Babysitter Boss S2E7: Being the Boss without Being Bossy

Being a babysitter isn’t about being bossy. Kids are notorious for taking advantage of babysitters. Find out tips to be a babysitter that kids love and listen to!
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Babysitter Boss is created by Safe Sitter, Inc. For more Information about Safe Sitter, Inc., visit safesitter.org.
Starring: Lexi Flowers, Juliet Core, JD Core, Elijah Vadas, Lorin Core, Chad Pitschka, Calvin Pitschka, Quinlyn VonEsch, Preston VonEsch
Director: Andy Lake
Assistant Director: Ryan Penington
Script Supervisor: Amelia Kramer
Director of Photography: Steven Lefkovitz
Producer: Eric “ike” Eicher
Produced by FME Studios

[@amyyyelizabethh9354]

Has no one talked about how amazing her hair looks? Just me?

[@lordpun7779]

I love the beginning

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

1:14 when she gets down on their level, I’ve done that before, the kid doesn’t take the hint and the kid kneels down too!😂😂

[@BabysitterBoss]

That's funny!

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

Babysitter Boss right!?😂it’s literally happened to me with like four diff kids!!!😂

[@PureVikingPowers]

Kids *always* lie about bedtime 😂😂 I wish i had this kind girl as babysitter she makes me feel safe when she speaks kinda like mom

[@BabysitterBoss]

Awe! Thank you!

[@noticiasdepapa3994]

I don’t lie about bedtime i go to bed at 11:00 pm

[@StarDrawz-lk4rz]

@@noticiasdepapa3994good job!

[@starhoyt2852]

hey, how do u handle when a child is having a panic attack or anxiety attack? or even you are having an attack?

[@BabysitterBoss]

As a babysitter, you must always stay in control of yourself which is the hardest part of taking care of children. You need to be patient and always use a pleasant, yet firm tone of voice when dealing with challenging behavior. Call your parent or a back-up adult for relief if you are losing control. If the child seems to be anxious, comfort the child with distractions such as a story in a book or a fun game. I hope this helps!

[@hihello1384]

That’s a great tile to teach them deep breathing, it’s important to teach them that because they can use it in the future.

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

Try breathing with the child. If they refuse to try breathing try making them laugh and/or distract them. If this still doesn’t work try to find out what is wrong while you go over people you can call for help

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

Also if it is an older child who is stressed about school work try doing the work with them. Don’t do it for them but talk it through with them. If this is not working the child may need a break to take their mind away form the work for a minute. Maybe electronic time for 5 minutes or a board game, but be careful some children with definitely try to take advantage of this. While still keeping the child calm you need to set a boundary on how long the break is, but make sure they really are ready to try again

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

If you are the one panicking try distracting the child or children with something calm but entertaining this way you have time to sit down and breathe through the attack. If you can not distract the children try telling them that you need a break. I know it seems like you are dumping you r problem on the child but don’t worry. I have said this before and the children completely understood.

[@malaysiastarr1286]

I’m about to be a babysitter very soon so I’ve been watching your videos and they give me so much info about babysitting and how to handle it!

[@kelsiebrooks3406]

I love your channel I came across i am new to babysitting i am 11 and it looks tough. I love all the advice you are giving, but you should do a video on how to deal with anxiety attacks for the babysitter and the kid(s).

[@BabysitterBoss]

So the number one rule of babysitting is stay in control of yourself and stay in control of the kids your watching. Anxiety is real - I won't deny that. Preparation is often the key to reducing anxiety. Have you taken a babysitting safety class like Safe Sitter? If not, you need to. It will help you so much! You can find a class here: safesitter.org/find-a-class/

[@kelsiebrooks3406]

Thank you so much for replying to my comment i have taken the babysitting course by Red Cross love you so much😍

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

It is tough sometimes, but it’s mostly fun - in my opinion, the hardest parts of babysitting is trying to get them to settle down for bed, and when the kids always want treats and snacks 24/7 😂

[@alisalopes3524]

Same! I'm also 11 :)

[@NLife261]

Same

[@sarahmlt2277]

I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL SO MUCH!!!

[@psychotic_kitten1435]

Can you please do a video on what you should bring with when babysitting?for emergencies or other purposes that would be great😀

[@BabysitterBoss]

That's a great idea! I will definitely consider it. Thanks!

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

psychotic_kitten 143 try making a bag you can refill and bring to each job. Talk to the parents about what is okay to bring for the child first. Usually a these items work great Stuffed animals Crayons Coloring pages/books Story books Board games Diaper/wipes (depending on the child’s age) Teethers (if you are dealing with a teething baby) Hair ties (for you,things can get messy) Extra clothes (just in case) And if you have an activity planned bring related toys/items

[@horseandponylover7475]

Yes pls

[@strawberrykiwi4357]

I also like to ask the kids if I don't know something, like where dishes go I find it more effective then just guessing, and the kids like being able to share their knowledge, they don't get to do it much because everyone just assumes that because they're little, they don't know

[@BabysitterBoss]

Great idea!

[@lexilosito3193]

your videos have helped me so much on how to be a great baby sitter

[@laurenwemhoff3405]

I am 12 and have my first babysitting job tomorrow. Any advice?

[@BabysitterBoss]

Here is some great advice safesitter.org/babysitting-tips-beginners/. And if something goes wrong, I probably have it covered in one of my videos.

[@maisydog1477]

I ask the 4 year old to show me his favorite toy and the 2 year old if she wants to smell a candle I’ve known them since they were born🥰

[@user-dy4jv2fw6v]

Thank u for advice !:)

[@MariaandHunter]

Great Job!

[@sophiapuckett4910]

i just saw your channel, and i love it!! i was wondering if there is some sort of notepad to jot things down like the one you showed in the video at 2:26

[@BabysitterBoss]

Yes! You can order the exact same one here: safesitterinc-abkbr.formstack.com/forms/product_order_form!

[@AliaOsorio]

I'm working on being a babysitter and your videos have helped me so much

[@laurenfoster4205]

What do you do when a child wants to play the same game over and over again for hours and hours and you get bored of it and when you ask if we can take a break they yell at you NO!

[@BabysitterBoss]

Distract the child with another toy or game. The child is likely only saying no to stay in control. Distracting the child with a different toy or game will help the child transition to another activity.

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

Babysitter Boss thanks! I’ve struggled with this too!

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

To the magical Babysitter Boss - I think you’re a goddess from Heaven - between all your videos and responding to almost every comment - I feel like there’s no babysitting question you can’t handle!! From, Your amazed fan who idolizes you

[@BabysitterBoss]

You are the best! I just really love babysitting and love to help others that love it as well!

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

Babysitter Boss you’re just the best! I’m prob just one of many amazed fans but you even inspired me to start my own babysitting channel! I only have one video so far and I made it when I was babysitting my cousins!

[@supersittersclub3554]

Thank you so much! As young babysitters, our club has a lot to learn and your videos make us better sitters and we learn so much from them. Your videos are easy to understand and we are learning so much. Thanks. ☺

[@StarDrawz-lk4rz]

Any tips!

[@natural.integrators]

Immediately like: I LOVE THIS GIRL!

[@Oliviaisqueen]

I’m 10 and this channel helps me learn how to deal with the baby sitter.😏😂

[@amyyyelizabethh9354]

Oooooo 😏😏😏😏

[@leahgracefecteau]

Awesome babysitter ❤️😊

[@babyratkk6595]

This is great

[@What_5711]

When does the kid(s) need a timeout?

[@BabysitterBoss]

Good question! There are actually 5 other things you can do to try to prevent problem behavior in addition to timeout (we call it Take a Break/Start Over). You can read about them here: safesitter.org/behavior-tips/. Take a look at let me know if you have any questions!

[@markcunningham9114]

Hi my name is Ailee I’m 8 years old an I’m starting to because of you you taught me everything I know now

[@anna_grace_]

To what?

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

To baby sit

[@anna_grace_]

Sophapia 21 oh sorry I need her to be more clear

[@diegosaldana5014]

2:08 ITS BASEBALL FROM II

[@ragnarroo5784]

Once I was watching my cousins, not necessarily babysitting them, but I was occupying them. I'm 12 and my cousins are 4 and 6-year-old girls. We were playing that I was the mom and they we're the kids. Now they were not supposed to be on their iPads in real-life or the game, which I didn't know, but I suspected and later found out that I suspected correctly. I was "busy" so they snuck away to play on their iPads. And they were actually playing on them, in case you had doubts. Then, not even 30 minutes later I was supposed to be "asleep" with the 4-year-old, while the 6-year-old was supposed to sneak away in the middle of the night to secretly snack on food. Lo and behold I find out that the 6-year-old was eating homemade icing out of the fridge. Moral of the story. Be VERY careful and VERY aware of what the kids your babysitting can and can't do (or eat), and make sure you know that they are not doing it (or eating it).

[@feyronottako514]

yes is true

[@bellewes6829]

You should totally start posting again! I love your vids:)

[@BabysitterBoss]

Working on it!

[@adventuresofheidi1049]

Hey this isn’t related to the video but what do you think I should put a post on or apply for babysitting jobs on

[@BabysitterBoss]

If you want to use an app like care.com or Bambino, you need to make sure you follow their rules. If they say you can't be on there until you are 16 and you aren't yet 16, you shouldn't do it.

[@hollandclawson1429]

Do blood Pls

[@BabysitterBoss]

As far as cuts/scrapes?

[@hollandclawson1429]

Yes

[@anonymous-nm3xd]

I love your move😍😍😍😍❤💗💗😁😁😁😁🎁🎁🎁

[@addyandlilly7812]

I love you

[@anadbananap6351]

I wish I had this the oNe day I babysst my little cousin

[@ignotaanimus7804]

Kid i babysit (4 years old) has tones of energy and i often feel burned out. He wants participation 100% in all games which i understand and yells ("come and play with me ") when i have to prepare dinner or do something important. Images of babysitter just "watching" or calmly playing are funny for me!! I give all my attention to him ofcours but he wants me to do exactly what he is doing all the time(if he jumbs or dances yells JUMB! DANCE! at me and this could take hours ) How can i take little brake without him feel heartbroken? (Once i said no about tv and wouldn't talk to me told his mom he doesn't want me. She told me no tv because she needs screen time to get a rest when she comes home, so iam the bad guy ).

[@lucyjanebk8824]

What do you do if the kids are swearing?

[@Li1ypadd]

Hey i have one question what should i do if the kids im babysitting sometimes hide from me, or sneak candy in their rooms and lock the door. I could not survive babysitting without your channel your awesome thanks!

[@BabysitterBoss]

Your job is to enforce the rules and it is easier if the employer tells the children that you are in charge and they must cooperate before they leave. Tell the child there are consequences for breaking the rules and remind them your job is to enforce the rules. Call a back-up adult if the child refuses to follow the rules. Make sure you tell the employer about any behavior issues you had when they return home.

[@Li1ypadd]

@@BabysitterBoss Thank you so much!

[@neelydeloach7704]

Hey Babysitter Boss, I really want to get into babysitting but I don’t know who and or how to get started (I’m 12).

[@BabysitterBoss]

The best place to start is with a babysitting safety class like Safe Sitter. You can probably find some classes this Summer near you. Visit hops://Safe Sitter.org/find-a-class/ to find a class near you. In a babysitting safety class, you’ll learn all the skills you need to care for kids, keep yourself safe, and set your hourly fee. I think you’ll really like it!

[@Extroverted-Gay]

What if the parents advice is inhumane or they don’t/won’t tell you information like allergies or bedtimes?

[@CreeSmith]

hay what adout aleges

[@alken4045]

Can you please make a video of 1 a little kid gets hurt

[@cobrakairobloxenthusiast4291]

My Mom Had To Babysit So much it was not easy literally it was 3 kids Sometimes 4 But my mom has me and my brothers Etc. Help her it doesn’t end there though.they were so hyper I could not sleep neither could my mom it would take for ever to tame them and The mom of the kids Literally Left us Her kids For a Month! That was the impossible But It ended very Bad Meaning my mom was not the Kids Mom’s friend anymore It leaded to bad scenarios that I can Say but my Mom after this She said “I’m Never babysitting Again”I’m with her it was so impossible to do my mom was friends with the other mom for 2 or 3 Years.

[@LucysLifeInTheBabyAliveWorld]

What if the parents actually **DO** always let the children do whatever they want whenever they want?... In short, how should one deal with spoiled narcissistic children? Also, back to one of my previous questions.... What if a child your babysitting straight up tells you that their parents use physical punishment more severe than a spanking, should you just immediately contact the authorities without informing the parents or tell them what you've been told by the child? But most serious of all, what if you're babysitting an older child and you discover that they're self-harming or express that they have suicidal thoughts but they say that they aren't actively planning to carry out the act?

[@caitschannel4499]

How Long do I need to practice

[@BabysitterBoss]

Practice what?

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

Kait schneider usually you get the hang of it after the third time. Too start I find it best if the child is between the ages of 5 and 8

[@timhouseholder141]

Hadley

[@heidijoynes4062]

Ha ha very funny I hate your videos just kidding you’re actually amazing🎉🎉🎉

[@alexp7959]

I'm 10 years old and I want to become a babysitter and I'm very mature but is that allowed just because I'm 10

[@BabysitterBoss]

Most babysitter preparation courses (like Safe Sitter) are for kids in grades 6-8. Age isn't what matters the most - it is your maturity and ability to take on the responsibility of babysitting. Talk to your parents and see if they think you're ready, (And take a class - it really helps! You can find one at safesitter.org/find-a-class/)

[@alexp7959]

@@BabysitterBoss ok thank you so much im still love your videos and im still going to keep watching them

[@sophieelizabeth2720]

Abbi black of course you can. When you meet the parents assure them on how mature you are. Try doing extra chores around the house while they are gone. Try starting with neighbors. People who know you are more likely to trust you. You can even start with sibling if you have any. This way your parents will definitely trust you

[@alexp7959]

@@sophieelizabeth2720 thank you I really appreciate jt

[@laceysmith2095]

Fontana happened with Wanda and Tammy Union oh my God I think it was like a game or ever wake up in time tomorrow to talk about my life and I want to see my tablet and I like to go that bad place and I told them my story and they still online how to bring the rose and they decide to the mall no

[@nikereebokpuma3406]

Id rather have a babysitter that is Bossy and acts like it!

[@-justryoof.7363]

ه

[@gosuckyamum7201]

her teeth are so white!!!!!!

[@victoriaschannel461]

Hey smell of bacon bacon and the taste is better

[@GataZeta]

I don't undertand you