When his dad said 'do you think I'm less of a man?' I broke down sobbing. Incredible writing, acting and such startling bravery. Bravo Richard.
@anaseijas65566 ай бұрын
You and I both, when the father said: "I grew up in the Catholic church..." Instant sobbing.
@andypoppleton92616 ай бұрын
I cried at the very same scene
@michaelcorcoran87686 ай бұрын
Yeah. I wasn't expecting that
@volumemaximum6 ай бұрын
Bro I cried
@danaidelfina6 ай бұрын
I didn't understand that... Was the dad also bi?
@fairybliss77726 ай бұрын
This show needed to be made. Trauma is transformative. He’s very self aware.
@jeancarpenter52836 ай бұрын
He’d have to be aware by now, either that or he’d be dead.
@Ashton4__6 ай бұрын
It really did show the phycology behind trauma like that
@Alices.last.warning10 күн бұрын
Agree you kidding??? He's delusional. He certainly didn't have to return to the predatory producers house and he led harvie on asking her for money all the time. He takes no responsibility for this and probably is completely unaware of it.
@kaidblahh17986 ай бұрын
The line that hurt me the most was “I loved her but not more than I loved hating myself” it truly resonated. It’s just so impactful and so vulnerable
@Olayinkaaaaa6 ай бұрын
I loved her but not more than I loved hating myself
@JayH6055 ай бұрын
Yeah that one hit heavy for me lol
@hatethisupdate5 ай бұрын
god i felt like crying in that scene. i started hugging my pillow
@kaidblahh17985 ай бұрын
@@hatethisupdate oh I was crying for sure
@hatethisupdate5 ай бұрын
@@kaidblahh1798 you're so lucky you were able to get your emotions
@LeonardoDiCapri-Sun7 ай бұрын
I almost can’t believe how open and vulnerable this show was, pretty incredible
@gotyoutriggered.86447 ай бұрын
It was disgusting, a mockry to god.
@sams39877 ай бұрын
@@gotyoutriggered.8644sorry what 😂😂
@Se7hius7 ай бұрын
@@gotyoutriggered.8644bait
@Americasorola7 ай бұрын
Man ep 4 was just incredibly heart breaking I couldn’t believe it and the ending pfff
@gotyoutriggered.86447 ай бұрын
@sams3987 God doesn't love rainbows or their supporters.
@Lilawhen7 ай бұрын
Richard is so incredibly brave for not only telling his story but physically acting this trauma out for the second time. I can’t even imagine how difficult that must be. We are all proud of you Richard ❤️
@Heroine2me7 ай бұрын
I finished the series the other night and had no idea that the lead was the creator for which the story was based. Unreal! Even more impressed now.
@DaveW-zi2jv7 ай бұрын
After watching it I thought it was the best ever. However now I'm not so sure. I believe it needs a warning as could trigger people. Not all of us go onto to self destruct, use drugs and generally destroy everyone around us, there is another path. I fear this gives licence to the negative path. Has the male been charged? If not why not? Is he still out there roaming freely? Gadd said in another interview that the stalker in the series is so far from the truth of the real one she wouldn't even recognise herself 🤔 I do think once the press dig deep into this, which they will, it's not as factual and heroic as he's made out.
@judithshelton56557 ай бұрын
Well said!
@ajar.g.73077 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more. What a phenomenal, genuine, strong human being. ❤
@taraqueen587 ай бұрын
Deserves highest acting accolade. Brilliant.
@SpotlessLeopard6 ай бұрын
I watched it. Through my neighbours window. Sent from my calculator.
@magdadzialak21786 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂you killed me 😂😂
@SpotlessLeopard6 ай бұрын
@@magdadzialak2178 Glad you liked it. We are married now. Sent from my kettle. 🤪
@nonamanis25946 ай бұрын
Hahahhahah😂😂😂
@Sohum11116 ай бұрын
😂😂😂👏👏 !!! Sent from my shoelazy
@jennmemphis6 ай бұрын
🤣🙌🏼🤣🙌🏼
@marcbercht40217 ай бұрын
I love the moment he and his father discover they share the same past.
@TheOldYoungOne7 ай бұрын
So good they managed to get you to connect with the parents over such a short amount of episodes, they only appeared in the last two episodes but left such an impact
@woz_in_oz7 ай бұрын
What a scene!
@sjag29477 ай бұрын
I balled like a baby 😢
@arfia897 ай бұрын
It was the saddest moment and I felt it so close to my heart. It was as if my biggest horrid secret being told as well.. And I felt so so sorry for his father, balled out worse realising his wife knew and they have gone through it together
@KimBlaQue7 ай бұрын
That broke me, not going to lie.
@palemich7 ай бұрын
It genuinely breaks me that he says ‘I know other people have had it much worse than me’ What an extraordinarily strong man
@sasskvetch86177 ай бұрын
He's right though
@nm36627 ай бұрын
@@sasskvetch8617 doesn't make his case any less important, when people say that they're usually being dismissive
@mindyt55577 ай бұрын
Yes. A very resilient and strong man. Lots of people would have crumbled and take the easy way out. I hope he heals and live a magnificent life.
@valentino16466 ай бұрын
@@mindyt5557 'easy way out' what exactly do you mean by that
@mindyt55576 ай бұрын
@@valentino1646 Google who commits the most $uicide and you'll see what I mean. Very fragile.
@lolo_bird6 ай бұрын
When I saw this I thought ‘how incredible is this actor?!’ And then I learned he WROTE IT based on his OWN EXPERIENCE I just couldn’t believe it
@hannacastMAKEUP6 ай бұрын
Same I am SPEECHLESS here I am looking for the writers and directors.. ITS HIM
@isyt16 ай бұрын
Me too but I think he’s made it all up
@Hello-hello-hello4566 ай бұрын
Actually, that makes it more believable because he knows exactly what it's like, he can hence act very effectively
@Letmein1115 ай бұрын
@@deekey33are you… fiona?
@Jsarmy871242 ай бұрын
Same. Its awful he live that 😢
@I-kd3cz7 ай бұрын
Never seen such realistic portrayal in media of what a victim has to go through and experience after being victimised. I haven't cried this much in a long time. We need more art that resonates with people
@bippitybop90607 ай бұрын
That's what made me cry so much when watching it too, it was just such a realistic portrayal of what you go through.
@solb1017 ай бұрын
He’s not a victim. That’s the secret.
@erienglish7 ай бұрын
I have been crying so much, I have a terrible headache. He is so brave, and I am glad he is better. I admire him!
@mattb46407 ай бұрын
@@solb101 Not a victim? He's a professional victim.
@solb1017 ай бұрын
@@mattb4640 a professional not-victim
@xull5057 ай бұрын
Binged it. Great show. Sent from my iPhone
@LPSWeirdCow136 ай бұрын
Snet frm iphnoe
@OscarOrtega136 ай бұрын
lol
@nanilethungcukayitobi56816 ай бұрын
That’s a good one
@angelabaird71356 ай бұрын
Very clever!!! 😂
@annarose43086 ай бұрын
I love how the iPhone thing progressively gets more jumbled and misspelled 😂 by the end its just iphon
@kateobrien70676 ай бұрын
I love how honest he is in this show, even going back to his abuser as a form of self hate, I think a lot of victims can relate
@nunomartins22096 ай бұрын
Whattt really? That happens?
@wdjkncvgdfsbyt34jgvi6 ай бұрын
@@nunomartins2209it’s incredibly common, probably the most common thing about abuse sadly :(
@SuperSilverJay6 ай бұрын
I couldn't understand why he went back to his abuser but I think part of it is that besides the abuse, Darrien actually brought a lot of joy, friendship and optimism to his life. So I think he went back for those things. Kind of like a relapse.
@tooma48866 ай бұрын
@@wdjkncvgdfsbyt34jgvi ~ Victims re-victimize themselves by going back to their abusers, and the cycle continues. I think victims sometimes blame themselves for the abuse as a defense mechanism so that they don't have to accept that their abuser is evil and preyed upon them (we don't like feeling vulnerable, right?). Predators often groom their victims and, at the beginning, they love bomb them and make them feel special, so people who are lonely and have low self-esteem can get easily hooked. There's so much internal conflict going on there.
@briannalee19985 ай бұрын
The reason victims always go back to their abuser at some point is because they were gaslighted and brainwashed and their abuser still has a deep hold of their psyche.
@touchyto7 ай бұрын
This show deserves an award.
@natalias15137 ай бұрын
I completely agree!
@thelittlesthobo71007 ай бұрын
Like an Olivier award for example?
@hannahrivera407 ай бұрын
@@kevsrevc9780is this martha?
@emily_ly81507 ай бұрын
I agree !!
@Gford9127 ай бұрын
@@linapesz313good thing yours is the only opinion taken into consideration for awards
@patrickm77547 ай бұрын
The scene where he breaks down on stage has to win some sort of award
@pmf156 ай бұрын
Just saw that scene and it was my first thought!!
@OGJprodandmore6 ай бұрын
Which episode
@lucien53196 ай бұрын
@@OGJprodandmoreep7
@antc98196 ай бұрын
@@OGJprodandmore end of number 6
@jonatan71126 ай бұрын
That's interesting. I actually found that scene to be the most unrealistic and staged in the whole series. I get that they had to make it more cinematic than how it was in reality but i think they could have done it in a more believable way.
@kayleighanne42056 ай бұрын
Honestly, the intense attachment a person can have to their abuser is so real. This series opened my eyes to things I have never understood about myself, and my response to my own abuser. I couldn’t stop watching. I binged it in a day by myself, and I had no idea how much I needed it, this was so unexpectedly therapeutic. I hope Richard Gadd is doing alright these days. I’m so proud of him.
@nikikarter6 ай бұрын
Coincido. La vi tres veces
@Froggie757froggiefroggiefroggi6 ай бұрын
Stalkers are the most selfish people and they don't care who they hurt.
@nancyorlikow4637 ай бұрын
We rarely get such a nuanced portrayal of trauma and abuse, and especially about a man. Richard has helped many men and abuse victims in general by sharing his story. A brilliant series that had me gripped into binge watching it. Bravo!🎉
@Renijka6666 ай бұрын
How did he help?
@elioben58106 ай бұрын
@@Renijka666by raising awareness and making it relatable to SA survivors
@queenj.8i8956 ай бұрын
More ppl should tell their stories of abuse to help others open up so they can release their shame and heal. We don’t always have to be so graphic or raw, but these topics do need to be more exposed. Blessings 🦋
@ronniespeirs18086 ай бұрын
The fact he’s taken no action with the police against his grape ist is very questionable? 🤨 why?
@Renijka6666 ай бұрын
@@ronniespeirs1808 I don't know but I think something is off about that Richard... Why he didn't make documentary about his case and be anonymous but decided to make series movie? He wanted fame and have money and punish that women. He is no different than that Fiona. Why he didn't block her online in the first place?
@ManiKais7 ай бұрын
Randomly chose to watch 5 minutes of this. Watched the entire series in one sitting. Blew me away. Best series I've seen. And lead female actor, Jessica Gunning - have never seen such talent. Stunned.
@chrisg91747 ай бұрын
Same here one night binge! She was amazing!
@sacerrone7 ай бұрын
Same
@Scout-scrapper7 ай бұрын
Me too!
@moridimafea7 ай бұрын
Sameeeeeeeee!!! Amazing show. Will win Emmy and everything else this year. Deserved
@sarsar-zr1ry7 ай бұрын
And me haha
@ConradIsFamous6 ай бұрын
Who’s here right after watching Fiona on Piers Morgan? 😂
@billstarx6 ай бұрын
We're here😂
@meawissie6096 ай бұрын
Lol yes 😂
@reillyjenii6 ай бұрын
Meeee😂
@shockingtelevision6 ай бұрын
Yep
@melissawest43866 ай бұрын
Meeee!!! 😅
@taylormadgolfuk41467 ай бұрын
Cried my eyes out when he told his mum and dad he was gay/bi .. expected his dad to walk away but that hug was emotional
@juliechristine3776 ай бұрын
My husband cried too...more than me!
@nicolettesauramba25966 ай бұрын
@@juliechristine377 That seen was so emotional. I hope you asked your husband if he cried so much because he may have experienced abuse in his past? I may be wrong but I know it’s often hard for men to open up about these things. 😢
@taylormadgolfuk41466 ай бұрын
@nicolettesauramba2596 I know where you're coming from, but not everyone who found this emotional has been abused. That's a pretty big statement
@taylormadgolfuk41466 ай бұрын
@@juliechristine377 it done me big time. Great acting
@ddl43746 ай бұрын
So good.
@alexmousley72137 ай бұрын
I can say Baby Reindeer is one of the best dramas I've seen on Netflix for a long time- the writing, acting and editing is absolutely excellent- the way that it explores the mental health issues of both the stalker and of the victim of stalking is something unique and so compellingly acted. I couldn't help myself binge-watching it.
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
Hardly a ringing endorsement. When has netflix ever had anything good?
@alexmousley72137 ай бұрын
@@Stantheman848 Plenty of times! I take it you haven't seen Baby Reindeer then?
@carlabrunell97817 ай бұрын
@@alexmousley7213I agree. Fantastic perspective of both parties
@Angela-cc1hd7 ай бұрын
I am glad you said mental health issues of both, because he also, definately had mental health problems🤔
@alexmousley72137 ай бұрын
@@espon2112 We will have to agree to disagree- I, and many others think it was extremely well written and acted.
@Lawzika6 ай бұрын
The fact he wrote about and acted his trauma is truly incredible. The series was amazingly written and acted. I hope it wins so many awards, very well deserved.
@14types4 ай бұрын
what if he made up a lot of things and embellished himself - he is so good, and everyone else is bad
@lwayne92817 ай бұрын
As an American, it's lovely to watch hosts that are actually good interviewers.
@BK123106 ай бұрын
Kat was the host of So you think you can dance. I didn’t know she did morning talk show work until now. Happy to see she has continued to carry a caring interview style.
@theycallmedrworm6 ай бұрын
I'm an American too, and I thought the same thing!
@ninaa4life6 ай бұрын
Are Americans not good interviewers?
@BK123106 ай бұрын
I think sometimes they don’t come across in a genuine way
@ouadguy066 ай бұрын
I would have to agree.
@Keanerock7 ай бұрын
I hope Richard gets some Award's for Baby Reindeer, for his writing, his acting and his brutal honesty about the horrific things he endured. For him to act out himself was nothing short of class acting, he definitely deserves some recognition for this series.
@MagikarpBeast6 ай бұрын
For seeking attention?
@Keanerock6 ай бұрын
@@MagikarpBeast There's always one!
@CountryCowboy0086 ай бұрын
@@MagikarpBeastdid you post this comment from your iPhon?
@anitarogers28776 ай бұрын
@@MagikarpBeast Yes, for seeking attention. To highlight the real plight some people, including men, actually do endure in regards to having been stalked.
@CarolynnMc016 ай бұрын
@@MagikarpBeast Maybe the millions make up for it in some way.... i'm not sure but I watched Fiona's interview earlier. I can't say she's a liar or if Richard over inflated the situations. Stay tuned, I guess! take care...
@andreas561476 ай бұрын
When he broke down on the stage he said: "Because I hated myself so much more than I loved her, And I loved her so very much" That hit hard...
@Skaevs5 ай бұрын
I've tried that in a much less serious way. Didn't get stalked, but ruined my relationship with a girl.
@majestyk86547 ай бұрын
The most moving, multilayered and epic show ever! Its truly incredible
@John-lp5xh7 ай бұрын
Sounds woke
@Moth-Mellow7 ай бұрын
@@John-lp5xh Putting a label on something before experiences it for yourself is naive bud.
@John-lp5xh7 ай бұрын
@@Moth-Mellow it saves me so much time and I'm usually right 80% of the time
@majestyk86547 ай бұрын
@@John-lp5xhwell, you're missing out. It's one of the best shows on netflix
@John-lp5xh7 ай бұрын
@@majestyk8654 I don't know what your values are, I don't know what kind of person you are, how can I know what you like I'll like
@marianneyag41067 ай бұрын
This was the most intense series I have ever watched. Many times, it was so hard to watch and yet I was magnetised and drawn in to the outstanding acting. Richard is incredibly brave and to react and go through all those emotions again and tell his side of trauma he endured. What a phenomenal and inspiring person.
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
Wow
@TM-pl6tm7 ай бұрын
Absolutely I was so connected to the actors Donny, Martha and Teri. Wow!!
@alexmousley72137 ай бұрын
100 percent. It wasn't an easy watch but it was so compelling, the acting was extraordinarily good and the emotions of both stalker and stalked were so well expressed as well as the complexity of their entanglement.
@sun.g4l6 ай бұрын
yes! the acting, the natorrating, the filming style is great.
@samanthaLeecabrera6 ай бұрын
I’ve been stalked before. I contemplated suicide during that time because I thought that was my only way to make it stop. It’s been 2 years and they are in prison for 15 years
@Skaevs5 ай бұрын
Happy ending 😁 Hope you're doing good.
@ln145176 ай бұрын
Episode 4 was the most difficult things I’ve watched I think ever.
@ourcorrectopinions68246 ай бұрын
Yes, it is up there with Irreversible. Seriously traumatic to watch.
@justenethompson38246 ай бұрын
Same!
@rinodad6 ай бұрын
Yes, first irreversible movie and second episode 04. 😢
@geline26866 ай бұрын
i stopped watching after that
@amillionlittle116 ай бұрын
I almost wanted to stop as well but I highly suggest sticking with it and get on because it's just that one episode @@geline2686
@RustyDarkStone7 ай бұрын
It is a breathtaking piece of TV , this guy has really shared something so profound and dark that it has to be seen to be believed, his bravery and the amazing way he wrote this show is beyond talented and I applaud him and I wish him all the success in the world.
@danieldmyers6 ай бұрын
I love this man. I couldn’t stop crying during the monologue about his dive into recklessness after the trauma because it hit home with my experiences a few years ago. I’ve never seen such an accurate portrayal of the situation and one’s response to it.
@Renijka6666 ай бұрын
But he just wanted to get fame and money ..not good
@danieldmyers6 ай бұрын
@@Renijka666 well then good for him. Imagine how great this world would be we could all monetize our traumatic experiences
@shelleybartley89137 ай бұрын
I only realised the actor was the real guy after I finished watching it. I watched it all on the edge of my seat. Absolutely amazing. This guy is a beautiful honest soul 💖
@angelcuraza98137 ай бұрын
i only realized when i read this comment 🥲🥲
@midlifecrisis397 ай бұрын
Same
@Romawitch7 ай бұрын
Same, I realized while on the last episode and I cried my heart our for him.. kept thinking how difficult I must has been reenacting all of it... and also... hope this helps him
@mindyt55577 ай бұрын
I'm glad he's been seen, heard, validated and paid. More than that I hope his mind is healed or is healing. May the lord bless and keep him.
@BonJoviBeatlesLedZep6 ай бұрын
I knew going in so everything that happened had me on the edge of my seat.
@saleca36137 ай бұрын
This series shook me to the core. I wasn’t expecting that
@AA-lq5pu7 ай бұрын
Same here. Its taught me alot about myself.
@jadeamah7 ай бұрын
Init, crazy
@angel22j926 ай бұрын
Me neither, very shocked
@loliloli65826 ай бұрын
Someone who's spirit appeared weak and broken could be soooo brave, vulnerable and open. He will touch many.
@tabascocat51027 ай бұрын
He deserves every penny. Love the guy. A lot of people will identify with his story. I love him.
@Lin-dh7uz3 ай бұрын
😳
@mrswolf30847 ай бұрын
I've just watched and cried my eyes out. In all truth pain and trauma often makes the authentic writer and artists.
@laurenzomars16837 ай бұрын
Snap
@outoforbit004 ай бұрын
The eyes of the suffering see the furtherest.
@seanah1236 ай бұрын
I have trauma that I have can't even speak about or even allude to with family and friends, not because I don't trust them, but because I find it so difficult to talk about. To be able to share this with the world and reenact it at the same time, it's incredibly brave.
@Themis337 ай бұрын
This show was hauntingly good. I'm still processing it.
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha
@linapesz3137 ай бұрын
What did you like about this show?
@Themis337 ай бұрын
@linapesz313 It i's a brilliant depiction of the human condition. The parallels are fascinating, also. I could relate to parts of it, like most probably can. And the acting was incredible.
@shashamarie47606 ай бұрын
Processing. Exactly 😢
@catherinesydney6 ай бұрын
The ending was utterly brilliant
@TK-md4dv7 ай бұрын
Richard Gadd's performance was one of the most grand performances I've ever seen in any film! Along with Jessica Gunning's beautiful performance! Powerful, emotional, brave, I can go on and on. I felt every word and left me sitting in a puddle of my tears. Excellent show. Acting perfection 👌
@dominique86556 ай бұрын
i’m a survivor and i’m half way through the series and i just realized a baby deer is a “fawn”.. like the trauma response 😭. when i first started watching the word was at the tip of my tongue. thank you for this. it wasn’t even the scenes that got me as much as your dialogue, trying to make sense of everything. like trying to grasp on to something, anything concrete to keep you from falling into the deep recesses of your mind. that’s when i had started reading this book on trauma responses and learned fight/flight/freeze/fawn types. the response is just as much a part of one’s story as the trauma itself
@JH-td4mn6 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm a survivor too but haven't watched as concerned it might be triggering. Did you personally find it helpful to watch? A great book on trauma if you not heard of it is The Body Keeps the Score.
@Skaevs5 ай бұрын
Oh my god I see?! He is a fawn, because he is a people pleaser, sort off.
@younuvou79167 ай бұрын
Not a 'comedy drama', more of an autobiographical psychological thriller with comedic relief. And the clear villain is the Darrien character.. not a grey area at all. Loved this miniseries and it's cathartic potential for RG and other survivors.
@MaryCherryOfficial6 ай бұрын
i agree. that was an odd thing to say
@lizzlovesjesus6 ай бұрын
Wouldn’t Martha be considered second villain though ? Or maybe more of the antagonist
@kelseylovesart6 ай бұрын
@@lizzlovesjesus He was able to show moments where Martha was an empathetic character with mental illness and where he made wrong choices to encourage Martha instead of disuading her so I think the grey area is more around the stalker/ stalked narrative not Darrien's role
@joescott53226 ай бұрын
It’s a dark comedy
@johngreydanus20336 ай бұрын
@@MaryCherryOfficial The guy was a comedian FFS.
@boogzieboogs6 ай бұрын
This show bought up trauma from my past, I was very tearful watching. I had a stalker and it still affects my mental till this day clearly. I remember I went to the police and was dismissed, I felt helpless! It’s been 4 years and I’m still waiting for closure. I appreciate him sharing his story because I have always felt no one understands how much that situation caused me so much distress.
@adimeter6 ай бұрын
I'm so so sorry. I hope you get justice.
@jenbodhi11336 ай бұрын
Same
@NinaHassan-in1io6 ай бұрын
Same. Never got justice. Never think I’ll get closure. I get restless when it gets to calm, as that would be the period it would flare up. I’m always aware that it may pop up again or afraid to run into a similar character. That unsafe feeling is fundamental.
@adimeter6 ай бұрын
@@NinaHassan-in1io Awe no. I pray peace over you and for you.
@gabifgt6 ай бұрын
this man is so brave. he's not only choosing to share his story, but he acted it out. i hope he finds peace.
@karensobt7 ай бұрын
the show is so incredibly raw and honest, it's rare to find a show that tackles such a difficult story in such a vulnerable way
@eron89377 ай бұрын
I never knew when watching Netflix that the guy playing ‘Baby Reindeer’ is the real life guy!! 😮
@mazda20387 ай бұрын
Same
@skerriesrockart7 ай бұрын
Yes its his vanity project.Cant you tell by the way he's the hero in spite of the fact that nobody in real life would have anything to do with him
@stevezb2227 ай бұрын
I’m glad I found out AFTER I watched it. Made the discovery even more surreal.
@alexandra1297 ай бұрын
@@skerriesrockart how dare you
@skerriesrockart7 ай бұрын
@@alexandra129 nothing about him or the story is believable
@theresabelcourt406 ай бұрын
A note to Richard Gadd. Your story touched me deeply and portrayed exactly my experience after my abuse first from my older brother followed by my now ex husband of 24 years. My soul has been touched and I’m grateful to you for your hard work in telling your story. I am certainly not a stalker but I have a tiny bit of insight into those who are so damaged that they do unspeakable things. This show has been a true gift. Thank you.
@adimeter6 ай бұрын
"from my older brother followed by my now ex husband of 24 years". I don't understand what you are saying. Could you break it down into a couple of sentences.
@gabriellegoyette42386 ай бұрын
@@adimeter she was abused by her brother and then by her ex
@adimeter6 ай бұрын
@@gabriellegoyette4238 Oh poor dear. But so sad she turned around and became an abuser.
@mikedobson16782 ай бұрын
@@adimeterare you dense?
@Mama-Sarnit7 ай бұрын
I was shocked, crying, amazed, confused, and all sorts of emotions 😳. This show needs an award, and plus, this man deserves so much recognition. I can't wait to watch more of his work where he jumps on other human emotions
@annarodgers777 ай бұрын
his acting as well as the actress who plays Martha was ASTOUNDING!!!
@jemillafrancis41486 ай бұрын
I agree, look what he said " stalker stories are usually one person's bad and the other person's good...and i wanted to get away from that " He's talking about an work of art he created...not a traumatic experience.
@LauraFitzpatrick-wq5ww6 ай бұрын
What makes his story so good, is he confesses things that most people would not. He doesn't paint himself as perfect. He has great empathy and also incredible insight
@fatmaal52967 ай бұрын
Episode 4, the scene where he realised that the abuser was trying to control his mind was the exact moment I too figured it out and it was terrifying I swear I never felt such thing in a long time. What a great show! Thank you for sharing your story to help thousands of people out there. You’re brave and I wish you now all the fame and success you truly deserved!
@WR106786 ай бұрын
Takes a strong man to relive his trauma in front of the world👊🏾❤️
@sarahc55936 ай бұрын
Or a damaged person
@jenbodhi11336 ай бұрын
Both can be true at the same time
@andreaandrea8986 ай бұрын
All talk about Martha. Now can we focus on Darrion?
@Allyourbase19905 ай бұрын
That’s what I’m saying . What Martha did was bad , but nothing compared to what Darrion did . He needs to be in prison
@hayleylongster46985 ай бұрын
..... RTD anyone?
@oivindificationАй бұрын
Yeah I feel like it's like too dark for talk shows like this. They only talk about Martha.
@naomijenkins78487 ай бұрын
this was emotionally one of the most complex stories iver ever seen. im sure it will help a lot of people to understand the complex set of emotions that can come with abuse.
@jchope7777 ай бұрын
What was done to him by that man was pure EVIL.
@whyisthissoannoying7 ай бұрын
absolute evil. and it happens to children. it is pure evil and hatred.
@daniellem5787 ай бұрын
It happens a lot in Hollywood
@silverstarlight93957 ай бұрын
Who was the man in real life? I'd like to know that.
@jojo4hyworld6547 ай бұрын
He did that again in last episode??
@ananyatomar42496 ай бұрын
@@jojo4hyworld654No not at all
@gymbuddy326 ай бұрын
I binge watched it, then had to watch each episode again to fully digest, understand and give the show the respect it deserves.
@stevenhageman82556 ай бұрын
Episode 4 for me is one of the finest pieces of exposition I've ever seen in film. It was also so refreshing seeing a true telling of what a person goes through, discovering their sexuality, instead of a writers imagined experience. Since it is his story, the authenticity all came through that much stronger
@motulifelikefigures19877 ай бұрын
The success isnt surprising for me- this show is simply outstanding and it deserves all the awards it can possibly get. It needs alot of strength and positive believe to turn such trauma into worldwide success! He truly can be so proud of that project. I hope i get to see the one man show this series is based on at some point.
@NotFalling4it6 ай бұрын
I just watched the interview with ‘Martha’ Fiona Harvey on Piers Morgan and he 100% nailed her character.
@lindaflesch73036 ай бұрын
Do you believe her?
@NotFalling4it6 ай бұрын
@@lindaflesch7303 Some of it I definitely don’t believe, like I don’t believe she has a boyfriend who’s a lawyer and a lot of it I don’t know. My gut says she lying though.
@lisamartin68476 ай бұрын
I don’t believe her either. If she had a boyfriend, she wouldn’t be stressing the fact she does and that he is a lawyer! She seemed very hung up on that. She also seems very off esp when she describes having 4 phones abdb4-6 email addresses and the need to keep things separate (ex her utility bill and another bill) Crazy!
@michaelmora53346 ай бұрын
And let’s be honest, what family and friends email eachother anymore? She’s so full of it I got ptsd watching the interview after that series
@Skaevs5 ай бұрын
Is it even her?
@claramoldes96326 ай бұрын
In Spain we are impressed with this story too! He is so strong and incredibly honest.. Reliving his trauma must have been brutally hard. Congratulaciones Richard, you deserve awards for this work.
@varsharavichandran89597 ай бұрын
The first thing I thought after watching this show is that Richard has such immense talent and intellect. You can see his intelligence from both on and off screen. Capturing such complex feelings and experiences that he’d gone through and to relive them?! Insane. Such a great guy that deserves all of this success and more ❤
@scoon21176 ай бұрын
Absolutely amazing, candid raw and honest. Never seen anything like it. I love this guy.
@zenden65847 ай бұрын
One of the best shows I’ve ever watched,so real to life with emotions we all have our struggles ❤
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
Haha really?
@moodforever7 ай бұрын
@@Stantheman848you don't have struggles ? Maybe not the same as his but at the end of the day rather physically or mentally it's still a struggle , right ?
@wcreview82277 ай бұрын
My Wife and I just watched Baby Reindeer and Richard, you are very Brave, and everyhting that you did and went though is part of the recipe to overcome Abuse! to have the courage to get it out .. Catharsis is the word! Incredible!!
@simonasaboova67606 ай бұрын
The strength to act out his trauma is immense. People can’t imagine how much strength it sometimes takes to go through it for example in therapy but to act out so many of those scenes is absolutely unimaginable for me. And I have been in therapy for over 10 years. I have so much respect for that man for telling his story. Amazing strength 👏🏻🙏🏻 And the series was insane…. After the I finished the 3rd episode my eyes were hurting because I watched them with my eyes wide open 😳😳😳 THE WHOLE ENTIRE TIME. I just couldn’t rest them. It was just so insane what I was watching 😱😱
@gracekerr31277 ай бұрын
Binged the whole series back to back- Simply Amazing.
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
Took me 47 goes... couldn't stop yawning
@hotpotat0es7 ай бұрын
No thanks .who he was dating was pandering yet again
@libbyallen25667 ай бұрын
Same!
@libbyallen25667 ай бұрын
@@Stantheman848you counted?
@ameliaroy2227 ай бұрын
@@hotpotat0es how can a true story be pandering?
@sophiecatmin25747 ай бұрын
10/10 show! Most incredible writing I’ve seen on anything in a while. I’m so pleased he’s got the success he deserves from it, what a brave man for telling and showing us his story
@benhaggitt44666 ай бұрын
Jessica Gunning in this reminds me of Kathy Bates in Misery. Incredible acting
@yvonneanderson70325 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly Kathy Bates could have easily played her part
@HeartDrivenTarot4 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@heekyungkim81477 ай бұрын
Brilliant…. I laughed,shocked and cried. Best series i saw this year…
@Dbarr3117 ай бұрын
Nah nit the best
@LANDE337 ай бұрын
@@Dbarr311”best series I saw this year” = best one they’ve seen, maybe not the best you’ve seen.💀👍
@libbyallen25667 ай бұрын
@@Dbarr311haven’t heard of nit
@KB-tf8vp7 ай бұрын
Not only was this true and raw, this person is so brave and talented for writing, creating and acting it! 🤯 Bravo. Epic.
@PaigeHarris-uv2th6 ай бұрын
I absolutely adore him. It takes a lot to bare your soul to the world the way he has. As they said, there is no hero and no villain. There is a lot of gray in the world, and a lot of humans are still unable to take accountability for their own suffering and the suffering they create for others. I hope he heals completely & continues to grow more into the extremely emotionally intelligent human I see him as. Sending love to him and any other victim of the violence portrayed in the show 💔
@marianacabral86597 ай бұрын
Richard Gadd is extremely brave and deserves all the praise. By making his case accessible to the world, I hope much more compassion and understanding will be able to be given to trauma victims. Trauma is extremely messy and he is very brave to show its effects in such a raw way. Thanks for your service, Richard.
@meegangamble65037 ай бұрын
To be so honest with himself and share it with all of us, just truly amazing in his courage he is. Gives me hope for all of us 💜
@jamie67707 ай бұрын
Has the person who graped him ever been prosecuted?
@sandracheney9126 ай бұрын
The Netflix show was authentic and raw, Brilliant acting and writing.
@Bartizzle7397 ай бұрын
I worked security for this when they filmed Edinburgh fringe scenes. Was a nightmare lol so busy. Show looks great though and it turned out really well I think. Didn’t expect to enjoy it but was brilliant. Fair play to Richard for opening up about all that happened.
@francine59367 ай бұрын
Was it really the Fringe when it was filmed?
@Bartizzle7397 ай бұрын
@@francine5936 yeah. Was so busy and so hot 😂 they couldn’t get any vehicles close to the filming areas so it all had to be carried or wheeled to each area 😂. They wanted the authentic fringe backgrounds going on. Got quite lucky with crowds assuming it was just something for the fringe so we didn’t get hassled too much 🙏🏻
@adimeter6 ай бұрын
How interesting. You have 2 perspectives.
@TwinedHorizon37 ай бұрын
I am just learning that the actor IS the person that its based around and that is insane! This series was so well written but that just adds more depth to him. Mustve been so crazy to relive that again… Also wanna give credit to the actress playing martha, she was amazing in that role!
@sillygo0oser7 ай бұрын
Holy cow the expressions she made were amazing
@jamesphilipdorse81616 ай бұрын
The scene where he breaks down and confesses everything at his comedy show is one of the most powerful scenes of any TV series I've ever seen. Incredible stuff
@carlamcglone56987 ай бұрын
Just binged watched. WOW an absolute raw piece. Fair play to you Richard Gadd 👏🏻 👍🏻 🙌🏻
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
Comedy gold
@fh50477 ай бұрын
Just finished this and it really wasn’t what I was expecting at all, it was much more! Well worth a watch
@KarlSnarks7 ай бұрын
Yeah it started off as a relatively lighthearted dark-comedy, I did not know what I was in for but I'm glad I randomly started watching this. I only found out after that this was Richard's own real-life story, so much respect for the courage it must've taken to show such vulnerable part of his past.
@Stantheman8487 ай бұрын
I yawned a lot
@fh50477 ай бұрын
@@KarlSnarks same, I didn’t know anything about it when I watched it, and I did actually think to myself in the abuse scenes, ‘that must be so hard for an actor to act out’ then find out it was his story 🤯
@peterthomason6 ай бұрын
Started watching this and couldn’t stop. Did the whole series in one sitting. Fabulous
@deltaXna7 ай бұрын
I just finished this show. Wow. Showcases the intricacies of the human phyche. Amazing.
@1990onyyy7 ай бұрын
I just finished this show. Absolutely breathtaking storytelling and acting. A completely human character. I am completely awestruck.
@gooodies4u16 ай бұрын
We know she’s watching each and every interview online. Just wow
@wakeupbell24917 ай бұрын
Kudos to the person at Netflix who saw the potential of Gadd's story! It is a fabulous bit of television and I admire Richard for telling his story so very honestly.
@Melinamiu0076 ай бұрын
I tend to wonder if his abuser connected him with Netflix.
@jenbodhi11336 ай бұрын
I was wondering that too
@GraceChai-bg5no7 ай бұрын
Its such a brilliant show. Awesome cast. Richard is brave to relive his dark past and I was moved beyond words.
@jog93956 ай бұрын
The acting in this show is next level.. amazing characters.
@paragonnina7 ай бұрын
i just binged all 7 episodes in one night and i had no idea he was the actual person from the true story and now my mind is blown all over again. i’ve never watched a show that has portrayed trauma in such a raw, real way. 10/10 would recommend. truly a work of art
@robbrown3917 ай бұрын
I thought it was Amazing ... Bless Him and glad he made it through all that ....
@marzencia5676 ай бұрын
I was a victim of stalking for 4 years. I am glad to see the increasing awareness and understanding of this behaviour and how it all affects the victim. Still so much more needs to change. If anyone reading this is currently experiencing the same - my advice is - keep gathering as much evidence as you can and be an absolute pain to the police - keep going, and keep making statements until they do what they suppose to do.
@mclovinlife40187 ай бұрын
The best thing I’ve seen in many many years. The story, his acting, his vulnerability, the way it’s shot. Just everything.
@1971redd7 ай бұрын
The movie was amazing. I couldnt walk away from my TV. Richard you are so brave to relive that over and over acting in that movie
@alexbriantab6 ай бұрын
It was a series
@madalenamadalena3596 ай бұрын
Iphon
@readifdumb6 ай бұрын
What I liked so much about it is how raw it felt to the flawed nature of being human. Often we find ourselves in situations, doing things that we regret, and one by one we bury these moments, and create a false identity online, on social media and such. To see someone expose not only the darkest parts of their life, but also show the world how flawed they acted in those scenarios, it gives a voice to those that have been in manipulative relationships, and those that feel imperfect as they compare themselves to celebrities. All humans are flawed, one way or another, and I think that’s something to embrace not ignore.
@missswifte7 ай бұрын
Wow... this series took a sharp twist into dark. Emotionally overwhelming and courageously created. Amazing piece ... thank you for this! So proud of your courage to tell your story
@sarahnaji83627 ай бұрын
I absolutely loved it!!!! I wanted more than 7 episodes!! Literally a masterpiece
@KarlSnarks7 ай бұрын
I think the story being told in such a self-contained format ads to its strength. Every episode also had a different runtime, to give every part of the story the space it needed to be understood.
@The_Red_Pill__6 ай бұрын
I someone recommended this to me. Said it was the best show they ever saw. I doubted it, but watched it and couldn’t agree more!
@lovey9807 ай бұрын
It’s an amazing show and I’ve never felt like a show ended so fast. This deserves so many awards. It’s such a refreshing experience.
@santiagovasco42337 ай бұрын
This is the best Netflix series in a long time.
@BlackBizAdvocate6 ай бұрын
I was mesmerized by this series! I felt ALL of the emotions, and it was very well written and acted.
@psychedelicgoat34647 ай бұрын
I have genuinely never cried so hard in a series. I found it so relatable, so astonishing in how it portrayed thought patters we are all prone to feel even though we don’t acknowledge this. He was so brave in sharing this story and exposing his vulnerabilities that make it easier for us to process our own deepest darkest secrets and shames. Can’t share my love for this series enough and glad he got out of this situation ok (from what we see)
@michellemybelle22637 ай бұрын
This show was so powerful, emotional, brilliant, great acting, great writing, crazy intricate story. Whatever awards can be given for a tv show should be given to this show. I haven’t stopped thinking about it since I finished.
@andreeaseni29866 ай бұрын
I cried so much.. I am sorry he had to went through something like that.. This drama series was amazing! I love it !! Good luck in your future projects!!🙏
@Coalminesz7 ай бұрын
Truly heartbreaking, yet a raw and descriptive show. I commend his bravery. So many feelings and tears were exposed while watching this show.