ASMR for if you're going through it (comforting you, talking confidence + positive affirmations)

[@QuartzK]

I am so proud of how far you have come. It is amazing what happens when you take small steps each day and allow yourself to sit with it.

[@plantsandpoetry]

you don't know how much i needed this right now, the timing is perfect. thank you so so much for this, you've made me feel less guilty about taking a step back from life due to my mental health atm. lots of love 💌

[@EvilDaRkness-hd9ki]

DUDE SHE DOESNT CARE HOW MANY FCKING TIMES SHE ONLY WANTS VIEWS STOP COMMENTING omg thank you so much SHE DOESNT FCKING CARE BRO

[@HaleyJeanASMR]

this background is soooo cozy... i just KNOW my nap is going to hit ilysm 💛

[@ASMRfleur]

Sleep well my queen ily2 😤💓

[@MyPieceOnThat]

I'm simply going to say thank you. I honestly need as much support as I can get right now, ya boy is definitely going thru it.

[@lex3484]

Not sure how you knew that I needed to hear these things right now, but you did. I was let go from my job in November of last year and absolutely lost myself/my confidence after that. Full of so much doubt, anger, and sadness. I started a new job last week and have been working on finding my ability to have hope for my future again. Thank you for this ❤️

[@Seehoy]

awwe. I'm happy for you

[@ASMRfleur]

Good luck on your new job! You’ve got this! 💓✨

[@lex3484]

@@ASMRfleur thank you!!

[@lex3484]

@@Seehoy thank you 💕

[@karam3200]

This video came at the perfect time! I have ptsd and severe anxiety and I had to have surgery today. It was so hard on my mental health and I have been on level 100 all day and needed to come back to a 1. Thank you for posting!

[@lilahend]

Hope it went well! ❤

[@Ethan.D31]

Fleur your words are very powerful. A lot of people, including myself, *need* to hear this, but never realise they *need* it. 🤗

[@EnbyKaiju]

Thank you for this video, Fleur, it's deeply appreciated to have these affirmations right now. Struggle has been a real issue over the last year, and to say that it has been one of the darkest times of my life is an understatement. But your videos always bring me a little comfort in the darkest hours, and I just wanted to thank you for being you, and filling the world with the positivity that you do 💜

[@Ber.itsCold]

THE perfect finger flutters. Not scratchy and rough sounding. Just perfect flutters.

[@dustblight]

man i really needed to hear all that. i've been struggling with confidence and feeling broken lately, and these words, even from a stranger on the internet, really helped. thank you

[@ildme312]

this is such a great video and a topic for a time like this! you’re setting an amazing example with your resilience and confidence💜 I hope you keep doing what you’re doing and sharing your love and wisdom with us thru these vids!!!

[@readingbythemoon]

ive been having rough months and my confidence and self esteem have been really low. so this video was so needed, thank you 💖 i truly always feel the sense of facetiming a friend, with your videos. i also love to hear about your experience and truly thank you for feeling safe enough to share it with us. you’re an amazing human being full of light, and we can all see it! im so glad you’re feeling better ✨

[@hannahmcsherry213]

This is one of your best videos yet Fleur! I had a big dip in confidence last September from a few colliding events and am working on recovering from it still. We’re the same age so your honesty about what you go through is so refreshing, especially when it feels like nearly everyone I know in their twenties is consistently doing amazing. I’m so proud of you, I’m rooting for you from Dublin xx

[@ASMRfleur]

Ahhh sending you lots of love! We've got this!

[@Hanban29]

Fleur, I needed this more than you can even imagine. Your videos bring me so much comfort and peace. Thank you so much 🤍

[@wickednailsrylee]

Stumbled on your wreck this journal video and I’m in love with your channel. Perfect whispers and vibes 🥰 Just what I need! 🪷🌸

[@emmaelmer8708]

this video couldn’t have come at a better time. i’ve been struggling a lot the last several months and feel like i am losing my mind right now. thank you for this

[@kllrboyfrnd]

this came at the perfect time, thank you so much

[@LaraGASMR]

I think everyone needs this right now ❤

[@Fillup82]

Fleur making January less shitty 🙌🏻

[@raeasmr17]

the mic fluffs give me sooooo many tingles!!!

[@Rubies4dayzx]

I really needed this, as a teen with really really low self esteem this helps so much.

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

great timing, thank you! hope you're having a good January, Fleur ❤

[@kieranfnr]

have a lovely sleep everyone!

[@marissaholliday7952]

I have been listening to this on repeat. I need to remind myself of these things daily since I started a new job because it’s a brand new position for me and my confidence has been atrocious.

[@stewartpospis]

Fleur, your experience of depression and where you were a year ago sounds really similar to my experience and feelings, and this was so comforting for me to hear. Things have improved, and I'm glad they have for you too. Love from the UK ❤ Stew

[@ASMRfleur]

Lots of love back!

[@grythely]

immediately watched this three times in a row 😅 tysm fleur!! love these kinds of topics

[@marlameg]

this is so relaxing :) tysm

[@annag2005]

Thank you for this video, Fleur. Going though an immense anxiety period and it helped a lot❤

[@kieranfnr]

thank you Fleur, ive been needing this.

[@georgiana4871]

thank you, you reminded me of the hope i needed that is does get better and right now is not how i’ll always feel even though it feels like that now. it is a bumpy road ❤

[@RebLoe96]

thank you. I needed this ❤ I’m new here but I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I hope in your own journey you realize how insanely beautiful you are!! outside and in.

[@BeyondBlueness]

Love this video, thank you for sharing! Please please please make more sleepy mediation videos I’ve watched the two you have for the last couple of months 😂❤ Ive got a chronic illness, so struggle really badly with insomnia and your videos help knock me out for a few hours! They’re so perfect! Thank you for what you do 😍

[@fass-ru6nx]

love this, thank you girlie 💘🫶🏻

[@adrian9901]

Thanks a lot fleur❤ Very comforting and tingly 😊😊

[@ivadzagoev1246]

Yessssss thanks a lot beautiful Fleur ❤

[@Robt137]

So relaxing thanks

[@ellieeggplant]

I actually really like the background noise 😂 I love background music too xx

[@Gatozparty]

Your so beautiful 🥹🥹🥹 and I relate to having insecurities, it feels nice to know I’m not alone and feel like this, but thank you for even making this video and honest with us ❤️

[@baeticat]

Die fluffy mic cover is echt hemels! Dank je voor deze fijne video, Fleur :)

[@-rianna]

girlie you know my pms is making me go through ITTTT. if i cry it’s on you and your angel energy! jk thank u for this ily

[@ASMRfleur]

Rooting for you!! 💓

[@AntuanettCabrera]

That's exactly what I need, ty so much sis, xoxo 💋🫂💝

[@ripxdoc]

Thanks for always being one of the good things

[@lisahudec5883]

You’re a special gift to this world, I hope you know that! 🤍

[@FatimaTima-xy4fy]

Babyyyyy i missed so much ❤️❤️ i adore your videos thank you darling 🤍

[@IanBishappy]

I love the way you speak! :)

[@katestravelvideos]

Ngl the heater was really nice white noise❤

[@Skrilltweakin]

Thank you

[@VioletAngel-r3u]

How did you know exactly what I needed

[@Nicole-cr9gt]

I think this video was meant for me? It feels like I was so high and complete and so so so confident in September, yet ever since I've kept on spiraling and it feels like every day gets worse. I've been so insecure, worrying about other's perceptions of me until it drives me to tears and it also makes me feel so small and worthless. I just can't stop obsessing over my appearance, constantly looking at myself, never good enough. Yesterday I had an exam, and all I could think was how no one would notice or be affected if I weren't here, how ugly I must look. It was the first day back to school, after nearly two weeks of isolation and vanity, and I was trying to hide my face from people because I put eyeshadow on that I thought was pretty but as soon as I stepped out of my house I couldn't stop criticizing myself for. I can't even look at people in the eye and for the past two days, I've felt myself curling up inside myself even more, ignoring people I want so desperately to talk to because I'm scared. Like you, I had quite an isolating year - anorexia recovery - and before I had already missed out from covid and my own introvertness, and now I'm so socially awkward and I want to slap myself. I may even be going on antidepressants. I've so wanted to express this, so please don't see it as dumping and just don't read this if it's triggering. Thank you, Fleur, for the familiarity - reassuring instead of triggering my competitiveness -, the gentleness, understanding... I didn't realize you could lose confidence and have to build it again. I thought I was just falling. But i'll be okay, and I hope everyone reading this knows they will be too! If you have to, see it like this: you could either leave now, or leave when you've seen and done and tasted and felt more. Just keep going. Not to be the one person who dumps, I just feel so connected to this video and hopefully this comment has also made someone feel reassured and not alone.

[@ASMRfleur]

Thank you for sharing 💓 I’m sending you so much love. We keep swimming!! And enjoying the water as much as we can ;)

[@baconcartoonist]

Thanks for this video. I had an awful day yesterday

[@ASMRfleur]

I hope you're feeling better! ❤️

[@raphi____6735]

just what I need rn #blessed ✌️

[@Tess-hc5wm]

You’re so pretty❤

[@dmhq-administration]

I can relate. I "feel" "bad" MOST of the time.🤔😔

[@TheSavageJCE]

Public comment was added to the comment section of this video. Just for the engagement.

[@lizardskynard4726]

i hate to blast despair into the comments, but I need somewhere to dump my thoughts so they dont stay in my head. These videos never have the intended effect in me, Because always at the back of my mind I know “this person is talking to a camera, they do not know me or what im going through, these are just empty words.”

[@itsrosemary]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@angelina1472]

❤❤❤❤

[@angelina1472]

💕💕💕💕

[@Cleisthenes607]

This was an interesting lesson beyond the ASMR. Well done.

[@FreyaASMR]

Just from listening to you share your thoughts, you can just really tell what an amazing loving person you are 🤍 I wish I could know you in person, cause I just know you are such a light in the life of the people around you 🤍

[@ASMRfleur]

That means a lot to me Freya, I adore you, truly ❤️

[@noeantoine41]

I needed to hear this. Thank you 😊