ASMR | Its Okay, Im Right Here | Comforting You to Sleep - Relaxing Safe Male Personal Attention

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It's okay my friend, im right here and i'll keep you safe with calming asmr personal attention while you rest. This evening is all about you and ensuring you receive the most relaxing nights sleep possible. Face brushing, accompanied by gentle face tracing and tapping. Goodnight my dear friend.
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Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a tingling sensation that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine.
The videos created by Whispering Gentleman ASMR are not intended to replace any medical care or counselling that you as an individual may require. The videos created on this channel are for the purpose of mindfulness, relaxation and entertainment.
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[@Maddie_Gj]

I’m a 16 year old girl and I grew up without a dad. I wasn’t sure how I’d feel about your videos but now I’m hooked. It’s like I’m experiencing the comforting father figure I never had and I’m so grateful. Thank you so much

[@xxmadi_16xx]

Sorry you had to go through this girl ❤

[@molly2343]

I was literally about to comment the same thing! I'm in the same situation. Sending love ❤❤

[@molly2343]

@@Lexirue2 why not?

[@lavenderflowersfall280]

Let me give you a big hug! Poor dear. We love you. It's okay. I have a dad but he can be your Dad too. I'll share him with you. 😊 Just spiritually. Of course.

[@whitsfiryellnogobyye]

Omg this is so sweeet! I grew up without a Dad too, my love. I'm 32 and still yearn for that father figure. I'm so happy for u you've found this. Unfortunately Whispering Gentleman is too young (and too hot!) to feel like a father figure to me. But he most definitely offers a masculine presence that feels healthy and non toxic-masculinity whilst still being very masculine! I admire and I'm very grateful that his asmr methods aren't sexualised like some asmr artists (not judging them though, nothing wrong with that) but a safe space is one without sexualisation and he does that! Maybe this is why people feel healthy father figure vibes from him.

[@figueros01]

My husband doesn't get it why I listen to Whispering Gentleman on repeat all night long but has come to accept that, since finding this channel, I have been able to sleep better than ever, even without my sleep aid meds, THANK YOU MY VERY DEAR FRIEND! 🙏👍😴

[@blueblack3591]

Wow so cool

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Im so pleased im able to help you sleep my friend

[@figueros01]

@WhisperingGentleman: Your voice is so soothing, even my tinnitus calms down while listening to you, not to mention how your positive affirmations and empathy help me wake up relaxed and ready for a new day/challenge in law school, ready to conquer the world, you are the best, my dear, dear friend 🙏 22:20

[@whitsfiryellnogobyye]

Maybe your husband can take notes from Whispering Gentleman and brush you gently to sleep with positive affirmations himself 😂😂.

[@figueros01]

@@whitsfiryellnogobyye believe it or not, he has the ability to put his head on his pillow and lights out in the blink of an eye, always been like that, maybe our different work schedules for many years had something to do with it 🤷‍♀️... Bottom line, he's learned to accept Whispering Gentleman for the best, thanks for your suggestion 😉

[@mistymoonrose]

"You are safe now, my friend." On my own now after years of abuse, these are some of the sweetest words I can hear. Thank you so much. 💖

[@liz090833]

hey welcome to the light! Live the life you dreamed of all those years. When you're ready, sit in front of the mirror. This next part takes time and courage to break a little so that you get better. But what I would like you to do is look at yourself. Take some slow deep breaths and say you're sorry. Mean it. Take your finger tips and put them on the mirror. Trace everything you see. Imagine there is pure love coming from your hands. How would you touch someone who so desperately wants to be seen and loved? Do you trace her ears in love? She cannot unhear the abuse, but you can give yourself the healing. Apologize because you didn't listen to your heart when it said "this hurts us! This isn't good for us, I'm not happy here." But we shove it down bc love is long suffering they told us. No more. Today as you trace lips that will breathe life into others, you rise. You're immovable. Indestructable now. You've been through some worst humanity could offer. That's over now. Put your hand on your heart. Do you feel that? Its purpose and your heart knows the way. Promise that you will be a friend to the soul before you. Promise her!! Right now say I will nee let you down again! You're with me now. And you grab your inner child and all the messiest parts of you. You take them up now and you protect your heart! You were given weapons, warrior! Check your pockets. GrB that. You know what that is? It glows beautifully and the more you trust it, the stronger and more powerful it gets. You must connect with it. It is your intuition. Hon it. Listen to it always, don't put it to the side. Use it and strengthen it & you'll be safe from the things meant to destroy us. Now there should be something in the other pocket too. It's very strong and it will help you lead those you love to higher ground and it will be there guiding you and keeping you safe. It's your integrity. You owe it to yourself to live in your truth. Remember who you are and why you are here. It is not by accident that you have had the experiences you have. It is so that you become stronger, and the truth will always be on your side. Last but certainly not least- the most powerful tool or weapon we have is our imagination. To some extent, you create your reality. Your imagination is there for you to transcend all of this pain, it is all within your grasp. See, we have it backwards. We dream when we are sleeping. No! Dream while you're awake! Everything they said we weren't worthy of, we're getting! Dream away because those aren't just dreams, they're real possibilities for your life! Take it all back and build your empire, exactly as you want it. Lady Karma is afoot. Let her work. I assure you, they get theirs. Trust me, I wouldn't want to have their karma. When you hurr a person with a pure heart, well from what I've seen, that's a terrible idea. I love to write. I'm sorry for being extra but I believe writing is the last of the great magic that used to roam the earth freely. How else do you explain that every single factor between the writer and the recipient can cross fine and space, be culturally different, different races, ages, gender, social class, etc etc and the writer can still hundreds of years later, make the reader feel exactly as they intended? It's magic! and the best part is that the universe is filled with mystery, magic and adventure! If you use your intuition, you live in love honoring yourself with integrity, and you use your imagination to create the life you see in your head, you'll be okay out here.❤ PS mirror apology came from a licensed mental health provider and it is a common technique that helps reconnect us to ourselves, and it was hard at first. I didn't see myself as someone worthy of any gentleness. I had to learn what that looks like. That's okay!! A good therapist can help us navigate and put real boundaries in place. If you need resources, let me know, Im a peer support specialist and I would be happy to help you if you think you miggt want to talk to someone who has clinical experience with trauma and PTSD. Most of all, you're a total badass and you're literally made of stardust! There's nothing above or below that you cannot overcome. They won some battles when they hurt us but they forgot one thing: this is war and you're alive and away from it all. You WON the war! Never forget that!❤️

[@whitsfiryellnogobyye]

So happy for you that you're free from abuse. May your new life and future have happy and healthy relationships, and you have a life full of love and peace. ☀️

[@catupthetree23]

So glad you've come out on the other side of that situation and I hope you continue to prosper 💜

[@mistymoonrose]

@@liz090833Aw, you're so sweet, thank you very much for caring and writing so kindly! I have had a difficult bout with depression and anxiety but now improving; hence the delay in responding. The mirror tip is a great idea, tysm!! HUGS!! 🥰

[@mistymoonrose]

@@whitsfiryellnogobyye Aw, really appreciate this, thank you so much! I have hope that I will find the love of a kind man who appreciates who I am. I'm glad I know my worth now at last. 💗

[@pandabearpopsocket8750]

I didn't understand how comforting a male presence could be until I stumbled upon your videos last year. Thank you so much for everything you do on a regular basis to make sleep easier for so many people, including myself, dear friend.

[@catdeluxeatday]

Yes, its healing. ❤🌌

[@trinetrue]

Thank you Steven. For being the friend we all can turn/return to for comfort, when we need to hear that it is okay. And always in a very respectful way too.

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Its my pleasure my friend

[@naoferrr]

I just learned that my childhood best friend died around 2 months ago. We drifted away after she had to travel elsewhere because of her parents profession but we would talk occasionally. She was the one who would hold me while I had panic attacks at the age of 6. She was the one who would make me smile when I was tired at the age of 7. She was the one to remind me that a positive energy would bring the best in life at 8. She is one of the best memories I have from those hard times. Today is her birthday but while reading the messages from her family on her social media, I saw so many messages directed to the stars. It was her birthday but she would never get older. She never told me she was sick. She never showed any signs of her pain. Only smiles. Always smiles. Such a beautiful smile. I feel heavy and tired. Unsafe and scared of how unpredictable life is. Thank you for this video. For this safe space that helped me so many times. Even tonight, I feel safer and shielded from my fears to maybe drift to sleep. Thank you, friend.

[@xxmadi_16xx]

Sorry to hear this my best friend passed away too in November 2022 due to being hit by a car so if you wanna talk I'm here for you ❤❤

[@lorna5609]

@naoferr, I’m so sorry that without warning, you lost your childhood best friend. It seems that you two had a very special connection. Grieving is hard, of course you feel tired. Please be gentle with yourself and surround yourself with people who will make a safe space for you to grieve.

[@sayurisama]

I just love how many People come together and share their very personal stories here.❤ We feel safe here, and that's thanks to you, my dear Gentleman!😌

[@sofiecatherine7056]

i was SA’d by a very close male figure in my life and a man’s presence scared me for so long. your videos help me so much with getting over that fear and even feeling a comforting, fatherly-figure presence. thank you so much

[@alenaroberson9974]

This year I have been in ongoing pain with family member issues when I listen to your videos I have a sense of comfort something like a bond in motion Serenity a word that symbolizes peace and meditation. The bond I have with u makes me go to sleep in a instant thank u.you really are a gentleman your like my fairy godfather of ASMR

[@marisamartinez8627]

I rarely make an effort to comment on videos… However, I have been watching your videos for a little while now and I just want to thank you for the sense of comfort, safety, and genuine care I feel when watching your videos. You’re the only male ASMRtist I feel comforted enough to fall asleep to. You’re a lovely human being!

[@lorna5609]

My dear, dear friend, thank you for demonstrating through your eyes, words, and actions what trustworthiness looks like. And, my friend, thank you for always remaining true to your promise to keep me safe during those dark hours while the rest of the world sleeps.

[@Calm235]

To the person reading this message.. don't worry.. the pean you are feeling is only temporary close your eyes remember that tomorrow is a New day , a New beginning! Take deep breaths, you'll be fine! I promise I wish you a lifetime of happiness, peace and prosperity

[@brittanylight2629]

Thank you, kind soul. I wish the same to you

[@Mwah77]

This video is extremely comforting to me. Growing up i lived in a bad neighborhood and i felt outcasted. As i grew up my relationship with my father changed and now we fight a lot about grades and everything you could imagine. He had even said that he wished he had never had me for a daughter and those words still stick with me and it hurts. Having that male comfort that your videos provide makes me feel so safe and its nice that i can see you as a father figure in a way. Thank you so much

[@mxvrstpnz.]

Today was a bad day and my friend moved away, I miss him so much. Your videos bring me so much comfort and I can't thank you enough. I love you sm

[@asmrsloth]

Just got into bed and then this notification hits! That is perfection🤗

[@LoveIsLifeNej]

Sorry but i feel the need to say, .... better shut my mounth otherwise god hits me back😮

[@LoveIsLifeNej]

Who else feels that way? Bet no one is going to answer my question. Its based on my first comment...

[@Sean11194]

@@LoveIsLifeNejyou make no sense

[@valeriamarrerodiaz1731]

true perfection

[@QUINDERELLAISH]

Lol! I get excited too when I get notification of new asmr 😅 I love it!!

[@pollianaoliveira1257]

Anxiety and sadness keep crushing me all day long. Thank you for this amazing video, Whispering Gentleman. God bless you. Love from Brazil. 💙🇧🇷

[@megan22829]

Because of you I try to be there more for people in my life. The world is a dark place. And sometimes you think theres nothing you can do. But its the little things (although uploading this quality of video this frequently isnt a little thing. Wow btw) it's kindness that makes a difference in peoples darkness. Thank you for showing me how to be kind. And how valuable it is to stop are truly and consistently put in effort and care

[@forestforeal]

I like your shirt! I just started watching your videos about a month ago. I wanted to thank you so much for your genuinely comforting presence - your topics are very relatable and are very very helpful to meditate to, thank you for working so hard to produce these emotionally healing works. I watch every single video you post and I just wanted to share my appreciation my friend! also a small shout out to how you use they/them pronouns for a lot of the characters in your stories. I enjoy that a lot, that really adds to it for me as a nonbinary person. I absolutely love your stories, they're my favorite part. 😊

[@TheTravelingAlchemist]

I discovered this channel about a week ago and it's become my favorite ASMR experience. It makes me feel safe and comfortable. I literally fall asleep in minutes. Thank you for providing a peaceful space.

[@cougargerow2358]

I have been struggling with stress in my life, I have been trying to find some way to forgive myself for not being able to do it all. You have brought serenity into my nightly routine, and I just wanted to take the time out to tell you just how grateful I am for all you do, thank you so much for your videos and the time you take out of your day to make them. I am forever grateful for the gentle experience of listening to your ASMRS.

[@VeraBousiou]

Our favourite representative of the divine masculine ❤

[@kimquinten5298]

The world is a better place with Steven God bless you.

[@abigailgreenwood6670]

Please continue to make these types of videos. It offers a level to healing that I have yet to experience and this is so much more than ASMR. The asking for consent, the constant reassurance of safety, the gentle tones....it's a source of comfort. Helps with the nightmares and hypervigilence. I appreciate this content

[@thegoodsamaritansociety-in2803]

From (children to grandparents) living without positive male role models- We thank you, our very dear friend.

[@bean8429]

Thanks for making us all feel safe. ❤

[@pamshaw8523]

Thank you so much for this safe space. It is so comforting. Bless you x

[@carol_mengoni]

Thank you for here I am in the middle of one of my worst fibromyalgia attacks and I know that fibromyalgia will stay with me forever and I have not been able to sleep this video helped me a lot to relax and sleep although fibromyalgia is with me ❤️❤️😭

[@Lea31706]

Look up Dr Berry on KZbin ,I don’t have fibromyalgia anymore,I wish you health x

[@lobsterlogic]

I'm so sorry to hear that! That sounds really heavy to have to go through.

[@jaderose7917]

“No harm can come to you here” *mum walks in with a claw hammer* SAVE ME STEVEN🥲 In all seriousness, amazing video🥰

[@lizzydotjpeg8638]

You have the kindest eyes I’ve ever seen

[@mommatails4739]

Thank you my dear friend. Until finding your videos, I didn’t know what a safe place meant. I definitely don’t find it in my daily life. Just - thank you ❤

[@m5rsie]

thank you for all that you do, you’ve helped in many restless nights.

[@evany13]

Found this video when I was looking for some calming asmr during some anxiety, and this helped immensely! Definitely gonna be a return viewer to this channel

[@scooby8122]

This is so soothing, and after this week I need it!

[@heatherandrews4634]

I literally feel the safest when watching your videos. Very relaxing and comforting. Thank you ❤

[@angelalseay]

I have never liked anything loud was in a relationship for several years where i was screamed at alot now i have panic attacks if someone gets mad or loud thank you for helping me sleep it was hard at first to get used to such a gentle voice i appreciate it more then you know.I listen to you now in good and bad times.

[@Lyrehcsoulhealing2]

4am and i come across this video/you saying, "I know sleep isn't something you get a lot of" 😂 You're such a beautiful piece of this puzzle 🙏 Namaste ❤

[@renadud]

Ugh, your videos are about the only thing that will quiet my mind and let me sleep!!! Thank you so much for all you do!

[@Shadoweyes07]

Thank you, I can’t even say how much I needed this.

[@Zoruakat]

I love your videos, and admire all the work and dedication you put into them. You seem like you’d be a wonderful friend, and I’m so grateful for the safe space you provide for myself and everyone else on your channel

[@yasminazariouh6900]

Thank you my friend ❤🍀🥹🇧🇪🌸🇧🇪🌹simple the best🇧🇪🌟gentleman🇧🇪🦩🇧🇪🌷🇧🇪✨️🇧🇪💐🇧🇪🌺🇧🇪🎀🇧🇪💝🇧🇪🪻🇧🇪🌻🇧🇪⚘️🇧🇪🌴🍬🍭🍦🍨🧁

[@terit2477]

Steven, you are so wonderful. I am grateful for you and your kind soul. With love, Teri ❤

[@KariKing-f3o]

Another amazing video!!! Love the dropper with tongue clicks ❤

[@heather754]

I’m new to this channel but I subscribed right away. I really enjoyed your video and I just wanted to say thank you 😊

[@katelovespizza]

he is brilliant

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Thank you so much my dear friend, I’m so pleased I’m able to help you relax

[@lavenderflowersfall280]

Anxiety offset. Thank you I like the big brush

[@xxmadi_16xx]

A true legend of ASMR ❤

[@spitfire3311]

I really really needed this right now thank you so much

[@theemperessbugjr9474]

Im 16 and after being treated like garbage by almost every dude in my life including my friends and my own dad, its nice to feel happiness from a male instead of depression and fear. Thank you so much for helping me sleep better🩷🩷

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

My friend as a father myself I can tell you that you deserve love and respect. I’m so sorry you’ve received negativity from the males around you. But please don’t give up on yourself, you have an entire life ahead of you. Surround yourself with positive people who want you to be happy and want you to succeed and remove the ones creating negative energy from your life. I know this may seem like an impossible task, but I can assure you it’s not…..you will find a way. You deserve to be happy my friend. And always remember that you have a place here to escape to when you need to hear a friendly voice

[@RC-er6kv]

Can you consider a video where you dab with this little cotton ball q-tip thing??? Its amazing

[@AlyGSpirit]

The lighting is so cool. Thanks for being with us 😊😊

[@BlytheWorld1972]

Why thank you my dear friend will bookmark this and watch it later when i am relaxing of course i gave the video a Big like :)

[@helloitslbo]

You: do you mind if I apply this lavender oil to you? Me: plz don't I'm highly allergic

[@WhiteRose717]

Thank you so much for this. I really needed to relax and your channel is wonderful.🌹

[@reachingmusic502]

Thanks!

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

That is extremely kind of you my friend, thank you so much

[@dustf1nger118]

Thank you. I was finally able to rest.

[@lilyASMR5303]

The Truth is that we need each other to survive, i do relaxing videos but looks out for other ASMR to relax myself

[@letitiafields9194]

Keep up the amazing work that you do. 😊 You are an amazing person. Thank you for being you

[@laura-jeanbernhardson3879]

Very soothing! Thank you so much. ❤

[@dirkster42]

Thank you.

[@canalbarafunda_bra]

Você é o único ASMR homem que eu me sinto segura e à vontade.

[@rainbowsandunicorns9196]

So soothing and comforting!!!

[@lakeireland]

I was going to write something slightly funny and grateful but once my breathing synched up with WG’s, my words left and my eyes are threatening to close before I hit enter.

[@edbl1944]

If only the world was so sweet and caring like the people in this comment section

[@lucymotense5948]

Gratidão por essa maravilhoso relaxamento 😴😇😴🍀🌻🔑🥰

[@dxnmrhk]

another amazing video. thank u so much.❤

[@inesmcmarcy1710]

You've got a very contagious smile. Please, smile more 😊

[@moonlight2987]

Thank you for calming me 😊

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

You’re very welcome my friend

[@moonlight2987]

😊

[@greidymoreno3314]

Muchas gracias tus videos me dan mucha tranquilidad y relajación, aprecio mucho tu trabajo

[@robsutherland5744]

Reaching deep into your feelings to thank us...Steven I'll do the same for you. Your shoulder looked like it was lit by moonlight.

[@lovereikiASMR222]

Thank you❤ Much appreciated🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@maximumshades3164]

Goodnight brother

[@amyluxford1872]

Thank you ❤️

[@siobhanoconnell9444]

That was a rather large Q-Tip!

[@АннаНещадим-х4е]

Какой красивый и нежный мужчина))❤ вашей жене очень повезло))))

[@esakiztt5492]

❤😊thank you😴💤💤💤

[@bailey1493]

Thank you. I’m on the verge of a mental breakdown. This helps.

[@riegerBeatz]

Best Asmr ! Greatings from germany

[@p1nkPallas]

Seeing this was abseloutely perfect for the current situation. I got a gf today, and as you'd most likely know, that's causing me to stay awake thinking about them :'] this is the perfect way for me to calm down! Thank you for saving my sleep, once again ❤

[@heatherbaker4538]

I'ma stick around and try to gt rid of these "you're a serial killer and I just woke up in your basement" vibes i'msosorryihaveanxiety XD

[@dans9553]

Damn you’re good! 😊❤

[@aladriakitchin615]

blank space. . .

[@swcmultimediaarts]

Love ❤️

[@mariapatriciachavez214]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@canalbarafunda_bra]

I am single for one year and I miss have a man to talk and to take care of me. Thank you ver much!❤

[@tararuthven8885]

Blank space ❤

[@ВитахаКачалов-у2о]

Спасибо. Стивен....ваши видео 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Thank you my friend

[@CherryBlossom-xu1td]

Love❤

[@Daisyjc2386]

@18:45, i will always choose your face tracing on my skin.

[@SinoStambuk]

❤

[@Sultan_Akoii]

🎉❤❤❤

[@FL-uj7cs]

I'd love a video that's just hours of your tapping like you did here with little to no talking. Other vids out there trying to win typing competitions using 6 inch acrylic nails 🤮

[@ПавлаПетрова-я3ь]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊

[@diegogijon9085]

💪💪💪💪

[@valeriamarrerodiaz1731]

I dont know . someone tell me please we win at life or he does… we ALL do

[@kimquinten5298]

I know exactly what you mean.

[@xxmadi_16xx]

Relatable

[@Uina0641]

17:00 39:58 1:02:53

[@Beetlejuiceisgay]

Mans is healing my daddy issues one video at a time, I’ve been so desperate for male approval that I’ve started searching “male validation Asmr” and I came across you and whanwnsjan, you’re amazing, thank you.

[@Beetlejuiceisgay]

Damn I’m looking back at this video after my stepdad yelled at me and my sister and mom and I had a meltdown and dang, this shit is helping me so much.

[@PedraamJam]

Pause.

[@Jacubamustoff]

Thats a huge swab! I hope you are a Christian and know Jesus, but I am assuming you don't because the Holy Spirit would have warned you that this ASMR is sorcery, and enchantment. It is a form of witchcraft. Please be careful of what you are doing for money.

[@alastor1776]

Why do you sound like Gabriel?

[@ceciliaraquelbarda8338]

Spanish please 🥹

[@RyanMoonASMR]

Amazing Stevie boy! -less popular ASMR artist from Maine, USA 🫠