Part of the reason Baby Reindeer did extremely well might also be part of a problem that doesn't have a solution yet. www.wearesurviv... 24/7 support line - 0808 500 2222 / stubagful
Пікірлер: 173
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Yes. Its another Baby Reindeer take. Yes, I know.
@gedbyrne84823 ай бұрын
They didn’t say “based on a true story. “ They said “this is a true story. “ That’s definitely what it said when I watched.
@Garbageman283 ай бұрын
Genuinely fuckin mad that they went with that. What would they possibly gain to benefit from it? I don’t think the show became more popular because of it and now they have potentially multiple lawsuits on their hands
@inkyberries64553 ай бұрын
Fargo also starts with "this is a true story"
@acex2223 ай бұрын
@@inkyberries6455 none of the fictional characters in Fargo are going to sue the producers.
@retrogiftsuk48123 ай бұрын
@@inkyberries6455 however there is a difference between something being said in a film/show by a character, and a caption in the trailer for a film/show ("a captivating true story" was the caption used in the trailer). Once a drama starts, everything you see and hear is fiction (even if a character says it's real) or at the very least might be made up. However if a trailer says it's a true story, it should be a true story, in the same way that if a trailer says it won 3 Oscars it had better have actually won 3 Oscars! (Note, again that a character can lie in a film and say they are an Oscar winner)
@Suzanne44153 ай бұрын
I think at least by the end they've told us it's not quite literal, also common sense. But I also kinda think he felt that people needed to understand much of it really literally happened to him. Because some of the things he shares are so misunderstood and considered so controversial that he could be horribly misconstrued if people thought he made them up. Esp things he experienced with his own sexuality after the SA. In hindsight, it seems like they should have just changed more details about "Martha" + deleted whatever old social media they could that leads to her.
@ThePonderer3 ай бұрын
I clicked on this video and have no clue what Baby Reindeer is.
@jedisalsohere3 ай бұрын
same. first i heard of it was in a pub quiz yesterday.
@Faction.Paradox3 ай бұрын
It's about a divorced, middle aged Reindeer who wishes for the innocence & simplicity of his lost youth
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Please make that show
@georgie71093 ай бұрын
Same, my Mum knew about it but it's literally escaped me.
@sacrificiallamb45683 ай бұрын
Netflix show broadly about someone's life. Not seen it yet.
@fern83933 ай бұрын
My gran put on baby raindeer at a family gathering because she read the name and thought it was just a family movie... She was wrong.
@pjom41913 ай бұрын
It doesnt say "this is based on a true story". It says "this is a true story"
@markadams80413 ай бұрын
As a man who left an abusive relationship, I appreciate the show, and nobody should get tracked down, doxxed, or what have you. I feel like I had a bit more healing wash over me. At the time, I did use resources women normally use, and these social workers did an excellent job, and I did get big wins. I kept my job and my phone number.
@annknows8023 ай бұрын
The point was not to find the villain because there are no villains. It was about trauma, a different perspective on stalking, how men are reluctant to come forward and rarely taken seriously.
@mattegrey26093 ай бұрын
I love how whenever I watch one of your TV dissection videos it starts as a media review and then moves towards a deep introspective on society and leaves me empty inside, and then I have to restore myself with a rewatch of a 'He Who Moans' review
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Yeah I've been going a lot more sociological since I started reading more books on theory. That's an idea actually, I might do something along the lines of "WHY has Doctor Who been popular for so long?"
@TheGloopOfMobius3 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful For me personally this is why I find your reviews to be very interesting because you really dissect the contexts behind a tv show or movie’s creative decisions or production etc. I wonder if you’ve seen the shown Dexter since it explores human interaction at its base premise and more specifically how our upbringings influence who we think we are - although the show does begin to dilute considerably after the fourth season.
@octa_fan3 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful PLEASE
@alexneill83383 ай бұрын
I watched it in full about two weeks ago and found it fascinating, gripping, hilarious, disturbing and haunting… like the best of classic Black Mirror episodes but with the sinking feeling intensified because you know it was real. Highly recommend!
@walpolekidscomics8793 ай бұрын
When he had his breakdown I definitely got Bojack vibes which really is just a massive compliment to Bojack
@PC19743 ай бұрын
At least Bojack was appealing on some level, this guy Donny came off creepier than his stalker.
@lonnie_toons3 ай бұрын
@@PC1974,how so?
@PC19743 ай бұрын
@lonnie_toons The way he dealt with his stalker, going to her house and standing outside her window, going back to the guy who abused him and the fact that he looks creepy.
@ds_12113 ай бұрын
@@PC1974victim blaming much?
@PC19743 ай бұрын
@@ds_1211 How is it victim blaming when Donny was just as culpable as Martha in the way he dealt with her stalking? Even his girlfriend said he enjoyed Martha's attention.
@WitchLunaEstrella3 ай бұрын
I feel kinda bad for Gadd. He expressed some incredibly difficult emotions through art and because of a few words of context, it's like the internet has taken his story away from him and twisted it into something much uglier and more harmful, like they've made the story about the people who caused him harm rather than about how he felt about it. We might need to just stop using the words "true story" until true crime fans can calm the fuck down and stop trying to take things into their own hands when they don't know nearly enough about anything and it's not their business in the first place.
@sheep33703 ай бұрын
Unfortunately when you create something and put it in the public domain it is no longer yours no matter how personal it is
@tophatgeo3 ай бұрын
The moment I finished this series I knew you'd enjoy it. One of the most raw and unflinching looks into so many topics that deserve to be talked about. Somehow I missed the giant media-storm around this work but it really does seem like an impossible problem for Netflix/Gadd/The Production Company to fix.
@UKProgRock3 ай бұрын
I have only heard about it in passing. Literally put this video on to find out what the thing was all about.
@colonelweird3 ай бұрын
Come on now. The youtube takes on Baby Reindeer have barely started. A month from now, I expect every other video essayist on the platform to have a take. You're early! I watched the show a few days after release, knowing nothing except that it had good reviews. It was that rare Netflix shiw that I binged immediately and fully, with no regrets. I wish more of the discourse was about the artistry, which is much more interesting than "the truth." My view is that the show had a bit too much narration, showing its roots on the stage. Even so, it was brilliant. That turn midway through was like being hit by a bus - absolutely devastating. And also a perfect plot twist.
@MrTheevilmage3 ай бұрын
yea its gonna be fucking irritating, you just know their gonna have up their own arse with the titles like "the greatest Netflix show you've NEVER SEEN" or something like that. BY the way did anyone see Ripley on netflix, very good and tense but they ain't gonna talk about that either, to much Dialogue for those idiots
@afjkernow18083 ай бұрын
Nighty Night is as dark as a sleepless night. Such a toe-curling masterclass in human misery. Brilliantly written.
@i_wouldprefer_not_to11963 ай бұрын
To be sure: Nighty Night was pitch black comedy but Baby Reindeer just depressed the hell out of me. The highlighting of how the entertainment industry exploits people desperate to merely get recognition is arguably laudable. There's just something off about it to me though, like it's a psy-op to distract us. Very strange that someone would re-enact his grape (algorithm) and the 'original' meltdown is not like the one in the show at all really. Now you have this woman claiming to be the Martha character and cashing in as well as the writer of this show...yeah, not buying it really. Netflix is suspect too. If you didn't know: there are links to Sigmund Freud. A bloke called Edward Bernays is worth looking into (book titled 'Propaganda'). I don't expect this comment to stay up but, hey ho, we'll see!
@pal-of-pals3 ай бұрын
I genuinely had no idea what Baby Reindeer was until a few days ago.
@VersusArdua2 ай бұрын
so cool
@alexispaterson8143 ай бұрын
It is funny that the Internet found Gadds stalker but not his abuser.
@jordanloux38833 ай бұрын
The stalker was actually arrested so there is a paper trail to follow. The other one, not so much
@Suzanne44153 ай бұрын
How could it be any other way? One is *surprise surprise* an actual crazy person with minimal self preservation skills. The other is pretty much the opposite - calculated, intentional manipulator with actual power over everyone he surrounds himself with.
@theevildalek54253 ай бұрын
I didn’t know anything about Baby Reindeer. So I am the hypothetical person. I don’t have much access to Netflix at the moment & haven’t heard much from the places I frequently visit
@vickyotters92073 ай бұрын
Went into baby reindeer knowing nothing about it. Had it on as background noise at first then had to stop what I was doing and actually watch it. As someone who’s been through similar traumas seeing things like SA presented in such a realistic way felt really cathartic especially the battle against the idea of a perfect victim. I’ve been turned away by the police many times and actually seeing that shown in mainstream media really helped me feel less alone.
@scpjack78563 ай бұрын
Thanks for explaining this to me in a way that actually makes me see the appeal and want to watch it. No, really, I’ve heard about this thing from colleagues for months and thought it was a wildly inaccurate and shocking true crime doc. Which, turns out, is the opposite of what it is.
@CameronMcCracken_Art3 ай бұрын
So it’s a tamely accurate and unsurprising false justice work of fiction?
@casualcraftman15993 ай бұрын
Never heard of this show until this video, another amazing Netflix show no one barley talks about is Hilda.
@annak96463 ай бұрын
No one talks about ? All any one is talking about is this show right now lol
@TheDoctorwho-er3 ай бұрын
I saw multiple comments on the Piers Morgans interview of the real world Martha of stuff like: ‘Wow, season 2 looks great!’ ‘I am so looking forward to season 2!’ And that’s the thing. Netflix could put into production a season 2 of the recent events and I don’t think it would surprise me. The only thing stopping them is probably Grant himself and also the fact that season would probably get ALOT of backlash(which, of course it would, makes perfect sense). I wouldn’t even say this is an IRL fanfic anymore, this is just season 2 at this point. Anyways, great video as always Stu.
@casualcraftman15993 ай бұрын
When I get bothered by internet hate mobs, I just say this Manuel Varga quote from Better Call Saul "What you talk about is not justice, what you talk of is revenge.". Lack of Media Literacy existed before the internet with people missing the point of Starship Troopers.
@spencerhardy86673 ай бұрын
The point of Starship Troopers is like the point of The Shining.
@wyssmaster3 ай бұрын
"lack of media literacy" is the midwit's way of asserting superiority over anyone who likes media that wasn't intended for them. People have seethed at audiences for liking characters the author intended them to hate (Rorschach from Watchmen is a great example) or for liking media for the "wrong" reason (one of the more classic examples is Romeo and Juliet, which wasn't intended to be a love story for the ages, as they're dumb kids who make a rash decision thanks to their raging hormones). Decrying people for their "lack of media literacy" is peak I Am Very Smart.
@Darko00893 ай бұрын
I saw this video in my sub feed, I have never heard of this, but since it wasn't that long of a video I decided to check it out
@The_Sober_One_LCM3 ай бұрын
I'm at 0:29 - I learned what it was for the first time by googling it b/c I saw you posted a video on the subject - I've lost count how many times I've watched your videos on shows I've never seen, just a long time fan of "He Who Moans" and all your other sarcastic analysis...
@TheSmart-CasualGamer3 ай бұрын
I've clicked on this without knowing what Baby Reindeer is! All I knew is that "It was a TV show, or possibly a film." It's possibly because I don't give a damn about Netflix, and only get an account when new series of Cobra Kai is out. Now I love new films and TV releases, but Netflix exclusives never really interest me, so it's not something I pay particular attention to.
@CallMeCrazyCallMePoor3 ай бұрын
This man makes such deep, niche essays and I'm still disappointed when he isn't caught up with Doctor Who.
@britanimations20023 ай бұрын
For the record, no clue what it is, but your last few videos have been bangers, especially that one on Episodes
@SanctumSanctorumVidz3 ай бұрын
I clicked on the video without knowing what it is, but figured you would fill me in.
@alfje54923 ай бұрын
Luckily everything has now been sorted thanks to people's champion Piers!
@CouncilofGeeks3 ай бұрын
I literally never heard of it before this video.
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Probably should've specified in the UK. Been the only thing in my newsfeeds ever since it released
@CouncilofGeeks3 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful ah that would make sense.
@liittlemiissd3 ай бұрын
You should check out Camp Camp!
@rhodrage3 ай бұрын
I keep hearing people talking about it. But I haven't cared to find out, doesn't look like my thing.
@pious833 ай бұрын
I'm also one of those (elsewhere in the comments) that didn't know what Baby Reindeer was/is. I don't have Netflix and as such tend to filter out associated shows from anything I hear about or read. Much as I do for any streaming service I don't subscribe to.
@toast99bubbles3 ай бұрын
I have heard of it through people at my work having seen it, but haven't watched it myself. From what I've heard, I know it's about a man being stalked by someone, but I don't know much else.
@petrus42 ай бұрын
I don't watch Netflix. I virtually never have. I clicked on this video because I used to enjoy your Doctor Who material, and wanted to see something more recent from you.
@carealoo7443 ай бұрын
Haven't heard of it either
@davidblank4203 ай бұрын
So it's not like Bambi?
@georgebats97963 ай бұрын
I never thought I'd see a Sleep Token reference in a Baby Reindeer video but I'll take it
@elizabeth1843 ай бұрын
Ba-by ... reindeer doo doo do do do do, baby reindeer doo doo do do do do
@gavinkerslake3 ай бұрын
I felt very *very* guilty for feeling attracted to the actor who plays Darrien O'Connor
@ojwh19333 ай бұрын
I saw this title and recalled having seen something about a reindeer mentioned recently, and I obviously didn't care enough to look up whatever whoever it was was talking about at the time.
@OxbowisaMstie3 ай бұрын
Huh, what's Baby Reindeer? Is that anything like The Tale of Moose Baby? (I swear, i've only been off Twiiter for little over a week at this point.)
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
It's basically the only thing that's been in any of my news feeds for 2 weeks
@SamWickens3 ай бұрын
This video is literally the first I've heard of this show.
@huberticusrex3 ай бұрын
Its the top netflix show globally for weeks. Not exactly obscure.
@spacedoge65403 ай бұрын
@@huberticusrex not everyone pays for that
@cyrus23953 ай бұрын
Nope, never heard of it, even in passing lol
@janedoe30433 ай бұрын
I personally think we need to ban the use of based on a true story.
@overlydramaticpanda3 ай бұрын
The problem with that idea is as much a legal issue as anything else. As a phrase, it's effectively nothing more than a vital layer of protection against accusations of things like plagiarism or defamation - "based on a true story" is essentially the writer saying "look, I didn't randomly pull this thing out of my noggin all on my lonesome, but it's not gonna be 100% accurate to the reality of what happened either". Denying them the use of that clarification would just inevitably make it a lot more common for writers to be sued (probably often frivolously) because someone recognises significant resemblances to themselves/their lives in one of the characters or situations of their latest work and either aren't happy about it or want some share of credit (and therefore an entitlement to the profits). And it may just be me who feels this way, but I kind of think it's the people who insist on taking the phrase "based on a true story" and using it as an excuse to stalk/harass/doxx/threaten whoever they believe are the real people involved who should be penalised rather than the writers who use that phrase in the first place...
@ansambel31702 ай бұрын
i had no clue what baby raindeer was, and honestly it's totaly not a show i would ever watch. I like to hear the discussion around it though...
@loganmackenzie52943 ай бұрын
Yes I haven’t watched baby reindeer I have seen a lot coverage of it and I do know about the interview but haven’t watched. Mostly because I have to busy with the first episode of inside no.9 and return of doctor who
@stephenjohnson97453 ай бұрын
As a dedicated Stu fan who deleted instagram and twitter three months ago, this is my first hearing of Baby Reindeer
@Arahsure3 ай бұрын
"stu" fan? Do you mind me asking what means mate? An acronym?🤔 Edit-- ah I see. My bad.
@boagski3 ай бұрын
I thought gaad made it clear it was his ego not vulnerability that led him into his abuse, distinguishing his abuse from his dads.
@nekrovulpes2 ай бұрын
Actually no idea what it was, and I live under a sufficiently insulating rock that I had only ever heard the name from dating profiles I swiped past. I clicked on this video hoping it would tell me what it was. So thanks, actually, summarised very well.
@tarponpet3 ай бұрын
I never heard of it.
@thedarkness1113 ай бұрын
I haven't seen it, but I have seen the drama. What's fundamentally unfair is that it's a one sided story, yes he has the right to tell it, and express his viewpoint and emotions, and yes that's important in raising awareness, but giving someone a fair 'trial' means hearing both sides, and looking at the evidence. And yes even in a one way abuse cases there are still two 'sides.' And that's if we assume, nothing was added, or taken away for dramatic effect or just for more fluid storytelling (which it almost certainly was). It was inevitable she'd be outed, and she will now never get a fair trial (real or trial by media/public opinion) because people have been primed to see it from his perspective. I think they either should have not declared it a true story, or he should have written it for another actor, and changed enough to make it un-identifiable. I don't really blame him, I don't think it's reasonable to expect him to have foreseen all this, but how the lawyers at netflix didn't foresee this is insane.
@thecinematicmind3 ай бұрын
Baby Reindeer would make Bambi realised how screwed Man is.
@mathieuleader86013 ай бұрын
Baby Reindeer is Englands Misery
@Blartyboy3 ай бұрын
I had literally never heard of baby reindeer before this.
@Sponsie10003 ай бұрын
l'm gonna be honest, l've only seen fleeting mentions of it and l thought it was another skibidi-toilet kinda thing,, the name just sorta had the same ring to it
@robvalue2 ай бұрын
Great channel!
@waapfu3 ай бұрын
good video! i am one of the hypothetical people who had never heard of the show. doesn't sound like my kind of show to watch but it's very interesting to hear about
@Tymbus3 ай бұрын
I hadn't heard Baby Reindeer was a dark comedy. Thanks for the review. I can't see me watching the show.
@HjRobins3 ай бұрын
I've heard about it, haven't really paid much attention to it. And I don't think I'm going to watch it. So I'll just say before I continue this video, from what I know, it's about the writer/star's experience of having a stalker, and she's a lawyer, and also didn't go to prison. And that's as much as I know.
@VikingSchism3 ай бұрын
Never heard of this show and very confused over whether the thing about it being so well-known is a bit or not
@JenniferFuss3 ай бұрын
I got no idea about baby reindeer. I figured it might be a Doctor Who thing, as Council of Geeks had a review about Space Babies. Could have been Space Baby Reindeer Babies...
@eccentriastes62733 ай бұрын
I'm American and I haven't heard of this show whatsoever.
@farshnuke3 ай бұрын
I have never heard of this before. Probably because I move in scifi nerd circles on line not true crime and dark comedy circles but still. This is the only video I have seen about it.
@Level_1_Frog3 ай бұрын
Yeah i take issue with them saying 'this is a true story' at the start, when its actually 'based on a true story'. Its a slight difference, but i think it retroactively makes the show worse when real life events dont line up.
@DisAnimated3 ай бұрын
I can't be the only one who when first told about this show by title they just forgot the name of the show Sweet Tooth
@mattegrey26093 ай бұрын
Stubagful making a video about current stuff?
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Yeah I've basically been incapable of thinking about anything else since I finished it
@Justaqueerthing3 ай бұрын
I thought it was like a thriller or horror movie
@folklore2223 ай бұрын
No idea what Baby Reindeer is (I just like your videos) - I thought it was a thriller
@GelatinSkeleton3 ай бұрын
POINTS CLAPS AND HOLLERS 🗣️**RESIDENTS MENTION!!!** excellent video overall i just got hype seeing the residents mentioned lmao
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Here I come, Constantinople
@GrumpyMunkyGameDesign3 ай бұрын
Ah yes thanks for the reminder 'Cancel my netflix'
@Adonk3 ай бұрын
Is that the woman who disolved into fat in doctor who?
@jordanloux38833 ай бұрын
Yep
@kobimccarthy37423 ай бұрын
Surprised you haven’t talked about Red Dwarf yet considering it’s a British Sitcom set in space
@android65mar3 ай бұрын
Great I will give it a go now
@possum65623 ай бұрын
I clicked on Baby Reindeer thinking it was a comedy, like flea bag
@CharliHarvey3 ай бұрын
this is the first thing I've ever seen about this show so before I continue I'll make a guess that it's some sort of mixed reality TV thing of Borat's ilk but instead of for comedy it's horror-y.
@CharliHarvey3 ай бұрын
i was wrong!
@hazzaeatsshorts3 ай бұрын
I am that guy from the intro. My knowledge of this show is a bunch of mugs on the train talking like it was a documentary for some fucking reason
@ArchieMiller-mt7vw3 ай бұрын
can you PLZ do a Jonathan Creek video. I want to hear your take on it so bad.
@annknows8023 ай бұрын
Watched it before hearing anything about it. Had no idea what to expect. I new right away it was a dramatized story based on events not a play by play documentary because I'm a adult. It's not formatted like a documentary and I've seen enough films. It's multi-layered and nobody is right or wrong. Both a victims and faulty.
@nashtonenigma40143 ай бұрын
if Russell t. Davis didnt talk about it, I honestly wouldn't have known it. but im a yank so that is expected
@kinolibby65803 ай бұрын
I'm not going to watch it which is a shame because I'm sure it's very good. In the past I have been on the board of ethics for a university and if Gadd was doing a practice based PhD on male abuse victims with Baby Reindeer as the practical half of his thesis then I would have failed his ethics application on these grounds. We don't allow students to quote social media verbatim because it is too easy to track people down. Not enough effort put into anonimising real people and lastly I would be concerned that the project could risk Gadds own well being. The university would still have let him make Baby Reindeer, he would have just needed to make some adjustments to protect the subjects of his film, himself and the University. I don't blame Gadd for any of this because if this stuff was obvious then we wouldn't need boards of ethics. Netflix has not done their due diligence to protect Gadd's well being, to protect vulnerable people depicted and to protect innocent members of the public from faulse accusations. It is notable that I May Distroy You which is also based of the real life experience of Michaela Cole did not have any of these problems. The BBC and Cole herself did their due diligence. It was such an impactful peice of television I don't think we could have possibly gained anything from the show depicting the people in Cole's life more accurately or quoting real social media posts/messages verbatim.
@s.wstudioproductions59773 ай бұрын
Stuart, you have good taste in music
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Lol, you referring to Sleep Token, Ghost or The Residents?
@s.wstudioproductions59773 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful ghost and residents
@invisibleman48273 ай бұрын
"[Talking about being abused] is an area men particularly struggle with." You're absolutely right. And society around them does so, too. Even attitudes from some "progressives" to male victims of abuse are appalling.
@great-garden-watch3 ай бұрын
Assuming Richard Gadd experienced all or most of all this, then I hope he makes millions. A lot of times predators destroy your financial life. For once let someone capitalize on it. I hope to one day too even though my experiences were nowhere near as bad.
@Insertname3723 ай бұрын
Good, functional opinion on mob justice - the mob always gets it wrong imo. I think internet sleuths are fixated individuals that have their own problems and love pointing at others for their issues, as shown in "don't f w cats" and more recently "yellow jackets." Thank you for being one of the few KZbinrs that wasn't a pop psychology wielding shark in the water about this.
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Biggest issue I had with Don't f with cats was it felt almost like an endorsement of internet sleuthing. It made it sound cool and fun and interesting. The Elisa Lamb one was even more infuriating. The streamers need to take much more care when handling stories like this
@Insertname3723 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful Agree. I can't remember the exact quote and I'm not going back to look, but the only poignant thing anyone said in don't f w cats was something like "I worry that we worked him up and toyed with his mind, and maybe if we hadn't this wouldn't have happened." That guy should have been reported, not stalked and abused online.
@davewaring733 ай бұрын
I kind of know what it is, but don't know the details. Sounds a bit awful. My friend says it's great, but I just don't want to watch it I'll just watch this instead.
@darkhorse7443 ай бұрын
Pyrocynical posted a video, that is the extent of my knowledge.
@CameronMcCracken_Art3 ай бұрын
I refuse to watch this show because of how many articles and videos get posted about it. Shit’s so annoying. Feels like every week there’s news of viewers trying to be amateur detectives or something, or people involved in the show warning viewers not to do something, or it’s some shit about hidden easter eggs, etc. etc… ad nauseum! Ain’t no way this show is that interesting.
@jordanloux38833 ай бұрын
So did you just click on this video and choose to comment just to whine and feel like the injured party? Because if so, that's really sad
@Sponsie10003 ай бұрын
Started watching the show, and l dont think l have ever needed to pause This often while watching a show before. l wanna know what'll happen, but l just cannot stomach the sheer vicarious ickiness of the whole situation for more than a few minutes at a time (if even that), and l'm only at episode 3... The connection/""relation"" between donny and martha is like drowning in quicksand,, the more you struggle the faster you'll go under
@davidblank4203 ай бұрын
Glad something good came from it when i was growing up SA on males was always played as a joke or something a man would get made fun of for bringing up.
@matthewmcshane3993 ай бұрын
Another great show which discusses male abuse victims is Hazbin Hotel.
@ennayanne3 ай бұрын
that's a cartoon
@strawberryfair3 ай бұрын
absolutely not hahahaha
@outlimboed3 ай бұрын
I just thought it was a thought-provoking and well made TV show which was more interesting because it was true. At no point did I think 'can't wait to hunt down all the people real-life characters and ruin their lives'. But it's 2024 and I'm behind the times.
@mkaiww3 ай бұрын
Daft punk mayed the anonymous band thing work
@Radtadlol3 ай бұрын
Ok so what I know about it is, without watching it. A male stalking victim and his experiences with the harassment. I also know that the stalker outted herself immediately and went on a tirade lol
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Basically she says she claims she received harassment and abuse when people linked it to her. A lot of people don't believe her, but at the same time given that people incorrectly went after a guy they assumed was the other real life abuser in the show and given the history of internet sleuthing, I do believe it happened that way round
@Radtadlol3 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful honestly, that’s fair.
@PiePie4533 ай бұрын
I only know it from the actress who had the fucked story about the writer
@TheDukeofMadness3 ай бұрын
To be brutally honest I'm feeling like Mr. Gadd should have taken the advice they give to policemen: If you can't stand the joke, you shouldn't have joined. There's a reason why I've never become a public figure and this show emphasises the reason.
@anne-zh2kd3 ай бұрын
I haven't watched I just don't think it's okay to expose a mentally ill, neurodivergent woman like this. It also seems a bit fatphobic and ableist.(The show) I'm not a stalker, but I'm autistic and I misunderstand social cues a lot. No bigotry or anything, but neurotypical people are such bigots and so narrow-minded. I would definitely take my own life if I was mocked and portrayed like this. It was not okay for him to do this. HE is responsible for what the internet mob is doing now. You can't just go "please don't do this or this " You know they will
@ennayanne3 ай бұрын
It sounds depressing and miserable and not remotely funny. I love JAM but it's not based on a true story which makes it a lot easier to sit through. Are you gonna talk about doctor who? 😭
@Stubagful3 ай бұрын
Gonna do a big video at the end of the series. I want the full context to play with
@ennayanne3 ай бұрын
@@Stubagful Thanks, I was worried you were done with it lol. Not that I don't enjoy your videos about other topics, but you know