ASMR | Ear to Ear WHISPERS 🌻💤 (Sleepy, Up-Close)

Hi guys! This is an ear to ear whispers video - extra up-close & intense! It has a some (inevitable hehe) mouth sound triggers, mic scratching/touching, hand sounds, personal attention, and more~
It's a bit on the shorter side, since I'm working on two upcoming extra long videos - so keep an eye out for those!
I ended up rambling a lot about happiness, community, and hobbies/creativity in this video. These are all things that have been on my mind lately and things that I feel are all interconnected - so please, like I mention in the video, tell me about how you've met your friends, what hobbies you're into, and any insight you feel like you have about what it means to be happy. I think the comment section could be a great place for people who feel like they've been struggling to learn something new. Sending you all my love!! 💛
Until next time!
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[@apolloeight]

I keep forgetting to send you $$ as a thanks because ADHD but your ASMR is actual ASMR. You are a natural who nevertheless works hard at your craft. I love your worldview and encouragement. I’m about to move across the U.S. to a place I know no one and I’m a bit scared of that. Thanks for the ideas for making pals and feeling less alone, I mean if YOU find it hard it must be!

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

oh my gosh. thank you so so so much!! this was so incredibly kind of you thank you. 🥺💕 sending you all the luck and love and encouragement for your move! a big move is so scary but also such a great opportunity for growth and new connections. GOOD LUCK!! 💜💜💜

[@cactus660]

Love, love, love your simple whisper videos just chatting to us with hand sounds and hand movements. No props needed. I don't like mouth sounds in general, except yours! Your inaudible whispers and mouth sounds are amazing. I think I like no mic covers best and even hidden mics but not a big deal either way. My favorite artist by far!

[@senshistar]

I love whisper videos with unintentional mouth sounds and natural mouth sounds!

[@andersonwu4304]

I love mouth sounds when they're naturally incorporated into whispers or used as a layered sound for an action.

[@karllykos]

I like the modest and professional approach you bring to every video.

[@lifeisbannanas]

Why modest? Such a mysogynistic thing to say

[@karllykos]

@@lifeisbannanas "You PC, Brah?!" There's always gotta be at least one person around looking for a reason to be offended, or so uptight over one "wrong" word. Everything is "-ist," these days. Over one hundred other people had no problem with my comment. Get a life.

[@woollymammeth]

Yea I agree go outside bro

[@Vepporizer]

@@lifeisbannanascry

[@mlgfrog27]

@@lifeisbannanascry

[@KrakenFried]

You 100% have to be one of my most favorite ASMRtists, you never fail to make me fall asleep

[@AyOchoa8A]

Her voice is so soothing, I respect her so much

[@janpierzchala2004]

Sarah whisper is very good, not too loud

[@JayFolipurba]

right? the best asmrtists are the ones you see the least of xD

[@deltnira]

This type of asmr is my favorite : I love asmr just bc of the whispering, it reminds me the nights with my sisters when we could chat for hours before sleep ❤

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Yay!! Me too 🥹💖 thank you

[@WumboWings96]

I’m to the point where I don’t get many tingles anymore from asmr. I just enjoy the whispers as a calming tool, but you’re one of the very few who can still give me tingles! I love quiet whisper videos without background sound.

[@PbF00t]

Having moved 4 times since the end of school to new areas where I know no one - I completely understand how hard it is to find your people! It does get better with time. Shared hobbies is a big one!

[@carterreed6718]

I love when, in whispering videos, there is a focus on visual triggers alongside the whispering. This is a great example of that! Thank you!

[@alicestate2967]

This is so good; your ASMR is honestly always so consistently tingly-you’re so skilful. 💛

[@inspiredalan]

Looking forward to incorporating this one into my nightly "Sarah ASMR" playlist that I use most nights to fall asleep. You are a blessing.🙏

[@grythely]

i also moved recently and have been working rebuilding a social group! i've made friends in pottery classes, through friends of friends, and by meeting up with people i originally met online. love the discussion about getting out of your comfort zone, we don't talk enough about the strategies involved with making friends!

[@emilys3793]

this is uncanny! i was hanging out in my favourite bar earlier after my dnd session (which was there) and i remarked to my friend how glad i am that this place exists, because its given me a place to find a wonderful community. and tomorrow i have a workout class planned! its like you looked into my life! But yeah, its really hard to build a community up from scratch after moving, and im so glad every time i push myself and make an effort to go somewhere to meet people.

[@36chambersthebest]

Mouth sounds are the most requested trigger in your videos because you are the best at it! Thanks for the sleepy videos, you are the absolute best ASMRtist around and we appreciate you ❤️

[@treehann]

I am often looking for new high quality whisper-ers to follow and this video is excellent!! Superb sound quality and beautiful color palette as a bonus. thank you for your hard work

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

thank you so much!! 🥺💕

[@ella519]

this video was absolutely perfect the hand movements and ear to ear whispers and you just talking about life soooo good thankyou once again❤❤

[@musicalcolin]

I LOVE your whisper ramble videos. These kinds of videos are my favorite ones you do.

[@HushedHollyASMR]

This is SO good 😌 I love your binaural videos!!! Also, your intros are so soothing and gentle yet still have a great pace 😊💛

[@HushedHollyASMR]

Also, I totally relate to the building community thing. It took me 2 years in a new state where I didn’t know anyone to even START building a community. And it’s so hard for me to put myself out there sometimes because it can be so exhausting/ awkward to be in that beginning phase where you don’t know people well and are trying to get to know them etc 🥴 anyways I relateeeeee 💛

[@anjulijume]

idk why, but your hand sounds are just the best. haven't heard any as good as yours. thank you a lot for all of your videos though, they help me sleep and relax a lot.

[@MangoSmoothy]

L

[@thehowlofthemoon]

Omg I have misophonia too! Your videos are literally the only ones that never make me cringe with mouth sounds I love them

[@aionarap]

You learned a new word, nice

[@uhhidk7892]

@@aionarapyou really in an asmr comment section undiagnosing strangers

[@whatisleftbutolivelaughlove]

⁠@@aionarapreally took that personally 😭

[@melenalunaa]

@@aionarapwhy u even here if ur judging people take a nap.

[@Yvuyctxtxtx]

@@aionarapYou should learn. People experience things you don’t. It has been debilitating to my life and you’re sadly not going to change that.

[@blowthediceforme]

I have been SO excited to see u post again Sarah! u r one of the best around to me!

[@vamoon61]

That yellow brings a beautiful glow to your face, incredible! Truly your color.

[@jessisamess4062]

the audio in this video is so crisp!! also, i relate to what you said about liking some gum chewing in asmr but hating it in real life. i can't stand any sort of mouth sounds irl, but for some reason it's sometimes ok in asmr videos.

[@coralcactusboutique]

New Sarah video days are my favorite days!❤️ I tried watching last night and fell right asleep, watching again this morning. Thanks for your hard work!

[@yesharana1820]

never seen the end of your videos unless im actively studying or cleaning cause i always fall asleep

[@deanhubbard7162]

Haven’t watched any of your videos in a bit. I seem to go through “phases” with ASMRtists. I’m glad I decided to watch this one. Really enjoyed it!

[@sima8323]

You need more of this! I 100% love alll of this. All of it. TINGLES are insane.

[@Andrew3737]

Such a comfy and cozy vibe. Loved the close whispers, Sarah!

[@nokuzka]

the nights when Sarah posts are honestly the best

[@michellebadger6144]

This is the earliest I've ever been for a video and I am so excited to sleep tonight 😌

[@jessicasmith9599]

I think the mouth sounds are what make the whispers so great!

[@ghostkat92]

The background color with your shirt color is so pretty to me. I don’t mind mouth sounds typically especially if they are a natural part of talking.

[@Z_Twe12e]

My favorite type of videos! I also enjoy tapping with the close whispers.

[@2amBreakfast]

Great message, thank you Sarah. I moved away from my friends and family about a year ago and you're absolutely right, it is tough to build a new social circle from scratch! Especially if you're older than early 20s I would say, as most people's friendship groups have already crystalised by then. And it's doubly hard for introverts and people who are happy spending some time on their own but also want friends to occasionally do things with. As you say, it's helpful to join groups to play sports or do activities together, but even then it can be difficult to progress from having acquaintances you do specific activities with, to making real friends. I discovered a few years ago that my personality type is uncommon (2-5% of the population I think) which helped me realise and accept that I'm not really compatible on a deep level with the majority of people. As a result I don't beat myself up for finding it harder to make new friends than I would like.

[@luvkit1014]

What is your personality type? If you don't mind me asking

[@2amBreakfast]

@@luvkit1014 INTJ

[@CommonPlaceASMR]

⁠@@2amBreakfast Hey me too! Ironically, I’ve also recently moved away from home and am really struggling to find friends. It’s nice to know that someone else out there is a little similar

[@2amBreakfast]

​@@CommonPlaceASMR The struggle is real. Hang in there though. Don't give up. I think typically INTJs only need a couple of good friends to be content.

[@rickr8173]

Yep. I've lived alone in my area for 16 years and have yet to make a single friend. It's even harder if you hate sports and don't drink.

[@larikaa]

I loovve mouthsounds, it is one of the sounds that tingles me all the time. Alsoo i realized that it has been long time since you made a roleplay, missed them!

[@XXXTENTAClON227]

16:50 me too! In fact mouth sounds are my favourite videos, I still fall asleep to your other ones but I started be8ng able to recite them and I get anxiety when I know the video is close to finishing because I’ve been up too long I used to dislike mouth sounds and love mic scratching… it’s completely switched now. I can’t listen to harsh mic scratching, it sounds like nails on a chalkboard.

[@WHKIDtv]

Last time I tried to watch this video I fell asleep in 2 mins. Something about your voice gives me tingles no matter what you're talking about. After that it's lights out. Going to put the headphones on and see how far I get this time.

[@i.r.1]

Your whisper rambles are my favourite videos of yours, thank you for this! 😊

[@dragonnymphs5882]

Always perfect as ever ✨😴☁️ Here’s a black screen for those falling asleep x : Goodnight 🌙⭐️✨

[@talkingtottenham3198]

I love pure whispering - reminds me of when I was young and we would visit my grandparents and stay late so I would start falling asleep with them and my parents whispering, one of the best sounds to fall asleep too. Great video yet again sarah 💯 Another book vid ( I know you did one not to long ago ) would be amazing as I love the sounds. Open mouth chewing is the worst thing in the world when it comes to manners/sounds.

[@westernncgirl101]

When I was your age I was all about friends. Now that I'm older it's all about family because I realize my time with my family is winding down and I want as much time with family as possible. I still do things with friends but family comes first. I'm not a mouth sound fan but I do like the mic scratching and screen tapping, brushing, etc.

[@chironwade2048]

Thank you for the wonderful, healing videos. I often recommend them to friends who are feeling stressed or challenged. It's clear that you're a very caring person. In one video, you mentioned how challenging it can be to relocate to another place. I understand this well, having relocated multiple times myself. You also asked about people's hobbies. One of mine is inventing and building board games. I wish you much success, joy, and happiness in life. Every video of yours I've watched deserves a 5-star review!

[@marksomerville6790]

Well....I am also not particularly social either and I love ASMR mouth sounds but also hate them, generally, in actual life. That's another resonance I feel with your work. Which is excellent and you are an amazing person.

[@louannlee5323]

Every time you upload, you bring positive energy in my day, thank you for that ❤

[@h1pst3rcat]

lol! I kid you not, I was listening to this video while I was working on a felting project when you mentioned doing it yourself! I started felting during quarantine to help feel like I had something of measurable progress. I can say, it is wonderfully addicting! I hope you find joy in it too!

[@Thatonemomcarri]

I agree that hobbies help with happiness. I am currently into dollhouse mini makeovers lol. Also it’s crazy but I haven’t stepped out of my comfort zone since 2020.

[@quinn4365]

I've had severe misophonia for much of my life, but your videos are a nice break from all of the sounds I hear day to day !!

[@Qpie261]

I love how you talked about friendship. I met one of my friends in the playground. Both of us looked exhausted by our 1 year olds. We started chatting about who looked most exhausted (😂) and now - 2 years later - we are very close friends!

[@bethbuchanan9271]

I love your videos. I’ve been watching for a few years now. I really appreciate the soft whispering , and the self motivating videos you make. It’s very relaxing. I am not a fan of mouth sounds or loud ear to ear breaths. Just whispering is great. Thank you for all you do. I appreciate all your efforts at making these videos. Your doing great!!!🙂❤️

[@XXXTENTAClON227]

15:16 huge difference, I love the sensitivity of it , I hope it’s not too difficult to hold your breath so often 😂

[@Kimberlifkngjoka]

Rip xxx

[@JaneNourDillinger]

That was a very nice one! Many things I like and nothing I dislike. I really love your whispering voice and ear to ear is great, just perfect with a few unintentional mouthsounds and a lot of flattering/fluttering hand sounds. So this video might be on heavy rotation I think. Oh and I think I told you already but let me repeat I'm really in love with the look of that room. The colours are lovely and those hexagonal honeycomb like pictures/ frames are very cute. It also amazes me how many hobbies you have and that you can actively do such things that often. I wonder when I actively did something like that... but well, I have 3 kids. Sleeping is my luxurious hobby if I can.

[@imbatmanireallyam9122]

As the night descends and you close your eyes. Choose greater thoughts and let them rise. For in this silence, your thoughts pave the way, shaping the world you'll meet by day. You can do it

[@usmanwaheed1156]

Omg sarah i can't even explain how much i adore you you're melting my heart day by day...🥺💗

[@HeatherMcNeice]

Sending you positive vibes and love for building your support group and finding happiness in your new community.

[@lindawood8683]

Mic covers off - yes! Whispers and tapping - yes! Thanks.

[@kellymcnulty4836]

Thank you. By far my favorite asrm. Would love to see the felting and creative art videos too

[@oskispacepoint5300]

Happiness is a mindset. It is about being grateful for who you are right now and understanding that life is rough and difficult at times. However, even those "bad" times contribute to the amazing person you are. It is also closely related to a purpose. “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche.

[@gottlicherspeer963]

😊

[@kaitlynr9410]

I’ve met lots of new friends in the last couple of years by going to an adult volleyball league!! It’s so fun to do what I love with people I enjoy being with!

[@giovanna9903]

I relate to what you said about moving away. In 5 days it’ll be 4 years that I moved away from my family and friends, and my country. It was nice hearing you had a similar experience. And awesome asmr! Thanks ❤

[@sathsan]

So calming and beautiful!!!

[@mikesnitro]

Such a nice, genuine person.

[@eiei1188]

I'm a girl and I'm so in love with your videos.I can't sleep without watching yours.

[@ste6098]

I was thinking about your videos today and you posted haha. Thank you for the new upload. :) As for the question in the video I like whispering mixed with tapping.

[@a.lin.the.v]

Yessss! I love seeing when there’s a new vid from you! Sleepy time! 😴 ❤

[@frostnmatt]

Looking forward to a new pomodoro video! I used your pomodoros quite frequently the last few years when I was finishing my bachelors degree.

[@Daymond1973]

As soon as you mentioned dnd I adored you just a little more! Lol. Been playing tabletop rpgs for 40 yesrs.

[@ayeshaabdulrahman1919]

I find it SO ironic that Sarah hates mouth sounds but gives us the BEST mouth sounds to ever exist 😄

[@fernandoalmeida6205]

Me encantannnnnn tus vídeos, me ayudan mucho a estudiar por las noches, no dejes de subir contenido! 😊

[@simonmandrakejones]

Thanks for hanging out with us. I am cooking dinner after a long day and I am very, very relaxed. I absolutely loved this video. To answer your question - yes, it was a bit crisper without the mike covers. As to hobbies, I used to write and produce plays, but I stopped due to some family issues taking up my time and because staging the plays started to become a second job...but I wouldn't mind getting back to writing.

[@jamielee5695]

Hey you could play games whilst whispering as a sort of let's play ASMR thing, but if not I hope you enjoy getting back into gaming, getting back into it has helped me to escape and feel relaxed the last few years

[@andreawuthrich1239]

heyy, i met my friends mostly in new schools and also in new workplaces. I dont really have many Hobbys becausei work all day and i cant find the time for a Hobby that i permanently do. So i the Weekends i visit my Boyfriend, my Family members and my closest Friends so its hard to fid time for other Things, but i think thats okey even if i try to make more Hobbies. I like your Videos because for me its a Form of good selfcare. I can really good slow down with your Videos and its makes my life more comfortable. Thanks❤

[@Wesley_Ray]

Your positive energy is radiant ❤ thank you for that incredibly soothing video ( :

[@seaweedoldsalty9048]

I have been trying to grow crystals from certain salts and even bought a commercial kit but have had little success so far. I intend to continue trying as the results look so cool. Thanks for the video, it is so timely as it is a pleasant distraction from current world events.💜💜

[@Kat-hs2ij]

Oh this is a good timing ! I just watched two horror movies at the theater now I need some calm 💛😴

[@Hazel_Witch]

Dropping a video mentioning Undertale and art class on October 10 - top tier move ❤

[@anromeow]

your videos have accompanied me through many an essay in university, thank you for always providing a comforting vibe when i need to focus ❤️‍🩹

[@ahiatzz]

YAYYY I CAN SLEEP NOW 💖💖💖

[@usmanwaheed1156]

Oh my goodness she is finally back...💗😊

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

wow i fell asleep to this and slept so well. thank you so much Sarah ❤

[@FrenchiASMR]

I love your vibe and your set up and everything else !!!!

[@louannlee5323]

I oddly like “natural” mouth sounds in asmr, the ones that are not forced and sort of breathy! Especially in ear to ear videos. But in real life it’s a big no no for me 😅 Also to answer your question, I love tapping in any sort of video, and face brushing is always a bonus 🫶🏻

[@YaNansCrustyToe]

Defo

[@jessicasmith9599]

I like the extra sounds with the whispers - especially when you would scratch the mic with the covers on 👍🏻

[@theblindninja943]

Love your videos, my attempt at a hobby is very slowly learning how to play the piano. I am not very artistically driven and tend to be super analytical so it’s making me use a different part of my brain at least.

[@alessiascaloni]

Thank you so much for your words, i moved from italy to the US and it was and it still hard for me at some points, but i met a lot of friends and i'm happy💘

[@jamesjerelhill]

I love these type of videos and think this one is a great mix of everything I like about them (whisper, binaural, interesting chat). Weirdly as an adult I’ve met a lot of friends through going to comedy shows, many through a local movie mocking troupe (think live MST3K).

[@eyeheartfrusciante]

I recently read Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow, and you remind me of the main female character. You’re exactly how I picture her. ❤️🥰

[@AdonisPalmer-o8q]

Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.

[@Elizabeth-v9q]

Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the paren't of all the others.

[@johnwang3303]

The scratch sound at the beginning sounds so nice.

[@RUBICZCUBZ]

I recently joined a local book club and made some new friends and have broadened my reading genres. It’s been great. I work by myself so this is my only social interaction

[@K1ngCharles25]

Yes! Sarah! Embrace the gum chewing! Honestly, I’m the same. I enjoy it but for relaxation purposes, it has to be subtle. Like in ramble videos.

[@melodyvonsmith745]

Would you consider making a video like this with background music ? I love the up close biaurnal vids 😊. music would make them even more solid for me (but I will often run a vid like this over one with no talking or a nature sounds vid) Anyway thank you so much for making these ❤

[@Blossy62]

I do recommend sign language classes if you could find one in person. Mine was such a good experience.

[@SpeckysEmporium]

We all want more mouth sounds Another amazing video ☺️

[@Zelda-p9y]

Cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.

[@jaykim223]

i can't wait for the pomodoro!!!

[@padmaja3762]

thank you for giving me good sleep everyday 🥺❤️

[@penchenrumba5960]

More of sleepy/whisper videos please. Love your videos ❤

[@Moons_Desire]

my motto is I’ll stop listening to asmr for a week if it’s not relaxing me anymore, but obv this does not apply to new sarah vids. ❤