ASMR Taking Care of You (Helping You Trust Again) Brushing & Massaging You Back to Sleep

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This evening I would like to help you sleep by taking good care of you with gentle ASMR. I know you have been through a lot my friend but I would like to help you trust again. So lay back and relax as I comfort you with a slow face massage, tracing and brushing and of course, a relaxing scalp massage. Goodnight my dear friend and sleep well.
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DISCLAIMER
Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a tingling sensation that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine.
The videos created by Whispering Gentleman ASMR are not intended to replace any medical care or counselling that you as an individual may require. The videos created on this channel are for the purpose of mindfulness, relaxation and entertainment.
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[@chulacuarenta8683]

Thank you for your videos. As an SA survivor, male asmrtists can feel very scary. But your content is therapeutic. I feel that part of me is being soothed. It doesn't have a weird s3xual feel to it. It is purely calming and caring.

[@Bumblebee-eu3gb]

Yes this!!^^

[@Insulin4life]

I totally agree with you too

[@loadingtekno]

Exactly, THAT IS EXACTLY what I have been saying. The lack of subtle sexuality (not so subtle most of the times) is what I find so pure and attractive about his videos.

[@thewildmadcat222]

never realized how much I relate to this comment until now. thank you for being so transparent

[@bluerabbit4010]

Exactly ❤

[@klarakhan]

I think you are the first male asmrtist that makes me feel safe. I genuinely am healing from this video. My ex broke up last week, right after I had a very demanding surgery. I was still recovering when he decided to go no-contact for a week, then coming back and saying it was over. That relationship just stole so much of my energy. I was always wary with him, because of my last ex, too. I was living in a constant anxiety-mode, constantly in fight-or-flight. But I was starting to warm up to just, leaning into the relationship, and trusting him, esp after the surgery and him showing his support at the hospital. Had no idea he'd drop me like a hot potato just as soon as we were home again... But, I am feeling my strength and mental energies returning, slowly. Digging into personal projects and clearing out my space, preparing for this new chapter in my life. Thank you for these videos. They mean the world, hope you have a great day ❤

[@lovekatz3979]

Without any personal specifics about me, I must say, this video has achieved something magical. This is therapy, so much more helpful than the people who are paid to help me, but rarely do. Thank you Steven

[@robsutherland5744]

I can't believe how much I've enjoyed your work all these months. I find myself thinking we all need a father like this and we all need a son like this and we all could use a brother like this. Thank you for so much kindness Steven. You are the best.

[@avocado5501]

Wait his name is Steven

[@annalisegiovanni7032]

@@avocado5501 ~Indeed.

[@loadingtekno]

I need a BOYFRIEND like this.

[@winterwentmissing]

in conclusion, he is the model male, the pinnacle of masculinity

[@annalisegiovanni7032]

@@winterwentmissing ~He Really Is....

[@pixiedust1999]

I'm terrified of men ngl due to a trauma I can't even speak of, yt autoplay woke me up to your video and I was about to panic but your caring expression and call manner made me pause and watch the video. I was so skittish at the beginning but slowly started relaxing...thank u so much

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I’m so glad you felt safe enough to continue watching my friend. Thank you for giving me that time to help you relax

[@pixiedust1999]

@@WhisperingGentlemanASMR from reading the comments on this video only ...you save alot of lives in ways you may never know and for that you earn my respect

[@mika_ekirian]

I relate so much to your statement! it was the same for me. Take care of yourself!

[@quinn708]

I feel you my fellow home skillet biscuit

[@Amarflowerzz]

You should try watching jojo asmr

[@shelbyhxo]

This really hit home for me. As a young girl I was r**** by a group of men and It shattered my trust in men especially and made me feel completely unsafe with anyone of the opposite sex, I've still struggled with this for years, you are one of the only men, especially in this asmr community I feel completely comfortable and at ease with. And safe. So safe. Something I never thought possible to feel with the opposite gender ever again after what occurred. You have no idea how incredibly powerful, calming, comforting and powerful this video has been, I will keep coming back to it. Truly thank you for this gift, for the gift that you are to this world, and most definitely your fiancee and children. You are a gem My friend.

[@Luv_Doughza]

There’s really some messed up people out there smh

[@Akunemin]

I hope that group of men rots in hell, you deserve nothing but love and comfort. And as of right now, you’re safe. Wherever you are, you’re safe.

[@kristinesmart3134]

Beautiful comment. I wish as an older kind woman I could take you into my warm home, listen to whatever you want to share, feed you, and protect you as a true friend. Sorry is a shallow, meaningless word. I would take a bullet for the young souls who have been injured permanently. For Real. I sincerely hope you got a lot of great professional help and have family & friends you have your back as well. Keep taking those big breaths, one day at a time, Sweet Pea. 😊 Love, From W. New York

[@falconeshield]

Hey sweetheart. This was brave to share with us. I hope you're alright, and that you're in a better safe space now :)

[@saraballard6359]

​@@kristinesmart3134I just wanted to say thank you for that warm, kind comment. I to have suffered so much of that as a young girl and wish there would have been someone like you there.

[@kathydust5443]

I love how you say it's a safe space and ask permission to get closer or touch. It really does make me feel safe as male asmrtists are difficult for me to feel that.

[@annabelleboisvert-bouchard6862]

I think we don’t give enough recognition to your work. Your videos are amazing and you produce such high quality visuals and sounds! But more importantly, you’re one of the only creators that allows such a gentle safe space and mostly such a great, caring, gentle and slow male presence, that allows us to go further than ASMR. I’ve personally found myself getting emotional from your videos more than once because i find them so therapeutic and helpful towards my non ASMR goals and life ! Thank you so much for your work and i hope you love it as much as we do! I hope you’ll continue to make such amazing videos !

[@chulacuarenta8683]

I totally agree. I often cry with his content. It's an emotional cry but not sad. Having a tender male voice that says such nice things really does feel like it mends something in me. I always appreciate he continuously asks for consent and says reassuring words. Truly therapeutic and amazing.

[@geegee_509]

Amazing video. Thank you for being consistent with the layered sounds. I dislike that swift change in pace and overly fast movements. These sounds are expected and comfortable which helps me sleep better ❤

[@silecira4394]

So strange how an absolute stranger has managed to bring me to tears just by having a gentle and kind presence. I think it's showing how much I've been lacking that from a male presence and I don't know how I'm supposed to feel lol. But this was exactly what I needed so thank you, this was much more therapeutic than I was prepared for 😅 your videos are rop notch and extremely helpful so please keep them coming 😄

[@ShaedTheMoron]

I love this man so much because at first glance he looks like a really shredded guy who wouldn't make this kind of video, but he makes incredible, relaxing, and calming content that I so quickly fell in love with while also being so friendly with his portrayal of himself, like wow.

[@cameronhart9929]

You saved a life tonight ❤️ thank you for your videos

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Cameron my dear friend, I'm so happy ive been able to help add a little calm to your world and help in some way. And Thank you so much, I really do appreciate it. Take care my friend and I will see you again very very soon 😃

[@loecydiasgomes957]

Lindoooo

[@zaranalic-lq8go13]

​@@loecydiasgomes957😊😊😊Masalah 🧡👐🏻 Allah

[@KOwens-ul6sy]

Trauma-informed ASMR! This is amazing! Thank you. ❤❤

[@soontherewillbesnow]

As someone whos been abused by male authority/parental figures in my life, this is so soothing and it reminds me that not all men are like my abusers. You're wonderful, and your impact on the internet will be remembered by those like me. You help us to move past and relax, even throughout our traumas. Thank you

[@michellebogenschutz9544]

If only my husband understood this and was capable of this level of empathy and care...Thank you for this!

[@squreshi8413]

This is great for someone who needs words of affirmation, but doesn’t have anyone to give it to them. I feel such deep peace in my heart. Also makes me realize how empty I feel otherwise. But I also want to say the warmer lighting is really great! And I also appreciate the brother type vibes instead of something else if you know what I mean.

[@SarahB-nt7lm]

I have been following your videos for about a year now, and I must say, they have been wildly helpful for my PTSD as well as insomnia. Typically I have a nightmare nearly every time I sleep, and can't sleep deeply, but when watching your videos I can. In addition, I even shared your videos with my therapist, because the way you talk ("my friend", "may I move in close", "thank you") really calms down my hyper vigilance, and your videos have even helped me to ground myself in the present and feel safe while in the middle of dissociating. Thank you for all that you do 💜

[@AMG02ful]

i just discovered your channel last week and it has quickly become one my favorites. the extra lil "safe asmr" or even "helping you trust again" creates a whole new space that ive never experienced before that i've absolutely fallen in love with. im having a hard time articulating just how much you've helped me in just a week lol so apologies if this is like incoherent but keep up the great work! you're such a kind soul :)

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

This means so much to hear my friend, thank you so much and welcome to this safe space!

[@luckychanceuse8982]

I’m at the point of my life when you complete lost trust in people and especially males. And now I’m watching this video and I begin see that some guys out there are still have gentle soul and warm open heart, not all of them are a huge piece of ice.

[@mahelaniarektbb]

Your video audio played for me at 4am after what was going to be another night of no sleep. At first, I didn't know what to do as, much like many of the commenters, men in my life have not been kind. Then you said you wanted to help me trust again, some tears fell, and I took this breath as if I'd been trapped under water for years and was finally let up. Never could have imagined having such a therapeutic and healing experience like this. You have my thanks and obviously my sub lol

[@feirinn]

I have a day tomorrow that I have been dreading for months, the timing of this is perfect because I’m a nervous wreck. Even if I can’t sleep, your voice and movements are calming. Thank you

[@dwippity]

good luck!! I hope tomorrow works out for you 🤗

[@jules4911]

Good luck, wishing you all the best!! 🧡🧡🧡

[@melgonzales4004]

It will be over soon!!

[@yuria_nihilisten]

You got this!

[@caeleehall9728]

I hope it all went well! 💜

[@sillyblondegirl7323]

Perfection again Steven. Thank you for inviting us to yet another safe space. You make us truly feel like we have a friend who cares.

[@poketronex]

These videos are great and I'm so glad they're helping so many people who need it, but I hope Steven also gets breaks cuz as good as it is to share, I can only imagine how emotionally impacting it can be to read so many comments with such heavy topics..! It's great people can share how these help, I just hope he doesn't get too overwhelmed either..!

[@PostalMaddie]

For as long as I can remember, I’ve taken on a role of being a healer. And although I always want to be there for others, I have finally reached burn out from my abusive parents, friendships which turnt sour and other such issues. I never really gave myself time to process it. I only trudged onward and let it slowly take over my thoughts like a large vine growing and suffocating my brain. If I still want to take on the world in a positive stride, I know I need to work on my healing journey first. Thank you for being apart of my healing process. The world does have good people in it, and you are one of the prime examples of bright souls. I am worthy of gentleness and so is everyone here in this safe space❤️🌕🌟🌌

[@jasondhof]

Incredible screen presence and so reassuring to listen to it is unreal. Extremely grateful for the way you say things, absolute pure therapy. The best soothing comfort.

[@ronniebull7031]

Thank you so much my friend, I struggle with mental health and getting to sleep at night and this has really helped me thank you 😊

[@Horangagenda]

The amount of work you put into your videos for us is insane, they are so incredible. I appreciate you with all my soul and you’ve made such an amazing impact in my life. I struggle to even get through the day but the thought of being able to fall asleep to your comforting videos is what gets me through. You’re literally a healing father figure for me since I grew up 90% without my parents and have suffered a lifetime of abuse (mainly from past “father figures” in my life). This comment may sound corny but I really can’t explain in words how thankful I am for all you do for us.

[@traceybuetow8993]

likewise....

[@doctorplease6136]

Steven (so ive been told), your videos absolutely work as intended, as others have stated in great detail. I dont have ptsd and im not exavtly a survivor of anything but i do have very major trust issues, was abandoned by all my old friends for a disgusting health condition and go through alot of phsycological abuse at a home i need to get out of asap. Alot of mental health issues but you really do make me feel so incredibly safe, not just physically but it protects me from very dark thoughts. Fuck if one person cared about me with this level of concern, kindness and compassion i would be just fine. So beautiful it mzkes me cry. All i can really say is thankyou, steven. Goodnight everyone ❤

[@TheUnderCoverMother2020]

Sending you a great big hug. ❤️ 🫂 ❤️ You matter.

[@blueshepard7]

You are a survivor 🙌🏽 And you definitely matter 💖

[@eskaymywiener]

Haven't slept for almost 3 days now. You really do make me and a whole bunch of people feel better. Thank you for being you!! Your smile and eyes are so calming! 😍😍

[@carleystephens8766]

shed some tears during this asmr. thank you. i did not know i needed this.

[@Bzbeez13]

Reading these comments I just want to say thank you to everyone who has opened up and shared how much Steven has helped you all!! I struggle with intimacy and trust with men and this man’s videos have been so helpful in so many different ways ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much

[@hsus7027]

This guy is really awesome! Nowadays, there is a lack of calm and comfortable asmr. I feel like I'm talking to my dad. Good luck

[@charlie1111]

Honestly perfect timing for this after my horrendous weekend. Thank you friend

[@ashleyrobson7487]

I've been extremely depressed lately and your words have helped me so much. Thank you for your amazing and kind-hearted work.

[@Sakura.Studios]

Still really new but I absolutely love the videos, they are calming and very relaxingg, thank you for the great work x

[@glasstatue]

thank you for a safe space.. i can’t talk about what i’ve gone through as, even to me, i occasionally find it unbelievable how truly and horrifically vile some humans can be.. but i felt such an intense wave of comfort from this. i appreciate it very much so in a world where comfort is scarce. i’m crawling to better days slowly so thank you for a soft spot to lay peacefully in & rest.

[@angeltingss]

I love these safe space videos! They are so comforting 😌💗

[@keithbushey8149]

I lost my mom in May. And lost a good friend on 9.16.22 Your videos help me relax and feel safe and in a better place. Thank you.

[@angelaross689]

Can we take a moment to appreciate those teasing eyes smirks... melts me everytime.

[@dianaf6333]

Agreed ! Sweet and soothing 😌

[@layniebaybie]

I discovered your videos last night and happily slept incredibly. Thank you for your sharing your healing and magnetic energy. I admire what you do and how you do it! Thank you thank you!! Makes it even better that you not only have a relaxing voice but such a beautiful view to admire as well🥹😍

[@tobeygun]

once again you have perfectly timed this with me having to try that sleep thing. have only been getting a couple of hours per night lately and it’s taking its toll. you do make it easier though, you really do, my friend. thank you!

[@mcmxcix1417]

I love how before every movement you make sure what you are doing is okay :) thank you so much for what you are doing. You are great at ASMR and great at providing a safe space. Love your content always!

[@WhiteRose717]

Wonderful job. A much needed video after a long weekend of work. Scalp massage is the most relaxing .

[@costa2984]

Thank you so much for whispering me all this goodness as I go to sleep. I never knew I enjoyed whispering so much.

[@Bumblebee-eu3gb]

you didn’t have to call out my trust issues and ptsd like that bro XD I love your videos you have such a soft and caring personality Honestly as a victim of sa and abuse these videos help so much with preventing most of my night terrors thank you so much

[@tori1649]

I wish you best. I’m trying to get through it too. It’s rough but you are strong hun. Sending nothing but love your way

[@jegnufc91]

I always feel so safe with you my friend! Thank you❤

[@AmaraTheTransFemboy]

Your voice is so soothing I keep falling asleep in just a few minutes

[@giuseppinacorrias4128]

You are one of the best ASMR artists right now. I thoroughly enjoy your thoughtful and constructive videos ❤

[@JosieAreSee]

So very overwhelmed by the world right now. Thank you for safe space to breathe.

[@beaaa_fr]

this guy has the kindest eyes i’ve ever seen

[@Dasein144]

I have severe ptsd and am in chronic emotional, spiritual, and physical pain. You were speaking directly to my soul and I understood. I was able to slip into a deep state of samadhi (loving-kindness) and release some trauma. You have a gift and you will continue your to help many. Gods work.

[@britpage1225]

I suffer from ptsd and this helped me greatly. Thank you

[@tabithamichel3305]

New follower! Just came across your channel and my goodness! There is just something captivating about you, your voice, your aura! I love it so much! 🙏 thank-you! ❤️

[@loadingtekno]

This and Latte are my favourite ones hands down. Latte was my front runner, but I am actually considering moving her to a second place… AmaZing videos, Steve. Thank you for your great work.

[@Usero92891]

Absolutely fantastic i stuggle with sleep and you are very relaxing to listen to, and your smile is magestic!

[@breannabates7310]

I have CPTSD from sexual trauma and I will say, having a SAFE male interaction, even just a video, makes a HUGE difference for me. Your content is amazing and I appreciate so much what you do.

[@christinasabauniversalmini5306]

You are the most peaceful ASMR artist I have found on youtube. That guy Tabuhan ASRM is the 2nd most peaceful guy on youtube.

[@kurimallow]

:D new person here, your tattoo caught my eye and I was like "thats cool! Wonder if he's good?" And heck you are fantastic. Layered sounds, the slow relaxing movement, your voice, its all so tingly! I'm definitely here to stay 😁👌

[@katrinchenhoppsala45]

Vor 3 Jahren ist mein Ehemann ganz plötzlich verstorben...seither ist es sehr sehr schwer für mich Schlaf zu finden. Er war mein Herzmensch mein Beschützer, Geborgenheit Wärme, Vertrauen...er war / ist meine große Liebe...deine Videos geben mir etwas Sicherheit zum entspannen, die Ruhe und gleichzeitig die Stärke die sie ausstrahlen. Danke für ihre Videos

[@pixiedust1999]

I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you find peace and happiness

[@katrinchenhoppsala45]

@@pixiedust1999 thank you 🙏🏼🌻

[@lisamb4269]

@@katrinchenhoppsala45 I'm sorry for your loss. I'd be lost without my hubby, cause I never have fallen asleep without hubby, unless he was away to work. I'd be lost without my hubby. Hugzzz

[@AshRaeK]

I can never thank you enough for this video. I have CPTSD and this helped calm me down a lot. I really needed this 💕

[@alexisharper5897]

As a person that’s been through SA too 😢 I finally feel at peace and my heart so taken care of I never knew how much these videos could help me

[@gabrielacrystal667]

You're wife will be a lucky lady to have you. You're the peace every girl needs💆🏻‍♀️💖

[@kookie610]

I really needed this today. I'm in a new and amazing Relationship but im still Scared to show him my depression episodes. My boyfriend supports me through everything but i still have to get used to actually be loved. Thanks to my previous Relationships. But i'm truely in love with my boyfriend and he makes me feel so safe.

[@lunakat7020]

Tara even though I don't know you I feel so happy for you. Just be yourself you don't need to worry about anything. He loves you for you.😊💗

[@kookie610]

@@lunakat7020 aaah thanks

[@kookie610]

@@lunakat7020 thank you truly so much

[@lunakat7020]

@@kookie610 😊

[@jasmji]

This really helped calm me down from a bad dream. Thank you.

[@paulinacichon9897]

Thank you good man i really needed this today

[@lanawest-vilhauer9110]

OMG I thought it was hilarious reading the comments before the video started about the crying and then I was crying by 3:33! you are good there is nothing to improve this is complete perfection and you look so absolutely delicious!!! Sorry I digress thanks for helping so many going threw hard days and nights 💕

[@cp606]

It feels so good to have a gentle yet strong and protective male figure to me even if I don’t know you and it’s through a screen. Thank you.

[@claudiacook619]

Just got home from the hospital after a suicide attempt. Happened across this video, and it's exactly what i needed. Feeling a little tiny bit better. Thanks ❤️

[@mackbrown5343]

Going to bed late and so happened to discover this on my birthday. Best birthday present is a new video! I always sleep best to your channel after all

[@lolazaza]

Happy birthday!

[@dianaf6333]

Your videos are just fantastic. So many comments here doing an amazing job explaining why. Thank you 😊

[@emoshoes333]

This made me cry lol. Idk if that’s normal. First time trying ASMR and found you thru the moon chick.

[@heatherandrews4634]

THIS. I appreciate you more than you'll ever know. Thank You, my friend.

[@hamishkay3010]

Ahhhhh it's so amazing to be back here again, I need to come here more and more regularly because I'm getting quite stressed out at work.

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I hope you were able to put your feet up last night my friend and enjoy your Sunday. And remember, if today turns out to be stressful you can always return to this space and escape for a little while ☺️ Have a great day Hamish my friend

[@Orchidxx]

It’s 5 am and I really should be going to sleep, so thank you for being here with me ❤️

[@kazzikubena1860]

🥺 thank you so much for this lovely video. I feel so safe and my heart is full, thank you

[@lindaeddy7144]

I 💘 love your videos. They really relax me. Thank you my friend.

[@fabianac.santos1655]

❤ this is the only male asmr video I watch. Thanks so very much 😊

[@sunshinehernandez9306]

I wish you were my dad. First time sleeping without nightmares listening to this video last night!! I hope it works again tonight. Thank you 🖤

[@jmm9581]

It’s only been 10 minutes and I’ve already bawled my eyes out twice 🫠 Trust was damaged today and I’ve been struggling to process it. Something about your genuine, caring gaze and your healing words just made me feel like it was a safe place to release my bottled emotions. I had to pause because it was overwhelming haha. Thank you 🥲

[@Tylerj-fp4bj]

I watch your videos right before bed they always help me

[@angelalong1565]

I love this ASMR with you dear friend. Please keep this going. It's a soothing way to fall asleep❤

[@lilyamongthorns3225]

I needed this so much today. Helped me sleep so so well for a couple hours. Thank you.

[@АннаИгумнова-д9и]

видео волшебное ,спасибо.

[@sanaslogy]

I love your work, I feel very good when I see your videos, you are like my best friend or my father, besides being relaxed, i love u soooo much, keep going. ♡

[@OceanGal3298]

I just love your work and your videos. They help so much. Thanks for these great videos.

[@nicki1423]

100K subscribers! Congratulations and thank you for your content.

[@amyhohman8917]

❤ absolutely love all your videos they helped me out so much. And I hope you're doing well God bless.

[@caeleehall9728]

A blank space for those that need it. I personally use a blank space to help calm my adhd brain. Less distractions, less time awake. I hope this helps! 💜

[@rocknroll.listener]

This video is FOR ME!! Thank you as always.

[@jlong0w]

Fantastic 🙂 helps me calm down after a long Day treating Patients.

[@RareWarRoses]

Wow! You read my mind!

[@beach7553]

G,day mate! Huge fan for some time now always fall asleep to ya video just wanna thank you for existing and making my life a lot easier! Love from Australia 🇦🇺 🦘

[@lakeireland]

Thank you, kind sir!

[@angelaporter7455]

❤️ thank you

[@Sailingsilk]

Single-handedly curing my depression, one video at a time, thanks 🙏🏼

[@playboycartea]

800 subs away from 100k, get it my man 🎉

[@kaelplatt]

Thank you for being a safe space 💙

[@gregoryfish766]

Thank you for all you do. I’ve experienced a lot of sexual harassment at school and male figures often frighten me, especially in close proximity whispering. But this feels safe, not exploitative or sexual in any way. Thank you very much for making your content, allowing me to trust amab people again, slowly. It really does make a difference.

[@keithbushey7002]

One of my best friends passed Friday 9.16.22, Need to relax.

[@adeferly830]

I love how this dude looks so masculine and the name is whispering gentleman

[@carinewass7795]

Thank you ☺️