Autism Bedtime Routines

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@mxsant
@mxsant Жыл бұрын
I am deaf autistic adult person. In 1970's and 1980's which is never hear word "Autism" at this time. I have difficult to get sleep. When staff (I was at school's dorm) commanded me to get sleep, I went to bed. I lied down on the bed, but I cannot close my eyes. I was thinking weird stories for between 30 minutes to 2 hours before I can close my eyes and sleep.
@Julia-ln5og
@Julia-ln5og Жыл бұрын
I'm the same, I'm not deaf but I have autism and also ADHD, I HAVE to imagine a story in my head before I can sleep
@Pinkkermit17
@Pinkkermit17 Жыл бұрын
I am the same way, I am not deaf or autistic but I do not sleep well and often just stay up thinking of work, or making up stories to try to get myself to sleep. I often only sleep 3-5 hours at night at most.
@juk748
@juk748 Жыл бұрын
I have autism and I can't sleep without noise
@elizaali1389
@elizaali1389 Жыл бұрын
Same I am always forced to fall asleep when I can’t, everything you just said is true
@notjonzheng2599
@notjonzheng2599 Жыл бұрын
Same I’m autistic with autism
@catiehays3361
@catiehays3361 Жыл бұрын
I just love seeing Ian & I enjoy when he talks about his hobbies. He's really matured so much...
@Karina_F_7878
@Karina_F_7878 Жыл бұрын
He's very polite
@cozcalconcozcalcon7802
@cozcalconcozcalcon7802 Жыл бұрын
I like how each boy has their own bed time routine. The two younger boys have a really neat night light. I am 51 and I was diagnosed with autism very young and I still have to sleep with a night light. Plus I turn my TV timer on so it becomes my white noise. I can't sleep in complete silence. It is hard when you're routine changes even a little without any notice.
@afollowersfight5266
@afollowersfight5266 Жыл бұрын
Some things that I have found helpful (not in any specific order) 1. Weighted Blankets 2. Heated Blankets 3. Fleece Bedding (sheets, pillow cases, and blankets) 4. Weighted Eye Masks 5. Soft Music or White Noise 6. Ugg Pillows 7. Ear Plugs or Noise Cancelling Headphones (this means your alarm will have to be louder, though) 8. Heated Stuffies (are often heated via microwave) 9. Weighted Stuffies 10. Consistency with Bedding (bringing my usual bedding on trips even if bedding is provided)
@LilyRose_Tiger
@LilyRose_Tiger 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ This is the best comment ever Thank you SOOO much it helps me❤❤❤ Goodnight! 😴🌜
@pinkwinterprincessEri
@pinkwinterprincessEri Жыл бұрын
I love,Ian's routine of being consistent with reminding you guys with reading mature / anvanced books to him every night and being consistent with his morning routine automatically without mom or dad I relate to Ian and Alistair loving their stuffed animals and I especially relate to conner needing white noise at night because I currently live in a place with 5 other people so it gets pretty irritating whenever there's talking to one's self in the next room or even whenever tantrums or screaming \crying for attention seeking situations do occur at night.
@jacolienyouknow
@jacolienyouknow Жыл бұрын
Dear family, i want to thank you. I am a 27 year old female with autism. I found out about your channel last week. autism in boys is different than in girls, but your stories have helped me a lot. I was only diagnosed at 18 and i hated it. This week i found out that what i have isn't necessarily tics, it's stimming. That's something I always try to hide. I want to be as normal as possible. But because of your videos, after almost 10 years, there has been some kind of acceptance of my autism this week. Thanks! Love you guys! from the Netherlands, Jacolien
@donotprikel
@donotprikel Жыл бұрын
your right
@harrietwindebank6051
@harrietwindebank6051 Жыл бұрын
Hello Jacolien, Sometimes it’s hard to exist in this world and be ourselves but know that you, like all other autistic people are perfect as you are! X
@abirpathan7796
@abirpathan7796 Жыл бұрын
Hey sister I am 17. And i have been high functioning autism. It's dam my life. 😭🤝.
@siimplysugxrbee9224
@siimplysugxrbee9224 Жыл бұрын
yeah right babe
@Sonicforcesfan2020
@Sonicforcesfan2020 Жыл бұрын
Hi I'm 20 years old gothgirl who has autism 😊🔮⛓🕯🍁🍂🐻🐾🎃☠👻👽
@michael8170
@michael8170 Жыл бұрын
This brings up a time when I would stay the night at my cousin Trey’s house, you see our grandmother passed away and I decided to stay in her old bedroom with him and keep him company by talking until my cousin fell asleep. My cousin who has Autism is a good person that's why I love him so much and he's one of my favorite ones in our family. I will do anything for him and always show cousin Trey that I care about him. You have three amazing boys that are very well-behaved, I can tell you and your wife have been there for them since they were first born.😊😊😊
@valerieh5400
@valerieh5400 Жыл бұрын
I’m almost 30 years old and this helps me to know what I may be needing to do for my children in the future. I also need this stuff! ❤
@PrayerWarrior37
@PrayerWarrior37 Жыл бұрын
And it’s awesome he’s reading his bible and that is food for the soul. God bless you Ian
@jameamcdonough4661
@jameamcdonough4661 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe how big the boys have gotten! It seems like just yesterday, you were doing your first videos with them!
@francesjones9644
@francesjones9644 Жыл бұрын
I have a wonderful autistic grandson. You are the most lovely parents.
@musingfoodie1041
@musingfoodie1041 Жыл бұрын
It is so important what you are doing by documenting what autism in kids looks like. Very helpful, many thanks!
@PrayerWarrior37
@PrayerWarrior37 Жыл бұрын
It is so important to have routine for them to have guidelines even for when they get older like Ian is learning. It really does give them their independence which is great . My son Thomas has to talk or make sounds in order to exhaust his output lol, yes and has a paw patrol lamp with a blue light bulb. I was told by a doctor that it’s a calming colour and soothing. I sometimes struggle with routine with him because it depends what mood he is in , and we had to remove his tv out of his room due to him watching till midnight lol. So we got smart and removed all electronics lol. Thank you for sharing and it’s great to see Ian growing up to a productive young man
@nathanjw940
@nathanjw940 Жыл бұрын
I got the idea of the weighted blanket from Ian. I have had way less sleep issues since getting one. It has to be dark and quiet I have had issues sleeping due to light with blackout blinds above the window. Going somewhere new has different lights and sounds which can be tough to sleep in.
@josettejoy6003
@josettejoy6003 Жыл бұрын
Being on the spectrum, I also like having some sort of night light and reading my scriptures before I turn out my light. I also really love weighted blankets but it's really hot where I live so it's hard to stay comfortable.
@andrewharald88
@andrewharald88 Жыл бұрын
Hi 👋
@DesertDog
@DesertDog Жыл бұрын
I'm autistic. I have a weighted blanket and lots of layers too and tons of stuffed animals! I have that exact same green water bottle that Connor has. Please keep up with Ian's braces journey I'm starting in 2 weeks from today.
@clarab.5905
@clarab.5905 Жыл бұрын
I got braces a 2 - 3 weeks ago. For me it stopped hurting like 1 - 3 days after. I am just saying that so you have that in mind like an idea of what that might be like. It was a pain from pressure on my teeth. Not like stinging pain. Sometimes I forget my braces are even there. Everyone is different though so you might be in pain for more or less time. Good Luck with your braces!
@DesertDog
@DesertDog Жыл бұрын
@@clarab.5905 thank you! ❤
@JamesKeiling
@JamesKeiling Жыл бұрын
I love the way Ian always looks so pleased when he's on camera. And how he speaks. Very articulated and proper. Good speaker
@phyllisshelton8935
@phyllisshelton8935 3 ай бұрын
I love how both you parents and your kids are so routined at night! I’m also autistic, so I understand. 😊❤
@juliebotzenhart8064
@juliebotzenhart8064 Жыл бұрын
Routine was a must when my son was growing up. It had to be done a certain way and the same every time.
@ivanamulovic1774
@ivanamulovic1774 Жыл бұрын
I love that Ian is doing soooo good he is amazing in taking care of himself like a person who doesn't have autism. Nice job, Ian!
@SageLlamas
@SageLlamas Жыл бұрын
I’ve slept with a weighted blanket for well over a decade at this point (my mom made mine, 20 lbs, swore she’d never do it again after lol) and my sleep quality is really terrible without it. I also need to do something calming but mentally engaging before I go to sleep- I’ll do sudoku, logic puzzles, nonograms/picross, chess, wordle etc. depending on what I’m into at any given moment- lately I’ll do 10-20 quick solves on my Rubik’s cube to wind down. It has the added bonus of being a great fidget too. I also need melatonin lol, if my brain had its way my days and nights would be completely flipped.
@sabrina_boymom0517
@sabrina_boymom0517 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for another great informative video. My 5 yo's bedtime routine goes on for about 1 hour currently (including shower, teeth, and snuggles in our bed). My 17-year-old takes about 30 minutes in his routine but starts preparing a little before that by turning off electronics, etc. except he falls asleep to his favorite music. I fall asleep to music all the time, too! ♥️
@TheRocketDJ
@TheRocketDJ Жыл бұрын
look forward to see you again in 2023
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 Жыл бұрын
I have a weighted blanket that I use at night, it helps me to keep calm. I have some stuffed animals that I also sleep with. I also sleep with Soundscapes on. Soundscapes is a music channel on cable that plays meditation and sound healing music. Music is my main comfort tool, along with the rest of my comfort items.
@zoescott4887
@zoescott4887 Жыл бұрын
I am 23 nearly 24 and I still sleep with heaps of stuffed toys and a blanket to sleep with and a waited blanket. I got the waited blanket idea from you guys so thank you so much it has helped me so much better to sleep
@redstoneore25redstoneking26
@redstoneore25redstoneking26 Жыл бұрын
I'm on the autism spectrum just like Ian I'm able to get ready for bed at night also I'm able to get up and get ready for school I just graduated from a transition program for special Ed students that deals with children on the autism spectrum.
@mathilda6763
@mathilda6763 Жыл бұрын
my parents always sung to us kids when we were small and my dad also played guitar. I am an adult now, but I still like hearing my parents sing and make music. home-made music with instruments and music you know is a beautiful. you'll never be too old for enjoying hearing your parent sing. I also really enjoy listening to voices I know well when they talk. my parents, my dad siblings and my grandparents often talked and discussed in the evening and when the door was left a little ajar I could hear them talk. My grandma was extremely smart. She knew 7ish languages and had a lot of knowledge and wisdom ...my granddad only knew 4 languages and a bit of French but he was also really smart and they often had guests that had really specialised research topics, so listening to them discuss, infodump and laugh was very interesting but also comforting. I felt safe listening to them and knowing they were there. Nowadays I like to listen to people on youtube or podcasts to fall asleep and calming me down when I wake up in the middle of the night. I struggled with not sleeping since I was a baby (my poor parents) and for me personally the most important thing that made it better was giving a) more time to unwind and get ready before it's time to bed (it's around an hour) and be very consistent with the time so I get enough sleep in even if it takes me 2-4 hours to fall asleep. being wrapped up in a blanket really tightly also helps.
@camiioan822
@camiioan822 Жыл бұрын
There are night lights projecting stars that are portable. I have one that i take with me when i go on trips. I also sleep with starry nights and stuffed animals, weighted blankets and a pillow case that i love the texture of. I am 27. Nothing wrong with having comfort items. I have autism and many other disabilities.
@thetemptest-madnesscombat2049
@thetemptest-madnesscombat2049 Жыл бұрын
Hey I have that fidget in the begginning, it's pretty good. But I use sensory slugs which are great,
@nathanielhall3117
@nathanielhall3117 Жыл бұрын
Your kids are so relatable I'm still young and I feel that your doing great keep up the hard work!
@rdu239
@rdu239 Жыл бұрын
Loves and well wishes your family, my 4 years old nephew has ASD and will not sleep unless the room is fully dark and everybody is sleeping and not moving, when he stayed in our place, we were forced to adjust and sleep on regular sleeping hours of 10pm otherwise the kid will stay awake active until 2am where he gets tired of his own.
@naruhinastarr
@naruhinastarr Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! The boys are so sweet and tell them thank you for us, for sharing!! We really appreciate your content. Happy early New Year in case we don’t see another video before the year ends!! :)
@afollowersfight5266
@afollowersfight5266 Жыл бұрын
Something that can be a major factor in sleep for many neurodivergent people is their light exposure routine. Ideally, humans should be exposed to more light in morning and very little at night. I have ASD and ADHD, and I was recently diagnosed with Delayed Sleep Phase Disorder. While it is highly genetic, I think my light exposure routine has played a huge role. Light therapy in the morning and dark therapy at night are often the most effective treatments. This has been very difficult for me because I have sensory issues with light and do not like to expose myself to light in the morning. I am more “stimmish” when I’m tired, so I find it annoying to have to dim the lights at night. Many circadian rhythm disorders can result from or be made worse by being exposed to light at the wrong time of day or not having a set light exposure routine. For example, a lack of consistency with light exposure can lead to Non-24 Hour Drift Disorder.
@raysacapellan-fender
@raysacapellan-fender Жыл бұрын
❤ totally going to find the hot water bottle for my son… thanks for sharing!
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
Yep, we got it on Amazon
@Sleepingchaos1123
@Sleepingchaos1123 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video's! they are always comforting and helpful.
@ariajane8695
@ariajane8695 Жыл бұрын
I have a weighted blanket that I sleep with at night and it really helps calm me down because sometimes I get really wound up.
@awesomepeople2592
@awesomepeople2592 Жыл бұрын
I love my bed time routine it helps a lot😊
@1TheExpertGamer
@1TheExpertGamer Жыл бұрын
I adore allisters dogs, they’re nice. Also I think he looks it cause it looks like a puppy, I have autism myself and that’s what I think when I have this tiny little dog, for me I have a little pug
@rubenmoilanen2011
@rubenmoilanen2011 3 ай бұрын
I really enjoy these videos, this is so helpful to others, including myselfe, keep it up
@ninasunny4159
@ninasunny4159 Жыл бұрын
Great Video! And I loved seeing Britney so much, you are doing great! I have a hot water bottle in my bed, too. This calms and comforts me a lot. I have my playlist for bedtime (music), which helps me feel safe and relaxed. Thank you for sharing your experiences! Its also helpful for adults like me. Lots of love!
@qurratulainkaleem7713
@qurratulainkaleem7713 Жыл бұрын
You are doing a very good job . Its so helpful .More power to you.
@RvrMeadow
@RvrMeadow Жыл бұрын
I really like your blog on the bed time is amazing &your amazing parents ❤
@Chronically_JBoo
@Chronically_JBoo Жыл бұрын
Love the floor bed I have one myself. I also love to brush my teeth in hot water
@fefebutterfly1318
@fefebutterfly1318 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your night routine.
@HyperFocusMarshmallow
@HyperFocusMarshmallow 11 ай бұрын
4:40 A fun thing is that mathematicians use the word “clopen” in certain situations. With a similar motivation.
@ravenID429
@ravenID429 Жыл бұрын
I slept with a sound machine on the same setting for pretty much my whole childhood lol, now I sleep under my weighted blanket, and I've always needed to hold a snoedel or stuffed animal or something
@NotNowJensen
@NotNowJensen 8 ай бұрын
not the word "clopen" making me giggle for 5 minutes straight
@BenKlassen1
@BenKlassen1 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting to see, thanks. I have close to zero control over the use of my phone. I need to have it taken away at night too. I'd probably sleep a lot more. Cheers!
@coughlinmckayla
@coughlinmckayla Жыл бұрын
The autism spectrum, often referred to as just autism, autism spectrum disorder (ASD) or sometimes autism spectrum condition (ASC), is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by difficulties in social interaction, verbal and nonverbal communication, and the presence of repetitive behavior and restricted interests. Other common features include unusual responses to sensory stimuli, and an insistence on sameness or strict adherence to routine.😊
@sharishark0778
@sharishark0778 Жыл бұрын
I have the exact same green venom car poster in my room as well and a car collection. I also have a certain that’s the only one I lay my head on at night
@NJlovessinging
@NJlovessinging Жыл бұрын
Ian, I'm the same way with my blankets, haha! I have my sheet, weighted blanket and then more blankets on top.
@Kiddly3000
@Kiddly3000 Жыл бұрын
I talk myself to sleep as well and I also don't like being touched or hugged, touch and hugs feel like when you rub your feet on the floor and then touch at metal doorknob and it shocks you that what it feels like throughout my whole body
@peteracton2246
@peteracton2246 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful supportive family. I have decades on these kids. I daren't admit how long it takes me to brush my teeth still (stimming?). It's no problem. I had a pillow case when I was a toddler but my mom called us into her bedroom for a meeting and told us to stop. She couldn't take away my thumb though! I thought the "princess and the pea" comparison was original to me! Best wishes
@pimpedoutstereos9747
@pimpedoutstereos9747 Жыл бұрын
I love how u both are so patient and gentle with ur boys, I’m sure it’s taken a long time to get to that point. My sons bedtime routine is he has to take sum melatonin, I have to take his headphones and tablet away, put on his sound box machine that makes rain sounds and then I have to cuddle him til he goes to sleep. Often he’ll wake up thru the nite and jump into bed with me which I hope eventually he can get thru the nite without having to do that
@sashafierce4524
@sashafierce4524 Жыл бұрын
I always have my nighttime glass of milk before I go to bed. I really struggle with teeth brushing (since I was a baby) so that usually depends on my sensory needs. I use my phone at night for sleep stories and bedtime songs/sensory time. My current favorite plushie is my beady-eyed dinosaur, Lieutenant Scales (I'm currently holding him as I type this)
@au9parsec
@au9parsec Жыл бұрын
I also have a collection of stuffed animals similar to Ian.
@rrappscallion
@rrappscallion Жыл бұрын
i really love the new theme eg the name tags ☺️ i’ve been subbed since 2017 and i’m so so happy i can get to comment 🎉 it’s amazing how much you have grown as a channel and as a family ❤
@jasmineforneu6754
@jasmineforneu6754 Жыл бұрын
I love seeing lds families on yt. As a kid my family and teachers never thought to get me tested because I was so good a masking everyone just thought I was shy.
@bestrickie2
@bestrickie2 Жыл бұрын
P.S those like ourselves with such conditions, and even those with more profound learning disabilities, are the most helpful loving folk, who want to do anything and are perhaps a lot more capable than others may realise given the chance. For example, there are those who are non-verbal, but must get very frustrated if they can’t get their point across and want to show their abilities and again find difficult to cope with when they cannot express themselves, which in one way is a positive as again, they want to exhale themselves and do what they can.
@courtneyturner4029
@courtneyturner4029 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting
@summerscripture
@summerscripture Жыл бұрын
Have you tried the, "Hongjin extra soft toothbrush brand?" I prefer them for myself as I dislike the more course bristles too.
@Imogencoleman1
@Imogencoleman1 Жыл бұрын
I got autism and anxiety
@julianprincess
@julianprincess Жыл бұрын
I have to have a fan on as white noise and I still have stuffed animals in arranged spots so I can easily reach it. I’m glad I don’t have to sleep with the TV on but I have to listen to music as I’m getting settled in bed.
@KBe2
@KBe2 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing the warm water toothbrush trick. Our brushing battles seem to be over. I really can't believe it.
@kmdaley916
@kmdaley916 Жыл бұрын
What great parents! 😊😊
@jessicabundangkat3152
@jessicabundangkat3152 Жыл бұрын
That’s a great video how old Connor now do the kids like watching these videos too
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
He’s 11
@brianalanee
@brianalanee Жыл бұрын
6:08 peep the picture of Ian & Connor on Ian’s wall 🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Sav_700
@Sav_700 Жыл бұрын
Can you please do a morning one love you guys
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Sav_700
@Sav_700 Жыл бұрын
I can't wait
@marjanvermeulen9753
@marjanvermeulen9753 Жыл бұрын
Hi family! Thank you for the nice video. Good to see you all doing well. Beautiful bedrooms have the boys. I remember an empty bedroom for Ian and Connor many years ago. Just somerhing to sleep and a hole in the door. I have a night light for sleeping. It's a little bit difficult to write it in English. But I can write it in Dutch, but you can't read it. I think. 😂 Have a nice New Years eve tomorrow. A big hug from the Netherlands. 🇳🇱😃❤️🇺🇲⭐️
@k.h8127
@k.h8127 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your videos ❤ thay are soo helpful to us 👩‍👧‍👦 we really appreciate you doing this it means the world 🌍 because we are still waiting for autism and adhd diagnosis your a really beautiful loving family your boys are soo amazing ❤ stay blessed 🕯🙏🏼thank you again
@joeybonavita2739
@joeybonavita2739 Жыл бұрын
You guys have a great bedtime routine. My twin sister and I who are considered non verbal because we only have five functioning words do the same thing: we will literally crawl down each step, waddle down the hall: low muscle tone and mobility issues, and come find our parents just to sign to them that we didn’t get our night light. Also we have the same one and our favorite stuffies would be my NC State WolfPack pillow pet, her Ladybug Pillow Pet, a giant SpongeBob that I “won”at the state fair back in 2014 and a beanie baby that she got for Christmas 3 years ago. Then we both get pacifiers which my parents say we shouldn’t have at nearly 20 years old but they let us have them for night time only and everyone else is on board with that. And we know that as soon as we wake up in the morning or mom and dad come to get us we have to give them back
@AdventuresWithOutdoorEagle
@AdventuresWithOutdoorEagle Жыл бұрын
great video, great educating, keep up the great work.
@littlejonathorn6860
@littlejonathorn6860 Жыл бұрын
Nice routines!!!
@smileytrevor2354
@smileytrevor2354 Жыл бұрын
I am autistic and am diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome so this was very informative
@crowflyer8279
@crowflyer8279 Жыл бұрын
Bro, in all honesty it only honestly means that you’re a Winner & Champion! For me, I was diagnosed with A.D.D. ADHD ect...& there’s a very good possibility that I myself maybe a bit Autistic, though it hasn’t been confirmed 100% But truth is that no matter what challenges you face in life always know you come out of it as a Winner! I admit that my heart beats Very compassionately towards others rather than myself. Again, no matter what...Champions such as yourself deserve this 🏆🏅 And for me at times, I enjoy watching KZbin, Xbox gaming, ect..so I really hope this comment helps make your day more brighter and happier than ever before bro!
@DBK415
@DBK415 Жыл бұрын
Ian still likes Zelda. I like his Zelda t shirt
@lindies3056
@lindies3056 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I found this channel. Give us tips about how you guy did with potty training please?
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
Check at our videos a couple of weeks ago. We did a potty training video
@samucob123
@samucob123 Жыл бұрын
i just woke up and went downstairs. i get on the computer and only have 2 notifacations :(. at least i have SOMETHING to watch.
@ASLtoMusic
@ASLtoMusic Жыл бұрын
When you started talking about plushies you remembered me I had to find Stamps
@gingerholmquist4711
@gingerholmquist4711 Ай бұрын
I am so glad I found your video! I have 2 boys on the spectrum, ages 17 and 13. My 13 year old calls his stuffed animals, his stuffies lol
@JOE-dt2kr
@JOE-dt2kr Жыл бұрын
Brilliant parents.❤️
@neilrocks84roblox19
@neilrocks84roblox19 Жыл бұрын
I don't need my devices taken away. When I have big feelings I just play Roblox Basketball Simulator and then within 5-10 minutes (sometimes 15) I feel just about ready to fall asleep.
@tommyw8576
@tommyw8576 Жыл бұрын
At age 65, I am an Autidtic "Night Owl". My bedtime routine does not change. Watch Science documentaries until midnight,brush teeth. Change my diaper. Get into bed.Put my padded medical restraint mittens on. Go to sleep.
@dalemettee1147
@dalemettee1147 Жыл бұрын
When does your oldest play the drum kit? Does he like it and does it help him?
@cheyennewilliams7731
@cheyennewilliams7731 Жыл бұрын
I have to have it mostly dark,just enough light to see because of my night blindness and completely quiet other then the fan
@bestrickie2
@bestrickie2 Жыл бұрын
Hello, I’m an 54 and I have shown many traits of being on the spectrum for either autism and or Asperger’s. However, however, when I was a lot younger, it wasn’t properly understood as it is nowadays. In a nutshell, I have had to struggle through life very much on my own. For example, I had the condition, Ekolu, Leah, if something scared me easily, I go into a huge meltdown including when I attended play school at the age of 4 1/2, the room had been changed round and this frightened me, and needless to say, I went into a huge meltdown. These and other traits I have shown, but on the other hand, I am extremely capable, so determined including how I’ve had the ability to cook meals since I was 10 years old and younger given the chance so therefore, I’ve never been special-needs, though, I have been known to be a slow learner. I’ve also got a profound unique detailed memory and a profound musical talent as well as other talents/abilities. I reside in beautiful sheltered accommodation where there is a support worker if needs be though I don’t get care as I don’t need or want this as again, I like to be as sufficient, face challenges and do what I can for myself which is most things these days.
@kaylaports4449
@kaylaports4449 Жыл бұрын
I sleep with four blankets and for Christmas I got a Sherpa blanket hoodie it’s weighted because it’s very large on me me it keeps me warm and doesn’t require a lot of blankets anymore still one or two but better then four.
@Imogencoleman1
@Imogencoleman1 Жыл бұрын
Connor got fidget ball I got one of them
@brianalanee
@brianalanee Жыл бұрын
4:43 😂I definitely understood as soon as he said it
@Zooxtry
@Zooxtry 10 ай бұрын
I think the most important thing when you have autistic children is have them be part of a LOT of like help groups, therapies, all that good stuff, so they can learn to see the world, the outside, because when you're autistic you're kinda stuck inside your own damn mind and that sh*t is very sensitive. I definitely didn't get enough of this as a child (I'm 17 years old as I'm writing this, and ofc, autistic, +ADHD, I hate my autism btw) As you become more open, you no longer need routines and all that.
@EverSnaxolotl
@EverSnaxolotl Жыл бұрын
Is that sarcasm I'm hearing about Ian waking you up? That's hilarious 😅
@Dronkey64
@Dronkey64 6 ай бұрын
Hey my friend has a knotts snoopy like that holding a Boysenberry and yours is a purple mini version. 😂 How cute we go to knotts every week. Yes i too, need a fan so i dont hear xats screaming and fighting outside or cars that can startle me in my sleep. 😂
@camiioan822
@camiioan822 Жыл бұрын
I’m like Alistair I have my hot water bottle that is soft and my pillow cases. I also have my knee pillow (i hate my thighs touching at night). I also have my giant unicorn, my clouded leopard , Moonpaw, my space light and my box fan. I also sleep with a youtube video on in the background. Realized I already commented once….. guess this is more in depth of my night time comforts.
@heidimarie1198
@heidimarie1198 Жыл бұрын
My youngest - never tell him he has time to go - he wants to go there and then ( no time concept) - I have bought him a magnatized calendar to try and help. New clothes - big no no. I have to buy shoes the same design in each size. White noise yes - ceiling fan always on ( me also ). In all honesty - I am the same. I suffer with anxiety and panic attacks - - also when im out of routine - - I dont sleep - I nap all the time unless I am doing house work or actual work. My dad - his grandad - same - his brother - the same. I say it is hereditary.
@shem217
@shem217 Ай бұрын
Maybe Ian doesn’t like to be touched in some areas when he has certain things on his mind. If so, it might help to touch him again because he might have something else on his mind. This may be because thoughts are hard to control. I’m like this. When I get uncomfortably touched, it usually helps to touch me again. I have something on my mind the first time I get touched and what’s on my mind may make me not like to be touched. But then I have something else on my mind that may make me not mind being touched, and so that makes me feel better from being touched the first time.
@foxy3961
@foxy3961 Жыл бұрын
This is so good!
@cat78_yes
@cat78_yes 10 ай бұрын
Where do you get the hot water bottles from? I’ve had a few and most of them leak/have bad texture. Those look super cozy lol
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel 10 ай бұрын
Amazon
@cat78_yes
@cat78_yes 10 ай бұрын
@@AutismFamilyChannel Thank u ☺️
@clarab.5905
@clarab.5905 Жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for a Bedtime routine. I love that Ian is so on top of reminding you to read the book of Mormon or the bible (Maybe that should be one of my new years resolutions). I think Ian might need to teach me how to do that... Do you have any videos on your channel about Sensory Overload with tips for dealing with it and all that? I just got back from a New Year's Eve party and there were so many people there and all the talking and just all the noise and bright lights from flashing bracelets to celebrate East Coast Time instead of Oregon time. I was trying to have my space but the quietest place I could find was the living room of a friends house where I don't really know anyone to well. My brother was with a friend in the living room and they kept trying to punch me whenever I came in to say that they were having their alone time to talk. So that space wasn't an option. It was so overwhelming. Do you have any tips? Also... Do you have any videos explaining being Neurodivergent and being Neurotypical? That would also be helpful for me. Thanks! Happy New Year and late Merry Christmas!
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
We have videos about these topics but will produce more in the coming months too 😊
@clarab.5905
@clarab.5905 Жыл бұрын
@@AutismFamilyChannel Thank you!
@loganhetsko
@loganhetsko Жыл бұрын
i have autism, and my favorite dog breed is german shepherds, and i sleep with my german shepherd stuffed animals every night, and i also hug them to seek sensory input 😄
@irenelowe9739
@irenelowe9739 Жыл бұрын
I have a question, would Ian be restricted to kid-friendly media, or can he watch more mature content compared to his brothers?
@charmainecohen2651
@charmainecohen2651 Жыл бұрын
I also have autism and a weighted blanket
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