Back Home From Rythmia (Adjusting To A Sick Society)

[@CelineAdobea]

your videos are like a bath in an infinite pool of love, life, truth and harmony ✨🦋✨

[@bonebrothbro]

Love you Ryan. I am having very much a similar experience right now after a healing, isolated few months in a small town in Mexico, followed by Bufo Alvarius ceremony, which was incredibly healing. In the last week Ive come up against fierce negativity directed at myself while I have done everything I can to be sincere and kind to the people involved. And I have had to stick up for myself. While my heart is not fully healed, I am more at peace with myself and finding it easier to stick up for myself, like you said, without worry of if I am projecting or deflecting. Something that has been very hard for me in the past. Much love to you and great work with the medicine. As always im excited to hear more from you. 💙🙏

[@wisdomawakened6708]

Thanks for the wonderfully earnest video. Ryan, I went through an ayahuasca retreat from August 28th through 30th. For me it was an amazingly eye-opening and spiritual experience. Even today the grass feels like soft fur beneath my feet and all my senses are heightened. I feel you and the unsettling acceptance of the harshness from those not yet awakened. Peace on brother, for your eyes are opened wider now than ever before and the knowledge, power and insights gained do not fade with time.

[@Henk717]

Here is an interesting thing to think about that i became very aware off this year. Everything in life is an energy exchange, and once your eyes are open and you are aware of it you can accept and process this on an entirely new manner. Ryan experienced a lot of negativity from people who are trying to merge with his energy passing on a bit of there own negativity which in turn gives them a bit of relief. I do it on purpose sometimes, even provoking a negative response by poking the bear so they can get some relief. A bit at a time, while i heal and transform that energy back to a more positive state. Its when you are aware that this infinite positivity inside of you can not be corrupted and its merely your state of being that shifts down and will heal from the energy within that you can do some incredible things. So i would say to Ryan to further explore this type of exchange and if you desire see if you can indeed take on some of this negativity knowing the deeper exchange that is taking place and shielding it from settling within you by taking no longer taking it personal.

[@Imine_san]

I already knew this but a part of me forgot ? Anyways, thanks for reminding me in this way.

[@mary555mm6]

Mooi gezegd

[@GreenVibesWellness]

This is the answer I was looking for ✅

[@RobinObinray]

man....it's like we're some weird fukin robots literally....

[@shadown5757]

Just like it is stated in the kybalion "everything is vibration " and vibration of course is energy that we can't see (but feel and sense) because of our limited physical form made of dense matter (it is not all bad though since we experience things that other spiritual beings "in theory" want to experience but can't "specially lower beings that don't have transcended the lower vibrations of the physical realm" in theory of course).

[@natebickell6998]

Its crystal clear to me....you were defending an illusional self...pure awareness doesn't need defence...or anything period

[@NarasimhaB]

You have no idea of what context means..trying to fit in your learnt views about spirituality whereever you can with no respect to context..

[@stixnfeet7818]

@@NarasimhaB I assume what you mean by context is, white people can’t understand. If so, that is not true for everyone.

[@darkmoonmandala]

Every new level of awakening hurts in some way. I feel like we see more and more the shadow of humanity. As an empath I experience this often. You’re healing experience is a beautiful one. Thank you for sharing it. 🙏🏻

[@qw1rkilurk19]

Apparently it is hard for lower frequency individuals to meet a higher frequency person. I was told recently that it feels like they are being left behind and they felt that if they could upset or anger me somehow it wouldn't happen. Peace to you and know many love you exactly as you are.

[@sunrise_dog6475]

That makes so much sense.

[@MeowTheCheesepuff]

By the way, really beautiful videos my man. I've been tuning in for a long time and have introduced my Mum too, you have a fantastic essence of being and I'm blessed there are people in the world such as yourself for me too watch and learn from. Keep it up Brother, sending Green and Gold energy your way

[@MeowTheCheesepuff]

I noticed that since my embracing my self on deeper levels and allowing myself to aesthetically match that, since I now have longer hair and a more relaxed wardrobe I am presented with lots of similar scenarios like the one with yourself in the airport. I have faith that in following the direction of healing the heart will help in develop an awareness that can bypass and diffuse the joker/malevolent/toying energy that I get so often.

[@jeancarlosortiz8489]

This is the best surprise for my break at work!!

[@MsSkater4lyfe]

I feel like you should watch Abraham Hicks about negative people & them being around you in terms of attracting them to yourself.

[@reallove0318]

Hi... Can you link that video

[@yumithelight4375]

I love Abraham.

[@ravenoptima]

Dat hair....too awesome! ....Look a little sleepy, but still handsome. I gave up the NEED to trust people and / or trust them. I realized my need to trust was based on not knowing my true nature, the need to rely on what "appear" to be others, and to feel "safe", in a world that never guarantees anything. As Thomas Campbell says, "get used to living with uncertainty". I think it is practical to query deep into consciousness WHY we need to trust....all it gives us is a false sense of security, and the idea that we can control what is around us, including other people.....can we? I think that when we let go of being a SOMEbody, and feel comfortable as a NObody (ego-free), we have no one to stand up for, to defend, or to demand things for.....there is very little to protect. In that state, no one owes us anything, and vice versa....we do what we do, and that's the end of it....people take it of leave it. Whether WE think so or not, EVERYONE does the best they can in this strange existence, so that being said (if it's believed), all we have to do is do what we do. I have also given up caring what people think of me, other than a residual egoical reaction that has not been completely diffused yet, but i don't feed INTO that residue and embellish it, nor do i repress those feelings.....i do my best to resolve them, so that there will be NO reaction, eventually. When Buddha supposedly detached completely, i think he hit upon a radical solution to a lot of suffering! Just on the level of detaching from others' minds, views, definitions, demands, expectations, planning, systems, etc, has ben extremely freeing for me. If i commit to something, i do my best at it.....but that's it....I don't agree to much of ANYTHING anymore, but do find it satisfying to help people reduce their OWN suffering greatly, from my experience, because it comes naturally to me. Fortunately i was raised by parents who didn't expect me to conform to norms, but norms can creep in over time.....Well, creeping back OUT of the habit of them is possible too! I find that even detaching from my own body makes death a FAR lesser issue also, and i have returned to being much more of a risk-taker as i was when i was in my 20's, and have learned through experience to just Being and awareness, as new habits. End of rant. : ))

[@KaseyMarshall]

ravenoptima i loved this. thank you so much for sharing

[@junglisticexploratinals6561]

ALRIGGHT!! WAY TO GO RYAN!! WOO!! WE'RE CHEERING FOR 😃🙌🏾 YOU BRO KEEP ON POSTIVIN'EM!!

[@katiie7]

When I became sick with Lyme and wasted away then gaining it back with thyroid issues I look like an entirely different person from the old me. It’s incredible how differently people will treat the same soul based on appearance. It’s a learning experience and a challenging one. Thank you for always being so open

[@MeowTheCheesepuff]

Malevolent, highly individualised and lacking awareness of self and their potential to affect others is the collective state of being when operating from the core of the root chakra in the UK. In order to operate within society here, the Ego closes off from the heart. I know your struggles of being open and having that feeling of being taken advantage of, I was on MDMA and feeling really open hearted and two random guys toying with me in a similar way. Try Glastonbury out Ryan, I haven't been but I have frequent dreams where I'm flying above it , the vibration of it is compelling.

[@iampepi8183]

Well done! We are here for you! Thank you so much for sharing! You are deeply needed brother, I wish you all the best :)

[@heartcenteredchildren]

Thank you. You showed her how to respect herself. It’s the heart centered way :)

[@AyanamarieC]

It's so difficult to not internalize those interactions. Seems like the brighter your light shines, the heavier the experiences sometimes. Maybe when you integrate the parts of yourself you lost along the way the universe puts people/experiences in your path to test what you've learned and healed from.

[@glitchinthematrix555]

Chloë Marie I’ve always thought the universe was always testing us. There’s no way coincidences happen this often.

[@AyanamarieC]

@@glitchinthematrix555 Right? I don't believe in coincidences! They're too customized to my own experience and everytime I think I've learned the lesson something happens to challenge that thinking. Everytime.

[@sevgted5750]

Captain Gerg I dont believe in testing or universe testing us .. You are the universe There is only you here . Your dream

[@glitchinthematrix555]

st 4754 I like that. I believe we are all god or all one being experiencing itself through many smaller beings. Who knows what to believe honestly this could be anything. I’m open to hear all theories

[@sevgted5750]

Captain Gerg Yes . I know you

[@Rave3nRedstone]

The way they were treating sounds like something O experienced after locking myself in my room of my apartment for a month to open my heart chakra(by accident, I was determined to find a change within and it just happened). I felt a strong sense of “Love and Being Loved” a universal auric kind of thing. I left my room and 30 minutes later while sitting on the couch in living room one of my roommates who I always had conflict came back and for some reason.... I said “now the devil sends an emissary to test me” And man this roommate he exploded as soon as he came through the door.. And his reactions to my calm handling of it all, Uncharacteristic when we fought made him enraged all the more... You were being tested. They didnt know why, but they were attempting to drag you back from your new wisdom and knowledge into the “Fold”. It is scary in a way when you change internally how much people are influenced by an unseen force until it tries to ruin you through them

[@narmandizauriceparker3488]

Congratulations on sticking up for yourself, Ryan, and your overall growth as an individual.

[@mercidecorator3051]

Awwww Ryan. My ❤️ is there with you. I feel your feelings regarding it. Been there regarding some things in my life. Peace and love!

[@MichaelLittle47]

Glad to hear you struck an inner core of confidence. That is pure gold. As for the people... don't forget that your every thought, your every perception, is also "your dream" - it belongs to no one else. So dream a dream of forgiveness, this alone will offer what both you and they have need of. (Most will stop short of this truth)

[@lovecentral4090]

Wow, such a good soul inside you! Words can't express how I feel watching this.

[@frnzilla]

Keep sticking up for yourself Ryan. After the first time it only gets easier.

[@jeffwilson8702]

Sharing moments like this is one of the most important things you can do as a spiritual teacher. You are the real deal.

[@kimgeib5076]

Hi Ryan, thank you for sharing your world with me. I have taken the last two months off from work and have really focused on loving myself. I am fortunate to have had this time however, it can’t last and I need to find a job. I am really feeling uneasy about facing the sickness. I hop e my light is bright enough. 😐

[@naomimanzana8205]

Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing this.

[@Joh96nny8]

Ryan, everything we perceive in literally any form is subjective. No matter how your current mind and heart state are, you will still filter a situation according to your current self. Just by reminding yourself of this notion, it frees you from the self made obstacles or adjustments you have to do. Because there are infinite ways of deciphering something. That's why it's always good to choose love even when you know their emitted vibe, psychology, thoughts, and actions are not appropriate. I am highly aware that you're truly in tune with yourself. More so, you have no issues with your ego. The ego of identity and the ego of securing who you are. But change is the only constant and even after 5 years you'll have new encounters. This is beautiful don't you think? Forever evolving from a micro and macro standpoint. More so, you're always able to lean unto acceptance and love as your sanctuary of thought and reaction in case you felt you can't adjust properly. Much love Ryan.

[@cmeride79]

So glad your time away was so positive and heart-healing for you. That actually gives me hope and strength; thanks for making this video. It says so very much. I mean, your teachings *always* do; but this one, in a very different way. Actually, thanks for *all* the hard work you do for all of us.

[@1957712]

Ryan your are wonderful human light. Others are attack to the brighter lights and there egos, fears come up to challenge the light. Laugh it off.

[@SorcererLord]

See those experiences as a golden opportunity for you to decide, express and create Who You Are in relation to them. Long lasting awareness and enlightenment does not come by running away from the world and living in isolation, like many kinds of spiritual retreats. Surely the retreats should be about teaching you how to live with new understandings in the real world, in society.

[@ALIENINTELLECT]

Just lessons we need to learn, here in the physical, and often times very emotional realm...MUCH LOVE Ryan Cooper.

[@ayarikiyo2178]

Maybe he was profiling you. People still do that today. They judge others on how they look without having any idea about the person.

[@humbled92_Mister]

Thats what i was thinking

[@francois170]

Agreed

[@JW0121]

Lol if you're brown skin you know the struggle he went through ;(

[@stixnfeet7818]

@@JW0121 No doubt it happens but it’s not exclusive to brown skin. It’s a human condition unfortunately. Hurt people hurt people. Liberation is found in humility love & forgiveness.

[@Aqualeorising]

That's terrible people would treat that way you are a beautiful soul and I am glad you are a happy individual

[@charlesbyrd1815]

Sending loving and healing vibes your way.

[@louistourneur6113]

I know so little about life, it feels good to listen to you, to people who empower themselves.

[@ML-lc4zg]

Just keep going, dont stop being you 💙

[@80deka42]

Don't let the ignorance of humans effect your intelligence... Others will project their fears and negative energy upon you. Bless up my brother Mind over matter faith over fear... know Thyself

[@manuelverdross9301]

Yeahhh good job Ryan 💪🏼 high five 🤚🏼

[@carmenstein8382]

Just by watching videos of Rythmia since one week I've got an uplift of energy. And guess what people are very rude to me but next time I talk to them they are appreciating to have me around and they arme very kind and very gentle. So I just realised it is because of my different energy Level. I like it, that everything gets sorted out for me by mother earth or how you call it. Thank you so much for sharing. It helped me a lot to make a decision.

[@DJ-wi3kv]

I love this, you're being so genuinely vulnerable.

[@cloutcube3649]

This man has an amazing voice

[@Lex-tl4vm]

It reminds me of the first time a baby, or a toddler sees their mother as a human being who makes mistakes and who somtimes does things that aren't right....its heartbreaking but the baby still makes a choice to still love its mother because it needs that interaction in order to grow

[@joceyramos1427]

Such a beautiful soul you are

[@thejohnnyfamily7905]

Not trying to undermine you at all, but I grew up being an Indian kid with a Sutter in America, so naturally I should have had a lot of bad experiences, but honestly I haven't. 90% of people I interact with has been very kind to me, I was more aware of how rare this was when I joined a facebook page for stuttering people, and everyone talked about their horrible experiences. After all my experiences and listening to other peoples stories, Im starting to see that you exist where your mind allows, so if you believe that most people are shitty you will end up in a dimension where they are. Sometimes people that have woken up and have improved themselves end up with a mind set of "everyone else is evil", and they are the only good one. That subconscious thought makes their reality. I always believe that no matter how crappy a person is there is a good soul in them somewhere, and some how I end up meeting amazing people, and even when I interact with someone who is labeled crappy by others, they usually end up being very kind to me. Also I believe everyone is a reflection of your mind, so when someone is trying to test me I think of what I need to change about myself, So if they exist, they are their for my benefit. anyway love your channel, keep it up.

[@JW0121]

Thank you for this, god bless you brother.

[@yoyo21926]

you probably just have a friendly face. It can be as simple as that

[@ashjay9395]

I recently watched a movie and i've seen it before but its funny how depending on where you are on your journey you'll notice NEW things about OLD things.The movie was "Peaceful Warrior" and i read the book a few years back and was so Excited to see the movie and the first time around i didn't get much out of it but this time it felt like a Whole New Movie i've never seen before and one of the things i took away with me and has opened my eyes to situations some what like you've experienced is"Sometimes the Hardest people to Love need our Love the most"

[@velvetwisteria6237]

Ryan I've been there and felt that too...

[@SpiritDragon888]

Thank you for sharing Ryan. I had a very similar experience after I had spent a week in the amazon. Glad to hear you stood in your power and stood up for yourself💯

[@celestes.7187]

There is the awakening.. and then from there comes the ability to be skillful with it and that takes a lot of training. And that’s the difficult part to know how to navigate these circumstances on their terms without harming them or compromising yourself. Still learning, still making mistakes but one day I will master it.

[@CollectiveDivineChanneledMesgs]

I’m so proud of your growth King.!! Continue on your path. Ase Ase Ase

[@mintesinot910]

I'm proud of you man 💪🏾. I still remember the feeling the first time I stuck up for myself.

[@sageharmony3128]

I love your videos 🖤

[@GoofyBK]

I mostly stay in my box and take crap all directions so now I I exercise a lot. Wish you many blessings for keeping it real sharing your life and messages with us. You're awesome, sir.

[@sunrise_dog6475]

The law of allowing. Everyone has their own journey. We need to respect that and not try to change anyone else. We need to ALLOW that person to take that personal journey, surrendering to it. When we start to stick up for ourselves about our journey, that guilt can be overwhelming. I have a sister who took the role as a mother figure and we run into these problems. I've always struggled not to believe her point of view.

[@lampuntomyfeetministries8058]

Good for you! Thanks for sharing. God be with you

[@shawnwhitehorn9527]

Thank you for sharing this - your experiences resonate deeply.

[@TheElderDinosaur]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@davidallard2166]

Its your path. No one else matters but you. Walk your path and let people like that just fall away.

[@NemeticSage]

"It's easy to be enlightened while you're firmly inside of Zion, but it becomes very difficult, and actually becomes something you need to work at, when you're in Babylon."

[@n.9411]

Consider these encounters as a blessing. Sovente Il Sole Often, the sun Shines in the sky, More beautiful and vague (beloved) If a dark cloud Has managed to obscure it. Wholeness

[@melissapoznikoff]

Love your eyebrows! ❤️

[@lostinspace7160]

Love this video bruv,your honesty,your vulnerability,thankyou for sharing.Blessings.🙏♥️☀️

[@jordangalloway1498]

I have had the same experience and I too have had to stick up for myself and others

[@Xxvzqx999]

much love to you ryan, i hope you have a blessed day

[@alexisrene5854]

Man, this is unrelated but your eyebrows are amazing 😍

[@The.Motivator]

Basically those of us who focus on putting positivity out there must also always be bombarded with negativity

[@topherming6565]

Sticking up for yourself is a skill. You need to be able to do it. It's part of a healthy personality.

[@martharewi7569]

That felt painful to hear your child hood pains had surface again, I had a similar experience which made me cry for my inner child who felt alone, fortunately an older sister came to school to support me, she attended class just to deflect the treatment I was receiving from the students, I stopped going to school the following year just to have a break and to learn about selfcare, boundaries I dictated who I would associate myself with, meditation to breath deeply which made me a calmer person, I wore a pocker face that showed the seriousness externally, the dont mess with me face, I am very aware to still high vibe no always, watch my thoughts so not to create situationsaround me, I have decided what I want in life, everything on my terms. So next year I return to study, I will be well and truly ready and aware of people and their ideas, enough to not respond to their stupidness, yes to detach myself from their madness..

[@jaeewoee6106]

Dude get rid of child hood fears I ain’t even have to watch this to know what was up

[@garygreen5670]

Recently I've started doing walking meditations (I can't sit still and meditate), and I was coming home from what I felt to be a successful meditation walk, feeling I had achieved something; I was standing at a crossroads, waiting for the lights to change so I could cross the road, when a man on a moped rode past screaming directly at me. Because I was still in a calm state I didn't react to it, but it was still a bit of a shock. I did wonder at the time, if I had attracted something through my meditation practice.

[@rolanddavid1490]

I am glad for you.

[@GreenVibesWellness]

How do you even take control of all these things happening.. I guess just change your perspective? I see that side of people often too and it chips away at me D:

[@JW0121]

Yeah im searching the comments and stuff for the answer, Some say its a challenge from the universe. Im just gonna let him go through it for a month or two then get coaching and ask him if im really serious about finding the answer.

[@twelvepetaledlotus1721]

Oh dear.hope you sort it out mate. There is always a way to get grounded, youll find it 💪

[@beau4588]

I love you Ryan and you look really healthy and happy! In the first clips I couldn't help but imagine how my energy would change if i was just a stranger passing all of you guys from Rythmia lol

[@terri-reborninchrist4168]

I recently went through a heart break with someone i feel was my twin but they dont understamd their own suffering which triggered past suffering in me to come up but as im coming out the other side i feel like im having a similar experience that people are treating me how ive been treated in the past and i dont stand for it or even give my energy to those people.. Im often torn between understanding them and having compassion for why they are as tbey are yet now if i feel i cant get through to how they are affecting me i just move on.. I feel like i wonna be a hermit when i go out and i face this in others the more i just want to be around only those on the same vibration... cause im feeling misunderstood by those who are not on that vibration.. Im finding it hard to put into words it was only watching this i realised whats going on.

[@ethereal9996]

Amazing

[@RussianMafiaCat]

Really enjoy your videos ! You have no idea 💜

[@isoblah]

3:12 - I TOTALLY GET WHAT YOU MEAN HERE!!!!!!

[@galaxycat9533]

Im happy ypu stood up for yoirself i stood up for myself at school

[@nccreativedesign]

When I came back from Rythmia I was worse than when I went but that was because I experienced merging back with my self as child and how I had treated myself and aloud others to treat me and how ashamed I felt and how sorry I was and I stayed my child self but the life I am living is not what I want it to be. I'm still figuring it out. Im really depressed and feel so down but I'm still working on myself I'm going to start going to a therapist next week.

[@van.gypsies]

I really enjoy your videos...

[@christinashaver8186]

Can completely relate! Thank you!!

[@fernandocea5703]

I love you ryan, I wish you the best :)

[@essentials723]

Ryan,,,, thanx for warning me. I don't want to attend that retreat, if i gotta come back to ppl picking on me. I want nothing to do with dealing with me past.

[@JW0121]

Anetah , its not black and white like that, he is still searching for the answer just give him a few days. You allready are attracting into your life things you DONT want subconsciously because of media, bullying, your childhood experiences, failures and many other factors. Please do not let this scare you, there is a messge behind this. Its got to do with the universe testing you to see what person you have become, what your goimg to decide how to view the event, and other things too. Peace!

[@cosmicarcanum8134]

The age old question of how we deal with the judgmental stance others take when we are in the process of becoming whole...

[@magnus9985]

I'm very curious about your views and ideas regarding the vibrational state of the planet, the direction society is going, and maybe even your opinions on politics. Might make a good video. Thanks bud 😉☯️

[@TheHandOfMadness]

Love

[@Urhighness89]

Look like agents (archons) possessed the security got them to work together to bring your spirit down or to get us to feel separation or fear .. we must not react calmness is the super hero ability

[@chriskeller3229]

It's just a lower frequency than your used to,

[@karolyantoni9029]

Greetings from Hungary your videos are very good teaching , I have a qeustion in astral travaling can I go back in time and see myself as a kid.

[@yijapra]

528hz....at first it may bring all the bad experience as if it is speeding up the process of going through bad experiencies which we are obliged to in our current life form. but afterwards the good things will start to blossom.

[@stephanienajera4544]

"The pattern is the pattern" If you get the chance, check out Maniac on Netflix. 👍 (not an ad lol)

[@null_spacex]

What's it about?

[@yolandael8725]

Ryan some people will try to pull you to their level of thinking. It's a challenge in life. They really don't understand about the laws of life. They are doing more harm to themselves than to you, and that person doesn't realize it. Pick yourself up and keep going.

[@berealarcon8190]

Thankyou 4 open ur heart & share hi from México i would like to share something with u cos ive been thru a similar process with my hurted inner child. seems like some bad memories still hurting our imner child and life put the a kind of test infront of u, or we are atracting that situation because theres some remain that we should work. in mu case its something that my presonality evaluate that its already healed but... my inner child still conecting with the negative memorie some times my mind go to the same practices and thoughts to let go & try to understand the pocess but i see that my mid action its limitaded so i try to look all the scene outside of the personality conecting with my soul amd i upload my situation, bu remember all details i can, even the aspects of my present that seems to be ok but if it come to my mind y just snd it so inform thos is me right here right now & i ask 4 the right & perfect came in to my life 4 my counciousness evolution, without a personal expectative i just recive what i ask, feels like download of info, light, energy, in my heart and i thank amd make some cuts 4 the situation i want to heal or the process im working with a tool named ho'oponopono. thankyou again! blessed present always

[@l.lawrence4923]

Great video as always! I did DMT before I did any spiritual work and had a really big awakening. The high/insight of this awakening lasted 6 months before the lowest low I’ve ever experienced started happening. I feel more aware of myself and thoughts and it’s brought up a lot of things I’ve been suppressing. It’s even made me aware that I might have mood disorder. Does anyone have any suggestions to things I can do to ground myself ?

[@AldhaniStarpath]

Yes assholes exist. Not everyone has self awareness and the wisdom to see themselves in the bigger picture.

[@christopherrodgers5249]

Ryan, do you think that the retreat made you want to change? Do you think that you could come about this same change without the Rhythmia?

[@SuperSlimshadie]

looking like yeshua

[@osloco1607]

Ryan, can you please make a video about Twin Flames? 😇🔥😇 more and more twin flames are finding each other at this time, to raise the frequencies on the planet... Would love to hear your perspective on this subject💗

[@33eye33]

@Ryan Cropper - listen to the last 7 presentation by this guy Matt - Quantum of Conscience channel. might help you innerstand your surroundings. food for thought :) much love