Reclaim Your Self Worth

Most of us will experience some degree of insecurity or inadequacy in life.. the feeling of not being enough.. feelings as if we may have little or no value. What does it mean to have self worth, and how might we reclaim it?
"Self Worth comes from one thing; thinking that you are worthy."
- Wayne W. Dyer
"Owning our worthiness is the act of acknowledging that we are sacred."
- Brene Brown
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[@erinsuzy613]

I'm such an introvert that I don't want to be on anyone's radar, then I get sad because no one thinks of me or invites me to stuff. I self sabotage myself. Its annoying. Thanks for the video.

[@howardcohen6817]

What are the advantages of being an introvert?

[@sandrashevel2137]

I'm like that too. Many hugs

[@erinsuzy613]

@@howardcohen6817 I like that I don't need a lot of attention and I'm not addicted to drama. 🤷‍♀️

[@howardcohen6817]

@@erinsuzy613 Thank you for the answer, erinsuzy.

[@artivan111]

Awareness is the first step towards change ✌

[@FutureMindset]

It seems that people have this inherent desire to be likeable and appreciated by everyone. The need for validation is strong among humans and we tend to think that if we're not validated by everyone, then it means that there's something we need to fix about ourselves. But it's important to realize that our mere existence makes it so that not everyone will like us and honestly, that's fine. It really doesn't matter.

[@howardcohen6817]

This is just not true, Future. Neither validation nor being liked forces anyone to fix stuff unless we think it needs fixing. Today, I was waiting in the doctor's office looking out the window and watching the traffic. Do you know that nothing that happened in the five minutes I was watching was predictable. None of the movements or length of time of the stopping, or idiosyncrasies of the pedestrians. How traffic turned left was infinitely different. Starting after the light turned green, slowing down and stopping at the red light etc. this was all different. Did you know that the blown bubbles all move at different speeds, directions and trajectories? When we average all out we say that wind is moving at x mph in a certain direction. But really each molecule of air has its own energy level, heat level and direction. It's next to impossible to validate what you can't predict. You CAN marvel at this, though.

[@sandycarter5300]

@@howardcohen6817 Future is saying the exact opposite of this.

[@howardcohen6817]

@@sandycarter5300 Well, Future's speech was ambivalent saying first that some desires are inherent and strong and that reality shows us that this isn't especially important. But I don't agree that I'm particularly looking for validation - I'm just looking to hear you and to be heard. Sandy, don't you feel that I heard you in your taking exception to what I wrote? Do you feel that I took your comment as an attack? on me? Thanks, though, for wanting to set me straight on what Future wrote. I'm grateful. Love.

[@stephaniecallahan5356]

@@howardcohen6817 sooo you’re not looking for validation but you’d like to be heard… seems like splitting hairs here; wanting to be heard means you’d like to feel a sense of validation… and there’s nothing wrong with that… we all need to feel loved, appreciated and important to the people in our lives… anyhoo, much love ..

[@howardcohen6817]

@@stephaniecallahan5356 I don't agree with your assessment, Stephanie. Hearing and being heard is necessary to take proper action and is the basis for common understanding. It is neither proving that I am a good person, nor even that I exist (which is what I think of when using the term "validation"). It's quite the opposite. I validate reality and don't misuse reality - yours or anyone else's - to validate me. I am already convinced that I exist. Thanks for your love. Love.

[@ShaneAusinka6]

Never rely on someone else's perception of our worth.....it will always be less than what you're actually worth.

[@elharrop]

Needed to hear this today after being suddenly discarded for no apparent reason, thank you.

[@stephaniecallahan5356]

Hope you’re feeling better… sending love ❤️

[@tstar5944]

Hope u are better. What u need can't be discarded, only whats bad for u. Sending 🥰🥰🙏

[@stopmotionmoron2373]

The same thing happened to me recently,but you know what,I now dont let it bother me

[@kaelightupthedark]

sometimes rejection is protection ❤️

[@sylvanamarilore]

You you held my hand during my depression, thankyou for helping me getting better 💫❤️🌍

[@TacTar]

1. Not everyone is meant/going to be your friend. 2. How someone makes you feel isn't your responsibility to manage, it is their karma that you are experiencing. 3. The mind is always fertile. Be aware of the seeds and the weeds. 4. There is no positive or negative person, only positive or negative momentum.

[@mahlina1220]

People often forget that their own self-worth _doesn’t_ depend on others. Being here in our own spiritual existence, and yet, having a _human_ experience, as French philosopher Pierre Thiehard de Chardin once said-in essence is special within itself. By that evaluation, we are guided by our own _inherent_ self-worth to express our greatest gifts most humanly possible, w/a spiritual desire to manifest our dreams in our collective _shared experiences._

[@elena7834]

Always coming in just when I need you

[@Cali-Kelli]

I miss your calming videos. Come back soon :)

[@chrismel1986]

Thanks, Nada. This is actually one of my favorite channel in yt.

[@bradp4216]

Thank you for your loving insights . One love 💚

[@devil_pls]

i am so glad i found this Channel !!

[@leyahruizdeloreto6420]

So great! Thank you for this reminder.

[@katestocker6066]

You’re such a light , thanks 🙏🏼

[@marivicmarcial7635]

Thank you so much for sharing.

[@SEMPLANOS77]

We try our best to do everything with love and are discarded like that nothing that we do is good. Some people it seems can't se any good only focus on things that you don't do.

[@DrumWild]

I run into trouble with this when what other people think has a measurable impact on me. For example, I struggle with finding gainful employment. As I write this, I have a gap on my resume that is over 5 years wide. I'm working with someone who helps people like me. He wrote last week, "Don't worry about the gap. EVER." My response was that I typically do not worry about the gap or make an issue of it. The problem is that prospective employers are the ones who make it an issue. And since they get to determine whether or not I get to eat tomorrow, what they think of either me or aspects of my life DOES matter. Autistic adults like myself currently enjoy a 90% unemployment rate. Good times. I've also struggled with what my value might be to others. When I find potential "friends," I panic at the idea that I need to bring value in order to keep these friends. I'd then put myself in a position where I end up going out of my way. Next thing you know, I have friends merely because they get favors, which is wrong. The alternative is that I have no friends, which is where I currently reside. Of course, I don't require this of them, and yet I've required it of myself in the other direction. So for the past five years, I've had no job and no friends. I'm a burden on my mother, who helps me survive. Maybe the hardest part is that I can find NO good reason to keep up this charade. I'm only postponing the inevitable. Yes, I have professionals working with me on this. Knowing me, I'll figure it out and understand it right as I draw my last breath. That's not really helpful.

[@alexalexander3140]

God bless you.

[@hgcalben8241]

Value is subjective and your value of yourself is created by yourself. If you believe you have value, you are right. If you believe you are worthless then you are also right.

[@FancyRavenmoon]

I love this perspective!!

[@josefheinz5309]

"i'm just a fool whose intentions are good oh lord! please don't let me be misunderstood"

[@milandisilva2564]

Thank you ❤

[@daybo6855]

Thank you! I have been dealing with this for so long, this helps tremendously in finding my self esteem and not feeling unworthy based on someone else's opinion or emotions.

[@benzz2006]

The journey of acceptance is a toxic environment from social media, to a job hire, to family and friends. I hate the fact that we all need some level of it in order to get somewhere in life, but some relationships/industries/popularities just require a bit much more than others. I am learning, after facing rejection ever since I was an adolescent in a much more abundance than my peers, that even if it means being alone for most of it, I have to be the best me' for my soul. Us underdogs are pushed aside for now (for now'), but in due time, the pushers and gatekeepers will have their time when they need us, .....it always comes FULL'! circle. Let's preserve ourselves for now. The outside society wants to kill the ones that are the hardest at shell. When everyone else cracks and breaks, we will be the last ones standing. Trust and Believe!

[@mandiraroy7125]

Thank you Nada..this was just on time...❤️

[@mpolokeng1736]

You have changed my way of thinking in so many ways. Thank you 🌻

[@christophercirocco8611]

Super helpful. Thank You

[@minecraftfuntazerbuilds9347]

You’re so soothing!

[@amandab4200]

Thank you! I needed this today 💕

[@voyagemusicstudio2758]

This is so on point... We determine our own value. It is important to see our value independent of other's perception of us. Any recomendations of books on the topic of self worth from this perspective? Thanks! ❤️

[@oddanneout]

Yup. Resonating with me right now. Thank you. 😉

[@manaoharsam4211]

Self worth is an illusion. It is the ego that creates this feeling in you that you are worth something . In actuality when you feel despair then it is clear indication you have not realized. Some say you experience eternity when you all broken. Not sure if this experience of eternity can be explained by purely scientific basis, or is it something beyond science.

[@marinoscarpa895]

Grazie veramente

[@ninnin2200]

🙏💓

[@augustveronicajane2080]

💓🌸

[@jasonjarred5198]

We miss you! It’s been 6 months since an update .... hope you’re doing well energy-brother 🙏🏻

[@jenniferclack2299]

No new video from you for a while, everything ok?

[@sumbae7668]

Hello I wanted to ask if you have any videos on how to noticing anger instead of swallowing it? Thank you

[@basedup2734]

Would love to see you do an in depth video on vulnerability and all that it encompasses, certainly would appreciate your insight and wisdom on the topic!

[@ReynaSingh]

Others perception of you is not a reflection of you, it is a reflection of them.

[@gioovannabp]

So true! ❣️

[@theunclejesusshow8260]

@@gioovannabp yeah, that's pretty much it🌠🌞

[@galacticglitter6612]

So much this!💗

[@espahbod]

So im starving, not him

[@Khh444]

Nice😘

[@1endlesssoul]

There will always be somebody who can’t see your worth, don’t let that somebody be you. - peace and love from a growing youtuber ✌🏽💚

[@LayRae13]

we must follow a lot of the same people 🤗

[@pyewackett5]

Maybe the herd mentality. It works for some species

[@pyewackett5]

...safety in numbers prhaps

[@theunclejesusshow8260]

Right On Cuzinz 🌠🌞

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

Endlessoul - I've been noticing your comments everywhere. :) Can you tell me your top 3-5 favourite KZbinrs?

[@amberv4223]

So spooky. This morning I went to the woods with my daughter and I was just sitting and thinking how nice it was. Then I had this wave of like “why do I allow myself to think I’m always less then others”, it was almost like a massive wave of how I shouldn’t do that anymore.

[@patriciagriffin1505]

Yes bc in thinking that you unconsciously transfer those feelings and thoughts to your lovely daughter

[@Dethian666]

everything we looking for we already have just have to apreciate it

[@hud8265]

@@Dethian666 this comment bright tears to my eyes 🤍

[@galacticglitter6612]

You can be the juiciest, most plump peach in the bunch, and there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches.

[@split23e]

Your wisdom and shared thughts are always welcome like a soothening medicine! Thank you Nada!

[@gioovannabp]

Listening to this for the second time today. It was so important for me, I'm definitely going to write this whole video down and listen again and again. Everyone should. ❤️

[@myselfasevan]

this man has not posted a video in two months, I hope he's okay

[@nadiacavallini4728]

This is one of the best messages I’ve ever heard’ thank you 🙏

[@poojanarewadikar7777]

Whenever i see your video pop up...just by seeing thumbnail..i feel so soothing...❤️

[@gioovannabp]

It's easy to limit the perception of our self worth when we encounter people that don't see it in us... We have to see it in ourselves first 💕 this came in the best moment

[@charmincat]

we have to see it in ourselves and be okay with letting that be enough ❤️🙏

[@LisaFirestone]

Awaken insight, this is an extraordinary message that deeply touches me. I was curious about why I had chosen to receive notifications from you, and now I remember why. Your clarity, and Gentleness in sharing this wisdom Opened me right up to hearing the message. It allowed me to receive what you were saying without any resistance. I am feeling such gratitude for your generosity, and a little more empowered than I was half an hour ago before listening. Thank you

[@LisaFirestone]

@@mickrozycki451 As we speak, I am. Thank you for the compliment

[@aishahkenny2037]

What a relief to read such interesting comments. Beautiful minds. Beautiful souls 💕

[@Dan_Corkery]

I've noticed you haven't posted anything on here for some time now. I sincerely hope all is well with you and yours..and that you will be able to share your thoughts and spiritual insights with us all again soon. Peace and love. 🌹

[@mrsapplez2007]

Few mins in and this is definitely needed. Will watch fully later. Its not me...its them...and thats ok. 💫💜💫

[@chrisb4653]

Thank you so much for your sensitive and clear talk. It has helped me understand much of my problem. I'm listening to a lot of your posts from France (I'm French). English is a second language but you speak so clearly with such a good articulation that I understand 100% . Thank you again.

[@marivicmarcial7635]

You got it right. Sensitive and clear talk. So thankful for him for sharing his thoughts on self worth.

[@secretiveuniversalove8202]

Where are you?.. lease come out and share guidance when you're ready!!.. I truly miss you!!.. Sending peace and strength!!..Love!!..

[@lachlan7802]

Jesus Christ is the Saviour of the world! Repent of your sins and turn to God for forgiveness. Jesus hung on a cross so you and I can be forgiven! Time here is short, Eternity is long!

[@kr1eger]

Really enjoy the mood and atmosphere of your videos. :) Keep it up!

[@sammiz3744]

While we live unconsciously with ego steering the wheel, it seems in my experience, self worth is not very high so others opinions of ourselves is more important. As we live consciously, we (I) realise that our own self worth is much more important than what others think of us. If you are living mindfully we hopefully accept things about ourselves and others. Ego still exists but not the driver, now only a passenger.

[@HelloAllie]

LOKAH SAMASTAH SUKHINO BHAVANTU 💚👽🛸🐶😻🐄🐷🐔🦜🦚🐳🐬🍀🍄🌎

[@shweta8895]

Where are you we are waiting for your video

[@abracadabra8799]

It's all good with you? Why you haven't posted nothing?

[@tillyvickers2721]

Thank you! So true and well put.🥰👌

[@FeelingIsHealing]

“You’re not for everyone & everyone is not for you” ~ Awaken Insight ~

[@artemisnectar7]

Awaken Insight🙏🏽🙋🏽‍♀️, bless up & ty 4 the reflective uploadz, they have helped me immensely! ❤💛💚 sending luv & light 2 U🦋💙🦋

[@JeffMaraPodcast]

Would you be a guest on my podcast?

[@ChicoDelage]

this video resonated with me deeply. I was meant to hear your message. Thank you

[@nima4719]

I feel that I am useless, if someone compliment me, I cannot believe it , I think they said just try to please me. It's not others opinion makes me unworthy, it's me I cannot convince myself that I am worthy, it's like I am not good at anything .

[@symbioz2]

Thanks. Your examples really help understand the concepts.

[@amyroberts9761]

I miss you Nada. Please come back. Me and the world are waiting. Peace. .

[@yjayflow777]

So true! We are equally valuable and it has nothing to do with one’s status in life or other’s opinion of us. Simply because we exist; are consciously aware at some level; and possess the ability to raise higher in awareness supports our innate value. Though we are part of a collective consciousness, true awareness begins with self-self worth, self acceptance. For those who desire it, it is a life-long process to better know who and what we are while simultaneously enhancing our unique, individual and collective awareness.

[@Godisgreat-777]

Thank you! I’m still shocked at the people who immediately become quite horrible to me, when I simply say something that doesn’t align with their own thoughts and beliefs. I have actually had them become quite nasty to me. I would love to go to the place where people’s love is unconditional and who have open hearts and minds. It’s rough being in the area I live. I do believe in God, so I feel I have everything I need and more. God please bless everyone here!!🙏🏼❤️

[@con_doorman]

To prove your point, this excellent video has 3 dislikes so far. You can't please everyone!

[@anonygent]

Why do we value the opinions of those who devalue us more than we value the opinions of others who appreciate us? Because the former are attractive and the latter are not.

[@freespirit-111]

Yes, some people value the tree for the shade, others for the lumber. Value is truly subjective

[@TheSolitary1]

Thanks for this video

[@spanishflufilms2103]

Please what is the opening music track at the start of every video?

[@littlecaladan]

One of the most important channels on this site ❤🙏 so many blessings to you and all

[@motherearth9290]

This inability to love oneself or anyone else applies to women too. . So many times we think this is about men. Let me tell you, women everywhere are suffering from huge deficiencies in self love and i mean the good kind... Men, be sure that she really does love and care for herself b4 you give it heart... Women, can we reach out to the sisters that we see suffering in this way and build each other up? This to me is as important as the priority that we place on our romantic relations... Bc we can't keep what we have (good romantic relationships rooted in self worth) unless we are also giving it away! Love and peace to all❤️😘🌈

[@igorb7173]

O brother, where art thou?

[@carospereman3537]

Amen to that brother. Misinterpretations, unkind words, meanness, from others, is not our short comings (which I thought was in the past), but it's their shortcomings. Reclaiming self worth is so important and we must tend to it daily.

[@redflag4255]

This is an especially deep one for me because since childhood I believed my creator hates me because my christian uncle told me that it is my fault my father was abusing and hurting my mother and my sister becuase of the "evil" videogames I played and my gaming magazines and comics (which heburned and it had a green flames) which apparenty brought demons into our home when I was 10 years old and ever since that age i tried everything in my power for god to love me and hated myself for putting my family through the pain and went to drugs and sex and self harm because of the emphsis I put on god to love me which never came into being. i finally dealt with the trauma after months alone in Covid isolation. I wanted to commit suicide. Thanks for the video. I wish grownups would take responsibility for their actions. And saying it out loud actually makes it seem so incredibly absurd but this was my reality. i had an extremely abusive father. ironically the game i was playing was Resident Evil 3 and my father was exactly like the Nemisis in that game. A tyrant! I have no slef esteem or self worth. My father called me names every day and couldnt stand being around me because he actualy believed what my uncle said was true and justified his actons that way and they enforced it by continued to come to our house and burn my only childhood belongings and escape from true tyrrany.

[@v-spirituality]

I'm so sorry you had to go through that, happy to hear you're healing now!

[@marcies1297]

Dude none of that was your fault. Your father hated himself and likely experienced a lot of abuse also as a child which he was projecting onto you. No offense but dont allow psychotic famiky members to dictate your self worth. Cut ties FOREVERRRRRRR and bless you. There is a light

[@marcies1297]

P.s. god loves u

[@amyroberts9761]

I was so excited to see this that i got a bit shaky!! Such an important and crucial topic. I remember a time when i did not feel so important. I wasn't really taught about really knowing and loving yourself. I mean, i would hear some say the words : You should love yourself," but that was the end of it. You explained it here so beautifully. I have felt quite misunderstood for most of my life. Because of my unique {from the heart} style, it seems that there have been so many that think that's all i'm about, all i talk about. I have had quite a few come up to me and say: "you look so cool!" "I wish i had the guts to do that!" And although that is fine and good, i would start feeling so alone when i would proceed to let them know that i truly dress from my heart, and go on to more meaningful conversation, and i see the wall they just put up! Everything i do comes from my heart, and that's what i want to convey with others. There have even been people that i really thought i would have a deep connection with, but all they wanted to talk about is where i got my dress, or how i did my hair the way i did. It was actually quite disturbing to me. I knew that i had so much more to offer, to put on the table. It is a very lonely feeling. But i am learning that there is a beauty within that. I had only heard about you a couple of months ago, and have already watched most of your videos. There have been some that i have watched 2 or 3 times! I have really been benefiting from them. Your kind words, your gentle voice, and your ever reaching and compassionate eyes, calm my nerves more than anything else ever has. On my journey, i am realizing more and more, that i don't need everyone to understand me, to "get me." As you said, some are just incapable. I do believe at this time in my life, i feel more "alright" with me then i ever have, and i bid thee thanks!

[@achillesdalessandro4322]

Very powerful and wise! Thanks

[@dharavasishth]

♥️

[@Cheesus4jesus]

The most difficult aspect of self worth for me is as a parent. I did my best to raise kind, ethical people. I routinely go out of my way to help while not interfering and get treated as though I'm invisible...until they need a favor . It saddens me that my adult children are self centered, materialistic, but I keep my thoughts to myself, but it weighs heavily on me.

[@krisshensley9388]

Just my opinion .... Life will teach them what they came to Earth to learn. There is no escape route.

[@shortycareface9678]

I recently had a fallout with someone I'd been chatting to online, due to my having expressed myself in a way which was disfavorable to them. However, instead of telling me this, they choose to let it slide... and then later got mad and broke off communication. Ultimately, as I see it, there is nothing I could have done to prevent this -- I cannot read anyone's mind, especially not through text! So, I'm simply moving on with my life. It's a shame that they cannot communicate their needs, but it is completely independent of me.

[@mrsp8999]

Good for you for moving on shorty care face - you’d be walking on eggshells in no time if you stay 💪

[@marivicmarcial7635]

I’ve experienced similar to this but it was a friend. We were very okay and while we were chatting I said that pls. do not send pictures of this particular person bec. I am not interested and suddenly she got offended she swore that she will never mentioned her and that’s it she never talk to me again. It was not the first time that she did this. A lot of times but we will talk again because we were colleagues at work. I always feel crushed after she will stop talking to me. I wallow in sadness, blame myself for saying something that upset her. But really there is nothing bad that I did to her she just easily get offended without giving me a chance to explain or apologize whether needed or not. I am still very affected. Glad that I saw this video.

[@avalon7958]

You are so incredibly underrated I can’t even believe it. I just found you this morning and I have almost every single one of your videos in your personal growth playlist saved to my watch later

[@torturedminds]

This is all so true. Thank you! I wonder if you have been going through things like that - people not appreciating you... There's something very authentic, very heartfelt in your voice. From the heart I want to say to you: I appreciate deeply what you have to offer and the wisdom you share. Maybe you could do something about the theme of longing for a real love story dealing with the disappointment of appearing to retro for it because the environment in these days is kind of cold and casual and fifty shades of grey more than hippie...

[@nadineg1889]

I value this youtube channel :)

[@akila3572]

I value you because I love how you explain things giving simple example and wish you keep doing this.

[@HeWhoFlewFromInwood]

Low self esteem makes many treat you even lower

[@ScottMitchell2]

I have a trillion dollar personality. If someone don't agree then they are the problem 🤣

[@cosmic_philosophy]

That's the whole problem, isnt it? 🔥 love it As always, thank you for your message

[@DelightfulGem]

This is so timely. I really need this! Being in a sales job makes me doubt my own value. Thank you for making it so easy to understand! 🙏

[@brightphoebesays]

Yeah, people suck eh? Better to be a hermit. Relating with others is too darn hard. Particularly bad when its;'s your father who doesn't see the value in you, and isn't interested in you. Trying right now to come to terms with how Dad was not capable. I always thought he was so smart and wise. I think I need a new Dad. :_ (

[@drew-shourd]

Blessings my friend

[@wheretonext1158]

Brother, I recommend you search up “Pathwork Lectures” , specifically “The Illusory Fear Of The Self” , or “Frozen Life Center Becomes Alive”. There are hundreds of them, all with one goal. To liberate the eternal spirit within and experience your liberated, independently fulfilled life.

[@Diana-gt1rv]

What a good and powerful speech. We should never interpret other peoples’ behaviour as a critique on ourselves. Don’t bother what other people are saying. Live your own life and be happy!

[@gerrimiller3491]

Your soul reminds me of how Jesus taught his disciples and treated everyone with forgiveness, loving kindness and understanding with compassion. You're so sweet⚘🌻⚘

[@Gaurav.P0]

Best video ☺️