ATM #10 | Abandonment

[@CMoore8539]

Thumbs Up 👍 and shared out.❤

[@CMoore8539]

I think that most of us go through these feelings with family. We expect family to be there for us but seriously once we become adults, we’re really on our own. We make our own decisions regardless how they feel about it. We must save ourselves.🖤

[@Gr8Blue]

I agree. It's fair to not expect others to meet our own needs. Cool if they can be there somehow emotionally, but shouldn't expect that of others unless the relationship was built from that already (employer to pay after working, etc). Lol. I guess that's kinda cynical. That really is the key for me tho. Good ya found your own way ❤️‍🔥 Many prayers for LD n family!!🙏❤️

[@stephensmith1402]

Good point about when you said "no one is coming" I am struggling very bad with anxiety depression after losing my mam, it's a tough realisation when you just need someone to look after you during dark times but find the people you thought were closest to you and would be there for you just don't care

[@AddictedToMore_]

Man, I lost my mad dad but I can’t imagine losing my mom. That’s the tough one. Yeah I think we never stop having that kid in us that’s scared and needs our mom. I’m hoping I’ll meet someone and it’ll turn into that deep love for my partner, that seems to be something that helps is when I’m with someone

[@CMoore8539]

I can’t be in tight spaces either. I used to get panic attacks when I was around your age.. Most people do overcome those terrifying things.

[@Mmoose712]

Me too C Moore. I started having panic attacks in closed places and then much later had panic attacks in other situations. They're a menace. But I have to work everyday, so I take sertaline, avoid caffeine, etc and just try to make it through