Why MOST “MODEST” Women Get “Overlooked”...

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

@5:12 "If you are overlooked by a demon, that is a blessing in disguise." THIS!

[@aquariuswaive]

@@TheGoodLifeStarterPack 💯💯💯💯💯

[@lynnes1864]

I've seen men try to defend this by saying, well those women are just the ones we want to have sex with but the modest ones are the ones we want to marry. But we don't want to be the wife whose husband can't stop looking at other women because he settled for someone he's not attracted to. Fortunately my husband doesn't seek out those pictures to like. He only clicks like on the photos of our friends, and I know his heart so I'm good with that.

[@Ms.pee12]

Girl yes, I’ve dated men like this and it’s so frustrating hearing

[@phoenixxsoul]

Exactly. Good women deserve to have standards and desire good men.

[@ambuyalozen9332]

Exactly, males like that think they're entitled to use women as they like. Acting as if promiscuous males are attractive and valuable mates, and moral standards are only for women. The more promiscuous, the more soul ties and less likely to pair bond.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@lynnes1864 these are not “men” they are males, and adults, but have not matured into manhood…they are childish for such behavior…

[@elallen4399]

Exactly nobody wants a ran thru man 😂😂😂😂he got mileage

[@ThinkRelaxSleep]

Men's eyes are over sensitized with porn, music videos, and even regular movies and shows. Woman are over sensitized through their imagination with the stories, dramas and books. Both are given this illusion of how relationships are suppose to work and end up with the wrong person due to this illusion. Modesty and real masculinity is hated by this world and it should remind us that Jesus was also hated by this world. We don't belong to this world. Like the one guy said, "I'm enjoying the game, so I'm not looking to get out." Perfect representation of this world versus good men and woman. We belong to God not this world. Great video, and God bless.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@ThinkRelaxSleep I love this message🙏🏾🙌🏾 this is truth! We have been indoctrinated into this hyper sexualized perspective on life and we must aspire to purify ourselves by disengaging

[@boutiquebitcoin809]

In books I read about men who loved you for you not appearance those men are fairy tale especially men who want to start families and not cheat or leave her or treat her like garbage once she has a kid until he drives her away.

[@ThinkRelaxSleep]

@@boutiquebitcoin809 The books also rarely talk about a man doing anything wrong and when he does, it takes a chapter to fix and happily ever after. Or it's not really his fault because you were in danger and he would do anything to save you. Or even better, the overly romantic man that also happens to be able to take out 100 men. The books talk about men in a way that makes them the pie and ice cream. All the qualities a woman could want, oh and hot and awesome protector. Same thing Porn and movies give men this false idea about the female body, and what females are suppose to want. We can point fingers all day at both sides. The opposite can be said about how woman only want an ATM and have unrealistic demands in dating and also want a f buddy on the side along with their husband. The first step is to realize the game is rigged against us.

[@abeck7929]

Nicely put.

[@chrisharris2367]

Yes p**n has desensitized them from normal women Also they have become lovers of themselves That’s in the Bible

[@tranquilbakergentletraveller]

Most men are visual creatures. That's why modest women are overlooked. I'm a textbook definition of a modest woman and I'm now in my early 40s (so "societally" speaking, I'm becoming even more invisible). But I'm beginning to see now how my modesty has protected me from energy vampires and potential players. Having spent my entire life thus far, single, has given me a lot of time to know myself and to work on myself and has made my life (for the most part), peaceful.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

Amen sis! Unfortunately I was not modest at all in my 20s and early 30s… I recently started my modesty journey and it is definitely for the best especially because I know the other side of the coin I absolutely LOVE my quiet and peaceful life. YAH bless🙏🏾

[@HandleUnclear]

Unfortunately modesty is also a target on your back for predatory men. I have dressed and behaved modestly all my dating life (15+). Yet every man I dated was manipulative and a cheater except for my now husband. My issue was not modesty or lack there of, but lack of self respect and boundaries. I was raised to expect very little from a man, like in my home country he's a good man if he doesn't beat you without cause, and he doesn't parade his side piece to maintain your honor. I thought I was having high standards by just expecting a man to be faithful only to me, no drug and doesn't beat me 😂

[@FoundSheep-AN]

Maybe if you were not modest you would already marry well? I am starting to wish I never started to dress modest

[@3oxiarchi]

Very true, i'm a 20 year old female and I get dozens of matches on dating apps daily, the second I'd update my bio to *waiting until marriage*, my DMs dry out completely. Truth is men do not value exclusive/modest women. I'll never compromise though, my standards has saved me from so many demonic men who seek to destroy women's innocence.

[@blackbette07]

​@@FoundSheep-ANMarried to what though?

[@luziela.dugart6987]

What men need to start doing is holding other men accountable, a lot of men scream from the rooftops that they want a good woman or find a wife are the first ones who are behind the OF girls, strippers and ignore the women who dress modesty even mocking why you cover yourself so much, or why you are single and not dating, etc and when you tell men that you want a men who is chased and not looking around they just get aggressive and gaslight.

[@scorpieeeee]

so far, such guys are calling more normal men “to responsibility,” calling them white knights, henpecked, cucks, etc. like, why do you stand up for women without benefiting yourself? stand up for the cool men's club! (also without benefit to yourself, ok). one might say that male cliques shame them and force them into loyalty

[@gabrielalele8603]

Men already are Holding each other accountable online. Honestly I don't see enough Women doing the same for each other. Many Women in our society want to wait until they are around 40 before they want a Good Man or Husband-material to settle down with instead of Finding that man in their 20s-Early 30s.

[@opiumz4u]

@@gabrielalele8603Men are not holding each other accountable especially black men , If anything they are defending each other like its world war 3 💀, Plus nowadays most women dont wanna waste thier youth on finding a man in all honesty its not worth it because things aren’t even how there supposed to be.

[@blackbette07]

​@@gabrielalele8603Where? All I see is men wishing OF be more modest

[@Zeebo216]

AIN’T DAT DA TROOOOF!!!!

[@TrulyUnbothered]

They say I have low self esteem because I choose modesty and self respect over attention seeking behaviors 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Dipsie-mg2hf]

Ah the irony 😂 I am glad that you're truly unbothered ❤

[@TrulyUnbothered]

@ yall so ignorant lol but you are who you are and that doesn’t BOTHER anyone but you💙🌷 i hope you heal

[@Dipsie-mg2hf]

@@TrulyUnbothered I believe you didn't understand my comment. I am on your side sis! Praise God 🙏🙌

[@thisiswhathappenslarry]

Whoever says that is deeply confused...that mindset deserves pity because it's so clear that they lack intelligence. Any person with a thinking brain knows that begging/seeking for attention is born from insecurity, and that minding ones own business/not caring for attention is a sign of security in oneself. Don't listen to anyone saying that to you, they see you know your value and are trying to make you question yourself❤

[@TrulyUnbothered]

@@Dipsie-mg2hf respect. Ppl always trying to come at me for expressing myself when my name is truly unbothered like I can’t have emotions. It’s annoying but thanks 😊

[@dennisrobinson8008]

I saw a modest lady today. She looked like she had morals and decency. Very attractive to see that.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@dennisrobinson8008 💯💯💯💯💯

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

I’ve been on my modesty journey since 2021 and someone recently complimented me at a gas station… he said that he could tell that I was a child of the Most High🙏🏾 I don’t do it for others but it’s always nice to know that others notice so next time compliment a modest sister. We appreciate it. Shalom

[@teeanne6331]

You just earned yourself a subscriber brother! As a black woman Im tired of being hyper-sexualize… I love fashion and dress in a way I love but the message is that unless you show your cleavage/bum male attention is not given I don’t want to appeal to every male out here so I guess it works out for me but I’m often overlooked which is fine Christ was overlooked too. This world is backwards and strange to me!

[@aquariuswaive]

@@teeanne6331 I appreciate you family 🙌🏾😌🙌🏾 as a woman of integrity you will be “looked over” as a form of protection from some of these demon spirits out here who only have the intention of using…proud of you for remaining steadfast in your values!

[@LadyHunt91]

Met my husband at age 31 and he’s 5 years younger than me and he married me within 3 months bc he saw the type of value I have. Don’t have to show him a thing for him to see it. He knew I was his wife and now that we’re married,he has every right to my body and to not want me to dress revealing to show my curves to every man . My body is a temple and it’s for God,myself and My husband period❤

[@jasminealexia]

Love your story! God bless! ❤️🙌🏽

[@LadyHunt91]

@@jasminealexiaTy ❤. God Bless you too #PraiseJesus

[@LaKymana]

I love being modest and don’t care about being seen.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@LaKymana self respect is a wonderful and powerful thing 🙌🏾🙏🏾💯

[@LaKymana]

@@aquariuswaive 🤍

[@afrofaeries]

❤❤❤

[@t.l.5755]

same here

[@t.l.5755]

same here

[@QueenCraftsChannel]

I’ve dressed modest my whole life and even men that are hardcore players respect me because they know I’m not easy. Quality over quantity ladies.

[@Shannon-gr7rm]

Men pay attention to and pursue women that are not modest because that's what they like, are attracted to and value. Pay attention to what people do and not what they say. That's how I know the Manosphere is a bunch of grifters and liars. A lot of them are Gen X. I'm Gen X too. It's true that men pay attention to modest women when they want to "get out the game". They never want to get out the game. They get pushed out the game because they are too old. Even though I'm the same age there's not much I can do with these men either. They have complicated families and aren't where they should be in life because they spent their energy "in the game". Besides that, a woman with modest morals is likely to reject a man that's been sleeping around with dozens, if not hundreds of women for three decades.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@Shannon-gr7rm I hear you and do believe there are many men like this just as there are many woman who only want the “good man” once they can no longer play the game… But in 28 and I decided that my priority is to build a family, and there are many life myself, some even younger… All men cannot be grouped just as all women cannot. We can only speak from our own personal experience, so if all we encounter is the same type of individual who have to ask ourselves why that is…

[@Raven.Tulips]

Oh, absolutely! A truly modest woman-one who embodies modesty both inwardly and outwardly-understands her worth and value. She carries herself with dignity and would turn away from men like that without hesitation.

[@ab-gail]

💯

[@missfefeloves]

This ❤

[@akilahbrooklyn8236]

Well stated 👏👏👏

[@reginad.tucker-musicminist6198]

Thank you for this.. My mother use to say, “ Men have eye trouble that the doctors can’t fix!”

[@aquariuswaive]

@@reginad.tucker-musicminist6198 🤣🤣🤣 ya mama was onto some! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@nynwleejoseph4101]

Being overlooked is a blessing.

[@Annie-nt7xb]

I was told by a married man that I'm too principled and my standards are too high. He was hitting on me and I declined his advances. It was said as an insult but to me it is a compliment. I said to him yes my father has raised me well.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@Annie-nt7xb Wow! He was upset because he himself has no integrity and the thought everyone else operates like he does…a fathers presences can be such a blessing, and you took those lessons and brought them to life. Proud of you🙏🏾

[@Annie-nt7xb]

@aquariuswaive It has gotten to a point where some people try to bully you to "conform" often through what they see as degrading remarks. I've been told on multiple occassions that I'm different. Again said to make me feel insecure and conform. My reply has always been: Good. I refuse to participate in this and if that means I have be on my own then so be it.

[@ab-gail]

Hit on by a married man?! His poor wife!

[@3oxiarchi]

these degenerates are so sick, they operate like demons and call any standard requiring accountability as "too high"

[@KDan-x1l]

Yep! I’m told that I act white as a black woman because I dress modestly 😂

[@91SSoso]

You have no idea how much I needed to know today men like you exist. OLD feels like a fight I go into. Random men asking me for pictures, like I am there to talk, not to exchange pictures. And a lot of these ”new men” feel entitled to ask me to take pictures of every inch of my body. It’s just dogding bullets like I’m Keanu Reeves in the Matrix. I know good men are at home, equally fed up of this society as good women. It’s just nice to know you are out there.

[@forestspritestephanie]

Likely planning on using your photos to make money.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@91SSoso appreciate you for the love, and it edifies my hope for our women to know that y’all are really out here, self-respecting, emotionally mature women who desire serious relationships🙏🏾🙌🏾 pay no mind to those who do not reflect your same values and are unserious

[@kikiyweathers]

Yes, be thankful and grateful you're being overlooked. I see many women being mistreated and abused. You've bypassed all the hurt and pain they're going through. Man's rejection is God's protection.

[@designhub360customapparel]

No one is really overlooking modern women. The man they call themselves overlooking them or men that want to use them so of course they don't want them because they can't use those women because those women are too smart to let them use them as a servant.

[@CL-do5eq]

Correct

[@Zeebo216]

They can’t smash and dash these women….

[@jasminealexia]

Let them overlook me. I have no problem with it at all. Only one mature man with a longevity mindset is required 💯

[@aquariuswaive]

@@jasminealexia that’s it! 💯💯💯 you cannot miss what is truly for you, let the demons slide by and allow the righteous man to land🙏🏾

[@beautifulwoman5126]

Modesty is a way of life those who are similar will find each other. If your a modest person you will attract those people who are just like you. It’s more of a character trait. Modest living not flashy or expensive but simple and natural. Because you can be fully covered and your actions are vain and vulgar. Modesty is a protection both literally and figuratively. It dispels opportunists from using you to get laid or paid.

[@jasminealexia]

Straight up! 💯

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

Tia Mowry catching a stray😂 I’m a reformed “city girl” “cardi b” wannabe… bbl and all🤦🏽‍♀️ I’ve been on a modest journey since 2021… mindset first, prayer life, fasting, reading the Bible… then clothes followed, then makeup, now hair and nails I get so much more kindness and respect from complete strangers as well as extended family. I love this modest life. APTTMHY

[@lenajanssens7859]

Go go go!

[@Raven.Tulips]

How wonderful-praise God! 🙌🏾🕊️You’re absolutely right; modesty begins within. It’s not just about how we dress but also about how we speak and carry ourselves. True modesty reflects a heart posture that seeks to honor God in every aspect of our lives.

[@ab-gail]

Praise God! Keep going, sis! 💖

[@user-sc2ei5dy6b]

I asked my fiancee why are ratchet females looked at more than the wife time. He said men are visual and treat women like TV shows. The ratchet ones are viewed as entertainment. Like reality shows they are interesting to look that, fun to watch for a while, but not long term. After while we're gonna change the channel to something with more substance. I kind of understood what he was staying, but why even watch the reality program in the first place lol like why give it attention period?

[@cutiepiea3687]

Men love whores

[@cutiepiea3687]

And watch your fiancé cos he probably cheating no shade these Men are sick

[@redpepper5984]

1:03 I agree with what you said but lets not forget that such understanding comes from upbringing and social circle. Girls are often traumatised seeking love and validation because they are not loved enough in their childhood or lack an appropriate father figure. I was somebody like that until i got into therapy. Now my husband is telling me that he is lucky to have me everyday, because i am a whole different woman. But yes, i do get less attention than earlier and its okay. Just so you know, I want you to understand that it happens and people are not guilty for it, and they can be fixed. Such approach is important in order to love people more and understand them more ❤

[@lenajanssens7859]

True!

[@ab-gail]

True! Though people are responsible for what they do even if they didn’t know better at the time. It’s always good to remember we can change. Much love to you and your family!

[@techiebliss]

At this point in my life after what I’ve seen and experienced…. PLEASE overlook me and let me be in peace ❤

[@crc5430]

Something I have noticed from some modest women however is that they dress like senior citizens and you can dress modestly AND be stylish. I have a cousin who has always dressed modestly but she always looks good because she has a good sense of style and she most definitely isn't overlooked by men. I have another cousin who dresses like a senior citizen and at 30 years old has never even been on a date. So ladies it's okay to dress modestly but figure what colors suit you best and buy nicer, better fitting clothes if you want to attract a husband. You want your future husband to desire you and wake up everyday thanking God that he chose You, not wondering if he could have done better.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

Definitely understand but often modest and matronly are hard to separate… I try to find a mix between Megan Markle and Traci Ellis Ross (especially how her character Joan dressed on the show Girlfriends). I have always loved fashion and even have a minor in Merchandising so I know how to cover up but still look modern and stylish

[@ab-gail]

Good point!

[@Khwaab]

Senior citizens are often the most well-dressed☺. We have to ask ourselves what programming media/fashion/movies has done on us to deem certain styles as "senior citizen style". Perhaps the world has been so s£xualised that "modesty" is also demanded to be low-key s£xy, i.e "covered but completely visible curves as if the clothes were sewn on"? In my country, if you cover your head, you´re called "grandma" or "servant", because the elite no longer dresses modestly and only poor people cover. In the olden times, it used to be the opposite, as only the affluent could afford fabric. So you see a bunch of elderly women showing their tummies and backs, while the poor look really decent with layered clothing. So it´s very much about perception and fashion brainwashing.

[@crc5430]

@Khwaab Could be but we are in the 21st century and fashion does change and has always changed throughout history. However, I've seen many women pray all day for a husband and grow old without one and as an outsider I've always noticed that they simply wouldn't keep themselves well put together. Groomed hair and nails, well fitted clothes, good skin care, maintain a good diet and workout routine, these things go a long way, you don't have to show skin nor wear tightly fitted clothes. I've also noticed that a lot of "Christian" women don't exercise nor have a balanced diet and they seem to forget that gluttony is a sin and our bodies are a temple, therefore we should take care of it. The church tends to focus too much on the fashion that people wear, when they should focus on healthy living as it significantly affects their members, most "Christians" are overweight and that's a problem.

[@imtruetome]

Modesty purity, and privacy should be more of the norm . As you send the video, everybody wants this cheap quick and fast attention rather than really building, wholesome and fulfilling relationship that has marriage as an outcome.

[@Raven.Tulips]

I deeply value discussions on modesty, and your perspective on the topic was incredibly thoughtful and grounded in Scripture. It was an absolute blessing to hear this. Instant subscribe! Also, your personal testimony was very profound. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your journey with us. When the video your message is related about was first posted, I shared the following comment on their page: Modesty in terms of biblical and traditional values is holds dear to me. Modesty fosters respect not only for ourselves but for others as well. It embodies honor, refinement, and grace in how we dress and behave. When we are modest in our dress, speech, and actions, we focus on honoring God rather than seeking approval from others. Modesty is a heart posture. 🌷 Women who exemplify modesty are not interested in men who play games. They can see through those men and prefer to avoid them because they understand that such men are driven by lust and superficial desires. It’s a good thing not to be pursued by such men, as they are not suitable for a modest and respectable lady.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@Raven.Tulips please tell me you create content of your own because this message was incredible!🙌🏾😮🙌🏾 wow! You have a gift with your words and they need to be heard! I deeply appreciate your encouragement and kindness as well as your wisdom… You are blessed family 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@Raven.Tulips]

@ Oh! I’m far too shy for that, but I truly appreciate your kind words. I’ve always had a love for reading and writing ever since I was young. Reading the Bible has been such a blessing in many ways, including helping me expand my vocabulary. It’s filled with so much meaning and depth. I look forward to hearing your video about Margaret Sanger and Planned Parenthood. Learning from Lila Rose and Live Action has truly opened my eyes to the terrifying realities of that organization and what it represents. I thank God for His wisdom and clarity on this issue and pray more people see it too. 🙏🏾

[@vam9785]

the ones who show the most skin are the most insecure and competitive kind of women. Women already get a lot of attention especially if she is pretty, those who are provocative are either doing S-work or are narcs or both. Something not right there. Oh and I wanna say, what a blessing for you to be able to you use your own music in your videos. That's such a flex!

[@angelinacamacho8575]

faux confidence runs rampant in society. so much so that when an actual confident person shows up is when their insecurity starts to show.

[@tovlonia1594]

I agree apart from the narc bit. I think that’s another thing that is rampant in today’s society, everyone uses that word so loosely now, how can anyone take it seriously?

[@jayfranco2383]

It can depend on the person in general, they're can be wemon who's wearing skin show clothes and might be doing so out of insecurities or attention but some might wear it simply since it's fashionable Maybe like wearing too revealing while the other just a few skin 🤷

[@overcomerbtboj]

They’re insecure with daddy issues- and no married or taken woman in a relationship should be showing cleavage or dressing immodestly- she does it because attention from only her man is not enough

[@forestspritestephanie]

The guy at 4:45 is not right. Many men, at 87 percent, get with the modest one, keep her home while playing the game.

[@cocohitchman3209]

Like the KZbinr Derrick jaxn

[@okaycola2]

Yep

[@BM-tx2ph]

Most women are not modest

[@forestspritestephanie]

@@BM-tx2ph , Yeah they are. Watching newyork live streams, the majority of the day, people are clothed.

[@saffy771]

There's a really cute romance anime called "Kimi ni Todoke" and the male lead (Kazehaya) is like my "ideal" image of the kind of guy I'm looking for. Sweet, wholesome yet also not boring and someone who knows what he wants and doesn't care about being popular for the sake of giving up his beliefs. He's crushing on a girl (Sawako, the protagonist) who's basically the kind of girl/woman you're talking about in this video as well. Wholesome, sweet and kindhearted. Also kinda oblivious and awkward because she's not used to a lot of social interactions because she's been bullied as a kid, so now as a teen, she's learning to make friends. When I was talking to another girl who's also into anime about how I love this anime, she said "Oh I started it but I stopped watching because the guy is just too sweet and boring, I need some toxicity in men." And I was just like what Kazehaya isn't boring though. He's exactly the kind of guy who would be perfect for a harmonious relationship. But I guess some people are actually bored if you're not toxic. I'm also a lot like Sawako tbh and even though I really can't complain about my looks, get a lot of compliments and also put effort in the way I dress and take care of myself, I just moreso fit the cute girl trope rather than the hot girl trope, so I might also get overlooked by guys who are not looking for anything serious. I think it's my vibe and my face, I very much have a lot of neotonous features that make me very friendly and innocent looking. Additionally I have a higher pitched voice lol. But I gotta say, it's a blessing, I feel like going down the cute girl route can save you from a lot of troubles because most of the time, the f-boys will stay away from you in the first place. Some still try of course, but it's much less often. Usually, the kinds of guys who approach me tend to be the ones who are in a time in their lives where they're looking for something serious.

[@MutedMinimalist]

100%.

[@Raven.Tulips]

@@saffy771 I no longer watch much anime anymore but I love From Me To You-it’s so sweet, wholesome, and heartwarming, the kind that really lifts your spirits 🥹🌸 When I was younger, I was someone who was often overlooked, mostly because I was painfully shy and quiet. My social anxiety held me back, and I let it dictate so much of my life in my youth. But during my last missionary summer trip to Japan at 19, I started to step out of my comfort zone little by little. While I can still be shy at times, I’ve learned to challenge myself to speak up and start conversations. I’ve experienced amazing and inspiring conversations! I’ve also worked on not avoiding the world-I no longer look down or try to sink into the background. I enjoy dressing modestly but still wearing simple, cute outfits that reflect my personality. I tend to get approached quite a bit, which my husband says is because of my approachable face and appearance. At 36, it’s still something I’m not entirely used to. Receiving genuine, kind compliments is always humbling, and while it warms my heart, it still surprises me. With all that said, modesty begins in the heart and is reflected in how we speak, act, and carry ourselves. Dressing modestly is a beautiful expression, but what matters most is the condition of the heart. I really loved your comment because I can relate to what you shared. You seem so sweet, and I pray you find a man who is truly deserving of you! 🙏🏾🤍

[@ab-gail]

Oh I’ve heard of that one! Have to check it out! The women who desire toxic men are the equivalent of the guys who want the ratchet chicks. Awful mindset.

[@Sheissodelicious]

When I dress modestly I'm referred to as a grandma 😢.. Going back to my true self done with revealing clothes j don't care about my family or anyone elses opinion

[@narrowjourneyz8665]

Same!I guess we shall be granny’s glorifying God!😂🙏🏽

[@okaycola2]

They are complimenting you. Being a grandmother is an honor denied to many

[@haylesm]

Ty your words are powerful & reflective of what I've been seeing in our world & feeling for a long-time. I often feel like I was born in the wrong era. It's reassuring to know there are people out there who get it. You articulated this really well I got alot from this video. 💫 🙏

[@RoseH-UK]

I'm so glad to have found your channel. So refreshing to see "normal views" being shared. I feel like all i see is fake feminism

[@jd6331]

It's true, women already get attention without even trying. These women don't need to try so hard and leave nothing to the imagination.... It often displays as confidence, but really it's a woman seeking validation and approval from others. **Women** you're all naturally beautiful in your own way 🩷 -- work with that, but save yourself for a good man that really matters. Let *him* see all sides of you, you don't need to show it to the whole world. I think women don't realize, we have more power than we know.

[@SheSooWaavvyy]

The 1:00 min made me pause, subscribe and listen because this is my life 100%! I’d rather be modest and looked over anyway! If they don’t see me then they never will really see ME and I’m fine with that!💯

[@aquariuswaive]

@@SheSooWaavvyy thank you very much for tuning in and for the sub🙏🏾🙌🏾😌 I love to hear that yall are out here! A self respecting woman is a treasure and I’m so thankful for mine!

[@SheSooWaavvyy]

@@aquariuswaive thanks for the great content! I'm looking forward to more of it! God bless you and yours!🙏🏾💜

[@peacemaker90]

Im a good woman. I get over looked for no reason smh

[@aquariuswaive]

@@peacemaker90 you can never miss what is truly for you…the attention of most people is overrated and does nothing but gratify the ego. All that matters is the attention of the one you decide to build with

[@BM-tx2ph]

Have you tried putting more effort into your looks? Not to sound mean but looks are important

[@joycewatt8289]

14:02 Yesssss The Bible uses the word “prudence” a lot especially in the book 📖 of Proverbs.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@joycewatt8289 it’s such a powerful and encompassing word that’s unfortunately been turned into some sort of “oppressive” idea…

[@a.d.b535]

Refreshing message. Thanks for posting.

[@joycewatt8289]

8:06 As a woman THANK YOU! 🙏🏽 This is what’s needed coming from MEN…the TRUTH! Ladies PLEASE LISTEN

[@KhassiaK]

PREACH!!! Modesty = Self-respect = Humility. It goes beyond how we dress, too. It's a mindset and a lifestyle. Thank you for this message. I pray both men and women hear it. So glad you escaped the Red Pill Movement. It has caused so much destruction in society along with all other movements that solicit this type of mindset and behavior. We need more voices like yours shouting from the rooftops for people to develop more healthy forms of self-love and self-respect.

[@joane24]

Every human person deserves respect as every human person has intrinsic dignity. Some men like to excuse badly treating women they deem as loose. But _every_ woman deserves good treatment, even if she's failing. Womanhood and motherhood are sacred in their life-giving and nurturing capacity, and even if a woman is individually failing at that, she still has her dignity as a woman. I do a lot of ministry with people from the margins of a society: homeless, often also alcoholics (these are overwhelmingly men, it's easier for men to survive on the streets than for women, but it's still very hard for them, very difficult life), and one of the first things they need is not pocket money (there's plenty of social support) but to build them up emotionally, to remind them they do have the dignity and are worthy and their lives matter - very often they're so broken they don't realize that, they feel defeated. I also do ministry to s'x workers. Similar story. They are so broken and defeated by life. But God loves them too and wants them to be healed.

[@larrylama1471]

She is the female version of the "Nice guy" and I hope she stays that way because, all these other "bad girls" that you think are cool are in very toxic dysfunctional relationships. They are suffering. Besides, I think a truly nice guy will do very well with a truly nice Modest woman. Stay as yourselves people, don't change to get some sex.

[@1991-present]

No woman wants a nice guy, they want a kind man. There is a difference

[@aksoA67]

I like parts of this analysis. I am Muslim woman and in my religion modesty is valued. It’s actually practiced, all thanks and praise to God, alhamdulilah. Before I came into Islam I used to dress immodestly and the difference in the way people and myself treat me is something I’m so grateful. God honored woman with the commandment of modesty. In Islam women are honored that’s why we are covered. When you value something you cover and protect it. Our men also tend to have gheerah or jealousy in English. Like you mentioned it’s innate in men and this society is trying to drain the gheerah out of men these days. I invite you all to worship the one creator, the creator of Jesus, Joseph, Jacob, Mohammed, Abraham, Moses (peace be upon them all) and everything and everyone else. Do not associate partners or take multiple gods, we have one God, one Creator that we should all submit to,. The one God that all prophets called to. I invite you to read the holy Quran a book that has never been changed, the final revelation for all of mankind. 💞

[@Khwaab]

Alhamdulillah. But the concept of "hayaa" (modesty) is also MUCH wider than what the English language can describe. First of all, modesty isn´t just for women, in Islam. Both genders are to be modest in language, in behaviour, in the GAZE, the thoughts and finally the clothes. It´s a wide concept in Islam. There are sadly a lot of Muslim cultures that put ALL the emphasis and the expectation of modestly only on women. This is imbalance. Even in the Quraan, before God mentioned the covering of the beautiful female body, He mentions the MALE GAZE and ORDERS the believing men to guard and lower their gaze. There is DEEP wisdom in that, but like most people...Muslims put the "weight" on women, because girls are easier to force and pressure. I hail from a country where even women in burqas get harassed, oogled etc. Why? They "forgot" to teach the sons...and only put the pressure on the girls. They deem men/boys to be "Will fail to be strong anyway". That is not Islam, but it is very much culture. Patriarchal cultures that have given up so badly on men, that they simply don´t even expect them or regard them as strong and noble enough to be able to control themselves. I say that often...that letting men "off the hook" essentially means that we think that they are so weak, that they cannot follow God´s command. Men seem to think that they´re being benefitted, and will propagate to keep it the way that only women are pressured, but...they seem to be unaware that noble men would not think this way. A noble man would guard anything that he thinks and knows will lead his soul to destruction. And he would be offended at the thought that society does not even expect him to pass the tests. I often wonder why men don´t discuss this angle? Perhaps that hasn´t occurred to them, that it is a sign of society underestimating men, yet expecting women to hold up religion all alone.

[@aksoA67]

@ Asalamalakum! That’s so interesting! I never thought about it from the angle of society not expecting men to pass the test and men’s attitudes towards that. Thank you for sharing!!

[@lorrainestewart4835]

Jesus is king ! we dont want child brides in the west!

[@edcistudent1]

Just talked about this this morning

[@aquariuswaive]

@@edcistudent1 that’s no coincidence!

[@nissa4644]

"A male fornicator would only marry a female fornicator or idolatress. And a female fornicator would only be married to a fornicator or idolater. This is all forbidden to the believers." 24:3. We only get overlooked by those whose lifestyles do not interest us.Like diamonds scattered among stones, souls of true character grace but few corners of this world. When such individuals find each other, they recognize their mutual worth, understanding how uncommon such connections are.

[@ChrisKooltv]

Isaiah 5:20 NIV [20] Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.

[@akilahbrooklyn8236]

The men in the "Manosphere" need to see this video. The major dilemma of the "so-called" Nice Guy.... "Why can't I just find a nice girl?" Its relatively simple.... These "nice guys" like to "Simp" for trashy garden tools that they can spend money on. Modest women are overlooked all the time.

[@KDan-x1l]

These manosphere and redpill dudes want the women they talk bad about. They just mad they don’t have easy free acccess to said women

[@121sh1213]

Golden!! Thank you

[@PJ-gi1vw]

Thank you for this video

[@spry6450]

Love this message. Sorry if this sounds weird but you’ll be a great father, if you ever become one!

[@juliie007]

The problem with western culture is objectification of women among indigenous people living in isolated regions like in the Amazon & Africa wearing minimal clothing as part of their traditional attire isn’t an issue coz they see nothing sexualized about it.

[@veronicahaney6005]

yeah but modesty isnt just bc of societal and cultural standards. we dress modestly because we are called to according to the God of Abraham. If you look at African countries dominated by Abrahamic religions, the schools are filled for example with girls who dont wear skirts shorter than their knees. At the churches its the same - it may be form flattering but still the same

[@juliie007]

The ethnic groups that converted to Christianity & Islam they’re influenced by their religion. However, for those who still adhere to cultural norms they continue to dress in their traditional styles.

[@jazzrock6830]

This is so true

[@suebotchie4167]

Thank you sir.

[@t.l.5755]

Thank you brother.

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

True. I like those ideas. It is right

[@pursequeen6148]

"We're glorifying the profane--" DANG!!!Wonderful video/Great young man❤

[@joycewatt8289]

5:55 So true! God will REMOVE folks from your life. Those He deems not useful to your destiny or destination He has for you.

[@Zeebo216]

4:44 And these are the same men that complain about the noise…but stroll right to it when opportunity presents itself…

[@GoddessDivine888]

Salute king 🙏🏽🤍

[@3334me]

A real man would see through the skin deep and. it simply wouldn’t be good enough for him to be a skimpy dressed loose woman. Wouldn’t even be attractive to a real one. He will be too smart for that ladies. Look for that man. They’re rare but they’re the ones. The ones that deserve to lead. Deserve your support and love. They will give you back the same. If you don’t find that don’t settle!

[@aquariuswaive]

@@3334me you are preaching right here fam🙌🏾😮‍💨 I approve of this message! A true MAN is one who recognizes the intrinsic value of a woman, values her for her character, her integrity, her mind, who heart, not the illusion…

[@jayvander7156]

A woman can be modest of spirit and generous in portion, or have a high sexual shameless energy, or like to dance, or like to flirt or seduce (within a relationship too). Also adults who would responsibly guide children do exercise, know healthy cooking or nutrition or healthy living etc which correlates to healthy looking bodies, and cleanliness, etc, and experimentation with grooming etc... Also lightheartedness is pleasant if the man is expected to lift the bulk of weights, more so than grunts of sympathy

[@AnthonyStewart-so1es]

Love it❤❤❤❤

[@Riseundertheheat]

The song is fireeee

[@KDan-x1l]

I was told I am boring and not a baddie because I dressed very modest. Many say I dressed like a mom. Luckily I married😂❤

[@aquariuswaive]

@@KDan-x1l that’s the highest compliment you can receive! It means you’re about something🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 blessings to you and yours

[@Areutherehello]

If the way I dress contributes to my being overlooked by men, I'm not surprised. I keep it pretty conservative, not a lot of skin, lots of neutral basics. Layered tops and sweaters. I have yet to be pursued by a man that appreciates my modesty.

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

I will save for later

[@aquariuswaive]

@@nadiaconseillant8616 🙏🏾😌🙏🏾

[@baloobie]

Islam always had the solution 🌸 im a muslim, but the way ppl had a modest life in history didn't just live like animals..(As animals aren't clothed, modernisation should come with modesty, and that is just the nature of a human )

[@aquariuswaive]

@@baloobie 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@baloobie]

@aquariuswaive also what you mentioned about the "not letting ur daughters, wives, sister dress immodest. That has a name, its called protective jealousy and its a very important part of a man's nature that the society now has changed to insecurity..

[@Khwaab]

@@baloobie Gheera is also for himself. Not just for the family women. The imbalance in Muslim cultures today is that nearly ALL men have obsessive gheera for the women of the family, but FAIL to hold themselves to even 50% of that standard. If a man truly wants to be a leader....he would first apply the rules to himself, model them to the entire family and not be a munaafiq/hypocrite by ignoring all the rules that he expects the family women to adhere to. Where I come from, some men even kill their sisters/daughters for falling in love the halaal way (the man she loves not even aware), but then go out and do ANYTHING. They call that sickness "gheera", but it is far from Islam. Creating a ruckus because the sister shook hands with a cousin, while the guy has done Zinaa is just....🤯😮. That is not the way of a truly God-fearing and God-aware man, but the standard in many many cultures. It´s just like all these Red Pill men who have played the field (several fields!), yet demand to marry a virgin from a village. No self-aware man would do that, but he´d rather look to marry a woman who may also have committed Zinaa but done tawbah (as the virgin actually deserves an equally clean man who has kept himself pure for the sake of Allah). Demanding purity when one has knowingly lived a wrong life is Shaytaanic ways...not the Islamic concept of gheera. Just saying. LOTS of oppression is happening in Muslim families, where only the women are expected to follow and uphold the religion. When it comes to lust and straying....it´s like so many men don´t even want to discuss it, because they claim it is their "nature". Yet Allah swt never said that He created men to stray and to not hold themselves accountable. If that was the case, God would´ve made it halaal for men to do absolutely anything. He wouldn´t order them to lower their gaze, because He´d say "Oh, I´ve just created you guys to definitely stray". The Islamic rules of modesty, shame and accountability apply to both the genders.

[@christlove2045]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@aquariuswaive]

@@christlove2045 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@lynfoster7870]

Our heavenly Father we know that Satan has done a great job but your word exposed him so that we would never be deceived help us to have boldness when we come before thee because of what the blood of Jesus done for us by your grace help us to join the great worshipers like Job and Abraham we pray in Jesus name amen

[@ExoticalT369]

♥️👏

[@Lori_g70]

🤔🤣

[@ThePinkPantha21]

This is an American problem, only. Travel more, you guys.

[@aquariuswaive]

@@ThePinkPantha21 facts!!! My girl is from Europe and she’s wore different, a classy, sophisticated woman🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

I choose to be sexy and immodest i am a goddess woman my choice

[@aquariuswaive]

@@cheetavontiebolt9971 👍

[@cheetavontiebolt9971]

@aquariuswaive thanks

[@swordsnorchids1997]

Modest fashion styles are just boring to me but that's just my opinion. To each their own preference..

[@aquariuswaive]

@@swordsnorchids1997 I believe modest to be more than attire, it’s a mentality and a way of life

[@jd6331]

Women can still dress sexy and classy, not showing everything. There's a time and place for that, it's just not everywhere and everyday.

[@BM-tx2ph]

Yes, they do look simple, plain, boring, even grandma-ish in simple selections...but thats why you must be creative& learn how to pick the pieces that will make a boring outfit stand out. Theres hundreds of designs out there and pieces that are colorful, fun, and interesting

[@Ms.pee12]

As a woman that tries my best to be modest in this world its nice to hear that there are men that try think about this stuff. It’s so frustrating hearing men talk about how they can’t find a good modest woman and most men overlook or dog out modest woman. I’ve been through it and those same guys will complain about “hoes” but we’ll try to keep you at home while getting there cake. It so hurtful. Cause they try really hard not to let you go but also just to hurt you just as much.

[@Key-Key444]

They want a modest hoe.

[@Key-Key444]

They want a modest hoe.

[@Llilac2481]

Those are not men. They're grown BOYS.

[@angelinacamacho8575]

they dont like modest women because modest women are more work in their eyes. they complain about hoes because they dont have a high enough skill set for a real woman.

[@EmperorOfTheDamned]

She gets male treatment.

[@EmperorOfTheDamned]

Also, there aren't very many modest women in the world.

[@KDan-x1l]

@@EmperorOfTheDamnedthey are. They just get ignored for the entitled ones. Hence the point of this video

[@silverasmr7306]

Thank you so much for this video. 🥹☁️🙏🏽 God bless you brother! Many many people who come across this video and take the time out and LISTEN to change are wise! So we appreciate you! And the guy with the clip was so gentle with her ! “Keep being modest sweetheart “ ♥️🥹