ASMR | Gossip/Story Time! | The One I Didn't Marry (Soft Spoken)

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

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[@jadedhrt8]

“He couldn’t stop commiting crimes! He would just do crimes all day long.” I don’t know why that made me laugh 😂. The things we do for love at 16. I feel you, Mary! Lol

[@itwasajewishdoctor]

And “the hair is sliding off the back off his skull” 😂😂😂

[@OcarinaLink24]

You’re such a good storyteller! Always hooked right away

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

Thank you!

[@olya_17]

So true!! 💯

[@donnaleesalerno]

She really is!😊

[@carolkester-h5k]

You have a lot in common with a lot of girls of the 70's and 80's. I could relate to so much of your story, the "self absorbed" parents, the bad boyfriends, the partying. But we grew up now and we did get over it. I really enjoyed your stories. More, please. You are a very strong, determined woman, Mary. I admire you.

[@ChrisCanomi]

Thats also my Mom generation. Very similar experiences ❤ her and Im sure many of you went through a lot and somehow recover and went through life like it didn’t hurt. I admire and respect that

[@joshblake7126]

Him and the wicked witch of the west being friends had my jaw dropped💀💀💀 Small world huh. You’re the best story teller ever - it’s truly a gift.

[@Avery906]

“He couldn’t stop committing crimes! He would just do crimes all day long”. Girl… took me out. I love you so much. You’re so real. ❤

[@vamposhiz]

I’ve been watching for a long time but I wanted to let you know that you’re not alone having parent who are so caught up in themselves they forget you exist and I’m so inspired by your efforts with your kids as someone in the next generation

[@gracefultracingasmr2029]

Absolutely OVERJOYED that this is becoming a series, Mary! You’ve lived such an interesting life. I could listen to you talk about it forever ❤

[@Ominous_Bambi]

It’s so comforting to hear other people talk about needing years to heal after a terrible relationship. Sometimes people act like it’s weird I’m still not ready to date again and I get to feeling like I’m taking too long to heal.

[@Flutter_Aeina]

“he was a drummer!” Oh you didn’t stand a chance! It’s always the musicians XD

[@GenCooley555]

"Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't deserve you" "I want you to eat, just not at my table" ^ such a beautiful, hopeful, and powerful quotes! Love you Mary :)

[@Jen_xxii]

i literally had your last storytime abt your first marriage in the background while i worked on my dissertation. i love having your company !😂 thank u for this

[@Hadiya-cw3dv]

good luck on your dissertation!!

[@Jen_xxii]

I completed it! thank you sooo much, you’re very kind

[@psychologynerd0423]

Omg! I do this too AND I just submitted my final draft to my committee for review and am preparing to defend. Mary is in the background a lot when I work but she got me through dissertation. Also, my name is Jenn too. 😂 Congratulations on accomplishing this milestone!❤

[@beccae8685]

I’m doing chapter 1 over here 😂 This data validation is crazy boring

[@Xtina_9]

I saw Storytime and never clicked so fast!!

[@evobbie]

Today is my son's b'day...and your story was a gift for me and i say this bc his father “is the one i didnt marry && getting rid of him was the best decision i made!!“ He broke my heart in so many ways where it took years for me to heal...and still to this day i get emotional distress from remembering but your videos and stories like this one have helped me thru thru out the years. God bless you Mary, today, tomorrow nd forever. We need more people like your in this world ❤ 💯

[@darrazo5845]

Its nice to hear its okay to take a long time to heal. I feel like everyone rushes it and shames if youre not over it by a certain amount of time

[@laurel953]

My jaw dropped when you said Spike was with Wicked Witch of the West around 26:00 🤣 You are SUCH a good storyteller… I am SAT listening to every word!!

[@kellykastritsios8027]

It's a good thing this guy didn't mess up your focus and dreams. Talk about two people taking two different paths. This guy was trying to keep you down where he was. Hurt people, hurt people. Good for you Mary!! Winning!!

[@Lizziexqxeen]

The message at the end was beautiful, and its something I really had to hear, I'm currently getting through a extremely tough breakup and I cant tell you how much of you said needed to be said for someone going through something similar. ❤❤❤

[@urbumminmeowt]

The recording had some white noise which is so tingly! I feel like I can listen to you chat all night! I remember sitting with my aunt at the coffee table till early morning listening to stories. Thank you for sharing!

[@ubertalldude]

I've been really enjoying your audiobook reading of River Road. It's a riveting story and it's really gut wrenching to hear how manipulative almost everyone in that cult was. Loving the channel!

[@maisiemay_95]

Where can I find the audiobook please? 🌸

[@M0o0o0]

​@maywilliams-sales344 If you haven't found it yet, she has a playlist of them on her channel 😊

[@beckym1728]

your gossip/storytimes are absolutely my favorite asmr series ever, thank you for telling your stories so well i look forward to every new update (esp in the neighborhood side!! 😄)

[@LadyGreenEyes]

Mary, you are such a good story teller! Your message at the end is a valuable one, I hope that anyone needing that message takes it in and follows your advice. 💜

[@appleadaykeepskayawaybcih8them]

My grandma is currently sick, I thought it was a fever or cold but unfortunately its much worse, I haven’t had the opportunity to see her since I’m in school and she lives an hr away. I miss her dearly, but watching your videos-reminds me of her own stories and humor. I just wanted to say thank you for giving that to me 🩷

[@nickylindsey7705]

I loved this video Mary. I was hooked from beginning till the end. You help so many people with all your videos. What you said at the end so many people need to hear it’s not you it’s them and you can’t change that person, no matter what you do that person will never change is so true. Thank you for your wisdom ❤

[@Devilish94]

I need more soft spoken stories please! It’s so interesting to hear other people’s experiences and the different situations other generations went through and at times even funny, and also so relaxing at the same time, I keep coming back to this video💕

[@janellephaneuf692]

I love the way you smile when you talk about Glinda ❤

[@greentea-zt2gw]

"It just looks like the hair is sliding off the back of his skull" 😂😂😂😂 That was funny.

[@amandaiona]

These are my favorites from you Mary. Thank you for being real and sharing your life stories with us. Comforting and real. Love your channels

[@mollyswanner1607]

Being abandoned by mother and father really does bad things to people. I remember that love you are speaking of.....it is very powerful.

[@violetmaxwell1098]

I have really been loving these videos:) Listening to your stories is so captivating and comforting.

[@Jessee112]

Mary’s smile can literally brighten anyone’s day.

[@BL31513]

The best storytelling ever!! Love these so much!

[@vianna9428]

Mary, thank you. You cannot grasp how much i needed this in my life. I feel like you are the mother i never had.

[@ianedwards7862]

Thank you Mary for sharing. There are those who are full of drama, and turn a drama into a crisis. I once heard some words of wisdom from a US Army Corps of Engineers specialist "If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging."

[@ianedwards7862]

Edited for spelling error.

[@tatsianapaulouskaya3618]

Ohh Mary this is just awesome, ready to laugh my ass off with your jokes! It’s like falling asleep with my mom sitting on my bed and telling me about her youth. I live alone in a foreign country away from my family, and that’s really cool to have you and your channels to keep me company often ❤ There are quite a few similarities in your experience and my experiences with certain narcissistic people - I more often than not felt alone in feeling the way I did about those things, but that’s just so good to be able to relate and have you bring some lessons to the table

[@laurafoley4407]

I love these story times!! Fav new series ❤

[@molebag]

You’re spoiling us with all these new storytimes i love it!!!💝⭐️

[@laurakelseymari]

I love hearing stories about your life! These are my favorite videos ❤️

[@MunchkinMunchkinn]

You always make my day Mary! Love these story telling videos ❤️❤️❤️

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

I'm so glad!

[@michelejoyce5532]

You are an incredible storyteller, Mary. Thank you for everything you do for us ❤️

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

You are so welcome!

[@red-xpn]

you made a video about this a couple years ago, it was the first video ive seen from you. it helped me a lot with my situation then. glad i stuck around! i love your videos

[@AJCCycling]

I’ve literally never been more excited for a video than when this one popped up. I’m completely hooked after the previous story. Love what you’re doing! 💙

[@alliefrancis4973]

I am loving these story times Mary!!! You are my comfort KZbinr, I don’t watch many others anymore but I will never stop watching you! Love you!!!

[@missMediaChick]

I'm so glad you have Glenda the Good Witch, and I love that you watch BCS together. I absolutely adore Bob Odenkirk, and BCS is my favourite show. I still haven't been able to watch the final episode. I just can't let it end, lol! 🥰 I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU HAD A FIERO! 🤣 I grew up in rural Canada, a couple of years older than you. I know exactly what you're talking😂 about.... cruising, bonfires....those were good times. We would have been buds. 😊

[@Ginagigi1986]

Oooh. Mary spilling the tea and we’re all here for it!

[@Twiglet456]

This brought up some pain for me, but was the most worthwhile thing i have listened to all year. Thank you.

[@Transparentxoul]

You are such an amazing story teller! Thank you so much for sharing ❤

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

You are so welcome!

[@mayci729]

The end sentiment was so lovely, thanks for that Mary. Hope everything is all good love from Australia 🇦🇺✨

[@anizargarian63]

I love all of your videos especially your story time rambles. You are absolutely right about the bottomless pit and nothing ever being enough.

[@alyssacelines7988]

Wow Mary, this video came at a very very very difficult time in my life rn, and your words echoed through my heart and are so heavy🥺 Thank you for giving me the final sign I needed to just walk away😢 and believe me I will transition out of this toxicity.❤ Thank you Mary for sharing your experiences with us, your words might have just changed my life. Again, Thank you for everything you do on your platform, I’m sure I speak for everyone when I say you are immensely appreciated🩷

[@ChrisCanomi]

She could create a movie for each of the last Storytimes experiences she has shared. Wow.

[@sarahnerhus5090]

Mary, I had a similar experience at about the same in my life in the early 90s. Jekyll and Hyde type. I was so dumb to keep following him. Thank you for the great stories! Always appreciate them❤

[@caliigurl925]

Your storytimes are my fave ❤

[@Alex-mx6mu]

Love storytimes!!! Wish you would do more

[@Trent_Brooks1990]

Picturing the old cops going on a hunt for rebellious teens just cracks me up 😂

[@Radicule]

"I want you to eat, just not at my table." This woman always drops bars, my goodness 😭🙌🏿

[@Kelly-yk3xd]

Wow this sounds like my youth. Parents divorcing, feeling nonexistant, hanging with wrong people but in school I was in debate drama and honor roll. Then it was me joining the navy. Lol. 😊

[@kathypinkladyahern]

Thanks for sharing your story Mary, I experienced a similar story and like you I walked away and so happy I did! Have a wonderful weekend 🥰🥰🥰

[@jpwest1669]

Love that you watch Better Call Saul with Glinda! Such a good show and you sort of remind me of Kim with your casual confidence and assuredness 💓

[@ia156]

Yes!!! Thank you so much for doing another story time I love them ❤

[@tonyrojas2416]

You are an amazing storyteller! I get drawn to them every time! ❤

[@ThePsmith1985]

This video again has came at the right time. I remember your heartbreak video and I really related to it. I’m in this situation again with someone similar to Spike. I have left for good but I feel awful. It’s good to know there’s hope! I’m determined not to pick another loser again! I will let my ex continue to be my ex ruining women’s life. Thanks for sharing your story ❤

[@Sh3lliee]

Thank you for sharing your story Mary❤, the part where you said they won’t change really touched me. I really really related to it leaving this dude who was nonchalant with me.

[@Nina_lilpeacheyes]

So excited to listen I’m doing some sewing on my machine and listening intently !

[@amandipa8368]

i love you mary ! i relate to feeling forgotten as a child, im sorry you went through hardships that often come from that!

[@megreads824]

I also had a Spike in high school and we broke up when he realized I was really going to college. I got my degree and he’s been fired from job to job to job. I’ve been married to my Glinda for 19 years now and he’s strung along a lot of ladies. Everything you’re saying is 100% true.

[@AnonymouslyChosen777]

Mary I was in a very emotional and mentally abusive relationship for FOUR years from my sophomore year until the year after I graduated I JUST left his stupid self a little over a year ago I’m relating to you SO much right now and I’m sitting here like getting soooo into this story please keep these videos up because I love them so so much!!❤❤❤

[@oliviamccarthy8953]

i loveeeee these story times so much, I'm finishing up my dissertation and looking forward to listening this!

[@glamnerdrn3832]

So raw and honest! You took me back to my teen years!

[@alaskawashington]

it sounds like he would probably have gone through life thus far without one, but a little peek into a psychology textbook would almost definitely lead one to think Spike’s thinking and behavior warrant at least a singular diagnosis if not a couple of comorbid diagnoses. listening to your story illuminates very clear patterns and it’s so sad to think so many people just exist their whole life in that sort of “chronically unstable” space, never getting the help they need. :( glad you got out of that harmful relationship Mary!

[@loricamarata418]

Wise words Mary. Thank you!

[@lizethvm]

I loved this story it was funny but also had such a great message. Thank you for sharing❤I am also watching better call saul lol I love that show

[@HAVENWELLE]

It didn't kill you it made you stronger and wiser.

[@noligray5828]

I needed to hear this words. Thank you Mary. Even if there is no one else, after this one, even if there is no more fish... He has nothing for me.

[@elainegill2619]

I have really loved listening to your life stories,Mary❤

[@wizzyweb99]

You make me laugh so much! I love your storytelling style

[@Sportdiva7]

I dated a guy who asked me to drop him off that his cousin’s house before I went to work and little did I know her friend was there that he was cheating on me with. He always told her I was a friend. Crazy. Lol

[@CrazyPotterCrew]

Such a relatable story Mary. Thanks for sharing❤

[@selfcontr_l]

people say love was better without internet and this is proving that it in fact was not 😂 this is POSSIBLY worse

[@amara7409]

good to know i’m not the only one who fell prey to a man like this… i appreciate you sharing Mary im glad you were able to get out of that relationship 💕

[@jordanp2575]

love the story mary! sending me off to sleep! perfect timing :)

[@ForTheLoveofTranquility]

You are a great storyteller. Thank you for sharing.

[@raquelmoreno5677]

😂😂😂😂 i went to see what spike looked like and i lmaooo

[@forevermoreIvintage]

vid made my week ❤❤❤ so happy to catch this one early.

[@KaseyLea]

I turned 16 in 2001 and my first car was a 1988 Fiero😂The amount of times that car left me stranded was terrible but I loved it. It was so cute

[@tortimeese]

Best storyteller ever!

[@melonjuice7441]

Thanks for sharing another chapter of your story. Best wishes

[@Flutter_Aeina]

I’m still very young (about to turn 21) but I’ve been in the same relationship for 5 years. It’s the only relationship I’ve ever had. So there’s a lot of uncertainty because of a recent development in our relationship. So I just wanted to say listening to these stories helps me remind myself that even if things get rough, things can still come back around and turn out ok. Thank you for that Edit: turns out they’ve been cheating on me for all 5 years. I kicked them to the curb and I have never felt better. It took leaving for me to realize what a horrible person they were to me

[@blueyedwonder8747]

Thank you for sharing your story!

[@heyheyheyhi]

I JUST finished the first husband story!!

[@brainfellow5140]

Thank you for such a great story!

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

You are so welcome! 😊

[@candace3096]

Mary always has the best tea to spill! 🍵

[@larahporter8123]

My parents have been 59 years together in marriage, they really love each other and complement each orher. My marriage lasted just 14 years.

[@lucyvohringer80801]

I also have a Spike in my life. I‘m just 25 now but I’m already glad it never worked out with us, the way I wanted it to. The universe had other plans with me 💫

[@letty2712]

Thank you for sharing your story once again Mary 🙏🏻❤️

[@haileek682]

Thank you, Mary, for such great entertainment on one of your “best” themes! 😂 It’s just what I needed tonight.

[@2swag4uxD]

7:41 this quote is something that I’ve always related to and always will relate to

[@Schmusekissens]

I always love to hear about your experiences!

[@brookeporter2949]

This is my favorite asmr video maybe just my favorite KZbin video in general

[@alliemcleod3735]

“i saw his picture and said oh god.” LMAO MARY I LOVE U 💗