Story 2: it’s normal to leave medication with grandparents. It’s not normal for your grandparents to give your child medication you don’t approve of or know nothing about. The comments trying to blame them for leaving Motrin need to touch grass. Motrin helps if a kid gets sick out of no where. If you stated you don’t want it near your kid, you as grandparents honor THAT.
@mrFiiSKiiS5 ай бұрын
You can tell AITA is full of kids with that comment about being suspicious about leaving medicine with babysitter. My kids' diaper bags ALWAYS had ibuprofen and Tylenol as a default bag item.
@gfighter8975 ай бұрын
@@mrFiiSKiiS omg I thought I was only one who thinking it. We pack Tylenol and Motrin just in case.
@user-qf1bb7nm8s6 ай бұрын
0:34 your friend “gets sad” when other people don’t drink as much as her? Your friend is an alcoholic.
@admonius96686 ай бұрын
I think has she stayed and not called her boyfriend, something bad would have happened
@vincentcleaver19256 ай бұрын
Clearly she made the creepy dudes rethink their plans. These women were not her friends
@GreasyMoistАй бұрын
Definitely not
@Killahbee1686 ай бұрын
Putting you in danger like that and she got the nerve to preach about friendship
@admonius96686 ай бұрын
Story 2: the comments where OP replied really show the Karen side of things. As soon as I heard patches, that gave away the grandparents are dangerous
@Arcane_Route_666 ай бұрын
With Story #1, life is one big party until you cozy up to someone makes it your last party ever. And the former friend being passessive aggressive about OP being cautious is really skirting that line.
@maryjane44326 ай бұрын
I’d call her fiancé and explain why they aren’t talking. Then watch it all fall apart
@mrmastaofdesasta69946 ай бұрын
They are grown ups, all you can do is tell people your concerns about their safety. If they choose to ignore you, that's on them. And I don't think this is a matter of "not sticking with the bride through thick and thin" but just refusing to go into a dangerous and ABSOLUTELY AVOIDABLE situation with them.
@chessieray14656 ай бұрын
The people really trying to come at OP2 trying to compare Children's Motrin to a MLM should feel embarrassed.
@kossettereaditte75526 ай бұрын
It's called people are dumb
@windmolen006 ай бұрын
Women going to italy for a girls trip is like a guy going to thailand for a solo vacation. We all know what they are doing on those trips.
@kossettereaditte75526 ай бұрын
Bride to be 100% cheated and wanted the OP to cheat as an conspirator imo
@christophernoble766 ай бұрын
in story 1, i sometimes get a strong feeling when stuff are about to go south, i usually end up being right and i always tell my friends that i don't feel right about things and if they don't agree then i just leave alone and try get updates to make sure everyone is safe.
@chalidem6 ай бұрын
I've heard it being said, guy feeling is an evolutionary trait
@bekleedee6 ай бұрын
The people asking about the parents in story 2 sending medication with their child for a few overnight stays.....do other people NOT do that? If my kids go to my in laws place even just overnight, I'll pack children's paracetamol in case of a fever. That's what good parents do. They stay prepared. My in laws only live at most a 10 minute drive from us and a 15 minute at most drive from the nearest pharmacy but we pack everything our son or daughter might need so my in laws don't have to go out to get it. We're the parents. It's our job. Tf is wrong with some of these people?
@yannxoth28786 ай бұрын
NTA, you seen the movie "Taken" because that bachelorette party almost became that without Liam Neeson.
@brianarnold86666 ай бұрын
If she gets sad about people not keeping up with her drinking, she has a problem. Gonna need both a therapist and a few AA meetings to fix that trainwreck
@lillia24796 ай бұрын
The yacht part reminded me of a dirty joke. Read more at your own risk. Mike walks into a bar and sees Pat with a smile on his face. He was like, "Hey, Pat. Why are you so happy today?" Pat replied, "Hey, Mike. You know, the other day, I was just out waxing my boat, you know, just waxing my boat. And a beautiful red head comes up to me and was like, 'Hey, can I have a ride on your boat?" And I was like, 'Sure, you can have a ride on my boat.' I took her out, turned off my boat, and said, 'It's either swim, or screw.' She couldn't swim, Mike! She couldn't swim!" A week later, Mike walks into a bar and sees Pat with an even bigger smile on his face. He was like, "Hey, Pat. Why are you so happy today?" Pat replied, "Hey, Mike. You know, the other day, I was just out waxing my boat, you know, just waxing my boat. And a beautiful brunette comes up to me and was like, 'Hey, can I have a ride on your boat?" And I was like, 'Sure, you can have a ride on my boat.' I took her out, way out, way further than before, turned off my boat, and said, 'It's either swim, or screw.' She couldn't swim, Mike! She couldn't swim!" About a month later, Mike walks into a bar and sees Pat crying over his beer. He was like, "Hey, Pat. Why are you so sad today?" Pat replied with tears in his eyes, "Hey, Mike. You know, the other day, I was just out waxing my boat, you know, just waxing my boat. And a beautiful BLONDE came up to me and was like, 'Hey, can I have a ride on your boat?" And I was like, 'Sure, you can have a ride on my boat.' I took her out, way WAY OUT, you know, way further than before, turned off my boat, and said, 'It's either swim, or screw.' She pulled down her skirt and... she had a pecker, Mike! A GREAT BIG PECKER! And I can't swim, Mike! I CAN'T SWIM!" 😂
@Zebrastreifen776 ай бұрын
scary story, luckily op has a good gut feeling. these guys are potential rapists...
@lastofadyingbreed48506 ай бұрын
With 3 kids myself, I pack Motrin, Benadryl, first aid, hell alcohol and witch hazel, because and fellow me here, they're f*cking kids and anything could go wrong, it sure as hell did when I was a kid
@Demyxu6 ай бұрын
So... do people really just not take caution into consideration? Im prone to sickness so I always have medication at the ready. Do people think you just shouldnt do that for kids too??
@AudeProbxtz6 ай бұрын
The people replying to op's comments about him leaving medicine clearly don't have kids, and rightfully so shouldn't. Every parent packs children's Tylenol or ect when they take them or leave them with someone. Same ideas when you go somewhere you probably pack medicine with you IN CASE!
@rikukiko6 ай бұрын
Story 1 those girls were not good friends, i went on a girl's trip before and when we hung out with a group of guys that wanted us to hang out in their hotel room and one of the girls felt uncomfortable we all agreed that she was more important than a group of guys who we just met and went back to our hotel
@sosamma0906 ай бұрын
Of course, girl's trip lmaoooo
@user-lp5ph1hn4p6 ай бұрын
Now imagine if something bad had actually happened because of the stupid bride and her stupid friend. It would have been the bride and The bride's friend fault
@user-sg2ihshJi4586 ай бұрын
It’s her own fault the first night was eh cus she was drunk but even when she was sober she was disregarding you feeling for a free tour stay and drinks
@DemonLucifer8756 ай бұрын
Only cared about that op is safe other all things is bs and stay away from bs
@jestosebno6666 ай бұрын
Story 1. Oh yes, expressing your "feelings" will resolve any issue. 😂😂😂
@ladyweasellou33676 ай бұрын
Never underestimate the stupidity of partying, drinking, young women in large groups.
@mariavb88726 ай бұрын
Story 1 gives Hostel movie vibes😱🤯😭
@aurorethebore6 ай бұрын
Story 1: imo, OP leaving is the only reason no one got hurt or worse. If they all went, no one would know where they were or who they were with and they’d be isolated on a yacht in a foreign country with strangers. With OP gone, now not only did someone know their face, but also where they were and where they lived (if the place wasn’t rented). Her leaving made the group a less appealing target and likely saved them from a worse situation.
@nathalieolsson69725 ай бұрын
@aurorethebore that's very perceptive of you, and at least for me it added another layer of being creeped out over how close they could have been to be kidnapped etc.
@jillcrabtree21856 ай бұрын
Story 1 those men were up to something asking her if she’s a virgin. They were going for her not the other girls that’s why they didn’t see it. Until she left and they knew they wasn’t going to be able to get her! Then they started showing their true colors to the others!
@mml00825 ай бұрын
That bride sounds exhausting
@emyleyva116 ай бұрын
You can always tell when someone comments about parenting and are not a parent at all. I rarely went out with my husband when our kids were little. If I left my kiddos with my parents for any reason, even for just a day, we left everything they may possibly need. You might take them to the pool? Bathing suits are there, floaties included. Even when the weather is warm or cold, we pack for the opposite incase it changes out of nowhere. Pack diapers for a week (even for the day), incase something upsets their tummy and they get diarreah. Always pack medicine incase they suddenly show symptoms of being ill. Insurance cards incase of emergencies. They’d take them and we will meet them there. We even went as far as having a notarized document stating that our parents are the caregivers in our absence. If anything happens to us, it’s our wish that our parents keep/care for them if we end up in the hospital. You’d think they were going out of town for whole week based on what I packed. It is possible for parents to overpack/overplan for the just in cases.
@jemase79315 ай бұрын
Don't set yourself on fire to keep other people warm. If you feel unsafe, leave.
@kossettereaditte75526 ай бұрын
1 a woman who is about to be married going around with random guys all night is a red flag. 2 whether youre a man or woman if you feel unsafe leave the situation no matter what anyone says.
@BeatrizOliveira-wt6mu6 ай бұрын
In story 2, people who commented are clearly not parents, or at least I sure hope not. Every time you leave your kids with someone, specially a baby, you leave them with the basics. That means, medicine, diapers, everything.
@nikkiwolfe8488Ай бұрын
There is a huge difference between paranoia and hyper-vigilance. She definitely is the latter. Its usually a sign of PTSD
@Killahbee1686 ай бұрын
The friends like this you really got to pay close attention to if you uncomfortable about a scenario that can lead to God knows what and your friends talking about you're the bad guy for walking out but they try to justify being around these creepy people in my personal opinion if something were to happen to the bride it would have been for being put in this situation
@Auren236 ай бұрын
Why do bachelorette parties even exist? Why are you partying like there's no tomorrow with anyone other than your partner and treating your marriage like a death sentence? Why aren't you celebrating with your S.O instead the fact you'll be married? Most bachelorette parties i see are women just making stupid choices without their men around and taking the opportunity to wh*re about without any consequences, what kind of culture sees this as a good thing? OP did the right thing cutting out those women, they're really bad influence, and i personally feel bad for the guy marrying the Bride as he is 100% guaranteed to get cheated on later down the line. Props to the boyfriend for coming to get OP although i believe she shouldn't have been in that situation to begin with, so many bad things could've happened. Stuff like that doesn't happen to you UNTIL IT DOES, always good to keep that in mind and be careful. Seriously though, it really makes no sense why this is even a thing, you should be celebrating the person you'll spend the rest of your life with not seeking cheap thrills that will ruin your relationship.
@nathalieolsson69725 ай бұрын
I totally agree with your opinion but, didn't OP say that they both partied? that they were basically equally bad? so I guess there is a big chance that they will cheat on one each other.
@aurorasam056 ай бұрын
story 2: yeah people carry baby medicine in their overnight bags… it’s like .. proactive parenting
@lastraven85756 ай бұрын
If white lotus is scary as it seems she should put clips on her posts and say "i cant imagine being in that situation it looks so scary"
@itrionyxi91326 ай бұрын
Story one the guys probably called their plans off after she left because she knew their faces and if they disappeared they’d be wanted. So they went for sex instead.
@kewl_as_a_duck82276 ай бұрын
on a side note, can anyone explain the white lotus reference to me lol☠️
@calliecature6 ай бұрын
White lotus means pure. But white lotus b*tch means two-faced.
@quinn98412 ай бұрын
with story 2, why is everyone immediately accusing the parents? fucking chill, it's a normal thing to leave in a diaper bag for overnights and whatnot.
@tingtingboll6 ай бұрын
It's about trust when it comes to who takes care of your baby. They can never trust those grandparents again. Grandparents give the same energy as using ivermectin to cure Covid 🙄 I'd never let my kid around them again either
@leazimridaniels85526 ай бұрын
Story 1: haven't they watched taken? I mean really
@333333joshua6 ай бұрын
Democracy. Good thing we are a republic
@chalidem6 ай бұрын
Italy is soo shady
@MLT19046 ай бұрын
1st story: lol as someone’s who’s a seasoned raver/festival attendee, could never be me!! Gurl bye! NTA. Good riddance, your better off boo-boo
@GreyLeo6 ай бұрын
Nah Italy is very unsafe for tourists women.
@shadowyearsago6 ай бұрын
Hello
@CrazyScientist27636 ай бұрын
Hii
@NinjaMonkey1186 ай бұрын
😊
@heyyitsjanea6 ай бұрын
the comments are so weird. yes, parents tend to think ahead about things that could happen while gone. that’s called being a good and attentive parent. why wouldn’t they pack medicine just case??