ASK DURRE - MY ADVICE ON ANNOYING IN LAWS, FINANCES IN MARRIAGE, FRIENDSHIP AND MORE!

To celebrate 1000+ followers, I thought I would give advice in this week's video. If you like the video, please do leave a comment and share it with your friends.
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[@tanxeelaarshad8262]

CONGRATULATIONS on 1k subscribers!! Totally deserving! ⭐️

[@durresameenmirza9449]

Thank you 💕💕

[@arhamfatima48]

love your content you are polite firm and kind enough to share relatable things. wishing you best and good health. love arham

[@durresameenmirza9449]

Thank you 💕

[@MashalHasan]

Loving these series! “Ask Durree”

[@durresameenmirza9449]

Thank youuu 💕💕

[@aqsamushtaq8232]

I was waiting for you to come and talk.

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Awww💕💕

[@IqraKhadim]

Loved this video ♥️ And it’s true when u are living in another country, sometimes u go through this phase where u need to cry ,get frustrated etc it’s normal we are humans and at that point we should just try yo divert our minds , i try that & it works for me to some extent not 100% of course hehe ku k Pakistan tw phr Pakistan hai🤓😂

[@durresameenmirza9449]

Yes everyone has to develop their own coping mechanisms 🙈

[@IqraKhadim]

@@durresameenmirza9449 that’s true 💕

[@saira_6151]

Girls need to stipulate before marriage and in the nikkah contract they want a seperate home (rented or bought). Its a wife's shariah right. Couples need privacy and to run their home their own way without interference. Marriage is a big step in itself. No need to complicate it further.

[@durresameenmirza9449]

Yes! I understand that many people stay in joint family for financial reasons but it’s definitely a big compromise. Your privacy, mental peace and relationship are completely different when you have your own space.

[@saira_6151]

@@durresameenmirza9449 yes indeed but many also stay because its how its been done and because they want somebody to care for their parents and the household. It's just not the wife's job and she has her own parents, who she is expected to leave and distance herself from and ask permission to go see, but this JFS tradition is a remnant like jahez, rukhsati from the culture we inherited from India made by guys for guys. Getting married and living seperately should be normal part of starting your independent life. It's how other Muslims do it too. Especially outside the subcontinent. I really like how you think. I hope more will think like you.

[@saira_6151]

I don't understand why some girls are naive... *If a male friend is getting touchy, he is not a friend* You need to put down your foot, slap him and get the hell out. A friend or gentleman will never do that. Stay with people who respect you and your limits.

[@durresameenmirza9449]

I assumed she must be very young from the message. But it’s still unfortunate that girls aren’t taught to be very firm in their boundaries, not just with friends but everyone.

[@saira_6151]

Your hair looks just fine lol

[@durresameenmirza9449]

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