R u sure you're gay? Me: R u sure you're not?

[@ivechangedmynametoday3865]

They do another take where they say that at the end

[@Sempramore]

Many gay couples incidentally do look like brothers (not these ones here though). I went to a party the other day and there were indeed a couple who looked very "brotherly", both wearing even the same type of glasses.

[@StandAloneSoul]

I mean... if you saw two girls with similar looks and the same glasses you'd probably think they're 'besties'. It's all about what kind of archetype-stereotypes we've got in our heads