ASMR Soft Spoken Ramble | Have More Fun As An Adult

Being an adult is no fun sometimes. Listen to me ramble and go through some tips to have more fun as a grown-up.

[@mbb--]

Your kids are lucky to have a mom like you

[@AgedBacon]

To be a better adult, there's only one way: don't become one. Your body may age, but don't let your mind do the same. You have to be able to be child inside, curious, having fun from any random thing, being amazed at simple things, honest, carefree. Be serious when you have to, no more. Don't listen to people who says you're "too old" to do something, or "that's not how an adult behave" because this is bullshit. You're never too old for anything, to play in the snow or waterballoons, or watch cartoons. Do whatever you want as long as it's not illegal. Don't care about what people says, because they'll always find something to bitch about anyway.

[@avafrav]

On the changing perspectives thing. When I was a kid, I used to walk around the house keeping my knees slightly bent so I could "remember" what it felt like to be me a year before. Thank you for reminding me of this!! It really brought me back-I will have to try it again.

[@Nitchmaster5000]

When I'm in a bad mood, I make a crazy face as I pass people on the road. It always makes me laugh knowing that they caught a glimpse of a passing driver with an insane look on their face, with no context.

[@LinaLovegood]

your rambling tips 100% are my favourite videos

[@jleslie2179]

I work a v stressful job and listen to your rambles while I work and it always keeps me calm. Thank you for doing what you do.

[@bananabread782]

I really appreciate your outlook on life. It's a good reminder. ☺

[@ohhhshitson]

i really enjoyed this video. i'm 29 and childless. i recently was thinking that i don't even know what i enjoy or what's fun anymore. i'm gonna really try to think about it and do something fun. i feel like i'm always working or focused on making money.

[@stephykay87]

I wish we could be friends in real life! You are such a fun loving, positive person!!❤️

[@tingledom]

Had to laugh as soon as you talked about the weird noises. My husband and I make all sorts of weird noises at each other.

[@g..g1107]

Bob Ross. The man who can make a mountain with a few strokes of a paint knife

[@chelseaw5409]

I recently found you and I love your voice. I'm going through a little bit of a stressful time right now so hopefully this will help me relax. especially seeing as I have to be to work in 4 hours

[@cstar1684]

Bob Ross is the best! 😂❤

[@villanuevaaadrian15]

love your videos. thank you for bringing me so much peace and relaxation

[@asmrwarmpuppy8740]

This is wise and magnificent! It's easy to lose perspective as you get older. However, I'm in my late '30s, and it's liberating. You stop caring about the opinions of others or the flow of society. You should be a life coach, you know...

[@juliawass6115]

this video made me laugh so much!! thank you for making me smile;) also, you're so right about the "laughing-until-you-can't-breathe moments"---that is definitely the best feeling in the world!

[@RACHELKAPPIUS]

I was cracking up the entire time you were talking about the Barney pranks. Such a good video!

[@ASMRArtofSound]

You're such a fun mom yourself! A great topic, BTW, something to really think about 😌

[@23pointe]

BARNEY😍🤩 I drove my parents nuts watching Barney 24/7 as a kid haha

[@mylifeatrandomASMR]

Your awesome, thanks for this! I love Bob Ross he's super relaxing to watch 🎨

[@PierreBriceO]

you really are a treasure to this world

[@tingledom]

Had to tell you, after you talking about the Barney, I thought that sounded fun, but the only stuffed animal I have is this little Simba toy. So I started putting it on my love when he's sleeping, and we've given him a voice, and he's now morphed into Shazimba, a lion with attitude haha. Thanks for the inspiration :)

[@chuckrieger782]

I am so glad I'm not the only one who listens to Bob Ross before I fall asleep.... lol.

[@daisyd5760]

26:49 That "Oooop" gave me so much of Phoebe Buffay vibes 😊

[@nonononono8194]

My little one and I are getting her ready for the father daughter dance while listening to you :) Good advice. All work and no play makes mommy a homicidal jungle cat. ;)

[@KamrinTheKapricornASMR]

This was sooo great!! Thanks for making this much needed reminder!!😊

[@valsummerfield3069]

I totally agree with you. We always have that child we were in us so why not embrace it? It doesn't mean we aren't responsible it just means we like to have fun

[@bcran6691]

I totally agree I love to be a kid! Thank you for sharing!

[@skh_okakok]

I loved this video!! I don't have kids but it made me thinking about doing more fun activities! It's funny too because riiiiight before you started talking about funny faces, I was making faces! I like to make faces that feel weird or funny to make. I thought the part about making funny noises was good too, my husband and I do that 😊

[@BougASue]

We make up the silliest songs at our house and sing them ALL the time! We give funny nicknames, say made up words, and of course make funny noises. It is so much fun and if you're having a down moment or a bad day it makes it so much better. 😀

[@acesandoval4467]

It's funny you mentioned that there's a train track that runs nearby because in one of your videos I can hear a train in the background lol! Love this vid btw, your personality is refreshing. Didn't know u like Bob Ross, crazy to think he was in the military. That Barney doll cracked me up lol!!!

[@zazenh]

I love Bob Ross also, who doesn't? Lol. I started listening to asmr videos 3 years ago first listening to Bob Ross' videos☺️

[@suetsnbjj2853]

Good advice!

[@jmorris4972]

I love this. Thank you

[@margiehandler3427]

you are so right about getting out at lunch time,,,it is important

[@jaygrum]

The perspective card reminded me of a song from the Hunchback musical called "Top of the World" it's exactly that kind of feeling!

[@le_Gay]

I was like you I talked so much at home and in public/school i never talked and even now at the end of high school i don't really talk and some people who aren't my close friends get surprised when i talk!

[@tony68080]

Mary, you will never be an old lady with your fun outlook to life. Should be a legal obligation for adults to take time out for fun ( in my opinion ). Is kickball anything like football ( soccer to you guys the other side of the pond ) ?.Great vid, Mary.

[@ef4331]

That's helpful, 👍

[@ElizabethBSoCal]

Fantastic! ~Elizabeth

[@lukesapienza3979]

Yes

[@lukesapienza3979]

What do you do for fun when you’re alone

[@kaylintaylor2218]

NOT saying this is a bad thing but its just kind of funny how you keep saying this isnt about your kids its about you but most of the things you listed that you are enjoy are things you do with your kids that is awesome though it sounds like yall have alot of fun!

[@SouthernASMRSounds]

Kaylin Taylor They definitely benefit from the stuff that I do for fun, but that's secondary. I'd still do it even if they didn't care about it one way or the other.

[@alyssawisneskii7434]

can you make a video where you make slime and play with it. that triggers my asmr so much

[@zelda1805]

Preach!! 👏👏👏

[@laura3619]

👌👌👌😉😉😉

[@victorcalderonzamora8648]

❣️

[@margiehandler3427]

I agree with the boys....Barney freaks me out too....he has one big tooth,,,weird dude

[@Himaryous]

Your children go on 10-15 minute monologues? Amateurs! lol Why in MY day I would go on for an hour straight and I wasn't even done. My family would pay me actual money to get me to shut up.