Avoid this relationship destroyer

[@CatGirl-xq9pj]

In Tasmania the test of whether someone is a good person or a friend is apparently "would this person drive to pick me up on the side of the road if my car broke down."

[@djalepenos8547]

and the factor that decides whether theyre your romantic partner is whether they are related to you

[@BradGryphonn]

What I love about this channel is the background image showing the effects of rising sea levels on Pacific islands.

[@cosmicwatchmaker9353]

No It shows a beautiful Tropical island, your poisoned mind sees the effects of rising sea levels on Pacific islands, the photo does not show this.

[@androidbunny9031]

This shed a lot of light on an event that happened to me. Recently had to break away from a long standing friendship, childhood friend. Realize now that while I had low expectations for them, they had very high expectations of what I had to provide them and I couldn't match that. In the end I think it caused this friend to view me with contempt, I understand in their mind I broke their trust when I didn't meet their ridiculous standards. Plus they were an insanely jealous person. Thanks Jordan, this has weirdly given me closure.

[@TheDizeazedKiller]

God I've had this, but I know I've made the same mistake so i can't hold it against anyone. I read a book a while back by Erich Fromm, described it as (paraphrasing) them putting you up on a pedestal and feeling betrayal when you shatter the illusion. Feels shit on either side.

[@mrtheman548]

This principle can also be applied to friendships as well as a relationships. Trust is absolutely crucial at the cores of both

[@taravills]

a really good example is the friends who will help you move house; they are the best

[@hoodooboogaloo]

Content has been A+ this week jordies

[@mildjellisc]

I remembered and forgot that Jordan Shanks was talking to me about relationship advice over ten times during this video, love it

[@kgames82]

This was 17:23 of incomprehensible rambling. 10/10.

[@TheDizeazedKiller]

Ive been following this for a while with all relationships, romantic and otherwise, but ive thought of it more as a capacity for genuine effort. I can feel the difference between between people who want to put effort and time in because that's who they are, and people who do it out of obligation or expectation, and the latter will always eventually fizzle out. The difference between "thats just who I am" and "this is what i have to do", intrinsic vs extrinsic

[@durandus676]

13:52 my girlfriend doesn’t understand why I love her. She put my best interest first. So I stopped everything and put her first. She found out how much work I do, and her response was that she’ll do her best to support me even if she’s not confident about her abilities. I wanted to cry she’s amazing.

[@SandPounder]

Shiiiiit, this hits home. It's bad that all the people I trust (using your definition, which is as good of a definition for Trust that I've ever heard) is the people I spend 40 hours a week alongside. Can't rely on anyone else. Does also lend a new light onto relationships that one partner doesn't trust the other

[@cow3212]

The movie with Bruce Willis was the sixth sense

[@MrDoorChime]

No am de hard

[@Dorydoodleoo]

Die hard ❤

[@Dungeontai]

I am very smart indeed...

[@nameshaillay2691]

Intention changes action. if you do something to "try to be cool", you will be cringe. the same action will have different outcomes (unfortunately, following this advice in order to get the benefit is aslo uncool intentions, and will make the behaviour cringey. you don't do something to be cool, you do it because its cool and you want to do it).

[@andrewt233]

Truth bomb! Thx Jordan!

[@Vagabond247]

I haven't watched the video, but I would love to see you do a video on the importance of laughter in a relationship. And the importance of humor.

[@Dorydoodleoo]

Oml so much this!

[@piepods]

I trust there'll be more wigs in the next vid.

[@BJL2142]

thank you Jordan :)

[@KALEL1982]

There are 2 people I trust above all else, my wife whom has earned my trust, respect, love and friendship. And my best mate, whom of which I would take a bullet for him before I would for my actual brothers.

[@ItsNket]

JORDAN I CANT TELL IF THIS IS SATIRE AND I DO NOT LIKE THAT ABOUT MYSELF RIGHT NOW

[@JamesBorealis]

My love language is non existent, trust is non existent, my life is effed

[@Elemblue2]

Get a puppy and raise it. It will teach you the contact and favors ones. Or youll suck and it will be sad.

[@Suhgurim]

Hey jordies, I had a cooker drop off a copy of newspaper written by cookers (called "the light Australia") if you want it to have a laugh at I'll happily send it too you

[@oscarstrokosz2986]

damn, I dunno if I have any outside my family. I probably do but will need to think more about it

[@MrDoorChime]

Love the content G you quickly became one of my favorite youtubers to watch.

[@Elemblue2]

The root of all currency is Trust. Thats why trading is what people who cant trust eachother do. If you cant trust eachother, you can at least trust ore to be ore and wheat to be wheat. Thanks for the advice Jordan. Ill try to keep it in mind. Its hard to keep all this at the front of your brain though.

[@Kruse1]

It's like ze story of the hippopotamoos.

[@The_Absolute_Dog]

Just do what I do, be unattractive. No trust issues when there's nobody to trust.

[@riddasarus]

Okayyy, so what if intent is just them saying "Yeah, I have your best interests at heart, I'm trying," but their actions tell you the opposite?

[@ericadouglas6004]

I bet they only had one car so that he could control her lolll

[@Dorydoodleoo]

😂 stfu okay hahaha Soooooo I got sucked into a situation ship with a narcissistic sad nerd who had a god complex 😂

[@lj-gotnext3012]

Great video Jordan, more relationship based videos would be amazing.

[@blazz9237]

Fuck me that one hits hard. Good video

[@PneumaticFrog]

Jordan looking mighty cute today 😍

[@nostalgiaof98]

Is it possible to have a relationship perfect the first go from watching literally everyone else fuck up around you

[@dangalanga6941]

He truely is the new Tony Robbins 😂😂

[@IamthePMofAustralia]

Latin America - pov Europe. Gold.

[@ggcelina]

i actually hate gifts 👀 far more interested in staying the entire video (spending time) for that ad revenue & the interesting story 14:30

[@jeronimoamorin5367]

Love this man's charisma but good God are his accent impressions atrocious! Lord have mercy

[@Dorydoodleoo]

9:17 I was trying, he absolutely fucking wasnt

[@happymoments3863]

Was thinking about this today on the train. I think (yes, I do think a lot) it is more sexual and someone that makes you feel like you found the Jackpot and can show off to your friends? That said, I am single by choice as I have yet to find someone sexually attractive. The end.

[@joshuabrigden4820]

this was just an advertisement for zappo's

[@Nixdb]

Their best intentions or their best interest?

[@BradGryphonn]

You can't have a relationship without mutual trust.

[@palpaladin315]

Yeah, everythings about intent. Thats why preconceptions are a trap and propaganda feeds only idiots. Skepticism isn't just for stoics, everyone is ..more or less 😃, educated, so - be deductive.

[@djsweatshirtx]

Go king

[@chrismousley1668]

My love language is watching Fboy island .. is this background from Fboy island?

[@jamessugden1616]

They pretend to forgive in order to seek vengeance most of the time

[@Dorydoodleoo]

110% hun

[@Glxdiatorr]

I got a question is it possible to date someone with different political beliefs? I feel like there's a scale or... speedometer level before it's too much, but I'm curious if you disagree with anything with your gf that can't be remediated?

[@John-ei6xg]

if you're not a stupid asshole about it it's not an issue at all. People don't fail to mesh because of different views they fail to mesh because of a lack of respect.

[@我的家-j4b]

What John said. Legit, you don't need to agree politically to be with or love someone. There's plenty of couples and parents that lean opposite of each other politically and still love each other.

[@Elemblue2]

If you have conversations with each other you'll usually find you believe more or less the same things but the opposite propaganda core got to you first. If you genuinly disagree on a fundamental stance, then at least you know why. Usually thats emotional, and its hard to blame someone for that. For some things you just have to make a choice.

[@geraltofnivea1434]

Good point made Jordan, but kind off hard to take advice from a political, comedic genius with a history in modelling that has the skull shape that people in the black pill community refer to when trying to absolve their miserable lives of the slightest bit of responsibility.

[@EvanLovesWhiskey]

It seems rare to find a partner in America. Like a real partner in l life. Because of expectations that our society are fucking fantasy

[@MissusAnon]

Bruz friendly request to do a video about Jacksfilms being doxxed and youtube doing jack shit about it 🙏 as you have had your house firebombed, I'm sure you understand the weight that this lack of decision has on YT's part at least in some respect, your voice added to the crowd would be great 💖love you

[@aaronharris8245]

100%

[@hayleybuley3533]

Does your producer know you get on molly every few months and pull off one of these videos 😂

[@the_youngtom]

The intro is SOOOOO loud!

[@leamog]

You are talking about sexwee

[@CharlieWhite-zq7zc]

you need to work on your Boston accent (new englander)

[@smithy2692]

Wow im early

[@Alex-uk3vn]

Jordan, you smell

[@MinnieMakeup_]

yea men all decided to just stop trying as a species