Baddie aesthetic VS Modesty

[@thamimahlangabeza6639]

MY GOODNESS, what an opening...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 How can I not love you?

[@BoitumeloMakape]

😭😭😭😭

[@maletsikamothusi5167]

She is the best. Straight forward and blunt ❤

[@Sihleeey]

If you’ve watched my videos and have payed close attention to my approach you’ll notice that I always tackle the “why’s” I always tackle the intentions behind the things people say and do. When I talk about baddies it’s no different. It’s not about make up and beauty and wigs, it’s about your intentions and the results thereof that are found in how you portray yourself. You can have no make up and no wigs until the day you die and still go to hell coz your intentions were to look holy to cover an unholy heart. There’s no point in me debating if you must wear a wig or not coz that doesn’t take priority over intentions and where that desire to wear wigs and make up and skimpy clothes comes from. The people that get it get it. See you in the next video😌

[@YeshuaIloveuuu]

Those are The legalistic extrimist under The law ignore them they everywhere on KZbin

[@siyamcelabewana6099]

Our very own Candince Owens♥♥♥♥

[@esthermani6376]

LMFAO that's not a compliment

[@tzozo5253]

Candice can't touch Sihle on anything. Candice is the worst women.

[@tondaniraluswinga2590]

Candace Owens is a fraud, she tells women to be traditional yet she is a working women 😂

[@acidicsoul4978]

​@@tzozo5253 Candace speaks her mind regardless, she's not scared. I see the same with this girl, what she said in the beginning of this video (about judging) that can offend anyone but she spoke her truth.

[@Earlx3n_shorts]

I approve

[@kabelomodisane1431]

If my wife does not embody your mindset I'd rather remain single my entire life than to put up with somebody who thinks contrary to what you have just explained. Bless your soul.

[@tjarameroro3771]

My girl🥺❤️🫂. I am leaning towards modesty. I tried using my body for man attention but now it really doesn't excite me anymore honestly. Thanks keep on educating us young girls.

[@arthurdelange1738]

You're such a breath of fresh air. We need more and more people with your mindset in society.

[@ZaneleGumbi-g1v]

The OPENING😂😂 LEGENDARY. KODWA NGIKUTHANDA UKUFA❤

[@RandomVDO5]

I once told my sister that I stopped dating baddies. I learnt that anyone who invests that much time in vanity doesn't have the time/ability to persue anything else

[@ezrayasharahla9672]

Praise the Most High and may he bless you to be strengthened to continue doing well my sister. Much love

[@blessed.Lesley]

Yeeees! Every time I hear people mention “the bible says do not judge” I give a bombastic side eye👁️😂I know it’s either (1)they are not Christian. (2)They don’t study the Word. (3)They are one of those who post bible verses on their bio and the post content that is contrary to the Word.

[@pholapholan]

True❤

[@metak.527]

It's always those reasons and they be lukewarm too, I mean I once was a lukewarm christian until a few months ago and fully surrendered to God but I always disliked that statement and also ''only God can judge me'' ehh 😭 they have no idea that when God is going to judge them it will be on JUDGEMENT day when Jesus comes back for the last time and by then it will be too late 😭🙏.

[@pholososello1299]

If "bana ba ga ba utlwi" was a person. I love this❤

[@PrimeArtsStudioPodcast]

I love u Sihle... wena uya ithetha inyan...😂🎉❤❤❤❤❤ 😊 how i so wish my my sisters and czns can follow and understand u... yessis u fixing tbis country🎉🎉🎉🎉😊❤

[@Mamoya_Mahaabo]

I have always been afraid to watch your KZbin videos because I’ve always felt that you are a bit hush on TikTok but today I gave your content a chance and I must say everything you talk about are things that may brother has always told me when I thought being revealing was a way of life… I just want to say don’t stop your channel will save many young lives and thank you very much and may God cover you ❤️

[@Angel_inah]

Just to elaborate on the opening statement.... Christians should not just judge , but rather they should humbly discern , evaluate amd judge through the lens of the gospel and confront sin with humility and mercy

[@pauloslinhokhumalo6103]

What an intro, my goodness 😂🔥🔥🔥

[@yonelateta]

What a opening 😂😂 😂

[@kgosiking4228]

I usually let the tv float on a video to hear the into before I decide to watch, lol that intro had me watching in seconds and giving a like instantly 😂🔥🔥

[@TebohoMatsitseTEMMTV]

Wow, I’m definitely outside the age range where terms like 'baddie' or 'baddie culture' would make sense to me without explanation. My comment to you is this: grace, power, and wisdom to you.

[@nomangcelwane9955]

You are Chosen Sihleey! The fact that you felt empty and unhappy means alot!!! And I am sure God wanted you to be in that side for a certain period so that you can have experience the life. I love your CONTENT It speaks to me alot. 💯👌💯

[@GraceSamolapo]

I need a friend like you fr

[@opolotphilip9615]

What an intro!!

[@Ntk411]

" the throats are open" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sammlamlijacobs1691]

❤Sihle on behalf of all 🇿🇦 men, THANK YOU. we love your truth and women show hate to you because you're exposing their mindset and hypocrisy. God bless you

[@leratommutle6139]

Baddies are attention-seekers and don't even have high self - esteem. However, I'm a pretty modest girl. I believe that my beauty is for God's glory. At the same time I'm an intellectual. I love the journey that you are on, may God continue to reveal things to you.

[@sinesiphosinworld315]

she's fixing the country

[@katanamainn]

nah real, next election we voting for her

[@K.amogelo]

Beautiful Intro😭❤😂

[@itanisewadawada5331]

Thank you, sister. Pointing out bad behavior is not judgement, but correction. Matt 7; 1- 3 scripture teaches us not to judge harshly lest we also will be judged harshly. So verse 2 "For with what judgement ye judge, ye shall be judged; and with what measure you meter, it shall be measured to you again." Preaching the word of God is not judgement, exposing wrong is not judgement and being honest with other people is not judgement. Keep up the great work that you are doing and stay true to your morals without fear of criticism. Blessed🙏🏾

[@tsweloo]

Love love the introduction😹❤️!

[@ChoenePabale]

I have discovered that no matter what I cannot find myself on social media hence I deleted most of it. I love your authenticity, it is good knowledge and finally it shows girls like me that it is good to be normal and want a simple good life after God's ❤️

[@imsotumelo]

unsubscribe is crazy 🤣 i think i’m subscribing! truth over compromise.

[@estherinyang4779]

I love this. Thank you for defining me. I always see value in people. Except that the latest trend is tech-related, I can take a second look.

[@simplynkule]

Sihle thank you so much for shedding light. These are nothing but facts. Hopefully young girls learn from your videos. You either take it or leave it! ❤

[@MmaMohau]

I’m addicted to you and your content❤️

[@AllLoveKetso]

I am not a religious person but i do enjoy your vids😅

[@VusiIrvinMthimunye]

Power! What an intro my Sister 😅

[@prochiko]

May God bless your heart my sister

[@katanamainn]

immediately subscribed, i love how you tell it how it is 😭

[@keabetswekwele2364]

The way you don't like baddies 😂😂😂

[@SibongileMahlangu-jc4eq]

😂😂😂

[@kgosigadi__]

She has a taste of it and doesn't want our fellow generation to fall into that trap😂😂I adore her!

[@hlengiwehle2983]

thank you so much please keep making these.😘

[@Onelove-Oneheart-h4c]

Some of us are looking for modest, intelligent women who are not worldly. It is hard to find. Maybe I am looking in the wrong places 😂

[@Calvin-qq9bh]

Wasn’t expecting a video like this but am glad i bumped into it, great video 🔥🤝

[@owamireyka]

Please help me on how to stop being lukewarm. I love Jesus but I keep on getting pulled into the things of the world. Kopa advice

[@blessed.Lesley]

@@owamireyka The Holy Spirit baby. He’s the one to help with that. Study about him. His qualities, his work in the life of a believer. Be friend him. Invite him, ask him for deep convictions for certain things. Ask him to fill you. Ask him for HELP, that’s what he SPECIALISES in. I noticed a lot of believers don’t know the Holy Spirit.

[@VanessaNyatsapfu]

This!!!❤​@blissful_vibes2604 @owamireyka Also, sorround yourself with a community that has a hunger for God, that has reverence for God ,that walks with God and that produces the fruits of the Spirit.

[@brianmdluli8132]

Keep following Sihle and stay away from the hot friends pulling you from what you want

[@leratommutle6139]

Dichomi! Bad company corrupts good character.

[@ChoenePabale]

Allow yourself to be like a baby, start at His feet and focus being there. Eventually you ll get strength to be stronger and beat the lukewarm

[@UminathiN]

😭😭😭facts, I love you 🩷

[@ngwanaJeso]

Keep making these . We are learning Mrs Mam😭🙏 And i love how u use Scripture ❤!

[@kealebogalepholletse8062]

So informative ❤

[@metak.527]

Because of this ALONE, I wanna be friends 😭🙌🙌 the FACTS that you spoke WOOOW 👏

[@andiswakona5410]

My goodness thank you for saying this.

[@that_bongy]

Jonga let me subscribe ❤❤❤

[@Tshegofatso_N31]

Oh how I love you😢❤❤❤

[@SMCSMARTSNIPER]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...The opening cuts deep to the mediocre!!!!!!!

[@TVK20]

And turning your everyday life activities into an Instagram story. Sihle you teach ys❤

[@likhonancate3366]

You've earned a new subscription darling,stand on it! ❤

[@tshepiso382]

The scripture , namely 'do not judge' ends somewhere within the lanes ' first remove the beam in your own eye so you can see clearly and help the speck in your brothers /sisters eye ' This shows the speck needs to be removed at the end of the day. And if that does not make sense Paul says (under the influence of the Holy Spirit) we must judge correctly . Many just by pass that 😂, what gets me more is when i tell you what the Bible says and you tell me to not judge you , that traslates 'do not tell me what God says about me and the human race because God says (plug something God did not say or said out of context )) No shade, just the Lukewarm mindset studied. Diluted Gospel. Diluted truth ( to the point where it is no longer truth) and no reverence for scripture.

[@ramblingrue]

My thing not MOST women chase "baddie aesthetics " its actually a minority. Its so chronically online to make it seem like most women chase that. if you were ever into the baddie aesthetic/ tried it youre a minority/exception.

[@Leeeiggh]

Have you gone outside?

[@cheranehlahla]

@@LeeeigghI was about to ask the same question or maybe she’s from a different part of our society because even 13 year olds in school are installing and have baddie length uniforms

[@nomvulamasango8016]

The intro😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheKillacee]

Exactly! 💯

[@ofentsesibanyoni]

😂😂😂❤❤❤i love u sihle

[@laoneqratsatsi3285]

Love Love Love your content ♥️🥹, Thank you mam

[@fifim508]

😂😂😂😂😂 Hey the intro I love it

[@pholapholan]

Thank you for sharing❤

[@albertinanhaca434]

Thank you sihle❤❤

[@awe-s9v]

Appreciate you🎉❤

[@siyasox4244]

What I have learned is that chasing for vagina did not help me. Chasing the suppliers, the public property women, did not help me.

[@thamimahlangabeza6639]

When these BADDIES chose to ignore you, the problem is that the Heavens going to ask; 'Didn't Sihleeey warn against this behaviour? Why did you persist then?'

[@gisellethebunny]

What is a baddie? The problem is that you guys including Sihlee don't know the real definition of a Baddie. Yes social media peeps have created a whole action-based definition but it wasn't originally like that. Think of what's considered seggsual harrassment nowadays. If a guy glimpses at a gal at the gym nowadays it's considered harrassment. Can you see how the definition of harrassment is completely different from what we originally know. I knw some guys are stalkers but I'm talking abt a mere look (if you know this trend). Terms are slowly losing their original definitions. But what can I say.

[@thamimahlangabeza6639]

@@gisellethebunny Oh, I'm sorry dear, haven't you heard! You've visited a wrong platform for your campaign. I thought Sihleeey made it clear from the outset that she has no time for people like yourself who's going to excuse the inexcusable. I would have loved if you have heeded her call to swipe left. Now, here you are making a fool of yourself.

[@kgosiking4228]

​​@@gisellethebunny lol it's in the name, stop acting confused we all know what a baddie is, the world is trying to celebrate bad, trying to make bad seem good, why would anyone be proud to be called a baddie ? It's all in the name stop being blind and justifying nonsense 😂 imagine if you had a daughter and she woke up saying she is a baddie , if you'd encourage that I can only feel bad for you, "terms are losing their original definitions". Lol no it hasn't , it's called baddie it is keeping to it's definition 😂😂😂😂😂

[@gisellethebunny]

​​​@@kgosiking4228🤦search the definition of a baddie on urban dictionary my love. It is "a girl that looks good all the time, even on bad days." That's the original definition. Is a girl that looks good all the time immodest? A baddie is not girls that go to the clubs, blah blah and whatever bad things Sihleee mentioned she was doing when she considered herself a baddie. But alot of girls were and are doing bad things in the name of being a Baddie thus turning the name into a deragotory term. Thing is for most of you guys, you woke up one day and just saw girls doing bad things and labelling it as being a Baddie. I don't blame you guys bcoz it's what's portrayed online but I knw for a fact baddie is girl that looks good all the time, what the other girls are doing is what they've created on their own which unfortunately ruined the term amd ruining their lives. Do some research. 🙏

[@gisellethebunny]

​@@thamimahlangabeza6639 making a fool myself ☹️, you don't even know the original definition of a baddie, that's why I don't blame you guys. I blame the girls doing bad things and labelling it as being a baddie. They ruined the term🤦💔. You'd obviously say I'm excusing the inexcusable bcoz u don't knw anything besides what u see nd hear on social media, you were probably really young when the baddie term came to life and how it gradually changed bcoz of the silly actions girls were doing in its name. These are the results of following trends, there'll be many more terms used in vain that they'll lose their original definition and you'll remember this comment. So I therefore don't blame you. 🙏

[@YeshuaIloveuuu]

Whats in The heart will reflect on our looks and life style 🙏 modesty is The key to all, i was using my body for attention and sex for many years and now when im older i dont miss those young days im 32 now and the more you age and grow with God u stop being obsessed with your looks. If course you stil care small in your human nature but its not obsessive like extreme vanity its really is a freedom i dont miss being young hoenstly even If my skin age i accept it i try to just take care of it as best as I can.. And just keep focus on God nr 1 and u have fulfillment inside not on false fulfillment this world is so vain and shallow everywhere all people is taking about is apperance is really disgusting make me want to throw up how this world is so brainwashed to only care about your body and your face. There is much more to this life the apperance should come last!!

[@mvikelidlamini4421]

😅 keep up the good work, Sihle.

[@reenethletsholo59]

❤❤❤ God bless you beautiful

[@lesetjatshego5717]

I love ❤️ 😍 sihle o bohlale

[@Akhatalks]

Jordan Peterson once said " a woman isn't seen everywhere with every and anyone, one that is isn't one." My father told me at 14 that modesty is an attitude first before your clothing.

[@kealebogalepholletse8062]

So true ❤❤

[@zulumama]

To modesty🥂

[@SibongileMahlangu-jc4eq]

Ngathi ngizo subscriber la

[@Londeka6862]

Yes please!!!

[@ramblingrue]

This no hate but I'm genuinely interested in how you reconcile your strong Christian stance with wigs in light of verses like1 Peter 3:1-6 , 1 Timothy 2:9-10 etc or idolatry and even modesty as its described in the bible. I thought it was interesting since your first point is that you can tell a woman is modest from her looks.

[@tshepiso382]

The scripture is oftenly by passed by 'It is not about the clothing but the intention' . Emphasis on the heart of all actions. This would mean you worry 2times more about the Kingdom of God than your appearance . You always try to appear simple and light to the eye, not too much glitter, over the top hair (braids to your knees), heavy makeup (to a point where we do not recognize you anymore ), and toping that off with expensive clothing (a bag that costs 10K) I am open for correction.

[@Luk012NW]

She said you must unsubscribe mama

[@amanijulia]

Chef Sihle 🤣🫵🏽👩🏽‍🍳

[@TheCourtedMag]

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[@tsholofelonakanyane16]

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[@Nontando_M3]

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[@Bethual]

What we call influencer not this people who mislead their youth into the wrong things

[@MinisterDelly]

may God use you for his kingdom

[@yolapinto5124]

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[@rubenforreal]

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[@Papito_ZA]

O utlwala o galefile thata e bile o tshwakgotswe ke tlhaloso ya gago😢

[@palesaradebe-bz4qu]

hey wena the owner of this channel doesn't take nonsense unsubscribe bye-bye🤣🤣🤣😂

[@nomiddlename-v7y]

what is Modesty?

[@ezrayasharahla9672]

Outline of Biblical Usage: well arranged, seemly, modest ☝🏾 this information was extracted from a bible app(blue letter bible). Scriptural references: 1 Peter 3:1-4, 1 Timothy 2:9-10 & Deuteronomy 22:5.

[@nomiddlename-v7y]

@@ezrayasharahla9672 so brother does weaves, wigs and extensions and makeup fall under modesty?

[@ezrayasharahla9672]

@@nomiddlename-v7y weaves, wigs are not modest apparel. You are allowed to make your hair beautiful, your natural hair in particular. Please read Ezekiel 16:8-12 & Isaiah 3:16-24. Make up was used in the bible (Jeremiah 4:22 & 30) people trusted in their beauty as it is this day to create out of themselves idols and making other people to fall into sin as well. That is why 1 Timothy 2:9-10, discourages outside beauty of pearls and costly clothes and promotes submission and subjection. This will include doek, long dresses that do not reveal any shape of your body.

[@nomiddlename-v7y]

@@ezrayasharahla9672 thank you brother, i was also diving towards the same thought because i am triggered by the messager saying one thing but the way they express themselves is totally contradictory of the whole message.

[@ezrayasharahla9672]

@@nomiddlename-v7y You welcome sister.

[@sibulelesonka4759]

I am the first one to open the video 😅

[@skhulilebuthelezi2365]

Nawe Sihle, please cover your skin. You tick many boxes for men, but showing skin is a no no.

[@sifiso3950]

With regards to your last point, the distinction between actual sex workers and "normal" girls, these days they are all selling. Prostitution has been normalised and disguised with terms like "girlfriend allowance," "mavuso," "relationships need money," and "I don't date broke men." If you really evaluate the thinking behind these phrases, it's essentially stating that I am a commodity and I have to be compensated, which if you really break down what prostitution is, it's one in the same. As a society, we really need to evaluate what we have normalised and call it what it is.

[@Gangster-y9m]

🔥💯

[@metak.527]

Great analysation!

[@cheranehlahla]

watched the intro twice 😂😂😂😂 I love you Sihle ❤❤❤❤ “unsubscribe so that we can move on with our lives…” profound 🥺🫶🏽

[@JoyMakhele-r5s]

I love this women 😂👏🏽👏🏽 Wow 😭 . The facts , the honesty the everything, I just love everything about her shame .😂🤍🤍

[@sokhana_bro]

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