Compliments And Jokes: The Balance To Flirting Without Being Creepy

[@garysanders6091]

Grab her hand and hold it for 30 seconds while staring unblinkingly her in the eyes? Got it.

[@ItsJaseShawty]

Wtf lmao

[@urosciric1014]

Gary Sanders dont forget complimenting her the whole way through and blocking her exit xD

[@santiagorich3190]

Bruh I'm fucking dying in my room reading this lmao

[@Allsmilelovee]

LMBO!!

[@kennedy8008]

Gary Sanders that’s how I met my boyfriend. He’s in a psych ward now buttttttttt

[@MukGames]

Compliment followed by a joke. Got it! "Wow, you must have fallen from heaven cause your face looks pretty messed up."

[@dalgusmaximus4557]

Lol thats a good one.

[@raneguthrie5740]

This comment is serially underliked

[@Trump-a-Tron]

underrated comment

[@dalgusmaximus4557]

I guarantee you someone's gonna steal it though. That is if it hasn't already been stolen...

[@conorm2524]

@@dalgusmaximus4557 Everything in life is stolen. Even if you made the joke up and said it to someone, your mouth stole it from your brain.

[@SlinkyJosh]

You manage to explain this stuff extremely well without any of the douche-factor that defines 99% of the men's dating advice community out there. Keep it up! There's a real niche for this!

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Thanks man!

[@cat_city2009]

It's nice to see advice on this subject not coming from rapey dudebro charlatans.

[@hofnerbass3637]

Definitely agree. I was thinking the same thing how you never sound like a douche, meanwhile almost any other dude that talks about this sorta thing sounds like a major time douchebag.

[@kaizen5023]

Exactly.

[@eudaimonistic]

Even if we push aside the douche-factor remark as hyperbole, the fact remains this video/series/channel provides clear advice designed to give people tools of perception. Rather than try to give straight answers to specific reads, this video seeks to help you read better in general. I like the notion that getting good at these things is an iterative process. That we become better at it through repetition and a genuine desire to pay attention to your surroundings.

[@Dimitrienvy]

Me flirting to a cute girl: "Sooo how long you been a girl"?

[@dixonbutts800]

That's a legitimate question nowadays... 🤷‍♂️

[@nabeel9187]

😂

[@cold_az_fire3762]

THE DOOO

[@furthers3037]

I said that once and she said “well... yesterday” bRuh i met this “GIRL” on fortnite random duos

[@hisky.]

OMG THEDOOO REFERENCE

[@samuraijack5919]

Day 1: Made eye contact with everyone at the gym Day 2: Did it again and with a smile Day 3: The 300 lb gay weightlifter won't stop calling me daddy

[@semikotyrell4166]

😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@kayhaych05]

I’m crying 😫😂

[@claduke]

I think I may or may not have accidentally hit on a gay or bi waiter at a Steak and Shake. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@jasondavidsanders4721]

WHas it WoRth it?

[@CaptainCocaine]

At least you're not calling him daddy.

[@Urban-Spaceman]

I need a video called "How to flirt when you look like Quasimodo's left bollock."

[@vyrothevirus5304]

Quasimodo's left bollock is fucking hot, I don't know what you're talking about.

[@garoad2]

Gotta look for the female equivalent of a Quasimodo. No idea what TF that would breed into though. Sounds creepy...

[@iamwhatitorture6072]

It would be a few seconds just saying no

[@cameldemilo]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@chucky116]

Ong this almost brought me to tears

[@cyber-shakta]

Imagine watching a video on how to interact with your species

[@shook_man_18]

"Yeah so this guy said I should touch you for a bit. By the way you have nice shoulders, HIGH FIVE!"

[@iamwhatitorture6072]

I guess that goes for every video on this channel

[@CJ-is9tk]

@@shook_man_18 Lmfao!

[@itchu2962]

Shit that's really depressing but true :(

[@kevina.2269]

Imagine having people to interact with

[@purevessel4506]

Me when I try to flirt with a girl "I don't like sand"

[@spalex9271]

A star wars reference!!!!

[@trampotrav4350]

It’s coarse and rough and irritating. And it gets everywhere

[@FantasticExplorers]

"Not like here" touches girl "everything here is soft" touching girl "And smooth" still touching girl "................." touching girl WAY PASS 3 SECOND!!!

[@anuragsosa]

I don't get it

[@ΑλέξηςΤσιπρας-ε2ζ]

IK CRYING

[@Julian-bq9qv]

"Hi...could you tell me if this handkerchief smells like chloroform?"

[@andreac8508]

😂

[@mskjaer496]

Haha, got me!

[@bonkemzimeli6653]

😂 😂 😂 😂 Really wasn't ready for that.

[@reiyuu3624]

I dun geddit

[@jakemf1]

Julian 3 so funny

[@reubenelijah1258]

Girl: Hi. Me: good, and you? Girl:... Me:.... Girl:.... Me: *Runs away*

[@LootFragg]

This cracked me up. I can relate.

[@johngwillim5485]

Adam Kain of player

[@Arcanyum]

I know that feel bro

[@ahmadnajwan1846]

Lol, how bout mine? Girl : Hi (smile) me : *walk away like nothing happened* girl : ummmmm.... me : (did she just say hi to me?)

[@Eenmandienooitmeerhuilt]

Ahmad Najwan hahaha and then thinking all night about what could've been

[@NovelWonder]

*”You look hot.* *...why did the chicken cross the road?”* Am I doing this right?

[@opelaurora3276]

I'd crack up

[@EliteWokiesNonEliteRichHuhlolz]

Lolz

[@internetperson3228]

I'd actually die laughing if someone did this

[@JeremJarnex]

depends on your delivery, you got the words right though

[@itchykami]

Follow up with a pirouette to show your physical prowess. You are sure to be a chick magnet.

[@dp4788_actual]

You have such amazing skin. I can't wait to try it on. 👌

[@Maid_Sate]

😂

[@thomasdaka9920]

😂

[@pulledpork_revolving_doors]

😂

[@ИванХарламычев]

Maaaaaan. That’s gold

[@itsover9008]

Then proceed to block her exit.

[@charsfm5203]

“Wow you look fantastic! I almost mistook you for a mirror!”

[@Goblin_Hands]

That's definitely a start lol. But, might not work on everyone, sadly. Damn...

[@XisoLate]

@@Goblin_Hands I don't think any one thing works with everyone.

[@jayanan.7670]

Reticulus I don’t think anyone knows what the hell you just said

[@mjc11493]

How about "wow you look fantastic I almost mistook you for an angel"

[@vop4813]

Push-pull way to flirt right there

[@real6392]

Waiting for a woman to talk to me instead of me talking to her Day 8332

[@anthonyclarkson5209]

Very underrated piece of comedy gold!

[@SonataHellsica]

i think its safe to stop waiting and find something more fun to do ;)

[@FrankE.Stein-nh2mm]

Day 10841 still waiting lol

[@sapporo1664]

20 years oof

[@edving6784]

@@sapporo1664 23*

[@AlexMarcu]

Ever thought of a TED talk? You would smash it!

[@johnvoigt67]

Alex Marcu That's so true

[@charlieball1206]

Oh yeah, he should!

[@eruditeroach7099]

That's not the only thing he'd be smashing...

[@p.stephen5032]

Alex Marcu Yes!!

[@Mira59771]

richard84623 omg 😂😂😂

[@sticky4444]

This channel makes me feel like a sociopath

[@rubyfish]

Don't we all?

[@anuragsosa]

What's a sociopath

[@bonbonpony]

@@anuragsosa A path to social life ;J

[@anuragsosa]

@@bonbonpony Oh ok

[@niladrimallik3172]

@@bonbonpony 😂😂👌🏻

[@TimeGallon]

“How NOT to be creepy.” Step 1. Make eye contact with strangers while simultaneously requesting undeserved high fives.

[@skyleonidas9270]

you finding that creepy makes you creepy

[@Amphanotes]

You finding it creepy that he finds that step creepy makes you creepy

[@jewelyJewels]

@@Amphanotes Me finding creepy makes creepy think creepy really creepily which creepily makes my creepy extra creepy. Gives me the creeps.

[@Amphanotes]

David Same bro ik the feel sorry giving you the extra creepily crepes

[@Toronjaaccess]

I'm creepy

[@Railstarfish]

Not a video title you want on your "Recommended for you" list...

[@Charismaoncommand]

Hahahaha, now I just feel bad

[@akumamakima2280]

LOL

[@navidimtiaz2838]

I have it too, dude. And barring the profile picture, I'm not very creepy, and am pretty successful with women 😂 don't worry, it just means you're interested in bettering yourself at the game of social life

[@TheFissionIsMailed]

Probably an effect from all those twerking videos we keep looking up.

[@plantar706fasciitis6]

lmfao!!!!!!!

[@oreo4cheez]

saving eye contact until marriage like God intended

[@SpooonCar]

oreo4cheez good man

[@thekifantasy]

😂😂😂

[@lanceknuth5300]

Bless

[@TheCreator1875]

Rules were made to be broken.

[@avg3487]

Same, girl defined has nothing on me

[@zhengfengmao8281]

The more I look at him, the more he's like a fine-detailed talking 3-D cgi character

[@danielb4308]

Haha yeah he looks like that

[@notfrm2006]

bro stop playing with my brain like that 😂😂he look like an 8k graphics sims

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

i thought u were flirting for a hot minute

[@notfrm2006]

MissesKitty r u flirting?

[@ashvindkumar5471]

Same bro 100 percent i felt the same

[@TurdFurgeson571]

If she touches me, do you recommend that I hiss and recoil, or no?

[@strangepigeon1711]

a friend told me that i should just let her.... but i just cant stand physical contact :v

[@1001011011010]

TurdFurgeson571 It depends entirely upon what kind of touching happens and whether or not you feel comfortable with it.

[@TurdFurgeson571]

***** Any kind of touching. Like if I ask her to pass me the salt and her thumb touches my hand a little bit.

[@strangepigeon1711]

TurdFurgeson571 wow you must really hate her or something 😂

[@1001011011010]

TurdFurgeson571 Then no, you shouldn't. Unless you really don't like her.

[@chasingmavrx6797]

I don’t think your advice worked. I grabbed a girls arm and loudly counted to 3 to ensure that i was at ultimate non-creeper capacity then high-fived her aggressively while making eye contact She ran away.

[@ДмитрийГлушко-р8ж]

Well, at least you didn't trap her

[@realspitfire]

Oh my god you made me laugh so hard I cried 😂

[@BlackAdder665]

:-DDD I'm in tears!

[@karimguled2923]

😂😂😂

[@Marti_-su2mj]

I'm ligit lmao dude 😂😂 that would so be me during flirting xdd Well at least u tried dude, n that's still something 😜😉

[@Wasitworthit12]

Step one. Smell her hair when she's not looking

[@legzfalloffgirl5148]

Oh the cringe is strong with this one!!!!😊

[@garoad2]

omfg lololol

[@phelixtp2220]

haha..)

[@berlinocelot]

Remember when she truns around make it clear that aren't a creep by shouting "I wasn't smelling your hair"

[@darklighting637]

Profile picture fits perfect with the comment 😂😂

[@Promis_QS_Panda]

I'm in my 30's. Most of this stuff in the video I've learned the hard way, through the years. Man would have been nice to have known this information back in my teens.

[@Koraxus]

I wouldn't worry a lot about this. I think even being told this my teenage mind couldn't understand the nuance back then.

[@AceVideosOfficial]

Thanks for the tips! My toes were curling the whole time because I kept thinking, "Crap, I do that!" :O

[@the_negativereview]

Well, your first problem is that you curl your toes as some sort of reflex.

[@toylo9567]

lol

[@noepanduhpandizzle2489]

The Negative Review lmao

[@entertain7us148]

aw honeyyyyy

[@colton8331]

Jack Percy Ok.

[@Jesssicaaa2412]

Follow up a compliment with a joke. "You're so pretty! JUST KIDDING!" No but honestly, solid advice :)

[@willburdbath9273]

Jessica H wouldn’t that just come off like your mean and not calling them pretty

[@woswasdenni1914]

@@willburdbath9273 that was her joke, she was actually kidding with the first 2 sentences

[@Goblin_Hands]

@@willburdbath9273 Yeah, the joke can't come off mean...or creepy...or too random...or unfunny...or too unrelated...somehow. Better get a masters in comedy.

[@WaitingForStorm]

you just ended 7 men's social life

[@johncoppola3925]

Jessica H are you watching to see how to talk to women as well or to see the psyche of men trying to speak to women?

[@utsavsharma3917]

Hello dude! Will you kindly do a video on Adolf Hitler's Charisma Breakdown?

[@mamaurax25]

Here is your trophy for this comment 🏆

[@utsavsharma3917]

He had incredible charisma, that his why all the germans followed him. I don't get your sarcasm

[@junorequiem7199]

His sarcasm is just because of the presence of the name "Adolf Hitler", it tends to bring this kind of reaction

[@Jonny_Tover]

W

[@Tom_Blue222]

Hell no don't do it I don't care if the comment is a joke,I have to make sure it doesn't happen

[@gamer63219]

“You have great hair ... too bad I like bald girls” Does this work?

[@user-we9pt4xg4j]

👍

[@VladislavDerbenev]

Did you try it yet? Cuz I definitely want to. I think it could be taken as bullying, but anyone around will have great time for sure xd

[@arb1897]

@@VladislavDerbenev bully? It seems like a good Roast

[@arb1897]

@@VladislavDerbenev don't teach comedy to me, u foo*l.

[@arb1897]

@@VladislavDerbenev i mean, he likes, he likes blad girls...... which is the bullying part?

[@diegomoreno5927]

Socializing is easy: Just right click on target, select command (Greet, hug, kiss), voila!

[@ch3ckm8]

lol it took me a while to get this sad joke

[@ishaboy5090]

Just make sure to keep your speech stat high and maybe wear Benny's suit if you're desperate, and just pick the speech checks. Or, if you want to go balls deep, get the Lady Killer perk and use it

[@ShiroHimex]

I gave her chocolate and the sister knives. She really likes knives. We went to the beach during the summer event~!

[@mytruepower2]

Mouse to the top of the screen and select the mouth icon, then click it on the person you want to talk to.

[@Borrelaas]

No wornder guys are more into video games then going after women

[@Tylerthety]

Who wouldn't be?

[@jeanieselenerhoads]

People who are interested in experiencing life irl. Life is your videogame; these videos are the cheat codes.

[@jhonatanhernandez3568]

minecraft for the win

[@Raminator243]

Because video games are much easier.

[@EonStormcrow]

than*

[@chukyuniqul]

Drunk me's less creepy than regular me. Odd.

[@zealman79]

I'm guessing angry you is the rapi version.

[@wek33]

same dude i've always had the most luck with people once i'm a few drinks in. the reduced inhibition is game changing for me.

[@FortWhenTeaThyme]

That's because alcohol makes you more confident, and confidence is less creepy than self-doubt and hesitation.

[@azh698]

Drink me is almost indistinguishable from regular me.

[@ritwikreddy5670]

Can absolutely relate. Most of the times I was flirting was while being moderately drunk.

[@morningfog532]

Me flirting, after an awkward pause: “…so, do you like stuff?”

[@humantacos9800]

I’m always surprised by how many women don’t seem to like stuff.

[@austinashworth6413]

@@humantacos9800 facts. please be interested in SOMETHING. No having a dog doesn’t count.

[@overthetip]

Bottom line: it's easier to teach a mountain lion to fetch, than to successfully flirt with a woman without being creepy.

[@overthetip]

But mountain lions love pervy wankers!

[@sexybeast7728]

because people get too obssesed with feeling that they have to apply what they have learn so they overthink everything, their every move then at the end they actually become, guess what, creppy because of incongruence. They don't act naturally, but weird.

[@sexybeast7728]

a m i feel sorry for you... i am not handsome and i barely get rejected. I am the "i don't usually date such kind of guys" guy. It's all about confidence.You will probably ask why i am here then.. well that's the problem, i know what to do and i am still eager to learn more, to see it from a different angle, improve my "game", while you are here just to tell that this doesn't work without even applying what you have learned. Because after all, this really is just a game. Attraction is essentially "chasing game". Giving positive body language then taking that positive body language away, making her feel that she doesn't have you and makes her curious about your intentions. That's literally all. i feel pitty for all of you. you don't know what you are missing.

[@sexybeast7728]

***** how many times you tried to take her over? Do you understand that only difference between good looking guy and average dumb guy like you is their stance and belief that they are good looking?

[@sexybeast7728]

creatorofdragon It's very easy.. interaction just flows when you just don't care. Be yourself, and by that i mean express yourself without giving a single fuck and you will be successful with women

[@xthugniifcent_9695]

Releases tension* Gets banned from club*

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

XThugniifcent _96 😂😂😂

[@bonzaiclown6742]

Wow. Smooth

[@kevinscott3047]

This needs more likes😂😂

[@ramvander88]

lol my guy. lol

[@anuragsosa]

What

[@koonagueroagnis8174]

Step 1: Be hot Step 2: Don't be ugly

[@7LeGeNdArYdragon8]

3. Be rich!

[@supersporkspank]

Exactly. And being rich doesn't hurt, either.

[@yousefsobhani9502]

done there

[@Evija3000]

Nop. Hot guys can easily be creepy.

[@intravena]

Elliot Rodger was rich, it didn't help him.

[@tomisinosasona]

Her: ‘takes her hand away’ Me: it’s the shirt isn’t it?... it’s the shirt right? RIGHT?

[@princerayn3054]

LMAO XD

[@izzojoseph2]

I was just thinking that “What? Wrong color shirt? Here. I can take it off. Would that help?” Forgetting I haven’t waxed and have a keg, not a six pack.”

[@joshhaney9769]

@@izzojoseph2 round is a shape!

[@izzojoseph2]

@@joshhaney9769 ~ 😂😂😂

[@MidnightCresentProductions]

​@@izzojoseph2Id like to order an angel shot please? the guy on the blue shirts acting a little agressive.

[@msh3949]

His teeth are brighter than my future.

[@cole1437]

His mouth is bigger than my social circle

[@Jollyjosh19]

his eyebrows are longer than my life expectancy

[@EMPEROR-gt7ic]

His hair are shorter than my hair WTF am saying

[@CoolVictor2002]

his hair is bigger than my uh.. (JOKE)

[@loganheupel8608]

The darkness is brighter than *my* future

[@nelsonw9483]

90% of the socially awkward viewers won't even have a chance to apply any of these knowledges lol

[@TheRealBBC22]

tru

[@edgyrants5114]

Indeed

[@roseanwoolery5512]

confirmed

[@depredador93]

Chances they have thousands and thousands. Most will just not take them.

[@olimercer835]

"have the chance"? everyone has the chance to speak to women as long as you leave the house

[@artemissunandmoon]

When a person mistreats service staff on a date, remember that they are on their best behavior. Once they are sure of you, they will treat you much worse.

[@avfeland]

So true

[@PeterAcrat]

☢️🚩🦂Narcissist. Go all-out Zero Contact asap!

[@shootingbricks8554]

Especially when not in public

[@user-vq5ff6mv4n]

@Hdiery what I mean is this website. Ai checks your first impression. free, but really powerful :) url is in my channel community

[@w_4ca]

So does this mean my “I like my women how I like my cars, topless.” line is a no go?

[@danpenia219]

I like my women how I like my deadlift, 300 pounds

[@napoleon2564]

Cheap and about to break down?

[@jacobstevens7046]

Fast and always ready for a ride

[@highounty4041]

@@danpenia219 I like my women like I like my coffee , spilt all over my lap while I’m driving

[@Geordie_]

I like my women how I like my coffee. Black and found on a street corner

[@R.P.McMurphy]

A video that's called "How to Flirt Without Being Creepy". Me: No, thanks. It's from Charisma on Command. Me: Don't do that. Don't give me hope.

[@Eris_Norregard]

Girl speaking here - what we usually like are compliments on the part of our look we can influence, like our clothes or hairdo. Speaking from my own experience, girls are usually insecure about whether the guy is actually interested in us, or whether he just thinks we are psycically attractive. So "by the way you have an interesting style, I really like that T-shirt" is better compliment than just "you are pretty". The girl cannot choose how she looks like. I mean, sure, she can loose weight or go to gym, but still those are things she can influence only to some extent. And she cannot change how her face looks like, how tall she is and so on. However, she obviously decided what clothes to wear, or how to braid her hair or whatever - so when you make compliment on that, it means you are complimenting something she already likes about herself and put certain effort in. P.S. And for God's sake, never make "compliments" about particular body parts, apart from maybe "you have beautiful eyes". No compliments on boobs, butts, hips, belly or even legs. That just makes us feel like a piece of meat.

[@jillianelise5]

@Tyler Jacobson hmmm it depends on the chick for that one

[@lj-wp3sf]

Wait so girls don't lile being complimented on the part of their look they're stuck with forever? I would imagine they'd like being reaffirmed on that.

[@Eris_Norregard]

@@lj-wp3sf Sometimes, yes, of course. But girls often don't like even the parts of their body that others think are attractive. Like, for example, the overal consensus of the society is that big breasts are attractive, but I know plenty of girls who simply HATE their big breasts. Or they have curly hair but would like to have straight hair. Even if you genuinely like that, you could unknowingly point out something the girl wishes would disappear.

[@jillianelise5]

@@lj-wp3sf most girls are very insecure, and most of my girlfriends hate it when guys point out parts of their bodies as soon as they meet them. They'd much rather be complimented on their personality or their attitude

[@jillianelise5]

@@lj-wp3sf because so many guys are just meeting with a girl to have sex, and most girls want to feel a connection before that versus just a hookup. Slow and steady wins the race

[@danieln3757]

The key is to flirt with "having fun" in mind, not to attract a girl or get laid, having an intention while flirting comes off creepy and smells from a mile away, when you have outcome independence and just flirt to have fun and actually dont give a fuck only then will you flirt honestly and attract people because of your fun attitude.

[@haZedxClanz]

Oh true

[@olgamono851]

true!

[@sisbrawny]

Nothing wrong with wanting to have sex, and thinking about it. It's kind of how life works. We all have a natural biological drive to reproduce, which is why we flirt.

[@sisbrawny]

***** You must be afraid of sex or something.. or are 12.

[@mimicarti8992]

Actually, he should be authentic. And he should also stick to the women who think the same way. Because there are a lot of women who only want to get into a guy's pants then not give a **** about him. Besides, if he resorts to camouflage and lying, he would be deceiving and manipulating girls who had other hopes. It is always better to be on the same wavelength. (even though it diminishes the pool of candidates)

[@NeerajSharma033]

This is the most lit comment section I've ever seen. Dying laughing 😂😂

[@NameZei]

69 likes

[@reubenelijah1258]

Me trying to be casual: "hi. I'm kinda nervous to talk to you, but I think I you are cool and I want to get to know you. Girl: hi! That would be great! Me: cool, and don't be weirded out if i can't talk, I'm not a good speaker. Girl: yeah, sometimes it's hard. Me: THATS WHAT SHE SAID! Girl:........ Me:......... Girl:.........

[@3munchenman]

Classic push and pull. Works like a charm!

[@felisasininus1784]

Adam Kain That escalated quickly.

[@christopherwinne5434]

XD

[@notbennotben5527]

@benjimanwoo you can't force it

[@ricky93100]

Bahahahaha!

[@majortom5299]

Women can be creepy too. Whoever is being the aggressor can have this effect. Of course, it is normally men who do the "Hunting".

[@tristbjorn]

indeed. but the fact that a man can most often remove him self from the situation skews the creepiness factor

[@Xraellium]

+tristbjorn I think men are better at hiding that they are being creeped out by a female.

[@Smokeybandit09674]

Yeah I've literally had girls ask me to have sex with them within the first few sentences. That's a little weird to me.

[@comedeyzonee2224]

Where are these magical nymphos you speak of and how is the cost of living?

[@edi9892]

If a girl asks you that, then something is WRONG! a) she wants to piss off her ex b) she wants money (possibly lure you in a trap) c) she's crazy (and not in a cute way); consider STDs or violent behaviour

[@dustinweist1605]

Communication is too complicated. I’ll just live alone. Much easier.

[@mommasboy34]

And cheaper

[@Marti_-su2mj]

Aha same bro😂😂

[@anuragsosa]

Same bro. Let's live alone together in our separate lives.

[@Pərfectchāøs]

Not to mention that by winning you lose half of all your stuff and life.

[@LagunaLeonhart]

Fantastic nugget of advice here: "Compliments build tension, humour releases tension"

[@merkab7154]

welp, wish me luck. The hot blonde two cubicles down has made 3rd eye contact and im going in... If I don't update, assume the worst.

[@mila5163]

Merkab It's been 2 weeks, are you alive?

[@merkab7154]

The hands of fate delivered my boss giving me a new project right as I typed that, so I used that as an excuse to wuss out again.

[@abderrezakghozlane4427]

@@merkab7154 it's been year what's up

[@merkab7154]

Finally asked her out but she had just got a dude herself... though we became good friends and now I'm dating one of her best friends. It seems to have worked out all in all.

[@abderrezakghozlane4427]

@@merkab7154 good! happy for you mate.

[@braindamage5652]

I just discovered your channel and wanted to thank you for the effort and all of the work that goes into making your videos! :) Keep it up.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Glad you love it, thanks!

[@brofister9682]

Charisma on Command im way to deep into the psychology thing and this channel is pretty interesting

[@crystalburnham9757]

Jukalimo nooo, that would be creepy, to flirt out of challenge, for show. Do it because you want to flirt with a particular woman. Also, I don't trust guys who work the room, so obvious.

[@laurenecoetzee5918]

Lol "You touched my arm for two Mississippis" xD

[@itsshawnpaisyall5635]

The big bang theory lol

[@Marti_-su2mj]

@@itsshawnpaisyall5635 ahahah xdd

[@Fanny-ge6ge]

Wow. As a woman, I’d never consciously thought about the "trapped" feeling, but actually, it has already happened to me a few times. The guy is cool and all, but suddenly you feel uneasy and don’t know why. Now I do.

[@140rware]

yes, and important that you see that its not actually his fault. old fashioned manners and courtesy can avoid this but it can also cause it, because most men, most decent men, have a ladies first attitude.

[@huwguyver4208]

I like to think that I have reasonable social skills but I had no idea about the "trapping" thing. Now I'm looking back like "damn, how many times did I do that and not even know?".

[@attav8]

@@140rware simps do, and simps dont win fam

[@Dixxi91]

O_M_G This is amazing! You even show that you understand WHY it works, you explain it so well. As a woman I've never been able to explain why it's creepy and makes me uncomfortable, but while listening to you explain it, I know that what you said is true! You hit it right on the head! I love that you're not teaching guys how to exploit women's insecurities but rather teach men how to not make women insecure. LOVE IT I subscribed just because I thought you deserved more than a like xD

[@Charismaoncommand]

Welcome to the channel!

[@roadkillwill2720]

Charisma on Command how do i get a girl

[@crapshoot]

Lou Bloom No they aren't, but some other dating advice places often suggest exploiting your target's VERY COMMON insecurities THAT EVERYONE HAS. That's all she meant. Greg Myers Oh? Are you implying women need strong defenses to reject someone? I wonder why that is? No-one owes another person a relationship.

[@noobsaibot7073]

Well yea to get you and others into the bed, that's the point here 🤣

[@AThickBurrito]

"there's a fine line between flirting and being creepy and that line is called being attractive"

[@popcornsprinkles8071]

You'd be surprised

[@JoaoBio]

That's what non handsome dudes tell to themselves to feel better. It's not true.

[@mattthompson1876]

said the handsome guy.

[@ashleyashleym2969]

Very true! I hear my friends constantly talk about the creepy guy who actually in reality is a sweet heart, he's just really ugly. Never heard them ever call a handsome guy ugly, in fact when a handsome guy to the majority does things that otherwise women would deem creepy they find it hot.

[@anonjay892]

Not true.

[@mouwersor]

Is there also a video like this for girls? Or do guys have to do everything?

[@mortyjames5897]

GIrls don't really need to flirt, they just look pretty and guys will go to them. It's the way it works in the animal kingdom too in most cases.

[@RareCandeh]

+Rodion Raskolnikov :-:

[@mouwersor]

***** That isn't a 'signal'.... That's called 'making casual eye-contact' or 'playing with hair', everyone can do that anytime, it's not flirting...

[@Daffmeister187]

Step 1. Be available. Step 2. See step 1.

[@mouwersor]

***** At least not being so fucking 'subtle' about it that it can be interpreted as normal human behaviour.... There is a difference between giving clear hints and just existing....

[@itzplant3196]

Ah, yes I also choose my women on how well I could beat them in a fight

[@addaelliott2651]

HAHAHAHAHHAHA

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

girl speaking here- What we usually like is anyone that plays among us and is not the imposter, be a good crewmate, do your tasks, don't fake them. Us women prefer men (and other women) to not be an imposter, imposters are bad. Don't be sus. Thats how you get us to like you.

[@itzplant3196]

@@aWERFRGT6545BGFG but what if Im red?

[@aWERFRGT6545BGFG]

@@itzplant3196 ah....pass sorry too sus

[@itzplant3196]

@@aWERFRGT6545BGFG ;_; ok

[@Funk2Funky]

1 tip to experience creepy: go to a gay bar, no, seriously, the creepy thing are not the gay people (who are more attractive, cooler and fun than you) but you can experience how a man flirts, and you can see all your mistakes being made when they are towards you.

[@CanelonVegano]

KanonXD Did you actually try that 😂😂😂

[@NuanceWithNiki]

That is actually great advice!

[@rice_frying_shrimp]

Ah, a fellow how i met your mother fan

[@andreasfinn1476]

Woah so much straight guilt in this one but great advice otherwise.

[@Trip_mania]

The problem is that it is often very annoying to gay people. When dating they struggle with an additional problem, and a major one: they don't know if the person is gay too. So in order to increase their chances they go to such places. And it can be really annoying to them if a heterosexual person goes there too and makes them waste their efforts and time without showing them immediately that he isn't gay. Making contact is as difficult for them as it is for you, and maybe you wouldn't like it if a girl was just playing with you in this way.

[@shababsbotten69]

the thumbnail creepy as hell tho

[@visnu772]

Hahaha true that.

[@frogambassador]

+

[@dany8719lol]

he has the smile of bubble boy

[@Yojimbo711]

hahaahahhhaha

[@MrMeddyman]

+Волк в костюме maybe has something to do with horror movies and being the birthplace of cinema. Not sure

[@soulswordobrigadosegostar]

This dude probably has the charisma to convince someone to explode an atomic bomb.I wouldn't trust him...

[@yashthakur9306]

Me walks up to a girl Me: Hey, What's up She: *My standards uhh!*

[@lloydkline1518]

Really, you must be a good conversation skills

[@isaacdebeila8085]

this was very helpful... not just for flirting but how to carry out meeting with people who might not quite have a trust with you

[@chevelle1]

Best advice: Stop putting females on a pedestal. Weird as it sounds, when you see an attractive female that you’re interested in and you get nervous or what not, get over the nerves and attempts to remember all these talking points by simply picturing her as a male version of herself. It works wonders.

[@bonbonpony]

Or just imagine her taking a dump :J

[@daeusuntpinza1296]

@@bonbonpony i cant sleep now

[@ecstaticpenguin768]

We're not all interested in transvestites like you are.

[@papatorr3669]

@@bonbonpony or lead by example, go ahead and take a dump

[@stress395]

@@ecstaticpenguin768 I'm terribly sorry for your internal hatred towards yourself.

[@BlackholeProbe]

pretty intresting stuff, keep up the good work.. I subscribed man

[@Charismaoncommand]

Glad to have you here, welcome aboard :-)

[@brockobama257]

honestly me too

[@John-X]

Bro, this guy has taken all of his advice from the Tao of Badass by Joshua Pellicer. JP is a genius and he has some videos on youtube if you can find them. Helped me out so much with girls. He even teaches you how to get out of "the friend zone".

[@agoogleaccount9608]

John Doe I've seen one of his videos, it was a 40 minute infomercial trying to advertise a book. absolute bs

[@felipealmeida7338]

BlackholeProbe me too

[@thereisnopandemic]

The secret is Not be ugly, I’m a hot guy, and I’ve notice no matter what I do it never comes of as creepy to women, they enjoy my presence. Then I have my buddies that are a 5 at best and most things they mimic from me women find it creepy.

[@donefinished]

Yup. Just the way it is.

[@amadeus8804]

wait, a flirting channel that respect women and gives tips that actually help and don’t make you seem like a douchebag? what a breath of fresh air.

[@conardseviar537]

fake.

[@oliverford5367]

I like this channel cos they're not about being manipulative. They describe specific techniques but it's about being authentic

[@choppymanus]

@@oliverford5367 If you have to consciously think of a specific technique... you're manipulating.

[@oliverford5367]

@@choppymanus Not many people can get it all right automatically

[@smoqueed44]

Shut up, loser.

[@LukeGibsonSS]

Step 1: Don't smile at them like this video's thumbnail

[@devilsdabs6663]

Lmao

[@nicecoat5004]

Shit! I was going to write that if it hasn't been written already! Welp, left a thums up anyways!

[@kwerty9671]

Yup, that just gives girls the scary vibes

[@purevessel4506]

I mean you can smile but not in a way like say Joker or Pennywise do. Smile like any positive person would. If you have no smile that would be weird as well

[@birchtree5884]

Idk if it was intentional, but it’s a funny one

[@pwwteoati7245]

This is how many times he said that he lives in Vegas 👇

[@GrapeSodaBrian]

Me: *goes to give a warm smile while maintaining eye contact* My mask: We don't do that here.

[@schizossiah6546]

"hi whats you're name im nervous"

[@anonimus8375]

Hi Nervous, I'm Dad.

[@amonraii7273]

Hi nervous, I'm ewwww

[@Blurns]

1. Be Handsome. 2. Be Attractive. 3. Don't Be Unattractive.

[@firstnamelastname489]

You forgot number 4. Be good looking.

[@danielplainview1]

5. Don’t be creepy

[@SB-no7nw]

Daniel Plainview Except “creepy” is subjective depending on numbers 1-3.

[@hitto8863]

Incels are ALWAYS right

[@addaelliott2651]

Be as attractive as you want, if u trap my exit u will give me the creepy vibes

[@sharifaha.najjar3452]

This is the best comment section i've ever seen lol my sides hurt from laughing

[@p.stephen5032]

Sharifah A. Najjar Want to dance?

[@ian1064]

Sharifah A. Najjar but ur islam

[@tigerdank5666]

"Trapping" is huge. I never realized it until I started dating regularly.

[@WishGR4NTed]

Ok I took Calculus 1 through 4 and that was way easier than learning how to touch a woman on the Shoulder

[@CME1124]

Grant Henderson im a math major and what the hell is calculus 4 lol differential equations?

[@LegendKiller0084]

@@CME1124 Yes

[@pursuitsoflife.6119]

@@CME1124 my calc 4 was pretty damn abstract I didn't take it yet but it's like Greene's theorem for n dimensions and general Riemann sums and stuff like that

[@theketaminekid1241]

@@CME1124 The hell is calculus period? Jkjk (not really)

[@lilyalexandra]

Female tip! Happily married now, but this is a genderless approach that used to work every time for me : 1.) Sit at bar and stare openly, but intermittently, at the person you want to attract. 2.) When they notice you staring, immediately look down and smile coyly (like you're blushing that you got caught, but not straight *embarrassed*). 3.) Observe their reaction. Do they continue to steal glances at you*, or are they indifferent? This step is everything. If they're indifferent, abort mission. They aren't interested, so let it go. If they continue to steal glances at you, proceed to step 4. (*Make sure their returned glances are curious interest, not fear-based.) 4.) Stare at them again. This time, when they look at you, smile coyly again and maintain deep eye contact for 1-3 full seconds before looking away again. Did they match your eye contact and did they smile back? If yes, proceed to step 5. 5.) Wait 5-10 minutes. If they don't approach you, it's time to approach them. If it misses, you probably mis-read step 3. No biggie. Next! Note: The reason this approach works is down to people respond well to someone paying interest in them, but not having their space invaded. The chemicals from the ego boost + respectfully paid interest makes you appear more interesting than you otherwise might. It lays the groundwork because the other person starts to consider you as a potential love interest before first contact is even made.

[@Pentix51]

good advice but i have no idea how to tell the difference with those slight cues.

[@patriot9487]

Men shouldn't look away, they should maintain eye contact and smile at her

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

@@patriot9487 Yesss, stare her down! 😂

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

@@moffe5241 Everything is creepy once You aren't her kinda prey.

[@gayfrogs6762]

@@Pentix51 you should probably talk to a psychologist then lol

[@Aeiouaaaaaaaaa]

7:27 Holy shit I thought he was going to say "the colour of my skin".

[@rustyjames1727]

🤣🤣

[@teamozOFFICIAL]

You would look excellent in Jared Leto Joker cosplay.

[@AlejandroGonzalez-wo5fk]

So true

[@imankhan1999]

ikr? he definitely looks like the joker and would kill the role as Joker hehe😀😀

[@imankhan1999]

+GermthaVicious don't know what your problem is dude

[@sexypyromaniac]

+GermthaVicious do you even know what that word means? its hardly insulting.

[@schaugutfilm6967]

+GermthaVicious Jared leto is no insult is it?

[@morisigniti]

I laughed so hard reading comments in here, I laughed and cried LOL

[@ramvander88]

me 3

[@olafthebear2327]

me 5

[@antoniosciara7322]

The key to interacting with women.... do NOT care if you are rejected, but genuinely from the bottom of your heart.

[@RedPhoenix550]

Easier said than done of the century

[@velozityzero5161]

So if a girl says hey in the school halls, do I go home and wait until tomorrow to bring my m16

[@BradenDJ]

Velozity Zero 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SpectreDM]

Negative@ Abort mission, Velozity! ABORT!

[@khairilanuar4701]

Yes

[@IXCproductions]

I actually laughed out loud at that shit xD

[@TCBYEAHCUZ]

@@BradenDJ you gals are alright, don't come to school on tuesday

[@zeroceiling]

Only for a second I read the title as: “Learn How to Fart”....and I thought hmmm...moving slightly down-market are we?

[@Marti_-su2mj]

Ahahaha lmao xdd

[@blazbohinc5735]

Do you guys realize he's been talking without cuts for the whole video? And that it was fucking great? How do you do that man, My mind is blown

[@hiddeninthesnowwe]

God I wish every guy I interacted with understood these basic things. I don't know why you "get it" when others don't, but THANK YOU!

[@tomasjeferson4287]

Men: watch videos, read books, time the seconds of eye contact and shoulder touching, calculate every word, read body language, must pick up on very subtle and subjective cues.... Women: Just be there

[@agpie9]

Hot guys have it relatively easy too. People tolerate A LOT from the very attractive.

[@brahmarahma4543]

Women do exactly the same stuff you have listed. They are just better at it naturally and don't sit around whining about the friend-zone, so most guys don't think any effort goes in. Women are more alert and observant than men ever give them credit for. They need to be when there are so many creeps lurking around.

[@dex203]

Brahma Rahma all a woman has to do is go in her Facebook inbox and pick one of the thousands guys that messaged her

[@valoriebroderick]

I watched this video out of curiosity, even though I'm a woman. :p Guys have it hard, which I guess I can't fully understand, since I'm not a guy. But women have a lot of work to do too :p Especially in trying to look nice for guys, whereas guys (according to the stereotype at least) just throw whatever on. Women looking nice for guys might sound easy, but it's so not easy. That is why there are SO many beauty tutorials on KZbin. We're all trying to figure out how to make ourselves approachable and attractive for guys. Some guys don't even know what women look like without makeup. I've even seen guys who are surprised women don't wake up looking made up. For real. Every woman is expected to be some kind of a maestro when it comes to the aesthetics of her adornment and demeanor. It's a skill, like painting. But women are expected to be great at it. Personally, I have not mastered it. But I suppose I know enough to get by. Women, like men, also have to behave in certain ways so as not to come across the wrong way to guys. You will also see a lot of books and things on how to be lady-like. There are certain ways to sit and talk and all that. It's hard all around. Dating sucks that's the bottom line :)

[@vyrothevirus5304]

+depression is for the rich From my personal experience, hot women have it easy to pick up guys. It's not that they have it easy in general -- I'm sure, at least from what other people have told me, that there are tons of creepy guys that try to pick up hot women. But, that being said, again in my personal experience, it's pretty easy to get someone to like you if you're a hot woman. As a guy I tend to easily get crushes on women just from the smallest things.

[@user-yq7ql1dv3l]

How to get a girl as guy: Follow a million imaginary rules, force yourself to slay the personal journey dragon and win he glory of confidence to just have a chance to talk to a girl, also be tall and at least semi-attractive or anything you do will be creepy. How to get a guy as a girl: You don't have to do anything, literally. Sad but true! lol

[@Zephyr.Lo-Renz]

yep, subjective height discrimination is a bitch.

[@Sean-mc4iq]

But, it's much more fun being on the end where you have to put some effort in.

[@argenus]

How to keep a guy as a girl: be nice to him. How to loose nearly any (worthy) guy as a girl: try to destroy his selfesteem. - that happens if a girl thinks, she can just do anything, literally.

[@shatterdpromiSes]

But guys do that to get the hot girls

[@argenus]

***** ... nah or, just try to be yourself and have principles for your own life. If the woman fits into it. Fine. If not and if she hinders your goals, push her away - no matter how hot she is. That is my experience and opinion now anyway. It is not worth it to run after some girls, who are not worth it and just look hot. Most of them will age and be not so hot anymore later on. And then they will recognize, that they could have had a very good person (or even had him), but treated him like shit (in the relationship or later on) or hindered his goals. It's not about, how you can manipulate her the best, to fit to you. That is my opinion. She should do something herself and not think, she can do everything. If she does not qualify for me - because she much too arrogant and wants to allow herself disrespectful behavior - please go away ;) I'm not her father, but actually want her to behave on her own and have some common sense in relationship and human interaction. I dumbed my hot girl friend for that. She was hot in my opinion - one of the most hot ones at my university and she was even modeling before - , but for me not worth it so much. I still like her, but not as a girlfriend. (And she went vegan before the relationship, which was important for me, to begin a relationship) You don't need do this and that to get the girl. And she does not need to do nothing. There needs to be a connection, that can be build up, which is something both need to do. But too many woman are much too arrogant and look out for materialistic gains or for the position someone has in society. --> All of them are selected out for me before even a relationship starts ;) Men should actually do this all, instead of running after them for no reason at all. This would change that arrogance. At least I can be asexual, if I want to xD - don't need to care that much. But sure, it is nice to have a girlfriend, but she should be right for me xD I think that is important. I rather think about it now, were DO I FIND the right one for me, how should she be, and which kind of life did girls like that went through (because of their decision). And I found some answers, and that is were I try to look next (and other groups, I may test out).

[@MunchinOnDew]

How would I, an attack helicopter, flirt without being creepy?

[@martiansoldier]

Your impressive guns might be intimidating, Perhaps if you drop your payload before engaging?

[@rvam.3378]

These comments are just. .... GOLD

[@maxaks2594]

I suggest trying to keep your rotors in check as many females find a helicopter massive blades a real turnoff. Also, taking your gun out will almost always make a conversation awkward so I suggest to be as liberal as possible with your gun.

[@mattarnold198]

Don't approach whilst flying low: the only thing you'll pull is the ejection handle.

[@ConceptHut]

Don't have the armory and blades deployed when on approach. Might seem like you are trying to be too cocky.

[@Bitter_Beauty_Music]

As a girl, I'd like to note that blatant compliments like "you're hot" or something that compliments parts of me that aren't my face come off as really creepy. I suggest the word beautiful over hot and things that suggest I have good style or humor.

[@ShawnRavenfire]

I was a scrawny kid, so I got picked on a lot, so I actually can relate to the "trapped" feeling. Even though I've put on some pounds, I still don't feel right unless I have an escape route.

[@admontblanc]

I only feel trapped if the mood feels wrong.

[@firepitch5113]

Montblanc I used to feel trapped in highschool where I had bad anxiety and I would sit in class and some guy would just make jokes about me with his freinds and then everyone would just stare at me to see what I’m going to do,I hated it so much 😂

[@Samsonsamurai]

Doesn't like the color of your shirt What is she racist?

[@strangepigeon1711]

a shirt racist.. all girls are they're really weird creatures ya know

[@jeremymaxwell4469]

Brandon Willis Brilliant!

[@Wasitworthit12]

Brandon Willis LMFAO

[@AnnemieM]

What is if she had balls ?

[@leblancrose9187]

Nah their a feminist and accuse you of racism because of your shirt instead.

[@samael1981]

How to flirt without being creepy: Be good looking.

[@dat2ra]

And look rich.

[@NewTears1]

How to flirt without being creepy Step 1: Be attractive

[@Straga_Severa]

Step 2: Don't be unattractive.

[@defallko3905]

@@Straga_Severa step 3: be good looking

[@Berry_84]

@@defallko3905 step 4: be all of the above

[@TheRealMarlinStudios]

@@Berry_84 step 5: repeat

[@Thoralmir]

Can you believe that some feminists want to change the law so that if "ugly" men flirt with them, it's treated as sexual assault?

[@BrandonBate]

Awesome, awesome stuff. Keep up the good work friend. The fact that you do these videos in one seamless take--no stumbling over your words or rushing your sentences--it is really impressive. Let us know when your Ted Talk will be aired =)

[@Charismaoncommand]

Thanks! :D

[@brandonknable7890]

Charisma on Command dude your doing a Ted Talk?!

[@forevervoid5596]

I think I should stop reading the comments and focus on the video before I get any bad ideas. EDIT: I failed.

[@punanipundeh4873]

Hey! That's pretty good!

[@punanipundeh4873]

oops wrong channel

[@Tistopeoos]

Hey, that's mildly adequate.

[@lightinyourface6847]

ples log off de ethernet

[@Endermore]

Hey, that’s mildly adequate!

[@deadmercy3113]

Every single time I used to get complimented, I would feel super overwhelmed. If your a huge loner or if you're bullied, this is a huge issue, it always makes you feel like they have ulterior motives, even if you are a man like me, because, in your own thinking, why else would they compliment you. I'm not this bad anymore, because I've made an amazing group of friends, but I do still sometimes get the same feeling every now and then.

[@mattwaza4839]

i am too ugly for this, whenever i flirt its received as harassment

[@jamescowell4750]

You guys are getting so far! Happy to see this channel growing

[@Charismaoncommand]

Will definitely keep going :-)

[@shatterdpromiSes]

No tips for girls.... oh ok. I guess I'll go back to those makeup tutorial videos trying to make myself look hot.

[@ag5396]

Couldn't have said it better myself

[@josh18230]

Rimi N Look hot but also show availability to men you're interested in with eye contact, touching, and laughing at his jokes.

[@yPGzRicardo]

He's said before it's hard for him to give these kinds of tips for women because he speaks from experience. If I were you I'd stick to the "gender neutral" videos and try to fill the gaps with your personal experience. I'm in the same position as him, so I don't think I can be much help.

[@GoPhukYourself]

Not unless she happens to be a land whale...or busted in the face

[@ag5396]

Josh Hunter So act fake and impressed? thanks ill try it

[@Ayoosi]

It's so true, the secret to flirting is to genuinely have fun. Enjoy flirting with no expectations, it becomes cheeky instead of creepy. And often it draws people in, it's a little indirect compliment without asking for reciprocation that makes someone feel better about themselves and thus, about you.

[@rayflyers]

Advice from a lesbian: don't just tell a girl that she's pretty; tell her that she's really talented with makeup or has a good taste in style. You've turned a superficial compliment into a compliment about her actual hard work and ability. Doing winged eyeliner is hard, and I get a great reaction from other girls when I compliment their eyeliner skills.

[@danielnosuke]

"Hi lady, I like your eyeliner skills." Um, not sure that any guy should know anything about eyeliner or give compliments about it.

[@legzfalloffgirl5148]

Complimenting style is always a good place to start

[@Darkworldxl]

Daniel Morgan I think it has to do more with the method rather than the example.

[@calisquid7847]

There’s a reason why you’re lesbian

[@aradda555]

Agreed

[@thaylamay3531]

As a woman, I'm really glad you mentioned the trapping thing. It never occurred to me but yeah, that sort of thing is very uncomfortable and threatening and I'm happy that you are informing men of this!

[@MasterLee2011]

Or you could get over it.

[@TheSwedishHistorian]

@@MasterLee2011 technically everyone could behave like me, but this channel is for improving our social skills

[@Grievance_Studies_Affair_2018]

And leftists/feminists keep telling us how gender stereotypes are a bad thing :]

[@George.Andrews.]

I am a large male, and I hate the trapping thing.

[@andrebaxter4023]

@@MasterLee2011 , arguing against female nature isn't going to get you anywhere with them.