ASMR | (Alleged) Neighborhood Gossip 10-26-2021 (Soft Spoken-ish)

[@katiem6543]

You were in the right. If she doesn’t want to accept responsibility for her plants (allegedly) then someone has to. Thanks for the laughs and good on you for standing up for yourself!

[@buddy4235]

She just needs to spray the parts in her yard with weed killer

[@angelbeth16]

Mary: *throwing jane’s trash back in her yard” Jane: What is this garbage?? Mary: I don’t know what you mean, your yard always looks like this

[@PiggyAzaleea]

The 2 dislikes are John and Jane 😸. They sound horrible and narcissistic.

[@Stephaniefarrah]

Right 😂

[@pepperjackey5899]

That’s right 😂😂😂😂😂

[@GVNKPLR]

Allegedly

[@martinz60]

"Jane" sounds like she is unhinged. Hypothetically, of course.

[@Beauty_816]

Ha yes she does!

[@user-fi3cz2ij4e]

That's seems like too much credit for her

[@chyrellemorris6924]

I think your lawn mowing outfit is the cutest. These people are also teaching their kids not to be accountable they should keep their darts in the yard or at least pick them up. Jane needs help.I am working on speaking up for myself more.

[@livy_loo2889]

Imagine if her neighbors had a asmr channel also and they talk about neighborhood gossip lmao😂👀 Also good for you for standing up for yourself girl, I feel like we all need to these days!

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

It may not sound anything like mine. Hypothetically.

[@livy_loo2889]

@@SouthernASMRSounds I bet she would sound very dramatic and she kinda reminds me of the Vegan Teacher😂

[@camilasuemi6850]

I'm not used to gossiping, so this would not be the type of video i would voluntarily watch, but there's something in you that makes it more interesting. You're a true storyteller. The way you articulate and talk is just to facinating, it makes the most simple story into something unique. Keep doing these gossips. I'm totally here for it hahahahah

[@ToriMurphy]

What a satisfying hypothetical neighborhood update this was 👏 My dad planted the same exact “f u” trees in our backyard after new neighbors moved in. They grow so quickly and look really beautiful. Backyards should be an oasis, not something that stresses you out so I hope they help resolve the issues! Out of sight, out of mind 👍

[@jordanu467]

You’re a better woman than me, I would’ve screamed at the sight of her flopping them back over the fence! Hell no!

[@gmaildoglover911]

Right? I would've knocked some sense into her!

[@Chris-tg3qy]

Most cities have ordinances regarding how close someone can plant or build to the easement. It avoids problems like you have with your neighbor. She’s probably violating some ordinance with her plants being so close to your property. You definitely have the right to trim anything that hangs over into your yard. If she doesn’t like it then she needs to move her plants. I can’t believe she Is unable to see that she is wrong, but then again this is hypothetical.

[@sully2932]

Pleeeeeeeeeease don’t feel bad. I was getting so angry just hearing about what those neighbors are trying to get away with; the only thing that helped alleviate my rage was you finally getting a bit of justice!

[@taylorjenkins4517]

Raised in the South I certainly have the issue to swallow my pride and not speak up when something bothers me. There is definitely a culture to “not make a fuss”.

[@spencerallegra]

This is my favorite show!! Edit: a spray bottle full of bleach in the dead of night would do wonders for miss jane’s plants. They’ll turn brown and crusty at first but that just means it’s working!

[@honeybumble6631]

This story was so satisfying!!! I needed this. I LOVE when people are put in their place.

[@JayMoney0777]

I'm a master at ignoring people 😂 Same girl, same. Also, they deserved alot more than that. Hypothetically, of course. Love your videos by the way!

[@frostybaby13]

OMG Ms Mary, you’re a legend!!!! I was raised a southern girl too and I feel my heart pounding away in my throat at the slightest confrontation - you lived my dream today!!! :D

[@juliapalka9770]

Just what I needed!!! Thank you Mary!, you look great love the flannel and headband!

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

Thank you! I try to keep my lawn-mowing outfits nice and spiffy. :)

[@sydv1c10us6]

Your soft spoken voice and hand movements are so calming and makes me so happy. Love you Mary!

[@twiggystardust9573]

So I'm only six minutes in and I already have to ask... why in the seven hells would your yard ruin her shoes? You got some raw sewage? Volcanic ash? A syphilis puddle?

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

I think it was supposed to be a subtle insult or something.

[@twiggystardust9573]

@@SouthernASMRSounds Good one, Jane. 🙄👍

[@penelopep.maggie5976]

Her shoes don’t get ruined when she jumps over and picks her peppers, tho!

[@kr8270]

“Syphilis puddle” 💀 😂

[@kellyakins6443]

YES! I was just talking to my husband tonight about how I’ve grown more “ intolerable “ of people’s crap within the last 10 years. 😂 I said “ people probably think I’m a jerk and I like it”. 😂✊🏼 But side note: you’re absolutely correct. We have to stand up for ourselves. Good for you!

[@thelivesofothersYT]

Maryyyyy! You are back and with my all time favorite from you: neighbor gossip. Love ya.

[@rebekahphillips7]

Oh, I'm going to the bad place. Cause I laughed so hard at her scream🤣🤣🤣. I was going to suggest cutting what was growing on your side, so was very happy when you got to that part😀

[@audreybenton8856]

OH MY GOD YAY I LOVE THESE THANK YOUUUU MARY SPILL. 👏🏼 THAT. 👏🏼 TEA. 👏🏼☕ I'M HERE FOR IT ALL.

[@whisperingbeeasmr]

You said, “I got my clippers…” and I lost it! I was laughing to so much!!! 😂😂

[@PaperAntlers222]

I love that her husband didn't bother to come because he knew she's crazy and he checked out a long time ago 😂

[@inexperiencedladywithagun7851]

These are always my favorite- you could literally have a whole channel just for neighborhood gossip

[@MyBarbaricYAWP22]

Also I’m dying at the thought of Jane sneaking over with her claws out to take away the branches 😂😂

[@sweettexast2894]

ON your property = YOUR property! Epic. Been there. You handled it like a BOSS. But, please watch your kitties. Had a Neigbor back in the late 90s try to hurt my cats after we got into it when he allowed his dog to tear up my fence and dig holes into my yard to try and kill my cats. He retaliated by trying to poison them. He was not successful and we caught him on video and he was charged. Very scary though.

[@carly5380]

Good thinking, please keep an eye on your cats! People are crazy. So glad your neighbors were not successful

[@heatherfugere]

You are more patient than me Mary! Anything on your property is your right to remove ☺️ hope you find a way to block them out!

[@MyBarbaricYAWP22]

“I’m a master at ignoring people” lololol I love it Mary 😂😂

[@beccahunt6127]

Legally, you can cut anything down that encroaches over your property line.

[@soapforthesoul]

Do you think it varies by state? Just curious if you know :)

[@TheEllaDarling]

Unless it's old tree roots! You gotta be careful about those or roots in general I suppose. If what you're doing kills the plant itself you might have a bigger problem on your hands (also probably varies by state/country)

[@beccahunt6127]

@@soapforthesoul not sure about NC.

[@sierramiller9102]

I have zero clue why but when you started talking about the FU trees and how they are going to place them and what else they would do I got the best tingles. I love explaining. Like the door store roleplay has been on repeat for days. Love you Mary!

[@trigunchica14]

The hypothetical stories are my favorite, allegedly. I wish I could tell a story near half as good as you do

[@melissaraye5834]

I’m so excited for this video! I had such a big, eventful day & this is just the cherry on top that I needed! Thank you for this video & for being you, Mary ❤️

[@KCAdams-kr7ow]

Why couldn’t Jane have just put her totes 6 feet closer to her own house instead of hypothetically setting/planting them right up against the fence?!

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

Probably because she knows how far out they go and doesn't want them being in HER way!

[@wovencoven]

Yes! So excited for this! Came at such a good time for me as I’ve had a rough morning. Lots of people have been overtly aggressive with me when I’ve done nothing wrong. I was paying at the self checkout in Kmart (a store we have in Australia, and I’m already bummed out because my local Kmart is out of stock of my noise canceling headphones that I needed to exchange cos they broke last night, so I’m already panicked. (I’m autistic and have SPD so I can’t go anywhere publicly without them). Additionally i wasn’t given the correct receipt the last time I went so it was a bit of a hassle to sort that out too, again no fault of my own, and then after checking out at the self checkout, as I was leaving past the other self checkouts this couple barged/shoved into me (this is the second time this has happened) trying to get to the next self checkout thinking I was trying to get to it when in fact I was just trying to leave. Like this is a Kmart I’m not racing you to get to a checkout, I just paid and I’m trying to leave. Kinda overwhelmed after a ‘Karen’ hit my car door this morning too. Thought I’d share my ‘hypothetical’ neighbourhood gossip too 😂🎧

[@dogdonut3]

I'm sorry you had such a rough day. I hope tomorrow is better for you.

[@wovencoven]

@@dogdonut3 aw thank you 😊

[@camilasuemi6850]

Omg. I'm so sorry for all of this. Hope things sorted out and you're having great nights of sleep

[@Mrs_Bojangles]

It’s 3am my time, and I’m sick so I’m wide awake. This is perfect timing Mary🥰. That one thumbs down must be Jane taking a break from picking peppers🤣

[@malloryk5237]

Yes! Thank you so much Mary.! I clicked as soon as I saw. It’s been a difficult day and your videos always bring a smile to my face. These are my absolute favorite!

[@BadBoy1115]

This played out in my head like an episode of Desperate housewifes and I loved every second of it 😂😂. Good on you for standing up for yourself like that ,you seriously inspire me to do the same!

[@eoj8371]

Thing is that how far it was over into your garden was irrelevant, it’s a matter of principle that if it’s on your side in YOUR garden that you own and have paid for then you can do what the hell you like. Maybe this is because I’m British but we have a very strict rule in our neighbourhood (I live in a very similar neighbourhood to the in you described with house on all sides in a grid) that if it’s your plant, then it’s your responsibility to make sure it doesn’t go into your neighbour’s garden or at the very least ask them if it’s okay for it to be overhanging over their fence. It’s just courtesy and if someone were to trim the plant over the fence we wouldn’t bat an eyelid in fact it would be us at fault for letting it go over in the first place. Good to you for showing her what’s what!

[@OOoKarmaoOO]

The concept of the FU trees is too funny to me

[@chezlou812]

Love this! Mary you're amazing! In the UK you're allowed to cut anything that's on your property but have to give it back to the owners - my mom used to enjoy cutting encroaching branches and chucking them back over to the neighbour 😂

[@whisperingbeeasmr]

Mary, I love you! You’re hilarious!! 😂 I know this “hypothetical” story is frustrating to you, but I loved the humors incorporated into it lol Thank you! Made my night! Especially “Itchy & Scratchy 2.0” 😂😂😂😂

[@robloxcelebimpressionist8739]

Ikr

[@lesleystewart214]

You're entitled to trim any plants coming over your garden. Xxxx

[@vickysasmr3960]

This popped up at such a good moment 🙂 nice relaxing neighborhood gossip with my WoodWick candle on crackling 💕

[@MultiGoldenBlue]

I actually fell asleep very quickly on that one and I had a dream that Mary was showing us her garden, which went for miles and at the end she said ‘and this is where I’ll plant F U trees…’. I’ll need to rewatch the video to see if she actually used that term in the video or if my brain made it up lol

[@TheBigdog868]

I've seen issues like this before on city council. Jane is definitely encroaching your property with the plants. Trim off whatever you need to. She's enjoying her property. You have the right to enjoy yours as well!

[@kimbellabella348]

Hearing all the drama with having neighbors, makes me feel so thankful for living on a ranch in the middle of nowhere, I have absolutely no neighbors…. I hope those FU trees 🌲 🌲 🌲 do you justice and keeps the peace! Love the gossip, keep the Sheers ✂️ handy 😂😂😂

[@AmyCat71]

These videos are like having a glass of wine with a friend and catching up. Thank you for your content Mary!

[@pig2428]

I can’t tell you how excited I was to see this (theoretically)!! I just watch all the old ones until we get new gossip!

[@ihatesnakeu8227]

I stopped the video at like 13 min to say that honestly if I saw her do that like flipping those vines over my fence, I'd chop all the ones that are haniging on my fence . Since it's on ur property u have the right to do that don't you? Cause just hearing ur story I'd get tired tucking those plants in that aren't even mine . Plus you asked her many times to move it , i wouldn't hesitate to chop it all

[@gracefulbarbie]

she did!! 🤣

[@Chasitytrosper99]

Omg army hi

[@soapforthesoul]

You called them weeds to her face I am deadddd! Mary you inspire me to be a more confident and confrontational woman! Thank you for being you

[@soulfoodsmama2980]

So good to hear a woman say “it’s okay to speak up for yourself/defend yourself”

[@Sarahlane778]

Mary you are a legend!! 😅 And a good reminder of why I love living in the country away from people! 😉

[@jenniferpage6678]

Mary I love love love your neighbourhood gossip videos. Saw this one and jumped with excitement. Thank you so much.

[@pianostudder6474]

It’s been 30 min since the video was posted and already 118 likes👍🏼?!? Wow love your vids and especially the Asmr walkthroughs

[@AlCiego1959]

I just subscribed to your channel and I have to say, Good for You! There’s nothing wrong with standing up for what’s right (hypothetically). It’s unfortunate that not all neighbors are very “neighborly”.

[@zwinny0408]

Similar situation with my neighbor! Her husband got so heated over it that he took his weed eater and CARVED the word "bitch" into our front lawn. Then smarted off to the officers and got himself put on a list.

[@kaybee2921]

thank you i’m 27 and i’m trying to navigate my way through this , i was raised to be a people pleaser 🤦🏽‍♀️ and i’ve mastered it, but sometimes, i owe it too myself too push back! i can’t let myself become a pushover! i don’t feel like bs is in my blood i hope that makes sense! so this was very good advice 💞🙏

[@carrie9716]

I’m the same. I avoid confrontation too much and it makes people think they can take advantage. I hate that.

[@actuallyitsjustbo]

That thumbnail is wild and so are these alleged neighbors. Lol. I hate when parents can't just look at the situation honestly instead of getting offended over everything their kids get called out for. It sounds like you handle this very well.

[@AliciaJL]

Loved this very hypothetical story. Mary, you're a boss! Please keep us updated with "Smiths".. ❤😂

[@caitlinpowell8855]

Best southern asmr videos on this channel! Aside from charity and carl

[@lauraa2778]

This comment has me crying, 'aside from charity and carl,' bahaha! I doubt they ever cross paths except on this channel!!

[@Laura.v.b]

oh i had a good giggle. This is why i miss living on a farm...neighbours.....they're the worst hahaha

[@LadyGreenEyes]

Mary, the way you handled your neighbour and her crazy rantings was absolutely perfect! She should count herself lucky.

[@rianmilit]

This made me cackle and totally made my day, I listened to this while on my lunch break. I do love these hypothetical, totally not true, made up scenarios. 😉

[@OkayDesiree]

I really appreciate what you had to say regarding not being afraid of confrontation as woman

[@KarenRiffe]

I am from Alabama and it took me years to find my voice. But when I found it Wow!!! Is all I can say. You do you Mary. You had a Mary moment.

[@ThePsmith1985]

I needed this today! I’ve recently left a very toxic partner and had words with my daughters dad and his wife. I like you feel bad but no more! They don’t give a rats ass about hurting or upsetting me! Thanks Mary xx

[@jasmineross2453]

This video was great, gave me a right giggle! Well done Mary! I hope I learn to stick up for myself one day. X

[@JenMA20]

Sorry for the troubles you are going thru, but, these are my absolute favorite videos you do and I enjoyed this immensely!! 😬😬👍🏻👍🏻

[@sheelfjohnson]

I really want to plant a row of f u trees, but I'm afraid our neighbor would burn them down. He's a pyro. He already burnt our shared fence down. He was burning a barrel of crap in his yard, unsupervised, about 4 feet from a wooden fence.

[@ellec9015]

I tell ya, I have lived in the country with no neighbors and I think I will have to stay here. I could not deal with those looney tunes neighbors."hypothetically". 😆

[@Athena-pw2gq]

Good for you Mary! The fact that you dealt with their nonsense for so long 😅. I couldn’t do it lol this reminds me of something I’d see on fear thy neighbor 🤣

[@freyjascats]

Ugh, I get it. My neighbor has a compost pile right next to our chain link fence and there's stinging nettle that keeps hopping into our yard. Good for you for sticking up for yourself!

[@jco6528]

Good for you Mary for speaking up! Glad you are getting the "privacy" hedge. Just remember if your security cameras don't record everything if she even utters a word to you or comes to your door record it on your phone! When you deal with liars you have to hypothetically record everything just in case you wind up in front of Judge Judy! :) LOL then you will have proof! Gaslighting is the worst.

[@candeabbona5325]

i was waiting for you to say that you had cut the damn branches off at least!!! and the way u handled that situation was so calm and collected i would've gone off lmao

[@lauraa2778]

"they just won't accept responsibility for anything" ... "hypothetically" ... Yes. This. I am screaming!

[@twiggystardust9573]

I mean, how hard is it to tell your kids to quit throwing their trash in the neighbor's yard? Apologize for the mess that YOU KNOW your kids are responsible for, and say you'll make sure it doesn't happen again. It's. Not. Hard.

[@lucysmith9064]

I can just imagine Jane "hypothetically" screaming NOOOOO!!!!! 🤣🤣, Your a calmer woman than me, my Welsh temper would have come out and I'd have gone mad on her for being on my property xx

[@trish247]

I would have used a few choice four letter words a looong time ago with Jane. I'm a super nice, easy going person, but I don't take crap from anyone, and I sure as heck don't tolerate people messing around my property. Kudos to you, Mary, for saying something! You have every right to do so. Selfish folks like that need to be put in their place every once and awhile!!

[@freyjascats]

My sister's HOA regularly checks people's trees and makes them cut them down if they're dead or if people have trash in their yard. I'm surprised yours doesn't. What's the point of having an HOA??

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

Our HOA doesn't really ever do anything. You're right - there's really no point in having them. I'm not saying that I want them to get involved in every little thing, but based on what I've learned about this particular situation, they definitely need to get involved. I've been in touch with them about the goings-on in this situation, and they've tried to stay out of it, but they're going to have to get involved whether they like it or not.

[@philipcarruthers]

Best of luck with the FU trees. Watching your response to your neighbour from hell makes me love you even more: you rock!

[@cher1292]

Amen sister! I was brought up the same way. I think as we age 😜 we get “tired” of people’s crap! Yay for those of us who have learned to voice our opinion! I loved your comment to Miss Morgan!

[@STARRY127]

had a long day at work today, i’m not too social with my coworkers but watching your video reminds me of chats i have with my sister, our neighbors have many cats and they often come into our backyard, poop all over our backyard, and have recently started killing squirrels. not to mention they stay pestering one of my dogs every time she takes a potty break. hard to avoid these things now so we’ve just learned to live with it 😭 however if things turn for the worst we’ll have to file some complaints. good for you on standing up for yourself and your home

[@skylervenables1240]

Just a thought. You might want to try getting some plants cats typically don’t like. I believe rosemary and other citrus…might be worth a shot. Look into cat deterrents. Whatever you do, don’t put up barbed wire anywhere. My friends cat was sliced open from front leg to tail from their neighbor who did just that trying to keep the cats away.

[@tj3245]

That was so funny and satisfying! You should do your thing and twist those darn precious branches into a wreath and hang it on your back porch for Jane to look at! 😂

[@simplybrandiasmr9964]

This is the kind of neighborhood drama I like to hear. This is hilarious 😂😂😂

[@pamjohnson122]

LOL! "Nooooooo!" ..... I love it, Mary!

[@cro3807]

Omg yesssss I love these neighbors gossip videos THANK YOU 🙏

[@celesteverna1087]

Glad your back!!

[@kimrobinson6280]

Mary you are entirely in the right we had similar problems and was told by local council you can cut what ever overhangs into your yard , you go girl 💪

[@pepperjackey5899]

Good for you! I was thinking of something I would do that would result in dead plants. You are a bigger woman than I am, good for you! You handled yourself well . 💕

[@_Mimi_711]

Good for you, Mary! so proud of you!! Me and my partner are moving into our first home soon, so thank you for this idea if I ever deal with this.

[@jgee3369]

😂🤣 Good for you for taking a stand against the neighbors from hell 😂🤣 I feel for you having to live with those neighbors. You did the right thing by speaking up. 🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲

[@babywigeon]

good for you, Mary, some problems need to be confronted! how sad that they suffocated those old cedar trees 💔 and if Jane needs her dead plants so bad you could toss those rotten tomatoes & peppers right back over the fence lmao

[@Schmusekissens]

Ah Yes, a good gossip video. Always love those!

[@stylerschannelxx]

Omg waited for this for soo long

[@KiJiHoon]

I LOVE pink dogwood. Your garden is going to look even more amazing! 🌳🌺

[@Danielle-he6nk]

Your yard, is your yard! She has her own yard for her god damn plants, good on you Mary ♥️

[@daifloyd]

You are legally within your right to cut anything that grows over the fence and into your property.Furthermore there are some vines which attach buy using little suckers,such as ivy.These will actually damage a wooden fence.Also,some vines,such as wysteria,are considered invasive and can take over relatively quickly if left unattended.(Much like bamboo).

[@megans2829]

Did I hypothetically hear FREE peppers and tomatoes? I would invite her over for dinner and feed Jane her own produce.