ASMR Getting you Ready for a Date (Gentle Whispers)

If you end up marrying this person, I'm gonna need an invite to that destination wedding
Short video helping you get ready for a first date, talking about the modern dating scene, love and relationships, asking you some questions about your thoughts and feelings on first dates.

[@doe.little]

I feel like this channel is slowly becoming you just being our dating coach 😂

[@euphoria_6543]

i would nottt be complaining🤣

[@roachemani]

some ppl actually pay for dating coaches, so yall be grateful we gettin this for free 😭

[@Ksh-0-]

I’m honestly okay with that cause I’m learning “ how to love Lil Wayne voice “ lmaooo

[@cinnamonboy20000]

love that you're smiling in ur thumbnail!

[@-Dynamite]

same. W jacob

[@Jose-es9xy]

❤❤

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I was a little worried about switching it up but I'm really glad you like it. Sometimes I feel like my thumbnails are all the same and get old, idk if you feel the same, or do you like the consistency?

[@cinnamonboy20000]

@@jacobdreamsasmr honestly i think some smiling ones would be nice just as a little break and show us a different side that we all get to see in your videos! but ofc whatever you feel comfortable with, we will still watch no matter how the thumbnail looks :)

[@euphoria_6543]

your lighting for your videos is so easy on the eyes and so cinematic, i really appreciated that

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

That's great to hear, I have this ancient light box that attaches to my camera, idk if you could tell but I haven't used it the past couple vids cuz it dies so quickly, but I did this time and the lighting is way better

[@zorosboyfriend]

his smile is so cute

[@charlizemoran]

aww ur thumbnail is so cute! maybe its bc i fall asleep to ur videos so quick, but i dont really see u smile much so this is a nice surprise. great video as always, thanks for the nice rest before my trip tmr :))

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

For some reason I forgot I do asmr and when I was picking a thumbnail I was like oh let me switch it up and pick a smiling one, they've seen me smile I'm sure it's fine. And then I remembered that nobody looks at the screen past the first 5 seconds. And I was right cuz a couple of people said it scared them. But I'm glad you like it hahaha

[@capatcho4380]

Just came to say I would love if you did another advice video. I have watched the full 2 hours of it at least 3 times. I know it was probably tons of work so no rush, just want you to know your work was appreciated and we would love another one!

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I love advice vids so that’s a great idea, do you have any specific topics you’d want addressed?

[@capatcho4380]

@@jacobdreamsasmr I love any advice you give catered towards just being a person in your early 20s figuring life out. Specifically though, I would love some advice on building relationships, both romantic and platonic. I moved about a year ago from a small town in Oregon, to Orlando. I love it here. I love my job, I love the city, I love my home, but I haven’t made a single friend. I have some amazing friends from back home that I keep very close contact with so I haven’t really been lonely, but it’s just not the same as if they were here. I have met a few people through bumble bff/ facebook groups, but I am just so picky. If there is one small red flag or something I dislike I’m done with them. I am the same way with romantic relationships. I want close friends like I used to have, but I value my alone time so much and I find that the average person tends to like me more than I like them then I just end up hurting their feelings. Sorry it’s so long, but I just wanted you to get the full picture. I’m not sure if this is even something you can help with, but i’ve just been struggling with it. Thanks!

[@Beautifultauruswoman]

I wish I could play this in a Bluetooth earpiece for my first date next week… both to relax me and so I know what he’s going to ask next

[@maddy_walker]

bro this dude that I like asked me out yesterday!!! I’m def gonna play this while i’m getting ready for my first date 😊 Thank you!! 🙏 ❤

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Let's goooo congrats bruh, have fun, if it works out I expect a wedding invite

[@mashaasmr3522]

Jacob omg i got so sweet and kind vibes watching this video,you’re so shiny and have so positive energy!! thank you so much for new amazing video💗

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

That's so sweet of you, thank you! I'm glad you liked it

[@kyleethepanda]

About the questions thing... I would say its entirely dependent on the person to whom you are speaking, but generally I think most girls enjoy when a guy asks interesting and engaging questions. The issue lies in the fact that every girls definition of interesting is going to be different and so I just say go for it and find out. Me personally, I love when a guy asks interesting maybe some would say "weird" questions because it shows he cares and that he himself is interesting.

[@CoIorado.]

loved your smile on thumbnail

[@purfectangelboy]

the smile in the thumbnail is giving major homelander vibes, halloween homelander roleplay when

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Somehow me smiling in the thumbnail is even more sociopathic than the soulless stare I usually do. Have you watched any of the new season yet, I haven't

[@purfectangelboy]

yes!! the new season is so good, i always watch discussion videos afterwards cause this season has so much potential

[@yeehawyippee9365]

HAHHAHA “wish you were on a first date” thank you i do 😭

[@heenyhoney]

i can’t sleep cuz some of the things you’re saying are so funny lmao (neighbour’s dog,finance book etc😭😭)

[@heenyhoney]

i was about to fall asleep but u asked for 5 seconds to come up wd an example on what kinda out of pocket questions u used to ask in highschool,but still didn’t come up wd anything after a loong pause was OUTRAGEOUS lol

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I messed that part up so badly bruh I swear I had like five examples before I recorded

[@minghaonator]

This is crazy cuz this Saturday I’m literally going on my first first date in months 🤯

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Then this video truly was for you, good luck and have fun

[@Anishaaaaa1998]

Brooo your girlfriend is lucky to have you 😂

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Fr bruh I tell her that every day

[@amirs.escapade]

never looked better thank you kind sir 🙂‍↕️🫶🏾

[@kaaallli]

My fav channel ❤️

[@christopherjaydenphoenix]

I am really good with nerves. I think there was one date I went on that I was like super nervous because I didn’t want to say or do anything awkward but after many dates I just try to stay cool and not be so much in my head.

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Experience definitely helps, I hope you still get excited about it though

[@cindymohamedkheir]

ohh yaaaay just in time for bed ❤

[@jeremymendez3167]

Off topic but your hair is growing rlly well

[@BollywoodASMR1]

I second that ❤

[@Starsamongtheforest]

This was good.

[@gmb2006]

Just found your channel 💜

[@davidstylo05]

someone said his name is jacob but looks like edward

[@sokhna88-88]

Jacob, thoughts on the hardstone psycho album? Also do you have a fav song yet?

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Bruh I'm so glad you asked, I really like it, specifically glock and inside. I think it'll grow on me too, that's what's happened with every album he's put out. What did you think?

[@sokhna88-88]

@@jacobdreamsasmrI really liked it too! My favorite rn is kryptonite

[@blindcherry]

this ate

[@clarasva]

Soft spoken video next pleaseeeeee

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I've been thinking a bit about different whisper styles I could try, do you know any channels who do that well that I could check out?

[@yasinn003]

Can you make mukbang, cooking asmr videos. Even a gardening video could be cool!

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Those are great ideas, I'd love to try something a little more experimental and life-like, like showing you guys my shoes or clothes or something

[@dulguunbatsaikhan6622]

bro uploaaaaddd a new video 😭😭

[@trev_schuffe]

Jacob you should fr think about becoming a therapist ‼️

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I've lowkey been thinking about it, it's just the three more years of school that intimdates me

[@CatherineEvans-t3x]

Actually am though 🙌🏻

[@brandonhall2904]

That thumbnail terrified me at first

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

Can a guy be happy once in a while smh

[@dulguunbatsaikhan6622]

bro upload

[@saidrew1030]

You're definitely an INFJ

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I am, what gave me away

[@Anishaaaaa1998]

Next time make a video on arrange marriage

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

That's interesting, I have absolutely no experience w that but maybe I'll do some research into it

[@pepapig0]

We need a vid with your gf next

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

I actually think she's down, I'll tell her you said that and see what she says

[@namjoonkim1602]

Just noticed that you have the tiktok “dead eyes” that is why the thumbnails give me a scary vibe. From the way you speak tho, I am sure you are a chill guy.

[@jacobdreamsasmr]

He's chill once you get to know him

[@Beautifultauruswoman]

Bro upload wtf

[@Tyler-di2de]

I am begging for a boyfriend roleplay if you are willing and comfortable 🙏