ASMR| Seeing the Gynecologist| First time, VERY Anxious (Soft spoken, History, Vitals, Pelvic exam)

[@keetyalexx]

“You always have the right to say no” THANK YOU!!! So many patients do not know this and absolutely everyone needs to. You always have the right to revoke or withhold consent, and if a medical professional does not respect that, report them and find someone who will. It’s your body. You’re in charge.

[@sweetlife031]

THIS is part of the reason why for me, ALL OB’s that I would see would preferably at least be women🥺

[@emmagilliam7966]

i was forced into a pap smear at 14 and i bawled during the entire process, i wasn't given any form of information besides them gaslighting me and telling me it wouldn't hurt. they laughed at me as well, i explained that what i was feeling didn't feel right, and she told me i was fine and to "stop exaggerating." i hope that other people get to have this kind of experience because i haven't had one since then, due to lack of trust.

[@tapel6407]

I`m sorry to hear this...Did they explain why the test was so important at such a low age?

[@curtisdalrymple42]

I am very sorry that happened to you that was totally unacceptable behavior. I am using my brother’s Google account that is why I have a male name, but I am actually a female. I remember I had my first pelvic exam when I was 13, because my mom was afraid I might be pregnant. When your a female and still have your hymen ring it is very painful to have an OBGyn exam, especially a Pap smear. I can’t believe those idiots laughed at you. That was cruel. I would report them to the AMA.

[@tapel6407]

@@curtisdalrymple42 I definitely agree! I guess it is a sort of "feminist" idea behind this, that the people working in this medical field don´t actually believe that virginity has a physical dimension. And if there is no hymen all adult women can be equally treated. Do you see what I mean?

[@GorochuVA]

When you say “they” laughed at you/gaslit you/etc, do you mean the doctors or your parents?

[@anniet494]

dude this is so scary, i never want anything to go into my vagina :I and i hear this all the time that they arent careful and gaslight saying it wont hurt, you knooow theyre lying, im so sorry for all the women/girls that went through this

[@AlistairFinch713]

i have a *severe* phobia of going to the gynecologist, but it turns out that i might have endometriosis and i have to go to get some sort of examination. i have an even *worse* fear of getting an exam (to the point of having blackout panic attacks just from talking about getting one) so im hoping that this will help me to calm down a little

[@xxmephxx]

I have medical trauma + fear, and while my reactions aren't as severe, i really get where you're coming from. I hope you can feel more comfortable and I hope your exam, if you can take one, goes really well for you

[@kat.w.RBF444]

Same. To the point I’ve been putting it off for years now and get severe anxiety if other doctors ask about it. I can’t even call to make an appointment. I tried last summer and started sweating and panicking. Just wanted to offer a voice of understanding and say I hear you. Not sure what we can do to overcome it or even make it less horrible. My solution for now is to just put it off.

[@TammieRoseASMR-cj2cf]

you seem to be male?!

[@Skyuni123]

@@TammieRoseASMR-cj2cf trans/enby people exist! hope that helps!

[@ashleyparkhurst4848]

❤

[@siobhanvanwyk5131]

your voice is so soothing and i love that you're educating a lot of us at the same time 🥰🥰 my new favorite asmrtist

[@leannathepa]

Thank you. Welcome 🥺🥺💜

[@prettyperfectinpink]

girl THANK YOU. i have my first appointment tomorrow and i’m so nervous and this helped me calm down and i’m definitely not as nervous anymore, life saver ❤️

[@anka004]

how was it?

[@haleyledesma1291]

This is all late , but how was your appointment!!

[@prettyperfectinpink]

@@anka004 wasn’t as awful as i thought, still a little nerd wrecking though

[@agape471]

“Every vagina is very beautiful and very different” I really do love that and the way she speaks is so calming ❤️

[@GorochuVA]

I get what you mean, but improper phrasing can also make a person very uncomfortable

[@shelleyswan535]

@@GorochuVA Yeah what if a male doctor said that bet the patient would raise holy hell

[@sweetlife031]

I prefer all OBs to be female 🥺 There’s something that sits very unwell and unruly with me about male doctors whom you just meet, looking at your hoo-ha….I wouldn’t stomach this 🥺

[@celestialstar6777]

I've been watching these on repeat lately. My doctor's aren't this nice and I've had way too many visits lately. These videos help ease the stress that comes with those visits

[@lindsey2987]

I’ve been trying to work up the courage to finally see an OBGYN for the past year and this video almost made me cry with how understanding and supportive you are. Niche topic for ASMR but it really calmed some of my nerves so thank you!!

[@Mayor-q6b]

I’m a medical assistant and I’ve literally never known what happens during these visits until now. Thank you!

[@elahasul8148]

I’m a medical assistant here in the Netherlands. But we are required to perform these exams on patients. Isn’t it the case there? (Excuse my English !)

[@Mayor-q6b]

elaha sul lol, no. Maybe you guys have more schooling? Nobody in the US would be comfortable with anyone but a provider doing the Pap smear though.

[@courtneylockwood3425]

@@Mayor-q6b I’m a medical assistant in the US. When working for a male doctor it is a rule that an assistant has to accompany him during the exam. I’ve accompanied hundreds of paps/pelvic exams. I’m surprised you haven’t.

[@Mayor-q6b]

@@courtneylockwood3425 it’s only female practitioners that do that paps at my practice. Even then, I’m a male and they wouldn’t have me accompany. I think it would be skittle odd, but to each their own.

[@sweetlife031]

Me , neither …I honestly thought these types of ASMRs would never make KZbin 🙂 I do like how she approaches this and herself too - this isn’t too gory like several videos that are here already that are non ASMR ❤️

[@celestorne9138]

I’m so glad your tiktok was on my fyp a few months back. I’ve never felt so safe, relaxed, and interested in an asmr video before. Super excited to see the channel grow and glad to finally be apart of a new asmrtist on this platform. Thank you for taking time out of your day to Inform and relax all of us 💕

[@banin4484]

I can't believe that I am impatiently waiting for someone !! to watch it every week, happy to see your channel grow day by day🥺, so much love for you and your wonderful effort🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍💗

[@leannathepa]

You’re the best thank you for the support 🥺💜

[@pupupuskassa]

these are really relaxing, idk why. but thank you! good video!

[@leannathepa]

You’re welcome !

[@awkwardcrunchasmr8224]

I seem to watch this nightly now because it brings me so much comfort ;-; I have vaginismus and going to the gynecologist literally brings me so much anxiety. This really helps me desensitize myself and it also gives me tingles. Thank you so so much

[@RinnLiadon]

I have admittedly not gone back to my OBGYN after I was diagnosed with PCOS and pretty much told my chances of having more children was over. I've never felt comfortable in office with an OBGYN. Your videos are helping me to get over that anxiety and encouraging me to find a new OBGYN.

[@gabbylopez9091]

This is relaxing. I had my pap test 10 days ago and the results are normal! Praise the Lord! Use this comment as an "I got my pap test" button! Y'all ladies can do it! It's not the best feeling, but it definitely isn't awful!

[@Yeah_You_Thought]

Thank you for this comment. I just got mine last week and it was super weird, but thanks to her other video on this topic I knew what to expect and not to worry about it being painful.

[@AS-im3xr]

Hate it and it’s barbaric. There needs to be a different method of testing for this..seriously ugh!

[@adriannamichalski3359]

I’m never gonna do it

[@ozzy8557]

@@adriannamichalski3359 why is that if you dont mind me asking. No judgement here

[@kat.w.RBF444]

Putting it off until I have no choice. So degrading, embarrassing, and uncomfortable. As with most procedures women have to endure. Skipping the mammogram too.

[@josuealopez3167]

As a male I learned sm in this video it's so educational for men and everyone actually

[@viwong5408]

Im so glad that what once was a few videos about this topic now has a channel dedicated to it!

[@Defnot_95]

I have to go to the OBGYN sometime soon bc I may have PCOS & I’m very scared of getting one of (in my personal opinion) the worst symptom of PCOS…infertility. These videos helped me get an understand of what everything is & just in case a doctor is saying something untruthful I can defend myself. (It’s also sad that a 16 year old has to worry about malpractice)

[@Nerflover10097]

You and Evoke asmr are my two favourites for medical roleplays because you're so adept in your bedside manner

[@denissecu9473]

This calms me after a tiring and stressful day. Thank you! 🥰

[@danaandiris]

I just found your channel on my explore page! I’m pre-pa in undergrad right now and was so shook when you introduced yourself as a PA in one of your RPs ( i didn’t notice your username containing PA before clicking) but was really glad to see you bringing awareness to the profession! so glad i stumbled upon this channel :)

[@leannathepa]

Me too 🥰 welcome !

[@mochadream__]

really want to have this exam too bc i think im experiencing some discharge problem but OBGYN are so expensive here in our country 😥 this video is so relaxing and somehow informative. I just kept on imagining that I'm really there. Thank you so much for this!

[@Fit-with-nic]

This was sooo good especially with the soft spoken tone. I have horrible anxiety when it comes to even thinking about going to a gyn being 24 and never went to the gyn yet you make it seem so much less nerve wracking

[@leannathepa]

I’m so glad you liked it. 🥺

[@boosterbox3607]

You need to go it’s so important that you do. I just got diagnosed with PCOS yesterday and my endometrial lining is 16mm thick it’s only supposed to be around 4. Had I went I could’ve avoided having surgery in a couple days. Please go!!!!

[@tapel6407]

The most crucial question is your sexual history. If you are still a virgin and in good health you shall not feel any pressure to go

[@Fit-with-nic]

@@tapel6407 not a virgin but have only had the same sexual partner who has also only had me as a partner

[@Fit-with-nic]

@@boosterbox3607 does that lining have anything to do with pain during intercourse?

[@m.afreensheikh3200]

Your VOICE 😌😌😌 It's really soothing to my ears Good job gurl ✨✨ You are my new favourite ASMRTIST after ting ting 😄😄😄😄 You are really underrated 🤍

[@leannathepa]

Thank you. I’m so glad you are here ! Thanks for the support 🥺💜

[@rachaelannesmith9469]

My daughter was very worried about her first gyn visit I had her watch this and it put her at ease. Thank you!!!!!

[@CaoilfhionnAgrona]

Very informative asmr video. Cool way to learn about sort of embarrassing stuff without any pressure.

[@molly-.]

she is so sweet!! i love how these things sound 😍

[@al1_queen994]

I don't know if you ever mare one before but an ear cleaning from you would litteraly bring so much tingles.

[@vinnie3373]

i am watching this as an almost 20 year old trying to gather the courage to ask my mother for me to get my first exam and i do feel unbelievably more comfortable starting this process than i ever have

[@darlinerodriguez3781]

So many tingles…your voice is so relaxing 🥰

[@designerproductions]

I have my first pap next week 😢 so glad I found your channel to calm me down

[@Yeah_You_Thought]

Same.

[@Mariammk7]

You're my new favorite asmrtist

[@leannathepa]

Wow thank you 🥺

[@evagerritsen1605]

Im really glad your normalizing this process!

[@Izzy-oc1gl]

Thank you so much for this content! It’s relaxing as well as informative🤩would you be able to make a video about a vaginal yeast infection? I think it’s an intimidating subject and you’re making these topics so much more comfortable😅

[@lea3436]

your voice and videos are amazing! thank you!

[@ashleyparkhurst4848]

Thank god. This is one of the videos I didn't quit. The anxiety gets really bad.

[@twigson4ever]

I'm truly using these videos to try and help my confidence in ever going to the obgyn

[@hellomoonjin4634]

i'm a medical student, and your videos gave me a lot of knowledge and it really help me in Obgyn class 🥰🥰

[@boglitt6918]

This was so soothing. Thank you for spreading awareness!

[@charmainecox8600]

You are awesome cuz that's how you should be asked when in that office. Shoot for more videos!!!

[@aubreygoff2904]

You should do one like your the big sister giving your lil sis the talk. I am an older sister and I need to give my sis the talk soon. I would love to be able to see someone doing it.

[@Yeah_You_Thought]

Why isn't mom giving her the talk, if I may ask?

[@aubreygoff2904]

Our mom passed away when she was 5.

[@samanthaender3142]

These are really relaxing video you awesome job❤️❤️❤️

[@leannathepa]

Thank you 💜💜

[@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans]

New fear unlocked: *the speculum*

[@hadeelrashid5646]

I absolutely LOVE your videos♥️

[@wh0s.z4r]

As a 13 year old this is absolutely terrifying and helpful at the same time

[@raisinbran3736]

yes

[@plasmoasis]

you know Billie eilish is dating a racist right

[@DoctorSess]

@@plasmoasis you’ll survive

[@AshlynGerman]

@@plasmoasis who cares

[@wh0s.z4r]

@@plasmoasis they broke up ❤️

[@aynahdawid4452]

She is good, I swear she is💕👏🏽

[@wiktoriakrawczynska4545]

I LOVE ASMR !!! I didn't understand a lot what you were saying but that's because I'm from Poland

[@syaf4994]

your videos are my fav ! 💗💗

[@leonisophie6029]

So happy that I found your channel, love you!

[@leannathepa]

Thank you 🥺💜

[@kjs498]

This is all I wanted from my provider was to make some small talk. Ask me about my life, my job, something to get my mind off of what is actually happening. Explain what you are doing as you are doing it. I think I am going to look for a new provider. Her and I just aren’t clicking and she has been kinda pushy about things.

[@jchalice3229]

I love it !! Ty ❤️ 😊 🙏 sooo relaxing..

[@leannathepa]

I’m so glad you do 🥺💜

[@KarrenKora]

i think ive watched this 23 times

[@jillalexandra9269]

What you do your ideas are incredible you're helping young girls and women feel better and more calm about having this exam and test done since it's never a comfortable situation. you're also providing information and educating people on what happens. You go girl this needs to be normalized

[@leannathepa]

Thank you 💜💜

[@JudeShimer]

Your videos, this one especially, helped me so much going into my last appointment, thank you. Would love if you made one especially for trans people who have dysphoria. A lot of us tend to avoid getting a Pap because of it. It would make my year

[@jocelyn-nk9es]

love your videos! it’s upper educational, i didn’t even know what an OBGYN was up til now lol,, thanks!

[@GorochuVA]

"Have you had any sexual partners? Male, female, both?” “And I take it you use condoms, always?" Ma'am, I'm a virgin

[@DoctorSess]

I think I may be in the wrong office… I’m supposed to be getting a prostate exam.

[@Yeah_You_Thought]

Oop-

[@Truskava]

Your Voice is sooooo soothing

[@alyonakravchuk3729]

Nice video Leanna. You look as sweet and as helpful as ever. Your videos are really a helpful guide for many girls. Keep them coming, girl.

[@jessaux.3309]

I'm 6 months pregnant with BV, I'm going on month 3 of having it, I've been on 3 different medications and it just won't go away.

[@KarennaStaCruz]

I love your voice and videos. I watch your videos because they help me sleep. Thank you 🥰 if u don't mind me asking, what sphygmomanometer do u use in your videos?

[@oobenoob]

I think its great you do these videos.

[@user-qt7wo7rm8f]

Yeaah! I love your videos soo much!

[@leannathepa]

Thank you 🥺

[@user-qt7wo7rm8f]

@@leannathepa thank you! ♥️🤗

[@nicoleschlager]

I love your gyno roleplays! is there any reason you do them whether it's a profession you study or you just like it?

[@leannathepa]

I actually do this for a living ! 😂. I work at an OBGYN office as a PA.

[@carlita8585]

Another amazing video!!

[@AgnesVelez]

*NEW SUBSCRIBER* love the voice thank you so much for this ❤️

[@dakarenshow8077]

✨I got a health care ad before this✨

[@iamriah]

Omg I’m early! I love your videos so much!!❤️❤️

[@leannathepa]

Thank you 🥺💜

[@CHENF0RDS]

i wish my first gynecologist experience was this nice

[@heddahav]

Can u please make another one of these? Maybe like someone with trauma seeing the gynecologist

[@leanijo]

is there anything gynaecologists say/help ppl that have been through sexual assault? is it similar to this? i’m 18 and have been through SA, it’s really the only thing scaring me about going 😵‍💫 sorry if this is a weird question :/💗

[@BkhammoYou]

Another excellent video 😊

[@Friend-ed5mp]

The fact that they have a pinkish red on the little heart thingy (I can’t spell and also can’t remember what it’s called) Also no I’m not a child my friend who is a child made my pfp for me and I use it to make her happy

[@PorwanieSabinek]

If my OBGYN was that nice i would be every year for the check up

[@BW-yn1wu]

Love vinyl gloves so much better

[@LaylaandAlastor]

I have one question. Can you make one like this but the patient says no to some of this and then what you do about that? If you can that would be a amazing thank you❤

[@christinagoode9376]

I'd love to see you do an ASMR pelvic exam for a male patient.

[@luckie1vee506]

Love these gyno vids 😌💕

[@agdollsnikki]

your voice is so relaxing i wish you could be my pa

[@mati211p]

I really like that "real" videos. The have something. I don't understand videos like tapping on something, i mean not realistic ones, just because i don't see purpose why someone do it. I know that is because of normal ASMR, but i don't like videos, when people do something what have no reason during role play, or is done just for stimulating sounds, always skip that ones.

[@aliciaortega6028]

I’m getting my iud insertion this Friday and I’m extremely nervous

[@isitamoguel]

Maybe a pregnancy one?? That would be educational love that

[@dakotajen679]

anxious about sexual history and sexual assault questions. have you made a video with this included? I’m worried what language they will use in asking and their response.

[@Nico_Smiley16]

I’m due for a pap exam and I’m scared. I’m a virgin, so I’m thinking this would be too painful. The info helped a lot.

[@xxmephxx]

The ad at the beginning of this was a long commercial that started with a white blonde on a couch saying "welcome to my vag1na! In here, i make the rules." WTF 😭😭😭 accurate to the content i guess??

[@leannathepa]

Omg no way 😂😂😂

[@MrsBeBe-de1xx]

I still have anxiety about going to get a pap. Currently experiencing pelvic floor dysfunction. I'm in the worst pain ever 😢.

[@brookhall8142]

I always want the sheet to be covering me at any time it isn’t necessary to be uncovered. It frustrates me so much when they stop to talk and I’m not covered.

[@onenationunderminaj5841]

Can we learn about ovarian cyst !!!

[@XiiRaaTiiX]

These kind of videos are very nice because I'm afraid of getting a check just because of the speculum haha but isn't it in the contrary? It must be uncomfortable if you never had sexual intercourse, not if you did? I wanted to know more about that!

[@leannathepa]

It’s definitely uncomfortable regardless! But for anyone who has never had anything in the v*gina it can be more on the side of painful - really just depends on the person for sure !

[@gabbylopez9091]

I'm still a virgin, and it hurt for me. It doesn't apply to everyone though. It really isn't that bad. The speculum just hurt a bit. I didn't even bleed for this one though!

[@Yeah_You_Thought]

The speculum is a weird feeling because it is in there holding you open for the doctor to check inside. It should not be excruciating; for a virgin it probably will hurt a little but the provider should be gentle and use lube

[@tapel6407]

@@leannathepa Leanna, is it your opinion that virgins should go if they don`t have a specific medical reason?

[@DarkwaveDave]

As a guy, I’m worrying where that speculum’s going! 😳😅

[@kalopsiaa..]

im afab, i know and im still worried-

[@baileyisnt]

ouch

[@tayl2991]

I want to start Birth Control, and I hope my DR doesn't try to make me have a Smear and Pelvic Exam. I'm 28 and never had one and I'm still a virgin

[@catsloverowo]

when are u planning to do a makeup or roleplay kinda video?🥰

[@faiiith_n]

Metro Detroit as I read in your bio 🙂 live there too

[@yaia9133]

i love your voice so much >\\\

[@leannathepa]

Thank you 😁

[@L.L.Bean328]

Where are you located and how do I book you for my first pap I’d love to have your support and vulnerability!!

[@bellesmith1507]

I’m 15 and going to the gynecologist gives me horrible anxiety because I don’t even feel comfortable talking to my mom about that stuff.. any tips ??

[@marciarandolph9659]

You are not alone. I've been getting these since I was 18 and very uncomfortable. I couldn't even give you tips. My anxiety is through the roof when time to go to the doctor.

[@milarosa1364]

I have 2 kids now, my son is already 13 years of age. And my second son is 5years of age. I hope you will answer my question. God bless you always. Thank you

[@mutoidliz2320]

I've got horrible medical anxiety and my GP forgot to send me a later before I turned 25.I played dumb and pretended I didn't know the age you had to start going was 25,still got told off though 😅!

[@titi64000]

Always so calm and always so relaxing.. Leanna but it's better with the dark blue gloves haha 😉

[@Itsyeid_]

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