Assisted living nightmare

[@lancesmith3716]

If one can afford to pay a facility four grand a month, then one can afford to hire in home care. Some of it is also negligence on the family's part, all bc they do not want to care for family members at home. It's an inconvenience.

[@lancesmith3716]

@@reginacameron3011 that's so sad.

[@americajanson8848]

You hit the nail on the head

[@lancesmith3716]

@@americajanson8848 thanks. You're pretty btw ☺️

[@americajanson8848]

@@lancesmith3716 thank you southern gentleman made my day

[@marbaradrummond746]

Some times the patient is on a ventilator and need to be in a facility and you can't take them home. And that's unfortunate but I prefer my family being at home with me. But either way they shouldn't be mistreated or neglected.

[@JR-go6ci]

There should be surveillance cameras all the time to know if anyone is being abused. Family should keep in checking their loved ones.

[@marbaradrummond746]

If you don't have the patience to care for the elderly stay out of that field. That's someone mom, dad, son, daughter, brother or sister. And you never know if you'll wind up in one of these places one day and someone abuse you. This is so sad. A disgrace, a shame. May God protect these older people.

[@annakalaveras4127]

Most of these places all they care about is money

[@marbaradrummond746]

So true

[@sheilamiller901]

I agree 100% this is a shame. God Bless them

[@teresitahammond731]

It’s not the nursing staffs fault it’s the company they don’t hire enough people they’re not looking for patient care it’s the PROFIT

[@youngnurse9994]

For $4000 a month , they could have kept him home for less then that . But some families just don't want to be bothered ! Yes , Alzheimers patients can be very hard to take care of , but you do what you have to do to make sure they are safe and well cared for . We took care of my mother for 10 years with Alzheimers. And let me tell you , she was a horrible piece of work!!!! WHEW ! But we did it until she passed . Families , take care of your loved ones at home at all costs. 🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐

[@sandrataylor8966]

4K a month will not come close to providing 24/7 care 7 days a week in the home for a mentally ill elder patient. I paid 2/3 of my check for a live in caregiver 4 days a week while I worked my professional job in 1996. I am college educated & saved my money to help her. My mother was bedridden & terminal but not mentally ill or combative. I would never have been able to provide round the clock care for my mother if she had Alzheimers.

[@jszoradi8650]

Of course the owners, CEO, President, VP directors all make huge salaries but it's too bad caregivers of these facilities make bottom minimum wage pay. No wonder there's a staffing shortage and high turnover. Who wants to break their backs working for these communities? I don't trust that owner who is being interviewed either. He lies through his teeth! 😡

[@karrysasfoot5407]

St Mary's in scs, MI had staff drinking on the clock. They were reported and still had a job. Always short staffed. Then when the state comes in the nursing home cleans and add extra staff until the state leaves.

[@maried5085]

So true, former CNA

[@missbrownskinlady23]

I don't understand why these so called nursing homes look so beautiful on the outside but on the inside the staffing and living conditions has to be so damn inhuman and a disgrace?

[@rhonda1704]

Yes your right.

[@teresitahammond731]

It always look good in the outside it’s a nightmare in the inside

[@jszoradi8650]

It's all about image.

[@aprillovesgolf7042]

Because it's a big money grab. The money doesn't go to patients. It goes to owners. I'm so sad to watch this. They don't appreciate good workers.

[@aprillovesgolf7042]

Rubin Chandok is WEALTHY off all his negligence and Medicare fraud.

[@ligbzd837]

These things happen in every nursing home. If you've tried to wipe poop and pee off of someone you will know this can be done cleanly or not so clean. It takes a long time to make it clean. But most nurses don't have the time. What happens when that area is not cleaned well for days? Think about it. This is just one example. Keep your loved one at home is the best advise.

[@nikkic83]

I would NEVER put my mother in an assisted living facility.

[@sharptoothtrex4486]

This is why I believe all retirement homes are a living nightmare for special needs people like me.

[@lolhottyandonlyonelove9384]

My mother was admitted into a nursing home after a stroke due to diabetes. She was there for 6 1/2 months and I was there everyday from 5 to 7 hours (lunch and dinner time). I did not trust the care of my beloved mother to others. People need to check more often on their loved ones, take notice and make complaints.

[@harlielynn76]

Good for you. However, everyone cnt do that.

[@someonewhoknows1000]

@lol hotter I've been there but I know things most likely happened but your mom didn't tell you bc it would make you feel bad. I never tell my kids.

[@marbaradrummond746]

When patience give these people a hard time is because they're being neglected this breaks my heart. This is so sad.

[@comptonyoung2712]

Every nursing home needs to hire advocates.....

[@mojojeinxs9960]

If someone has severe dementia they shouldn't be an assistant living they should be placed in a skilled nursing facility. Assisted living is not a medical facility it's a retirement community.

[@dylanfullmer7518]

I agree. My last job as a server at a alf, would accept clients with intense need of memory care. Most care givers were barely 19 and had little experience with elderly care let alone dementia or Alzheimer's. Some nights were violent against staff, there were no doctors, management or anyone to help the young staff. Not fair for staff or residents.

[@ScreamTatumRiley]

Exactly

[@madyguindin1650]

Its like if you get old you don't count anymore, incredible. Do those freaking people think they never get old?

[@phyllis9750]

They are animals, not the workers, the owners. It is a poor paying job to start with, then the owners make it much worse.

[@harlielynn76]

If you seen all these red signs, why did you leave your husband there. SMH

[@lindathrall5133]

Time to shut assisted living and nursing homes down for good

[@ScoobyDoo-qy3bk]

Not all assistant living/Nursing homes are bad. I work in one and plan on opening my own in 2 months. I work at a private nursing home where each patient gets the same 2 nurses everyday. We treat people like humans and we are specialized to our patient. I specifically work with a woman who has dementia and heart problems. We have never got complaints.

[@skittles3310]

I would highly recommend a camera such as a nanny cam set up, recording and with the capability of viewing in real time as well, in your loved ones rooms.

[@someonewhoknows1000]

I've wanted that but they claim no, bc of HIPAA laws. I say that's bs bc I'm paying a high price for that bed. If I allow it than HIPAA shouldn't apply. Photos and videos are done every day, such as courtrooms, police departments, doctors etc and the internet is loaded with them all. But when it comes down to 'us' protecting 'ourselves' we're told NO, not allowed 😡.

[@skittles3310]

@@someonewhoknows1000 Ya it's legal in some states and other states still have it illegal. I think we should all be trying to get our states to change the laws and allow us to record private rooms and the nursing homes should all have their own cameras installed for security. This problem is worse than anything anyone could do with the videos.

[@sharonboyd2881]

As a Caregiver I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for bringing this to the forefront. The one subject caregivers complain about is the ration of patent versus caregiver. Every state is different as they there is a minimum staff allowed per state. So for example a 100 bed facility only has per their state law on day shift 1 caregiver per 10-12 patients or more. When they recieve enough to hire more staff per state law requirements, smh. But they refuse to do so and these facilities are being built daily all over the world.

[@TedBackus]

ALL of us will likely end up in a care facility, or home, or having a nurse come to our homes at the end of our lives. the only way you dont share this experience, is if you die before it happens, so this is something , like it or not we all will face.

[@trinacox9749]

Why put your love ones in a nursing home. Keep them at home. Its too many home care places to assist families so that their love ones can keep them at home.

[@youallthinkyouknow1314]

That is so sad. As much as they charge you think they would pay more money. I guess you get what you pay for. Poor individuals that are not getting the care they deserve and need. Alot of them steal and abuse them.

[@Camberlea17]

Oh my God. Evil. These facilities are designed to provide care, for profit. Marketing bullshit. 😪🕯🙏🛡

[@helenboula3538]

town of luck the retirement centers especially if they are owned by private owner and they have a management company working for them and they're working on a sliding scale as far as your rent of those managers they will rob they will get at you a checking account they bribe you and half of the people need to be in assisted living or nursing home it is f***** up and it is heartbreaking.

[@nerinebeaumont4498]

Absolutely shocking!!!!

[@jessicabuck5089]

Liscense staff with abuse, you can't change a name, and overlook the charges , you have to go through process, - issue-

[@federicoguzman3929]

La señora amaba tanto a su marido! Y ya no tenía hijos que mantener! Si el señor estaba enfermo de alzheimer, lo menos que ella podía hacer! Es atenderlo en su propia casa qué no el contrato de casamiento dice en las buenas y en las malas? Ah pero ella lo metió a un sanatorio donde gente desconocida no lo va a tratar bien ahí la culpa es de la señora de la esposa! Qué se lavo las manos como Poncio pilatos y lo dejó morir solo en un lugar donde no lo trataba bien como un enfermo un ser humano que necesitaba con pasión y mucho amor!

[@shawnnettsabath8333]

Some one needs to look in Chico nursing home are insistent living she was neglected abused dirty smells so bad they wait till late at night go to a empty room and party I watched them bring beer in called my mom that night no one on the floor witch I knew I had a nanny camera to watch her one nurses called my mom bad names and flipped her off. I have called every one even the DA. Got my mom out last night now taking her to the hospital because her legs and feet are three time the size they did nothing. Some one needs to help the elderly 3 lady's came to me said every thing my mom said was true they asked if I could help them to I tried had to stop because they we're taking it out on my mom

[@elainediack889]

Why is there so many of our patients been mistreated the way they have been, & why haven't the homes ha sent been brought to justified

[@donnamoss7480]

Prison terms for all

[@mandyharewood886]

Such a civilized country!

[@ambereyz3]

I know these things happened. I’ve e seen them and been abused myself. Personally I was abused at a hospital locally by staff and the “babysitters” at Tri City Medical Center in Oceanside, Ca in San Diego County. Not ONE single person helped or listened to me. No one should ever go there!

[@JenniferCox-z1c]

I would love to clean the nursing homes I clean gyms I'm 27 years exsperce love what I do they should have a clean invirment

[@jessicabuck5089]

Follow the fentnyal and benozyides issues. 1000mg, think so. Heriloom price Utah, same pricing, pinnicle.

[@jszoradi8650]

🤡💩

[@MaryjaneLove]

. &&&& This exactly what happen to my client she was doing just fine when i was her home care provider .... Her daughter Erica Hubbard who acts in movie in Hollywood decided to put her mother Diana Hubbard into assisted living which was in stepmember 2023 can uu believe she died November 17th 2023 .... Them assistant living places is not good . . . 💔💔💔

[@jessicabuck5089]

Bull- they normally own more than 1

[@annacalvert2747]

My Sister in law went out and they found her frozen in the yard'when the y came to work,,

[@carmenlangland1393]

Scan your employees not hire criminal I not care she is nurse ,appearance can be deceiving, is shameful have evil monster like that they need be in jal.

[@josephinekinuthia7873]

This lady and a son cant take care of one man? Please tell us something else.

[@barbboulos7306]

Omg this is NOT RIGHT im not a trained PSW But i tell you I would never ever treat any human most of all the edlery that can not deffend themselves DISGUSTING SAD

[@barbboulos7306]

That place & PSWS everyone involved should be charged

[@jessicabuck5089]

Adult foster - wrong term, this means you watch for day care.

[@jessicabain3249]

Really?

[@darceylewis1771]

☹🙁😡😠🤬

[@manjaplanting3196]

Komt heel veel voor

[@williamsmith2023]

Sue the he'll out of them treat my family members like that I will Sue the he'll out of that place and own that place.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

So, you haven't read the hold harmless page that make you sign...