Avoid being murdered in the Philippines. Don’t do this.

[@hokeywolf3416]

Anywhere I have to "avoid" being murdered is not on my list of places to live.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Haha That is funny

[@pvmoore1154]

Try vatican city.

[@hokeywolf3416]

@@pvmoore1154 There are lots of places to be safe. I do love Vatican City. I spent a day there and I have to go back. It wasn't enough time.

[@fullonauto]

I don't go to bars, I don't hire woman, I don't invest with others, I don't make promises I can't keep and I don't go out late at night... Still, you convinced me to pass the Philippines by.... I don't need to visit or live in a place where I need to walk on eggshells..... Thanks for the heads up....

[@free2roam674]

I was just there and I felt safer there than I do in some places in Canada. I am exactly like you, I only go out during the day. I went to very remote (non-foreigner) places on a motorbike and I never felt threatened. However, to each their own.

[@jasonjames4254]

Depending on where you are from, you may not even realize that you're already walking on eggshells. It's just that you know where most of the eggshells are and how to avoid them. Given some time, you'd probably learn how to stay very safe in the Philippines. Personally, I always felt like I was in far more danger in most large American cities than I ever did in the Philippines. There are many areas of the U.S. that I would not set foot in.

[@grumpyolddude439]

Best hide in your basement then. Biggest cause of persdonal issues I have heard of from ex-pat friends there, is a westerner being an AH.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I don’t mean to suggest it is dangerous here. Only if you engage in certain dangerous actions. I feel safe and am sure you would be too. It is nice

[@ningayeti]

1) Don't try to date a filipina AND her sister (or her mother). 2) Don't break up with a filipina and tell her the reason is that she's "just not pretty enough." 3) Don't tell your filipina that you are hiring a maid because you want someone who actually knows how to cook and clean.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I like all 3. Those would do it 👍👍

[@danielhackney7806]

You forgot to say DO NOT date a Filipina who's already married. Maybe her husband will think you are disrespecting him. At which point a motor bike will pull up next to you on the street and bang bang!! Two shots to the head can ruin an expats day.

[@davidfisher5140]

I have a Filipina ex who has tried connecting me with one of her 2 best friends and also with her sister.

[@cecilwampler8733]

I knew these, but they are good reminders. I liked the info regarding avoiding dangerous business dealings and making promises. Those are less obvious than staying out of bar fights. Great video.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Cecil. Appreciate you

[@koufax174]

Great video Paul. You laid out the biggest ways to get in trouble. For me it’s very simple. Leave the combative intensity that exists in the US at home. Also, no matter what, always pause before saying or doing anything in responses. The biggest problem I see expats make is being “impulsive” with women or anything else. Slow down. Respond instead of reacting. Also RESPECT the people, the moment, the conversation. The person in front of you that you are talking to is not your ex girlfriend, ex wife, mom, etc. I always respect people. If I don’t like something I just remove myself from the situation. There’s no need to battle like in the US. Enjoy the moment. I don’t drink or go to bars and that helps. Be responsible for your actions! There’s so much to enjoy in the Phillipines and any other SE Asian country. Focus on that.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Such great suggestions. Very much appreciated. I enjoyed your thoughts

[@themacker894]

Good advice all around. When I moved to Thailand, my Thai father-in-law told me it cost $20 to hire a motorcycle assassin, so keep that in mind before you do some of the things you mention in your video (cause someone to lose face, visit the wrong places, get involved with the wrong girl, etc.). I love the Thai people and they love me, though in order to reach that point I had to grow out of my American perspective on many things. Thank you!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

That is funny, and a little scary. You don’t want your father in law quoting assassin prices 😜😜😜😜

[@fazbell]

Certainly a valuable skill. I always try to avoid getting murdered.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Haha. Thanks Fred 😜😜😜😜

[@royfleury9860]

Good video. Well, I have traveled to many places during my 40 years of work and play. Mexico on a regular basis. Hawaii a few times, South American jungle countries. The most important thing I have learned is this. Never publically show that you are lost! Always work at looking like you own the place! If you need help with directions always use a hotel clerk or police station! Never remove a large amount of cash from your wallet in public! And never break this rule no matter how bad you want to, DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO KIDS IN THE STREETS if you must go to a food store and buy them food.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Roy, I have been guilty of that so many times. Appreciate the thoughts

[@jamesrecknor6752]

Years ago, the uncle and grandfather of my girlfriend in northern Mindanao were murdered over some sort of a 'disagreement'. In southern Mindanao, a brother of my friend was 'accidently' murdered in a case of 'mistaken identity'. Whoops. Near Manila I have a friend who became a widow in her 20s when her husband got involved in some sort of dispute. I have quit kidding myself that it's safe as Mayberry in Mindanao.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

That is scary. Hard to believe. I know that could happen anywhere but makes you think

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

Philippines? Dangerous? Try spending time in Guatemala, Honduras or Jamaica.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Yes, yes, and yes. My point exactly. So true

[@amorevirgil2849]

Signing his own death wzrrent with this vlog offending pinoys.... made just too try earn from youtube, ,, he might become victim of his preaching

[@rickylee6129]

Try Somalia

[@jamesrecknor6752]

Chicago, Detroit, Houston and Las Angeles join the chat.

[@adamselene5957]

I've traveled throughout north, central and south America. Americans (NOT ALL - but many) tend to be the most unruly, loud and obnoxious individuals I have met while traveling. For G-d's sake, take a low, private and quiet profile. By contrast, Deutsche girls tend to travel alone without incident. They are almost always respectful and quiet. They do not argue about any bills. They may grimace and complain under their breath - but are never loud or obnoxious. Take a lesson from their script...

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks. The old “Ugly American “ story

[@adamselene5957]

@@PaulWorldZoom Makes you wonder how tropes of this sort get started to begin with. Must be SOME truth...

[@FinstaDaMinsta]

Most excellent life advice!

[@johnclark1469]

Okay, yeah. I’ll put this at the top of my priority list when coming: 1. “how not to get killed; A,B,C…”, 2. bring passport, 3. bring patience… etc. Kinda important. I have heard hiring a hit man is cheap over there so don’t piss people off.😬. It could ruin your whole trip.

[@ScreamingEagleFTW]

I would think if you are there looking for women, stealing girlfriends or stealing attention would be enough to get you killed. What do filipino men think of passport bros with their big d**ks and big wallets?? I cant imagine they are too happy about that.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Funny funny, and true. Good one

[@solarguy1702]

Saw my brother in law slit the throat of his best friend one night here on my patio. Didn't kill him but a lot of blood. Mother in law laughed and asked me if I was scared? Yes, alcohol was involved.

[@Sustainability657]

That would’ve been the last time I ever saw my mother or brother-in-law, ever!!! I guess meeting the in-laws before their in-laws has it’s advantages. I would leave if I were you, very very soon. Scary!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Wow unbelievable. I would have said yes I was. That darn Red Horse and/or Tanduay. Hard stuff

[@usersubscriberSC]

Run!

[@dalecs47]

Dale from Seattle: A very good list. I don't have anything meaningful to add. I do feel safer here where I am now living, then I ever felt in the Seattle area. But as you suggest, there are things you just should not do here. Getting involved in fights with the family of your wife or girl friend, well as you say, it may not end well. And the truth is this: Her family is very likely to be jellos of you, resent you, and hate you no matter what good you do for them or money and things you give them. They will still hate you while smiling at you. I know this for a fact.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Dale, I have both heard and seen that. It feels like many foreigners and her families get along brilliantly. I just don’t know. I feel safe

[@jamesrecknor6752]

@@PaulWorldZoom I am doing a prenuptial agreement, if things go bad I get to keep my in-laws, they are the best. She had better watch her step, LOL.

[@jesse75]

Seattle. What a sh!t hole.

[@josephsassone3753]

You've earned my subscription. Superb content. Future expat from California here.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Welcome aboard! Thank you

[@horacesubayar794]

Paul, Here we go again, sometimes your videos are filled with encouragement about how wonderful the Philippines is and then there are ones like these that make you say: "HELL NO". In either case, it was a fun and informative VLOG.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Horace, I hope that doesn’t deter you. Your average tourist will have no problems at all. Thanks

[@tonyste12]

and 'things' you do not hear about, because many do not feel 'safe' talking about them.,

[@psbucs]

great video, thanks for the honesty about the don'ts in the Philippines. its been awhile since I was in the Philippines, listening to you, things haven't changed. know your environment, understand the surroundings, don't flash the cash, and common sense is authorized. Thanks

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks for sharing! You are exactly right. The same many places

[@michaeldawn442]

I saw the title of your video. So, I wanted to see how your addressed this topic. You did an excellent job. Provided some really good information and solid advice. I've been to the Philippines many times. I'm a successful Expats, because I share your perpective, as well. But, you reminded me about not over committing to a Filipina or her family.....

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thank you so much! I appreciate that

[@muhjm1946]

When foreigners going to understand that they cannot own land in the Philippines. 60/40 is not ownership, the Filipina owns 60% and the foreigners is 40%. Something goes wrong she gets it all. Her family wants to move in or her new found love wants to move in. There’s many things can happen and very little can be done about it. It’s his money but her property, if she is not the right one he is in trouble . A condominium is what can be bought 100% by a foreigner. Foreigners should tell the truth, if they don’t know the laws, it’s easy to look it up. Can foreigners own land legally? NO! 40% is not complete ownership.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks

[@joseCalderon1976]

Good advice. Remember, those places don't tolerate Kens talking trash to them. Even me, when I go to Central America, Nicaragua, I don't mess with the locals, even though I was born there. I'm polite, not arrogant, and I've been fine. Yes, different country, but your logic still applies 👍.subscribed

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thank you. Great advice

[@andrewkamchi7478]

Paul, you are killing it! I called the 7500 level a few months back, so you are welcome ;P Glad to see you hitting it so quickly. The intro is great too.. can't wait to see you add to it as time goes on and it is great to see you with your gf. Hopefully we will actually get to meet her on one of your videos at some point.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks so much Andrew. I remember your predictions. It seemed impossible at the time. Thanks so much

[@andrewkamchi7478]

@@PaulWorldZoom Well, I don't have just good parking karma, I have good YT karma too, so here is to 10k in a few months but I am going to go out on (a short) limb and say you will be at 15k by the end of the year, even if I have to put a sandwich board on and walk the darn streets in front of Ground Zero myself. Yup, you are still welcome (snark).

[@HiloBoiz808]

One rule will drastically reduce the likelihood of negative situations, when it gets dark outside BE HOME.I lived in Jaco, Costa Rica for 15 years and the vast majority of violent assaults and robberies were at night.Also mind your own business, don't play Sheriff, be observant, don't get drunk, stay away from drugs, don't engage prostitutes, stay away from any illegal activity, make friends not enemies, live with in your means, etc ....

[@jonhenson5450]

I got loose in Jaco for the only time in my life, and got pick pocketed immediately, five minutes from my room.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great, great points. Thanks very much. Good advice

[@vince1012]

Asking her to get a CeNoMar before things get serious is a good idea. Also, don't let anyone know you are carrying any large amount on money. The situation is dynamic; Quezon & Pasay have some really shady characters and people are getting financially desperate. Don't be at stupid places (bars, dark alleys, bad neighborhoods) doing stupid things (arguing, getting drunk, soliciting) at stupid hours (after midnight)

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Yes for sure. Great advice. Thanks

[@Sustainability657]

Thank you for the tips. Great common sense advice. Much appreciated!

[@mikejones5364]

They will just alter the CENOMAR if you ask that. You used to be able to pull CENOMAR yourself, but that seems like a PITA.

[@Synfulz]

Nothing good happens after midnight, unless you're safe in your home or likewise.😂

[@mikejones5364]

@@Synfulz I have many good things happen to me after midnight in the Philippines, but I am usually with a girl when they happen.

[@happyguy7836]

Remember, your income probably makes you a 1 percenter here in the Phillipines. The Filipina's you are mingling with in the nice bars and restaurants are probably someone of importance, or related to someone who is. Could go very bad for you if you act out or are rude. Be nice, be polite, and you should be just fine.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Good advice. That is important

[@johnrobertmartyn5040]

Cheers mate Humbleness first priority Common sense second. Respect. Third. From danao bohol ph

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Bohol is great. Thanks so much

[@davehood1514]

Nice to see your numbers going up fast, you deserve it Paul Great content as usual. 👍

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thank you so much 😀 Appreciated Dave

[@ejtaylor73]

And other KZbinrs say it's hard to come up with content, I have never seen a video on this subject matter 🤣 Might be a dark subject, but definitely a necessary one. A lot of these are common sense things, but with the way the world is going now, that seems to be in VERY short supply. One word came to mind, HUMBLE, don't brag and be flashy, don't try to make yourself look better than someone else is for your own ego trip. Your ego will NOT hold up to a machete wielding local running towards you. After a few near death experiences while deployed to Afghanistan, it has made me guarded and cautious of those around me, it takes a while for me to open up to anyone and trust is even harder to gain. Maybe a video on CENOMAR (Certificate of No Marriage) would be good, try to get the word out about them to those who never heard of it, so they don't end up being with a married woman and put themselves in a bad situation. If she won't get one, even if you offer to pay for it (I believe they're relatively cheap), MOVE ON. If she says she's going to get an annulment or in the process of it, MOVE ON, she is still married, and the annulment process can take years and upwards of $10,000 (DOLLARS NOT Pesos), it's not your problem to deal with. Me personally, I wouldn't be with a single mother, nothing against them, but it can bring a LOT of problems and add stress you don't need to add to yourself. As you said the child's father, finds out she's with a foreigner he may all of a sudden take a greater interest in the child he walked away from or be expecting a big pay day; you have no authority over HER child, you can't discipline them; HER child will ALWAYS come 1st over you; her time and attention is dedicated to her child and you are an after thought.

[@mateor7302]

Wise words!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great suggestions. I hadn’t thought of that for a video. Very much appreciated. I always enjoy your thoughts and comments. Thanks, as always

[@waltertodd4479]

Very well spoken. Those costs are correct for an annulment or a marriage voided ab into. Process takes between 6 months to a year or two to complete. FYI. The biggest problem is it's not like a divorce. There is no guarantee at the end you will get one.

[@macvillegas4025]

I liked the new intro in the new videos.. Anyway, I just watched the interview with Every man has a story. I enjoyed the interview very much. ❤🎉😅

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks Mac. I never talk about that stuff much on my videos. Thank you

[@macvillegas4025]

@@PaulWorldZoom yes i noticed too. But it’s good to know the other side other people story the same story you shared in that interview. More power and more subscribers to come. ❤️👏

[@kenny8635]

Very good info. People should take that to heart

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Kenny

[@noahcount7132]

Paul, the advice given in this video also applies to a significant number of places in the US, and the list continues to grow.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

So true Noah. Thanks

[@amorevirgil2849]

Mak8ng thisvvlog he put himself at risk,,, giving bad reputation to philipinos....it could nackfire on him.... he didnt follow his own advice hsha

[@Adventure5619]

Dude I am sorry but this is like everywhere now. I would gather you have a 10x more chance to be murdered in the USA doing these things thing doing them in phillipines. I can’t even walk a few blocks downtown with out being accosted by a homeless person or a drunk homeless person demanding change. I would never walk down town that 3 blocks away is police station past 10pm unless armed. Scary world we live in now. Sad thing 20 years ago downtown was amazing beautiful street dances amazing fun bars etc. the world is a changing. I feel bad for my grand children

[@jamesrecknor6752]

The daily murder count in Chicago is amazing

[@malcolmhenaughan6786]

There is such a thing as research, you can easily find out the safest and unsafe places to live in the Philippines. The rest is down to common sense, I live in Dumaguete which is one of the safest places for foreigners, you are probably more likely to get involved in trouble with them than a filipino. Foreigners are often their own worst enemy, especially when it comes to women...

[@dadslyfe1267]

I think World Zoom is my favorite blogger. What he says is all true. It’s the real truth and saving a lot of us from big problems or tragedies down the line. This is real boots on the ground for us.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Wow, what a nice compliment. Very appreciated

[@robertputt7794]

Lol... "How not to get murdered" is always a good subject! Thanks Paul! 😆

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I thought about it. Most of my subscribers are Westerners so I knew they would get the humor angle 😎😜

[@robertputt7794]

@@PaulWorldZoom I grew up in Memphis Paul, some of the sweetest people on earth, but don't piss them off. Memphis is concidered one of the most dangerous city in the US, yeah, but it's usually because people are somewhere doing something they shouldn't be doing! Stay out of bars! Lol... 😆 Always like listening to you Paul... Thanks Again... 😊❤

[@tryscience]

Yeah I might need to rethink my personal philosophy, I don't want to earn a Darwin Award

[@robertlloyd3184]

1:10 "The World Report ranked the Philippines as the most dangerous country in the world." Huh? Have those at WR never heard of Yemen, Syria, Afghanistan, Iran, Central African Republic, South Sudan, Libya etc?, etc? How ignorant.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Yes Robert, agreed

[@robmari497]

Great video. I totally agree about Manila being safe in general. I’ve been to Manila perhaps 20 times since 2012, and never had a problem. But as you said, we are cautious about where we go and what we are doing, as we are at home in Los Angeles too! We know where we can go and avoid being places that are prone to criminal activity. In Manila, tourist areas are generally safe and you don’t need to worry, but use good common sense. Stay sober and don’t walk around alone if possible.

[@garrylafferty100]

My girlfriend dont like me walking around day or night by myself in a city of around 200,000 there some areas she won't go

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great Rob. So very true and good advice. Thanks for that

[@travel-trade]

We've known a couple here in Australia for years, and we learned recently that the Filipina our Aussie acquaintance brought to Australia had been told by her ex in the Philippines that he would kill our friend if he saw him in the Philippines (they were planning a trip there). I understand the Filipina had finally managed to finalise a divorce. Our friend had meet her in Thailand when he was teaching there many years ago (I gather she was teaching special needs kids in Thailand) - nowhere near where she had come from in Phils. So things can simmer under the surface for years. Thank you.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Gosh, that is scary. You would have to think twice before going.

[@amorevirgil2849]

Same happens in every country.... dontt let the vlog color your vision of philippines

[@tryscience]

I imagine if you stay under the radar and on a different island to make it inconvenient to find you, that might help a little and also if you take other defensive precautions, such as if you live in a secure building on a higher floor that they wouldn't climb up and maybe have a plan if there is a home invasion. Hidden sensors, alarms etc and a means to defend yourself.

[@jamesrecknor6752]

@@amorevirgil2849 True, but in my country, at least in some cities, we are allowed to be armed and defend ourselves.

[@alballesteros6421]

​@@jamesrecknor6752 a-hole

[@jeffwalker1322]

You are basically saying to be scared and to be a doormat. Gotcha. Not going to happen. Be nice and polite and don’t start anything with anyone but never back down. Bullies love victims that don’t resist.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Strange outlook but okay. Thanks for writing

[@jeffwalker1322]

@@PaulWorldZoom not strange at all to me. All the men I am friends with have the same outlook. We are involved in children’s charities, help the poor and have strong conservative values but, none of us will be pushed even an inch and we don’t push anyone else. Like the saying goes, don’t start none and there won’t be none. I will bow before God but I will not bow before any man.

[@someguy861]

I grew up with the mindset of being humble. I was also taught to rationalize. If someone makes a derogatory statement to me, I often shrug my shoulders, accept that they are entitled to their opinion, and attempt to process any data that might be gleaned from it. I'm trying to wrap my head around the concept of saving face. While they do have a form of it in the West, it seems to be dialed up a fair amount in the East.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great points and very true. I have the same philosophy. I’m not much intimidated others opInions and negative comments. I seldom take the bait. Thanks again

[@jeffwalker1322]

Exactly, don’t get mad at someone running their mouth. It is always better to just walk away. If the situation looks like it will turn physical then stand your ground. Don’t be an easy target or you will be a target over and over again. What filipinos call saving face is actually losing face. They will lie over nothing. Ask one for directions and if he doesn’t know he will make up some crap instead of really saving face and saying he doesn’t know. Makes no sense no matter what side of the world you are on. Once you lie to me, you have lost face.

[@rickylee6129]

Good Video Paul 😊. Moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭 this June 😊.

[@Mr000TJ000]

Moving my whole family (mom & sister) to the PH in August from the U.S.A.😁. Mindanao, just north of Isulan in the province?? Lots of Muslims there??

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great Ricky. Good Luck 👍

[@usersubscriberSC]

@@Mr000TJ000 please check your travel advisory. Foreigners are strongly discouraged to go to a few areas in Mindanao before. Not sure now.

[@jwsteed]

As always, great advice Paul!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks again! Appreciated Jim

[@senseofstile]

Hooking up with a separated filipina? That would be foolhardy. I think it is a 6 year prison sentence. Also, according to Philippines law, the foreigner cannot be alone with the filipina's children and it doesn't matter if she is separated. As mentioned the separated deal will just add time to your prison sentence. It she is separated or has children, run. 🏃‍♂🏃‍♂🏃🏃

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Wow, I didn’t know that. Interesting

[@neilfisch6533]

Good info, but I have to say that this is stuff that my dad told me when I was a teenager.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Good advice then Neil 😜👍👍

[@elvisgarciadejesus]

Good topic, thanks

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Welcome, thank you

[@papashog]

I did smile when I saw your title, and it is a very good advice 👍

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Glad you liked it! I wondered if KZbin would accept it 😜😜

[@bigdreamsphilippines]

Lol 😂 I’m so glad I found your Channel ! Awesome 👏

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks so much. That is very kind

[@bigdreamsphilippines]

@@PaulWorldZoom I’m going insane here in the states thinking of my next trip to the Philippines 🇵🇭 in December. So thank you for keeping me entertained ! The Philippines 🇵🇭 ruined me ! I must live there permanently soon ! My little channel is just a distraction from the daily grind here ! Lol 😂

[@jerryfritz374]

Great advice. Sounds like a recruiting poster for the Marines. " No better friend.No worse enemy." Would rather be and make friends. Never know when you might need help in any area of life.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Nice Jerry, good points. I like that

[@garylee4107]

Yeah... being murderized would definitely throw off my plans for the week.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Yes Gary, exactly

[@garylee4107]

@@PaulWorldZoom 😄

[@amorevirgil2849]

Expats so stupid if they need this vlog ovffending pinoys.

[@dwrr4868]

Make the filipina provide a certificate of no marriage. If she won't then move on to another

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Good advice. Thank you

[@davegoody-nr3gy]

Philippines is no way near as Dangerous as mexico and the philipino are the most happiest even they got nothing they still smile and very hospitable

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I agree completely Dave. Thanks for that

[@Once800-]

The smile Is only a mask. If you somehow insult them, there’s a strong potential they’ll take revenge.

[@anniesoucek8216]

The Australian guy had a fight with a foreigner. He didn't have a fight with Filipino.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Oh yes I knew that. Thanks

[@TheSpritz0]

AGREED absolutely about Quezon City, I had ZERO problem there BUT I like you watch my manners everywhere I went shopping, etc... However, getting a haircut I WAS proposed by the MALE "Stylist" to go into a back room for a "free massage"!! Thankfully I didn't and talking with Filipino friends after they said 100% it would have been MORE than a massage!🤪

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Haha. Hilarious

[@RodgerRamjet]

dont argue with the natives.. they will know where you live, and for cheap, someone would happily cause an "accident".. if you cant see someone coming from 100yds away, i wouldnt be walking that street. if you have an issue with someone, anyone, talk to them privately, politely, almost as if you are sorry for having to even mention it, as if it causes YOU "to lose face" in doing so, conciliatory attitude is everything in some places. good tips.. .keep your temper,, better yet, keep your mouth closed..

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great great advice. Thanks for that 👍

[@bynjoe2000]

It's certainly a grim title, hehe. I'm a Filipino-American, I witness a fight break, and avoid drinking with locals because it's a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde situation you never know which one will come out. My dad said: That red horse doesn't go into their stomach, it goes into their head🤦.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks for that. Happy you got the humor. Red Horse and Tanduay, oh my

[@jacko3423]

From someone who grew up in QC, I approve this message. However, I left the Philippines in 89 and I couldn't vet on how it is now. I would like to bring my (white) wife and Hapa daughter to where I grew up someday.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I have always enjoyed going to QC. Never had a single problem. Nice place

[@dollarjilt1]

Excellent video: you are right... lovely and kind people until you push them over the edge, problem is mate that edge is right under the surface!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

You are so correct

[@richardbarbazette3535]

Does the US Veteran’s Administration cover former military health care needs?

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Only service related issues by appointment only. Terrible service

[@marcus22771]

Thanks for covering this topic. A lot other KZbinrs in the Philippines lie to their viewers about the crime statistics because their worried about views

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks so much. Appreciate it

[@Deltadawg]

Good information, but we all know, there is always those one or two that just won’t listen to this video.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

You are correct. Thanks for that

[@edgarwangsmo6]

❤My fathers last words to me :"Dont let anybody take advantage of you -and dont ever be abusive to others" ❤

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great advice 👍👍

[@christophermeaney5485]

Paul.. well done... Always take the high road when there's any kind of confrontation anywhere you are the states or overseas, see tomorrow is more important than trying to be a badass at 65😅😅😅😅

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Funny Christopher and so very true

[@mochapoundcake]

I actually feel safer whenever I’m in the Philippines than in the current environment in the US with open carry and random mass shootings. I don’t wear a watch, keep a trifold in my front pocket, and am hardly a fashionista. In other words, I don’t attract flies. 😜😜😜

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great points. I truly feel the same way. Good advice too

[@jacko3423]

I have conceal carry here where I live in the South bc I always feel that something is about to go down.

[@usersubscriberSC]

@@jacko3423 Mindanao? True. A few areas are a perennial headache for the police.

[@les8518]

Words of wisdom.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Les

[@iang3728]

Seneca was a stoic, and he said: "Give preference to the development of your mind; Be part of society, but don't fight formidable opponents; Don't worry much about wealth"

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Sound advice. Thank you

[@erickbpresident4512]

I guess just do the right thing stay away from trouble.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Very good point. I agree

[@ericjf5343]

Great video and keep them coming.

[@charliestride8803]

Great video Paul and Bob see you tomorrow bud

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks 👍 See you then 👍

[@erickbpresident4512]

We'll with that being said I think the Philippines is a place to visit. It's not a place I could live. I don't put up with bullshit.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

You would settle in, but I understand

[@ragjamrock]

I've been held up twice at gunpoint in the US once having the gun placed in my chest. The neighborhood would be considered a safe middle/ upper middle class. My point is that there's danger everywhere sometimes when you least expect it. 👀🏝️

[@topsuperseven7910]

Really? TWO TIMES this happened to you? Where was this? It's very difficult to believe your story.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Wow amazing. Happy you are okay. Scary. Correct, you have to be careful

[@ragjamrock]

I understand, if it didn't happen to me I'd find it hard to believe also. In Pembroke Pines,Fla. 7 and 10 yrs ago. I'm retired now and don't take my "safe" neighborhood for granted anymore. Still love it here.👍🏼🇺🇲🏝️

[@jamesrecknor6752]

Three times robbed at gun point in Denver Colorado.

[@topsuperseven7910]

@@ragjamrock It's some kind of astonishing outlier of a thing because as a pretty strong rule, throughout most any middle/upper middle class neighborhood that would be shocking news to happen just once to one person and the chances of it happening twice.. and this is someone actually shoving a gun in your chest.. this is astonishing rare but bad luck. It would be fair to assume the police did NOT believe you the second time you phoned 911 and reported it. They must have suspected you were lying and up to something like maybe you gambled away your paycheck and invented this 'gunpoint mugging' story both times. Of course, even though the chances of that ever happening to anyone in their entire lives in nearly every and all US middle class comfortable neighborhoods is incredibly unlikely - yes its true that it can happen and has happened anywhere. Why did you need to make that point though? Did you think people were viewing this and might have thought "OH NO.. Deadly Crime only happens in the Philippines!' Do you really think that's how stupid viewers really are? So stupid that you needed to make a point and tell them "Hey.. heads up.. crime happens all over the world too!". That's what absolutely stupid low IQ buffoons YOU BELIEVE must be watching this video?

[@kenamaro]

Don’t let your girlfriends husband find out where you are staying !! 😬

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Now that is funny

[@Sustainability657]

🤣🤣😂😂

[@davetherave4599]

Excellent advice. Thanks!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Glad it was helpful!

[@artqq7425]

From this video, I got the impression that the Philippines is a dangerous country to live or to visit. Then I remembered having read on line the Gallup’s latest Global Law and Order Report. From what I know, Gallup is a US consultancy firm based in Washington. I googled the said report. This was what I find out. Overall, Singapore was the safest country with a law and order index score of 96. The Philippines was on the 30th spot with a score of 85. It is tied with France, Hongkong, Croatia and Slovakia. The US ranked 41st with a score of 83. It is tied with Italy, Germany, Armenia and Lithuania. The other Southeast asian countries ranking: Indonesia, 5th (92); Vietnam, 29th (86), Cambodia, 40th (84); Laos, 50th (82); Malaysia, 52nd (81); Thailand, 77th (76); Myanmar, 85th, (73)

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks I agree. You know how statistics work 😎😎 I feel safe

[@raimovirtanen1568]

Smart comments, but u can live there cheaper than 1600 USD...

[@PaulWorldZoom]

That is true for sure. Just my choice of living. Thanks

[@Msgt97]

Great Info Paul

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Scott

[@motor-head]

I had briefly entertained the idea of visiting the Philippines. A couple weeks and a few dozen videos later and that idea has been filed in the "bad" folder.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I hope it wasn’t my videos. I like the Philippines and would encourage a visit. Nice people. Just be careful

[@jamesrecknor6752]

Risk verses reward; I have ended up engaged to a wonderful lady from a kind, loving family in Philippines, and have a adopted daughter, and her three dozen cousins lol.

[@motor-head]

@@PaulWorldZoom It was definitely your video's and I'm not coming anywhere near that place. 😉 _All kidding aside, I might get out there one day but I'm not sure I have the patience or temperament for it to be a good fit. Keep in mind, I'm not looking for a permanent residence or for "companionship". I just like to travel 2 or 3 months of the year to escape the desert heat and to see new places before I get too old to do it._

[@CEOkiller]

You need to be careful anywhere in the world…

[@nightguy5796]

Another great video Paul.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks again!

[@timg5463]

I looked at several sources and the only one that had Philippines listed had it listed as the 37th most dangerous country. USA was 35th. What is your source?

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I’m not home now, but had the sources listed on a previous video. I think about Davao and Mindanao. I’ll check

[@keithadams2368]

Preciate the sage advice As a rule I never stay in bars after a certain hour the military taught me that😂The fights I've seen right out of a movie alcohol fueled of course!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great advice Keith. No closing time 👍👍

[@reidadams4277]

Another good video. Good information. Keep em comin.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks, will do! Thanks Reid

[@locker1325]

Mostly common sense advice. Much of it deals with putting away your tough guy ego in certain situations. Not doing business is just plain wise council.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

So true

[@charlesweatherly3586]

Paul one of the biggest disadvantages a foreigner will have in an ESL country is not speaking/understanding the language; it can put one at risk in a big way along with not knowing some of the laws regarding relationships. It comes down to not knowing the lay of the land and being impetuous.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Our tempers and spicy mouth can get the best of us. Life is Very cheap here

[@colinweir3203]

I'm Australian I'm coming over July- August, I don't smoke, drink or go to bars, which I hate . I'm 60, I've been sick twice in 36 years, I'm one stripe away from my black belt in BJJ and I've done Martial arts all my life and Kali for 3 years. I don't gamble, I want to start a business, and I'm learning Tagalog, I've heard about the roosters and taxi drivers. I know some people over there and have a woman waiting for me, I'm came to Australia when I was 7, from Papua new Guinea. I come from a well educated military family and I love different cultures. I also speak a little Spanish. Would love to meet when I come over.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Please, that would be great. Let me know when you arrive

[@colinweir3203]

@PaulWorldZoom Will do brother

[@jonhenson5450]

NEVER, express your opinions about birth control/abortion. NEVER.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Haha great point Jon. Good one

[@SmallLiving958]

Thank you for this information. As we tell people we want to move there, safety is one of their first questions. I would like to point them towards this video, because our reasons for moving greatly offset the risks, and I think this video would actually reassure them. If I can have a clear picture of the lifestyle and habits I want to have in the Philippines, I think it will help keep me safe. (Funny, but my parents, who travel regularly to the Philippines and other countries, did not ask about this)

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Yes, absolutely. Thanks

[@jesse75]

First. Don't go to bars. Then don't go out late Friday and Saturday night. After church in the morning, watch out for a pick pocket and snatcher.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

All good advice. Thanks

[@waltertodd4479]

What amazes me in the philippines is how easy it is to get dragged into one of these unpleasant situations. Outside a pharmacy in Caloocan where i went to buy medicine for my wifes cold were 3 street boys who wanted a handout. When i told them no and to move on they got pissed. I was lucky there was a filipino cop nearby who saw the whole incident come down and took them to jail. This aint the USA folks. Dont for a minute think you can beat these punks. Yes you may win the fight only to loose it later on. I also have seen punk girls become aggressive and demanding too. Fortunately the cops try to watch out for the foreigners. This was at 1730 in the afternoon too.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Not a good place to live

[@HessianAssociator]

I don’t know you, but seems to me you’re on the right track. I pray that everything works well for you, and you have the joy of walking in the redemption of our Lord Jesus Christ.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks that is very kind

[@tomscott7013]

Spot on!!!

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks a lot Tom

[@jimbarrow9638]

Eye-catching title grabs your attention right away thanks for the great information. I might have to look for me above so I got somebody to watch my six.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Jim. I always appreciate your comments

[@geridayao8924]

Maybe try avoiding the song " my way" in the Videoke.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Funny. I like that

[@cynthiagrykuliak6255]

Hi! My hubby and I watch your channel all the time and we find it very informative but I was wondering if you can modulate your voice to a little deeper tone. I don’t know if anybody else has made this comment before but you would probably get a wider audience if your voice was a little deeper.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Great suggestion! Okay, first time I’ve heard that. Appreciate it

[@free2roam674]

Excellent advice. It boils down too, Be a decent person and treat others with respect. Why would you ever "invest" in a business there? I am going there to retire and relax. Angry drunks get what they deserve, best for those guys to stay home. Stiffing a bar girl?!!! Seriously. Wow. Disgraceful and stupid.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I agree. Great thoughts and advice

[@mikejones5364]

Great Video, You are spot on.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thank you kindly! I appreciate that

[@barbaracardwell2039]

So very true about causing a person to lose face in front of their friends and or family. Pay back is always a serious possibility.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

So true. Thanks

[@jesse75]

Filipino hold grudges. Forever.

[@Once800-]

A friend’s fiance got killed in southern Philippines cuz he got a girl (early 20s) pregnant. The brothers killed him cuz he refused to marry their sister.

[@josephbanys8396]

Thank you so much for this

[@PaulWorldZoom]

You're so welcome!

[@ronw1vet]

I am allergic to getting murdered

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Haha Love it

[@mike196425]

I have always heard that Mindanao was the most dangerous place to go in the Philippines.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Hi Mike. Overall, I would agree. However, Davao City is regarded as the safest city in the Philippines. As with other countries with a certain population, other areas are no go zones for expats and tourists

[@Midwest10]

@@PaulWorldZoomonly because it was the last Presidents hometown and his daughters. You can come up missing in S Cotabato

[@michaelhawk8230]

Gnite Paul Gnite Bob,thanks for the words of longevity and wisdom…

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Thanks Michael. Have a great night

[@johnwilliams2305]

Good advice always be aware of your surroundings the fake friendships never ever buy or invest in anything you can't afford to walk away from that also includes women top of the list lve been in thailand a decade and lies and deception are all part of the expat scene you soon learn to become very synical and suspicious of people's motivations

[@amorevirgil2849]

Stupid going there in first place.... uLoooking for trouble by going

[@PaulWorldZoom]

John, I understand entirely. You are exactly correct. I longer you’re abroad, the more you see

[@dave9456]

Treating Westerners as Doners really irritates me, blatant rude scrounging I find so disrespectful, several times I have reacted and found my self in threatening situations with the locals, really need to get a grip of myself

[@PaulWorldZoom]

I understand completely Dave. Sometimes it is just irritating

[@jesse75]

Philippine law says you can't take your in-laws to court and sue them.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Seriously, I had no idea. Interesting

[@jackroth5110]

I live here. This guy has pretty much got it right.

[@PaulWorldZoom]

Wow, thanks a lot Jack