What Next When Vocation Options Failed

[@yvetteconn8678]

“Walk a mile in someone’s shoes”… it saddens me the lack of empathy from people. Look forward to the next video Val!

[@michelledawe1152]

I can’t wait for part 3. I have an 8 year old son I am 49 he has autism. Hearing your story gives me hope. I know the road ahead in undetermined but know that you came out on the other side gives me peace for our future. You may not realize how much you are helping other but I would like to say thank you 🙏. Thank you for sharing your story. You have paved away for mom like me who are up and come to different stages of our children lives. If I could hugs you Thur my phone I sure would. You are an strong and amazing woman. Hugs from Halifax Nova Scotia Canada 🇨🇦

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you!

[@MaxcyW]

I have read about this part of your journey on your blog and that is when I knew how much I adored you and your family. Your love and drive to advocate for Jess is nothing short of inspiring and amazing. You definitely could turn your blog posts into a memoir…it is so captivating. Val, you never cease to amaze me!

[@heatherherron3926]

Oh Val you should write a book. You have me on the edge of my seat. I can't wait to hear more. God bless you for all you have went through. You are so brave to share your lives with us. Love y'all so much ❤

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you! I do plan to write one of these days when I have more time.

[@mothermarie6057]

Agreed. 👏🤘☀️🦋🦋

[@terriferguson1080]

You should write a book. It would be so interesting to read! I'm hanging on every word here. Listening to you. Didnt know all the red tape you had to go through. So frustrating.

[@pamisolisytreviews6813]

Same

[@carriethompson4955]

Yes write a book!!

[@nancyalmonte6334]

There is a story behind every person. There’s a reason why they’re the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone. So much love & respect for you Val, Hannah and the family. You’re one of the strongest females I know out there. Xoxoxoxoxoxo

[@mothermarie6057]

Right! I keep getting so emotional I can hardly watch ♥️

[@heatherherron3926]

Yes she really is so strong. God knew exactly what he was doing by placing Jess in this family. They are all "Good Ones" ❤

[@trishawilliams6915]

Thank you sharing, you really should write a book. You are an amazing and strong woman and have done an excellent job raising 3 amazing children. 💞💞

[@rickibishop6293]

The schools, long term care, & vocational rehab could learn a lot from your series. Thank you for sharing your family’s experience.

[@erinkerbs6789]

Vocation options haven't worked for my son. He can stay home by himself for a short time, but he can't live by himself. The lack of programs has been very frustrating. When you said that most of your coworkers didn't realize the degree of Jess's impairment I can relate. Most people in our life don't realize the degree of my son's impairment. He is autistic, but has other issues as well. Coworkers, family, friends, neighbors just have no clue what it's like to take care of him every day and make sure he is safe. He is one of those kids who falls through the cracks and we have had to fight for everything, diagnosis, education, medical care, and now social security and medicaid. Everything is a fight and an appeal process. Thankfully my husband has been able to work and pay the bills, but I have only been able to work sporadically. Thank you for sharing. You are not alone. I don't know what the answer is to help these kids and provide enough income to take care of the rest of the household as well.

[@tammielawson1114]

Valerie you are such an amazing woman. And such a patient and precious mother. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. I know your story will help young parents that are raising impairment children. ❤️❤️❤️

[@barbklayman7429]

You are such a warrior - I know the heart aches and the scars that remain from raising my son who is autistic and nonverbal. I tried to get him into a day program after he was out of school for two years. But by then he was so content at home and when we took him for a visit he wanted nothing to do with it. Now since co-vid only adults who can go are ones who can go to job sites. My heart breaks for the parents who depended on that place. Even group homes are very short staffed. Count it a blessing that your able to be a stay at home Mom and have such good support.

[@smallfruit9135]

Don’t stop talking, you have such a nice speaking voice storytelling voice, when you said I’ll stop there- I was like whaaaatttt 🤷🏾‍♀️😀. You are an unwavering determined force lady!!

[@kyliegiles5461]

Val, my name is Kylie and I live in the London UK but apart from that info I want to tell you I have worked and lived with the most amazing human being and they all have different levels of learning difficulties. I want to say you are truly a good one even if you don't think it! Most of the people I work with are parentless (most parents either didn't want their amazing child or didn't have the ability to look after them) I see the pride and joy that everybody has when they are with Jessica ❤️ I understand and know the hard work it can be making sure Jessica has the everything she needs in life now and for the rest of her life!

[@heidiely3243]

Thank you for sharing your story. It's always frustrating to work with toxic people and to also try to be fair and not have your needs fully met in a position. Work/Life balance employment is always the most positive and productive and effective for everyone. Flex scheduling as well. In nursing, this is not possible because patient care comes first, coverage comes first. I know the answer is to hire enough people but healthcare is a business and it's always met with the path of least resistance, meaning hire the least amount of people for the lowest rate they will accept to do the most work. I'm sorry things didn't work out but you guys have a good life now, you know that of course. The paperwork for these things IS hellacious. Big hugs again to you, Val. When you do write your book, send copies to those that need to read it in Washington DC. Better than any letter. This process needs a complete overhaul.

[@lifes_a_journey]

I just want to say, from all the vidoes I've watched, and hear Q&A's, it's OBVIOUS you and your family did everything possible for Jess, and continue to do so. It's also apparent how hard it was (is) mentally and emotionally. I really feel for you for all the challenges and road blocks you've had to face. I think you have done a truly admirable, loving selfless and amazing job loving and advocating for Jessica in every way. Make sure to always take care of yourselves also. You all deserve it. Much love❤️.

[@kathleenfrommichigan2550]

I think your a excellent mom. You do your best when it comes to your family and especially Jess. It is unbelievable the lack of help when children with special needs age out. So many kids are Autistic or ADHD now days. At least the world is getting a little better having things (ex Schools, Restaurants, and Disney) or places within the place, available for people with special needs. But there is so much more that needs to be done. Thanks for sharing today. I know it is hard to talk about the dark years. Have a great week.

[@1cemetarygirl]

oh Val i feel for what you went through and continue to deal with. I just want to give you a big hug! You are a strong lady. Even mothers without special needs children like mine sacrificed a lot and just did what they had to do to take care of their children and put food on the table at the same time. We had to stay home alone a lot at a young age while mom worked 2 jobs to feed us. It must have been so much harder for you as a special needs mother. I am so appreciative of mothers like you. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@joannarowe1255]

Bless your heart! The strength you possess, and the storms you've weathered ... what a wonderful woman, mother, and warrior. ♡

[@cindythoreson3716]

I think it’s remarkable that you went back to school, finished with a nursing degree, took care of your children, and 12 hour shifts, my head is spinning!!! Val, we all have a story to tell and I know it must a been a dark time (there is always light at the end of the dark tunnel) for you but what an amazing mother!!! Jess has thrived because of all the love that has been given to her by her family!! Love this sweet family❤️

[@DebbieNeiber]

I'm sorry that you had to go through that I feel so sad I just want to put my arms around you and hug you , you are a true preason who loves your dougher and her. Kids , I will pray for you every day and night that she will get better in time just remember that God love you we all love you and I'm sorry for all you are put through I will pray for you I watch you all the time I cry some time s I Lough bless you you are doing a great job don't forget that ,

[@budgirl1368]

I wish I could reach through my screen and give you a big hug♥️

[@robincunningham6119]

Hi Val, my heart really goes out to you and Jess. I somewhat understand what you are going through. I am the single mom of two boys, one of which was learning delayed with ADHD and Epilepsy. There were some difficult years but I thank God I had a job that was flexible and understanding. Unfortunately my son died in November of last year at 23 years old 😭 I have seen your ex in videos. Did or does he give you enough support with Jess? I am just asking because I don't recall you mentioning him at all in this video. I love watching your videos. Thanks for sharing your story and inspiring others ❤

[@daniellerowell8212]

So sorry about your son 🙏🏻

[@juliacalhoun6342]

Thank you for sharing this very intimate time in your life. I don’t have the proper wording to convey just how much respect I have for you. Those days gone by probably feel like a lifetime to you and your girls. All the hardships of just trying to live each day and figure out how to manage everything for everyone. I’m sure some days you just felt like a robot. I’m sure you’ve cried many tears. We can tell you that you’re strong and you are but you are human too. I hope someone has been there to comfort you. To listen to you and even ask how your day went. You inspire me . You give my perception of the human race hope. Thank you for being on this platform. And I do think you should write a book about your life. I’d buy several copies ☺️

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you! 💕

[@heatherk5567]

Val, you are an amazing Mom. I love that you put your foot down and said you will always answer when Jessica calls. Fore it was the school nurse and my supervisor told me I couldn't leave. I tossed my keys at him and said my daughter needs me. I am looking forward to the rest of the story. A book sound like a great idea and you could put all the proceeds of this book in to a fund fore when you and Campbell are no longer around to car for Jessica.

[@trishr4390]

Val, I so admire your strength and willingness to be vulnerable by sharing your story with the world. I can’t even imagine all you and your family have had to live through. Thanks for being you and for sharing your journey with us. ❤️

[@daniellerowell8212]

Every time you tell your story you give hope to those who may feel hopeless and strength to others who feel too weak to carry on. I think what bothers me about this is it all fell on you. The worry, the calls, the sacrifices. Making this video and the courage it took once again leaves me in awe of you.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you, Danielle. ❤️

[@patriciahensley342]

You have such a good way with your words…so easy to listen to and understand…you definitely need to write a book!

[@mamat2u983]

I used to work for an elder care rehab company, and I had to appeal each resident's case to the court, in order for it to be covered. It was awful, having to explain the exact details of each resident. I had to leave the company, because nothing was ever approved and it was extremely frustrating and heartbreaking. I wanted to do so much for the greater public but the government prevents you from doing so much... best of luck to you and J... I'm so happy there are parents/childrent like you out there who can petition so whole-heartedly on behalf of your loved ones.

[@rebeccamonks7541]

Beautiful Val, this hurts my heart. I could listen to you talk for hours, but I’m sure reliving it all is very painful for you. Thank you for sharing your story, your life, your heart.

[@tammymurphy2499]

No realizes what a person or family is going through. You just put a smile on your face and no one knows the hurt and sadness or the challenges that one person or family faces. When you’ve got a love one that needs your help. Sadly some people don’t CARE. I’m so sorry for what you and Jess and your family went through. Val you’re such amazing and strong Mom. Love and Prayers 💗🙏🏻

[@caitlinlyons8376]

Hearing your story really made me understand better and appreciate all the things my mom does for me

[@kadswim]

Thank you so much for being vulnerable with your audience and sharing stories of hard times. I applaud you. ❤️

[@mirandac2760]

Val! Ty for being vulnerable and sharing such a hard subject. I'm sure this will help many that are going through similar situations.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

I hope so! Thank you!

[@doreennicholas7291]

I understand everything that you have said. My mother and father faced the same thing because I had cerebral palsy. They had no help. Thay both had to work because they didn't have high payed jobs so that my mother could stay home. You are a caring human being XX

[@debrabrown1206]

Hugs you are a great caring mother and jess is blessed to have you and the family you all so precious to take the time with her its wonderful

[@6rosebuds]

I feel you Val i am 46 just got my diagnosis couple months ago i was blessed with testing a therapist i was trying to see I said I always wanted to know what was wrong with me and I started crying .she went to the owner and the lady who did the testing and asked if they would do my testing for free. They did im autism 2 the programs i had in elementary school ended in 4-5 grade no more iep or special ed no help away begged for help I didn't talk much or at all begging for assistive technology i see other kids who struggle to talk and word finding have computers that help and i learned the can help write notes... the tester wote what im to try to do understand what my autism looks like what and who where to get help there as you said nothing for adults and to try to get help tons of paperwork and long wait I have problems reading and understanding. Something needs to change kids grow up and still need help all assistance is for under 8 not fair.

[@TruckDriver2005]

Val, Jess is blessed to have you for her mom. Bad daddy seems like a good one too. 🥰

[@amelton1620]

What an AMAZING mom u are. Jess is blessed to have a mom and family that loves her so much!!!!! God bless you mama

[@Prairie_winds]

There is no such feeling, as being hopeless to help your kids. Thank you for your sensitive story. Am riveted and can't wait to hear the rest! Hugs

[@kel70]

Jana Brown (and anyone else who thinks it's ok to judge her) : Ooooooh, Boooooy! Your poking the bear on this one! Uh-uh!.... How dare you judge her like that! Ok.... let's start at the beginning shall we. 1) Did she not just spend over TWENTY minutes and 39 seconds explaining *in detail* WHY she had NO OTHER OPTION than to make the gut wrenching and painful decision that she HAD to make??? What? Were her words to "Big" for you? She doesn't owe any of us anything but, she still puts herself out there making herself vulnerable trying to teach and educate to hopefully create a world that will love and accept her "J" the way she deserves to be. I applaud that..... how dare you judge that. 2) The guilt trip your trying to lay on her doesn't fly because, the guilt that SHE has already placed on herself makes any attempt you think your making look stupid and lame. And, what really pisses me off is that a huge part of the reason she's put that guilt on herself is because of ignorant and self righteous people like you! What a sad life you must have. 3) In case you haven't noticed thru your "Rose colored glasses" Valerie has raised, fiercely protected, fought tirelessly for, loved endlessly and unconditionally THREE beautiful, selfless, well adjusted, happy and loving children that she had to provide for. SO SHE OBVIOUSLY DID SOMETHING RIGHT! And I for one, admire her and look at her with the 'Awe' she deserves for the life and love she STILL gives her family EVERYDAY. Lastly..... Get down on your knees and thank God you've obviously never had to make the decisions this beautiful, wonderful and strong woman has had to make in her life. The next time you decide to sit behind your screen and judge her I suggest you choose your words very, very carefully because let me tell you either your to stupid or just haven't lived long enough to understand that Karma really is a B**ch! I hope for your sake God has more mercy for you and others like you than you just gave her. And, the only reason I'm saying that is because I know in my heart that's what Val would hope for you. It doesn't take a genius to see her heart, if only you took the time to look and listen. Val.... the ones in your life that matter, love you and support you no matter what. Please remember that.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️

[@daniellerowell8212]

@kel70 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 yes yes yes

[@Magpie1950]

I agree with Heather...you should write a book. Dealing with depression, anxiety and fatigue myself and caring for my husband for the last 15 years I can relate to some of the challenges. You have been through the wringer. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

❤️

[@carolynwood9400]

So sorry you had to go through this. Dealing with such people who are not understanding. They should walk in your shoes and see how long they would last. You are such a strong woman. Thanks for sharing this with us.

[@sharonpodorski4687]

In Missouri my cousin that is 76 and mentally about 6yr old goes to a school during day to help my cousin. A lady comes in morning to get her dressed. She leaves and a bus use to pick her up. Now funding my cousin takes her and picks her up. She does have medicaid. Irene fights all the time for Vicki. Her school is at Jewish center that is wonderful.

[@gailgaub3586]

Omg Val what a stressful time to have to go through! Have you been able to get Jess on Social Security for Disabled people, we put my Grandson on it when he was younger my daughter also stays home with him. My heart goes out to you because you have had it rough! God Bless Your Heart ♥️

[@bonniepharr]

I can't imagine the challenges that you have had to meet. Thank you for sharing. I know it has to be so tough at times. You have it in check pretty good today. Val, I will continue to pray for your challenges, realizing they can change at anytime. And always know, that when it feels overwhelming, you are never alone. Thank you, for letting us be a part of your family. Hugs.

[@denisemoon702]

You are one strong lady and a phenomenal mom!!! I so admire you❤️

[@pamisolisytreviews6813]

That is the best idea ever. YOU should write a book. I bet it would help so many people. You are a great story teller and mom. ❤️

[@janicewebb1594]

You and your family are amazing. God bless!

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you so much!

[@mememebeth]

Thank you so much for sharing your hardships. I am a physically disabled adult and I agree that all the paperwork required for any help is absolutely ridiculous. I am continously fighting for more help, more resources.

[@paulinematthew7810]

Just wondering if her dad help you at all. You don’t have if it is to personal

[@samanthaorr8328]

I always say you never know what someone day has been or what they are holding in, so I always try my best to treat everyone with kindness even when they are not kind to you I had that moment at work like if you knew what I'm going through you would not disrespect me or treat me this way

[@biancaflippen8572]

Val your story makes you what you are today! You are such a strong woman and I can tell you was back then! Keep it going Val! Y’all are an amazing family. Always a good ones fan!!

[@angiehamilton3064]

My heart was breaking for you all. Thank you so much for sharing your lives with us. Val you are truly amazing. 💜💜💜

[@therubymoon6484]

Wow!! Bless you for all you and your family has been through. ❤️ Can’t wait till the next installment!

[@debrahardman6088]

I can’t begin to imagine the challenges you have had and continue to have. I’m praying for you and Jessica and your family.

[@bethanystamper6713]

I admire you, Val! I know it must be so hard to speak of such trying times! I know that you are helping other mommas! I have no doubts about that!

[@dawnjackson2190]

The behind the scenes of the struggles that all family's endure when struggling with raising a family with one or more challenged kids never ceases to amaze me. I'm still raising my 27 year old. The STRUGGLE IS REAL AND NEVER ENDING! Prayers for all of us and thank you Val for keeping it real. Just know that Jess is who she is today because of the love and the stick to it attitude you had and continue to have!!

[@angelaeglinger6608]

Tears are rolling down my face as I listen to you share your family’s struggle with getting the care that Jessica needs. I’m so glad you’re sharing your experience here. How many more families are struggling just like yours did/does with no support? They’re out there not feeling heard or seen because the truth is they just aren’t. Then to realize that you had to give up the career that you loved and had already postponed while your kids were little…. It’s just so much. I’m ready to hear the next part when you’re ready to share and for what it’s worth, I’m so sorry and I’m damn mad that this is the way it is when you have an adult child who needs a little extra support.

[@silkkyyslimm5238]

Love story time! Write the book Val!!! ❤❤❤🙏🏾

[@nataliemccance3337]

Val - you are the definition of a WARRIOR 💗

[@Shaping_Serenity]

💕

[@lovekkmom2]

My god, I’m so sorry Val. I wish there was more empathy in this world. You all are amazing! ♥️♥️

[@leemcinnis8070]

Thank you for sharing, I look forward to the next video. I love your family and admire all that you do and have done.

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you so much!

[@katiepayne2479]

Wow, what a story! My heart goes out to you all. I wish I had a sister like Hannah!! Val, you really bent over backwards in a lot of ways before you retired. I'm inspired by your tenacity. Oh hey, how did the daylight bulbs work out, do you like them?

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Love love the daylight bulbs!

[@debkale]

You have had to overcome so many obstacles caring for your family. I love that You have been able to conquer them with so much great strength and kindness. You are amazing.

[@CountryLady1752]

That’s what my Mother always said .. so true . Such a caring, loving Mother, Sister,daughter,Aunt and Friend Val is and a true professional 💕🌷🙏🏼

[@terim703]

Thank you for sharing that info. I can only imagine how hard it must be to share struggles with the world. I really enjoy your videos like this. I manage a small adult foster care home for adults with disabilities, so I live and understand what your days are like. Exhausting, yet rewarding. Best job in the world.

[@carriedadamo]

Val you are right you really NNED TO WRITE a book. A real book. So many people out there think they are alone. And the way you tell your story your life is amazing. And hey all it can do is help you for Therapy and hopefully money hopefully will help you and you won’t have to worry about Jessica’s future or yours write the book help the families with all the Jessica’s and also help the people understand about the families with Jessica’s Jessica’s

[@nilaburch]

I have admitted you as a mom you are great you have had it right but you stuck with your family you are great

[@debbiedrekie48]

Darling, you could literally write a book ! What a strong women an full of love an kindness for Jess an your children.I have my bookmark ,waiting for next chapter.

[@Dirgy100]

A mother’s love should not be challenged! It does though and I know you do not feel like it all the time but you are a wonderful mother. You are doing a great job and adore the way you love your children. Wish we lived close together I would try to help. Thank you for sharing your story the good the bad and the ugly. Hugs and prayers to you from Iowa.

[@cariannwolf7696]

Hugs! So much at such a pivotal time in your own personal life...newly out of school and excited to start your dream job. How old were you at this precious time of motherhood, caregiver, and dream job? I know your journey started early. I would buy the book of your beautiful life and family! 💞

[@Shaping_Serenity]

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[@SpeedyGrama]

I'm so glad God used what was meant for your destruction and used it for your good. Now you,and Jess are right were you belong,here with us. Love you guys.💖💖🥰

[@sallyclarke56]

Thank you, Val.

[@pennyp4187]

You are an amazing woman. ❤️

[@melissagrove2874]

You are amazing Val! I love your demeanor over it all now. It was a dark time but your resolve is amazing! Thank you for sharing your journey!

[@margaretdavis7839]

God bless you Val, many could not have done all that you have had to do, and I do understand “love” endures all!! You are a smart and deeply caring lady and we respect you for that! 🥰🙏🏻

[@judyryan6171]

Please know I am not judging. I love your family. It seems like all this pressure was on you and not “bad daddy.” Was he involved with trying to get her day care so you could work. Just asking. Not judging.

[@daniellerowell8212]

Judy- I don’t think you are the only one wondering this same thing.

[@allysonbruce554]

She mentioned he was working full time.

[@GhostPepperMeg]

Thanks for sharing these intimate, difficult moments of your lives! I’ve learned so much from these Q & As

[@patriciaroy7973]

Wow, you went through so much 😢 Can’t wait to hear the rest of your story! You have a way of pulling us in that it feels like I’m sitting right in front of you!

[@lesliehaak4645]

your amazing. i feel what you've been through because ive experienced this but in a different way. You have done exactly whats right for your child. Angels have you covered. God bless!!!

[@siobhanreid7785]

Oh Val….not a dry eye in my house tonight. Can’t wait to hear the rest… ❤️

[@alishadyane]

I’m so sorry you had to experience all that. You and your family have overcome so much. I have a coworker that is experiencing some of this now. He daughter is now 21. There are gaps where care is needed and it’s hard to find an employer to work around it. Thanks for sharing♥️

[@terrymoorefield5918]

Thanks for sharing part of your story, you truly are an amazing woman. I'm sure Jess can be a handful at times, but you seem to have this all under control. Looking forward to more videos. Keep doing what you've been doing, it seems to be working. Hugs and prayers

[@debbiefaulkner7889]

My heart is heavy listening to this even though you’re in a much better situation now.

[@paularednour8829]

Thank you for enlightening us sharing your story with us seeing the struggles and over coming and how far Jess has come I can’t wait to read one day the book ❤️

[@stefwhey]

Thank you for sharing! You are such a strong person to be able to share as you do. I am thankful that I was able to work around my children’s schedules for most of the time but did occasionally have to do other things and that wasn’t easy. Especially when those around do not understand the struggles. Thankful you have a strong support system ❤️.

[@Chelle8847]

Wow. The way you've been treated, by just purely cruel people....! I worked in a hospital, as a nursing assistant (i think in USA u call them CNAs), and i know that a lot of the time, the work is hard, heavy, draining emotionally, physically, mentally, and nurses and carers would quite often bicker and argue, fall out. There was always one or two who tried to bring me down any which way. I just cant imagine being in your situation, and im just so truly sorry. I look at your family, and see sooo much love, kindness, compassion! Patience, understanding... Its clear you fought with every ounce of your strength for your family! Sending love from England, from a new subscriber!

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you!❤️

[@vikkibyington3066]

You are an amazing Momma and woman! I don’t have enough words to express my feelings. Love you, Jess, Hannah and all the rest of your beautiful family. 😘😘

[@MickiD255]

Thank you for sharing your story Val, you are such an Amazing mom. I love how you and Jessica challenge everyday. The Interaction with you and Jessica is love. You are an Inspiration and most Mother's wouldn't have been able to do what all you have done. God bless you and your Daughters. Love's from Iowa ❤

[@karbear26]

How frustrating you finally got the carrier you wanted and couldn’t have it work how you wanted it! Sorry Val!

[@americanhoney4974]

Bless your heart. Im so thankful to know you are doing so much better now. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that you have your whole heart into making Jess's life the best regardless of your own struggles. Hugs to you for being so stong and sharing yourself so openly with us. 🥰❤

[@amandahopper3522]

This is very interesting Val thanks for sharing

[@rollsroyce7325]

You're an AMAZING woman Valérie 💪🏼👸🏼❤❤❤❤❤

[@shaunawhite2087]

Thank you for sharing! Look forward to the next video!

[@chelsealucier7162]

You have been through so much Val and when I watch the videos with Jess she is very lucky to have family so amazing and the support she needs. I love watching your videos ❤️

[@sharonpodorski4687]

It's tough my cousin turn 80, now a young 80. She only has herself but has fabulous neighbors that will help w yard get food etc. Now her only sibling got dementia. People have no idea the stress

[@dawnives109]

You are an excellent mother, Val. Don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise. 💕

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you 💕

[@beatrizduran6547]

It is so hard with a child of special needs and employees are so mean. My heart hurt for you❤️

[@noreenflaherty4309]

Wow I'm sorry that you had to go through all that... nothing worse than mom guilt... whatever the outcome is Jess is happy and well adjusted now it seems.. ❤

[@debras2845]

Looking forward to the rest of the story. You and Jess are an amazing duo!

[@jenniecartier3917]

It’s so sad that there not many options for disability people! It’s not right!

[@shellsea5527]

Those who have not had the challenges of parenting a child with disabilities have no idea how difficult and frustrating it is and being a single parent makes it even harder. I have an adult daughter with autism and intellectual deficits and she is my world, but it takes a lot of strength and energy day in and day out. My hat goes off to you for all you do to care for Jessica. My daughter and I both LOVE your videos so thank you for letting us share in your journey 💕

[@Shaping_Serenity]

Thank you! 💕