AUTISM DIAGNOSIS | 2 Years Old

We received the results of Jacob's diagnostic assessment. This video conveys a very vulnerable side of us. We describe our feelings as best we can to create awareness and support others who are in similar situations.
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[@marthaball8029]

When friends/family tell you, "Oh he'll talk when he's ready" or "He's just overly tired", please understand that they are just trying to help in their own ways. It's not meant to deceive you. Your Jacob is a beautiful child and with the two of you as his parents makes you all blessed!

[@marthaball8029]

@@chriswhite7323 thanks Chris! My almost 2 year old granddaughter has been showing signs of Autism in the last 2 mos. and at first I was saying the same thing because I couldn't wrap my head around the idea and didn't want to scare my daughter. Her friends were saying the same thing. There is nothing I wouldn't do for a child. They are all children of God and need our love and protection. I can't speak for dads; but once you become a mother you never retire!

[@AimeeLeighx]

I wish I could give you a hug. Just remember he is still your beautiful child and he will achieve great things in his amazing life ♥️

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much Aimee!! He is definitely the same amazing little guy that walked into that assessment

[@pickme6200]

I have 2 grandkids with this disability. I know it in my heart. Their parents are in denial. I myself as the grandmother am trying to learn different ways to deal with the melt downs. I don't know what level the boys are at this point. I have started taking the three year old to speech therapy. I will keep you posted. Thank you for talking about this topic.

[@flaca1620]

My son was diagnosed on June 6 @ 2 years You guys are not alone in this journey. You guys are amazing parents!! Sending you lots of hugs from California!

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much! this means the world to know we have support from other parents in the same situation!

[@mradhikarithereviewer6480]

What signs and symptoms did your son show at 24 months? Very curious to know.

[@jenniferpudder5731]

My daughter is 15 months and I’ve known for a while that something isn’t right. I have to wait a year for an evaluation for autism. But I’ve done my research and I’m struggling. I’m a single mom with no help and no support and I’m really struggling. Your videos have helped me, so thank you.

[@lifewithlochy5339]

I am so glad you posted this and are such strong advocates for Jacob! He will do amazing things, even if it’s in his own way ❤️ My son is also ASD level 3, he is 7 now has come such a long way but also a long way to go. It’s amazing to see how much you have started to understand Jacob’s diagnosis already. Early intervention is the best thing for him right now, and lots of love of course ☺️

[@aussieautismfamily]

Aw thank you so much for this comment! I'm so happy to hear your journey as a family has been amazing! Your son must have an amazing family and mama!!!

[@RachelleGlendon]

Awww Jess, you guys are such amazing parents, he is so lucky and will totally thrive with your love xoxo

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much Rachelle

[@sarahstevens6897]

Just want to say you are such a beautiful mother and I really admire the way you are towards your children. You have such a calm and loving demeanour. You inspire me to be the best mother I can be, iv'e seen your recent video of Jacob talking which is so exciting! This video made me cry! I have a 1 year old who is undiagnosed at this stage but my mum instincts keep me wondering if there is something unique about him xx

[@lianalarsen]

Your baby reminds me of my baby. I have him in early intervention and we are working on transitioning him into preschool. We have an evaluation set for February. I have 2 older kids who were both diagnosed with Autism so this will be my 3rd. Hang in there and hang onto all the precious moments!

[@moneylinda]

Hello there , I just now came across your page. You are such a wonderful person. I am so glad I have came across you page. I have a 8 year son that has autism. He was diagnosed at 2 as well. It is good to know that I can see other mothers that have a child with autism and know that i am not alone because I am the only one in my family with a child that has autism and they really don't understand the situation because my son did talk at the age of 2. But he is talking at some point. It hurts because people look at me and ask why does he talk like that... I would just leave and cry but I now found a page where i am inspired to go to and know that they understand and know that is hard but everything will be alright and just to keep moving forward not backwards.....

[@eleftheriatagouli6148]

You are such a brave mother...!!!

[@UnapologeticLetty]

I havent finished watching yet, but i had to comment. I cried with you. You are not too emotional, is just hurts to see a child be labelled, specially a disability. Jacob is gorgeous, and he has you both as support. He will be a star!

[@aussieautismfamily]

Aw

[@WRCorner]

My daughter has her evaluation next week and the closer it gets the more anxious I get. You guys are amazing parents and Jacob is awesomely beautiful little guy who will those people on the forums wrong in so many ways.

[@annville6031]

Thank-you for sharing your story. My daughter was diagnosed today with level 3 I've been on youtube all day deep breaths 🥲

[@hayleybrandon5490]

You are so strong to be able to share this with all of us. I can only imagine how shocked that you are from hearing that. 2 years ago my nephew was diagnosed with autism 3 as well. And I know how hard it was for my sister & brother in law. They now have him going school to help him. I wish you guys the best with this and know that your doing the best job as a mummy xx

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much Hayley, your support means the world to our family! It sounds like your nephew is getting all the love and support now I'm so glad!

[@BettyMccormack-hr5hg]

I have a granddaughter who I noticed wowldent make eye contact because my first granson was diga osed wit adhd so noticed some signed dident want to alarm my daughter in law my son saw signs her dad wit coved she missed out on a baby nurse coming to check on her develomt they say she has develoumpt of two year old she is three an sixmunts still in napies she not ready yet she is trying to put sentis to get her she can words of a song no probile a happy birthday grandad can't get to see speach peripts too year wating list or opt please please do something for those children an theirr parents they all worref for their child they need to now if their child needs a special school or main stream it's hart breaking please please get them the the help they need two years is two long for those children they need help now

[@chrisprzibilla4181]

Best wishes to your family. Jacob is blessed to have such dear parents who love him so much and will do everything they can to help him, and his sister. You are a great couple and doing a good job as parents.

[@TheKirraneFamilyDiaries]

I have no doubt Jacob will thrive with two such amazing parents ❤️ you can see how absolutely happy he is with the love and support you are giving him ❤️ Your mummy gut is always right, glad you have an answer now ❤️ big hugs guys xxx

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much

[@privatedataminer2702]

You are such a loving mother and Jacob is a beautiful child. You will make the best of this. God Bless you on the journey

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much!!! This message means more than you know!

[@tmb3230]

Loved how raw this was. Sending hugs your way jess x

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much lovely!!

[@avalonbenoit]

Thank you so much for sharing, I’m still on a waitlist for my two year old daughter’s assessment and all the emotions are so real.

[@aussieautismfamily]

You are amazing and will get through 💛💛 message me on Instagram if you ever have any questions

[@sylwiaochucka397]

The first thing you can start with is diet gluten caseine lactoze and sugar free Then tests and supplements to support his brain Keep my fingers crossed ❤

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you :)

[@malouaquino4312]

Jacobs is so lucky to have a mom and dad like you..god bless both of u

[@michellejason7961]

Oh darling! My grandchild has high level severe autism. He hated therapy. The heart of gold is the most important; it’s everything in reality.

[@michellejason7961]

Out children with autism are pure beautiful souls

[@michellejason7961]

There are cards you can get to hand out to people that explain your child is not being naughty but has sensory difficulties

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Naw. You know where I am if I can help and so glad you found comfort in my words. I meant it. You guys are perfect for him. He will thrive. Keep on keeping on. I find that the hardest thing is the perception folks have on behaviours. They think because he looks “normal” and sounds “normal” then he is just misbehaving. It’s a constant battle for me to know when to accept a behaviour for an expression of “the world is too much mum” to “I just want my own way”. Early intervention will help Jacob (and you guys) so much. X M

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much for this comment Mel and your support when we found out! I have definitely felt the eyes on me when I don't discipline Jacob for what they view as 'bad behaviour'. But I am going to keep strong and do what's best for him

[@kr6604]

My son just saw a pediatrician this morning who says she’s very certain he has the highest level of autism, we have to still do the whole assessment process of course but she’s certain that he does. I think i’ve cried 3 times since finding out because a part of me always thought “ nah it’s just in my head” but to hear the doctor say those words out loud, i just broke

[@theccwdad]

Your other video early signs is like watching my 2 year old son. Love and strength from California ❤

[@sixfootben4892]

I cried with you. You guys are such wonderful parents ❤ 💕.

[@skymeadow7762]

He has gifts we do not understand, we are the problem, not Autism, we need to all live in the Now. I love you guys so much 🥰

[@OzieeMate]

Really understand your feelings! Our 2.5 yrs old ..diagnosed with level 3 Autism today on 12th May 2021. One of the toughest and upsetting day of our life. Made really sad that he had the really rough start of the life ..born with the complex heart issue..had 2 complex open heart surgeries. Now we heard Autism diagnoses ..really make us sad and stressed

[@lindseygundersen3951]

My son also has a complex heart defect and has had 2 heart surgeries and we suspect autism but he’s only 16 months old. He makes no sounds at all.

[@jessicaholmes7741]

We just started the process for our daughter who is nearly 16 months old. It has been overwhelming for both of us. Got referred to so many different things and they said here in the UK it will take about year due to normal waiting times and covid. Surprise surprise lol. Watching your videos are helping for me to get my head round it.

[@nickanderson3440]

Thanks for posting. Would love to hear how Jacob is doing years later. My 2 year old was just diagnosed. Thank you!

[@aussieautismfamily]

we have lots of recent update videos :)

[@SimplyMel]

I have no doubt that Jacob has a wonderful life to look forward to with you both as his loving parents 💗💗💗

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much Mel!

[@theccwdad]

Were very early in getting assistance from early intervention specialists. We need to see a childhood psychologist asap.

[@rebekahjones2640]

He will achieve amazing things and without a doubt, he'll make you proud no matter what. He's beautiful. I work with children with autism and it's an incredible job. 🥰

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you!! I have no doubt he will , thank you for your comment

[@thatVEGANmama]

You guys are so so strong ♡ He is so so loved and has so much support. I send all my love to you both. There is alot of support out there for this. Parenting is hard but you are so right Jacob is going to do amazing things ♡ We love you all xx

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much

[@lavender1298]

Jacob is blessed to have you as his parents. He will be alright very soon

[@aussieautismfamily]

Ayushi! You are the sweetest, thank you so much :)

[@bextrinder8764]

We had it confirmed that our 3 yr old daughter has autism. But no level was mentioned. I wondered if this is an Aussie dr’s thing? My daughter is beautiful and funny and affectionate. We already had help to connect with her through speech & language therapy. This really helped us all connect. Look up the Sparks method. I always knew my baby girl was unique and brilliant. This won’t change how we look at her (she is our princess) and we love her to the moon and back

[@karaotter1535]

You guys rock! Jacob is going to do amazing things I feel blessed to call I my family

[@aussieautismfamily]

you rock!

[@daynab7100]

Absolutely beautiful video, you are both doing amazing jobs!

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much lovely !!!

[@lizebotha8783]

I don't have autism but I do also have sensory issues and other challenges being a Highly Sensitive person, so I understand what it must be like for Jacob

[@Poysolom]

God bless and stay strong for jacob❤❤

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much

[@paramjitbajwa5068]

You are really a wonderful personality...My daughter will b 3 in june 2021..i m on waitlist for her diagnose but i know sumwer she is having some signs of autism...even i cried a lot while watching ur video..i just came around ur page..thnkew so much sweetheart fir this video...its really helpful🙂

[@aussieautismfamily]

Aw you are so lovely thank you Paramjit :) Goodluck with your journey, here if you ever need to ask questions! Thank you for subscribing and joining our community

[@paramjitbajwa5068]

Thankew so much..ur really down to earth...I m glad dat i found u...thnkew🙂🙂

[@jillytronreallysucks]

I just found your vlog by chance, my daughter was just diagnosed July 11th of this year.. she's 2 1/2 years old. I know all these feelings you guys talk about .. it's been a hard few months .. I am hear to talk to if you need .. you guys are not alone ! My daughter has already made progress with things in a few months of therapy and she just started pre school and she's happy as can be. I also have a 10 month old son .. so it's busy! I get the struggle!!! I've heard it all. Sending your family lots of love and light ! It will be alright, not that it will be easy but you have eachother and the love for your boy. Love from Calgary , Alberta . Canada !

[@aussieautismfamily]

Oh wow our kids are around the same age! Thank you so much for watching and giving me your support! I honestly am so grateful to you, it means so much that you offer your support whilst also being in the same situation. If you ever need a chat also please contact me!

[@melc3122]

Love all four of you like there is no tomorrow xxx

[@aussieautismfamily]

We love you !!!

[@LunnaJannah]

Omg babe. He sounds so much like my boy and he's three. His taking is so behind. He's very smart tho! The squeeling, the wheel thing. Where do u recommend I take him? Or what kind of doctor? When u said trust ur gut feeling. I just knew!

[@sandrasig9085]

God bless your beautiful family❤❤❤ kisses from Argentina.

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you! You too!

[@sally-annebrown1298]

Hi. My 2 and a half year old is showing many of Jacobs signs, but as far as Dr is concerned he hasnt got ASD, its to do with his hearing?? Doesnt explain that 3 second, many times a day squeal, neither singular word 'mum' echoing. ?? Going ro check in with the health nurse next week and also going to try with a peadiatrician. Also going ro document everything through video and photo.

[@antipyramidal8526]

You're very courageous parents, I'm in the same situation as you, my son is in his own world but I will not give up with God's help I will do my best, I encourage you to do the son rise program

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much Anti ❤❤

[@richiemcconnochie2506]

Try.kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKWxnKKNr713Z5Y

[@fryebaby623]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Dad and I have the same gut feeling about our 2 year old. We are going for OT evaluation next month and hope to be able to get a neurological evaluation in the next few months. We really appreciate your truth and our resonators so deeply with us.

[@jabber2040]

Hi there Jess, I'm, Benison the mother of Matthew, boyfriend of Natalie Abreu, who forwarded me your video. We have an 18 year old, Sam, with ASD Level 2. Jacob is absolutely gorgeous and reminds me very much of Sam at the same age! My book 'The Complete Autism Handbook' (formerly 'The Australian Autism Handbook') was designed for parents just like you and your husband, in the emotional time straight after diagnosis. It's a tiny bit out of date with respect to the NDIS but most of the information is still relevant today and its contributors are parents of children with autism, who know exactly what you're going through right now. No need to buy a copy as you can probably pick it up at your local library. The Raising Children autism website, Autism Awareness Australia website are also excellent. Keep the faith and Jacob will do well. He has committed loving parents and that's the best asset he could ever have. You can see Sam at 14 on an Australian Story episode from July 2017, called My Son Sam, which is also available on KZbin. x.

[@aussieautismfamily]

Hello! I will definitely go to my local library and look for your book! That's amazing that you have written a resource for parents in my situation! You are an amazing mother and I can't wait to check out the Australian story episode!!!

[@aussieautismfamily]

I just watched the Australian story! my parents actually watched this story and told me to watch it a while ago. I found it so fascinating! I would love for a new intervention to be developed upon taking children out of their comfort zone and exposing them to change! How is he going now?

[@jabber2040]

@@aussieautismfamily Thanks Jess and all the best!

[@jabber2040]

@@aussieautismfamily He's doing well. Just about to finish school, which is scary! He attended a mainstream high school with aide support and that worked well for him. We've just come back from a trip to Japan, which was quite different to Africa!

[@jackieattwood4159]

You keep posting your doing a grand job you stay stong.xxxx🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much for your kind comment! Your positive comment rises so far above the negative ones, thank you!

[@ckfamilyvlogs7769]

Oh Jess! Loved that you shared this and are open in your emotions! You guys are amazing parents and are doing the very best for him. And hopefully starting some therapy early on will be so beneficial for him! Jacob is such a beautiful boy and he’s going to do amazing things in this world!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much Christal!!! He will do so many amazing things

[@rhiannonjones9938]

What a blessed precious boy you have to have the parents he has. Very raw and real upload which I’m thankful for you for sharing. Sending strength for the journey ahead x

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you so much

[@leestewart72]

His eye contact is strong. From what I understand, avoiding eye contact is a major sign of autism. Is his case mild?

[@aussieautismfamily]

not necessarily

[@jen10272001]

Don't focus on the level. It will change with therapy and just regular development. The levels correspond to the amount of support the child needs at this moment which at age 2 with or without autism is a high level since most toddlers can't do much on their own. My son at 27mo was level 3 but at age 5yo hes level 1 after intensive therapy. Please don't let the level break your heart. Its not set. It can change.

[@iamJAYTKAY]

Thank u so much

[@hayleyj.]

July 2nd is my Micah’s birthday. 💙 My sweet friend... I wish I could hug you. I feel all the things you are saying with such resignation! I’ve been right in your shoes. Please know you can talk to me at ANY TIME. Mamas like us have to stick together to fight for our kiddos and to help their strengths shine in this life. You are so so strong and the BEST mama for your Jacob. 💙 Your right... Jacob will accomplish HUGE things in life! Given the right tools he will be capable of more than anything we realize!

[@aussieautismfamily]

Aw I hope Micah had an amazing birthday!! Thank you so much for all your support and love, reaching out to you was so valuable and I hope you know you can contact me anytime as well!

[@tanzeelaamin9631]

Hi mama.. I am the mother of 2 years old girl. .i am noticing some signs of autism .. everyone around me is in denial. Kindly help id you can..i wanna my daughter get assessed ASAP. What should i do? Whom should i visit. I am heartbroken..i have this feeling my girl won't be able to learn anything. She will always be dependent on me..i will not be able to teach her good or bad.. Is there any way i can contact you.. Regards Worried mother

[@AuzomeLives]

I am going through same now..i am in ur position..and cant control...😪😪

[@hassanfawaz3523]

Hi guys my son is two years and a half and he has all of the major signs and we would like to talk to you in anyway maybe you can help us in our struggle and it's beautiful and brave what you are doing ,all the support to you the guys

[@aussieautismfamily]

Message me on instagram lovely!! Link is in the description of our video

[@aussieautismfamily]

I would love to chat to you

[@jeannieelledge1105]

Sending hugs your way

[@jaylynnchattams5794]

Hey my daughter is currently two and I too believe she may have autism but the doctors hasn’t been much help and I don’t know how to go about getting her tested.

[@aussieautismfamily]

go see your gp first and they will be able to help you! Cant wait to chat with you more, would love for you to subscribe!

[@SaamMcKenzie]

I love you guys so much. 💕

[@aussieautismfamily]

We love you

[@aminsandira]

How do I get my daughter to recognize that my grand child has several of the signs of Autism and get her an evaluation? I've mentioned it several times but she has an excuse for the behavior.

[@aussieautismfamily]

Unfortunately theres only so much you can do. She will have to figure it out herself, you can keep pointing the signs out and im sure the doctors will make recommendations as well.

[@arzunsaputra8608]

aku hanya melihtnya senang dengan aktifitasnya, dia suka bermain , ku pikir itu normal mungkin dia sedang di fase aktif. aku hanya pastikan dia tidak dalam bahaya. jadi yang kulihat dia bahagia , dia ceria , dia aktif. dan ku pikir itu bagus aku pikir mungkin suatu hari nanti aku akan melihatnya tidak seaktif sekarang dan aku pasti akan merindukannya.

[@rahelarosca154]

Please, tell as if from babyborn you notice The sign of autism,?or,at What age you began to notice that he has autism? Please answer🙏🙏🙏you have a beautyfull boy and a great family, God bless you all🙌

[@rubiluv21]

Thank you for your video.

[@aussieautismfamily]

Thank you for watching!!

[@susy7663]

We use GREGORIO PLACERES, S METOD

[@sharmilakhadka8032]

I am crying as well i fear my boy is the same

[@aussieautismfamily]

it is an emotional time, however you will pull through! :) Cant wait to chat with you more, would love for you to subscribe!

[@ceciliayburget6362]

Me too I burst into tears when I saw this video. My baby girl is having some signes of autiism but she is only 11 months' old. My husband is doubting my observation and said that I was just being a psychopath...I feel so alone. But my daughter was really having those signs non-stop. I'm so worrying... about her future.... Than you so much for your video. You are absolutely an amazing mom. ❤️ And Jacob is such a happy and intelligent boy. Hugs

[@IbetaTestedYourGirl]

I dont understand. He looks perfectly fine at the start of the video. Good eye contact , playful ..

[@aussieautismfamily]

This footage shows 1 minute of him, there are things you dont see.

[@christinetomasinski5553]

You are AMAZING 💞

[@aussieautismfamily]

aw thank you so much, so are you! Would love for you to subscribe to watch our journey

[@danielateitelbaum2810]

I’m seeing my self exactly a year ago when my son was diagnosed. don’t mind the levels.. they are not accurate. Actually here in California they didn’t give any level yet..

[@richiemcconnochie2506]

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[@marialili639]

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[@aussieautismfamily]

[@marialili639]

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[@jattikaur1214]

My son is autsim i want too speak with you if you don't mind any content too ring you.

[@marialili639]

Check " neuroprotek" 👍

[@aussieautismfamily]

Whats that??

[@julioromero8768]

bueno entiendo perfectamente por lo que estas pasando ,.investiga el protocolo Nemechek .vaz a entender como puede ayudar a tu bebe hermozo ---haz dieta libre de gluten ,caseina y azucar .

[@aussieautismfamily]

English?

[@patcat2507]

@@aussieautismfamily Looks like the person tried to tell you about Protocol Nemechek.Please,if you have still never have heard before about, first read his book "Protocol Nemechek".Also this doctor has videos on ytube and on a Facebook you can find the page with parents discussing and commenting who already put and tried protocol on their kids with delays and autism.What is obvious, if it won't help it wont hurt but worth to try it.And as I see the person also mentioned in comment,gluten free and lactose casein free diet for kids with problems like these.All should work in a complexion diet gluten free,ABA,OT,Speech Therapy,PT and protocol.Guys,really check and read the book and videos of this Dr.Kids with autism first of all have big problems with their licking gut which after all creating all their issues with behavior, speech, etc.

[@seksyO]

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[@aussieautismfamily]

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